/fa/ - Fashion

SA's at most cheap ass shops I go in for fun are too intimated by my appearance to ask if I need help. They usually just stare my shoes, which are raf velcros.

>>7639802
haha fuck man this is exactly how I imagine my first boutique experience going down

>>7639817

raf velcros will look like £20 lonsdale trainas to most people

>>7639802
autism

>>7639856

that's anxiety you stupid nigger, autism is the fucking opposite

>>7639817

such fashion

>>7639850
Nah they look p cool with good clothes

>>7639850
in my experience this has not been the case

for some reason people ask me if they are yeezys lol

>>7639860
actual autism

>>7639860
exactly, for example, autism:
>walk into clothes shop
>adorned in favorite pair of baggy cargo shorts, flamed button up shirt, trench coat, fingerless gloves, and fedora
>accesorized tastefully with MLP plushie under arm
>workers ask if you're alright
>go on hour long tangent about your day and all about your favorite new chinese cartoons that you're watching
>employees give you facial expressions you don't understand so you continue to talk until one of them asks what you came here for
>look around the store and notice everything is too fitted for your grotesque neckbeard body
>Start insulting the employees for discriminating against you and not being a "fat-positive" establishment
>knock over a clothing rack and leave

>>7639802
so, basically, /fa/ is full of the socially-inept people wanting to be dressed by the internet?

..

>Walk into barneys
>ask if you're alright
>tell them i'm looking for some rag 'n' bone, Comme des Garcons or saturday surf stuff
>he asks me if i know anything about Rei Kawakubo
>We talk about Japanese and Belgian fashion designers for 40 mins
Derrik's a cool guy B)

>tfw masturbating
>dad comes home
>I panic
>open basement door
>Cum spot on desk
>throw blanket over it
>blanket falls off
>not sure if he saw
>feel like hes judging me
oh god Why did I decide to come home on my break in between classes?

>>7639938
nowdays i dont know of thats autism or modern days product of so much social freedoms

in high school i had two classmates with autism and they acted like OP's story

>>7639802
>walk into clothes shop with winter coat on
>coat is too hot
>start sweating
>ask to try on shoes
>they bring me the shoes and I try them on
>they just stand there waiting until I'm finished
>try to get rid of them by saying 'I'll probably be a while, haha!'
>they stick around while I awkwardly walk around
>mfw

>walk into retail store
>different sales associates keep bugging you
>ask them to look for something in the back that you know they're not going to have so they leave you alone

>in urban outfitters
>every customer and worker is better looking than me
>try looking through clothes
>feel like an idiot disrupting everyone's shopping experience
>say sorry to the clerk as I exit while covering my face

>>7640081

I've known 2 people with autism and they acted the exact opposite. Like they'd probably start talking to the employees about their sick WoW characters or something.

>>7640213
my cousin has autism and he always tries to tell people about how good he is at pokemon (hes not). he also does wear fedoras and cargo shorts and the whole bundle.

>>7640225
>(hes not)
#rekt

realize that most everyone you see and meet are losers or awful people unless they prove you wrong
>keep it snide and superficial
>smog of superiority
>realize you're just as bad if not worse
>crumble into a molehill of ego and sick fits
>zyzz help

>>7640102

They're making sure you don't steal them.

>>7640242

Sruli #rekt

>typical /fa/ user in the rick owens store

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neSjLgV8YII

>>7640262
hahahaha

this wasn't remotely clever but thanks for posting it

>>7640112
holy shit if you don't want sales people pestering you just kindly ask "do you mind if I have a minute?" or something similar. they assume you need their help and if they know you don't they will go away.

>>7639938
Kek

>>7640262
It was funny as fuck, but i think you meant to post something else.

