/fa/ - Fashion

>How do people treat/act around ugly/attractive people?

Try to act like their ugliness and attractiveness have zero affect on you

People treat ugly people badly

How do you know if 386 is a high or low number?

people tend to open up to you faster (assuming you have a good personality to boot)

you must be neither, you must have noticed if you were any of those by now

>rollercoasting weight since high school

people are generally nicer to me when im not fat

Sometimes girls smile at me.
Sometimes I catch them looking at me.

Feels weird man.

wow what the fuck happened edward furlong, you got chubby and ugly

people generally find it more easier to trust you and open up to you as cosmic butt said
they are also more likely to blame external attributes for your shortcomings, e.g.,
>oh no, anon is a great guy. that was just one time that he cheated, he was just having a bad week

contrasted if you were ugly;
>anon is a piece of shit, he should feel lucky to have gotten her in the first place, why would a guy like HIM cheat on her

No one is universally attractive. Some people are just attractive to a broader spectrum of people.

>>7905775
Have you thought that maybe when you're unhappy about your weight you project your negative feelings onto others and read it accordingly?

>>7905987
>this delusion

>>7906020

i'm sure there are people on earth that don't find francisco attractive

>>7906020
lol

>>7906028
well, he's utterly featureless

>lost weight
>start getting more /fit/ and /fa/
>notice how girls start looking at me and talk to at social gatherings
>always thought of myself as an ugly motherfucker but has been gaining more and more confidence lately
>check /fa/ the other day
>all those model-tier people everywhere
>realize that I'll never look this good and probably am ugly still
>all confidence is lost, don't want to go out and talk to people anymore

Thanks again, /fa/

>>7905987
i would say this is pretty true. same for reverse, if you think you are fairly ugly, there are still women that will find you 8/10+

>talking to girl at work yesterday
>we're facebook stalking a new girl we haven't met yet
>me: "i hope it's that one", pointing to the hotter one in a picture
>her: "me too"
>me: "why does it matter to you?"
>her: "i only like working with 7/10+"
>me: "so who don't you like working with"
>she doesn't mention me

not the best example, but very relevant.

>>7906085
is the girl hot?

>>7905823
alcoholism

>>7906085
of course she isn't going to say you're ugly to your face.

jesus

>>7906085
>>7906085
she wouldn't mention you because she is talking to you

>>7906100
other people think so. her face reminds me of another girl i worked with who i really disliked. reminds me of another story relevant to the thread.

>girl at work quits
>i'm working the same day she planned to quit
>before she leaves she says we should be friends on fb and catch up some time
>i'm like yeah w/e she seems normal enough, she's 5/10 tops
>doesn't stop talking to me, tries to arrange date
>tell her i can't on the night
>she messages me later in the night asking if i can just take her for a drive or something
>me: "nah, i've been drinking"
>her: "that's okay, i can drive you so you can drink"

really rapey. things were worse when we actually went for drinks. i was glad i brought friends.

>>7906129
>>7906130
yeah, that's true. but i know she likes working with me.

>>7906149
What do you do (work)?

And 5/10, was she that bad dude?

You'd know if you were handsome OP. I wondered around the age of 18 but I've had so much validation now (20) that it would be stupid to have any doubt. Just shit like girls taking a sexual interest in you, platonic friends commenting on how you look good, and obviously you can tell my just looking at yourself.

Being handsome is really cool, feel sorry for you uggos.

>>7905854
Cool man here and 10/10 young white brother and sometimes I do agree with this. But at the same time it leads to awkward situations when your female coworkers make it known they are interested and you decline. That means she gets pissed, along with her friends because "he's such a dick omg" and they make things much harder.
Of course, before that happens the girls will be super nice to you thinking that will help their friend get with you.

It's bad news to get involved with a coworker, that's why I find the hottest girl and date and fuck her on the DL. Then when we work together she gets off thinking about our dirty secret and I smile when all the Mexicans eye fuck her like they'd have a chance. It makes us both very horny for after work.

The thing is, when you're good looking girls talk about you, and that makes girls willing to fight over you or work together so their single friend can.
So much potential to ruin your job and worse

>>7906180
work in a bar.

yeah, she was so ordinary it was painful. she was nice enough to work with though.
the less blurred one, obvs.

>>7906062
This
>enter uni
>don't give a fuck
>be more /fa/
>all the boys mirin my fits
>walking i listen a girl say i am cute
oh gosh
>back to /fa/
>all this model tier people
>remember i have acne scars
>hair general #2132314
>remember i have shit hair
>i get nervous
>i break out
>pimples everywhere
>all confidence lost
>hey bro why don't you come to ur party?
>panic
>more break outs
>hey anon why don't you come to class?
>die

I think I may actually be more attractive than I think I am.
I know I'm model skinny and model tall but I've always just assumed that it doesn't mean much because I'm just me, but I've always acted like a five or less because I don't want to be a dickbag.

I get told I'm attractive often but I think I'm ugly af and assume everyone is lying.

I did that facial rating thing the other day. Came out to 8.78.

>Personally, I think I'm about a 7.5.

>>7906223
the one on the right looks like a total qt

>>7906386
the one that tests your facial symmetry? Don't mean shit bro, sorry

get told you're attractive by other attractive people
people go out of their way to do shit for you
random people ask to take pictures with you at work

being an attractive dude is what i imagine being a girl feels like

Guys threat you worse cus you if you are better looking then them

Girls might look at you but don't talk to you because you are too good looking

Thats what I want to believe ;_;

t: friendsless anon who never had gf

>>7905581
look in a mirror dipshit

>>7906593
Sometimes I see myself really beautiful and sometimes ugly as sin.
If I could change anything it would be my nose and my lips.

bump

I was in a chip shop with some sloot on Thursday night and she asked all her friends to rate me out 10 wtf. I didn't think girls used the rating system

two of them said 7 and one said 6, but the one who said 6 was the ugliest so she was probably just projecting

>>7906281
Yeah, /fa/ can make one really insecure and self-conscious.

