/fa/ - Fashion

iktf

>trying to sleep but your stomach hurts from thinking about her

I used to get that all the time
Now whenever I think about shit like that I just shrug it off
Regret nothing anon
Stay strong <3

>>6906976
daaamn
I don't want to remember that feel

> speaking to others
must feel good, OP

>>6906991
>>6906976

there's no escape

i did this like 3 minutes ago fuck

I know this feel too often. Am I the only one who gets these somekind of fully automatic tics like sounds, gestures or something when thinking something really embarrasing?

>>6906949
iktf

wait wat dos this have to do with fasion

>>6907019
autism

god i hope nobody remembers

>>6907045
they do and they are laughing at you when you're not there

>tfw you go back through your life and think of all the things you'd do differently if you had a time machine
>tfw you think of things you'd tell your younger self

>>6907084
>tfw you think of things you'd tell your younger self

I've thought about that too many times. Why can't I just let the past go?

>>6907016
I do too. I usually scrunch up my face or make a noise like "ugh" and then curse at myself.

I have so many of these fucking moments, that I can pick out some that are actually related to /fa/:

>i was 13 years old
>in the classroom, a girl said that she liked the t-shirt that i brought to wear for gym class
>i thought i was being cool and smooth, so i said "why don't we wear each other's shirts in gym today?"
>she says ok, and we trade shirts
>fast forward to gym class
>i put on her shirt in the locker room and realize immediately that this was a bad decision
>the t-shirt, itself, didn't have a "girly" design or anything. it was just waaay too fucking small
>the sleeves barely covered my shoulders. the waistband of my shorts was fully exposed. if i turned even slightly, my midriff was completely visible. and it was skintight.
>but what makes it truly cringe-inducing is the fact that i had no confidence and no sense of humor
>people were calling me "fag" and openly laughing to my face, and i would just turn away and try to act like i couldn't hear them

i was a strange kid

>>6907084
>>6907114
i know those feels, if only i could somehow give my younger self the mind i currently possess

>>6907130
fucking hell man

>>6906976
only my heart hurts when i think of her...

>tfw you're trying to sleep but you're having this fantasy about an alternative reality where you are either much better or much more miserable than right now.

>think about all the people ive known
>thinking if they are thinking about me too
>they dont even remember my name
that feel...

>finally stop caring about tfw no gf
>can finally just live my life and do stuff without worrying about what she thinks all the time
>all my best friends start getting gfs
>none of them ever have time to hang out or do anything because they all have gfs
>pics of them and their gfs popping up on facebook all the time

>visit my grandma 4 times a week
>she thinks im a normal person with a lot of friends
>says i should get a gf everytime i go there
granda why

>>6907198
>having facebook
just close it bro, its not like people talk you anyways

>>6907183
;_;

>go to get suit tailored
>spill my spaghetti around the gay tailor

> checking facebook
> see pics of friends/acquaintances at parties socializing
> guy friends/acquaintances with qt3.14s in every pic
> tfw im sitting home masturbating

>tfw no girls seem to be interested in me except for average looking shy ones
i don't know why that is because girls that are like 5 years older(i'm 20) flirt with me all the time

>>6907271
women that old usually want dick
they dont play games like 15 years old
you can easily text her
wanna go to a love hotel
and they'll probably go
you can always
tell her it was a joke and carry on

>>6907285
give me some advice pls

>>6907214
agree, i delete mine and never regretted it. but the girl I want doesn't even have one anyway.

haven't eaten today because of that sick to stomach feel

>>6907269

Just about sums up my college "experience"

>fapping to the facebook pics of a girls that friendzoned you
>get horny when near her/be able to smell her
>fap without her knowing
feels gudeman

>>6907292
just go and talk to her anon
introduce yourself
try to find something you have in common
as long as you mention subjects
that normal people usually talk about
you'll be more than fine
even if the conversation was about something retarded
you'll add points because
you talked to her
and you already have positive points
because she was flirting with you
just talk to her anon
its all about practice

>>6907130
I'm just going to keep writing because I have nothing else to do, and someone is probably enjoying this. Feel free to post your own.