I only feel comfortable shopping with other people, i feel weird by myself

>>7640478
Man I hate shopping with other people
way too personal of an experience
I just want quiet

>>7640478
only time I feel good shopping with other people is when they pay for me
which is never
namsayin

I get this feeling because i'm generally bad at making decisions and take a longer time than other people looking through stuff, so I always get paranoid it looks like i'm taking too much time and i should buy something which makes me just sack it off and end up not buying anything

>people don't realize an empty shop is the best shop
also shopping without friends is ideal imo, you can spend just as much time as you want, don't have anyone pestering you or recommending ugly shit

I went to portland off a tax free shopping trip and I felt like the majority of SA were impatient, rude, or unprofessional. Wtf, is it because they have so many tourist shopping there that they act stuck up? Just for comparison, it doesn't feel like this in seattle.

Also, food service seemed extremely friendly in portland while not so much in seattle. At least in places were you don't usually tip, so that was pleasant.

>>7640518
Same here, I spend so much time contemplating a purchase. Then even when I buy it, I will keep it for weeks while I am deciding if I should return. Most of my stuff then ends up getting returned.

iktf
I go full autist sometimes and just respond 'yeah' with an awkward laugh to everything
oh well, i think stores are required to serve autistic dweebs so i can still be EFFAAY AS FUCK

>>7639817
>intimidated by my appearance
>raf velcros

ahahahahahahaahhaahah

is this what fuckboys actually think

>>7639802
>>7640047
>>7640200
/r9k/ pls go

>walk into store
>SA follow me the entire time
>they try to hide it
the worst

I want to go into an upscale store just to browse and try on some stuff to get an idea of what high fashion is but I can't because I don't want to buy anything and I feel like the people there will hate me for it

HELP

>visiting a different city
>browse some shops just to kill time
>a salesgirl comes up and asks if I need help in one of them
>say I'm just browsing but take a couple of tops to try
>she starts commenting on them and recommending me stuff
>fuck it, try a shitload of stuff she brings me, ask pointless questions about quality and shit
>take good 25 minutes doing that
>she stands by me while I look uncertain in some shit garment
>she thinks I'm def going to shop something
>say "I need to think about it"
>leave, never come back

I can't stop anymore. They're just asking for it.

I went to a Versace store over Thanksgiving. The workers were really condescending, like the thought I couldn't afford what was in the store. I know it's a ploy to get people to "prove themselves" and cop something. ie them getting themselves some commission, but it's mad annoying. guarantee I made more than anyone in there the past year.

On a better point I went to a Barney's and the girl that worked that was very nice, really helpful. Although the tried to teach me about raw denim. Ugh girl, please. She looked to be ~18 years old. Youngest person I've seen in a Barney's.

This happens like crazy in high end stores in China. They'll even take something away from your hands and start talking about it or suggest other clothes or ferociously compliment you. Fucking annoying.

>>7642544
Also they literally follow you around the store, not just with their eyes.

>>7642510
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGzcixzB4J0

>>7639802
this happened to me so many times today.

>Go in Vans store
>qt worker approaches
>"Hello, are you interested in our California Styled vans. only 10 Vans stores carry them"
>Uhh yeah sure
>she continues to go on about how "awesome" they are
>Finally say, "ill try these"
>goes to get shoes
>leave

>>7640102
you just tried on a pair of shoes why the fuck would they leave you alone to run out of the shop you autis fuck

>>7639802
>decide to wear decent clothes because i might go to japanese store
>friend needs help with his car
>help him with his car
>clothes get all fucked up and greasy
>"hey lets go to the japanese store anon, ill come with"
>think to myself there wont be any qts this time around
>go to japanese store
>LIKE 5 FUCKING QTS
>they all glance at me and immediately look away
>dont spend more that 3 minutes in there
>mfw i couldnt read any of the car mags or fashion mags
whats the point in living anymore.

>>7640262

See, this here is real autism.

>>7642586
LOL

>walk into rick store
>fart
>do a 360 and walk out the door

>>7640478
I feel more comfortable with a friend, but we tend to get too carried away. Last time we entered a shop, we started taking anything that remotely cached our attention to the changing room and by the time we finished we realized we had left a mount of clothes on the stands. We quickly paid for our stuff and walked out trying not to catch the eye of the employees folding the mess we had left.