If you really are attractive, you will notice it.
I think I've gotten a bit too arrogant after realizing I'm good looking, though.

>>7908359
Post face please

>>7905734
higher than average

>tfw have no idea if i actually am attractive or just delusional

>>7908359
>I was in a chip shop with some sloot on Thursday night
what doese this even mean

>>7908545
He was in a chip shop with a slut on Thursday night.

>>7908548
>>7908545
he was at the hot potato shop with a girl who rejects gender roles on a thursday evening

I really have no idea where I actually stand, but what I have noticed is that Asian girls usually find me attractive more often than white or other girls. Could just be that there's a lot of Asians in my area.

The more I think about it, I don't think I've ever been approached at a spot by a white girl.

>>7908562
Oh, but in high school, a friend brought me in conversation to a group of mostly white girls without me knowing. Apparently if i were to rape them, they would be ok with that and not fight it.

I'm not sure what that means for me exactly though.

>>7908568
means they wanted you to say "how about tonight?"

>>7908552
*sensible chuckle*

>>7908548
wow, a chop for ships? I didn't even know they existed

>tfw qt looks at you but don't know if it's because you're ugly or good looking

What does a ten even look like to most people? A one? What about fives?
I know my own attractive/unattractiveness, but what is the general number scaling.
I've never paid attention to that shit, I'm curious.

>>7906000

/thread

>>7908582
10 is so good looking that the general public doesnt actually find them attractive - they think their features are weird but people into fashion see them as gods

>>7908582
attractive means fit to mate with
if you look like you have good genes to transmit you are attractive, it's not something you can quantify in any other way than your instinctive reaction to that person
humans also instinctively look for features that echo nature, like the golden ratio

>>7906223

Post the one in the right! Looks nice.

>>7908588
>>7908593
See, I think there's for sure different standards depending on why you're rating. An everyday 6 feels like it would be a lot different from a /fa/ 6. Because,
>10/10 models
>fit to mate

>>7906028
>>7906020
Me. While I can tell hes getting a shit load of pussy, I wouldn't want to look like him. "flawless" people are the worst. The look so fake.

>>7908610
>"flawless" people are the worst. The look so fake.

i remember there was a similar post on /fa/ before.

a trip said something about imperfections make people interesting and i really think that's true.

im pretty sure it was trunks actually.

>>7908620
it was tripskank

>>7908623
Really? could be.

but i was pretty sure it was about a barista that had mild acne scarring that made her more attractive, or something along those lines.

>>7906020

He probably gets called "faggot" every now and then.

I know well, because i look pretty similar.

Having a pretty face for a man is not that good of a deal.

>>7908620

I agree. "Flawless" looking people are so bland, so unremarkable in their flawlessness. I think it applies to all things in life. The old saying about how (and I'm paraphrasing) t"he most profound truths are cliches" comes to mind.

I also think a lot of model-tier people look really vacuous/douchey. I don't know what it is. Maybe it's just the nature of high fashion culture, where models have to look really expressionless, angry, or stoned.

bump

they tell you
im told im goodlooking by random ppl/ppl im hooking up with fairly often
ive also been called ugly though

i have a weird face i guess. it changes a lot depending on my hair, expression and health. people sometimes dont recognize me

>tfw solid seven at best but terrible complexion and acne scars knock me down at least two pegs

It doesn't matter if you're attractive, if you have a shit personality, you'll never make it in life.

>>7910177
>actually believing this

>tfw not attractive, but not so ugly that I can't be with cute girls

Feels pretty alright. Don't really get any advantages or disadvantages.

>>7906033
is he a burn victim?

>>7906062
/fa/ posters are ugly as sin what are you talking about, going to /fa/ is where I get my daily confidence boost

>>7910177
It's funny how most average looking people I meet are paranoid and has a shit personality
They keep thinking I'm judging them or looking down on them :(
I wanna be friend you fucker ;_;

>>7908581
people don't look at uggos, unless you're like REALLY ugly, 1/10

>>7910222
what would you rate this guy?

>>7908443
That's actually funny as fuck.

>>7910226
leto could be max a 7/10 imo, with that hair 4-5/10

>>7910226
god losing your hair is such an awful life choice

>>7910245
>7/10
Ha
Post fits

>>7908581
this, im always worried why people look at me but i know im not a 1/10, so i get all self conscious start thinking my hair is all messy and such, so now i always touch my hair and have to look my best no matter where im going

>tfw too ugly for qts

>>7910256
it's not a choice, it's a sentence

>>7910255
Every girl that looks at you want to fuck you joking its a natural human behaviour to look at ppl

>>7906386
lmao post your face and get a real rating

>>7910254
his face seems pretty meh to me... maybe I have seen too many models

I think I fluctuate between 6-8
you can tell on the better days because you notice more people look at you and girls do the thing where they fix their hair when they walk by you or after they look at you.
might just be that I look really intimidating because of the way I dress.

>catch girls staring
>sometimes they ask other girls for my name and point
>then they smile
What does that mean?

>>7910245
>7/10 max
KEK post face you must be a supermodel

>>7910266
suppose it is, but i am known as hot anon around me

>>7910283
R u in high school
Teenage gals being teenage girls
College/uni girls usually just come up and talk to you

No clue. I guess if you're REALLY attractive, people will just compliment you.
I get compliments from people within meeting them for 5 minutes sometimes. I kinda have some unique features so I can't really gauge myself against what I see as generally "attractive"

If you're ugly, you'd know.

If you're attractive, you'd know.

If you don't know, you're probably average or just above average.