>be 14
>see a pair of expensive Nike shoes in a store at an amazing discount
>they're two sizes too big (i wore a size 9 and the shoes were a size 11)
>"yeah, it'll be ok"
>wear them for about two weeks. my feet slide around in them a lot, but otherwise they're ok
>one day, a girl literally says "why do your shoes curl up in the front so much? are they too big?"
>"u-uh, n-no, i don't know w-why..."
>from that point on, i was constantly self-conscious about those shoes
>i washed them and put them in the dryer thinking that they would shrink
>i stuffed paper in the toe area to get them to look "fuller"
>i started walking funny so that they didn't flop as much
>this went on for maybe a month or so
>eventually i stopped wearing them

the part that's so embarrassing is how stressed out i was over these shoes. i spent HOURS worrying about how they looked and what people might say about them. and the fact that i KNEW that they looked bad, but i kept wearing them, even though they were pretty cheap since i got them at a major discount

>>6907327
>try to find something you have in common
girls my age are boring as fuck
>why am i so much better than everyone else?

>>6907335
how do you expect to get to a gf then
if you think you are better
than everybody

>>6907335
we all know that feel

i only ever met one girl who wasnt inane as fuck
>tfw she was one of 3 people including myself who used a proper OS on an IT course

>>6907338
i don't even want one tbh
if there was a girl i'm actually interested in i could get her
i'm kind of forced to like a random girl because it's expected from me

>>6907311
And I'm only in HS. Guess I have more feels to look forward to.

>>6907353
you aren't forced to do anything anon
you are free
the worlds belongs to you
and nobody else
do whatever you feel is right
don't listen to nobody
not even me
the only thing that matters
is you
because after you die
this world will die
dont give a shit people want you to do
do what you feel

>>6907377
>tfw i don't even know what to feel anymore
i just want to be dead and stop caring about this world and the universe around it. there is nothing i want to achieve in the future. i can just hope to die in an accident sometime soon

>tfw you can't share your feels with /fa/ because you'll get driven out of the thread and ostracised

>>6907394
this world is too beautiful
to killyourself anon
in order to find happiness
you need to detach yourself
from traditional values
(no job=no future
no goods=no happyness
no gf= no joy)
and find something
worth living for
look at the stars anon
what are they, nothing but fire
something you can find in your pocket
but yet something so simple as it
makes such a beautiful and marvelous
spectacle for you to contemplate
find something worth living for
be it a sick fit or traveling or knowing a lot of people

>>6907296
>haven't eaten today because of that sick to stomach feel

same here man. met her last week in university and we had hour long conversations and everything.
Haven't been able to eat much because thinking about her makes me feel sick in the stomach.
It's kind of a great feel but it's very exhausting.

Can't wait to see her next week.

>>6907414
tell us bro
no judging

>>6907419
also, you'll always have us anon
we are here for you
for ever

>>6907414
we're here for you bro

>>6907419
i have a job and enough money. i don't even want to be happy anymore. my problem is not anhedonia. it's hating life even at good times

>>6907419
u
r
a
feget

>>6907327
how do you flirt and not just have a regular convo?

>>6907324
you definitely have a form of autism

>>6907445
are you enjoying
your work anon?
probably your life isn't as good
as you think it is
having a job doesnt mean
life is great
neither does money
>>6907466
i never flirt with them
just talk
she will know you are into her
man i dont even tell girls
they are cute
and even if i do
i tell her its not a compliment
because her mom and dad
did all the work

>>6907419
The way you type is extremely annoying and I hate you.

>>6907422
>>6907436
>tfw a very emotionally demanding person
>tfw you have a qt gf, but no idea how she can possibly love someone as problematic as me

I always get sad or mad at her for some inane reason, and then feel bad about it and apologise way too much. Afterwards I can't help but feel like she deserves better.

>>6907484
stop typing like this you autist

>>6907466
i think the difference would be in eye contact and subject matter.
flirting would not involve a serious conversation. it's simple "mindless" and funny comments, while you try to escalate it and get her info.

>>6907492
how do i physically escalate without it seeming contrived or shit?

like people are like "touch her arm' or some shit and like people dont just touch people when they talk

>>6907490
explain your feelings to her. Most relationships fall apart because of a lack of communication.