>>7642691

>>7639802
>Walk into AA
>Qt's asking if I need help
>Assure them I know what I'm doing
>Pick out some ocbd's, try on a few, decide to cop one
>Start questioning the qt's on their different fits, asking if they have x in stock, throwing out fashion terms
>They can't believe an attractive heterosexual male knows such things
>I can tell they're getting wet
>Leave without asking for their number
>"H-Have a nice day" follows me out the door as I stride away

mfw

>>7642753
>AA

this happened to me last year

>hot summer day, like 90F
>just getting into goofninja, spend a bunch of money on ebay cops
>find out there is a goofninja boutique in my city
>get dressed in all my sick new cops
>it's all wool, polyester, and other heavy fabrics
>boutique is on the other side of the city, take the bus and train to get there in the summer heat
>perspiring like mad cuz of all my sick layers
>finally get to the store, it's up the elevator on the third floor
>walk in, surrounded by rick, damir, bbs, mmm, etc.
>nobody around the small store, wipe sweat from forehead
>SA like my age comes out from around the corner in geobaskets and offers me a water
>obviously i accept
>take a sip, it's mineral water
>i spit a little bit out onto the damir doma silvan shirt
>embarassed, so i ask to try it on
>in dressing room the shirt looks decent, fits nicely, maybe a little loud
>take it off, see that there are massive pit stains
>the dyes are running like mad
>put it back on
>tell the SA i want to but it and wear it out of the store because too embarassed of the pitstains
>pic related, still have shirt today

welcome 2 autism

>>7642889
When he offered you water was my favorite part.
Like they have a case of it for the retards that frequent their store during summer.

>>7642889
Chicago?
Also you're pathetic.

>>7642889
thats "a little loud"?

>>7639817
i cringed so hard.

>>7643028
most nice boutiques offer water to their customers. rick owens stores even have their own private label water. i've been offered bottled water at barneys. gotten wine offered to me at bloomingdales, it's a pretty common practice, but if h&m asos usually what you're dressed in then you woundn't know

>>7643548
;_;

>>7642586
lol. Dude, I thought I was the only one to have done this.

amazing.

>>7640262
dead

>walk into store looking good af
>flirt with qts as i browse items
>get a bunch of basics and go into changerooms
>put stuff on underneath my dope fit
>walk out, say goodbye to qts

pretty much how i aquired all my basics

>Walk into a Nike outlet
>Big ass buff black dude is one of the assistants
>"H-hey, do you have any uhh... blazers in stock?"
>"Nah man, we don't stock those"
>"Oh, o-okay"

>>7640200
you gotta be pretty damn ugly to be the ugliest person in UO.

>>7640478
>tfw all of my friends think the places I shop at are gay or they hate shopping period
>they wear the same shit they've been wearing since high school

I need new friends

>>7640200
I fucking hate the type of people at UO. I can't help but feel judged by them.

>>7642586
I'm dying, holy shit you guys are great.

>>7642889
I like the shirt but holy shit wear some antiperspirant.

>walk into popular streetwear brand flagship store
>ask sales assistant if they have x item in stock
> all of the sales assistants are high on marijuana, and thusly lollygagging about
>there is nobody in the store except for ~10 dudes working there
>none of them knew what item i was talking about

how do i get a job working for mishka it seems fun

I walked in to a local boutique for basically the first time a few days ago. It was great honestly. I didn't go in looking for anything in particular, and the guys there were talking to a product rep who was showing off the latest shoes from the line he brought in.

They left me to my devices after asking if I needed anything. After a while, a guy came over and asked me about my outfit, in particular asking if my shoes were rick. We ended up talking about rick for a bit and then high fashion and price points in general, and how he had been looking for a specific piece for a long time, etc. Turned out he was the owner. We talked for at least 45 minutes about local fashion and the culture and business and how it all affects the store, and it was in general a very rewarding talk since this guy has been to so many stock shows to pick up shit around the world and just had way more experience than me.

At the end of it I grabbed a sweater I had been eyeing, and he told me that he really enjoyed our talk and gave me no tax + 20% off. He shook my hand and introduced himself and I was pleased as he could be a very valuable contact in the future for me given the route of my education.

