/fa/ - Fashion

>>14752580
>go to sleep same time each night
>wake up at same time each morning
>never skip showers, never skip skincare, never skip chores
>wash your plates as soon as you finish eating, properly clean your room once a week and try to keep it tidy
>exercise 3-4 times a week, preferably as soon as you wake up (right before bed is also fine)
>cut out all sugar, refined carbs, alcohol, trans-fats and other junkfood, a small amount of fructose (sugar from fruit) is fine
>base your diet around simple, nutritious foods like eggs, fish, veggies, lean meat, cheese eating is for health not for pleasure so no artificial sweeteners either.
>separate your work from your play, never procrastinate, do not relax unless you're overworked or have done your work for the day/week
>always have atleast one meaningful project going on at any given time, writing a programming project, learning a language, reading a book, studying a topic. Always invest some time into each week

this is what I've been doing for the last few months. I feel a lot happier and organised as a result, but I still have a long way to go, good luck anon.

>>14753809

Good tips. Tryna work on sleep rn. Been waking up consistently for the past week or so but I'm still tired. I end up taking naps in the evening which then make it harder to fall asleep at night.

>>14752588
>>>/comfy/

I just wanna develop the flexibility to suck my own cock

>>14754730
rooting 4 u

>>14753809
no no no fuck you fuck you and your lies this such bullshit. I'm trying. I'm trying to be a better person.
>eating vegetarian
>exercising
>no social media
>picked up reading, writing again
> 8 hrs sleep
>skin care routine and general hygiene fulfilled
>hydrating
> etc
And it's still not working. I fucking want to die. I'm not motivated. I hate my job. I hate my goddamn bosses so fucking much. Nothing is working. Why is my life so miserable, despite being a better person? I don't understand. fuck you and everyone who subscribes to this bullshit self improvement meme. some people just aren't meant for this world, and I don't understand why. I hate you I hate you I hate you fuck this.

>>14754977

>>14753809
Does practicing guitar count as a project?

>>14754977
Vegetarianism is an unnecessary stressor here. You have yourself regimented, but for what? Pursue something, set a goal.

>>14754977
sounds like you just hate your job desu

>>14754977
kill your boss

just do whatever u want. i used to be a tryhard and follow the cleanest diet and listen to podcast on the way to work
now i just smoke weed once a week and eat whatever in moderation
the effay lifestyle is being a cool ass dude or dudette

>>14754977
>vegetarian
No wonder you hate your life.

>>14752584
I LOVE THAT old fuck so much

>>14753886
>>14752626
>>14752584
terryworld pdf anyone pls?

Exercise

No need to be a gymrat or push your body to it's limits, but regular exercise for cardio and muscles can't be avoided.

Maðr er manns gaman.

Go outside.

>>14755020
Yes also based
>t.playing for almost a year now

>>14752604
are they doing the sex?

>>14755020
Anything you want can be a project.
It's yours, not the internet's or whoever else's.

>>14755458
and do what
walk around, look at my shitty city and its miserable people and go back inside
fucking great

this t bh >>14755942

>>14755059
This. Not the vegetarian part, that's whatever but you need to have goals. Something difficult enough that you struggle to achieve it and have to work at it, but is still in your reach. Then once you achieve that goal set another. Don't ever stop. The point isn't to reach the goal, the point is what you earn in the struggling for it. THAT is what gives you a feeling of accomplishment, that you met resistance and still continued. You didn't lie down like a bitch because it was too hard and you didn't feel like it.

Also you should probably go to fucking therapy, you sound miserable.

>>14755524
this image made me feel a lot of fucking pain
actually, i think i'll go back to therapy and try to fix myself again
thanks i guess, kek

>>14755399

this right here. just do whatever the fuck you want and do your best at it.

>>14756705
does lina have the thiccest hips in all of asialand or is it just the picture

>>14752616
What's in those bags?

>>14755524
God that hurts me cuz I know I could never be in that situation. Fuck man don't post this image unless you want to kill someone

>>14755020
yes

>>14756927
explain

>>14752580
What is there left to explore?

>>14757169
Probably never find myself with a qt in a tent in the mountains. It's probably quite doable for most people but I could never achieve that.

