/fa/ - Fashion

you can't make him do anything

except with beatings maybe

well i know this sounds shallow but would it make me complete bitch to leave him?
see i feel like he has no self respect if he completely doesnt care what others think. where is he gonna go in life? nobodys gonna offer him good opportunities

have you tried just going shopping with him?

like last year I went shopping with my brother for some clothes for a wedding and it went pretty well without me seeming like an asshole

me and my cousin couldn't get him into half of the stuff we wanted him to wear but I handed him the first pair of slim fit pants I saw and he came back stoked that he had finally got something that fit so well

as long as you get him into the store it's pretty easy to push him into a certain direction

>>6201499
You could try talking to him about it instead of asking a Japanese cartoon forum for relationship advice

>>6201499
>well i know this sounds shallow but would it make me complete bitch to leave him?

It'll make him reflect on where he went wrong and change himself. Or he could just start hating women.

>>6201499
are you saying you're thinking of dumping someone because they don't dress well

>>6201499
No, you dont owe anyone anything even in a relationship. You want to leave him because he wont grow up and take care of himself as an adult, its in your right to do so.

A manchild will always be a child.

I know you wont leave him because you had to ask, but even if you tell him the reasons why you feel this way about him, he will have an excuse for his behavior.
Accept no excuses, he can either grow up or not and he will always choose to not grow up.

>>6201499
if the root of the problem is that you think he isn't respecting himself and that he isn't as ambitious as you, I think that's fair

if you just think he looks sloppy and that's it then that's pretty bitchy

>>6201504
yes. hates everything that makes him look even slightly adult

>>6201507
you dont think i have?
im not really asking for relationship advice per se im asking how to update his wardrobe
ALSO how important is your partners choice in clothing? I try not to care but Im often embarassed

you just mad cause he's all confident wearing gym shorts everywhere whereas the only place you dare to go full goof is in front of your mirror.

>>6201528
If he was going to grow up and be responsible for himself, he would have done so by now at the age of 26. Hes almost 30 for gods sake.

>>6201484
tfw 18 and dress a LOT nicer than him. Point being, you can try to dress him up nicer all you want, but it won't change him.

Get him to see how much better he can be when he actually grows up and updates his wardrobe. I lurked on /fa/ since I was 16 because I was tired of not being taking seriously because of my wardrobe. Changed that, much happier with the change.

Seeming as how he's like me when I was 14-16, I wish you luck.

But really. get him to see how much better he could be grown up. Subliminal message that shit.

>>6201528
>ALSO how important is your partners choice in clothing? I try not to care but Im often embarassed

Kind of important, if we're talking in terms of improving ourselves.

It bugs me how my girlfriend dresses because I feel as though she isn't trying sometimes in a purposeful attempt to alienate others (which we've discussed and is a thing she does when she is feeling shitty about herself.) She is working hard to improve herself, however, and I figure that for her dressing well will come later. As long the person I'm with is actively seeking positive personal growth then I think I'd be happy with them.

But if your boyfriend's wardrobe is just a symptom of a life of stagnancy and underachieving then I'd probably ditch him.

>>6201533
i think youre right

this is him "dressed up"

>>6201528
take him shopping.

Guurl you need to tell that nigga that he needs to step up his fashion game. Tell him about how his/your friends think he looks like a nerd/manchild and don't like how he is cramping their style you feel me?

>>6201552
uuuuhhhh nobody was taking you seriously because you were only 16 years old not because you dressed like everyone else

>>6201552
Nobody takes you serious now too,

you are fucking 18 kiddo. Go play with your wee wee and eat dirt.

>>6201569
his peers in high school might not have been taking him seriously

i dressed like a goofy stoner in ridiculous oversized drug rugs and became a caricature of a person to my friends in high school

when i got sick of my entire life revolving around being a wacky stoner is when i got my shit together clothing wise and just starting wearing basics

>>6201569
Not talking about in school. I dressed like everyone at school. I'm talking about out of school. I looked a lot older than my age at 16. I never told anyone my age. People always mistook me for 19-21. Acted older. Also always hung out with older brother and his friends who were 21-24.

People didn't take me seriously because of how I dressed.

>>6201585
no it was because you were their homie's 16 year old brother tagging along

>>6201580
actually quite a bit of people take me seriously now. I'm not going to say I'm a lot better than you all because some of you are fully grown adults with careers, but I see no point in arguing with my motives to dress nicer when I'm just trying to give advice to OP on how to get her boyfriend to not be a 16 year old boyfag.

>get him to seek the change himself instead of forcing it on him. It just won't work as well or as quick.

>>6201591
he or I never mentioned that we were brothers unless if they were his closer friends. Who cares if I tag along with family? Implying that strangers I talked to and the not close friends we hung out with didn't take me seriously because of how I dressed.

>>6201560

wow, one of the worst dressed ive ever seen, honestly

dump him

>>6201484
you're a dumb bitch who doesnt deserve a bf
i would never be so vapid as to care what my bf wants to wear

you probably dress like shit yourself so w/e

>>6201616
Did you read the entire thread? I think you're overreacting. It sounds to me like the clothing is just one part of an entire life where he's not taking care of himself or striving to achieve anything.

>>6201616
it happens that I have a career and life that does not always permit this sort of clothing. like i said i try not to care but i cant help being embarassed esp when my whole family is like wtf are you doing w this wigger
(hes not a wigger btw he just dresses like one)
did i mention he'll wear tims w basketball shorts? i mean cmon if you seriously wouldnt care than maybe youre on the wrong board

>>6201637
OP, just curious, you said you'd talked to him right? Have you genuinely told him how much it embarrasses you and just explain to him why it embarrasses you so much?