>>6907490
>Afterwards I can't help but feel like she deserves better.
give her something back by being a better yourself

>>6907502
just sit close to her anon its not that hard
if a grill sees you
and you see her
and then talk to her she will know

>>6907517
what do i talk about?

>>6907502
fuckin hell mayne.
if you're thinking this much then it's definitely gonna look false.

>>6907269
why do you make me feel this anon. my sunday morning was off to such a great start

>>6907528
your smegma and booger collections and the time you saw a pigeon get run over by a car and how you laughed so hard your momma slapped you and you got a trouser hard on

i went on this retreat with my school and i ended up getting in front of my classmates and crying and telling them that i tried to commit suicide.

i've never tried to commit suicide but i've wanted to.

>>6907528
ANYTHING!
a book, the weather, music
where she is from
where is she going
is she going to college
how old is she
going back from work?
you smell nice

>>6907548
if you want to kill yourself why would you tell others who will probably stop you? are you retarded?

>>6907490
you are gonna fail with that attitude.
well, your going to fail with her anyway, and it's because of that attitude you've already established.

don't feel bad it was destined to fall apart from the start, but here are some things to consider for the future.

you get mad at her for dumb reasons because you place to much of an importance on her, and you aren't self confident enough to know that her actions and thought process will hardly affect you.
i've been there too, where i would get mad at my GF over dumb shit like the shows she was watching, the websites she was on, even her dumb beliefs, but now i know that was my own weakness.

you also should stop apologizing, because it's also weak.
if you really fuck up, maybe you should apologize, but otherwise don't.
"apologize" with actions, most importantly the action of finding your self confidence and not doing it again.

it all comes down to you being a man.
girls are the ones who act off emotion a lot. they are the ones who should be apologizing to you.
this is somewhat controversial i'm sure, but you apologizing for so many little things is lowering yourself to her. it makes you seem weak, and makes your lack of confidence very noticeable.

i'm sure you'll disagree, and i can't explain it very well, but i'm right about this.
the minute you stand up, gain some confidence and LEAD your relationship like a man, the minute you will have a much stronger relationship.

it's most likely too late with this girl, and i'm sure you're too weak to accept that and do the right thing, but it's still worth saying.

>>6907558
but then i will be boring

>>6907566
wow why dont you killyourself already anon
u ask waht to talk about
then i tell u
and u say wtf man ur boring

>>6907507
Will do.
>>6907506
At least I have this down. I'm very bad at hiding my emotions/feelings, so I do explain myself afterwards. It's funny that she is way more pragmatic than me considering relationship stuff – it's usually the opposite, gender-wise.

>>6907584
>It's funny that she is way more pragmatic than me considering relationship stuff – it's usually the opposite, gender-wise.

That's not necessarily a bad thing. That's pretty much the relationship my parents have.

I wish you the best of luck anon.

>>6907317
>be qt3.14
>friendzone loser that only wears blacks and grays
>he still hangs around and me and smells me
>mfe he thinks I can't tell that he faps to me

>>6907584
that's because you're a little bitch fuccboi

>>6907528
the easiest thing for me is to find something nearby and ask her about it.

i was in line at a Verizon store and an incredibly hot girl came in. she was really attractive to me, and judging by her eyes it was clear she was somewhat interested in me, but i couldn't think of how to open up a conversation.
so she's sitting there quiet, i'm standing there quiet.
the only thing to look at is the verizon commercials playing on loop on the TV.
i see her looking at them too so i say "this is my favorite show but i've already seen it"
and then we started talking.

it helps to talk to other people first, just so she's that you're social and interesting, girls like that.

she mentioned being sad the ice cream place was closed next door because it was her day off.
i used that and said "i know a good ice cream place just up the street, lets go as soon as my phone gets fixed"

there you go.

>>6907602
>friendzone loser that only wears blacks
my heart stopped for a second

>balding
>acne
>manlet

I FUCKING HATE MY LIFEEEEE

I try not to think about it and just focus on studies and work but I keep having these depressing dreams about gf's and love and shits really fucking with my brain, man

>>6907616
hang in there anon. good times are bound to happen if you put a bit of effort into it

>>6907609
and oh yea, a huge point to this story is to show how easy it CAN be to start up a conversation.
if she would have given me some cold response, that would have been the end of it right there.

don't expect a girl to fall in love with just by saying some dumb sentence, but that sentence is all you need to tell if she's interested in you.
her response will make it clear whether she wants to keep talking or not.