>>14755400
>>14755059
>not having any moral principles or integrity

no wonder you fucks are miserable. read some philosophy

>>14753809
>>go to sleep same time each night

Stopped reading there. Fucking virgin

>>14756927
>>14757185
bull-fucking-shit. i used to be exactly like you, a whiny faggot who cried over pics like that on 4chan. i know that exact same feeling you are experiencing right now. and i too used to think i will never have this.
well, things have changed. and they can change for anyone, including you, if you really try and don't sperg out.
and no, I did not change my diet or change my clothing or start to go to the gym. I'm still the same skinnyfat manlet that I used to be.

>>14755524
imagine the smell

>>14755458
>>14755942
>go out
Add "in nature"

take psychedelics and just b urself

>>14757694
lmao lad it's -2 celsius outside in the morning/evening and just gray and depressing during the day

>>14756860
coom

Joe Rogan lifestyle is my lifestyle goals.

if you change just one thing, make it taking up running.
Get a good pair of shoes (about 70-120 dollars, get them properly fitted in store) and just go till it hurts and then a little further. Do this every day for a year.

U will start to crave healthier food bc your body will need it, your spirits will lift from endorphin rush and you'll feel better about yourself. Nobody can call you lazy anymore and no matter how far you go or don't go, you're running rings around everyone on the couch.
Changed my life!

>>14757704
on the "go running" front, it's not cold when you've been running for 40 minutes.
Also, it doesn't matter if it's grey and depressing. Just go do it. You sound scared so I understand, but excuses won't get you anywhere. The right conditions won't come, you just have to do all this stuff from where you are.

>>14754977
4chan is a social media, just a friendly reminder

>>14758040
Okay, make a shit podcast, do shitty standup, and officiate UFC matches, faggot.

That's the only way he makes money, you can't be like Joe.

Pick someone else to model your life after, autist.

>>14758070
how do you go running in winter without slipping and breaking your neck?
frankly i don't see myself following around the snowplough

>>14758543
How fat are you?

>>14755454
this is literally what i need in my life right now

>>14758582
I'm not fat, I would just like to run generally not to lose weight
And it's gonna start snowing a lot

>>14758816
Get a good pair of boots with thick indents in the sole. Avoid ice if possible, if you can't then just walk over it instead of running.

If not, go to the gym and use the treadmill. That's the most normie thing there, and no one will look at you badly for using it in the middle of fucking winter.

>>14758543
they make running shoes made for winter/snow

>>14758958
ah yes, sitting and standing
my two favourite hobbies

>>14758958
tables flipped now we got all the coconuts woman

Give a fuck about a muthafucking lifestyle 'cause nigga
We, we live this shit

Give a fuck about a muthafucking lifestyle 'cause nigga
We, we live this shit

>>14759402
Dude I know you're white. Please dont say the N word, its 2019 and its time for an actual change. It has to start with us

>>14757425

>eating meat makes you amoral

nice cope philosophy

>>14760063
it's a quote from lyrics, dumbass
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yqZpdhjBYEE

>>14752580
love that book

>>14752580
Join a religion, I recommend being a muslim or a Buddhist monk for maximum discipline

>>14754977
You sound white.

>>14758878
Stupid lazy faggot probably already knows that, but is just looking for an excuse.

How do you guys stay focused on your creative vision?

>>14761027
Do it each day even if you don't feel like it at first. Inspiration is step 2 not step 1

>>14752580
make a list
having a schedule is the first step to efficiency, and therefore doing more of the things you want
I'm speaking from experience of course, as I wasn't doing much before I actually got my act together, so I had a lot of time slots to fill.

>>14754977
>eating vegetarian
enjoy low test, which causes depression
Read Kelly Brogan's articles and change your life through diet.

>>14760063
Sorry I'm late
>inhale
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>>14754730
why the censoring, we know it's u Igor

>>14753809
You forgot
> hate niggers
> be a man
> stop watching porn

>>14760678
fuck that is low hanging bait.
I would give you a shut the fuck up nigger, but you're more likely just some degen self race hating pleb. LARP more faggot

>>14752580
This woman looks like the amalgamation of all the women in my family. I feel like we are related, weird.