>>6201637
na i wouldn't care
if your family says that shit to you, then i think the problem is with your family not the guy you are with. and if you are so embarrassed by what other people think of your bf then i suggest you try to build your own self confidence because he's obvious comfortable with himself.

>>6201637
I understand not being able to get him to dress nicer on a daily basis, but if you're going to an event where people are expected to dress up a little (even if it's just a family dinner) then I think it's fair for you to tell him that he needs to suck it the fuck up and put on a pair of slacks or just not come at all. Going somewhere where you're expected to wear business or business casual clothing ill fitting jeans and sneakers isn't unfashionable, that's just downright inappropriate and rude.

>>6201660
*in ill fitting

fuck

>>6201647
he gets defensive. turns into a fight. i end up telling him i love him regardless and shrug/laugh it off. seriously i feel like hes gonna be wearing this sort of shit for the rest of his life.
but im gonna show him this thread in hopes that he wakes up a lil and so he doesnt think its just me being a cunt picking on him

>>6201675
>im gonna show him this thread

no no no don't do this

a bunch of strangers talking shit on the internet is just going to be embarrassing and he's going to feel hurt and ashamed, I wouldn't do that to anybody

>>6201675
you really shouldn't do that

>>6201659
maybe youre right. maybe IM just not comfortable with myself 100% however i mean "you are who you chill with" others judge me bc of him. company you keep certainly reflects the kind of person you are at least somewhat.
obviously ive tolerated this so im not completely vain.
I just want him to change for his own benefit

>>6201675
are you autistic?

>>6201675

>>6201683
agreed. Maybe at most screenshot the positive criticisms and suggestions as well as your original post, put them together and show him that. it'd be less hurtful to him.

But in all honesty, get him to choose it himself. If you're scared of putting your foot down to him because of a resulting breakup, then that's really the only way.

>>6201675
your bf is a fucking faggot, beta and immature
you should dump him because of that and not because of the way he dresses
you could get a well dressed intelligent bf who laughs at fuckers like your bf

>>6201688
really tho? bc im seriously planning to being that he wont listen to me....he has a good sense of humor hell think its funny...

>>6201692
probably

he's an adult, let him make his own decisions

>>6201711
if he gets upset when you bring it up in person how will this be funny to him?

lol looks like case

>>6201711
i don't think he will

i don't think i'd think that people looking at photos of me on the internet and talking about how awful they are and what an idiot i am could ever be funny

especially if my girlfriend was posting the photos and also shit talking them, jesus

the next time he tries to go to a formal event with you dressed the way he does lay down the fucking law and if he doesn't change don't let him come, if you're lucky it'll affect the way he thinks about himself and he might pick it up a bit on the casual wear. i can't really figure out a better way to do this than that, and what you're thinking of doing is just full retard.

>>6201707
It's like you are a black knight. Trying to get internet pussy but by being a dick rather than being a bitchboy

>>6201711
He's likely intimidated by the idea of choosing the right kind of clothes. Don't force him to radically change everything at once; it'll prompt immediate aversion and make him block the idea out. Maybe begin by gifting him simple, but well-fitting and nice pieces a few times and see if he likes them.

Basically, try to spark an interest casually. All that it took for me to get into fashion and stop calling it gay was seeing a pair of boots (even if they were AllSaints).

>>6201484
looks dressed normal for a man in his 20's. Do you want him to dress dadcore?

>>6201721
lol ive thought that before. except my bf is better looking :)

this is sort of the problem. i think i am a vain bitch bc my main attatchment to him is his pretty face. hes not the sharpest tool in the box (obviously)

>>6201723
but see i dont hide shit like this from him ive known him too long. and i know he wouldnt seriously get offended minus maybe some of the stuff i said...but i can hide those posts

aye girl u dump him nd we'll find you a nice /fa/ user in your location to date where u from and post pic of urself girl

>>6201744
Jesus fucking christ get out of here.

>>6201747
Yeah you're right. He'd look a lot better in some khakis, penny loafers, and a spring green polo

>>6201736
point taken. maybe start decreasing pants 1 size at a time. tho hes convinced his nuts dont fit into anything thats not super baggy lol seriously tho

>>6201758
it would sure be better if he was going to go have dinner with her parents

>>6201745
no thanx you guys are ruthless. posting a pic of myself would just be confidence suicide

>>6201758
He'd look much better in fitting clothes that didn't look like shit, nowhere did i imply he should be clothed like a dad, obviously you're too much of a delusional cunthead to understand that.

>>6201759
Give him some straight fit jeans or something. Otherwise, a lot of stretch fabrics are amazingly comfortable. Cotton pants spiked with some spandex content are hnggh.

If he's wearing boxers, he'll need to switch to boxer briefs.

>>6201773
no he doesn't

underwear is preference

>>6201764
seriously tho. id be fine w dadcore hes 26. my expectations arent sky high. i just want a little more acceptable look

>>6201764
hahahahaha! I'm out. I didn't know this was the #menswear and /mfa/ thread. She could just buy him some skinny jeans and a v-neck seeing as how they're not dadcore and don't make him look like he's poorly dressed.

>>6201781
I would get slim fit jeans over skinny jeans

there's nothing wrong with #menswear tbh
you're going to wear jeans and a t shirt to someone's wedding?

