/fa/ - Fashion

>>6394051
Well, sugar, we're...fuck buddies!

Captcha: started EPPerce

>>6394056
I feel like that answer would lead to her vagina no longer being as receptive to my penis.

And honestly, I'd still kick it with her if we didn't fuck. But I really like to fuck and I'd like to keep doing that. But she's getting all emotional and shit and calling me sweeting and shit. Even when I fuck her in really degrading fashions.

just say yes.

If she wants to date let her know you're not going to be exclusive. or lie, lying is ok if you don't blab, wrap it and get checked regularly.

>>6394073

is she seeing anyone else?

Is the qasa going to be in any size bigger than 10?

>>6394073

Just tell her that. I mean, not in those exact words, but yeah. Say something like you don't want anything serious right now, and if shit changes one way or the other you'll have options open to you.

>>6394051

this is why i don't have sex outside of relationships. 2muchdrama4me.

>>6394101
No. She used to have a lot of sex apparently but hasn't fucked anyone since me. That's according to her. I don't care either way.

>>6394076
I lie a lot. But not to fuck.

>>6394103
Yes

>>6394120
IDK breh. I'm exploring alternatives. I've fucked up this question before by just saying, "I like to fuck you and you don't suck to be around."

>>6394131
Dude, it's hardly drama. I care very little. And I get to fuck random girls and sometimes they do my laundry and cook me food. And all I have to do is say funny shit sometimes and know how a phone and a dick work.

>>6394135
tell her not to worry about it then kiss her or something

>>6394120

>Say something like you don't want anything serious right now

no, because she'll date the next person she fucks and you don't want that either. Like i said, before all this fb shit started it was perfectly fine to date multiple people and long as everyone knows you're not exclusive.

And if you don't have any other females demanding your attention right at this moment it doesn't make sense not to casually date her.

Or, like i also said before, you can always lie. As long as you're not passing diseases they'll forgive you when they eventually find out.

Who knows, maybe you'll like dating this girl and make it a long term thing. stranger shit has happened.

>>6394051
Ohhh, Friends With Benefits! Yeah, just say you wanna be friends with benefits. Easy peasy, son. But put emphasis on friends, since you seem to like her as a person, too.

>>6394144
I said some shit like that. But the question will be back. And if not from her, then from some other chick who has a nice butt and a comfy couch.

>>6394151
I don't have a facebook.

Turn the tables, what do you want us to be? And then after she defines. You can either say I'm okay with that and mean it OR you can be a voracious cunt and say I'm okay with that and not mean it.


Choose wisely.
It's the cunt one btw

>>6394051
wow u have girl who like u dont fuck it up i have autism and my life is horribl

>>6394162

>I don't have a facebook
>I don't have a problem with lying

then what the problem?

>>6394151
I just don't want a relationship. Don't know why. I really like my own company. I spend lots of time at work, lots of time trading, and lots of time reading. I just like to fuck and drink and shit too. So chicks think I'm cool. But I'm just a weird introvert and they'll find that out if they date me.

And then I have no sex at all. And fuck that shit. I lost all my porn on my old laptop.

I mean, I have an external HD now, so the problem could be hedged against. But fuck it.

>>6394180
I don't want to be in a relationship? I want to just come over, fuck, watch a movie, eat some food, and leave.

>>6394189

That's what a relationship IS, dummy.

>>6394220
Alright, to me, it means that I have a serious thing for the person. Like a thing you can't put your finger on.

This girl's cool. All the girls I fuck buddy are cool. Like, I'd help her out if it wasn't too inconvenient. I'd loan her some money or whatever. We can go to a movie or to run some errands. And I like to fuck her. But I would not like move states for her. I wouldn't go TOO far out of my way to help with anything.

She's just a decently-goof friend I like to fuck.

