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I want to start dressing maybe kind of feminine? Like I think it could be a good look for me. I am 23 and have no facial hair, a very slight build, but a strong jawline and angular face. Any tricks to pulling off this look? I don’t want to look androgynous or anything, but I don’t think I’d mind if I gave off gay vibes? Also I’m straight.

>> No.13872180

>>13872171
girls love the fem vibe, itll make you come off as the non threatening type. dress in looser fitting yet comfier clothing, pic related. maybe invest into skin+hand care and have your hair on the longer side

>> No.13872324

>>13872171
figure out what kind of look/vibe you want. http://waveroad.co.kr/index.html sells fem/unisex clothing, looking through their store or stores like it can be a good start

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>>13872171
welcome to the fun side my dude. not every girl wants some muscular chad to split her in half.
>>13872180
this guy has the right idea. kinda weird but look into androgynous/fem outfits for inspo. pic related.

you need to have the right build though, the clothing you wear primarily accentuates those features (clear soft skin, face, slim frame)

>t. twink who fucks petite lil cuties on the regular
I kid you not all I do is make good eye contact and gently smile and on numerous occasions girls just melt right there on the spot.

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>> No.13872405

tfw too masculine to be a twink and too small to be masculine
I'm in aesthetic purgatory

>> No.13872556

>>13872348
This guy knows what’s up

>> No.13872609

>>13872348
This girl is a perfect example of a Kibbe's "true classic" face type. Very beautiful.

>> No.13872616

>>13872348
w2c shirt and/or sweater exactly like this? what is this collar called? i want this exact aesthetic

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>>13872616
its just an oversized sweater over a dress shirt, no?

>> No.13872640

>>13872633
"dress shirt" is not specific
i want the round-collar-blouse thing going on in the pic

>> No.13872650

>>13872405
thats called being ugly

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>>13872171
Wear a loose knitted sweater with the collar pulled to the side show your shoulder, kinda like this but show more skin than in the pic

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at this point I just want to dump some stuff I have saved over like a year

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pretty sure someone will find these pics helpful

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>> No.13872839

I'm enjoying this thread, anon please go on

>> No.13872857

how do i achieve this aesthetic during summer (australia)

>> No.13873214

>>13872817
thanks anon I found them helpful
good taste

>> No.13873262

Get a good skin care routine, take care of your hair and trim your eyebrows. Also don't be fat, I don't think people think I'm gay but people occasionally think I'm a girl.

>> No.13873272

>>13872804
howl?

>> No.13873390

>>13872823
dumb question what what type of pants are these?

>> No.13873428

>>13872640
Its a Peter Pan collar.

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>> No.13873970

>>13872396
this is what I always wanted to be
I'm obese tho fuck

>> No.13873978

>>13872650
Oh wow nothing gets past this guy

>> No.13874001

>>13872804
WHAT THE FUCK ARE THOSE

>> No.13874009

>>13873390
good question, actually.

>> No.13874067

>>13872171
>>13872396
>>13872810
>>13873790
only good feminine guy looks in here so far. everything else isn't even close.

>> No.13874396

>>13874067
If this >>13873790 is good looking then I'm a solid 7/10, and I'm a dirty arab.

>> No.13874438

>>13872813
can someone tell me what do i tell my hair stylist so i can get a cut like this? ive been trying to make my hair like that but i cant find pics of guys with it and i dont want to show them pics of girls. ive already grown my hair long but it just has the wrong form.

>> No.13874553

>>13874396
works for the guy because he's slim, tall, has nice facial structure while not looking like a chad, nice hair, nice skin, doesn't look threatening, girls all around him, kind of looks gay, and is definitely hooking up with the qt on the right

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another pic of him

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>> No.13874563

>>13874396
its not about looks sometimes. its about feminity in this case. >>13874067
although all of these guys are pretty good looking, theres a feminine aspect about them

>> No.13874569

>>13874563
You mean the way he carry himself ?

>> No.13874683

>>13874569
could be the way you carry yourself. In this case OP wants to dress more feminine, so the clothing and way you groom yourself. This means clean shave, nice hair etc

>> No.13874783

I want to go for this look. I built a lot of muscle so I'm going to cut body fat and grow my hair out. I'm only 5'8 so I figure I have a chance. Ultimate goal is to be mistaken for a girl when out with my gf and her friends without going full trap.

>> No.13875208

losing weight for this style, wish me luck

>> No.13875254

>>13872815
i need this coat dammit

>> No.13875973

>>13872348
thanks for that pic anon I had never thought of getting a shirt with a rounded collar

>> No.13875982

Unironically the best thread on /fa/ right now.

