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my whole life, ive had longer hair than most of my friends. in grade school i had a bowl cut, then later grew it out past my ears. All through high school i never really felt like i suffered from too much hair-prejudice, for lack of a better term.
Im now 22 and for over a year ive kept my hair down to my shoulders, and now people seem to distrust me. friends who have introduced me to their friends tell me later that their friends thought i was sketchy. this has never happened to me.
Im either clean shaven or have a short stubble, and I havent changed up my wardrobe or anything. only thing new is the longer hair.
any other men experience something similar? or anyone, what are your first thoughts when you see a (young) man with long hair?

>> No.13439261

>>13439251
It helps to know what you actually look like- show us a photo of yourself dude

>> No.13439263

>>13439251
id take you as a druggie

>> No.13439285
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13439285

>>13439261
fine

>> No.13439287

>>13439263
yeah i can see that

>> No.13439303

>>13439285
The mustache is what does it for me. If you're intending to grow it out as a mustache, don't. If you intend to grow it out as full stubble around your face, fine. It could work. If you're not intending to grow it out, shave it. Your hair is fine, it's the trash-stache.

>> No.13439349

>>13439285
your hair looks fine, if not a little unkempt. Agree with the other anon about your mustache. Personally, when it comes to long hair I prefer it either clean shaven or with a full beard. No in-between, i.e. no mustache.

It might not even be just your appearance. How you act will have a lot more impact than your hair. If you're weird as fuck of course people will be put off.

>> No.13439354

>>13439285
Move to cali and become a surfer

>> No.13439361

>>13439285
lol if the dude from workaholics straightened his hair

>> No.13439557

>>13439285
it's the mustache, ditch it.

>> No.13439572

>>13439285
Might be your body language.
Keeping a happier demeanor can help.
You have a top tier face tho

>> No.13439585

>>13439285
Your hair is great and it suits to your face. Just shave the mustache as anons have already said.

>> No.13439926
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13439926

>>13439285
You look like you formed a shitty local metal band with your friends from school. You go meet your friends in their dad's garage and play crappy metallica covers and drink cheap beer. Then you realize it's gotten late and call your mom to pick you up. As you stand outside the garage with your friends chatting, your mom drives up and asks if your friends want a ride too. 2 of them get with you in the car and your mom asks a lot of awkward questions and tries to make funny jokes and you feel embarrassed in the passenger seat, while your friends sit in the back seat and grin at each other. As you finally arrive home you awkwardly scud into your filthy room and do your obligatory stalking of some of the girls you eyed back in school, who now lead interesting successful lives, while you still live in that shit town with no perspective in life. The last thing you do before going to sleep unwashed is to jerk off to some degenerate shit you bookmarked under some unsuspecting name, in case someone ever goes at your computer. You look like you'll end up in a dead end job and gain massive weight over the next 5 years.

>> No.13440294

>>13439926
kek

>this was me

>> No.13440302

>>13439926
That was pretty good. I thought I was safe until the second half came in. That is my nightly routine.

>> No.13440318
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>>13439251
You probably act sketchy af and it feels normal to you. I've had hair down to my shoulders for years(same age as you) and I work in the service industry so I need to be kind constantly.

I act kind because I am kind. I don't really disagree with many people either, because people are dumb, but even dumb people are entitled to their opinions.

All I'm really saying is if you act kind most of the time you are perceived as kind.

pic related is my fuggin mug

>> No.13440403

>>13439285
Personally I'd find a shampoo that gives it more volume but it looks fine nonetheless

>> No.13440405
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13440405

>>13439285
you kinda look like me with blonder, straighter hair

>> No.13440426

I had huge long hair in the past, it had a ton of volume and was super soft. Every day girls would come over to compliment me, elderly people would also cross the road to come and talk to me. No one ever said I look dodgey, just that I look like Jesus or like an angel.

Later I cut it down to an undercut. The gf I have now openly said that she wouldn't have dated me with that haircut.

So I don't think that the haircut itself makes you sketchy, but people certainly treat you differently.

>> No.13440434

>>13440318
is this bait ? you look sketchy as fuck man, you look like you have gender dysphoria with that face expression, low test and all

>> No.13440549

>>13440318
I don't act any differently though. I act the same, dress ab the same, just the hair is longer and I'm a couple years older and now I get weird looks

>> No.13440808
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13440808

Lmao hairlets

>> No.13441026

>>13440405
greasy flat, dead gross hair

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13441028

>>13440318
hahahahahaha
genuinely fucking awful

>> No.13441139

>>13439285
You are quite attractive, anon

>> No.13441245

>>13439572
>>13439585
>>13441139
thanks but honestly i think i just got lucky w the lighting and angle. i dont really "do" selfies.
>>13439926
fucking died, keep it up anon.
that last line though, is that the punch line? am i missing the joke? because that was a full 180 from a quality roast to something that makes you sound kind of bitter my guy

>> No.13441254

>>13440405
yeah kinda. my hair isnt that straight tho is it? it used to be, but now isnt it now more "wavy" or something. idk hair terminology. frankly i cant even differentiate between brunette and black hair like i just dont notice one has color

>> No.13441363

>>13440405
sodapoppin?! is that you?

>> No.13441420

>>13439251
what a stupid fucking thread. absurd

>> No.13441887

>>13440808
dude wtf are you wearing

>> No.13441923

>>13440808
wtf are you

>> No.13441967

>>13439251
>Autism the post

>> No.13442105

>>13439285
fuck what everyone says, rock the stache anon

>> No.13442200

>>13441887
>>13441923
I was in my PJs.. I don't like """man PJs""" cause they don't have drawings, so superheroes or girls PJs...

>> No.13442422

>>13442105
lol thanks. ever since beiber started rocking that blonde stache and everyone hated it, I've started letting myself grow a short one at times. kinda like it

>> No.13442894

>>13439285
>all those posts saying your hair looks great
What the fuck is going on ITT
Clueless fucks
Your hair looks awful and unkempt
It looks thin, straggly and dead
For fuck sake, sort yourself out you shark-eyed mess

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13443857

>>13439285
fuuck mate you should go for this look

>> No.13443970

>>13439251
kys fucking autist

>> No.13445115

>>13440318

This is so retarded.