>>6394141

sorry, I guess I used the wrong words

I just don't really like getting myself involved in situations where one person or both is unsure of what's going on

this could also be me projecting, because I still refer to my relationship as "this situation" and don't really refer to the other person by any name other than just talking in their general direction

b sure 2 stay std-free doe, bro.

>>6394247
>>OP's FWB is goof
>>mfw no goof fwb

>>6394279
Oh trust me, that shit worries me. I've had two scares now. All clean though and I wrap it up. I'll probably catch something at SOME point. But I'm very confident that we'll have a cure to any STD within 20 years.

>>6394247

nigger, you're asking me how to maintain multiple women, and im telling you how. you cannot do this and not lie to them.

Also, you're developing feelings for the bitch? the fuck is wrong with you nigga, if you're going to use women for their vagina you have to think of them as a vagina and treat them like a vagina, not another human being.

You don't have a serious thing for these women. You're not looking to cultivate a serious thing, so stop approching it like you do and stop being a faggot with "feelings".

If you were talented or had a bigger dick or a ton of money you could get them to love you and hang onto you so you wouldn't have to lie, but you don't, so you have to lie. That's how this is going to work.

>>6394291

Are you black by any chance? You sound black.

>>6394295
Nope, I'm a white Russian kid in Chicago.

>>6394247
>She's just a decently-[good] friend I like to fuck.

And that's all good and well for YOU, but in her reality, your actions may have had unintended repercussions. Things might be out of control for her already, she sees herself headed towards the rocks but is powerless to change course. I get the sense that you saw these feelings developing long before they had enough momentum to inspire an off-topic thread about them (which is cool in my book, I like these threads).
I dare say that you saw where the relationship was going a while ago, but enjoyed the sex and companionship too much to risk offsetting her growing warmth with the unpleasant truth.
Now you find yourself here, on the shores of something vague and unpleasant.
I don't want to tell you that avoiding commitment is wrong, because it isn't - as long as you're honest about it. Part of being honest is accepting that even though you might go into a relationship like this one with very clear and material intentions, intangibles can start to develop soon after that first orgasm. Feelings, not unlike children, happen. Do you take responsibility for those intangibles, even if their creation was not your intent? Or do you cut your ties and book it while your freedom is still intact? I don't know if there's a 'right' answer.
Does it sound like a familiar quandary? I think it's at the heart of the abortion rights issue, but that's a whole 'nother thread. This is a personal question, OP. I don't think it's right for anyone but you to answer it.

>>6394293
I don't have a ton of emotions, but I have some. And I'm not gonna deny that I like someone for more than just their vagina.

And I'm pretty good at fucking and make good money, so I really don't have to lie. I just have a thing where I only lie to attain money or influence. I won't lie for relationships. Unless they lead to those things.

>>6394329
I don't know, dude. But I'd have a bottle of champagne with you.

>>6394371

oh
my
GOD

if you were good enough at fucking to make this girl stay around for the fucking or made enough money for her to stick around for the money, you wouldn't BE here asking what to do, because there wouldn't be a PROBLEM, but you ARE here, so there MUST be a problem.

Look.
faggot.

you either want her to be your friend or you want her pussy. You CANNOT have both. OTHER people can, because they have fat dicks, drugs, money, or some combination thereof. YOU don't.

so if you don't want a relationship and you want this girl to stay around, stop fucking her and be her friend before she starts to hate you and you don't have anyone at all.

obversely, start bringing weed and molly over with you. That will probably shut her up so you can fuck her carefree for a few more months.

>>6394422
Let's agree to disagree on life.

>>6394440

Post a followup thread, i want to hear exactly how poorly this goes.

>>6394449
I don't even know what you're getting it. You sound like you're like 19? Molly and weed? Get the fuck out of here.

Here are my potential scenarios here:

1) I end up really liking her in time and we date. I'd stop fucking the other girls in that time. Cool. Probably won't happen.

2) She tells me she wants only a relationship. If I don't want it, I stop seeing her. Or we stop fucking. I'm fine with that too.

