/fa/ - Fashion

>>12429357
what happened to the girl you fell in love with, anon?

>>12429358
She wasn't feeling the same way towards me. Also I was in a bad mental state back then as well as she. Now I moved to the UK and I asked her if she thinks if it would work out. She said no. Kinda sad because she cared the most when I was on the edge of falling completely apart. Still got a sweet spot for her in my memory.

I rarely leave my house

t. shy artsy girls

>>12429357
>falling in love
>2017
Dude unless she's literally a virgin why would you consider spending your life raising kids with her? Women's bodies hold some DNA from every man they sleep with.

>>12429380
I don't see a point. Either way. It was magical. And sharing your life with someone is a beautiful thing.

I'll just add some inspo. I don't have much. But still

>>12429369
People tend to idolize the ones that stuck it through for them. I've been on the giving side op. All I can tell you is it's just as hard for her to always be there for you as it was for you to be there. She may not want a relationship with you but her love for you was the kind of love that was there for you. Different from a relationship but love no less. You won't find her wanting sex or be be couple but you got a friend in the world. And a friend that will help you through shit like mental health problems is the best kind of friend. Honestly just thank her for being there for you. But a relationship derived through helping mental health issues typically is built to fail, life isn't 50 first dates after all.

>>12429461
We had a lot of fun together too. We shared similar interests and we met on a concert of a band we both love. She once played the drum parts of joy Divisions unknown pleasures on my back when we hugged. When I was at her house we cuddled as we started to fall asleep and in the morning we were lazy together.

why do they all look the same?

is it because they're all trying to look like female Yung Lean?

>>12429374
seconding this

whats good being a somewhat cute artsy shy girl if your social skills are those of an autist

>>12429477
It's more about a laid back, darker tonned, loose style.
Dark sweaters, loose pants, cool socks and comfy shoes.

>>12429478
There are a lot of social things that don't require a lot of confidence and social skills.

>>12429380
lol go back to therapy you absolute autist

>>12429357
>>12429369
Because you're an ugly skinny fat beta manlet and ""artsy girls"" want a tall, handsome, and muscular Chad who'll fuck the shit out of them with his big dick.

>>12429374
Thirded. I might go out occasionally and go to a museum or something but that's about it. However I don't like being approached when I'm there, it throws me off a bit... that might just be me though

>>12429477
I call it the conforming nonconformist effect. If you make an effort to be "unique", odds are high you just become another stereotype (in some way or anoher).

>>12429357
>using the term "artsy" unironically

also >>12429529all the indie art girls still want chad cock because they know "art" guys are usually beta manlets.

>>12429529
>""artsy girls"" want a tall, handsome, and muscular Chad who'll fuck the shit out of them with his big dick.

Not really m8. Artsy girls like guys in bands and shit. They don't like Chad. Not everyone goes for Chad. Please keep in mind that band guys are far from beta.

>>12429545
>They don't like Chad
took the bluepill.

girls have preferences in occupation but will still always choose the chad whenever possible.

>>12429461
Why did you have to be so real, why did you have to explain what still hurts.

>>12429567
Why are you so full of shit.

Artsy girls like alphas who play guitar and shit. Show me an instance of a girl in the ceramics dept going to a loud frat house to get Chad cock. Doesn't happen. Not all alphas are Chad.

>>12429573
>Artsy girls like alphas who play guitar and shit
but they are still chad.

probably lift on the side. 6 foot.

its just how things work anon.

>>12429579
>its just how things work anon.
Not really m8. Not saying beta "nice guys" get laid, but if that's strictly how things worked the Earth wouldn't have 7 billion people on it.

>>12429567
People have different tastes. Some like muscular tall guys. Some like a bit fatter medium height guys. No human is the same. And to some girls it is off putting that Chads see them as a single use cum rag.

>>12429589
>>12429588
Those that can't get a 6 foot muscular guy settle for someone less. It's literally that simple.

> Earth wouldn't have 7 billion people on it.
Not everyone can get chad.

Just saying. Put a room full of guys and one chad, and all the girls will want the chad even if the room has 50 people in it. Once chad is no longer available, then they choose the second best ones.

>>12429600
Not usually. Girls don't like competition when they can very easily have the opposite

>>12429579
And a handsome face and big fat cock.

>>12429600
Alright have fun with your Chad obsession m8. Maybe you want Chad. Sure sounds like it.

>>12429508
Shut up you brainwashed dumbass that's why everyone gets divorces nowadays

>>12429438
>>12429441
>>12429450
>>12429446
Why do these bitches all look like Krysten Ritter? This style is fucking played out as fuck nigga. Might as well dress in yoga pants and uggs

>>12429626
I strive to be Chad, yes. Currently losing weight to get to a lower bodyfat.

>>12429616
>right: 6'4"
>left: 5'10"

>>12429610
Keep being delusional. I've had several girlfriends/girl "friends" and a few sisters. They all tell me the same thing about this, they'e just too "nice" to say it upfront.

Why do all art hoes look the same?

Always with this hair too.

>>12429714
>I strive to be Chad, yes. Currently losing weight to get to a lower bodyfat.

Cringe.

>>12429721
>says "cringe"
>chooses to bury face in dirt when faced with fact girls will always choose the tall and fit guy over anything else

good luck with your life and future failing marriage.

>>12429692
>Krysten Ritter
because Krysten Ritter is hot af are u literally retarded?

>>12429714
>fat inauthentic beta starstruck by Chadmemes perpetuated on a Hmong Etch A Sketch website

How did I know you were in fact an insecure cunt? You've probably used "I'm not Chad" as an excuse as to why you're still a virgin. It's like a milder form of the "nice guys finish last" neckbeard mental gymnastics.

>>12429724
>tall and fit guy

Tall, fit guys aren't necessarily "Chad". I think you're playing too lose with the definition of a Chad.

>>12429734
i'm 6'3" with a decent face. i never worked out and realized how much lost potential that was. which is why as i said im currently losing weight and trying to get in better shape to even further improve potential. you're just in denial and are contempt with minimizing your own potential. no, i'm not a virgin, but that doesn't mean i'm not trying to improve/widen my chances anyway.

do you m8. good luck with that complacent attitude.