>>6907639
give us more just like girl advice

its much needed here

>>6907609
autism

>>6907639
how do you get it into your head that its just a random hoe and if she gives you the cold shoulder that its no big deal?

I know its all in my head but I choke up and get the whole "plz don't laugh oh god shes gunna talk to her friends about me and call me a loser" businses

>>6907658
SHE KNOWS

>>6907622
Mine too, and I wrote the damn post.

>tfw working on self improvement only to scorn those who have wronged you in the past

>>6907654
hahaha anon
after a while the feeling goes
its like riding a bike
first u dont want to do it because u'd look like an idiot if u fall
but then you get used to it
and do it to impress girls who pass by

>>6907564
I don't disagree, I know what I'm doing wrong. But your experience seems to be even more severe than mine, and I know this sounds like damage control, but even if it's bad, it's not as bad as you make it seem. This is what I try to believe, at least – and thanks for the reply, man.

>>6907664
Does she though?

>>6907673
probably doesnt
i know a girl who masturbated to me
because she told me
if she didn't i'd not have tought of it

>>6907654
that's the hard part, and it does suck times but the more you do it the better you will be.

she IS just a random, she isn't anything special.
you are judging her off what? her appearance?
how she WANTS you to see her, not for who she actually is.

you have no idea what she's really like.
you have no clue how many guys shot cum loads into her asshole.

if you're really having a hard time, just go out and talk to some girl you find attractive. don't try hitting on her. just try talking to her.
tell her you like her shirt or whatever. you aren't hitting on her so it doesn't even matter what you say.

you may feel like a completely awkward autist after, but you TRIED and you will get better each time.
the only way to fail is to not even try.

trying does not mean, "i followed her around the store secrety, but couldn't think of anything to say, so i didn't say anything and left."

trying is "i couldn't think of anything to say so i ended up just saying __________ and then left."

>>6907680
did you fuck her?

>>6907639
That's bs though. I met some girl last week and she seemed extremely interested, she said we should hangout, I asked for her number and then she texted me the next day. The conversation continued with her asking me what I had done, i told her and then asked her what she had done. No response, so I texted once more a few days later and had no response. Fucking bitches, if she wasn't interested then why be the one to initiate so much.
Similarly, 3 weeks ago or something, I met some girl at a bar. Neither of us were drunk, she told me to come dance and had her hands all over me, ended up making out. We were leaving and she already had said I could'nt come home because her friend was staying. I didn't particularly care, she wasn't that hot and was fairly boring. She insisted on getting my facebook because her phone was broken, so she logged into her account on my phone and added me. When I got home I had some huge message about how she should'nt have led me on blah blah blah. Holy fuck, you stupid bitch I didn't even want your number or facebook. You fucking insisted.

>>6907695
i dont want to talk about her anon
but no

>>6907698
why the fuck not? a wet dick is better than a dry one no matter how fat she is. she probably wasn't that ugly

>>6907696
>tfw I can't do this because I live in a town small enough that everyone knows everyone

Kill me

>>6907706
she was really cute
but we were from 2 different worlds
this is a pic of her

>tfw just got to uni
>flatmates seem alright, a bit bro-y but nice enough
>dress like shit though
>go to the club at the union
>it's kinda shit, the music sucks and everything is sticky
>walking back
>spot a guy dressed in a decent enough basic bitch outfit; ocbd with the sleeves rolled up, skinny jeans, nice trainers
>flatmate: "i don't get people who dress up like that for a night out. i hate people who look like they're wearing a fucking costume."
welp

>>6907729
4.5/10 would not bang

>>6907729
would do kinky shit with
you're a faggot for not tapping that

>>6907745
yeah man well she was like 13 years old and i was 18
she is better now

>>6907697
you are describing pretty typical scenarios.
girls use guys for attention all the time, sometimes subconsciously, sometimes on purpose.

i would bet that YOU fucked up in your text messages or something. you may have had a chance, and had you would've texted the right way who knows?

you could have turned her off in your texts. it's a lot easier than you think.

my point was how to start a conversation and see if she's interested.
interest isn't a yes/no. it's more like a percentage.
if she is slightly interested in you, that's interest but you most likely have to BUILD her interest level on top of that.

if she's a little interested it's easy to make her less interested, or more interested.