3) We keep doing what we're doing. This is the most likely outcome.

You're acting like I'm deciding on whether to join the Army or some shit. I made this thread because I was bored and wanted to see how people would reply. I don't actually need advice.

>>6394326

А я тоже белый русский, но живу в Нью-Йорке. Я тоже хочу как ты, научи меня.

And I'm a white russian too, but I live in NY. How do I into having a FWB?

>>6394512
>3) We keep doing what we're doing.

wasn't the ENTIRE point of this thread because you thought she would stop fucking you if you didn't want to be serious?

>>6394560
Are you at least like 5'10 and decent-looking? This helps a lot.

Aside from that, I really can't help you, dude. And why did you translate that? Like, it literally served no purpose.

I'm secretly super socially awkward and introverted. I just developed a lot of self-confidence and lack of caring, which is what women really want. I developed this by:

1. Just getting older. 'm still only 23 though. But I was a retard when I was younger. I only fucked 3 girls by the time I was 20.

2. Be very good at something. I have a few hobbies I'm awesome at. And I'm fucking awesome at my job. And I'm on track to be pretty wealthy. So that makes me feel pretty good about myself.

3. Don't listen to /fa/ and be anoerexic. I'm 6' 170lb. I honestly don't eat that much because I drink, fuck, and smoke a lot. But I can do a lot of chinups and handstand pushups and shit. And I run sometimes. Do some of that shit.

4. Don't be a dumb, boring fuck. You know, dumb people are boring. I've read a shit ton of books. I read a new book every few days. Not to attract women or some shit, but because I fucking love life and appreciate the shit out of knowledge. Also, knowledge is power and power is money. And I fucking like what money buys.

I don't know what else to say, dude. Just stop giving a fuck.

Oh yeah, talk to lots of chicks. Talk to any chick who you think is cute. Don't be intimidated. Here's where genuinely not caring whether she tells you to fuck off comes in.

protip: Really hot girls get approached the least.

>>6394595

>have hobbies
>work out a lot
>know a lot of stuff so you're interesting

>but don't give a fuck

OP how did you meet her, out of curiousity?

>>6394512
This:
>>6394583

You sound fucking retarded, OP. She asked if you're friends with benefits. This should immediately tell you that she is okay with that, otherwise she would have copped some bullshit like her body is a temple, etc, etc, etc.

She basically gave you the green light to continue being fuck buddies for a solid amount of time. Use it while you can, but shit isn't going to last long. One of you is going to end up liking the other and someone's gonna get hurt, etc.

You still sound dumb as fuck.

>>6394610
No, no.

Know a lot of stuff. But not to be interesting. Being interesting is a repercussion. I guess if you do it TO be interesting, it would be better than nothing. It's just not the path I chose.

By don't give a fuck... Okay, I should clarify. I don't give a fuck in the sense that:

1. I care a lot about myself and will not be bothered if any one individual who isn't paying me disapproves of me or rejects me.

2. At the same time, I realize how unimportant we all are on the grand scheme. Watch out folks, we've got fucking Socratese's ghost on our hands. But it's true though. And that state of mind came from countless DMT and DXM trips combined with just questioning everything.

3. I appreciate the fuck out of this life. I love it. I love learning. I want to make the most out of it. But I still don't take it seriously.

I realize how little any of this will actually help anyone trying to fuck girls or whatever.

Oh, also, your goal shouldn't be to just fuck girls. I used to be really self-conscious and shit. I just stopped caring with time. I read tons of books. I became very into finance and spent a few years just reading and trading options. I considered people a waste of time if they weren't getting me paid.

I decided to go out one night. Don't know why. Had no intent of doing anything. I talked to evryone: girls, guys, staff wherever I was. Whatever. I'd say whatever the fuck I wanted to whoever I wanted. Just pretend you're in a dream.

And I ended up doing blow with some cool people and fucking two chicks that night and one's friend that morning. And it's just been that way ever since. I still focus on my work and on educating myself. But I fuck girls and have a few close guy friends now, too.