>>7910303
Teenage girls being teenage gals
Fuck th shit out them anon :^)
You will regret it if you dont

>>7910294
yes i am highschooler

>>7908652

"fashion" models are usually just attractive people that are more or less featureless, their own function being to make whatever clothes wearing look better, and thus project that image onto you

actual high fashion models look unorthodox or have feature that are really outlandish or striking, sometimes arent even attractive, and are usually cast to fulfill a certain role on a walkway

>>7910301
Oh ho
This

>>7910304
>confidence
>me
I don't talk much, people probably think of me as a street rat.

One time I was in a hot tub naked with three other naked girls, didn't have a condom, nothing happened. Fuck my life.

>>7910314
>no condom
just pull out lel

substances are easy confidence boosters too

>>7910314
Ha
Have fun regretting life
You be old, bald and fat real soon
>hurt durrr no confidence ;_;
What you scared of? Looking like a retard? So what look like a retard and never talk to those people and move on to new people
Jesus fuck

I get called good looking a lot and attract girls easily at times but i fucking suck at getting laid this is really starting to piss me off fuck sake i cant do anything right

>>7910342
>get attracted to because you are good looking
>talk to you and realize you're a retard
>don't fuck
Felll your head with some funniness faggot

>>7910342
the number of girls who i really wanted to fuck but didn't quite manage to is building much faster than the number of girls Zach did get to fuck, god this is causing me so much torment im going to be the most miserable, regretful bald 40 year old ever this is just too deep fuck this shit im going to bed

>>7910367
you could be balding way before 40

>>7906033
>eye bags
>cratered skin
>squinty eyes

>>7910375
im balding atm. Its hardly noticeable though and im on finasteride, so i should keep most of it through my twenties. The fact its started is making me sweat it though, i realize i need to fuck lots of girls now as being bald/balding is a sexual death sentence

>>7910418
>bald/balding is a sexual death sentence
If you are average
:^)

Also just simply getting older is making me sweat it. I'm thinking of taking two years off my age as id like to keep on trying to fuck 18 year olds and its going to get weird soon

>>7910442
>fuckin teenagers
You are fuckin scum and pretty average

>>7910436
or just don't suit being bald

>>7910450
Nah
You're just not that attractive enough

>>7910448
could you tell mfers in real life to stop calling me good looking then? Id prefer this as it would alleviate some of this inner conflict and i could just give up and get hookers

>>7910462
that's not fair to say, look at the Leto pic posted >>7910226

people always fawn about how stays so young, yet with just the change to his hair he looks quite his age

>>7910216
post pic

>>7908652
>>7908620
>>7908610

lmao fox and the grapes monologue

literally cringing go back to /r9k/ thnx

I feel like if you're attractive you can be nice without people making you their doormat

I'd say I fluctuate between a 6-8 like that other anon. Maybe 9, but I seriously doubt it. I'm a guy btw.

Everyone tends to like me at school. Dorks, athletes, bullies, teachers, autists and etc. treat me very well. I think it has more to do with my personality and ability though, not looks. Most of them get that I'm a loner however.

>tfw professor gives me a higher score on a test compared to a classmate even though we had practically the same answers
>tfw this one jackass, hated by everyone but his qt3.14 gf, treats me to lunch
>tfw this other qt3.14 thought I was having a bad day because she thought I was jealous when she was talking to some guy.

>>7910301
this, is probably right. i dont get compliments and i dont feel too ugly and girls will sometimes approach me.

i guess that makes me average.

if you dont look something like this then you are ugly/average

>>7911565
>disgusting whiteys
nope

>>7911565
Well fuck, I can't just grow a dick.
I'll never be /fa/ I give up.

>>7911576
Look at me I'm a girl hurrr fuck off u attention whore

>>7911567

>Having this much shitty genes

>>7905735
well that's a stupid thing to say

>>7911565
You're definition of good-looking is fucktarded.

>>7911592
fuck off faggot

>>7911592
fuck off faggot

>>7910406
implying squinty eyes aren't the most effay feature a person could have

>>7911565
>mfw

>>7910442
how old are you?

>>7905987
Excuse me bro?

>>7911849
ppl actually like squinty eyes yes sweet

If you were attractive, you would have known by now.

And if you're unsure of both ends of the spectrum, you may be ugly. Have you gone out with a chick (dude if you're a chick) in the last 6 months?

>>7914462
going out with someone doesn't make you attractive. I see the fugliest couples all the time especially at malls and such. Likewise, being single doesn't mean you're ugly. What a silly thing to think. Also, some people just have really low self esteem, even when they do in fact look good.

>>7914382
>tomato face

no thx

>>7914564

If you haven't successfully asked or have been asked out within the last 6 months and you're working/at uni/step outside of the house, then you're not attractive.

You may have seen the fugliest couples but attraction is more than aesthetic subjectivism. I've got a mate he is definitely lacking in the looks department but his charm, his humour and his his wit make him attractive.

And whilst being single may not mean you're ugly, it is a definite sign of it. Low self-esteem means shit. You can be hot and have low-self esteem, you'll still get asked out.

>>7914617
that's just bullshit, but alright.

>>7911592
girls can also make jokes, you realize that

>>7914799
>that's bullshit but i believe it
i agree though, being single doesn't mean you're ugly, especially if you still get laid
you can tell you're attractive by others' reactions to you, especially body language and the way they look at you and treat you

>>7914572
Troll somewhere else you ugly little accident.

>>7914921
I'm not trolling, he's really not universally attractive, his features are bland and his skin looks shitty.

im a sxc mthfkr

>>7914617
>And whilst being single may not mean you're ugly, it is a definite sign of it.

I just came here to stop by and see what /fa/cists spout to each other on and holy fucking shit is this THE most retarded thing I have read on 4chan for a while. And that is saying something.

>>7906028
He just doesn't look that manly

In the pic provided we can observe one of the manliest of men, at least by looks.

