/fa/ - Fashion

>>13620378
feelings aren't fa

Got over a 4 year relationship 5 months ago. Started dressing better. Much more confidence when walking around campus now.

well i came to the conclusion that isolation sucks and i want someone close but people tell me im really weird so i guess im sticking with being alone

>>13620378
>never had a girlfriend
>never kissed a girl
>never cuddled
>never slept in the same bed as a girl
>had one opportunity as a kid and blew it
>thought that she was joking
>thought that if she wasn't, I wouldn't meet her expectations
>have only four close friends
>stay at home most of the time
>use fashion to make me feel less insecure

>>13620378
>have every piece of clothing and pair of shoes youve ever wanted
>literally nothing left to buy
>start buying secondary pairs of favourite pieces because anxious about their availability when your current ones kick the bucket

when will my wallet rest for fucks sake

You can be consciously fa and have normie/chad tendencies. It’s up to you how you present yourself. Do whatevr you want cus like fuck it. There’s only limited time on this fucking space rock so grab shit by the pussy brother.

>on the bus after getting a body2body massage from a hot as fuck slovakian (I made cums twice)
>absent mindedly staring out the window
>lock eyes with a 16 year old with huge tits sitting on a bench thats near my house (30 seconds away)
>bus is sitting at the traffic lights
>she holds eye contact with me, smiling until I bottle it and look the other way
what did she mean by this

My relationship is starting to stagnate. I kind of feel bad, she is really invested in us and feels a lot for me. It's been a year now, she's in love with me. I don't know if I fully reciprocate; it's just second nature at this point, you know? Everything in my life seems routine, my relationship included. I don't even have any desire to see her in person let alone talk to her as much as I once did. The sexual desire for her is slowly fleeting too. She suggested breaking up, as much as she doesn't want to, due to my distance behavior.

I don't know what to do anymore. I guess I have no choice but to breakup with her, wouldn't want to string her along. It'll only hurt more [for her] in the end.

>>13620393
Yes, they are. Feelings don't have to be sad. Feelings could be any emotion.

>Go out on lots of dates with qts
>Feel nothing, no happiness, no horniness nothing at all
>One of these girls is really into me
>Tells me I don't show any feelings
> Tell her that I don't want to see us as a good fit the day after a date
>Catch feels over weekend, and text her asking to hang out
>She says yes but now seems to have no feelings

Can't catch a break bruhs, either I'm emotionless or I catch feels

IM FIVE FEET AND EIGHT INCHES TALL

>inb4 someone posts the depressed cynic wojak and they get 1000 (you)s
its clockwork on this board

>>13620431
>have only 4 close friends
try having literally no friends

>>13621317
Could be worse
You could be me and be 5’4”

>tfw no matter how good i look my autism overpowers all
>tfw no gf

>younger brother hitting puberty
>he's a fairskinned, hairless, with green eyes and 6'2"
>tfw I'll forever be a 6'0" manlet ethnically ambiguous white guy who has to shave every day with shit coloured eyes
>why are genetics so cruel?

I still dress better than him though and am much more physically fit :'(

>>13621943
it's you putting those "problems" on yourself.

>tfw mom is a tailor

>manlet
>built like a refrigerator
>nothing fits right
>everything is too expensive
>will never look cool

>>13620378
>All my replicas have arrived and they look exactly like i wanted
>A local magazine is offering me employment after an exhibition i did a few months back
>My emotional GF is becoming more forthcoming sexually, she does as i say, i am starting to resent her

Eh, it's mostly fine i guess.

>>13621197
Sad is more fa than most feeling but feeling in general are not fa

I was in a car crash and got facially disfigured, and have now lost all interest in fashion because any fit i wear is ruined by my wounds.

>>13624172
Wounds are cool as fuck

>>13624172
Pic? I won't lie to you, there probably will be faggots that will make fun of you so if you don't want to it's fine.

>like white things
>white sneakers, white backpacks, white jackets, that sort of shit
>fantasize about an all-white fit with accents of red and black
>too scared to wear it
being just the right amount of autist to be weird but not enough to qualify for neetbux is an awful fate
worst part is, i get told I'm cute a lot so i could probably pull it off

Whenever I post in threads, they immediately die

>>13624172
unless you literally lost your nose or some freak shit like that you'll be fine.
facial scars are fucking dope

>>13622576
must be nice, i get charged $15 just for a hem which i feel is a little steep but im a loyal customer so i keep going to the same shop.

i used to browse this board heavily between 2013-2015 but luckily don't feel the need for it anymore. truth is i dont give a shit about fashion and i never really did.
just couldnt find a sense of belonging irl so i just came here, which was a terrible fucking idea because all that money spent on clothes didnt really amount to anything in terms of personal development, i was still a secluded loser with some extra fancy clothes when i wasted my days in front of the computer.
it wasn't until i got lucky and landed a decent job and later on started studying at university and met new people that i realized how absolutely meaningless a compliment on your outfit is.
i still, like most regular people, care about how i dress to an extent of course, but dont use it to try and show people what kind of person i am, and it has benefited me immensely.