>>14762216

I wanna fuck the women in ur family

>>14755454
Áfram Ísland

>>14752580
get a sport. any sport. even a simple physical activity and become a master of it.

learn an instrument and a second language if you're monolingual.

develop a taste for good classics, dont drink too much, and get into a stable relationship.

>Pictures of tired girls with sad faces.

Why does literally every thread of this nature end up like this?

>>14761683
cringe/10
>inb4 some petty response

>>14762943
I suck at sports cuz i am 5'9, i speak 5 languages already, too ugly to get a gf.
>>14754977
Thats nerdy as fuck

https://youtu.be/F799p7Wa89g

>>14753809
>>base your diet around simple, nutritious foods like eggs, fish, veggies, lean meat, cheese
no vegetarian diet, meat shill confirmed

>>14759389
lol

>>14762113
Off, White.

>>14763093
>mfw the tripfag starts bullying me
>>14761673
>>14755400
>>14755059
>stop being vegetarian
It has unironically improved my skin drastically. I'm 21 and until last year I have never had acne, but my voice barely changed throughout puberty but now I'm getting really bad acne at this age, but my diet changes (no sugar, fruits and veggies only/minimal meat), exercise and skin care have helped.
It doesn't change my deep seated hatred for everyone around me and the place I live. Im still very unhappy. I still wish for death, or that this is a horrible dream I will soon wake up from. I wish I could get real psychiatric help

>>14752580
dont come here theyre all faggots

>>14754977
these things arent supposed to make you happy, they FACILITATE happiness/satisfaction, I would turn to god, and talk to a therapist or (good) priest, or a friend, also like the othher anon said, you dont have a goal

>>14757456
fag

>>14756010
Got any idea what kind of bike that is?

>>14755524
Fuck, the memories. Selling drugs, going to festivals, travelling, tripping on LSD, making love... Life used to be so easier. I made all the "good" lifestyle changes so i should be happier now, right ? RIGHT ?

>>14763745
Not a bike guy, I just liked the pic. Sorry lad

>>14764253
Maybe the changes weren't good.
Maybe you fucked your brain up with dopamine spikes so much that a balanced life seems insufficient.

every day i wake up at 3 or 4 pm and try not to scream

>>14762019
>>>/pol/

>>14764253
i'm doing that right now man what happens at the end?

>>14761683
dude ur wicked funny

>>14757172
The ocean is relatively unknown to humans. Also explore =\= discover, I guarantee you haven’t been to half the places there is still infinite possibilities to explore and see . Go out and do sownthing with yourself anon

>>14760128
>voluntarily paying to have someone torture and kill animals so you can eat them because you have no morals or will

seems kinda amoral to me desu

>>14766368
you should only eat fruit that has naturally fallen from a tree and you've grown yourself and don't end its right to a full potential and full plant life by harvesting anything by separating it from the plant as a whole.

>>14766368
immoral /= amoral
>>14766382
plants don't have nervous systems

>>14766368
>actually thinking that his vegan food is cruelty free
holy retardation

>>14764253
>waah i have responsibilities now

>>14753809
>a small amount of fructose is fine
I need to work on this badly. I switched to an all-natural diet but I've mostly been eating fruit since it satisfies my sweet cravings. I'll literally eat like two whole packs of dates in one sitting, or an entire pineapple, or a dozen bananas all at once. I always feel like shit after I eat a lot of fruit and I get dark circles under my eyes, I think the fructose goes right to my liver.

>>14764253
you sound like you post deep wisdom and song lyrics on facebook no offense.

>>14766666
it's obviously not. it's impossible to live a completely cruelty free lifestyle in a capitalist system, but that doesn't you should support the meat industry.

>hurr durr if i can't solve everything i might as well do nothing

>>14754730
y do u wanna coom in ur own mooth so bad?

>>14763093
i doubt u can even get a sentence out in english without stuttering, u weeb degenerate

>>14766927
>Not supporting the meat industry means not eating meat.

