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How do I get a gf /fa/
I'm 18 and I've never had anyone be interested in me. I don't think I'm that big of an outcast.

Everyone just seems so different from me and distant. What if I never find anyone

>> No.14328973

>>14328971
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jAO_QKXLlk

>> No.14328979

>>14328973
What is this anon? It's 2:40 hours long

>> No.14328994

>>14328979
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJ8EAwRauoM&t=287s it's about this

>> No.14328999

>>14328994
I will take a look I guess

>> No.14329075

>>14328971
im 23 and in the same boat. trust me it doesnt get any better.

>> No.14329076

>>14328973
>>14328994
But he's just making fun of them, this doesn't help

>> No.14329080

mayb u should start doing shrooms

>> No.14329082
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14329082

>>14329075
im turning 22 at the end of the month and the pain just gets worse
>>14328971
some people just aren't made to be happy anon. we got unlucky

>> No.14329085

>>14329082
>>14329075
But I haven't done anything wrong in my whole life. What did I do to deserve this

>> No.14329090

>>14329085
find a hiking buddy get away from
screens whenever u can and try to have a less shitty diet. save up 2 buy a cabin in the woods cause conventional living isnt for u. maybe ull never be as happy as real people but your sadness doesnt make your life less valuable

>> No.14329091

>>14328994
>>14328973
I feel really bad for the 3000 rejects guy, like really really bad. He does seem intelligent

>> No.14329121

>>14328971

Download tinder and fuck girls.... don't spend more than 15 mins per girl

In 5 mins if she seems like a no -fuck or prude skip her there is a girl out there looking to fuck

>> No.14329134

>>14329121
i downloaded tinder, bumble, and hinge 2 weeks back and the only match i got was with a girl on bumble who never responded. idk if im hideous or if my standards are too high but i dont think im cut out for online dating

>> No.14329135

>>14328971
Book of pook pdf

>> No.14329138

>>14328971
Wtf is wrong with you lmfao

>> No.14329139

>>14328971
Im 19 and got my first gf like 2 months ago, dw about it dude just self improve, i got /fit and /fa and it just fucking happens.

Also tinder does work, i had to sacrifice a bit of my pride downloading it but in fairness it works

>> No.14329143

>>14329139
Is she qt. Tbh you're probably qt

>> No.14329148

>>14329134
Swipe right one literally everything, filter out ugly girls once they match.

It's a numbers game

>> No.14329152

>>14329148
Also....you can used matched ugly girls as practice flirting until you get your own little system down.

>> No.14329154

>>14329148
>>14329152
i just feel bad for doing that. my friends have told me to do the same but it all just seems so inauthentic.

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14329158

>>14329090
>conventional living isnt for u. maybe ull never be as happy as real people but your sadness doesnt make your life less valuable
Beautiful

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14329175

>>14328971
Idk buddy I'm struggling too but we will make brah

>> No.14329229

>>14329121
I don't want hook ups I want a relationship

>> No.14329231

>>14329229
girls only want relationships with guys who don't want to be in relationships with them

>> No.14329232

>>14328971
I'm turning 28 next week an i'm in the same boat as you. As you get older It gets harder and harder to even meet new girls.

>> No.14329252
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14329252

>had girls ask me out and send me nudes when i was 16
>ignored them all because i had the mindset of a 12 year old and only wanted to stay at home and play video games after school
>now 23 and surrounded by more attractive normie friends and get no attention from women
JUST

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14329260

>>14328971
>How do I get a gf /fa/
by giving up.
>b-but im not even trying now
nah nigga. if you imagine and constantly think about getting a gf even while being a pussy nigga that doesn;'t approach. guess what you're still trying to get one

give up and stop thinkign about it
>step 1
imagine the type of girl you want. literally picture yourself getting married to her.
do it until the imagination becomes like a scene from a movie you know
after that. stop thinking about it
move on and drop on
>step 2
reflect upon yourself. (acid and weed can help but not needed)
how can you improve in your life right
think bigger goals and small?
is your room clean?
can you make your room cooler(maybe add plants)
how is your health?
teeth white?
are you weak?
got some fat on you?
maybe you aren't that flexible?

hows your posture? can you speak clearly? vocabulary?

i can go on and on., but drop the wanting of a gf. and spend the next 3 years working on yourself. is going to be REALLY HARD and sometimes you'll wanna quit
but bro u gotta do it. im not saying you ignore women, but get to a point where you only get a gf. because you feel like it. not because ur life sucks ass

>> No.14329292

>>14329260
But I've already been self improving for god knows how long, when does it end?