>>12429744
>that doesn't mean i'm not trying to improve/widen my chances anyway

You might want to start by not frogposting on a Chinese cartoon website anymore then.

>>12429478
this is my life. it sucks, esp cause I'm in college and the only groups that would have me have nothing to do with my interests. like radio and the cool artsy clubs are full of socially confident extroverts, so I end up doing dull nerdy or Christian shit just cause those people don't judge. and now I'm basically a junior so I'm stuck with the few friends I've got, branching out looks weird. #justautistthings

>>12429588
you can get a girl if youre average but she'll have been pumped, hosed down and dumped by 50 chads before you got there

>>12429719
Why do all /fa/ggots look the same?

Always with this [deep self-loathing] too.

>>12429474
>met on a concert

>>12429719
"tumblr art hoes" all look the same because that's what people started calling this look aka mathilda from leon hair + vague interest in art. Girls who are actually into art and happen to be on tumblr don't all look the same.

>>12429726
if you think shes hot then you have low fucking standards

>>12429948
>actually into art

>>12429948
>Girls who are actually into art and happen to be on tumblr don't all look the same.
>don't all look the same.
do some delusional and sheltered fags actually think this is true?

>>12430142
alright girls who like taking pics of things other than their own faces...

these women just look like they read lots of men's fashion blogs from 2012

>>12429903
whoever keeps posting this has some deep rooted mental issues that he needs to work on, im not sure that venting on an anonymous forum will help

>>12429474
This sounds so unbearably gay.

>>12430295
She is a bi moderate feminist. Of course she wouldn't let me smash the fist night. Also we drank a lot of alcohol so it got weird.

>>12429529
speaking as a 'shy artsy girl', none of the guys in that photo are attractive to me. Artsy girls like tall, skinny white boys in general. I have noticed there are a few guys most girls agree are attractive, whatever their type- but for the most part artsy girls will not care for muscular 'chads'.

>>12429453
w2c pants or similar
I'm a guy btw

>>12429461
>>12429474
>tfw no female friend who will be there for me no matter what

>>12429357
same, mate
going to scroll through this thread and feel sad none of them are my gf

>>12430315
thank you anon, I feel more hopeful now.

>>12429474
Dude you realize this is all in your head? You yourself admitted the feelings were one way. Why would anyone drum a beat on somebodys back while they were holding them? Because they she was bored; she was so little engaged with what was happening she did the tactile equivalent and whistling. This sounds hard but you need to hear it.

>tfw have a gf who doesn't give a fuck about fashion
refreshing as fuck

you should all try it anons. she thinks everything i put on is really cool

>>12430311
errrr...what? bi grills and feminists are both super easy to fuck, she sounds like a ho squared, its just she sees you as a eunuch

>>12429374
>>12429539
me neither
t. male autist, but like a cool one
be my gf

>>12430365
that seems emotionally unfulfilling lol
i don't think i could handle being around someone who didn't like dressing well

u do u tho bro

>>12430407
>that skirt
w2c

>>12430407
jesus fuck, asian girls, how do they do it

>>12430362
It was a lot more intimate than you think. We basically tried to make a functioning relationship out of it. Sadly it didn't pass the test of time.

>>12430431
Pretty Asian girls do it mainly by not having any harsh features or features that "stick out." It's kind of the same idea with Marilyn Monroe. If you study Marilyn Monroe's face you can see that she doesn't really have any noticeable features. (Subtle small nose, eyes have neither positive nor negative canthal tilt, lips are neither thin nor full). It's just a pleasant, balanced canvas.

White women tend to have certain features that can be harsh, like a big nose with a high nose bridge, prone to crows feet/wrinkles, thin lips... Black women too--big flat nose, big lips.

Asians have very subtle "unobtrusive" features, and this is the key I think.

>>12429357
Do I need to dress artsy [avante garde, full rick, all black, etc.] in order to get artsy girls?

ill make you art and norwegian deserts someone pay me attention.

>>12430431
there are lots of ugly asian girls m8

>>12430699
there is ugly people everywhere, regardless of race.

This thread has reminded me that no matter how much weight I lose, I'll still not be good enough. Should I just give up completely on relationships/sex? I don't think I'd be comfortable being with a girl that settled for me

>>12430623
You've clearly never seen an Asian in real life...

>flat nose, small eyes, giant head

Pretty asians exist obviously. Same with every race. But every race has average people too, and most asians do NOT have the features you described unless achieved through plastic surgery. All of what you listed are just our beauty standard.

t. Asian grill

>>12430713
Look, when you make efforts to better yourself, then you are automatically good enough. don't let what you were born with dictate your life.

this post applies to both girls and boys. good luck.

>>12430720
>Asians don't have flat noses unless they have plastic surgery

Lol what.


>t. Asian grill

Yeah, right. *eye roll*

>LARPing as a self hating asian girl on a Laotian Lite-Brite website

>>12430720
We do have small subtle noses, and some Asians (mainly Koreans) are obsessed with having a high nose bridge so they get a big Western nose. Western people want a smaller nose so they cut up their big noses. The grass really is greener.

And stop saying "us" like Asians are monolith you twat. Koreans are the plastic surgery obsessed ones. Not like you're actually an Asian anyway.

t. actual real Hong Konger Chinese guy

>>12430737
Reading comprehension...do you have it?

I'm saying most asians don't have "small qt" features you weird Asian fetishists fantasize over...and that's okay. Why does this trigger your autism so much? Our standard of beauty is literally what you think we look like--but that is false. Asian standard of beauty is completely warped and puts a lot of pressure on girls to look that way.

>>12430747
>I'm saying most asians don't have "small qt" features you weird Asian fetishists fantasize over..

Meh yes they do. Especially the noses. The other guy is right that Asians actually do have small qt noses and get the surgery to have big western noses.

>>12430747
It's so obvious you're a LARPing white boy that it hurts dude.

>>12430753
A lot of Asians have thick noses though especially Japanese and Mongolian people

>>12430407
Holy shiiii--she has thick legs like I do! I've been pretty self conscious about mine and am trying to lose weight, but damn. She rocks it.

>>12430732
not the guy you're responding to, but this post gave me good feels. cheers anon.

