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13162921 No.13162921 [Reply] [Original]

What's the point of being /fa/ when you have no friends

>> No.13162932

Remember kids, being able to dress well isn't going to a good substitute for everything else in life. Having friends, getting a hobby, being /fit/, etc. will always be better than being fashionable on the eyes of a board on an anime imageboard. I know this sounds like normalfag advice but seriously get out of your house or something desu

>> No.13162941

>>13162932
Get out of my house and do what? I'm not gonna walk around aimlessly.

>> No.13162954

>>13162941
>Get out of my house and do what? I'm not gonna walk around aimlessly.
That's exactly what you would do if you were /fa/. Literally kino activity.
Get off this board. You still have things to figure out.

>> No.13162959

>>13162941
It’s pretty fun. Used to do it all the time
>moved to a black area
>nightwalk
>had to fight off two black dudes who tried to rob me
>pretty good time but I have a scar on my face because I tripped on my door stop that night

>> No.13162962

>>13162954
elaborate you pretentious faggot. how is walking around aimlessly a kino activity

>> No.13162964

>>13162959
fucking niggers.

>> No.13162975

>>13162962
I go walk downtown and observe everyone else living their lives, seeing cute couples together, catching bits of random conversations, crossing paths with people you'll probably never see again in your life. It's interesting.

>> No.13162978

>>13162941
americans fascinate me

>> No.13162988

>>13162921
having no friends is the whole point of being /fa/. youre better than everyone else

>> No.13162996

>>13162962
Watch any European arthouse film. Read a couple of books written in the past two centuries about some lost character wondering around without a place. You'll understand.

>> No.13163002

>>13162921
Being friendless is /fa/. I've cut contact with almost all my friends and I do everything alone. You gotta have a mindset where everyone is below you and bad dressed people piss you off. I constantly judge everyone and I never willingly socialise.

>> No.13163005

>>13163002
Steal this guy's look, OP.

>> No.13163010

>>13162996


>>13162996
actually watching classical films and reading philosophy helps you feeling better than other people instead of feeling like human trash that you are

>> No.13163029
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>>13162962
If you don't understand, you aren't /fa/, faggot.
>>13162975
This is literally my favorite thing in the world to do. I love going to different venues in my effay fits, sauntering through the stores and streets, taking in the world and everyone in it. Especially at night. Truly the most marvelous way to live.

>> No.13163031

>>13162996
have we reached maximum cringe?

>> No.13163083

>>13162975
You sound autistic as fuck lmao

>> No.13163087

>>13162996
can you give any examples of such books?

>> No.13163095

>>13163087
Catcher in the Rye
The Berlin Stories

>> No.13163099

>>13163083
I wouldn't be here if I wasn't

>> No.13163123

>>13163095
those books sound too mainstream to be /fa/. I havent read either, but Im pretty sure they made us read one of those in highschool. Is there any that will look a little more pretentious when people see me pretending to read them.

>> No.13163130

>>13163123
There is a difference in reading to pass a grade, and reading to absorb and evaluate the content.

No one should strive to base their social image around some ethics created by an image board but basing their social image around levels of obscureness is even more tragic.

>> No.13163132

>>13162921
Being seen as intellectually superior by attractive extroverted people. You know, reading a book in public alone, taking pictures with my Leica alone, etc etc.

>> No.13163136

>>13163083
That's literally normal behavior. The autists shut themselves indoors and are afraid to even be seen by another warm blooded creature's eyes.

>> No.13163169

>>13162932
This is why the thinspo threads are cancer. Working out gives you confidence which in turn helps you be more social.

Overall, fashion is secondary, being fit, funny, and interesting are all traits that help you in all areas of life. The meme that /fa/ sells that being a lonely, skinny, depressed faggot is something to aspire to is wrong af.

>> No.13163174

>>13163169
>Working out gives you confidence which in turn helps you be more social.
putting lipstick on a pig etc etc

>> No.13163292

>>13163136
WHERE IS THERE TO GO THOUGH?????!!! There is no where, there isn't like some Town Square, or Neutral Area where everyone can just go and do things, without having to pay money. You either are Indoors in your parents basement, or you have to pay like $20 to listen to some shit music in a bar with idiotic normies. The Dive Bars are full of hookers and illegal immigrants. The Coctail Bars are full of Idiots with money who have no intellect at all. The NightClubs are full of Niggers and Asians, the Local Bars that you can't get to unless you drive yourself, or you pay 90$ for a Cab or $50 for some smelly Uber from Malaysia.

There is no God, in our World. We live in a Godless, monochrome shit world, with a shit societyy and everyone is in massive Debt. The coming Spring and SUmmer give me literally no Hope for nothing...it's bullshit. I'm sick of this shit, over and over and over again. I have to Punch myself in the Face repreatedly just to feel alive. Just to feel something. Everyone is either Too Old for me or too Young. I hate my parents. I hate them and my brothers, Yet automatically I am the fucked up one, why? I was literalyl born into the wrong family the wrong house. I have wasted my entire adult life away, locked in this shit hole of nothingness, if I had been born into family and had parents who appreciated all the weird crazy shit I do naturally, I probaly wouldn't be addicted to prescription medications and failing my attempts at becoming a Star.

>> No.13163316

>>13162978
O B S E S S E D

>> No.13163365

>>13163292
I feel this post.