>> No.14329296

>>14329292
>18
you're just getting started buddy
probably still live with your parents and don't have your own car

>> No.14329298

>>14329292
btw do u have any skills?

>> No.14329314

>>14329085
Because you haven’t done anything

>> No.14329318

>>14329298
I can cook and play guitar.
>>14329314
well what was I supposed to do

>> No.14329320

>>14328971
You don't. Just forget about the concept. Our generation has to step up and eradicate the ruling class of weak honorless men and their army of fluoridated goys. We have bigger problems than our dicks' desires.

>> No.14329321

>>14329318
good
start a band and keep cooking

>> No.14329358

>>14329321
you need good friends for that

>> No.14329363

>>14329154
Same here man. Turning 21 in June and I have never been in a romantic relationship. I don't really care about sex that much, I want a genuine relationship with someone. I want a family and kids, not hedonistic sex with multiple women. Only issue is that girls my age and in my area are only interested in superficial hookups and dating for "experience". It's all a fake and inauthentic game people play with each other. I hate it. Sex is just a transaction between two parties now. I don't want some girl who has had multiple sexual partners, and I don't want to be the guy whoring himself out just to indulge his hedonistic desires.

I have come close to starting relationships. . Have had girls interested in me but I turned them down because I felt like I wasn't ready or that I didn't have a connection with them. And yeah, you have to get to know them first to make a connection but the way my retarded head works is that it's too much of a time and money sink to invest into someone and have the high chance that you will eventually break up so I might as well not even bother. Basically I desperately want a committed relationship, but girls don't want that and I don't want to risk wasting time on them. I'm fucked famalam.

>> No.14329369

>>14329252
I did the same thing man. I didn't go to college and went straight into the workplace. There are no women my age (20) and everyone I know in college is making connections and finding gf's. I basically cucked myself.

>> No.14329387

>>14329363
Dedicate yourself to overthrowing the government and securing a stable future for our progeny instead.

>> No.14329414

>>14329358
craigslist, facebook groups, find that shit man.

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14329459

>>14329363
we're the same person

>> No.14329465

>>14329358
then go find some good friends

>> No.14329485

>>14329459
>>14329363
June '98 virgin master race reporting in!

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14329490

>>14328973
SHUT IT DOWN!!!

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14329497

>>14328971
>>14329075
>>14329232
BOY do i just LOVE IT when you fucken retards only ever wine about your shit life instead of improving
What you couldve done instead of making an R9K thread here is to show yourself and ask what you need to do better or ask if your style is acceptable
Fuck me dead give us something to work with if you want improvement go back to your containment dumpster if you are just here to gather empathy you spastic prick

>> No.14329501

>>14329459
>>14329485
Well, I suppose it gives me some determination and confidence in the fact that I am not alone in my thoughts. The social isolation is the worst. My friends just can't seem to grasp why I don't want to engage in this kind of behavior. I don't know. Maybe our generation has a role to play in fixing clown world and we are the first of many to come. Lead by example I suppose.

>> No.14329537

>>14329501
That's why I ghosted my friends. All I care about is fixing clown world even if it kills me, which ideally it will so I won't have to be old and alone.

>> No.14329552
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14329552

>>14329537
Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori.

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14329564

>>14329154
>>14329363
>>14329459
>>14329501
>>14329537
>>14329552
I pray that this shit will get better within my time on Earth

>> No.14329580

>>14329564
We are the ones who will have to take up the responsibility to make it better. No one else will do it for us. Lead by example and never betray your morals.

The fact that virtues such as family, loyalty and tradition are held in contempt by society just shows how spiritually dead we are as a civilization. I'm expecting something akin to the collapse of Rome to happen within our lifetime.

>> No.14329585

>>14329580
no the only way to save us
is too accelerate the degeneracy. i want all of them to ruin themselves

>> No.14329619

I hate this world

>> No.14329722

>>14329585
We ride the tiger as it accelerates. No sense in pushing tradition on normies who will only half ass it and delay the new world.