/fa/ - Fashion

>>8892514

www.volgagirl.com/

>>8892514
you can cop a gf at:
>urban gf-fitters
>gf republic
>club gf

or if you want a really avant-garde gf who is a virgin you cop on from:
>gf christian poell
>gf owens
>boris gf gferi

>tfw 20,000km away is the answer
>tfw it could've fucking happened if her family hadn't made her move

>>8892514
fuck off /r9k/

>>8892551
What about GF&M?
I'm a poorfag

you can't, a gf cops you m8

>>8892568
>wanting a chinese gf that will breakdown after a few months
toppest of plebs

>>8892578
Sorry my dad can't buy me something more expensive you gf owens fag

>>8892577
russia

>>8892514
just talk to girls man
all of you fags complain about not having a gf yet you talk to like 3 irl

>>8892597
>tfw i actually hate women and i don't want to talk to them
>tfw just want sex

>>8892597
>you talk to like 3 irl

>>8892604
>tfw when I'm the opposite
>sex isn't that big of a deal to me. Just want qt to cuddle with

>>8892514

Go to school man. College specifically.


Within the first 2 weeks this semester I got a couple girls DTF. It's so easy man you'd have to be autistic to not get laid/a gf.

also since you're on /fa/ you probably dress better than 99% of the entire school cause them kids are fuckin' CLUELESS

>>8892609
hey bby whats up u got pretty eyes

>>8892514
why dont you take your stylezeitgest Christian.
cosplay with shit you bought off y!jp

and go hang out with the other weabs who's thighs touch when they stand

that obsess over jap crap on /cgl/ in that other thread

>>8892620
oh gosh :3

>have designer gf that discusses about clothes with you
>teach her how to give you a hitler youth and she gets it perfectly the first time she tries

>>8892657
>designer gf

What house made her? Is she Gucci?

Girls aren't worth the effort.

>tfw tumblrcore friend
>friend

>>8892657
>designer Gf

>>8892662
creative director of gucci is

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frida_Giannini

faggot

>>8892669

>>8892674
I'm asking if she was hand made in Italy by Romanians. Stop having autism and get the joke.

>>8892662
>>8892673

I don't know what you don't get. she's a fashion designer.

You better not be trying to force a new meme or some shit.

However, on the topic of >tfwnogf:
http://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/14804920/

>>8892609
>sex isn't a big deal to me
I'm going to rant about this for a minute.

If you've had it, of course you can say that "it's no big deal". It's a validation, an affirmation of one's worth, on so many levels. You're already "in the clear".

And I know that what they say is bullshit because even after having had sex, they continue to live their lives as if they are motivated by it.

I remember when I was a kid, right after my first talk about "the birds and the bees", I remember thinking "Holy shit. How do people function with this knowledge? How can people go about their lives and act so normally without constantly being driven by the thought of sex?"

As I've gotten older, I've begun to think that the reply is simply in the negative: they don't. Perhaps Freud was right: at our cores, we are all just motivated by sex.

It's incredibly frustrating to think about. Obviously, I want sex too. But I do not wish to be motivated by it, to merely do things in order to obtain it, nor do I think it should be "served on a silver platter". But I do not wish to be controlled by it. I wish to be free.

>>8892618
But I am autistic, what do I do?

>>8892748
I mean I realize that everyone is motivated by sex. What I meant when I said it wasn't a big deal was that I'd like to build up to it. Sex without intimacy or passion is meaningless to me. That's why I'm not about casual sex. It just feels empty and insincere. That just ain't me man. That's why I'd just like someone to cuddle with. So I can build up an actual relationship and connection with someone. That's the best kind of sex, in my opinion.

>>8892869
Fuck. I mean sex within a relationship/with a connection is the best. You know what I meant. Whatever.

>>8892839

Then you're autistic and you gotta learn slowly on how to interact with girls in a charismatic way and not a way that makes you come off as creepy/whimpish.

>tfw no friends
>tfw just became neet after I finished my job
>tfw I don't know how to meet new people
>tfw feel like moving away somewhere but I'm not sure if I want to or not

>>8892869
>>8892876
I hear you, friend. But what "counts" as casual sex? With how many people can one person have sex before he or she has nothing left to give? How many can one love? This is what I fear.

