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I was hit with a new wave of depression 2 days ago. I've noticed my eyes have been focusing on my face and how ugly I am. It hurts. I didn't want to get out of bed this morning. I finally got up 10 minutes ago and it's 3:31PM. I'm posting this on /fa because I like fashion, but I feel like I can't even wear nice clothing because it's countered by my ugliness. When it comes to fashion, there must be harmony with the overall look. How can I get harmony if my face is always putting it off? I've just been sitting here doing nothing.

What do I do? Anyone else relate?

>> No.13652818

>>13652773
don't worry about immutable things such as facial aesthetics, anon.
you can still dress fly, and live a dope life.

>> No.13652820

>>13652773
Also, you may have a psychological issue with body image..could help to talk to a counselor/therapist

>> No.13652825

>>13652818
How do I live a dope life?

>>13652820
What makes it a psychological issue?
I'm objectively ugly.

>> No.13652826
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13652826

>>13652773
Stop making excuses, hit the gym, make new friends, lift weight, impregnate a girl.

>> No.13652830

>>13652773
post pic and i will comfort you

>> No.13652831

>>13652825
do what you want, wear what you want & study what you want

>> No.13652833

>>13652826
>Stop making excuses
I'm not

>hit the gym
I'm a skeleton and it's difficult to gain weight. I was in an eating disorder clinic in my early teens and it was hard to gain in there too.

>make new friends
Where do people even find friends?

>impregnate a girl
I'm 18.

>> No.13652835

>>13652830
I don't know if posting my face on 4chan is a good thing.
Especially on a thread where I'm expressing desperation/frustration.

>> No.13652838

>>13652835
Of course it is, this is 4chan, home of the good feels

>> No.13652843

>>13652833

>>Stop making excuses
>Im not

2 lines later
>Its hard for me to gain weight so I dont go to the gym or just eat more regardless how hard it may be

Also just talk to people from your school to make friends

>> No.13652844

Same here OP. I'm a ugly manlet and I cope by living vicariously through all of you on /fa/.

I hope my reroll will be better.

>> No.13652847
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>>13652833
I was a fat fuck by myself, also nearly into depression. Study your environment, learn why people are like how they are. If you are a male, gain weight and fucking lift heavy iron. It's hard in the beginning, but you will gain true blessing and fulfillment when you invest into your body.

>> No.13652854

>>13652843
I'm not in school.

>> No.13652857

>>13652844
That doesn't seem fun.
That would make me want to kill myself even more.
Just watching everyone else be better than you, god that would destroy any hope I had left.

>> No.13652865

>>13652847
I feel like people avoided me in high school because I was ugly. I had no friends, still don't.
I don't think I've ever met anyone that I wanted to be friends with anyway.

>> No.13652883

>>13652773
just dress really ugly like a swamp ogre or something to compliment your ugly-ass face.

>> No.13652885

>>13652773
>wave of depression
fuck off

>> No.13652887

>>13652883
No lol

>> No.13652892

>>13652887
your god given role is as an ugly background character in our fashionable lives, just embrace it faggot.

>> No.13652895

>>13652892
No. I either join the primary cast or I destroy all of you >:3

>> No.13652959

>>13652833
You are a retard. There are no "hard gainers" it is just your perception of what a normal amount is gives you insufficient Calories.
I call you a retard because Calories are something you can COUNT which means any fatty or skinny can count them to get the appropriate gain or loss that they want with very simple math.

>> No.13652973

>>13652773
Rick owens is butt ugly and look at how good he looks, just look after yourself and have some balls.

>> No.13652978

>>13652959
I know what calories are. I lived in an ED institution. I eat 2.1-2.2k calories a day.
Sometimes I miss out b/c food is expensive.
The food goes through me. it is difficult.

>> No.13652982

>>13652973
>and look at how good he looks
He doesn't.
You just called him butt ugly and said he looks good at the same time. What?

>> No.13652985

>>13652978
Also, I'm 5'11 and 115lbs. just to be clear.

>> No.13652998
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13652998

i know ur feel anon, im in the same boat as you
i cant seem to get out of my funk
im trying to dress better this year but i still feel like garbage
i started playing badminton every wednesday night with my neighbor to work out my body

>> No.13653006

>>13652985
me too and I'm pretty handsome. People just don't understand that some folks will shit out everything they eat, hahah

>> No.13653178
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13653178

>>13652773
Anyone could be good looking if they tried, anon.

>> No.13653200

hey idk if I can offer any solution but im like the same
like im somewhat skinny (6'3 145 lbs) but I fixate on things about my face that I feel ruin everything
I dunno if it gets better but im sure you're cute

>> No.13653245

Try taking some SAM-E or HTP-5(?) for two weeks, you can get them at Costco. I take a SAM-E every morning and I was taking some HTP-5 too at lunch and dinner. Idk how much it helped because I removed some stressors from my life, but I break down a lot less now.

YMMV but it's easy to do, and maybe it'll get you on track to being in the right place to take care of yourself in other ways.

>> No.13653251

>>13652773
shut up, you probably just fucking turned 19 or some shit. In the large scheme it doesn't fucking matter. live with it, deal with it, and focus on personal happiness, faggot.

>> No.13653253

>>13652998
Why not (if you have the money or if it's available at your apartment) hit the gym 3 times a week?

You'll get there much faster than just 1 badminton game a week!

>> No.13653259

>>13653178
HAHAHAHAH no-

>> No.13653550

>>13653178
That isn't true and that picture is photoshop.

>> No.13653553

>>13653251
I'm 18, but yeah 19 is coming up m8

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>>13653200
>im sure you're cute
I'M NOT CUTE!

>> No.13653830

The only thing ugly is your attitude Mister!

You are going to be ok as long as you focus on the positives. Stop dwelling in negatives, no on is that ugly, you are just blowing it out of proportion, if fashion is what makes you happy then stick with it. Don't give up

>> No.13654026

>>13653553
exactly, just a kid with a pointless crisis. I had a fucking heart attack from bacterial infection, and I just turned 27 couple of months ago. Fucking enjoy life, might not know when it'll be it for you.

>> No.13654593

>>13652773
change your hairstyle, smile more, grow a beard, do facial exercises, maybe get a nose job idk what's your probleme but with time you can fix it

>> No.13654657

>>13654593
>do facial exercises

is this legit? I have a very long and narrow face and I think I could use more of a jaw.


I also don't like my face, OP

>> No.13654798

>>13654657
it helps but it will not change your entire face. Go for it

>> No.13655102

>>13652985
>>13653006
>5 inches taller than me
>only 5 pounds heavier than me
I'm skinny as fuck with just a little muscle so you guys must be absolutely skeletal

>> No.13655738

>>13652773

This may seem weird to you, but sometimes ugly people are actually attractive.

Keep that in mind.

>> No.13655747

>>13652773
Some people claim you should ''compensate'' for the way you look with your clothes, essentially doing the opposite what people expect from you, e.g. Asian men having tattoos and black men wearing something more feminine like a scarf of trenchcoat.
I personally feel this feels like ''playing pretend'' in some way. I myself look quite young, yet if I were to dress very maturely, I'd feel like a child in mommy's makeup and clothes. So I don't know, maybe look into colour theory to compliment your skin tone and general fashion to compliment your body shape. You can slo become a gymcel if you're male

>> No.13655785

>>13655102
Yep, but I'm really damn handsome

>> No.13655866

Same, OP.

I'm ugly, I'm poor, I have no sense of style. I come here to kid myself that maybe I could ever be cool.

>> No.13655965

Own it and you'll find happiness