>> No.13876257

I’m trying to go for this look but I’m 6’4. I’m really lanky though, could I pull it off? My features are soft and I have pretty pale skin

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>>13876257
a lot of people can pull this look off, height is irrelevant. what matters is your body composition and your face. if you have broad shoulders and a very male face, you cant pull it off. anything else? feel free to go for an androgynous look

>> No.13876266

This thread has been so helpful thank you OP

>> No.13876275

all black works pretty well with the androgynous aesthetic too btw. black is the great equalizer in fashion. it works for every body and skin type, throughout all ages.

>> No.13876288

>>13876275
Black is such a nice colour, and since I often find it formal and edgy I love trying to dress a bit cute but classy in it

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This is a good thread. I don't know if i can contribute much but I'll try

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>>13876689

>> No.13876697

>>13872171
This is when it kind of helps to be on the short side. Like 5 foot a few inches.

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>>13876694

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>>13876698

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>>13876701

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>>13876708
All i have. Keep this thread alive please

>> No.13876714

>>13872180
>and have your hair on the longer side
I think short hair on a feminine guy creates a nice contrast
longer hair might just make you look like a fag

>> No.13876723

>>13872813
Id on shoes?

>> No.13876738
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I think this really is about how you carry yourself. Skin/Haircare, being soft, being playful, how you smile and make eyecontact, maybe if you edge into that softboy thing being cute/boylike. Dont let anyone tell you its gay, this is how i get women, and apparently others here too. People that get hung over you being gay are just too insecure to show some femininity, disconnected from the female side every man has and needs.

>> No.13876753

>>13876738
sadly, in some MENA countries like italy you'll get called a faggot by random people in the street and get mocking wolf whistling

>> No.13876792

>>13876753
Woah i didn't know that about Italy. Thought its a stereotype that men are macho there. Here in Germany people will look at you, and my friends tell me i look gay sometimes, but when i remind them of my girlfriend and say what ive written above they accept it.

>> No.13876811

>>13876792
>Here in Germany people will look at you, and my friends tell me i look gay sometimes, but when i remind them of my girlfriend and say what ive written above they accept it.

>my friends tell me i look gay sometimes

Are you friends by any chance studying CS, law or business? Because most men in Germany don't really care about feminine men at all, esp. in academia.

>> No.13876814

>>13876686
i really, really like this.
thanks

>> No.13876821

>>13876811
Na, they're mostly in chemistry and physics, but i think they just have some father problems they didn't cope with. You're right, most men dont care.

>> No.13877113

>>13876686
this is my current style rn. gets compliments AND im cozy 24/7

>> No.13877158

>>13872171
Okay but how do I get hair like this? My hair is that exact length and color but it just falls flat

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Pic not exactly relevant but fuck I love guys who dress like stuff in this thread/have long hair.

>> No.13877257

Where can I get some comfy sweaters like >>13872396
Whenever I go for an oversized sweater fit I never like it but I love it on other people. I think it might just be because they're too boxy?

>> No.13877384

>>13877257
be skinny

>> No.13877746

>>13872405
Bearded 5'8"ish sorta fatty or more detected.

t. I'm not in the same boat and I'm not crying, it's just dust.

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>>13877174
same

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thoughts on oversized clothing on men? just bought this an aliexpress, half worried it might make me look like a girl desu

>> No.13877846

>>13876686
w2c pants like this?

>> No.13877869

>>13877840
CUUUTE

>> No.13877941

Can I still be cuteboy core even if I have terrible acne scars

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>>13877941
are they actual scars or just dark marks? either way nothings really stopping u as long as u know how to maneuver around them!! best of luck cuteanon

>> No.13877959

>>13877948
Something like this and thanks bro

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>>13877959
Forgot pic

>> No.13877979

Don't have much to contribute but there's someone who does this look pretty well at 8:15 in this video https://youtu.be/zZLVXgHxqVI

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>>13877962

>> No.13877986

>>13876686
w2c trousers like this?

>> No.13877994

>>13877962
You can totally be a cuteanon, because its way more how you carry yourself. I started cuteboy behaviour way before i cared about fashion, and i have a hair ruffling gf now. That also means that you really have to feel like it though.

>> No.13878004

>>13877962
get chemical peels and laser treatments

>> No.13878010

>>13877985
D:

>>13877994
>>13878004
Thanks lads gonna work on it

>> No.13878386

>>13877962
I was expecting it to be worse, you can do it anon!