>>8892914
I mean I see fratty assholes in bars pull vapid, empty girls so they can go fuck and then never talk to each other again. Shit like fuckbuddies. Booty calls. That shit. The only connection is the dick with the pussy. There's no shared interests or connections, not that either party would even try to look into. That's what I don't get.

>before he or she has nothing left to give?
I mean if it's just casual sex then it's like a business transaction, and if it's part of an actual relationship then I don't see it as giving anything. As super saccharine and cheesy as it sounds I look at it like sharing each other. There's no transaction, just another level of intimacy.

That being said I've been fucked over a whole bunch of times so at a certain point it's hard to trust someone enough to where you can get to that level of intimacy, so that might also be an answer to your question.

sorry if I sound like a huge pussy.

>177 cm
>not /fit/
>not /fa/
>still got a gf

And to think I get advice from this site.

>>8892928
No, don't apologize, friend; you're just calling it as you see it. Thank you for your perspective.

>>8893013
It's no problem I guess. What are your thought then?

>>8893027
thoughts*

>>8892882
Unless you're in a shitty city or middle of nowhere, I wouldn't recommend moving just for the sake of moving.

Wherever you go, there you are.

>>8893027
I don't even know anymore. I've been too naive. Or maybe I just thought the world a better place. I need to go to bed. Goodnight, anon.

>>8893056
night, bro. Feel better.

>>8892998
are you 17-18?

>>8893073
Yeah, 17-18 depending on where I measure from

>>8892928
>>8892869
I know these feels all too well. I don't care too much about sex either even though I'm still virgin (not kissless though).

>tfw think about cuddling a cute girl every single night before I fall asleep and feel a little warmer inside

>>8893087
ebin meme brah

>>8893095
Know dat intense loneliness.
Hang in there, dog. It gets better.

>>8893095
Sex used to be a big thing to me back when I had my first gf. That's because I thought I connected with her really well. I was way too naive. I guess I still am. Each subsequent girl after that, it became harder and harder to trust people, and therefore harder to connect and become intimate with. Sex would be a bigger deal to me if I could connect, but I dunno. I can't anymore.

Shit sucks man.

>>8893103
That isn't even a meme

>>8893104
BUT HOW
HOW DOES IT GET BETTER

when..

>>8893162
Well are you doing anything about it? Y'know, going out and meeting people man? This stuff doesn't fall into your lap too often. You gotta help yourself bro.

>>8893073
I was 18 when I got the gf.

The only /fa people in my city are Uni students, I've just turned 18 like y would they speak to me.,

I'm terrible at approaching people, it's annoying because I'm quite sociable, well dressed, tall, but I will get terrible anxiety if I have a spot or there's lint over my trousers. I end up never speaking to new people unless it's over the internet. Take yesterday for example:

>Getting lunch
>Place was crowded as hell
>Sat next to a qt Asian girl
>Moved her bags and everything, slyly wanted me to sit next to her but I didn't
>Looked at me a few times
>Didn't say anything
>Wallowed into my food for the whole time

Can somebody PLEASE just tell me I need to stop being such a fucking autist

>>8893182
Go to parties and practice? You say new people, so I'm assuming you have some friends? Take em to a party. Alcohol is a great social lubricant. Makes it super easy to talk to people. Bring a deck of cards or play beer pong or something. Anything to get you talking to people.

You just need some confidence and practice, brother.

>>8892618
>starting school again this year
>some qts already talking to me and showing interest
>i'm autistic tho

am i gonna make it?