>>12430851
Glad to hear that. :)

>>12430285
Fuck this shit makes me mad. It's a new fad to dress like this, it's not creative at all, it's the same as putting on uggs and yoga pants. They're all trying to be "different" but they all look the fucking same. IS NO ONE DIFFERENT ANYMORE?? Fuck, why do people do this? Why can't anyone set themselves apart anymore??? Maybe there are people that do whatever and dress however they want but I don't see them anywhere. The clothes you wear don't make you artsy. Just as YOU are not the car you drive or how much money is in your bank account. idk though maybe its the weed talking but I just wish people didn't fetishize being different while they look exactly the same as 1000000000 other people.

>>12430407
Pls don't post Arin here, shes not ready.

>>12430910
Maybe she just wants to wear some decent looking clothes? You fucking autist

>>12430768
shes a perfect 10 azn grl, she could behead mother theresa and eat a baby and id see things from her point of view, ya know what i mean?

>>12430732
nice sentiment but the girl he loves wants to date a 6'3 investment banker and he isnt that, so...

ok but where can I meet cute, shy, artsy boys?

trying to get myself to go to more small house music shows and stuff like that alone but like a previous anon stated, I rarely leave my house.

>>12430994
Take music lessons ! Maybe you will find your kind of boy.

>>12430768
lets see it baby qurl

>>12430916
>>12430964
arin is bae senpai

>>12430994
not necessarily cute but i've been visiting museums lately. beyond that and work, leaving the house is fairly uncommon.

>>12431014
music lessons? I have had lessons before but they've been the private type where it's just you and some old conservatory lady. what kind of music lessons did you have in mind? are group lessons popular/a thing?

>>12431030
yeah it's tough. plus I'm quite shy when I'm by myself so it's hard to reach out. museums are nice but I have a hard time going to one multiple times in a short period. though I try to hit up bookstores a little. I want to get into record stores but I don't have the money to buy a good setup ;;

>>12430994
I'm on tinder
It's kind of a human cesspool but it's where everyone's at
I'm shy tho so I basically never message matches first

I met my ex on okc but now that site makes me uncomfortable

>>12431137
ah I really have thought about it but dating apps and I seem like two incompatible things. I'm all for meeting friends online but in person is still another level.

>>12431145
Y tho

Online dating is a godsend for introverts
I'm way too shy to meet/ask someone out irl

>>12431152
because there's an implication that you'll have to meet eventually. and starting online and then going irl is nerve-wracking for me. it's like there might be expectations that are let down if you aren't how you are online.

>>12430385
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>>12430315
>I don't like muscular Chads :)
Sure whatever you say, but that's exactly what ""shy"" girls like you say. In reality, they'll be choking on his big fat dick if he happens to look their way.

This isn't r9k ffs get a grip people

>>12431235
Did somebody hurt your feelings ? You sound a bit upset.

>>12431235
who hurt you

>>12431235
Elliot Rodgers didn't get any help before it was too late, but you still can.

>>12430910
are you any different? probably not

>>12431235
yeah just don't listen to what they are saying and continue being a stubborn, know it all, self-pitying froggy

>>12429369
>Still got a sweet spot for her in my memory.

in your memory? you're in a thread that you made on 4chan to cry about her rejecting you. i'm pretty sure it hasn't been stored away in your memory yet hahahahaha

and you think that a girl who said "i don't feel the same way about you" is suddenly going to want a relationship because YOU MOVED AWAY FROM HER? hahahahaahahaha

Ah, the great appeal of the shy, cute, artsy girl… who deemed herself artsy because she reblogs some screenshots from a random obscure film containing so many deep philosophical questions, even though she never even watched the film itself. Cute, artsy, girls are a myth. Oh well, they do exist, kind of, but instead they just use it as a facade. Isn't it pretty naive to think people like that are actually interesting people? People you actually want to be with? Because if the shy, cute, artsy girl from Tumblr is what you are looking for, I bet you’ll get pretty disappointed. Hopefully at least they are smart or funny, because the thing they lack is a mind and opinion of their own, trying to create their own little world which makes the person look sort of attractive to certain other individuals, but I doubt it. All of it just has such a nice ring to it, I suppose, but I am afraid a lot of the girls are forcing themselves not to become such a person, but become a person who can be be perceived like that. Doing things in an attempt to achieve that. Actual shy, cute, artsy girls will definitely exist, girls that are actually passionated about these things, simply because they like. it But these types of people usually tend to just enjoy that shit without having to let everyone else know and share everything with every goddamn one…. When it comes down to it, anyone who calls herself one of these kind of girls, is not one.

Seriously though, OP, stop fooling yourself. You think she was the absolute perfect shy, cute, artsy girl? Use your brains man. You just liked her because you turned her into this ideal image of a type of person that you for some reason worship. I hope you will be able to return to reality soon and realize that she just literally rejected you twice. You're just going to end up torturing yourself, you still talk as if you are actually in a relationship with her... why man...

>>12430994
Uni campuses, probably at the bar drinking or around the smoking areas

>>12431309
copypasta

>>12430910
idk i've never seen a girl wear an outfit like that irl, the tucked in tshirt and the color palette is pretty daring

>>12431152
In theory they are, but in practice they're filled with the kind of people who excel at irl dating, who naturally dominate at your expense.

Or maybe my lack of success is just that I'm ugly lol

>>12429714
>I strive to be Chad
you gotta get off this site. it's not good for your health,

>>12430994
The gym
Unironically

>>12431167
ok so online and in life are both out but youre still asking for options. strong logic, i definitely believe youre a girl

>>12431235
not that guy but any girl who says she is not attracted to those guys is either lying or mentally ill, like guys who like obese girls

you can't fight genetics, and your genetics force you to be attracted to guys like these

>>12431650
eh im pretty redpilled but i think youre projecting here; that steroid/gym look has some female fans for sure but its not a universal standard like say, a full head of hair or being 6'4 and rich

>>12431650
>>12431235
What if you're artsy with a Chad physique. Is that the master race?

>>12430994
objectively cute, shy, artsy boy here.

You can occasionally find me at the library studying or doing rough sketches of random people. Also the gym, various restaurants, stores, the occasional apartment party, etc.

>>12431662
Those guys aren't even close to roidcore.