>>6201781
oh my god shut up

of course that would be better, anything would be better than what he's wearing, where the fuck did anyone say anything about any specific kinds of clothing? everybody just wants him to look fucking cleaner

>>6201773
>>6201788
thanx guys youve been helpful
if i succeed ill post some before and after pics

>>6201805
we'll b nice if you post a picture people r only rude to u if youre representing urself as well dressed im sure theres a guy onhere who is in ur location nd is willing to sniff ur bumhole while wearing thom browne

>>6201659
lol shut the fuck up

My brother is a similar problem. He refuses to wear anything that's not black/grey/white, all baggy and washed out. He actually wears all my old clothes when I was still fat (note: He is five years older than me, 27).
When I ask him to wear clothes that don't look like shit, he would argue that he doesn't care what other people think about him. Also he has no money, time and interest for clothes.
I don't really know what to answer to this. I'm pretty ashamed of him.

>>6201781
>skinny jeans and a v-neck
>not dadcore
>not poorly dressed

>>6201513
My perfect woman.

>>6201836
when ever people say they don't care what people think of them it really means they're so insecure that they're too scared to change

>>6201852
that doesn't make sense

i legit dont care what anyone thinks

>>6201852
This, it's what I meant when I said it. Thank god I somehow snapped out of it. A good friend got through to me. Don't see him anymore, should go and talk to him again.

>>6201836
Well to do fair its not like having no money or interest for clothes is conducive to dressing well.

>>6201852
The only people who say this are those who can't even imagine having their self esteem be independent of others' thought.

>>6201851
she would dump you too if she saw your Asos x Zara fit lmao

>>6201778
Boxers are shit in every way unless you're dressing baggy. If anything's crushing his balls, it'll be the boxers scrunching up as he forces pants over them. They're like diapers.

>>6201852
i agree. i think.
its like hes afraid to admit he cares bc if not accepted its more hurtful bc he actually tried. so he doesnt even bother bc its easier to not care.

>>6201860
every time you get out of bed and put clothes on your body you're caring what somebody thinks unless you walk around naked

>>6201860

Yeah you do. You dont exist in a vacuum. Its fine if you tell yourself that you dont care/think that you dont care. Its not reality though.

>>6201851
is this sarcasm?

WOULD YOU GUYS DATE A GIRL THAT DRESSED LIKE TRAILER TRASH?

>>6201871
if you buy him stuff will he wear it? just say you started with a dark pair of jeans then a few weeks later some plain t-shirts, then a few weeks after that a polo shirt. so its super gradual?

>>6201871

i don't really think so man. My father dresses like absolute shit (xxl t-shirt, some athletic shorts, and boots) and he's been doing this all his life. He thinks its comfy, and he knows what he likes. Food, beer, going to the gym, and watching football. Thats the extent of it. I don't believe everyone cares.

>>6201860
I also don't care what anyone thinks, as I don't know anyone anyway. Still, I try to dress well.

My brother's problem is, that he's just too fucking lazy to do anything. All he's ever doing is trying to make his life as easy as possible. He doesn't even manage to shower everyday or brush his teeth or tidy up his fucking place. It's all too much for him. He's a fucking mess.
He also has a fucking whale gf. And by whale I mean 350 lbs on 5'7. He finds her disgusting, he hates fat people. But he's keeping her, because she's cooking for him and making him feel good about himself. This kind of guy.

>>6201885
It is not sarcasm, men really need to start stepping their game up.

And I don't mean full rick gear, but just enough to make you look like you graduated from high school.

>>6201885
Not him, but on here it's very likely not sarcasm.

>>6201886
well for starters im not buying this nigga clothes with my own $ bc in the past it was complete waste....but i try to help when were shopping and he has a very particular look he goes for....flashy ass teeshirts thats scream fubu basketball shorts and somesort of gaudy sneaks with metalic trim

>>6201900
i think it really only applies when you use it as a defense

if someone were to tell me that they liked what they liked then i'd believe them, but when people have started shouting that they just don't give a fuck like they're being attacked for something then i tend to think that they're full of shit

>>6201913

Oh yeah, i agree completely.

>>6201910
how long have you guys been dating? ignoring the clothing situation are you happy with him? kind of seems like hes a lost cause and till he grows up a bit he shouldn't be in a relationship

>>6201836
Are you genuinely ashamed of your own brother because he isn't into fashion? lol what

>>6201920
yeeeaars
i used to not care when i was young and wreckless....but ive changed
he hasnt
i think it is a lost cause for more reasons than just his clothes. the overaall mentality of a man that dresses like this just has "will never be a prof/respectable anything" written all over it

OP I am married to a guy whose 22 and he dresses like your bf. I will shit myself if hes 26 and still dressing like that.

I took him to Kohls today attempting to get him to try some NON CARGO shorts... he ended up pissed and how I'm trying to control what he wears/etc, he refused to try on anything but plaid cargo shorts and hoodies with obnoxious logos that don't even mean anything.

And this is why nobody takes him seriously, just like your bf.

>>6201930
i think you need to talk to him about his ambitions instead of his clothing

it's no unreasonable for you to want him to work as hard at life as you do

he sounds like kind of a loser

>>6201928

see >>6201905
it's not like he's just 'not into fashion'. He looks like an idiot.

>>6201930
also he's the kind of guy that proposes without a diamond ring and gets mad when you ignore it/laugh it off.
unacceptable.
whats next hell ask w a cubic zirconia?