>be tfw no gf loser
>self improve
>spring time comes and i bloom like the cherry blossom
>grills like me, flirt with me, want me
>now terrified of any relationship, commitment, etc
>actually have strong options now but still too afraid of the unknown to do anything
>it wont work out like my animes

>>8893167
no I dont
everyday I just think about how I will go out and do shit
and maybe meet friends or gf
usually as the sun goes down
then in the day I lose that motivation again
I dont know what's up with me, it's like I transform to more and more social and chill guy the darker and later it gets. I also have a fucked up schedule, I am awake through late evening and night and morning, and sleep during the day, but I feel more confident at night even when I have normal schedule.
damn my life is sad
It's also a vicious circle of thinking about suicide, then realizing that if I'm gonna commit suicide I might as well enjoy last hours/days of my life and go ham, spend my money, approach women and just do shit I like without thinking what others will think of me, because I'm fucking killing myself anyways. and then I dont do that, and I dont commit suicide, and I keep living this shitty life of shit

>>8893182
God damn, I cringed. I'm not even that good with people either but I would have said someone right there if I was in your place.

Fuck man. I always sit alone in a lonely corner whenever I eat in uni.

>>8893196
>>now terrified of any relationship, commitment, etc
>>actually have strong options now but still too afraid of the unknown to do anything

god damn do i know that feel.
i've actually gotten alright at talking with girls now but i can never take the next step

>>8893199
I'm ALWAYS by myself in uni too. 0 friends, nobody calls me anywhere, I'm international student too, and my nationality is not represented at all, I'm not Chinese or Indian or Korean, and I cant hangout with my *own* people talking native language and shit. Basically I'm a stranger and foreigner in any group and that sucks. I also take myself so seriously and cant relax or have fun, I almost feel the fucking fedora growing out of my head sometimes it's terrifying and disgusting, but what's even more terrifying is that I am posting how I have no life, friends or gf on a japanese cartoon imageboard about fashion.

>>8893174
so?
you're still a fucking faggot
matter of fact, all of you are autistic af
thread hidden

>>8893198
Well shit dude. You got any hobbies? Are you doing anything that would help/hinder your anxiety or depression like drugs? Any friends to confide in or vent to? There's gotta be something you either are or are not doing that makes you like this.

Try going to a bar. Friends or not it doesn't matter. You just gotta find a way to be confident. Find something that reminds you that you matter because you fucking do. I've tried the suicide route and it doesn't work. Neither do shrinks, to be honest. At least not for me. The only person that can help you is you, friend.

>these are the people you take fashion advise from

>>8893190
Thank you, anon. I have quite a good social life, just meeting females is.. Is well, difficult. Especially with the type of people I go for / find attractive.

>>8893199
I cringed at myself too. I finished high school little over a year ago so I still have that autistic opinion that they will think I'm a weird cunt if I try to make conversation. Next time I will remember this thread.

>>8893216
Just think of conversations with girls (or anyone, really) as a game. Don't over-think shit and stop caring what people might think of you. Go into a conversation with a goal. Like, "I'm gonna make this girl laugh," or "I'm gonna [something]." Whatever. You got the goal in mind, so fill in the rest. Think of it like improv comedy or something

remember not reply to these threads or else it will attract more /r9k/ attention and soon this board will become like wizard chan

sage & report

>>8893205
what nationality

>>8892618

>study applied computer science
>like 6 grills out of 140 people
>all of them are ugly

atleast i will have a statistics class with some qt finance grills

Try watching some of the inspirational Allen Watts speeches on youtube. There's a ton of them. They'll make you feel better and bring some clarity to your thoughts.

>>8893229
a relatively unknown non-east asian.

tinychatDOTcomSLASHeffay

if this fat fuck got a gf so can you

>>8893251

>>8893215

>>8893251
stfu curlgurl

>>8893251
wasn't that a hooker?

>>8893251
lel

>>8893251
LMFAO

>>8893251
AHHAHAHHA

>>8893233
>high school crush does compsci/crim
>i do phys/compsci
>she has bf
o-oh

>>8892514

>Chilling with new friend that's a girl that i met in college
>Not interested in her but she's a pretty asian that has a cute face
>Talking to her about past relationships
>Asks me if i ever had a gf
>no.jpg
>"aww why not? you dress so well i thought you'd have a girlfriend!"