>>6394610

this.

Pretty obvious OP is having a disconnect between who he actually is and how he perceives himself to be. I bet you're one of those people that wears their heart on their sleeve but pretends like nothing affects them and everyone knows it but they never tell you because they know you're a big old softie on the inside.

>>6394595

I translated, because some Russians who live in the US don't know their language/on their way to forget it. I don't know if you are mothertongue or you speak like you spent 30 years at Brighton Beach and became americanized.

I'm only 5'7 (inb4), but I still have some time to develop.

Thank you for the genuine advice, I'll try to resist my social awkwardness and not give a fuck. I'm already doing pretty much everything else you said though.

>>6394670
*inb4 manlet

>>6394666
>I bet you're one of those people that wears their heart on their sleeve but pretends like nothing affects them and everyone knows it but they never tell you because they know you're a big old softie on the inside.

uwotm8

>>6394051
What the fuck is this /adv/ bullshit doing on /fa/ today? this shit is a fashion board fuck off to /adv/ or a therapist. neither of them are good anyway so consider an_hero

fk u sage

>>6394626
I was dropping a few returns off at the post office. And she was standing behind me in line. I saw some funny shit going on or whatever and cracked a joke about it. We talked and I went to her place. We watched some dumb movie and banged.

My conversation starters are usually just observational humor because the world we live in is fucking ridiculous. Can never get enough out of laughing at everything around me.

>>6394652
Alright

>>6394670
I speak Russian and two other languages well. Also, there's Google, dawg.

But yeah, you'll be fine. You sound cool. I'd have a bottle of champagne and watch Masterchef with you.

My good friend is Russian and he's like 5'6'' and gets silly amounts of ass. He's fucking handsome as shit though. But he's got mad game and is really smart.

I have no idea what I'm talking about to be honest. I'm procrastinating from answering a slew of really tedious e-mails.

>>6394692
The amount of money you make isn't shit, just as an FYI, bro.

>>6394709
To who? To me it is? Who else is gonna make me money but me?

I like clothes. I like cars. I like traveling. I like making impulsive purchases. I like nice shit. Yeah dude, I like money. And I like the process of making it a lot too.

>>6394713
Keep making that $800 a week, bro. Be proud of it.

>>6394692
>I was dropping a few returns off at the post office. And she was standing behind me in line. I saw some funny shit going on or whatever and cracked a joke about it. We talked and I went to her place. We watched some dumb movie and banged.
>the post office

fake.

>>6394692
smooth
you must be pretty good looking and/or tall right?

>>6394722
lol, right? Anyway, I just realized how dumb this fucking thread sounds. You guys should be making fun of me if you know what's good for you. I'm outie.

>>6394735
USPS over UPS and GayEx every single day.

This isn't /adv/, Grow up and stop referring to shit in simple terms of one word. It's not just "fuck," get some class kid.

This is baby's first guilt trip over sex with random girls. If you have to make threads like this, the lifestyle isn't for you.

>>6394743
Nah, not really. Chicks care a lot more about personality (generally) than dudes.

Anyway, I gotta go. I have to be up early and my shit's not done yet.

>>6394291
Not HIV.

>>6394752

>implying we're haters and you're not just changing your fake story to make yourself look better on an anonymous forum
>poor, outdated reaction image

kill yourself faggot

>>6394779
Not that guy, but they've already cured HIV once. It will have a cure within 5-10 years.

"We're whatever works right now that satisfies the condition that we're not attached to each other."

That was the first thing that came to mind so that's probably what I would have said. I have said it before then logically justified myself concisely within 2 sentences. From that point she kept fucking me regularly for a while but slowly stopped as she realized I 100% wasn't going to date her. It works out but people start to view you as emotionless.

>>6394790
My motherfucking nigga

>>6394785
Nope

>>6394749
what do u call it