>>7914947
just another pussy worshipper who believes having a gf is the end all be all of life

>>7914949
Way too pretty to be considered manly. Manly is like neanderthal-tier facial features, which is ugly as fuck.

>>7915001

>>7915001
that's stupid

>>7915079
its true.

>working part time at a department store
>cashier tells me i'm good to look at
>customer in line looks at me and says "it's always good to have some eye candy around"

but i know i'm not attractive, so i don't even know what to feel anymore

>>7915079
so's your face

>>7915001
pls stop spouting nonsense

>For men, features that are considered to be attractive are indicators of high levels testosterone (such as large jaws and prominent brow ridges). (Satoshi Kanazawa, 2008)

>Male sex-hormone markers are those features that indicate the presence of higher levels of testosterone. Higher testosterone to estrogen ratios leads to lateral growth of the jaw, chin and cheekbones, lengthening of the lower bones of the face, and forward growth of the eyebrow ridges (Thornhill & Gangestad, 1999)
Your definition of manly is highly subjective, CM markers aside. Ugly people with exaggerated features=/=manly.

>>7911565
that dude in the very bottom middle-ish. Very glad im not as "good looking" as him
hot damn

am i ugly

>>7911855
whats the name of this guy ?

>>7915396

adonis bosso

>>7915403
I don't know much about models, but I see him frequently.. He must be the only successful or relevant African american model no?

>>7915337
no but youre not attractive either. average. at least your skin is clear

>>7915412

i don't know too much about models either, but he for sure isn't the only relevant african american model

most popular? perhaps

>>7915337
Being brown takes you down a few points.

>>7910165
iktf very well

dudes rip on u for being "pretty"
most beta chicks get shy around u

i'm fit too so that takes it up another notch and dont get dudes getting violent like when i was hungry skeleton

Beauty is objective.
IE: Objectively beautiful male.

>>7916056
not with that haircut

>>7910595
so much this

>>7916056
also fake tan and ugly ass tattoos

i think about this a lot. most people are usually in the middle. very few are universally "hot" or ugly

>>7914617
this isnt true for girls. a lot of guys get into short relationships just to hookup/bang the girl (even if she's fat/ugly)

you're probably attractive if you get good service at restos/shops (i notice this if i dont wear makeup)
people could just be looking at you cause you look weird. i think if they consistently smile/try to make eye contact then youre cute. if youre ugly they'll look at you but avoid your gaze

youre probably an ugly girl if no one is actively or passively "pursuing" you..ie:texting, asking to hang out
also if you go to a club and no one buys you drinks..this can be really awkward if youre with other girls and no one is trying to talk to you (i have a couple of friends who this happens to)

better Q would be how to become prettier...wish i knew that too ahha

>>7916156
>>7916066
implying he didnt get loads of pussy, something you are both are jelly of

>inb4 lolded

>>7916176
>wahhh no one is giving me free shit so that means I'm ugly wahhh
women
jking
this is probably true

>>7916189
implying he's alive
checkmate

>>7916191
yeah if he goes dutch he's prob not that into you. or he's cheap
either way if you're hot you wouldnt put up with that
i find that fat/ugly girls put up with so much bs in relationships too..theyre practically the man in the relationship..going into maximum overdrive just to keep him interested..or worse think theyre in a relationship when the guy clearly isnt into her and have "drama" (aka fantasies they made up to get attention from other girls)
hot girls are usually rejecting guys more than the other way around..they dont usually need to pursue men..its the other way around for them

>>7911565
I look like a cross between middle-right black&white and Keanu Reeves when he was young and beardless.

>>7916211
so fat girls are into extreme sex?
TIME TO TRY ANAL AND POOP
HERE I COME FATTIES

>>7916218
lol i dont mean literally (i think)
they're definitely more willing to have sex/hookup early on tho
http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2013/02/12/hookinguprealities/the-most-attractive-women-have-the-least-casual-sex/

>>7916231
also
http://www.returnofkings.com/18257/dont-hate-on-a-skilled-hustler

now i know when other girls bitch at me for being a "goldigger" or whatever just cause a guy paid for a couple of meals and drove me home they're just jealous. other hot girls are impressed by the girl game

>>7906020
>Those tiny gross lips
>Those far apart ass eyebrows
>That fivehead
I almost threw up

>>7916231
>liking hot girls who don't even deepthroat
I'm only doing fatties/uglys from now on
The brown paper bag was invented for reasons and this is one of them

>>7916246
he's overrated
i hate his nose
def attractive tho

>>7916249
if you dont want to be seen in public with her good for you
all your freinds are going to make fun of you if they find out you're banging a fat girl on the reg..you can only blame it on being drunk once or twice..who you date is a status symbol just like anything else (in a non objectifying way)

>>7916200
>implying you are alive without fucking hot pussy

>girls don't give you the time of day
>girls think your joke is sexist/absurd/disgusting/ewww
>once a girl sees you once she never looks in your direction, ever
Ahh it sucks.

What are you if girls call you "cute"

not assertive enough to carry your externally projected image?

>>7916312
stop being creepy
It's not hard
Even the fatness of fatties get a girl to talk to them

>>7916330
attractive in an approachable way for men
its a generic word for any goodlooking person (though not as powereful as "hot" or "sexy/gorg/beautiful")
(altho i get kinda scared when ppl call me that cause i'm a girl haha)

>>7916330
Say "I know"

>>7916330
>"omg you are cute"
Is the girl alright if she says this?
I honestly put here in the retard file if she says this and above the age of 20

>>7914949
who is that

>>7916356
matt damon

>>7916359
ok thanks

>>7916353
oh girls say cute all the time afaik

>>7916343
Did that once. She laughed heartily with me

>>7916342
The way I use cute is the patriarch white knight weeaboo virgin way of "thing I want to protect" or anything that induces a similar reaction

>>7916330
>>7916343
shit nigga, i'll have to try that out once
>>7916360
>Did that once. She laughed heartily with me
in a good or bad way?

