/fa/ - Fashion

>>12004196
Would you bang your sister

>>12004199
Yes, and there's another reason I hate myself

>>12004199
Probably

>>12004196
photo of sister?

>>12004196
>see a girl randomly in public
>can't stop thinking about her

I feel a warm sensation throughout my entire body. It's comforting, yet tragic.

>can't stop being an insecure tryhard

how to be natural and comfortable with it, ladsu ?

>>12004196

>>12004691
THIS IS SO, SO TRAGIC WAAAAAH :(

>>12004220
Fuck that I'm too paranoid

>>12004196
If you ever need anyone to talk to we're here anon. And I know things look bleak but it gets better. I know you probally hate hearing that at this point(I do too) but its really important to remember. You WONT feel like this forever. And im sure you dont look to bad man, and thats coming from a fat /fa/ browser who weighs like 210. In conclusion keep working hard, talk with your parents about it and remember anon we love you <3

ps heres an Umaru-Chan they always cheer me up

>>12004196
i´m good looking and gets alot of girls, athletic, 6´3
lots of friends
but my friend is super model material and gets all the attention, and im glad for him and so but im still such an insecure faggot

>>12004196
post face, I'd love a new reaction image

>>12004196
My oneitis actually liked me, thought i was good looking et cetera but i couldn't seem to stop self sabotaging and blatantly ignoring her. She now doesnt even look at me but its entirely my fault.

The worst thing is i did the same thing to my first girlfriend until she broke up with me. I think i have avoidant personality disorder or some shit. Its like i cant make eye contact or talk to them without panic attacks

JUST

>>12005243
post it faggot

Was told many times over that i'm hot and what not. Even after all of those compliments the past 3-4 years since i lost a shit ton of weight, i still feel like an ugly fuck from time to time. The funny thing is that when i'm around people, i'm super fucking confident! I can socialize with people no problem, i act like a snarky smart ass around people constantly and by some miracle they like my company. But its like i'm a completely different person when i'm alone. When i get home, 80% of my time is spent in front of a fucking mirror. Looking at those rare eyebrows, wishing my lips were a bit thinner, my hair is kinda greasy, why the fuck was i born with literally black eyes? Not even remotely brown, fucking black, they look like they belong on a fucking seal. I see all these imperfections that just ring my fucking testicles real hard, the worst part is knowing i'll do fuck all about them. It sometimes feels like i'm some kind of bad fucking joke, like, "there's that fat tub of fuck that lost a lot of weight!Lets make him feel like he achieved something! But actually we are gonna make fun of that curly hair looking spaghetti nigger!" I'm pretty sure that's not the case seeing as how many actually close friends i and the relationship's i've had since (and before) i lost weight. I don't know. Feels pretty fucking bad, i wish i could just take their words as is and just fucking end this constant stream of disappointment in my own looks.Huh. I feel like a demented fashion goblin that can never truly be happy with his style and general look. But it ain't all bad, i guess?

>>12004196
just transition, girls can get laid way more easily than guys and it's been proven that at the same level of ugliness a girl is still more attractive than her male counterpart.

>>12004716
projecting?

>>12006265
Low self esteem is a bitch
>>12005849
Pic related is me

>>12006580
even though that won't magically give you more self-esteem, I think you look fine, senpai

>>12006580
this isn't ugly at all except you took it at a weird angle and your head is shaped like a jellybean fuck u on sum dumb nigga

>dad is chad
>mum amateur model
>im 4/10

I'm going bald and I have a fucked up head

>I'm average as fuck
>My friends are literally model-tier, and could model if they wanted very easily
>I am the ugly friend

>>12006665
>>12006678
>>12006684
Heck

>>12006678
Going bald is my biggest fear senpai

I have a very fucking weird body type where im slim but my belly is more prominent than my chest and my torso seems a bit arched to the front.

Because of this: no clothes ever fit me properly. skinny jeans look too weird because my legs are somewhat fat, loose jeans look puffy. tight shirts highlight my belly, loose shirts make me look demacrated.

Basically I look like one of those MIB coffee addicted aliens or Golum

>>12004196
this isn't /r9k/

>>12006580
bruh you synderen

>>12006815
you are skinny-fat son, need to add some muscle and loose fat

I have no clothes to wear. All of my shit is outdated and tacky. I got finals coming up and a presentation tomorrow but I'm just drinking the night away

I think my boyfriend is only with me for the sex. I miss my ex who's happily dating this fat bitch. I have no friends.