>>6201930

If you try to tell him to dress nicely it won't work, it will just become another "dressed by my girlfriend" guy who looks bad and doesnt give a shit about clothes

if you really want him to start caring about how he dresses, the change has to come from within himself. maybe get another fashionable guy to have a talk with him? maybe show him this thread? show him pictures of well dressed men? just some ideas

>>6201935
im glad someone understands and can sympathize w this. you better get on it girl before its too late. show him this thread

>>6201935
i honest to god want to know what you were thinking when you got married that young

not even trying to attack you, it just baffles me and i don't think i could ask someone IRL without getting my shit slapped

>>6201958
I have posted pics on another site and asked advice.. tried it all and none of it worked lol.

The most you can hope for I suppose is to get him to wear an adult cologne (husband wore axe for so long... ew).

The whole "I dont give a fuck about how people think of how I dress" basically translate to a "I don't give a fuck about what people think about me about anything", hopefully your bf cares a little more.

>>6201985
yep. he wears axe.
god theres no hope

>>6201994
at least he wears deodorant

>>6202004
and thank god for that

>>6201975
i'm not that anon, but i think it's a recent trend that people are getting married later and later in life. i'm sure 20-30 years ago, getting married in your early twenties was the norm

>>6201975
maybe she got knocked up?

>>6201528
Honestly, my girlfriend dresses really badly, and she's uncomfortable with dressing in something that isn't "comfy". I'm slowly pulling her out of this comfort zone, and I think you should be doing the same thing with your husband. It works, but it's a slow process. She now actively tries to dress well when she's with me, even though she doesn't know how to.

>>6202062
There's no /fa/ girls where I live so I'm getting to the point where I might have to date a normal girl and teach her how to dress

How a girl dresses is a make or break factor in whether or not i take her out
is it not for yall

>>6202071
There's a lot of /fa/ girls where I live, one of my friends is even a model.

You don't have to teach her how to dress actually. Just dress better than her and with time and a few hints from you she will try to adjust to your standards of dressing.

Either that or she will leave you because she feels inferior, or she won't try at all because she is a moron, it's a gamble, really.

>>6202073
>be having dinner somewhere
>see 10/10 girl that looks like Elizabeth Taylor wearing black skirt and stockings with hermes bag walking through room alone
>i'm stuck on other side of table with not enough time to get out
watched my dream girl walk away

>>6201484
change has to come from within himself
you can open the door, but he has to walk through on his own. don't push him through the door

talk to him about his choice of clothes, and how he's presenting himself to the world, and how it makes you feel.
ask him why, when he rejects other (more appropriate?) clothes.

maybe he's insecure or scared of trying, worried that if he does, he'd be opening himself up for comments or criticisms. or intimidated by the wide choice of things that he's not used to wearing.

it's probably fairly hard to make someone care about the way they look when they're haven't cared for a such a long time.

>>6202096
you watched her walk away.

i would have stormed threw that place to go talk to her

>>6202152
yea I could have gotten to her but too beta so i tell myself there was no hope

>>6202185
man the fuck up.
nothing bad would happen even if she said no

>>6202188
it was a 5 star hotel she was probably walking to her boyfriends aston martin or something

>>6202188
THIS is the key to talking to all girls.
To potentially getting married, your next girlfriend, or just getting laid.

Think of it as a high reward no risk situation.
Only good things could happen, and worst is she just says no and your life goes right on

>>6202185
I wrote a guide on how to talk to women just for people like you anon

http://aiouh.tumblr.com/post/49777478509/how-to-talk-to-women-the-definitive-guide-written-by

post fit fuccgrill before judging others

>>6202230
t-thanks

>>6202188

except for the crushing loss that is knowing you are inadequate in this world

>>6201484

Hey OP... I dressed like him and didn't feel the need to dress up like an adult.. I did that till I was 29... I'm turning 30 soon. I however; have no girlfriend or friends to speak off. I preffer to be alone and don't care for much contact.
However; I got up one day. Went to macys / sears / dillards / jcp <--- ( the only stores around in this hick town, so shut up /fa/. ) I went from lol so fanni troll tees and graphic tees / baggy jeans and improper fitted attire. And bought a bunch of dress pants / kakis / a new leather belt matching dress shoes / extra casual shoes... Movado watch ( 1,000 bucks holy god. I love it. went from 19.99 walmart trash. ) - New shirts under shirts / god proper underwear that comliments my big dick, suddenly I'm not uncomfortable, it has wiggle room. New haircut, despite balding it looks better. Now I'm in the process of buying new furniture and redoing my entire apartment. And looking into getting a second job.
The ONLY person who is gonna change is themselves, not you, not me, no one but HIMSELF. Cheers

>>6202311

i want to pretend i dont know that feel

>>6202230
LOL, I clicked on the link thinking "This is going to be good, women are just people, I wonder how autists think it works?" Dat effay hivemind.

>>6202316

>macys
>sears
>dillards
>jcp
>dress pants
>new leather belt

dude please post a fit so i can laugh at how bad you look

>>6202335
he probably looks like when gay guys think because they're gay they automatically have a good fashion sense so they go to pleb stores thinking they're the height of fashion and buy random shit in pastel colors and wear it all together then get complimented by people who know they're gay and therefor assume its a good outfit because gay people know everything about clothing

>>6202349

couldnt have said it better myself

>>6202349
still better than OP's boyfriend lel

>>6202349

>>6202329
Holy shit I thought the same exact thing.

>>6201528
did you try asking him (why) he hates wearing stuff that makes him look adult by any chance?

>>6202415
uncomfortable in his opinion...

also this is what he wore for halloween and i think it looks better/less silly than his everyday dresscode.