>>7916211
>yeah if he goes dutch he's prob not that into you. or he's cheap
>tfw I've treated girls to dinner on bad dates while pretending to go the toilet just to fuck off really quickly to get away from their dumb personalities and shallow life views with as little conflict as possible

>>7916387
good way
I delivered it in a really flamboyant way for comedic effect tho

fuuuck I'm going out for a run
/fa/ always manages to drag me into an endlessly deep hole of insecurity

>>7916353
I usually just put a bitch in the 'ye olde wench' file if she's above 20.

>>7916411
>I delivered it in a really flamboyant way for comedic effect tho
>flamboyant way for comedic effect
fuck man, are you me?
do you also sometimes call things/people/whatever cute in that same way or in a very very monotone and boring voice (for comedic effect ofc)?

>>7916411
just remember everyone is looking at your gay sexy asian butt while you run and trying to hide their boners from you
Only hot alpha muscular white males want to fuck your boy pussy
..
u R gay
:3

>>7916421
no
it's fuckin retarded and you should stop
everyone is laughing b/c they feel sorry4u
loljking :^)

>>7916423
that's funny cause this openly gay 6'4 polish man mountain at work has been eyeing me strangely lately
I don't really like men though.

>>7916421
Nah, people just expect me to be monotone, the flamboyant thing only works due to shift in mood because I look like a perma-high dullard
>foreground and background are never funny at the same time

Im average at best but I get more attention now I've gained weight, stopped shaving and started choosing my clothing purely for comfort. When I tried took care of myself nobody looked at me and now when they smile at me I don't know how to react other than giving them blank stare

>>7916439
;_;

>>7916440
oh okay

>tfw you're pretty much constantly in a bad mood
>tfw girls always ask you what's wrong and act all friendly

Too bad I always end the conversation abruptly...

>>7916501
guess you have autism or awkward

I'm ugly but girls start convos with me and everyone's really friendly.

>>7916504
Nah, I'm just not interested in conversations when I'm sad or angry. Plus you're expected to say that nothing is wrong, which isn't exactly an interesting response.

>>7916512
imagine how friendly they'd be if you were handsome

>>7916211
i know a fat girl/pussywhipped guy couple that sounds like this
they never have sex though because it seems the chick is disgusted by it (and i guess he is too, or at least i would be), they just hang out sometimes, hug and barely kiss, and have some drama for stupid stuff
it looks stupid from an outsider's perspective because you'd think the guy would get tired of getting yelled at and having no say in anything when he gets so little in return, but it works for both of them somehow. it's funny because their personalities are total opposites and they're still "happy"

I consider myself a 6/10, girls flirt with my pretty frequently and I usually get stares from girls when in class or at a party. You really don't have to be extremely attractive to have women be attracted to you.

>>7917099

>girl looks at you
>"O-O-OHHHH SHE WANTS MY DICK. SHE WANTS MY DICK. OOOOOH SHE WANTS MY DICK."

There was a study done that found that babies tend to stare at people who have attractive features. So if babies do not stare at you regularly, that's how you know you're unattractive.

I look good, but way too young, skinny and feminine to ever be considered a potential partner

>>7916211
you're incredibly insecure and naive.

Believe it or not, there's guys who's want to pursue a relationship with you because they genuinely enjoy your companionship. If you ever gain enough confidence to take control of your life and not give in to every exploitative pig that wants a piece of your ass you'll understand.

I've felt sorry for you but if you're willingly devaluing yourself, then you've got to come to terms with that sometime.

I don't know. I've always been in a serious relationship so I have no idea if other people find me attractive.

I think I'm also just not very approachable. I always look either tired or angry (which I'm usually not) and in conversation I'm always very polite but also very short with people, which makes it seem like I'm trying to be politely disinterested.

>>7908620
it couldnt have been trunks because he would have sperged out about what a faggot the other person is and how godlike he himself is and how the other person is a pleb who should go cop some taste and other similar attempts at self aggrandizing insults to others. trunks is worse than ugly, he is completely forgettable. he is like a band that isnt bad, but its so completely run of the mill that nobody likes them, even though nobody would object to listening to them (although listening to trunks is a shitty experience all around)

>>7911565
im not even white

I'm 4-5/10 ugly. I don't get bullied or anything extreme for my looks (if your a 3/10 or below that's what happens), but there's lots of disadvantages. People never open up or want to initiate conversations with you. You always have to be the one to do it. Also good luck making a nice facebook profile pic. Just through that people will have a bad first impression of you.

Girls don't look at you and think "disgusting", but they never consider you sexually in any way ever. And if you try flirting you get shut down instantly no matter what. If you persist you get labeled "creepy".

With enough charisma you can fuck 6/10s, anything above that is going to be impossible unless you're rich. I know a guy who is a 4/10 and he got rape charges put on him because he fucked a 8/10. I doubt she would have cared if he looked attractive, note that this guy is really charismatic and has fucked lots of 6/10s in the past.

>>7908652
>>7908620
>>7908610
what is this? a tumblr fat activism circlejerk?

>>7917209
also I forgot the say that the 8/10 was drunk, and she did say yes.

>>7910294
>college/uni girls usually just come up and talk to you
this, im the kind of person that is funny and sociable, but only when im with my friends. pretty shy, borderline on cripplingly so, even if one person im not friends with shows up. i got fairly used to my life of relative anonymity in all social settings. but at my uni, friendly people talk to me. standing in like, people make polite conversation. someone sits down next to me at breakfast and spill some milk out of their cereal, they make a joke and then try to engage me in conversation. the list goes on, and its almost always girls. i know they cant want me in any way because im not attractive, and i dont talk to people so they cant have heard about me.
but because of my life of never talking to people i immediately get super uncomfortable and self conscious and dont know what to say and end up making really terrible conversation or just not talking and ending it and leaving as soon as possible. the (kind of cute actually) girl that spilled her milk next to me, i said ha ha me too, and then left when she turned around to get some napkins.

im getting better though. im a work in progress.