>> No.13878422

>>13872652
this guy played hearthstone right

>> No.13878467

>>13877962
mob boss core

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>>13872857

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>>13878502

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>>13878504

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>>13878508
lanky thinspo cutie
I think he's a tranny now?

>> No.13879526

Bump

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>>13877840
w2c?

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C'mon guys time to get big

>> No.13879930

>>13872171
>>>/lgbt/

>> No.13879931

>>13874001
Tasseled loafers ? they are peak androgynous shoes imo.

>> No.13880380

>>13879557
https://www.aliexpress.com/
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all you fucking andro crypto-twink art hoe e-boy dorks have been ruining my gaydar for years by dressing like this and then saying you're straight stop doing this fuck you fuck you

>> No.13880410

>>13877986
>>13877846
http://us.topman.com/en/tmus/product/clothing-172005/mens-pants-2247908/selected-homme-grey-cropped-tapered-pants-8203065

>> No.13880413

>>13880406
THE GAY LOOK IS FOR FAGS ONLY ITS HOW WE COMMUNICATE ITS HOW WE BRAND OURSELVES STRAIGHT MEN GET OUT

>> No.13880418

>>13878479
how do i get a cute asian bf like this

>> No.13880419

>>13880406
>>13880413
but i like teasing cute gaybois ;)

>> No.13880423

>>13880419
then ur not straight

>> No.13880456

>>13872806
w2c shirt? thx bois

>> No.13880479
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what shoes should you wear with this kind of sweater+jeans look? Also is this Chad approved or will i just look gay?

>> No.13880525

>>13872180
>>13873262
>skin routine
Any recommendations? I have naturally clear skin but it's relative to other boys. How do I enter girl-tier soft/clear? I currently shower a few times a week and just use some generic body wash.

>> No.13880529

>>13880479
ya just embrace chad if you're actually /fit/

>> No.13880532

>>13880525
they have body washes that contain moisturizer, i noticed it is less drying than other soaps, in general showers will dry your skin so take short showers plus use sunscreen all the time

>> No.13880759

>>13880410
link doesnt work

>> No.13880790

>>13880525
softboy reporting in.
if you want girl-tier soft/clear youll have to be very diligent about this, but its best to start off small to see where you will thrive best.

typical beginner's skin care routine includes exfoliating twice a week, face mask 2-3 times a week, moisturizing every day (in the morning and before bed), facial cleanser every day (also in the morning and before bed). its also really important to use sunscreen if you go out, the sun is your biggest enemy...

>> No.13880792

>>13872171
If you're skinny, a big, loose sweater with nothing underneath and skinny jeans is a good, easy fem look.

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>>13880790
alos, here's some of the stuff i use!! hope this helps ^^ remember to hydrate yourself as well!!

face wash: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0028TV4CY/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I2DTMZ1DU8BOO9&psc=1

toner: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JV7PXSW/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I1UPWKGOSPQEJV (or any witch hazel)

scrub: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003Z4OD24/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I3KVSA5MIF0MEQ

mask: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BZ1QN2C/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pd_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I3RS1JLBS75943&psc=1

moisturizer: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0030FP6XS/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_S_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I1F634V6F9000F

body lotion (day): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BS1SP2U/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I31UCPDWV34SK4

body lotion (night): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000URWZ9C/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pd_S_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I33PNJZW7M4CI1&psc=1

dark circle eye cream: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00K6SQHI0/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=I1VD41OY5VSDZ2

sunscreen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00JWZL4W2/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=SKR8GI6Y54ZA&coliid=IRRRCMV70YA82

>> No.13880805

>>13872171
>Also I’m straight.
no, you're not

>> No.13881029

>>13880406
>>13880413
Being hit on by you gays is so fun, and the face of disappointment when i court a girl in front of you is yummy.

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>>13880406
just beat the fuck out of them for appropriating gay culture then pull the gay card lol

>> No.13881321

>>13872405
b urself bb

>> No.13881325

>>13872801
football helmet core

>> No.13881329

Where can I get some cute slim boots? I absolutely hate clunky boots but they always look chunky to me. Preferably black and not Chelsea boots

>> No.13881370

>>13878512
makes sense

>> No.13881435

>>13872829
This is very nice. Would probably enjoy with more colour.

>> No.13881451

>>13881029
>court
sure bud

>> No.13881454

>>13873790
horrifying

>> No.13881521

gray sweaters are the shit also like to wear white shirt under so it looks really cozy