>>6202483

>short sleeved shirt
>that tie
>baggy-ass pants
>that belt

wrong in every way but still better than what he usually wears, yeah

winter gear...u should see this mans layering skills

>>6202521
jesus christ just burn all his clothes holy shit

>>6202521
Am the only one that has always snapbacks?

>>6202530
i was actually thinking i should dump a bottle of bleach on his laundry pile..tell him twas an accident....but then remembered that he may actually continue to wear the clothes

>>6202552
Try doing his laundry for him and then eventually "accidentally" shrinking his stuff. also kill his hats

tell me, does he also listen to very terrible rap and drives an old beaten up civic with that's loud as fuck?

>>6202552
please dump him immediately jesus christ

i don't mean to be this shallow but honestly seems like a fucking child and i would be really happy for you if you left him

another example of him "dressing up" and toning down his everyday clothes. this is what he considers formal.
ADIDAS. friladfsknckadsjhkj.
makes me want to rip hair out

>>6201870
LOL

>>6202592
For contrast here's a pair of lips.
i think its a lost cause, confront him about being a man children and if he still acts like one after that just leave him, its not a selfish decision.

>>6202592

I hope I'm not prying too much, but how did you even end up dating him in the first place? I mean I'm not the vainest person, but if I had as much of a problem with how he dresses as you clearly do I wouldn't tolerate it to begin with.

i feel like i could continue posting his pics and turn this into WHAT NOT TO WEAR thread

Jesus Christ OP is such a bitch.

If you don't like it, fucking talk to him about it, instead of talking shit about someone you supposedly care about behind their back.

I'd say show him this thread so he realizes how bad he looks and what he could do about it, but he'd probably just see what a cunt you are and dump you.

>>6202592
Do you have long term plans with this man, OP?
I ask because choosing a partner for the long haul is like buying a boot you're going to hike the appalachian trail with. You better be damn sure it's comfortable in-store, because that little bit of nylon that pokes your big toe ever so slightly is going to become a festering blister after a month in the wild.

If you don't like being seen with the man in public, if you hate his clothes, does the rest of him at least offer a chance for redemption?

>>6201528
As a guy, this attitude is fucking childish and is worse childish than you leaving him for acting like a child.

Also, I'll bet he decides to adult the fuck up when you tell him why you want to end the relationship.

Tell him what you are telling us.

>>6202615
we started dating when i was high on all sorts of drugs everyday and couldnt care less...this was way back when...i was young carefree stupid and under the influence of drugs....
now ive changed and hes stuck in that rut...

btw im totally showing him this whole thread i dont care if its mean bc it may actually help him

The reason your boyfriend isn't going anywhere isn't because he dresses like a retard.

He dresses like a retard because he is a very extraordinary human being. He probably has no marketable skills, speaks one language, is either uneducated or holds a worthless undergrad degree, is not well-traveled or well-read, etc.

If you fit that mold as well, then you should remain with him because you won't find anyone better unless you're very attractive. If you yourself are above him in soceo-economic status, then by all means, leave him. But I doubt this because if you were, you'd realize this yourself.

tl;dr: Stop trying to make him into someone he isn't and focus on better yourself. Post a picture of yourself and we'll see how you stack up against him. What have you accomplished to make you worthy of someone who doesn't wear shirts of bands that throw chicken heads into crowds and attends hippie festivals?

>>6202647
*Not a very extraordinary human being

>>6202626
lol he wouldnt dump me. im the best thing thats ever happened to this man. i dont care about being a fucking cunt bc im being real here...
in fact i think im a very nice fucking person for allowing this to go on as long as it has

>>6201944
>buying into the diamond scam
>supporting child/slave labor

You are a bad person.

>>6202647
well for starters i have a college education, speak 3 languages, and have traveled throughout the world.
the only reason he does stack up financially is bc his family is rich and has several businesses that he always has a job at no matter how much he screws up....
like i said i didnt care about all this when i was young dumb and full of cum...now that im maturing a lil im tired of it all and refuse to accept this....hence the whole thread...

How is NOBODY pointing to the fact that:

>>OP has not posted a picture of herself.

>>OP has not said what she does or who she is to make her think she's in any way better than this dude.

>>OP has the spelling, grammar, and sentence structure of a middle-schooler.

OP is just mad that her life isn't going anywhere, wants a guy to carry her, and is mad that her current guy won't and she isn't good enough for one who will.

>>6202684
uuuuhhhh don't say someone has bad grammar and sentence structure when you're typing like that

>>6202668
im a bad person bc i expect a diamond in engagement? u must be kidding.

>>6202663
Seriously, dump him. Do it. You're wasting your time. It's not even superficial. His clothing style just tells so much about his lack of ambition in life.

>>6202683
>speaks 3 languages
>can't even into proper English spelling and grammar

>>6202683
Okay. And by the way, Mexico spring break and an undergrad Sociology degree doesn't qualify as an education or worldly experience.

So let's talk numbers as that's the easiest way to break things down. How much do you bring home? How much does he bring home?

On your current paths, how much do you see yourself bringing home in 20 years? Him?

Typically, couples have similar incomes. Or the man has a much higher income, but the female is physically out of his league.

>>6202684
fkn grammar nazi plz understand idgaf about my grammar or sentence structure

>>6202692
Point out a flaw in that post.