>>12431677
turn round and show me that boipucci

>>12431491
are you sure you've ever actually seen girls to begin with

that isn't "daring" at all, maybe by men's fashion standards but those are half a decade behind women's anyway

>>12431714
half a millenium more like, mens fashion doesnt exist (suits lol)

>>12431235
I am sure a girl has gone for a chad over you in the past, but not all girls are actually like that.

>>12431650
I am honestly not attracted to these guys, I think muscles look weird - I don't understand how people can find them so attractive. I like skinny, boys, that is just what I find attractive and I have friends who think the same so it can't be that strange.
Why are so many people so annoyed that a girl may be not be attracted to a chad, is it because it destroys your idea that they are the reason you are a lonely virgin :(((

>>12430910
its always been like this. serious question: are you 15? because every single generation has had their share of thousands of nonconformists that all look the same. for 90s it was grunge, 00s it was hipster. the only legit 'nonconformists' are the 35 year old dads you see at harveys wearing the weirdest fucking shit because they dont care.

>>12431746
i don't like it because i'm apparently incapable of attaining skinniness, whereas a muscular physique seems within reach as long as i put forth the effort.

>>12429632
>everyone gets divorces
found the kid who's still butthurt about his parents' divorce

>>12430315
That's because you've never gotten attention from a traditional chad, so you convinced yourself you don't like them.

if grills had a choice between chad and a skinny indie kid, they will always choose chad. or better yet, choose the indie kid and fuck chad on the side. don't kid yourself.

this fucking thread

>>12431864
>butthurt

He has a fucking right to be hurt over his parents separating. Found the privileged surburban rich kid

>>12431889
t. skinny short manlet that thinks he doesnt have to compete with chad

>>12431834
that's why skinny thin boys are so great
one is completely asured of their great genetics and not tricked by like with fat beta bitches going """fit"""

>>12429744
You could look like a God

>>12431884
actually I have gotten attention from chads, I been sent snapchats of a guy's 6-pack, but i am just not attracted to muscles, I told him this which confused him.
Also remember that chads usually have shit or no personality, and are only interested in sex. If a girl wants an actual relationship she won't get one from a chad.

>>12431645
In life isn't out though. I'm willing to try to get out more and go places.

Chad's fuck all the girls because f how they make them feel - not because they have abs. Learn PUA. If you have the arrogance of a Chad you can have their lifestyle, no need to lift weights and turn your body into a melted didlo. LEARN PUA guys, itll save your mental health

>>12431921
yeah, i guess you have uncovered a solid heuristic for finding good genetics. meanwhile i'll have to continue in my battle against dna and hope i can fool someone.

>>12431921
Can confirm that I prefer tall skinny indie boys. Sure I can recognize that Chad is attractive objectively to the world but it just doesn't do it for me. I grew up in chad central and was friends with some but it never really crossed my mind to actually be attracted to them.

>>12432018
Characteristic #1 of Chad - HEIGHT!!!
So you kind of are into Chads, ie the traditional male archetype. You're no different to anybody else, its all just evo-pysch.

>>12429474
Fuckin cringin so hard, you must be a total nu-male loser. You look like this?

>>12431906
who is this chad ur so fixated on? I dont even see them around campus, all I see are frat boys with basic bitches neither of whom I give a single fuck about

>>12430362
this cracked me up for some reason

>>12431714
no, just most of the girls i know wear skinny jeans/crop tops/superstars or airmaxes/bombers
there's obviously a few exceptions but ive never seen a girl irl wearing a color palette that light and pink centred before

>>12429477
>disrespecting lean
fuck off

>>12429407
What the actual fuck

>>12432084
autism

>>12430910
>frogposting
>"idk maybe it's the weed talking"

really pathetic if unironic

>be an aspie
>only match with qt's
>too much of an aspie to even know how to start and steer a conversation

What do I do? I have marginal women skills and I need help

>>12432131
start with shitty pickup lines or goofy kinks and questions

try "whats the difference between ryan gosling and me"

respond with "he's married" or some shit idk

>>12432131
just write to them as if you're shitposting in a random thread on another board, shoot the shit with them
obviously keep it relatively "sfw" or more like "safe for normies"

>>12432029
dude, definition bending is a bottom tier trolling technique

>>12432169
this is the best advice, no fucking lie. just talk shit like you'd talk with your guy friends and avoid being overly demeaning. also dont insult her appearance.

>>12432169
>>12432212
how to even initiate the conversation? With a "Hey!" or something else?

>>12432223
>With a "Hey!" or something else?
>Hey!
>!
are you insane? just go
>hey, what's up?

>>12432131
yo where the fuck do you live with women like that

>>12431959
You got hit up by a fuckboy and think that's chad?

Don't feel special. Chad doesn't pay attention tumblr girls because he knows they're subpar.

>>12431928
working on it.

>>12432018
>>12431921
>>12431746


>I'm not interested in chad. I'm not like the other girls.

(except he's gotta be 6'3".)

>>12431677
holy fcken cringe

>>12432380
being tall doesn't automatically make a chad. sorry not into manlets whoops

>>12432375
actually I'm not a tumblr girl, I cannot stand them- they are all basic sluts but pretend to be quirky so they can feel special. I don't understand why everyone in this thread thinks that all girls are attracted to chads,also is a chad not just an attractive, rich fuckboi?

>>12432380
most girls I know only care about guys being taller than them, if you're 5'8 or above then I would not worry.

>>12432400
>>12432388
I'm not even mad. I'm 6'4". I dated a few "indie" type girls before and I can 100% confirm they are exactly like your average "Stacy" archetype but with pretensions of being unique or whatever. They also do love everything conventional like muscle, height, money - that never changes. Not to sound bitter but justa heads up to any other guys ITT that still haven't learned that shit.
>>12432396
"Chad" is someone that's attractive, in shape, charismatic. Does not have to be a fuckboy.

>>12431677
wow so we can find you at places we'd find 90% of people aged 16-24? xD

>>12432405
if that's your definition of chad then yeah everyone is going to be into that. those are just generally good characteristics. but that doesn't make them 'built american football quarterback archetype' that people always slap on "chad".

