/fa/ - Fashion

>>17106611
You have an anxiety problem, go see a therapist.

>>17106615
Sure but that doesn't mean I'm wrong here

>my best set of casual clothes
If this involves: jeans, t-shirt and a hoodie...

Regardless, that shouldn't bring death-glares.
I dunno, I used to get it but I don't anymore. Maybe it's a age thing, I'm mid-twenties now.

>>17106611
Just ignore everything or embrace it. Stop caring so much about what other people think. See what happens.

>>17106611
You probably have the child rapist vibe.

Bro, you take more care into not smelling bad than 99% of men
Just relax, you are probably imagining shit

>>17106615
No don't listen to this fag, therapists deserve to make no money.

It sounds like you might be a TI(targeted individual). There are support groups for people like us.

Reduce your ego

>>17106669
So I'm just ugly

>>17106611
Did you ever consider the possibility you are simply incapable of accurately judging peoples expressions and are merely reading that they are hostile when in fact they're merely looking over at you?

Besides, everyone who smells bad knows if they smell. They may not notice if they don't think about it, but if they smell and actually decide to smell themselves, they'd notice. So just smell yourself, and if you can't smell yourself at all (preferably outside after breathing clean air for a while), then you're most likely fine.

How the fuck do you dress? I've experienced this before. You're probably not blending in enough with the people you surround yourself with. If you're on the bus or train you're probably riding with a lot of shitty poor libtards with criminal histories. If you look conservative or clean or well put together or like you haven't spent time in jail, they're going to resent you for that.

>>17106972
This. Simply being not obese puts you into a lot of people's shit list these days.

>>17106611
Bruh.

>>17106611
Are you black?

>>17106852
Girls don't see an ugly guy and just stare at them. They either find you attractive or your just schizo, more likely your schizo

>>17107378
Kek.

>>17106972
This. Post an example of how you dress, it doesn’t need to be a photo of you, just a similar example you can find online. Maybe you stand out.

>>17106972
cope

>>17107404
They stare if they think you're a rapist

>>17106611
What could it be bros?

>>17106611
Im almost 2 meters tall and burly, should i shave all my bodyhair, become a polyglot and embrace /holdencore/¨?

They can detect your inner misogyny and racism

>>17107378
This. No one likes being around black people. Also a lot of women really don't like Asians either for some reason.

>>17108033
>>17107378
I'm white as they get

>>17108040
Are the women who are staring at you black? I've had black people get really angry at me for riding the metro and being White.

>>17108041
White, I live in a homogeneous country

I sometimes wonder if dressing overly plainly can make you stand out as much as dressing loudly, like if people are weirded out at bland outfits with no logos, designs and barely any color.

>>17108067
Nigger cattle wear BRANDING, humans do not wear any identifiable symbols.

post full body shot, OP. then we'll be able to tell you.

make sure you wear whatever it is you usually wear outside.

>>17106611
you're probably reading them wrong
back when I had anxiety, I thought people were staring at me all the time. And a lot of them actually were, now I just assume people find me attractive.
Try being more chad and smiling at people who look at you, it might change things for you.

>>17106611
>I keep getting the oppressive feeling of being stared by some women when I take the bus or the train
stare them down

>>17108851
I'm not not I think, plus I'm not attractive

>>17108222
I'm skinnyfat, dyel.

>>17108880
I don't wanna

>>17109010
be chad anyway, it's a good life hack
confidence is a grift that pays very well

>>17106611
are you in a big city? big city people have literal empathic retardation

>>17109053
gonna also add that you just have to learn to not give a fuck. Doesn't matter if you fake it and get there, or become good at something at get there.

I use stories of heros, anime/vidya lore of absolute units to put myself into a barely contained frenzy at times. Whatever suits you, really.

>>17109065
can you explain to me what you mean by this? i feel like i might do something similar but i cant maintain it before self awareness makes me want to rope

>>17106623
Spotlight effect

>>17106611
>the oppressive feeling of being stared by some women

It is probably wish fulfillment.
Meaning, your sub-concious wants to be stared at by women but your concious may feel uncomfortable with the idea (maybe you feel ugly or unable to measure up somehow) and so it "feels" wrong even though you would probably enjoy it if a woman actually did stare at you in a way that indicated interest and attraction to you.
When we are in public people do look at us but usually only to see if we are a threat.
If you don't look threatening then they will ignore you unless you are attractive to them.