Feels good getting complimented about the effort i put into my fits. But the only thing hindering me from meeting girls is that i'm a huge pussy and i don't know how to approach them. It's my first year in college and i barely made any friends, any advice? Thanks

>>8893341
this

how do you actually make friends

don't say "just go outside and talk to people" you know damn well thats bullshit

pro tip:
dont waste money in clubs etc, wont find gf material up in that. waste money on hobbies, and find either like forums connected to that hobby or really anything social regarding it. best way to meet cool people.

also walk up to strangers and start talking to them. dont be a creep about it though.
actually, thinking about it, people from /fa/ shouldn't ever walk up to people. RO-clad skeletons would scare the fuck out of me, were I a chick.

>>8893390
>Implying everyone on /fa wears full Rick
>Implying people who wear full Rick even want to approach the opposite sex

Join clubs and groups for people who share your interests. Living in a big city helps.

>>8893346
if you are at college find people to learn together, this usually includes exchanging contact information and getting to know each other

>>8892514
>tfw to skinny to get a gf.

>>8892514
>tfw too skinny to get a gf

I have some kind of mental block against flirting in any way or form. Cannot even say something as innocent as "you're cute" or "you got pretty eyes" or some shit. I've been on a couple of dates (if you can call it that) with girls who clearly expressed interest in me but I just talked to them like if they were my male friends. No physical contact either, besides greeting and farewell hug. Needless to say, every time a girl was dissapointed and didn't want to go out again.
How do I deal with this shite? Seriously considered going to a psychologist.

>tfw not attracted to anyone for years
>walk into a store one day and meet a hella qt store clerk
>we talk for a while and then I leave
>realized i'm actually attracted to her

I am out of my depth. I go in every now and then but I dunno what to do. I can't ask her out, being a retail clerk is shitty enough without having random customers asking her outs on dates. I can't do anything really. Kinda sucks. Do not recommend feel.

>>8893491
beta af

ask her out idiot, to a specific and cool event. if she says she's busy, call her bluff and say 'well give me your number and we'll do something another time, plenty of cool stuff happens around here'

>>8893491
so you can't ask her out because... you don't want to inconvenience her?
confirmed for not making it.

>>8893507
Essentially. When you put it that way I see what you mean. I always just assumed there wasn't much point in asking chicks out who are working because they're just tired and trying to get through their job. I guess taking 5 seconds out of her day to say "yes" or "no" isn't really any skin off her dick.

>>8893504
I live in a small town, which is really why I've never been attracted to anyone. Nothing ever really happens here. But maybe I will I ask her out for coffee or something next time I'm in there.

Like I said, I'm out of my depth because I've never really given a shit about qts. Still, you guys are right.

>>8893512
no, you're out of your depth because you've already got it in your mind that you are someone she doesn't want anything to do with.

with your attitude you're basically rejecting yourself on her behalf. sort it out and stop anticipating defeat. she's not going to break down and cry or scream at you or call the cops if she's not interested. at the very worst you'll get an awkward rejection accompanied by a heady sense of relief. in a sense you will get more out of it if she declines your offer than if she accepts it, for, having faced rejection and survived, you will have no fear of it for the next time you're intrigued by a girl.

if you allow yourself to get excited and optimistic about the prospect of spending time with someone new, instead of pretending like you're awaiting the firing squad, you'll be able to show her a great time just by hanging out somewhere shitty and boring. don't worry about being interesting. the most appealing thing you can do for a qt is be interested in her.

sincerely,

a veteran /adv/isor

PS in case you were considering the movies for your first date, don't do it, trust me it's just a terrible idea.

>>8893544
Damn dude. Thank you. I didn't expect anyone to throw down valid advice, I was just kind of venting. You're absolutely correct on all fronts really. I think I put her out of my league when I met her, and then justified it with myself that she'd probably have a boyfriend or that I wasn't really interested. I probably do that more than I realize actually. I'll remember this post. Thank you, legitimately.

Also yeah I wasn't going to do the movies thing. Movies seems weird, you can't talk to each other so you're basically sitting next to a total stranger. Coffee seems non-offensive enough, good for conversation too.

>>8893544
whats a good first date

>>8893458
But anon, it's better to be skinny than fat nowadays.

>>8893095
Sounds to me like you have no libido, I'm assuming due to prolonged internet (especially porn) use, excessive masturbation, sedentary lifestyle, etc

>>8893458
iktf bro, lurk /fit/ for info on gains. It made me feel better anyway :)