>>6202711
>Typically, couples have similar incomes. Or the man has a much higher income, but the female is physically out of his league.
how do you know this nerd you're 17 years old

OP is either a :
>troll
>giant bitch

Seriously OP, if you don't like the style talk to him. If you did that and he isn't moving on dump him, instead of bashing him like this on the internet. He didn't do anything to deserve that. I bet he loves you and respects you very much while you have probably cheated on him several times.
If you can't sort that issue after years and years of dating, you have a big problem.
I'm not mad, I just feel sorry for the guy for ending up with a bitch like you.

>>6202713
Okay, well let me explain something:

How you speak and write says a lot about YOU. Just like how he dresses says a lot about him. So if you want us to judge him, you better be okay with letting us judge you as well.

And why don't you post a picture? I'd put $5k on you being the female equivalent of him and just not realizing it. You two are perfect for one another.

>>6202701
No. I'm not kidding. There are other precious materials that don't support an evil corporate machine. If you don't care about the negative effect the overpriced rock you want has on the world, then you are a bad person.

Also, getting mad because he won't drop 3 paychecks on a worthless piece of jewelry for you is shallow as fuck. If you're actually as vapid as you're coming off in this thread I hope you die in a tire fire.

>>6202724

This OP, I think it's justified to ask for a photo of you after all you've complained about him

>>6202715
Hey guys, look: she used an apostrophe properly!

>>6202724
how i write on 4chan says a lot about me??
damn you really take this site seriously dont you?

>>6202737
you're being rused bro

>>6202743
>asks for relationship advice from website
>doesn't take it seriously

>>6202739
>caring this much about sentence structure/grammar on a Japanese cartoon forum

do you cry when people text you with bad grammar
>oh wait people never text you

>>6202743
Yes. Human communication is important. For fuck's sake, you write like a retarded thirteen year old.

>>6202737
I agree. but not for the same reasons.

My fiance will not get a diamond from me because diamonds have very little intrinsic value. Just like gold is extremely overpriced and is only useful for select industrial uses, the same applied for diamonds.

For the record, I make more than enough to afford a diamond engagement ring that most women would love to get. But I will not be marrying a woman who thinks that thousands of dollars is an adequate trade for a rock that does literally nothing for you because, 'oooh, it's shiney."

It's amusing that the most vapid women, like OP seems to be, are the ones least likely to make enough, or be with someone who does, to satisfy their baseless urges.

>>6202747
I fucking hope so.

>OP posts several photo's of her BF without his knowledge or consent
>refuses to post one of herself
OP confirmed for ugly cunt who dresses like shit

>>6202743
AAAA, AAAAA AA AAA, AAA AAAA AA AAAA AAA AAAA AAAA.
AAAAAA, AAAA'AA A AAAAAAA AAAAA.
>inb4 AA AAA A AAAA AAAA AA A AAAA AAAAAAA AAAA
>2014 - A
>AAAAA AAAAA AAAAAAAA
>mfw

>>6202771
Same. You can get 9s to fuck you on the regular if you buy them some red bottoms every 6 months. Why the fuck would I drop 3-Series money on a rock to get one of those 9s who I can't stand a conversation with for more than 10 minutes to come live with me?

a) You complain about superficiality on a fashion board.
b) You ask for justification on an anonymous board.
c) You think people here take anything seriously when all they do is venting, thinking that people are not a,b.

OP, just fuck this thread, it's full of dipshits.

>>6202737
>still believes DeBeers has any significant influence
>not knowing they dropped out of the diamond game
>not knowing an Australian mining company refusing to fall into the monopoly outputs a majority of diamonds now and basically killed DeBeers

Diamonds are basically worthless and never resell, but it's tradition. They're the most recognizable symbol of engagement. Opting to buy something off-beat and quirky is idiotic and will likely disappoint your partner. If both people are fine with something different, then there's nothing wrong, but I guarantee that the vast, vast majority of Western women will dislike it even if they say they don't.

>>6202784
is that supposed to be a pic of someone dressing well?

looks horrible, and
>deliberately placed albums in the background

>>6202760
I am perfectly capable of immaculate grammar and sentence structure, Nucklehead. However, I prefer the easy or informal route because its mindless and simple. If I wanted intelligent conversation, I certainly wouldn't be here. This environment is solely for shits and giggles.

>>6202801
>Nucklehead
>Knuckle head
>Knuckle+head==Nucklehead

ffs you even capitalized the N


6/10 for making me mad

>>6202797
What're you gay? That girl is qt as fuck.
>being butt ravaged by what people put on their walls.

>>6202771
Of course. I (kinda) hit that point in the second paragraph. Diamonds are totally awesome for industrial applications, as are gold, silver, platinum, etc.

>>6202813
:D

>>6202801
>Nucklehead
hahahahahaha

>>6202812
look beside he on the floor.

>>6202812
so if she's cute I'm not allowed to think her fit is terrible?

you think girls in uggs and leggings looks bad but you think this looks good?
#lmao you are a tasteless peon in mall garbage who swoons over lookbook/tumblr garbage and pretends he has style

>>>/mu/

>>6202801
Is that supposed to be an example of your immaculate writing, knucklehead?

>>6202827
I love girls in uggs and leggings. I don't give a fuck what they where as long as they're good looking. Clothes can always be changed.

>>6202796
You're right, I didn't know that. I'm gonna have to do some research.

Still, diamonds are a stupidly overpriced commodity.

>>6202797
One of those doesn't even look like a record, bro. Y u mad?

>>6202801
OP confirmed for fucking idiot who deserves everything her shitty future holds.