>>6907745
yeah dude come on

>>6907729
I kno wuyumean, fucking hate piercings and tats
but
You should've fapped toghether at least fuccboi

>>6907752
oh dude well thats some important info to leave out. definitely no hit

>>6907680
if you are reasonably attractive and go out in public, chances are someone somewhere has masturbated thinking of you

>>6907749
Nope, I made her laugh in person and in texts she was being very interested with long responses and questions etc.

>tfw your roommate makes fun of your clothing
>he wears cargo shorts and waffle knits

>>6907788
whereas you wear "regular fit" chinos and "regular fit" short sleeved button ups with dorky shoes. Am I right or am I right? #'dadcore2k13

>>6907783
like i said, who knows?
don't let that experience hold you back, learn from it.

understand that words mean NOTHING, only actions.
and "action" would mean getting her on a date with you ASAP.
all that texting is not needed.

if you want you could post up the conversation, starting at the first text and i could see what i think.

>>6906976
I dont want them feels

>>6907797
Lol I deleted the conversation. Can I just say that everyone I've ever met from Toronto is fucking crazy or generally unpleasant? Ok I said it. That place is a fucking shithole so it's unsurprising.
Vancouver bitches all the way.

>>6907810
apart from the feminazi hipsters and chinks and swagapinos with their flat noses and ugly faces

>>6907783
but really, if you think that is abnormal girl behavior you are just flat out wrong.

don't take the fact she is letting you give her attention as a sign of interest.

it seems that the MORE you text a girl the harder it is to get her out with you, and fuck.

you have to always be just a little out of her reach so you seem like something she has to work for.

>>6907810
from now on, don't text so much. send a few texts, set up a date and GTFO.
it may seem wrong, but trust me, it's the best and right way if you care about your feelings.

a woman can lead you on until she dies, it's just how they are.

>>6907808
laughed so hard

>>6907829
>from now on, don't text so much. send a few texts, set up a date and GTFO
good advice actually

>>6907183
s-stop

>>6906949
>tfw 5'10 a coupe months ago
>tfw now 5'11


one more inch to go, i hope i make it.

>>6907865
swim mother fucker, swim!

>>6907873
we're all gonna make it

>>6907865
king of the manlets

>>6906949
>tfw you're trying to sleep but then you think about that one time where you said something really stupid that you're now embarrassed about

I used to do this a lot anons, I can tell you it's a symptom of depression.

Take it from someone who spent years taking meds and in therapy.

Now I'm happy and I never have these kind of thoughts anymore.

>>6907865
>tfw i have a friend that is 6' 120lb @ 16 yr/old

im so jelly of his saint laurent legs

>>6907919
I have this all the time and I don't think I'm depressive.
I'd rather say it's a symptom of social anxiety disorder. Depression is often related to that though.

>>6907838
i've dumped screen caps of my own texts with girls showing that it works, and it's actually a really important thing to consider.

it seems natural for guys to want to be friends with a girl before dating her, but that's backwards.

girls like mystery, for a lot of reasons and texting them a bunch kills the illusion.
plus, the least you say, the less chances you have of saying something stupid.

>>6907666
>tfw near the end of my self improvement stage
>became healthier, got well paid job, learnt to be /fa/, put on muscle, have qt gf
>haven't seen all my old friends who used to judge me for nearly 2 years

Soon it will be time to unveil my splendour on them and then never speak to them again.

So close.

>>6907919


I would only hang out with the indian kid in the middle.

>try talking to qt at party
>compliment her too much, she leaves
>tfw

>>6907796
i dont have short sleeve button ups or dorky shoes.

what amsum clothes do you wear to ur high school?