Does it mean you're attractive when people you'e never met know your name? It's pretty weird actually.

>>7917214

Not even god himself could make a fedora big enough for you to tip.

>be me, 16, walking with a buddy late at night
>car slowly pulls around the corner, runs slowly into a light pole, and completely flips.
>me and my friend run up to the guy. He's all cut up and bleeding.
>"Holy shit anon, we have to call the police"
>*guy starts talking, obviously drunk out of his mind*
>"N-no-no no don't dodat anon...im juss fine. Reeeealy"

>>7917248
not really, just that people talk about you/see you on facebook

>>7917248
i'm sure that happens to steve buscemi all the time

>>7917341
I don't have facebook

>>7917177
>young kids stare at me
I"M GOLDEN AS FUCK
but I already knew I'm handsome ;^) I'm not a insecure fuck

im a faggot

>>7917255
>16, walking with a buddy late at night
underage&b

gtfo

>>7917388

Yo bro dont talk abour yourseld like that broits all about confidence man. Seize the pussy breh, don't just let it go. Act like a man but think like a womyn, rite? U know dis. Get that bad bitch with the kiegel game on lock son. Aight. Mr. Ice Man Paul Wall outchea.

>>7917389

That was six years ago, nerd.

Nahh no matter what any of you fags say "No one is ugly blah blah" activist hippie fat girl femanist shit, it's not true

It's quite obvious and I don't need studies. Yes everyone has different tastes sure, but there are things that are generally desirable. Fit body, nice face, nice proportions, a certain way people carry themselves confidently. Those are things that people just like for whatever reason

I consider myself to be a goodlooking guy, and I consider myself to be quite charming and good with girls as well. I will not post a picture so you'll just have to believe me

When you are goodlooking, you can feel it. When you go to a party, you will not be alone, ever. Girls will make an effort to talk to you one way or another. If a good looking person says a joke more poeple will laugh than at an ugly persons joke (i know because i've used my ugly friends' jokes before). You can randomly meet people and get along with them because they see reason to be with you

And let's be frank, when you see some ugly pathetic sap do you really want to associate with them?

>>7917177
how do I find babies to stare-down with?

>>7917426

>its quite obvious and I dont need studies

Yes. Just like it's obvious that aesthetic taste is not deterministic, but culturally defined.

>>7917426

Also

>fag
>activist
>hippie
>feminist

Projectingprojectingprojecting
adhominemadhominemadhominem

>>7917453
fair, I wasn't trying to target anyone that kinda just slipped out. But fair

Attractive people get told they are attractive a lot and in numerous ways and generally are "cooler" in first impressions.

Ugly or average people don't get commented on their looks as much if at all and when they do its on a single feature or a lack of something.
but some of the most charismatic people Ive met have been below average, simply because they have had to make up for appearance with personality.

>>7908359
>sloot
>bms

>>7917180
are you dumb?
where in any of that did i imply im devaluing myself? if anything it's the opposite

>>7917662
...wow, you're really dumb.

As long as you remind yourself of how ~virginal~ desu you are on a daily basis you'll still have a chance to be some rich guy's booty call, I mean wife.

>mfw you buy into the female purity myth

>mfw seeking validation on motherfucking /fa/

leave

>>7917741
>mfw when you think you know my life story

who the fuck are you
you're either a bitter ugly guy or an ugly jealous bitch

>>7916268
>status symbol
>(in a non objectifying way)

>muh links to pop sociology blogs 4 proof

omg lol

>>7917780
that argument wasnt linked to either article
this isnt a master's thesis you dumb piece of shit

>>7917779
>ur disagreeing wif my ideology
>that means ur ugly haha i am superior

>>7917790
why do you care what i do with my body?
i dont need to have sex with someone for them to be interested in dating me
if you have a problem with that you must be jealous...cause i dont see why that would bother you unless you couldnt do the same

>>7917779
stop sharing your fucking life story on a public imageboard if you don't want people to form opinions about you, you dumb sandnigger.

enjoy being /fa/'s laughingstock.

>>7917788
>u laffed at me
>ima call u dumb n downplay muh logical obligation to defend my argument by saying it's not part of an academically sanctioned activity

lolllllllllll

>>7917799
>u think i'm replying bc i care about what u do wif ur body
jesus christ i'm dying

>>7917800
i'll do whatever the fuck i want
and sharing one or two incidents=/= life story

>>7917801
?
i dont owe a logical obligation to anyone, esp someone anonymous. go ahead draw your own conclusions/opinions or whatever and shove them up your ass

i have a feeling this is trunks

>>7917810
you clearly do
you brought up the virginity..last i checked that has a lot to do with your body
youre fucking stupid.

>>7917817
actually you do have an obligation. you don't have to fulfill that obligation, but it exists nonetheless. and it works like this, if you take a stand on an issue in public and you cannot adequately defend that stance (the obligation) you will look like a fool. now, you can choose to leave that obligation as unfulfilled based upon your level of desire or ability, it doesn't really matter. that's your choice. but it's there.

>>7916244
you keep talking about being driven around
or getting meals comp'd

are that low income to where being associated with a car or eating that day is considered a status symbol?

becuase i have 3 cars, and more engines for one of them i exclusively used to drive competitively........and one just to move heavy shit/home supplies (2008 tacoma)

>>7917820
you're talking to at least two different people.

now please fuck off of /fa/

>>7917820
i literally haven't said a single thing about your virginity. you're jumping to conclusions that you cannot support.

if my position is still muddy to you, let me clarify: i don't care who you fuck or don't fuck. fuck everyone. fuck no one. fuck a select few. i don't care. jesus.