I prefer lean, lanklet type guys though yeah tall. though like 5'10+ is fine enough.

but your definition of chad is way broad lol

>>12432415
>I prefer lean, lanklet type guys though yeah tall. though like 5'10+ is fine enough.
ayy bb want some succ?(if fatty then no)

>>12432421
ahaha I'm skele-tier
r u cute??????

>>12432421
sure baby. let me hop on your small fragile cock real quick ;)
>>12432415
>way broad lol
>promising career
>great social life
>high pay
>completly healthy mentally and physically
>interesting

that more specific for you

you need to grow out of that putrid chad/stacy mentality, it's fucking pathetic
(and very uneffay)

>>12432435
It's not white and black. It's just obvious some people are far more universally attractive than others. That's all there is to the "chad and stacy mentality".

Not to mention those that dismiss this or challenge it usually don't fit the descriptors and therefore choose not to believe it isn't a real thing.

>>12432427
>skele-tier
would succ
kissless virgin shut-in but i've had grills lusting for this boipucci and face since forever

>>12432433
>sure baby. let me hop on your small fragile cock real quick ;)
>real quick
>implying fatties can do anything quick
ayy lmao bb

>>12432435
Man it's just generalizations, most of the time people know what you mean.

>>12430616
Not him but you're retarded. There was nothing there. Both of you 'think' that thats something you 'could' make a relationship out of, you were just dumb enough to fall for your own delusions. There is no attraction in what you described. There is only ideal and idolization of something that isnt real.

>>12432440
>would succ
>kissless virgin shut-in but i've had grills lusting for this boipucci and face since forever
virgin shut-in is my a e s t h e t i c so we're all good

>>12432457
mm nice baby n i c e

>>12432457
So women like you actually exist?

>>12432462
<3
>>12432552
I hope I exist but I've had doubts myself. not sure what 'like you' is referring to specifically but sure yeah

>>12432631
The whole being into virgin shut-ins part I meant

>>12432661
>he doesn't think there are women out there who would want to be a guy's first
same way as a guy wanting to be with a virgin etc.

>>12432157
I think you might actually be a genius. That's one of the best opening lines I've ever heard.

>>12432661
ah it was more like I'm a virgin shut-in. I don't mind either way what the guy is. fine with virgin shut-ins and experienced guys both.

>>12432668
Seems like it would be far less common a proclivity for women but maybe that's wrong

>>12432687
Ah cool

>>12429529
Holy shit this picture is hilarious. First off, these guys are standing in the sidelines. We know for a fact that they're not good at football.

1. guy on the right has his hair perfect. If you've ever put on a helmet your hair looks like it came straight out of the shower.
2. guy in the middle's face is a little messed up, implying that he's been sweating. Okay, so maybe he got some minutes in, meaning the game's started for a little while and he played.
3. Guy on the left has again, perfect hair and grease marks.

Futhermore, their jerseys are all untucked, which is not allowed. The middle guy's one is rolled up, which is definitely not allowed.

They all play the same position, indicated by their numbers, which is tight end/wide receiver, but mostly tight end. Guess how many tight ends there are in a given time? That's right, only one.

So the starting, actually good tight end is out there making plays while they're there cheering him on.

These guys aren't athletic chads, they're the complete opposite of that

>people non-ironically using the word "chad"

>>12432729
getting a spot on a division 1 college team is grounds for saying you're good at a sport even if you don't advance past that.

>>12432738
>people using the word "chad" at all

also, kek at pic related

Every thread becomes about something else in this stupid fucking board.

>I'm a girl and i'm not into chads
>N-no! You actually are into chads Y-you dont get it. I will be a chad one day!!
x30 of these the thread.

>>12432846
Fuckin this. This place is starting to turn into r9k.

>>12432846
>>12432738
People that make these posts literally never get very many girls

"reasonable' fucks that are too deep in denial to realize they're the betas

>>12432774
how do we know this isn't just a clubs team?

>>12432874
whatever its still true. look at these jizzbuckets in thisthread 'I like cute indie boys buy they have t be 6'4, im so arty and different and unique!' im saying do PUA and fuck these girls but dont pretend theyre any different

OP again.
I don't really care what you think about me. You can call me a beta cuck or a nu-male. But she made me feel alive again. She gave me something I will never forget about. Although she was very insecure and introverted she let me get so close to her. She made me feel like I'm not worthless anymore. And I hope that we will still have good relations. Of all the people I know she was the person that cared the most. Every time I traveled to her I could forget about my shitty life and talk with her about art, listen to music, drink alcohol and fool around. I would give up a lot to feel alive like that again.

>>12432890
hey OP, your story is beautiful. Must have been an amazing experience ! I want to be close to someone as much as you were to her. I hope things are gonna go alright for you two.

>>12429357
What sweater is that

post more girls

>>12432107
I know you are but what am i

>>12432995
A group of atoms living a pointless life that will never effect the universe in anyway

>this thread
C'mon guys, stick on topic. Stop fighting over stupid generalisations and just post cute artsy girl inspo.

>>12433027
word.

is pic related appropriate ?

>>12433042
Heading in the right direction. Just a bit more comfy.

>>12432947
god bless Alexandra Gaier.

>>12430114

not like aesthetics are completely subjective or anything

>>12430373
That's not true. Dated one for a bit (she broke up with me cuz i voted Trump). Barely let me finger her even after we made out for like 3 weeks in a row.

>>12429461
god this hit me hard

>>12431906
yee, i'm a skinny short manlet and i've dated/fucked "stacies" and /fa/ girls because I'm not socially retarded. now tell me, what exactly am I supposed to be competing over?
>y-you're a beta cuck nu-male!! ha, got him!

>>12432052
when you're that insecure, it's really easy to create a scapegoat to blame all your problems on. the truth is that he (and most people on this board) could easily be happy if they just left this polynesian macrame website and actually tried to empathize with other humans :^)

>>12433168

lol what a faggot

>>12431746
my gf says muscled guys look like ham in net. I think it's the abs lol

>>12433479
kek she is right

>>12429357
>trying hard to git le grills

haha

>>12433419
Oh boy! That really cuts me to my core. Owie zowie

>>12431294
>posts disgusting lesbian Jew whore
>thinks he's in a position to laugh at people

fuck off loser

i want a cute artsy girl to talk to :(
i'm cute just kind of lonely

>>12434285
I can be that cute artsy girl ;_;

>>12434352
ok friend, what kind of art interests you? what do you like to make, if anything?