>up late debating whether or not I can pull off a certain fit

>>6908104
just do it nigga, i believe

>>6908100
>hi
>>hey
>you're very pretty
>>thank-
>like I'd totally fuck you
>>...
>in the good way
>pls respond

>>6908172
k-k-kek
;_;

>hi
>>hi
>i like your shirt.
>and your hair
>>ok
>>leaves

>remembering those painful sexual escapades of your childhood before you even hit puberty that usually involved that one cousin or some younger female family friends

>>6907919
fookin englund

>tfw 8/10 qt at a class sending you signals all the same
>sitting next to you
>greeting whether we crossed paths
>throwing you smiles whether possible
>all this despite never talking
>she's way out of my league, surely she must be making fun of me, i don't have the confidence to talk to her, she'd never to be with me etc etc
>semester ends, never made a move
>find out she got a bf later on who looks like me, except he's a skaterfag and even less attractive
>tfw no gf

She was probably the qtest girl to had any interest in me and I let the opportunity go. She was also pretty /fa/.

>blue eyes
>dark blonde
>got those Zooey Deschanel bangs going
>slight freckles
>always contributed smart insights during class

sigh

>tfw finally told my feelings to a girl I've liked for a while
>tfw she feels the same way

>I still don't know what to do
>Trying to not come off as desperate

Fuck talking to girls is hard.

>>6908420
that's why you don't tell your feelings to a girl.

are you in 9th grade?
seriously.

don't tell a girl how you feel about her, ACT on your feelings.
never reveal your hand, keep your cards close to your chest.

>talk to qt in class lots
>she constantly mirin my fits
>catch her staring at me
>find out she has a pleb bf

what do i do now, /fa/?

>>6908437
what if a girl kind of likes this other guy?

should i still try to get her?

>>6908447
nope

>>6908420
What is the problem? I really don't get it. Just ask her to meet up somewhere and flirt around a bit and then ask her to your place or something and fuck. Or don't, depending how she likes it.

>>6908447
no

>>6908466
>>6908469
why not?

like she kind of likes him, but said depending she was still open and i dont know him

>>6908484
she's keeping her options open so she clearly doesn't like you that much. Are you 14?

>>6906976
>tfw she's long gone and I haven't found anyone who makes me feel the same way

>>6908496
hasnt even met you? internet based meeting?hahahaahahah no

>>6908493
no she hasnt really met me.

she kind of likes this OTHER guy

when you tell a girl you like her it takes away the challenge that females unknowingly crave. you decrease your value by showing her that she doesn't have to work for you.
this isn't something she may be consciously aware of, but it happens. it's the whole "want what you can't have" thing.

what a girl wants from a relationship is different from what a guy wants. a guy wants sex, a girl wants attention, nourishment and attention. you saying you like her gives her that nourishment, but it also shows that you are fine with a one sided bargain. she doesn't have to work or earn that nourishment, so why should she?
i'm not saying you'll never fuck her now, but you are on your way to the "lets just be friends" zone.

i kept this post as politically correct as possible, since you are probably too sensitive to grasp the concept of being a man in relation to fucking girls.

if you have questions i can try to clear them up.

>>6908447
yea, why not?
don't mention the other guy to her either, just get her first.
women are hypergamous by nature, so they are always looking for the better option.

>>6908484
wait, no. that changes everything.
i'm trying to be cool, but i truly hope you are still in highschool, because you are acting like a highschooler.
her ADMITTING that she is interested in someone else over you tells you more than enough.
do you want to be a side option, or do you want to be her ONLY option? that's disrespectful to you, man.

but maybe she is really just waiting for a man to make the move, so you should still go for it.
i wouldn't, personally, but whatever.

>>6907706
" wet dick is better than a dry one no matter how fat she is"

False

>>6908532
how am i acting like a highschooler?

>>6908532
>i wouldn't, personally
and i say i wouldn't because by this point i would have cut my loses and walked it off.

desperation is NEVER the way to win someones heart, especially a girl because a girl needs to feel like her man is worth something.
a girl likes it when her man has options.

you need to stop putting so much energy and thought into a girl who doesn't even know you, man.
you want to get to know her? ask her out right away. done.

you've probably been chattin it up, becoming her best friend, and you've built up all these feelings that she'll never share.