My life is so full of small problems that don't really fucking matter in the long run. I just need to focus on my school and getting my fucking dream job so I can be helping mental nuts like me while getting pain 200k a year

>>12006953
That's what I'm trying to do, just get through uni with good grades and start making money, not having friends is fucking shit tho.

>>12006580
Lol you look fine

>>12004196
hey anon.
We can be your friends.
Sure , life can fucking suck, but everyone has to make the most out of what they have.
Nor uni or clothes can make your life better. Only you can make your own life better.
You got this.
Sending good vibes your way. :^)

Anon, those idiots you went to school with are all losers now. (always were kinda losers).

Don't sweat 'em. You're attractive, and I've realized you need to say "fuck it". FUCK IT ANON.

>>12006580
a haircut would seriously push you up into the "attractive" category

your face is fine, maybe smile more

anyway feels

I'll always have an ugly, awkward face with a big chin yet nonexistent jawline even if I lose weight

I'll always have pathetically small tits, yet fat arms

I've had a nervous habit of picking at my skin ever since I was bullied for my appearance and it makes me look even worse, but I don't have enough self control to stop

also social anxiety which makes me a terribly boring autist :^)

>>12006825
every board is r9k + niche interests

>>12006580
just saw this.
you look like arin from game grumps except not fat and a bit more attractive.
you'll be fine.
Haircut, shave, gym.

>tfw you wanted to buy something but bots bought all the stock 1 milliseconds after release

>>12007118
Cancer

>>12007078
You can definitely get rid of the fat arms by losing weight, don't lose hope!

>>12005752
>>12007057
>>12007067
Thanks anons

I'm tired of the same old "you are the greatest person i know, but i don't want to be in a relationship".
I have few friends, most of them live in other cities, and we don't even get along anymore. We have nothing in common and they put me down when i do stuff that i like.
Next year i'll move to another city for uni, and i'm sad that i am wasting my time doing stuff that i don't like, with people that i don't like, being socially awkward as fuck, and ugly and unlovable.
And even the people that i have stuff in common with reject me. I don't know what to do anymore, i'm sad all the time.

>>12007148
That your sister? Damn she's legit cute

>>12007139
trying :^(

they'll only look good when I'm severely underweight

>>12007151
Hey op here, I feel pretty much the same way, I've changed so much in the last 3 years I'm like an entirely different person, so I think it's only natural that when this shit is happening in your early adulthood you will outgrow friends, I just hope I'm able to make them again when I've got to a more stable point.

Overall I think you should just focus on yourself for now, that's what I'm trying to do

>>12007154
yeah that's her. my name's barron by the way.

I'm together with the same girl for 5 years now.She's hot, she's nice, she's never done me wrong. At this pace we are slowly moving towards life together but there is a fucking thought in my head under all the contempt, that keeps nagging me. What if I can do better, what If she really isn't that great? This thought is gaining traction and It kind of feels like I am finding reasons not to like the girl more and more. I really don't wan't to waste such a good relationship.

>>12007561
Just cheat on her here and there and see what other pussy is like.

Honestly they all feel the same after awhile....and girls all talk about the same shit/want the same shit.

Most greedy people I have ever met...women who are middle class and below

>>12004196
Same for me anon... I always felt like my brother was the "preferred" one. He's smart, cute and skinny while I'm chubby less smart than him and have acne.
And growing up in an asian family makes it all worse with the relatives comparent us...
Don't wanna seem selfish and like an attention whore desu...

>>12004196
>I feel like I'm moderately attractive, I'm funny enough that I make people cry from laughing and I'm working my ass off in school.
But holy fuck am I insecure and can't handle rejection. Just broke it off with gf and gonna probably be alone for a long while now because I can't handle risking being rejected. Fuck

>>12006815
skinny fat and bad posture probs. I have a friend who is skinny but has bad posture and weird body fat distribution. makes them look like birth reject

>tfw mexican
>tfw curly as fuck all hair
>tfw wider body structure
>tfw can never indulge in /thinspo/ or /pale/ styles


But if we're talking about honest feels

>tfw older sister has autism
>tfw growing up she was my only reference for socializing
>tfw growing up autistic without even knowing it
>tfw parents expect me to be the normal one so I can take care of her

>>12006815
sounds like anterior pelvic tilt. tense glutes more

>>12004196
>tfw have a good set of clothes that I never wear since I stopped going outside
>put them on sometimes but it doesn't feel right, like they don't match with the person that I am
>become so jaded that I no longer have a life or personality
>starting to think I never had one in the first place

>>12007433
KEK

Going to Community College when all my freinds moved out
I'm missing out and I can't deal with it
Also my dad cancelled the Netflix subscription and I can't land a job even tho I applied to 30+

>>12004694
I only know that feeling when drunk.

