/fa/ - Fashion

you're gonna have to get over your social anxiety

after that, it should come naturally

>>7489600
dont think i have social anxiety. its just when i see a recording of me i look really awkward...and ugly..

>>7489605

that's how a lot of people feel, don't really sweat it. just don't get caught up in the moment, tbh

>>7489591
If you are not good at talking, you're fucked.

You only get better the more you talk to different and more people.

Ever notice how you may speak a certain way in front of family but not strangers? Every time you talk to a stranger it's like you reset your speaking pattern because you are free from conditioned muscle responses.

Every new person you meet is a chance to exercise speaking.
Watch movies and mimic accents for fun.
I do it and even though they sound cheesy, women love it. They think its charming.

Let me tell you something talking is the key to so many things in life. Women, getting what you want, defusing a situation, coming off as interesting, etc.

Another key concept is to be short and sweet. Drop the adjectives and say only the crucial details. Also please don't drag on, get your point across and fast.

You want to be the 30 second commercial, not the home shopping channel.

>>7489605
Don't worry about things like that, just forget about them.

Ignorance is bliss and that's not always a bad thing. Sometimes it's just what you need.

For example today this friend gave me "advice" on a girl I'm seeing.

" don't be quick to fall in love, if some guy comes by and sweeps her off her feet she'll leave you in a snap"

Now I could take this and fantasize about it and run with it like 4channers tend to do, but I don't.

What do it do? I realize that /I/ am the person who sweeps her off her feet. /I/ am the one who knocks (lol)

And then just forget about it.

Buddhism: "nothingness is the salvation of the soul"

>>7489620
If you want a good environment for this, consider a job like a waiter or customer service

I am assuming you are young

what brand of cigarette should I smoke? I'd like to have a pack of cigarettes for parties but I've never smoked so I don't know which brand of cigarettes is best or most effay

>inb4 cigarettes are bad for you

>>7489650
I smoke dunhill lights. theyre almost the same as marlborros

>>7489591
lol.
benzo lol

>>7489591
Holy shit dude. Just talk normally

>>7489650
Dunhill or marlboro. I do the pack of cigarettes for parties thing too. I don't really smoke when I'm sober (unless one is offered to me)

>>7489650
Camel rollies.