So I guess long story short, just go in, be yourself and actually shoot the shit if you get the chance. You might really enjoy yourself.

>>7643765

I know that feel too well.

>be me
>streetwear fit
>meet up with homies
>they start laughing
>wut
>"why do you look like some jap straight outta the 90's??"
>"why did you start dressing like a fag?"
>"Remember when you didn't care about how you looked"
>theyre all euphoric neckbeards

I hate my friends

>tfw 5'6'' manlet
>tfw crippling fear of people judging me
>tfw baby face
I honestly don't know if I can ever go shopping in real life without having a panic attack. My greatest fear is that some super nice worker will ask me if I lost my mom.

>>7643822
sure and stain all my clothes

>>7644008
perhaps invest in some undershirts

>>7643927
>"why do you look like some jap straight outta the 90's??"

i had no idea that exists as a cultural milestone for normal people but good on your friend anyways

> Wal into Men's Wearhouse our of curiosity
> The only clerk there is a guido with a speech impediment
> "HOW'S IT GOIN' BAWS?"
> the clothes all look like shit, but decide to try on one sweater before I leave
> I put it on, it looks like shit
> "LOOKS WEAL SHAAP' BAWS!"
> leave

What do you guys think is the least fashionable store?

>walk into store
>"Hey do you need help finding anything?"
>"No, I'm just browsing right now, but thanks!"
>"No problem, just let me know if you need anything."

This is how my shopping trips occur. It's not hard to get them to leave you alone.

>go into Nordstrom to grab some cheap Levi's for casual wear.
>grab some 510's (skinny), ask qt3.14 SA where the dressing rooms are
>try them on, tell her I'll take them
>"Oh, so you're going for the skater look"

Nigger what the shit

>>7644076
buckle

>>7640081
>>7639938
yeah it's true. people who are awkward and quiet and worried about looking lame in front of cool employees are just anxious people with low confidence. autistic people don't even have the capacity to feel awkward or out of place. they'd try on everything in the store, throw it on the ground, kick off their smelly shoes and not care, and then leave without buying anything and not feel weird about it. autistic people lack social wherewithal while anxious people get overly wrapped up in it

>>7644140

lol Buckle

>>7644140
agreed, unless MAYBE like walmart counts
buckle is definitely up there

>>7644076

lol'd at the guido impression

>>7644076
lowes in australia

>>7644218
The only place to cop pink and fluoro green suits

>>7644250
there is not a single well fitting piece in that whole shop
everything is made for fat men

>recieve cps from mail and excited to wear them out
>go to westfields mall and put on apcs, raf t, and cps
>walk around the mall and no one noticing my fit
>go into nordstrom to check out some nudies
>around the area where they sell apcs and nudies
>see some built asian dude in full goof
>look down and see hes wearing geobaskets
>hoping he would notice my fit i walk around him
>he finally acknowledges me and looks at my outfit
>we then make eye contact
>he smirks and walks away to the plaza area
>i follow him for a bit and lost him at neiman marcus

>>7644265
which westfields

>>7644316
Canoga in socal

>>7643927
I feel you, man.
>have a fat, (literally) neckbeard friends
>graphic Bazinga and le nerdy joke tees, pants so baggy he could fit his legs in three times
>"Ahaha, nice discopants Anon" everytime I wear anything remotely skinny
>"Wow, did you shit your pants again xD" whenever I wear dropcrotch
>"Nice hip hop shoes, loool" when I wear fucking sk8 his
>"Damn Anon, your shirts are so boring, I like a nice picture or a quote on mine.. especially when it's a reference to something, ya know, so I can test if the people I meet are nerds like me xD."
>"Oh my god Anon, cut your hair already, buzzcut is the best and most manly..."
>goes on an hour long rants about how the society is going to hell because we have apparently abandoned the idea of functional clothes when we dress nicely
>has the most uneducated views of fashion history, claiming that everything I wear is "retro" and that I need to get with the times
He is an incredibly cool person otherwise, smart, knowledgeable on many topics, capable of debating and critical thinking.. I really have no idea why he has such a problem with how fashionable people dress.
W2C /fa/ friends???