Or you could grow a spine and hunt your own meat. Maybe actually read books on deep ecology and understand that veganism is pushing us further away from nature, when the issue lies in the disaggregation of nature/industry/society.

>>14766650
No, but plants can scream and feel pain. Do your fucking research.

>>14752584
this guy's a pedophile never forget

>>14767092
backstory?

We all gonna make it if we really want to
>shit to begin with

Shit to avoid
Remember you're worth it anon ;^)

>>14754977
>go to psychiatrist
>take antidepressants he will prescribe to you
>go to therapy

on top of that you can also do your self improvement stuff

>>14767998
Based. If anyone needs help with financial planning I can help. Idk give discord or something.

>>14768005
Ya I should drink less eh?

I want to make a bad/austere lifestyle and try it out. has anyone done that?

similar food everyday, same clothes, sitting alone reading, not trying to have fun, minimal music, closed off from society. finish work and go home, sleep a lot. not go out ever, few if any friends, spartan apartment, very few or maybe 1 hobby. no shopping minimal possessions

Has anyone tried something like this on purpose? It almost moves towards buddhist monks, expect more nihilistic

>>14768309
not sure if ur still here but Chaseth#5429

>>14761027
I fucking love this picture. Maybe it's cus I gave up porn but this shit drives me crazy.
It's a kind of casual sexuality that feels really natural, like actually having a woman in your room. Fuck this makes me want to lift.

>>14752580
I tought that was Pupinia Stewert from the thumbnail

>>14753809
all good except from that shit diet

>>14768585
Your confusing the enjoyment of watching a moody film with actually being the protagonist.

>>14769010
>Your
I hate noticing a typo when the post is already going through.

>>14768585
im living like that but i still interact with girls off tinder and go to concerts when i dont have to work
its okay quite lonely. i be in my own zone just me you know. aint got shit to say but i dont wanna say shit

>>14764669
realization of the inevitable

>>14768999
i miss high school pupinia when she was putting all that great stuff out

>>14768585

>similar food everyday, same clothes, sitting alone reading, not trying to have fun, minimal music, closed off from society. finish work and go home, sleep a lot. not go out ever, few if any friends, spartan apartment, very few or maybe 1 hobby. no shopping minimal possessions

you will just get bored. living like that seems really unnecessary.

other than exercise and eat right the obvious stuff is there anything you can do untill the end of the year to benefit yourself like a 2 month regimen or program or something simple

>>14760066
subsaharan IQ.

>>14754977
you don't need a new job / new bosses, you need a new mentality. you've changed a lot of outward shit about yourself, because the only real change you can make is to yourself, but you've neglected all the inward shit - all your crappy principles and philosophies.
you have to lower your expectations of others - all the people you interact with who rub you the wrong way aren't doing it to spite you. a frightening amount of people in managerial roles have no idea what they're doing - they find themselves with no-one above them to turn to for support, so they just internalise that role and desperately try to convince themselves they know what they're doing by being cunts outwardly.
you need to learn where your own influence on the world ends.
you have two healthy options for dealing with people you have to interact with but don't want to: appreciate they're probably deeply unhappy if they're assholes to everyone and be able to deal with them because you feel sorry for them; or take solace in the fact that the path they're on won't lead them anywhere good - they'll be an asshole to the wrong person, someone will find out they're useless, etc.
caveat: if you think everyone you meet is an asshole - then you're the asshole and you have bigger changes to make.

>>14755395
second this

>>14769598
first thing in the morning make your bed and wash your face.

>>14756010
>try to fix myself
>again
it hurts

>>14752616
>still more fashionable than the /fa/ meetup

>>14755395
Don't do it.

>>14768309
>Ya I should drink less eh?

Eh not if you're under 30 and the rest is well.
Drinking your soul out (at the end of the week) is essential to developing nicely as a human, might as well get it out of the day asap. (fuck regular - everyday- alcohol and weed consumption though)

>>14767998
Also, BASED.

>>14761683
Just in time

>>14768585
that is how every broke loser that can't function in society lives. it's very easy to achieve so why not give it a shot. it requires zero effort and if you dislike it you can go back to your previous lifestyle.

>>14757425
I know id being able to beat the fuck out of you just by the way you talk