>>12434447
Visual art mostly so i like to illustrate things. Would love to get into sculpting though. You?

>>12434476
i mess around with various things, usually stretching myself too thin to be good at any of it. like video art? the kind of stuff you'd see in a boiler room set like https://youtu.be/dWxFNO4pl10.. also random music projects and mixes

i might try learning how to illustrate but probably too busy for that rn

and i've always wanted to get into installation art

what do you like to illustrate?

>>12434506

i hope you realize that you are talking to a dude right?

>>12434506
Oh man that's so cool. Recently attended a club that made use of that sort of animation and it was entrancing. What got you into that?

would also like to get into installation art but no funding/materials/space.

You should try illustration anyway, you never know that you might like it a lot. I usually do portraiture but ive ventured into night scenes a bit

>>12434530
Also take a chance /fa/ggot you never know

>>12432947
>>12433027
>>12433113
FAT.

>>12434538
a friend got me into it actually, she's involved with her local music scene so i usually just mess around with it with her when i have the time

another friend actually learned to illustrate near-professionally within like a month while taking dexedrine and drawing every day. she swore by it so i'm considering lmao

cognitive enhancers and shit like that interest me a lot. have you ever heard of paul erdos? he attributes a lot of his success in mathematics to amphetamines

>>12431235
The point has probably been made already, but these guys attract a lot more men than women.

>>12434570
That's insane, I've never heard of drugs getting people to learn skills faster but what would i know, im from 3rd world asia with a batshit crazy president. Maybe one day i could try that out

Depends on what sort of illustration you're planning to get into though. Learning the fundamentals requires you to train how you perceive things in your mind and apply it on paper

>>12434588
is art your main interest or do you prefer other things like film or music or whatever

>>12432131
"I know the profile's fake but can I get the name of the model in the pictures?" She'll laugh, you'll laugh and then say: "It's a little uncomfortable talking through here, would you mind if we text? Here's my number: xxx" She'll say: "3xxxx, text me". Then goof around a little when texting, keep away from usual boring questions and capitalize on a coffee date or something, I usually go with 'You free on friday?' She'll answer and then you'll say: 'then we can have coffee on whateverday' say right away: 'i have to go to class/work/whatever, ttyl' and go do something and don't check her messages until after an hour at least. Then you can goof around for a short time everyday until you meet.

Works 100% of the time, guaranteed my dude, try it then come back

>>12433168
>what exactly am I supposed to be competing over?
dudes that are taller, smarter, more fit and charismatic than you are.

or you know, know your place and go for other boring overwhelmingly average normies just like yourself. never try to self improve. that works too.

>>12430285
>>12430910
it's fucking cute tho idk why you're complaining

Go to school in downtown Toronto, all my friends are cute artsy girls.

It's not worth it, anon.

>>12432738
wtf is that guy doing with a jaw/cheekbones like that

>>12435125
I'm sorry

>>12433055
w2c?

>>12435559
OwO what's this?

>>12429490
word

>>12435593
>>12435559 this is the most accurate cute, shy, artsy girls esthetics in this thread

>>12430910
get off the weed for a few weeks my guy

>>12432738
>Pt. 2/19

>>12432245
i always do this in tinder and get nothing lmao
my friend says use cheesy pickups
idk I guess quick fucks only no wholesome relationships

@ this entire fucking thread
girls dont care how tall you are
GIRLS DONT CARE HOW TALL YOU ARE
girls dont care how tall you are
GIRLS DONT CARE HOW TALL YOU ARE

>>12435670
I care though

cute artsy couples are my favorite. i consider myself an artist sort of and i was dating a guitarist/singer of this punk band and we really meshed. we understood each other's creative process and we helped to inspire each other and it was super wholesome. he wrote and sung me songs and i made him ashstrays and other pottery stuff and paintings/sketches to cover his apartment and studio. i would always take him to abandoned places and use him as my photography subject and he helped me grow as an artist and helped me find a style. i really miss dating an artist and i don't think i could ever go back to a non-artist. we are still pals and we meet up every so often when he's back in the city.

>>12434570
i do a similar thing. a lot of my pals are in bands and i do all the graphic design work for super cheap for a lot of them. i love it honestly.

>>12430910
You're right though. They just want to be perceived as artsy is all. People who actually try so hard to be that special alternative one are usually the ones who are not that kind of person at all. They dress like this because of others and they want to be someone different then they actually are and end up looking pretty much the same

>>12435670
that's easy for you to say
try being 5'4...

even girls that are shorter than me don't take me seriously

>>12434940
Sorry fell asleep. I enjoy a lot of things so yeah i like music and films of course but i never thought of producing my own

>>12429369
I feel you anon. Hope you feel better soon my dude.

>>12432131
For real just talk to them like normal humans. You don't need a pick up line, that's literally gonna make you like every tinderfag. I just talk to them normal, they respond if they think your cute, so if they swiped on you, you know you've got interest already. Super easy anon just don't over think it and you'll be swimmin' in women.

>>12435657
Maybe try some new pictures or talk a little more about yourself in your bio anon. If that doesn't work you're just ugly.

>>12435758
i actually think my ultimate goal is being able to make films haha

what kind of music are you into?

>>12435838
I'm super autistic, I'm female though. But I do not look particularly good, I'm not good at social interaction at all and I'm just pretty weird in general. But despite that some guys still liked me for some reason when I signed up on a dating website one time, could pick out of hundreds of messages (even though I guess a lot message anyone as long as it is a girl that they can fuck).

It doesn't matter that you don't know women skills. I don't even know what that would really mean. The majority of the guys messaging me were ridiculous. They tried so hard, and they thought they were being funny using some stupid pick-up line (all pick-up lines are stupid anyway) or a joke. Just try not to be original actually, because probably it'll end up sounding just retarded. Try not to say something that makes you look too confident, you'll end up sounding like a dick who thinks he can get every girl, but also try not to sound too insecure or needy especially in the initial conversations, lol. I usually ignored any messages just saying "hi" or "hey, how are you?" and anything merely about my appearance. Like a compliment saying my eyes are beautiful or something. Well thanks but I did not even have anything to do with that, in the end I much prefer compliments on less superficial things, idk. Just try to show them you cared about what you wrote, and did not simply copy a sentence. But don't overthink. Write what comes to mind at that moment, depending on the other person. Every time a guy tried to impress me basically, and it was sooo obvious, I would just immediately block that person.