>>6908548
because in high school relationships seem to all start:
"hey i like you. do you like me?"
"yea XD"
"cool lets go out"

and then you have a GF.

IRL that is nowhere near how it goes, even if you really want it to be that way.

sitting around saying "i love you. you're perfect. you're pretty in every way" is how you LOSE a woman's respect.

>>6908569
but if you are dating you should say that shit right?

like please give me the full on non "correct" idea about how shit should be done

>>6908575
not really.
why do you think you should constantly tell a girl you think she's pretty and perfect?

what benefit does that have?

yes, i am asking you.

>tfw gf
>tfw self-sabotaging my relationships by picking apart her flaws and letting them get to me because I'm afraid of commitment


Why do I keep doing this to myself, WHY

>>6908626
Youre insecure

Duh

>>6907865
how old are you ;_;
give me hope

>>6908575
Just don't say anything explicit that clearly says that you are sexually interested.
Just imply things. Play around, say flirty stuff, compliment her (but never completely serious, always jokingly so that she still asks herself "Does he really think that or was it a joke?"), but say also stuff that implies that she's not the center of your life, when you're planning a meet up, don't take the first occasion, and hell don't tell her "I've got nothing to do, I'm basically free all the time". You are busy and you are going to tell her that every now and then. Fantasy can be important here. You do that until you fuck regularly. Then you can start the whole bullshit when you feel like it.

>>6908633
I know that, I just put on a cover of confidence and narcissism so no one will see how insecure I am... or maybe thats what i tell myself because beyond the clothes and the confidence, I'm just a shallow, boring person


;~;

>>6908648
Its becuase your clothes arent fresh enough

Spend more

>>6908626
>>6908648

read this:
>>6907564

and you SHOULD be afraid of commitment.
why do you want a GF?

>>6908223
heh so weird to think about prepubescent sexual thoughts and fantasies

>>6908645
yea but over complimenting a girl is the quickest way for her to lose respect for you.

only compliment when she deserves it.
don't be gay and say "she always deserves it" because that's stupid.

if she is wearing something you think is sexy, tell her. if you like how she did her hair, tell her.

if it's just normal, don't compliment it.
she'll know when you are telling the truth, and she'll be turned on by it.

that's the difference between complimenting her occasionally, vs all the time.
all the time loses it's meaning and she begins to resent you for it, but when the compliment is rare it makes her excited and it makes her want to continue to impress you.

Ok, look. From a girls point of view, you just need to treat her like a person. Unless you want some airhead bimbo, if you treat her like she's made of glass she won't be interested. Just treat her like a person, talk to her like you would a friend. If she is worth being with, you won't have to jump through hoops to get her to like you. Side note, friend zoning is ust our nice way of saying 'no thanks'. Would you rather we say that 'you're like a brother' or 'fuck off'? Just be kind and any normal girl will like you :3

I just want to give all of you a hug

>>6908893
I imagine you as a slightly obese girl who tries to be hipster but is just annoying and friends with a lot of guys because girls don't like you

>>6908902
5'8 103 lbs. Slightly off. But I can tell you that if you've ever had girl problems, that's why. I'm trying to fucking help you don't have to be a little bitch about it.

>>6908893
being nice won't get guys laid.
they think it does, but it doesn't.

i can explain why, but not to you since you wouldn't understand as evident by your post.

nobody is saying to not be nice to girls but you are dead wrong when you say
>Just be kind and any normal girl will like you :3

>>6908916
Try to be something you're not and the girl will smell it from a mile away.

>>6908893
>I just want to give all of you a hug

5/10

Needed an emoticon on the end.

>>6908923
That's why you have to become a bastard and treat girls like shit.

>>6908923
when did i say to act like someone you aren't?

but also, it's easy to make girls believe you are something you aren't. they tend to believe what they want.

and i hope you don't think i'm arguing with you.
i don't argue with grills since it's a pointless endeavor.

>>6908902
>>6908916
>>6908931
I was just trying to fucking help. Have you ever wondered if that bitterness is why you have girl problems?

>>6908942
I don't have girl problems. I hook up with girls and leave it at that. I've never met a girl who I want to be in a relationship with and I'm fine with that.