Has anyone else noticed that an interest in fashion is inversely proportional to women's interest in you? I don't think it's wise to expect dressing well will attract women, work on being someone that other people want to be around.

I'm not very fashionable and my wife likes me because I'm interesting and emotionally stable. Work on that.

>>13625103
Fashion is just another extension of your character. If you’re Chad, being fashionable will get you girls, if you’re beta, being fashionable probably won’t help you much.

>>13620378
Fuck off to /r9k/ faggot

I had a fucking chimpout and a ripped my favorite shirt.

>>13625500
No

>was in California for the summer alone
>broke up with 1 year gf towards the end
>two weeks after, the last night I was there, meet an awesome girl on tinder who broke up with her bf
>we chat and she comes over and we fugg
>leave the next day

She said I was the second guy she fucked besides her bf she just broke up with. Feels bad knowing shes getting some other chad dick. Gorgeous too.

>>13620425
Just find other weirdos idiot. Unless you're one of those nerds that lack self awareness and refuse to hang out with other weirdos because "they're weird" lmao.

>>13621312
Sound like you're just an indecisive retard. Easy solution to your problems would be to just wait before opening your mouth.

>>13620457
Pretty much this. I'm not terribly good looking, but I approach my interests and fashion with confidence, which translates to people liking me for who I am.

>>13621943
Hey Ezekiel

>>13625103
get the fuck out of here boomer

>>13625103
based and redpilled

>>13621660
I know this 5'4 dude that was on the football team and he pulled Hella bitches. so did this dude on my xc team. both were short Chad's. one was black and one was white. you're holding yourself back.

>used to be twink /fa/ggot
>bought about £2000 of clothing over the course of 2 years
>decide to get into lifting
>made serious gains
>within 6 months non of my clothes fit me :(

>>13620431
>>13621651
Hobbies my dudes. If living on the internet is your existence you need to learn to cope with the lack of physical touch, otherwise you won't have any peace of mind.

>>13621197
Why not shake up that "stuck" feeling and do something fresh and new with her ?

>>13622800
>built like a refrigerator
>nothing fits right
>everything is too expensive
Sounds like you need to either hit the gym or switch styles to something baggy. Either way I hope you can own it.

>>13626861
i know that feel

i really do think its worth it in the end though, especially when you take your 30s+ into consideration

>>13625742
ew im not jewish wtf

>>13620378
only online friends
barely leave my bedroom
overeat
no hobbies
probably stuck in shit small town for the rest of my life

>>13620378
i regret bringing these threads back. i just wanted to talk about my green shoes jesus christ

I used to have super nice long locks of hair, but I stupidly buzzed it off. Trying to grow it out again and its just not gonna work bros. I'll never be pretty again.

>>13629005
What do you expect dude, this is 4chan, if you make a feels thread you will get 90% answers from depressed flyover loser shut ins and the rest teenagers crying about babbys first oneitis lmao.

t. Boomer

>>13629043
>>13629088
Also

HAHAHAHA LOSER.
>falling for the buzz pill meme
L M A O

Why the fuck would ANYONE fall for that shit I swear, it's like all the balding incels on here conspired to fuck you all over LOL.

>>13624698
i wore a white fit anon, it feels weird, but once you're out dont overthink it, you will stand out, but thats the point
hype yourself up a bit and just do it(tm)

decent looking/tall/smart/etc. but tremendous apathy keeps me from having much of a social life or getting a gf. i don't think i'm autistic just intp, but either way i'm a gamma dropout.

why is it so all-or-nothing with normies? i just want to get invited to a party once a month, host a kickback maybe every other week, and get a low-maintenance gf. i don't want to go out for food and gossip four days a week and pretend to be bffs

Haven't even had a crush on a girl in 4 or 5 years.
Love songs mean nothing to me. I like melody and the poetry but it all feels abstract to me.
Don't care for intimacy just want some company sometimes and maybe a fuck.
I feel really numb to the things alot of people seem to want out if life.

>>13621660
How do you cope with this? i need advice

>>13630198
stand on a stool