>>12435880
Actually i wouldnt mind art directing music videos too, i could never get enough of tame impalas the less i know the better after all these years

All over the place but my mainstay musicians are bjork, beirut, tv on the radio and bat for lashes. How about you, what are you into and what sort of films do you plan on making?

>>12431884

Hm no I've got plenty of attention from "chads" at my gym and it does nothing to me.

And the guy who was my shallowest fling was a half asian skin and bone praying mantis boy.

>>12435900
honestly too much to list here. from chopin to a tribe called quest, burzum to patsy cline

i'm actually listening to mac demarco's new album rn and really liking it

and i really don't know what i'd make. probably something shitty that would appeal to a small number of people. my favorite director is andrei tarkovsky so you have a small idea

>>12435910
i'd take a skinny pale guy over some sun tanned muscular guy any day. these guys act so confident that they just come across like total dicks. and they usually actually are. which is not what i am looking for at all. i find it disgusting even. many girls will not agree, but know damn well that many also will agree. looks are important, nobody has to play the nice guy and say only the inside counts, that is a joke. so i like it when guys care about their appearance. but that type of muscular is just not appealing and you look vain, because you actually do think it makes you hot. but instead it makes people seem shallow and even dumb, i'd much rather see a guy who puts effort in nice clothing instead or something like that

>>12435925
>my favorite director is andrei tarkovsky
Hahahaha oh God, aren't these people fabulous?

So convenient to mention Tarkovsky, isn't that the perfect line to turn yourself into an artsy person! By accident liking Hitchcock, Eisenstein, Kubrick and Buñuel as well, I assume?

Oh man, and on top of that listening to classical music as well? Enjoying one of the finest forms of art, I see. Could have scored extra point by mentioned some more obscure composer instead, but you still get the "wow, you must really be into art" trophy. Gj.

>>12435961
thank u i'm so glad you understand

>>12435925
It's ok, everyone starts small you know
ill try that demarco guy out then

>>12435961
I get what you mean. Ive a friend who is a selfprofessed arthoe, got that haircut, draws portraits (and they all look the same, regardless of race) and wears trasher shirts. Says all you need to know about her. I dont get it, why cant people just enjoy things

>>12432846
this

>>12430326
Then they're not for you.

>>12429451
Only decent one ITT.

>>12429369
had a similar situation anon
hope u feel better <3

>>12429714
> Keep being delusional. I've had several girlfriends/girl "friends" and a few sisters. They all tell me the same thing about this, they'e just too "nice" to say it upfront

Iam too lazy to quote everyone so I will only quote that

The one thing I find really amusing in this "debate" (can we even call that a debate since 90% of the discussion is random assertions based on nothing), is who is speaking. Look at the persons who are on the "girls only want chads and then settle for less if they can't get them" side, whether on this autistic board or in real life

Firstly, most of the time you'll see that they are either chads, wannabe chads (who have the attitude but not the physique - sorry for your loss, it must be hard to be skinnyfat and empty headed at the same time) or pure whiney betas who are looking for a way to explain their virginity. And the same goes for girls, those who say that will usually either be interchangeable basic hoes, frustrated wannabes or landwhales who have ridiculous standards

Secondly (and that's my favourite part), the points of view will vary A LOT depending on their social environment. Interesting, cultivated girls will usually not go for chads, and they will even reject them for other types of men. And what I find amusing, is that this fact is absolutely blatant. If you belong to those social environments, you know it because it is as obvious as it can be. The only people who believe that the desirable girls (i.e those who are not basic) usually go for chads are those who are simply not on the same league as those girls

Simply don't forget that this is how it works for the pleb : chads attract basic girls, who are a majority of the population. You guys are part of this pleb. Those basic girls are all you can get so you only focus on that, that's why you believe chads are the kings of the hill. But that's not how it works once you're outside the pleb

>>12436507

Oh and I forgot that I was initially replying to >>12429714

The conlusion is that your experience led you to believe this, because you belong to the intellectual bottom of the bracket yourself. Iknow you will think I'm wrong, the vast majority of basic people are deeply convinced that they're not. But that's the way it works, whether you are conscious of it or not

>>12435961
I fucking love tarkovsky stfu

i'm
>>12434285
and I don't know who this anon is
>>12434447
>>12434506
>>12434940
but she's a fucking flip hahaha
>>12434588

>>12435961
how could 1 person be so mad on a mongolian throat singing forum???

>>12429948
Mathilda from Leon hair + choker + tumblr = /fa/ dream girl

>>12435961
Is there any reason why someone liking Tarkowski shouldn't like Hitchcock e.g.
The real issue is that people seem to "like" Stalker (or maybe just the synopsis) and that's it.

>>12435925
>mac demarco
>burzum
>saw someone mention patsy cline on mu recently so added it in as well
>tarkovsky

wow man. you are RAELLY into art i can tell, do you also have the doc martens? only artistic people have those.

>>12435961
There is literally nothing wrong with Bunuel and Tarkovsky.

>Hitchcock, Eisenstein, Kubrick

but how are these connected to them? these are tarantino tier.

>>12435670
>GIRLS DONT CARE HOW TALL YOU ARE
Jesus, how many months did it take for you to convince yourself of this lie?

>>12429714
>>12429616
Dude's actually 6'2, but claims 6'4''. Still pretty fucking tall by IRL standards.

>>12431572
This desu.

>>12435927
>>12435910
so the only reason you don't like a chad is because of the chad stereotype of him being a douche?

say you run into a good looking dude, 6'4", ripped, but also genuinely nice person. what then? don't kid yourself.

>>12435670
you're delusional

>>12429573
>>12429567
I'm currently talking to a girl who's cute, artsy, and dresses in baggy clothing. I'm 6'4", /fit/, and play guitar in a band. I'm by no means a Chad, but I'm usually the most alpha guy in the room whenever I'm around hipsters. Shit's weird to me.