Let go of my inflated self esteem, start genuinely engaging with people, don't care about how people perceive me, want everyone to have a good time.

It's pretty sad really

>>12007822
Fuck I feel that, is it depression?

>>12006580
I expected a really ugly person, but your face is like totally fine, get a haircut and decide wether you want a beard and you'll look good.

My life is shit too! My little brother is the more attractive one of us both, my hairline is receding, my jawline sucks, which I'm trying to cover with a mediocre beard. I've got IBS since I'm 18 (I'm in my early to mid 20s now), wich makes me really insecure and just leaving the house a fucking nightmare. Last time I had sex was 18 also, because my bowel can't handle the stress of dating anymore and getting a girl while sitting on the toilet on a bar with diarrhea is a pretty tough thing to do. Then there's a girl I liked and that liked me too, but when it got serious, I pushed her away. So she went with another dude, who beat her and eventually forced her into prostitution, she has left him but now she's got serious mental problems. So I've been helping her recovering, but since she's out of the psychiatry a couple of weeks ago, we've had like no contact.
I addition to that I've got a drinking habit/problem. I haven't been sober for more then a month since I was sixteen.

But at least I'm skinny and can wear effay clothes!

>>12008513
Maybe you should see a shrink bro, also surely there's something you can do about the IBS? I have the same problem of pushing girls away, feels bad

Been chatting up a real attractive younger girl lately, we've made a pretty great friendship over the past few weeks and I feel sort of confident she'd want a relationship with me. I want to make a move, but I had a very similar situation with a girl last year, and I ended up ruining our friendship by trying to kiss her. Terrified that's going to happen to me again. Also had some horrible self esteem issues lately, can't stop thinking about how ugly I feel like I am and how inadequate I am because I'm 5'7". (girl is 5 foot which makes her that much better). I smoke weed 2 times a week and I feel like a degenerate. I really don't even enjoy being high that much, I don't know why I do it. Have massive amounts of work piling up, getting the worst grades of my life, and my parents continue to stress me the fuck out. Been a rough few weeks effay :(

>>12006580
Nigga wtf you look fine. If you cleaned up a little you yourself can be a model.

>>12006580
Just cut off your arm bro, you'll be fine.

>>12009895
Fuck I guess I need to hit the gym

>>12009788
Hey I honestly think cutting out the weed could do wonders for you, it's quite telling that I've never met someone who smokes multiple times a week who isn't just a useless bum. Start reading or something to work on your concentration, and make sure you're waking up early. I think as long as you and the girl go get some drinks together and have flirtatious banter throughout the evening, you will be fine to go in for a kiss, it just shouldn't be out of nowhere unless you don't give a fuck/are insanely handsome.

>>12010043
Yea I really do intend to cut out the weed. I wouldn't say I'm a bum really, but I don't see anything improving as long as I'm smoking so I'm gonna try to stop. It seems to me that we've been flirting this entire time, but I can't really tell if she's just got that kind of personality. I'm watching a movie with her on Saturday if this thread is still up I guess I'll report back.

>>12010097
Good luck lad

>>12006580
>cut hair or either do "le lumbersexual bun"
>shave or grow a normal, full beard
>start lifting
>improve diet
>stop fapping

et voilà, easily a 7+/10

>>12006580
m8 you're one click away from an army of genetically defective, deformed basement dwellers over at /r9k/ and you're saying you're ugly? I'm probably uglier than you and I'm doing fine. the best advice I can give you is stop worrying about your looks(you could get a shave and a haircut though) and take up some hobbies, start becoming interesting so that people want to talk to you.
u gon b fine bb

>>12010588
dont listen to what this guy says. listen to what his post picture says.

-alternate dimension you

MY POSITIVITY IS SLOWLY KILLING ME INSIDE

>>12011196
How does that work lad?

>>12010588
>>12010618
Thanks a lot boys

>>12006580
get a hair cut, shave, and start working out

if you're really depressed, ditch /fa/ and go full normie prep and you'll be getting bitches in no time

>>12011382
nice ass, shame about the face

>>12007642
A little related
>11month younger brother is a tard
>growing up constantly took all my toys away from me and wouldnt let me have them back cause of his tard rage
>parents dont care
>get into vidya cause hes too much of a tard to take that away from me
>look back at all I wasted on playing games
>some of it felt worth it but the majority nah

Atleast I grew a solid foot and a half over tardbro otherwise I'd be fucked having to deal with him, but he still likes to take my shit sometimes and tardscreams when I take them back

>>12014099
Just be glad you're already over vidya, it consumes many people's lives even up untill they're like 30. Thankfully I'm not addicted to gaming anymore but it kinda means I do think fit in well with many people now which is fucking annoying.