>>7644429
these kinda dudes just reject the whole thing because its "unmanly" etc...
its fashion's equivalent of anti-intellectualism

>>7644265
>dressing so other dudes can notice you

fucking faggot

>>7644455
you're just a pussy

I have friends that are pretty homophobic (cholos) and they never give me shit for my style

>>7644465
i'm not that guy. >>7644429
my friends give me shit sometimes but idgaf

actually the one that gives me the most shit is into fashion but we just have different tastes and make fun of each other for it

>today friends and i waste time at mall
>wearing black henley, grey levis, black palladiums, black tad hoodie, black carhart beanie
>watching friends peruse plebe stores
>enter pac sun
>entire staff dressed monochrome
>entire staff is watching me
>sales rep approaches me
>"can i help you find anything?"
>naww just browsing
>"ok, well can i ask where you got that hoodie? that things dope"
good vibes

>be goth as fuck
>dressed in my faded glory black jeans
>walk into hot topic looking for chains for my jeans
>fat Emo girls with gaping holes in their ears everywhere
>they stare at me, and judge my every step
>I call them fatties and run out
>I enjoy a Mrs. Fields cookie at the kiosk

>>7644429
>tfw your work mates ask where you copped your shoes
>mfw they start copying my style
>start wearing the same shoes and watch

Trend setter.

>>7644149
kek, none of this is true at all. You've obviously never met an autistic person, you also seem to think there's only one level of autism.

>>7642177

I do that all the time. Whenever I'm in a larger city I'll go into upscale department stores/boutiques and browse around. I find the key to having the SA's not totally hate and ignore you is to dress in a manner that suits the store. Like if I decide to browse around Holt Renfrew/Harry Rosen/Barney's etc. I'll wear my Margiela's or CPs or other equally expensive shoes with some of my better clothing (Undercover, w+h, nudies, apc etc. etc.) SA's sometimes bend over backwards to help me and give me their employee cards because they think I'll drop mad $$$ and they'll get the commission. I'm also 18 tho (and look it), so they just figure I'm a moneyboi using my parent's credit card.

In short, dress the part and you'll be able to walk through as many upscale stores as you want judgement free.

>>7644494
>having shoes cheap enough to copy

>>7643934
oh god i giggled

>>7644528
>>7644528
>>7644528

>>7644494
>copying my style

how do you deal with this? I have literally told some of my best friends to back the fuck off?? from my future cops cause they cant make sick fits themselves, it's annoying as shit.

>>7644265
>recieve cps from mail and excited to wear them out
We are anonymous and we will not tolerate child pornography. We will find your pervert ass and you will learn to behave yourself.
We are legin.

>>7644558
you should be flattered

this happened to me but it stopped after I started wearing weirder shit, or shoes that are hard af to find

>>7644571
But they aren't like "Oh man I like your style, gimme advice", they're more like "Oh nice items you're looking at, w2c?". They don't commit right now they just steal, and it's annoying as fuck.

I hope to get money for that acronym very soon, perhaps that'll stop them.

>>7640478
i generally don't give many fucks being alone
only problem is when looking for jeans/trousers since its very tedious to fine the perfect fit

>>7640200
When i used to shop at UO i would be mistaken for a store employee...hahah

>>7644565
God, I have a girl on facebook from high school- who I literally never talked to even once- I have no idea why we're even friends but her display picture up until like 2 days ago was her wearing a guy fawkes mask, I cringed so hard everytime.

>>7643716
edgy

>>7639850
rafslook really well made
there's a distinct difference to nikes and rafs

>>7644130
Skinny jeans have been over since the last decade. Sorry, Slimane is lying to you.