>>7917831
>take a stand on an issue in public
>cannot adequately defend that stance

who said i was doing either of those things?

and taking 2 separate parts of someone's argument and making assumptions about what theyre trying to defend is beyond stupid
you sound like an idiotic humanities student

>>7917741
i doubt she's a virgin, she probably tells everyone on tinder/okcupid she is so "rich guys" aka some guy who has $20 for a plate food to give her would be interested.

>>7917835
it's obvious you need to drive. try walking once in a while you fat piece of crap
and it's not the fact that they have a car- it's the fact that they're a gentleman. the opposite of the bitter misogynistic prick you are
face it- no one is going to want to date you period. dont take it out on me.

>>7917868
you can't afford a car can you? we have alot in common,
we both have to drive stick when we go home, differences is i have a car

>>7917870
Rekt

>>7917870
we have nothing in common
im 21, decent looking and have my whole life ahead of me
youre some fat, old, ugly loser who's probably going to die alone.

and fyi i dont have my drivers license yet cause i dont even need to get one. im still in university. doubt youve ever set foot in one of those places.

I'd say I'm a 6.5 I'd be a solid 7.5 or 8 if I was a little taller and didn't have a jewfro

Im going to a doctor on Tuesday. Im going to ask him his opinion on how my face looks, if i need treatment, and if he can refer me to any specialists.

My jaw is asymmetrical, it seems as if my jaw is rotated just a few degrees and throws off my whole face. My dentist confirmed I have a crossbite. Im hoping to get double jaw surgery to fix my proportions. I have a recessed jaw and a recessed chin.

My nose is crooked. I did a lot of martial arts as a kid so i think thats it. I believe I have a deviated septum as I often can not breath through one nostril or both at a time. This is causing me to get sleep apnea. Im wondering if they change the shape instead of just straightening it, will it be covered by my insurance? I guess ill find out.

I also have strabismus in my right eye. It points to the right and makes it look like I have a lazy eye. It is subtle but noticable if you make prolonged eye contact with me. For some reason this of all things has destroyed my self esteem the most. Number 1 priority behind my nose.

Im hoping if I get all three of these fixed I should become quite attractive. Im also hoping insurance will cover most of the cost as there are legitimate health concerns behind all three issues.If anyone cares I can post a follow up after I go to the doctor on tuesday.

>>7917879
lmao at this newfaggot getting merked by a fake sieg

smh drop ur trip

>>7917879
you're 21, bragging about going to college when most people at your age (incl) have already got their undergradatuate

brag about not needing a license in college, which is a lie, most college students drive

most college students aren't shallow and vapid to the point where they rely on sex and their looks in order to eat or handle transportation

whole life ahead of you?
you're a prostitute.....for food and a ride home

>>7917885
>jewfro
sorry m8 ur a solid 2

>>7917887
>newfaggot
ive been posting here for at least 2yrs now

>>7917891
you're an idiot

choke on whatever crap youre eating and just die already

>>7917856
>Can't dispute the argument COMMENCE AD HOMINEM
>what is logic


>>7917879

Whatever school you've gotten into must be really exclusive to have admitted someone of your caliber

>>7917905
i'll have the satisfaction of dying from something i actually earned, without having to suck some stranger's dick (and have him finish on your chest gross you know) for that food item and a ride home in some dingy candian alley, only to go home and find another man to do it with on a cell phone app aimed at degenerates

>>7910553
Haha! What are you talking about! imperfections are the coolest! there are tons of rockstars with little imperfections that make them as cool as the other side of the pillow! haha!

>pic related he proly cop more p00sy den u fegget haha! jk ur not a fegget!

>>7917919
shut the fuck up geek

>>7917924
stop the h8 learn to appreci8 haha!

>>7911820
thank you for hitting reset, that grotesque montage had me second-guessing my aesthetic gauge

>>7911565
srs wtf anon

I'm probably a six after a hair cut IMO but apparently I'm attractive since I keep getting ass from tinder.

>>7914382
who dat.

>>7916353
As a female under the age of 20, I will say I call guys I think are attractive cute all the time.
Adorable's the best. If you're adorable I wanna make out with you for like hours.

>>7916562
you sound like fucking holden caulfield stop being such a phony.

>>7917526
Is that zane from 1D?

'you're cute, you have a nice but too'
'you have a handsome son'
'are you of age' - cougar pls
'Oh you're anons better looking brother'
'Oh you look like your brother but prettier'
'he's hot'
'hey good lookin whats cookin' from random grill

subtly catch grills looking a few times

And that's how you know!

Damn that felt good to type.

>>7918404

forgot

>gay men overtly staring at you or frankly propositioning

ezmode

people say i'm classically good looking, like handsome from the 50's/60's, so it's mostly old people that compliment me on my looks a whole ton.

girls this age, not too much. they like effeminate guys more, or someone with a little bit of pretty. soft features ya know.

they think i just have a look, or that i'm good looking but NOT THEIR TYPE.

>>7916189
I heard he died a virgin.

usually OP, if you have doubts, odds are you're not 'ideal'
but ideal doesn't mean unattractive, I mean if you're curious about what the opposite gender thinks of you? what your peers think? what your mother/father think? or your employers? or total strangers?

If you want to appeal to all groups, you can't, not simultaneously. As for girls, they're just like guys, they all have their own thing. One girls 'damn' is another girls 'ew'
Why is that, you think? psychology dictates sexuality, and thus all responses neurologically, and therefore psychologically, are dictated by association. Technically the only human being that could even be capable of discerning the absolutely ideally sexual male or female would be one that has had their memories effectively erased completely, but that information would be useless to us because their identity would be gone and their results would be abstract to us.