In short, yes girls still want the most "alpha" guy, but I've seen these girls turn down frat bros before. It's about preference to a point.

>>12436914
>I'm usually the most alpha guy in the room whenever I'm around hipsters.
Not really saying much, m8.

>>12431884
Do you exist in reality? Art girls do not go for chads, nor do chads typically go for them. This whole meme is past the post-ironic era of its existence; it's time to move on and find something of substance to meme around instead.

>>12436916
I know, but I never believed how little competition there was for this group until I started hanging around them. I also usually do better in this group since all my interests overlap with people in this group. Whenever I'm at bars or frat parties I end up drinking with a few friends since no one there shares my interests and I can't talk about normie things with normies.

>>12436918
>>12436925
True patricianhood is reached when you're a chad in stature, fitness, confidence, looks, but also a creative type on the side.

>>12436886
come on anon pls don't be so mad i'll make a jbiebs playlist for u, hmu

>>12431541
I suck at pickung up girls irl because I am literally unable to talk about things I'm not genuinely interested by and knowledgeable about, which limitates a lot the topics of discussion with people I just met. On tinder I find things easier, there's no social pressure so I can simply shitpost my matches until we find something to talk about and eventually meet (and if we don't I couldn't care less, those are people I'll never see again). I'm also not particularly good looking and a true manlet, and I still managed to date a few girls quite easily from Tinder. All in all it's only a matter of luck, there are many different kinds of people there so it can work well if you manage to find the right ones. But since the pool is really wide, the odds are really in your favour

>>12431167
It's not like you have anything to lose. You don't really know them, and if it does not go as planned you have no obligation to ever see them again. And on the other hand, if it goes well you may have something to win. So imo it's an error to not at least give it a try

>>12431668
Look at tricky ricky and tell me he's not master race. Of course cultivated, artsy guys with chad physique have reached end game

>>12436941
His point is mostly you're a generic faggot. In the 90s you would've been a nirvana grunge kid.

>"ARTSY" "SHY" Girls

more like bipolar disorder girls with septum piercings who have to be alternative because they have nothing else to offer so they try to appeal atleast to anorexic /fa/ goth ninjas that smoke menthol cigarettes and listen to arctic monkeys

>>12431253
/fa/ /fit/ and /soc/ are where newfriends are referred to when they come with their high school tears

>>12436840
i think he just meant that people think they are artsy when they name a couple of directors or artists or whatever the fuck that is not considered completely mainstream or something

obviously nothing wrong with being passionate about something, unless it is just a forced interest and its goal is to come across as a certain type of person to others just so they would like them more

>>12436944
See my biggest problem with tinder is that I don't match with anybody. If I ever did I'd have a much easier time talking to them than I would irl, but that initial barrier has thus par proven insurmountable.

This thread has some qts..
What are the essentials of being a cutie artsy effay girl?
I'm liking this style for myself (despite being black and I see maybe...one black chick posted)
Or more or less, how would you categorize one?

>>12437199
Get better pics and a nice bio

If event I can do it, I am convinced that anyone can

>>12437199
Either your photo sucks real bad or you're not swiping right enough. Anyone can get matches

>>12436941
>if you dont like my boring unoriginal "patrician" taste you must listen to le justin bieber :DDDD
fucking christ mate take the fedora off

>>12437208
I'm continuously shifting up my pictures and bio. Still nothing. I don't even think I'm that ugly and I've even been approached by a few women irl (though each time I got too nervous and sperged out) but the best I've done on tinder was a match with a bot.

>>12437212
Pretty sure he said that ironically because you said he had shit taste

>>12437209
I have pics of me with friends, at a show, at a museum. I only left swipe on fat girls.

>>12437221
that was my first post, just find it hilarious that in his mind "if you dont like mac demarco you must listen to justin bieber"
it's like its 2009

>>12437216
Continuous shifting does not mean that you're doing it right. If you replace shit pictures with shit pictures you won't get anywhere

I'd advise you to take a female account and to swipe a bit with it, so you can see what kinds of profile look appealing

>>12437223
where are you living tho ?

>>12435670
im dating someone that's 6'2 and there is actually zero benefit from his height

im 5'6 and the sex is awkward sometimes, his limbs are to long and we can never get into comfy cuddling positions cause his legs block the tv

and he always looks uncomfortable in my small mini cooper


last guy i use to fuck was 5'9 and everything fit perfect

>>12437231
I'm >>12437223. What other types of pictures should I be using?

>>12437235
Suburbia but close enough to a major city that I swipe on more profiles from there than my immediate area.

>>12437241
I couldn' help you much on that, the pics I use are a close up of my nostrils and then my facebook pp. It has worked well for me so far but I can't explain why, my Tinder account was meant to be a joke until I found out I could actually get matches with my nonsense

>>12431677
>doing rough sketches of random people
you're a walking stereotype m7

>>12435961
>Hitchcock, Eisenstein, Kubrick and Buñuel as well, I assume?
All of them are great directors. Are you mad because normies don't share your love for Val del Omar and Makhmalbaf?

>>12436887
>these are tarantino tier.

>>12429474
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO read name

>>12430616
yo if you didn't fuck, there wasn't a relationship. it's sorta that simple. bi girls are SO easy to get with, it's actually incredible.
My girlfriend of a year is bi, and we fucked within 2 weeks of going out. Actually, we fucked even before we were official. I bet your just ugly and probably a little bit autistic.

>>12435559
UwU

>>12430407
Koreans are probably the ugliest Asians around. All those cute Korean girls and handsome guys you see, they ALL had extensive cosmetic surgery (double eyelid, v-face, nose job...). Korean beauty docs are famous for making sweet and natural looking looks, whereas US surgeons are famous for the bimbo look. Then also comes the fact that Asian girls hate doing exercise and frequently have no hobbies apart of shopping and making up - those who also have hobbies have no social life whatsoever. As they spend a lot of time making up and choosing clothing, they become pretty good at it.

>>12435670
'male + height' is the number one filter used on dating sites...if it doesnt matter, nothing does

>>12435690
singer in a punk band is the polar opposite of an artist, jesus fuck no wonder youre all so clueless about clothes