>>7644218

>>7644839

lol bye thunder thighs

>>7644839
>being this fat

Can't see waywt on first page

>>7644839
>i wish people liked me for who i am

>>7644480

baby u had me at palladiums

howd u get so saucy tell me ur secrets

>go shopping for denim with bleb friend
>end up at showroom in toronto
>he gets a pair of n&f off the shelf
>i dont really follow the brand so ask the dude working there if all the n&f denim is unsanforized
>he doesnt know what unsanforized means
>ask him if theyre raw denim
>he doesnt know what raw denim is and he works at a fucking shop that only sells jeans
>friend wants to buy the jeans without trying them on
>had to argue with him to try them on
>comes out of room with the jeans so goddamn tight they cut circulation to his feet
>almost dropped 150 on denim he couldnt return
then
>other dude working there ask if im my bleb friends stylist
>act mad smug and feel superior to everyone else all day

>>7645015
its easy:
read what to buy on the internet
spend all your money on what the internet tells you to
have delusions of superiority

>>7642753
autism

(seriously)

>>7643927
My friends were like that for five minutes then they realized I was too good for them and they shut the fuck up

now they dress better because I made them feel bad about themselves

>>7644218
don't ever fucking mention that store again okay?

>>7642586
lol'd at this

>>7645050
especially that last line.

>>7643927
I find it hard to believe they called you a jap from the 90s for wearing streetwear. it implies they have knowledge that popular modern streetwear has its origins in japan.

sounds more like something you made up. these don't sound like "friends"

>>7644218
Rivers lol

>walk into my favorite goof/avant shop
>Owners know me, only ever bought one shirt there
>ask about the Odeur Diffusion line
>"yeah, we don't stock that, kinda too low quality for us, but there's a streetwear store in Friedrichshain that you might want to check out"
>oh god, that oh so subtle ether
>hold back tears as I walk past the beautifully crafted Obscur jackets

He may have meant it in a friendly manner, but it hurt so much due to being broke currently.
I just want to make it so I can get a decent leather in there.

> Merry Christmas and Happy New Years
> t-thanks you t-
> And thanks for shopping at <store name>
> you too

>>7645526
I actually did the you too thing a while ago
>at museum ticket counter
>girl serving me says have a nice visit
>you too
>we both start laughing
allwentbetterthanexpected.jpg

>>7640683
Maybe your "kind" should stop stealing everything.

>>7644480
Are you black?

>>7643934
top kek

>>7645526
Similar story
>go to Nike outlet to exchange some shoes
>try on shoes and make the exchange
>qt hands me the bag and wish me a good day
>smile and tell her Merry Xmas
>it's 1 week after Xmas
>realize what I just said and laugh to self but ended up being loud enough for everyone around to notice
>power walk out the store

>>7643716
is it a good place to flirt?

was at this depertment store a couple of days ago browsing in their our legacy supply, was a super qt girl there also looking at the OL stuff, kept smiling and glancing at me.

sperged out and left :-)

>>7645728
Everywhere's a good place to flirt, nigga

>>7645743
>be in mcdonalds the other day
>guy buys something and eats it
>writes number on receipt
>walks through kitchen past manager
>gives girl receipt with number on it
>everyone swooning

>>7645806
>>7645743
well I have the social skills like the average r9k user.

I've heard there are some places where you shouldn't flirt, like public transportation.

>>7645806
Dunno y but this made me cringe

>>7645806
she was probably fat and gross if she worked at maccas

>>7645817
what's wrong with public transport?
it's a nice way to get in touch with new people
i occasionally talk to people on the train
last week even some old lady gave me her whole life story lmao

>>7640526
>also shopping without friends is ideal imo,

This last time i tried shopping with a friend i almost got frustated at the shit he recommended, nigha yust wanted to stay at the river island.

>>7645817
>>7645821
>>7645825
the guy looked like an average /fit/ user, him and all his friends were there eating without shirts on, she wasn't terrible looking but a bit white trash

>>7645831
as I said this is not my strong side, but I think the reason behind it was that most people are going to their job or going home from their job so they are either in a bad mood or tired and dont want some akward autist to talk to them.

>>7645831
how do you start a conversation?