Maybe you are better-looking than you think you are.
Or maybe women are wondering who you live with or where you are from, especially if you have an unusual form of dress.

To live in a society you have to learn to ignore other people. In a big city it is easy because people leave you alone.
Maybe move to a big city.
Or maybe try anti-anxiety medication, though in my case it made my anxiety worse so I eventually quit and now I smoke weed and just deal with the paranoia because it isn't important what people think of me, it is just there opinion.
Anyway, it is none of my business.

Good luck

>>17106611
What is this thread? You are mentally ill OP. Even if people were actually staring at you you would be mentally ill for doing all this shit just to avoid it.

>>17109156

>>17108048
Lucky fucking bastard.

>>17107993
t. non-passing basedfag tranny

>>17106611
>>17107985
No one here's read Blood Meridian.
stop it

>>17109583
You should. What? You haven't seen evangelion either?

Pathetic

>>17107404
idk, I stare a lot at ugly people thinking "damn, this mf is really ugly"

>>17109010
>I'm skinnyfat, dyel.

and what are your plans to change that? keep complaining or hitting the fucking gym???

>>17106611
Dude same here, i keep going to the same supermarket for cigarettes and the ladies working there just give me these dirty looks. I'm polite, keep to myself and don't consider myself aggressively ugly.

>>17106715
>>17106615
>>17106623
Go see a psychiatrist and get scripts for an SSRI and maybe Respridol. It will solve the problem and you can ween yourself off the meds later when you're better adjusted

>>17106611
>>17109869
Move to a shitty part of town. I currently find myself living there and don’t give two shits about the people that surround me.
Sure, it will make you give up on life but at least you can go around and never worry about what other people think of you.

https://youtu.be/r7Dtn5_F3Us

Embrace the terrorcore ass the dick and people will leave you alone

Ughh only armpit and crotch sweat smells bad
Maybe use more deodorant lmao

>>17109200
Even if I were dressed like a clown and smelled like an egyptian, at most a couple people would bother to look at me in public. People have their own shit to worry about, and they generally do not care about you. Hence the only conclusion I can draw from what you've said is that you are mentally ill.

>>17110003
im not OP retard

>>17110021
Thanks for the heads up anon, I needed to know that

>>17110003
How do you know? Do you look at them?

>>17110487
I do on occasion observe my surroundings, yes. I usually don't stare at individual people because it's not particularly interesting to do so, and nothing about talking to other people I am close with has indicated that they usually do so either. Even if I saw someone staring at me, I don't know why it would have any impact on my life unless they looked potentially dangerous, a quality which women generally do not have.

>>17109583
I have and english is my third language. it's not a hard read, dumbass

/fa/ autism general?

>Buy a beautiful vintage wool skirt.
>In perfect condition but needs the button returned to original position (previous owner was a fatty.)
>Put it up on a high shelf to protect it from the cat that I'm petsitting.
>Leave the room for a minute and she finds a way up there, covers it in hair and kneads two dozen pulled threads out of it.
>My autism is making me feel physically ill just thinking about them being there even though it isn't visible.

I want to throw up. It's a combination of regret, guilt, and shame for letting it get ruined. I'm like this with all clothing damage that happens from an accident/incident rather than long-term wear and tear and I don't know how to stop it lmao.

>>17110601
>I'm like this with all clothing damage that happens from an accident/incident
Same anon, got some vintage army chinos in pretty good condition a few weeks ago and the one day I decide to wear them while hanging outside with my friends, my one drunk friend who's an idiot and a BJJfag thinks it'd be funny to try taking me down and it tears a hole in the seat. Not as bad as pulled threads in wool, and partly my fault for being friends with idiots, but still felt sad seeing it get damaged so quickly. I feel better knowing that it happens to other people too. I guess it's good too to keep in mind that clothes are transient and prone to decay, as all physical things are, but clothes especially.

>>17106611
Tall to your mother

>>17111171
>Tall
*talk
I also find myself making a ton of mistakes on 4chan.
I think it’s the autocorrect. This place is such a big shithole that I don’t even care anymore. My face isn’t attach to these posts either. It’s not Twitter.

>>17111171
And what good would that do?

>>17106611
Maybe you're just good looking. It took me a while to get used to the change in how people looked at me after lockdown gains.
Captcha ghtgay lol