>>6202605
honestly this to be fair

>>6202840
youre confirmed for idiot who cant tell whats real and not

>>6202842
then why would you care if OP dresses like shit? You don't care about clothes? Is that why you wear cheap jeans and shoes?

why do you even come to a fashion board?

I wonder whether golddiggers know that they're golddiggers. Or if it's a subconscious thing.

I wonder whether stupid people know that they're stupid. Do you think that OP thinks that she's intelligent in the least?

I mean, she obviously is not retarded. But she's average at best. Yet she thinks that she deserves someone who isn't average for whatever reason. Can anything but delusion explain this?

Hey OP: Better hurry up, get some implants, a tummy tuck, and a nose job! Men age like wine; women age like milk.

Tick tock, slut

>>6202851
You wrote some words, but they conveyed literally no meaning.

It's kind o a good metaphor for your life.

>>6202856
I don't care if OP dresses like shit. Why the fuck would I care what other people dress like? The better question is why do YOU care what other people dress like?

>>6202742
shes too much of a pussy to post one

>>6202796
Oh, and buying something that isn't a diamond isn't "offbeat and quirky." It's like you're saying that anyone who doesn't conform is just doing it for the novelty.

Obviously, if I'm with a wife material girl I'll talk it out with her, but I think tungsten carbide is pretty badass. It's durable as fuck and has a nice weight to it. Also, buying natural diamonds is a fool's game. Lab produced diamonds are where it's at, since they're more perfect than anything you can dig out of the ground.

It's probably my utilitarianism showing, but I feel really uncomfortable buying expensive trinkets, especially if I'm being ripped off.

>>6202863
not necessarily a gold digger but i aint messin w no broke nigger. is that a crime?

>>6202812
She may be qt, but she is dressed like shit.

>>6201484
Really it's all relative to how attractive you are; you should post a pic.

>>6202863
autistic people don't know they're autistic (i.e you and a good amount of posters on here) so you might be right

>>6202863
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning–Kruger_effect

>>6202896
If you think you might be autistic does that mean you aren't autistic?

fine you idiets. heres a pic of me. u cant c my face but u can see what im wearing

u can see i put a littel more thought in to my wardrobe then my bf

>>6202883
>then why would you care if OP dresses like shit?
>>6202784
>>6202784
>OP confirmed for ugly cunt who dresses like shit

why would you mention it then?

Why do I care what people dress like? Holy shit nigger are you seriously asking me this on a fashion board?

I would understand why you would feel indifferent about strangers but if I'm gonna get married to some bitch one day she's gotta come through with the fits

>>6202909
Props for not wearing uggs

>>6202909
I don't know who you are but everyone in that picture is dressed rather terribly

>>6202909
Drop your trip. Now.

>>6202916

>>6202916
I'm pretty sure that's just for this thread mouthbreather

>>6202892
If you're a broke bitch, which it looks like you are.

>>6202909
Okay, so where's the actual OP and where is her actual pic

>>6202909
Oh you can't be fucking serious.

>>6202910
I wasn't the original one to post that picture, I just wanted to tell you that you're gay and she's a qt.

>>6202920
M-models breath through their mouth

I'm OP now. Ask me anything about my shitty life.

>>6202909
Ew
I'm never going to the east coast.
No point.

>>6202909
>Idiets

For fucks sake, I get not caring about grammar but honestly it shouldn't take that much effort to use the right vowel.

>>6202927
Great, glad I jumped into this thread without reading into it.

>>6202937
not like you can afford it filthy spic

>>6202932
no i am real OP
ur a broke ho

>>6202931
no YOU cant be serious.
lol props >>6202909
bc these damn fools...

>>6202923
Actually as far as the brain goes synaptic density is far more important than size.

But I'm just a pedant, so ignore this.

>>6202942
lel
Women, weed, & weather sucker

>>6202949
Of course, you're right. I was just being flippant.

>>Later tonight
>>OP is fuming because everyone on an anonymous site called her on her bullshit like nobody in real life would because they don't want to deal with her whiney ass yelling, bitching, and finger-snapping at anything she doesn't like
>>OP yells at her boyfriend and tells him to get out of the house.
>>"This is my fucking house, you bitch. I pay 80% of the bills. All you is work at Arby's and drink Coronas.
>>OP hits her boyfriend.
>>Boyfriend throws OP through a wall.
>>OP recovers and starts to call the cops.
>>Boyfriend realizes that this could ruin his life.
>>That none-inch block TV goes crashing into, and through, OP's head.
>>Not much brain matter emerges.

>>6202955
420blazeit#swag#yolo#ganjalife#legalizeit#fcktheh8rs

>>6202955
OMG!!
YOU SMOKE WEED?!?!?!
YOU'RE SO COOL!

HEY GUYS CHECK IT OUT THIS GUY SMOKES WEED! ISN'T HE SUCH A BADASS!?

>>6202957
thats so fukin mean u fuk stop pretending 2 be me
fucking kill urself cocksucker
my bf wood never hit me. he nose better

>>6202838
Yes, I don't disagree. I still bought one for my fiance. It's on the same level as buying flowers, except a ring doesn't die and go in the trash after a few weeks.

>>6202888
I could have talked mine out of one. She insisted on not spending much on a ring herself and sent me recommendations, but instead of sifting through all the options, I just settled on a simple but good quality single diamond ring. It didn't kill my account, and it's not worth three paychecks because she's aware of how utterly intrinsically worthless they are. But, it looks alright for a rock, she didn't expect anything so nice, her family liked it, my family liked it. Whatever. I'd rather have bought her a nice coat, but that'll do for now.