>> No.13163394
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>>13163292
This is me right here

>> No.13163406

>>13163394
I literally cried on Friday night, as I passed yet another lonley night, the day broke, yet all I felt was the start of another empty lonely day, surrounded by my Narcissist Father and Mother, I could cry out loud, and they would have no reaction, except fake caring. It's all so fake. Yet, i don't feel depressed, I know I am not actually depressed, I feel that this is just me reacting naturally to my surroundings, yet if I react like this in the open world, I will be looked at as mentall ill and unstable. My parents have been killing me softly from young. My Parents never let me go out when I was a teenager, and punished me when I had finally made some friends...I became conditioned to just be alone and then just use YouTube and the net for pretending to feel social.

>> No.13163429

>>13163406
I’m not sure how old you are anon but I have kinda given up on finding friends or a companion. I’m now of the mindset that whatever happens, happens. If I make friends, I make friends. If I don’t, I don’t. My parents also did the same thing when I was a teenager. I was a wrapped up in cotton wool kid. I’m older now and as edgey and cringe has it sounds, they cannot and will not stop me anymore. I think the best thing you can do for yourself is to take a break from 4chan and the internet in general. Only use it if you absolutely need too. Otherwise go do some other activity even if it’s small like reading in a library or going to a fancy restaurant even if you are going alone.

>> No.13163437

>>13163406
Damn this perfectly describes my fucking situation and my feelings. It's so fucking frustrating. I want to express myself but every time I do I get shut down and I have to bottle up my feelings.

>> No.13163515

>>13163002
You sound miserable

>> No.13163585
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>>13163002
Jesus

>> No.13163589

>>13163429
>or going to a fancy restaurant even if you are going alone
I did this for a while, I was also heavily binge drinking on the weekends. BUt I would just binge drink alone and go online to vidchats, so it felt like I was socializing.... I would wake up still drunk and go and eat eggs and toast at this expensive place. Just sitting there alone. With all the "normal people", their families...meanwhile I am just there, just being "alone"...by myself yet around everyone else...
One time the owner came up to me, and asked "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" just out of nowhere.....and I didn't know what to say....then he said "She'll be a lucky woman..."...I never forgot that one day. And I couldn't understand it at the time why he's say that. Because I just hated myself so much, I hated my existence.

>> No.13163592

>>13163589
>Because I just hated myself so much, I hated my existence
Is it effay to hate your existence...? Is it hating what society is? Or is just mental illness.

>> No.13163596
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>>13162921
relatable; I dress well and spend a fair amount of money on clothes yet all I do in them is walk around shopping centres aimlessly. I don't have friends or go to parties. I try to make myself look attractive through fashion but I never even attempt to interact with women due to crippling shyness. My life is a joke.

>> No.13163615

>>13163596
Women don't either just smash tinder pussy until one of them catches feelings for ya

>> No.13163618

What's the point of being /fa/ when you're ugly as sin

>> No.13163651
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>>13163596

are u me?

The worst part is I can hold a conversation well but never approach anyone due to being so fucking shy.

I have no social contacts or friends so I dont randomly meet people at bars or even eating out because im always solo.

>> No.13163663

>>13163651
>I have no social contacts or friends so I dont randomly meet people at bars or even eating out because im always solo.
Why is this though....I mean...really....
Are you unattractive? Or is it that you just are never in a situation where you could "meet" someone.....

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>>13163663

Im 6'2, white, good bmi, decent skin and haircut

After high school I cut off ties to my "friends" when I realized they weren't real friends. I studied in uni for couple years and realized I wasn't interested in the field, been dropped off for 2 years now.

I just don't go out or do anything, because I have nobody to go to. I'd like to go rock climbing or to a movie or anything but it's fucking pointless to do it alone.

>> No.13163680

Go to shows or do anything in the city, you can dress /fa/, get drunk and have a good time with your friends.

>> No.13163681

>>13163670
Going to the cinema alone is patrician. If somebody else invites me to a film I want to see, I always make a point of watching it by myself first.

>> No.13163893

>>13163670
>>13163651
come on lads, I didn't want to feel these feels

>> No.13163897

>>13163681
t. Travis Bickle

>> No.13163904

>>13162959
Then everyone clapped?

>> No.13163911

>>13163292
You are a failure, kill yourself and try again

>> No.13164052

>>13163904
No I actually shit myself. Someone trying to mug you is a pretty scary situation. That’s why I went home afterwards and tripped on the doorstop

>> No.13164134

>>13162921
get friends then. being effay is meaningless if nobody compliments your style.

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>>13163596
>>13163651
>>13163670
Basically me. Every part. wish I was an outgoing chad. The sad part is after college your last chance to make friends is work and eight now everyone at my job is old. If life stays the same. I'm just gonna off myself at 30

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>>13163680
>OP: I have no friends
>you: lol just have a good time with your friends
op literally said he doesn't have friends.....dont You read.......normies

>> No.13165263

bump

>> No.13165279

better question is whats the point of LIVING if one day you cant be kissing an art ho anymore

>> No.13165289

>>13163670
>rock climbing
That sounds like it wouldn't matter if you went with someone or not. Isn't the adrenaline of a dangerous situation and the satisfaction of physical exertion and a task accomplished the whole point? Doesn't sound like people are necessary.

If you have the money do it. Live your fucking life if you have the balls/lack of fear to go out and experience the thrills.

>> No.13165328

>>13163681
This going to the cinema alone saved me when I was completely alone for 2 yrs.

>> No.13165391

>>13165289

Nah my friend, that's how you fall 15 feet onto your metal climbing apparatus and drag yourself 40ft before dying of blood loss.