And lastly, take this last part seriously, I won't ever say it again, and if you don't know this as a fact, you have some catching up to do

the most attractive thing about a man, to both his gender and the other, as well as the most dominating force against even his foes, is not the colour of his skin, his stature, eyes or hairstyle.
It's his voice.

>>7911565
>guy in very bottom
did u put that there as a joke

>>7918455
who are you even talking about?

and to the anon who posted that image originally,
>>7911565
you clearly have a specific attraction going on here, which isn't an unusual one, but the face shape you've chosen for every single person there isn't the only attractive face type.

>>7917177
i thought they stared at me bc i dont look like their white parents lmao

I'm angry because I know my face would be at least an 8/10 if I stopped bulking, but goddamn I want to be big.

>>7917886

yo dude. im the same way with the jaw. mine is actually getting pretty uncomfortable too.. very sore and cracky/clicky. do you get this at all?

my jaw looks slightly rotated as well, one side of my face is visibly longer than the other but by just a tad.

i am also planning on getting surgery to fix it. are you getting braces first? tell me how it goes man

If you're good looking you know.

I'm a good looking guy, but my social skills aren't great.

I often feel tension with women, like, very very very often. I just meet with them, and bam, i feel this outside tension between us and I know its not coming from because they spill their spaghetti around me as well.

Too bad I don't know what to do when I feel this...

For people saying that if you're good looking you'll get asked out alot etc... not really. It depends on how aggressive you look and how approachable you seem to people.

I've had people avoid me or just not talk to me for long periods of time, because of tension. If you're good looking, people doubt themselves more around you as they don't want to seem like plebs when they feel inferior or attracated to you.

this is talking about the women, but guys give off that tension to me as well, it's pretty annoying.

Also, all the favors you get for no reason at all. Free stuff and what not.

>>7918508
get that checked out as soon as u can fam
i felt the clicks when i was a kid and im still suffering now
its called tmjd
it just keeps getting worse
it fucks up ur mouth n nose as well and everything gets asymmetrical from there
best of luck

>>7918410
gay men do that with everyone, theyre thirsty as fuck. u ugly.

>>7918539
here, this is how you know you're good looking.
I personal experience that has always repeated itself with me, through different occasions.

I'm hanging out with my mormon friend and he has to go to this little party. We go, and it's in the front yard of who knows who. I walk through the door, and i immediately feel the looks of the adults and women there. Keep it moving. Later, notice, some of the women just magically drift to the table me and my friends are sitting. I'm used to catching people looking at me, so i catch all the girls at the table just glancing on the low.
They leave and the adults, for some odd reason, like 2 or 3 men, come and sit with us.

One of them makes a joke he's saying something like oh but im not ugly and then he says jokingly, but you can call me ugly( looking at me). He was joking, but he let me know how feels about me through that joke.

I mean, you get used to peop;e complimenting your looks it makes you more insecure and, for me, develop psychopath behavior.

>>7918410
seriously, gay men and my moms friends are the groups who I get the most obvious reactions from. I catch girls looking at me often enough, pretty much on a daily basis, but with them just looking at me I can never be sure

>>7917177
what the fuck do babies know, man.

>>7917177
Oh wow, is this true?
I never found myself particularly attractive but kids always look at me when I'm in a group. Unless there's this other dude there, who happens to be objectively attractive.

It's pretty simple. If you have a lot of money you're attractive. If you don't you're not.

I know this isn't a faggy soc rate thread, but does my nose make my face ugly? I focus on it way too much

>>7918792
no. You have a nice profile, I'm jelly

>>7918792
yes

>>7918792
Lets fugg

>>7918792
u've got a nice profile m8
don't worry so much

>>7918804
>>7918824

+1

>>7918792
>>always thought of myself as an ugly motherfucker but has been gaining more and more confidence lately

No you faggot you have a great profile.

>>7918826
>>7918825
>>7918824
>>7918823
>>7918821
>>7918804

attention-whore success

>>7918792
if you need a self esteem boost ive come back to this page like 5 times just to look at your photo again. girl btw

>>7918792
Fucking love these noses.
There's a guy in my class and he has a nose like this.
I occasionally glance at it, I'm sure he thinks I'm a fag or that I hate his nose.

>>7918831
Thank you, if I could figure out a way to boost my self esteem I would, sometimes I feel it's not to bad but most of the time I hate it. Here's a less flattering picture. (Snapchat screenshot coz flash).

>>7918849
enough already

>>7918854
Sorry I just wanted it to be seen from a worse perspective, I'd delete it but I'm on my phone and not sure how

>>7918862
You're probably handsome, and as said already, you have a nice profile. Not even sure why I responded, I posted pictures before myself, it just seems like plain attentionwhoring when someone else who is remotely attractive is doing it

>>7918867
I know what you mean but I think my nose is big enough to justify asking, I don't consider myself attractive or anything

>>7918871
I don't think the size is that bad, but the way it points somewhat downwards makes it look bad. Well not bad, but you know what I mean

I always thought I was pretty average. I think i'm a 6.

I've been complimented by quite a lot of people, though. I guess if I actually started caring about my appearance I would be a solid 8.

>>7918508
yeah my jaw gets sore, and sometimes gets cracky but not often. I will probably have to get braces. I had braces when i was 13 but i never wore my retainer for my top teeth so they recessed and became crooked. So i dont mind getting them fixed again as I will keep better maintenance. Best of luck to you too, brother.

>>7918236
Sorry for the late reply but...

That's Tom Welling, bro. I have a crush on him, but it's OK to have a crush on this guy even if you're a male.

Hell, I'd let him bang me twice if he asked nicely.

>>7914930
Yes you're trolling. You're just jealous, it's OK, I can understand. I mean, dat jawline. I dare you to come with someone that comes close to his.

FYI, he could even bang your dad if your dad asked nicely.

>>7920578
gaylord

>>7920633

Nice dubs bro, mind putting them in my hemhemorrhage infested anus?