Lab produced diamonds would have been interesting, but I didn't look into them. I've heard you can compress dead people into diamonds too.

I felt a bit better buying my diamond after finding out about the weakening of DeBeers' monopoly.

>>6202966
weed is for losers i got ovr it when i was like 15
it has kind of a bad rap but crack is like the best feeling ul ever see

>>6202963

u fukin Nucklehead stop fuking preteneding to b me u cock suking fuk. il, have my bf nock the fuking shit out off u and than tel him to dress like a fuking adult and not a, drug addick

>>6202974
>crack

gross, crack is for peasants. I like coke but crack is for poor hedonistic trash I'm sorry; I'm just a better person than you are

WOW this place has turned to pure shitposts

>>6202974
fuk ur not me, i due meth, crak is for, pussy; fuks?

>>6202968
>I've heard you can compress dead people into diamonds too.

>>6202981
this isnt me again sum lil fukbich is pretendin 2 b me
ur a fukin Nucklehead u fuk

>>6201659
THIS is an example of our tripfags? God damn I'm embarrassed.

>>6202974
Damn straight my nigga
samoke dat crack fucker!

>>6202974
On a more serious note, heavy weed use before the age of 18 has been linked to a drop in IQ of like 8 points.

>>6202994
it's true, they aren't as hard as natural diamonds though

natural diamonds are a 10 on Mohs hardness scale. Manmade diamonds being 9.2

>>6202997
fuk of u fukin nucklehead fuking fuk; u fuking raent me u fuk

>>6203008
10 vs 9.2 means absolutely nothing if you're wearing it on your finger.

>>6201484
>get with guy
>complain about how he dresses
>wants to change him
>tries to change him
>woman logic

>>6202913
>>6202915
>>6202916
>>6202924
>>6202931
>>6202934
>>6202937
>>6202944
It's clearly not real if any of you did a google back search...

>>6201499
leave him then. Fuck you sound as pathetic as you're trying to make him out to be.

where dat crack at my nigga?

>>6203041
fuk tht too my fukin face u fuk an fukin:; c wat fukin happens u fukin nucklehead fuk",

OP, how many teefs remain in your mouf at this point in time?

fuck u

>>6203044
my fukin bad mr fukin parole offisar im suffa form addickchen il gave u sum fukin meth if u let mi fukin go u fuk'!;

>>6203044
>>6203027
>>6203017
bigger fuck you
#SQUIDS PLS BE PROUD

>>6203082
>too poor for a CD Key to use excel

>>6203082
lmao...thats good

>>6203082
All the better to suck your dick for crack wut, my dear.

>>6201560
Dump his ass

lol@OP

op is ok with posting pics of her bf without his consent, but is too pussy to post one of her own

>>6203154
bc im well aware of how you guys treat people around here. i dont want full on shit storm

>>6203183
have you not been here for the past hour?

>>6203183
So you're okay with us criticizing your boyfriend, but not you?

The gist of this thread is:
"Should I stay with my boyfriend? Evaluate him and his potential based on these pictures and information that I give you."

Well, what are we to compare him to? People, from the scummiest scumbag, to beautiful billionaires, are in relationships.

So we need to know what you look like, where you are in life, and what your prospects look like in order to see whether you're at the same level, he's too good for you, or you're too good for him.

We can't do that if you only give us information about and pictures of him.

>implying OP isn't the guy in question
>implying this isn't his ass-backward way of getting advice for himself because he's too scared to take responsibility for his own wardrobe

>>6201484
Do you guys live in a tent? What's going on in that picture?

>>6203183
hahaha wow. we have a whole thread criticizing your bf but youre off limits? id hate to see what you look like then.

>>6203363
im not humiliating anyone so i look fine and dress fine i dont need feedback on that thankyou tho.

>>6203387
are you really this fucking dense? you've spent this entire thread humiliating your boyfriend, albeit not publicly, but still planning on showing it to him later. post a fit or get the fuck out you shallow cunt.

>>6203508
this lol

OP should have been aborted.

50 bucks that OP's boyfriend has been considering breaking up with her and this thread will be the final straw.

I hope the next one beats you, bitch,

if you care enough about his clothing to even consider dumping him, leave him, you don't deserve him

wow you guys are so freaking mean. i never did anything to you personally you have no reason to hate me or be mean to me. maybe even youve been trolled this whole time. and youll never know. but keep in mind my sprirt is everywhere. haunting. judging. laughing at you

>>6203601
hahahah what the fuck?

How delusional is this chick? I fucking love it.

>>6203626
PRODIGY 2.0 even more pathetic

>>6201562
scary
old
man
I'll show u scary
>imagine just talking to rick oooh my goodness

Yo OP did you show him the thread yet?
Dide he crie?

>>6201484
tell him that dressing like a child makes him less of a man and you don't take him seriously

#owned

I have no idea whether that will help your relationship

buy him new shoes and guilt him about how esspensive they were

>b-but bf I spent so much $ :-(

or dump him, because men who don't care about how they look are losers

seriously. if you don't care how you look, then you don't care about self-improvement, self-expression, or self-image. men who are clear about their inspirations and clear about their aspirations to be better people are going to want to dress the part. men who just want to play skyrim and watch sports are going to dress like slobs because they don't have a higher purpose.

he's a loser. and he's too old to change. dump him and find someone better.

>>6202743
shit what a fucking retarded cunt

>>6202909
>OP confirmed for hideous

>>6202892
nice i can't wait for new Jay Z album
Carter 4 was disappointing but he came hard on Rebirth, so we'll see