So it turns out /fa/ have zero confidence - go figure

>>7645852
Why not try with "Hello" accompanied by a smile

This isnt rocket science

>>7645859
you must be very new if you only just figured that out

>>7645862
/fa/ always talk about how they dress because it gives them confidence and blah blah

Turns out it doesnt

>>7645868
I don't think anybody has ever said that here
are you sure you're not thinking of /fit/

how do you start a conversation with a grill without appearing creepy

>>7645864
it is to people with social phobias.

>>7645869
Been here for some time, im not entirely new to /fa/ they say it a lot - but at the same time spaghetti is slowly spilling

>>7645877
Stop acting like a fucking victim of yourself, just fucking talk to other people

It really isnt that hard

>>7645852
idk it just happens
you either say hello or you comment on something
a friendly smile will get you far
>>7645846
do you want to stay an awkward autist? probly not. the more you talk to people you dont know, the better you will get at it. practice makes perfect
ofc some people will mind it but you gotta make some sacrifices m8
just start talking, be calm, friendly,
if it turns out they are not interested at all just stop talking,
simple as that
dont be afraid of strangers they have other things to worry about

Sometimes I feel like my personality doesn't match my clothes

Like i have some nice clothes, and when I see people checking what i'm wearing i feel like i am giving off a false persona because low confidence and not worth these clothes

>tfw low self esteem

>>7645890
You're fucking stupid

>>7645890
>>7645897
I know it isn't hard in theory, but when it comes down to actually do it, emotions just overtake.

you seem to think that I am not trying, I do, it is still very hard. I do talk to people I dont know once in a while, but approaching them and carry a conversation is whole other thing.

>just /.../ be calm
would be absolutely amazing if I could control that

>stop acting like a fucking victim of yourself
what, you think it is bad that if i blame my situation on myself?


sorry I should probably have kept this to myself, this discussion has no place here.

>>7644149
My roommate is sort of like this, he doesn't have the ability to empathize.But he does know what's the meaning of peoples reactions.

>>7646016
>go anywhere in full goof
>even supermarkets
>bitches miring when they think I cant c them
>instantly get helped
haven't been called out yet, even for wearing dropcrotches.

>>7639992
Asuza you lil shit, that turtle can't even turn around. WTF were you thinking in getting one? lmaooo

>>7640478
same here, i feel even weirder when i try stuff and leave without buying anything

> shopping with friend at nordstrom
> buying him a pair of shoes as a christmas/birthday present
> find qt working
> we eye fuck nd i flirt it up calmy while my friend does his goofy thing w/ the shoes
> she says shell come back w/ the shoes we need
> fuck im hungry
>tell her we have to go and we dont need the shoes

but when im alone im a pissy fuk

>>7645868
dressing good doesnt give you confidence, but it does make you look intimidating to both sexes. Being intimidating does have its good and bad though. You will have to start convos with other people becuase they will be too scared to talk to you first.

>>7646307
I've found certain people will try to fuck with you just because you're intimidating too. Especially if they're in a group. It's kind of a veiled compliment, though.

If you're wearing something interesting a lot of people will try to talk to you anyway, just because they're so awestruck and have never seen something like that and it challenges what they thought they knew.

>start buying decent clothes
>never wear them because I'm afraid I will ruin them

>>7646368
they're just clothes bro, they'll stand up to more than you think unless they're white.

>>7646061
I once saw this black guy in full goof and I thought he was so cool and I really wanted to be friends with him but approaching him would've been so gay.

:^(

#sadfeelz

>>7646435
lol. I've never seen anyone else rock goof, but I don't really get out so much. Personally, I love when people come up to talk with me, though. It's those kind of moments that are just so human and real.

>>7645517
Darklands?

>>7646450
I'll remember that the next time I see someone rocking goof.
Can't do that without having a genuine interest in fashion I think.

>>7640250
>We're all going to make it, breh

>walk into shop
>asks if i'm alright
>say i'm just browsing and want to be left alone
>leave after 10 min
>everythingwentbetterthanexpected

iono ur problemz

>>7644047
Oh yeah more layers will help.

>buying clothes for the first time in years
>outside the store
>open the door
>everybody walk the dinosuar