>>6908923
>Try to be something you're not and the girl will smell it from a mile away.

thats so untrue lmfao

u can make up the stupidest shit and ppl will still believe it, how i met your mother shit

>>6908942
if we were trying to find some self absorbed bitch to spend hundreds on and have to date for 6 months before she puts out wed take your advice

rather just rail some bimbo airhead tbh

>>6907016
holy shit yes

>tfw long distance relationship
>chainsmoke and drink until death

>>6908964
theres a saying in spanish that goes "long distance relationship, happy the 4 of you"

>>6908964
end it.

>inb4: but i love her.

>>6908970
you engrish fail at sense making u write brokern engrish chinee manual spic boi?

>be 13 or so
>first day of 8th grade
>getting ready for school
>try wearing new cologne mom got for me
>it smells like peppery shit
>get super self conscience
>'i can't wear dis'
>try putting on old cologne to cover up smell
>go to school
>walk in to first class of the day
>qt new gril walks past me before we sit down
>'eww whats that smell? it's like burnt pepper'
>say nothing
>cheeks now tomatos
>dead inside
>mfw

>>6908964
LDR can work anon, believe in yourself.

I met my wife on /b/ and she moved to England to be with me after a couple of years.

>>6908982
easy for you to say

>>6908983
I was just translating it directly, didnt want to make it longer than one sentence.
You know what it means tho so dont get butthurt

>>6908970
why are mexican bitches so loose?

>>6909004
it's actually hard for me to say, because i hate thinking that you won't do it.
i've been there myself.

not long distance, but i've had to break up with someone i loved.
i can only imagine what an LDR would be like personally, but i also know enough about relationships, girls (especially in their early 20s) and statistics, to know that you are up against huge odds.

i'm not gonna try to convince you or anything.
if you have questions, ask, but deep down you know your gut is telling you the truth.

>>6908373
>>6908420
>>6908504
I feel like Scrooge being visited by the Ghost of Feels Past.

I'm not even sure I want to pursue relationships anymore, I'm finding it very hard to justify them.

>>6909028
is that why you're chasing after haggard bitches and white knighting them?

huh? "player"

>>6909027
dont know bro, you'll have to ask a mexican.

>>6909052
why are viet's worse smelling than koreans, chinx, thais, or ming chungs?

>>6907666

I know this feel all too well. Also related to self-improvement:

>tfw you struggle with your last rep and that specific memory pops up and you are able to pull your sgit together

Feels ambivalent, man.

when i was 17, i had sex with my best friend's girl friends mother and i still have nightmares about it

/dead serious

>>6909056
dont know bro, you will have to ask a vietnamese person about that.

Why so salty today, bb?

>>6909043
what?

PS are you gonna post the pic of you and your oneitis GF, or am I?

>>6909027
When they're growing up, they get treated like princesses and locked up until they turn 15. Having been sexually and emotionally repressed most of their lives, they use the new freedom to its limit. It usually ends with them being pregnant, or continuing having an extreme craving for dick. Then they swell up like balloons. After being around Mexican women all my life, I pity the men that get stuck with them.

>>6909060
why nightmares

would you like to talk about it sieg

when i was 17 i started hooking up with my gfs close friend and then a days after we broke up with this girl she kinda hated

i got a nightmares about it sometimes but i still wake up with a boner :x

>tfw 2/10 grills constantly hit on you
>tfw high standards thanks to constantly looking at models

a-alpha as fuck

>>6909080
well it was more of a rape that i didn't stop, she wasn't attractive, but when you're 17 and this 300lbs bitch is holding you down with a pillow on your face stroking your dick, then climbing on your and riding, while forcing you down

you kind of get hard

>tfw still afraid of making friends
>tfw developed fat fetish
>tfw like being dominated by women in bed

>>6909103
omg that sounds terrible

im glad that u managed to survive that ordeal sieg u so strong it could've been worse u know

>>6909227
hes not the real sieg i hope you know this

>>6909237
lol yea i do

>tfw fucking your ex behind her new boyfriend's back
>tfw convince ex to force him into an open relationship
>tfw don't know what to think

>also tfw out of smokes