>broke up with first gf a long time ago
>Still hung up over it
>She constantly shows off her new bf to me
>Tfw fucking crippling loneliness
>Really want a gf like her again but idk how I even landed her in the first place or even look for qt petite girls like her again

>>12014560
Sounds hard bud, you'll get over her eventually, in the meantime do things that will help you grow as a person, try not to wallow in misery.

t. Semi professional wallower

had fucked up life, and this last year had depression and anxiety, as kissless
Started losing weight, working on myself, getting into things i really started liking, lost my first kiss, get attention from girls etc, never been so happy and confident in my life

>>12014856
wish you were into boys ;-;

>>12014880
aw ill take the compliment tho <3<3<3

>tfw is was 19, 192cm tall and build, I got to be a model in Japan for some gigs
>people around me said I need to get a degree or do university, went back to Germany because uni in japan is too expensive, now 6k€ in dept and I won't graduate in my department
>crippling self-doubt and anxiety caused me to gain 35kg, type 2 diabetes and depression makes working impossible, girlfriend got mentally ill (hikikomori) and I take care of her
>living in the countryside with my parents, savings are almost all gone

Fuck. My. Life.

>>12014954
hahaha,
that sucks dude

>>12006161
>Tfw I drove my relationship off a cliff by ignoring my gf as well
>Find out another girl likes me
>Treat her only as a friend
I'm not scared of having a relationship, I'm scared of fucking it up by negligence again

>>12014935
heh, I think I complimented you 3 or more times here
also is this old or new you

>>12014954
You jumped the gun real quick. Degrees aren't useful unless it's a stem degree

>>12015024
old, yeah i post myself alot but im finally confident to release any pictures of me, that pink pic is paired with the other old pic from >>12014856

>>12015026
I was studying computer science...

>spent a lot of time getting fit and obtaining an acceptable clothing style
>have absolutely no idea how to interact with people even on the most surface level
>cant even make friends with people who initially seem to like me

i feel like my level of social ineptitude is uncommon even on this site, its like i have a force field that repels everyone

currently just trying to get into a top grad school so i can maybe meet people similar to me

Finally got a gf, short, small tits, big ass
Finally made it senpai

>>12015222
Impregnate her immediately and have lots of white children.

>>12014553
I still play shitty ol mobas when I have time to waste or whatever game is worth some pocket change on steam. Playing league keeps me connected to some friends, but thats basically it. At this stage in my life I rather spend 600$ shoes and clothing i may or may not regret or camera stuff than spend 600$ on a console and games

you look like me with a less fat face. glad to know you get the ladies though, might help with my self confidence

>>12015121
You're on the right track bud, the worst thing you can do is give up and get despondent, as long as you're always moving onwards and upwards things can only get better.

>>12015300
Definitely the right mindset, I still play dota now and then but it used to be that I played literally every day and it fucked my social life up.

>Live in the middle of fucking nowhere
>All I want, all I fucking want is a cutie androgynous gf
>My towns population is less than 500
>the neighboring towns aren't even remotely bigger
>the closest big city is about 3 hours away
>Shitty car
>Minimum wage job with no other higher paying jobs ANYWHERE
>Average looks

Fucking kill me already

>>12006161
lol this happened to me too. we're fucking dumb. it gets better tho now we know for next time....if there is one

>>12015567
fucking move to a city moron. It's not that fucking hard. But then if you, you'll realize that the small town isn't the reason why you don't have a girl friend.

>It's middle school
>"Dress like it's the 80s" spirit day
>I come to school in all black with leather jacket like in pic
>Everyone else looks like a fucking highlighter collection
>Teacher says "That's not 80s, go down to the office and change"

>>12015651
What a cunt

>>12015600
With what money? lol

Also, the small town IS the reason I have no girlfriend. There are no girls here my age. Retard

>>12015600
Dubs of truth

>>12016167
Save up as much as you can

>>12015567
does androgynous mean short hair?

>>12006580
bro I would kill to look like you.

The key to building self esteem for me was:
>getting a career that I'm good at, where people respect me
>dressing nicely
>exercise. get fit for yourself. even a small amount of exercise a day helped my depression a ton

I wish I had a drive to fix my shit.

>>12018168
>you will never live a comfy life like Alpha
Reality sucks.

>>12004196
Who is OP's pic related? Sam?

Fuck, just had a first date with a girl I really liked, and who was previously obvious about liking me back.

Kissed her and got some bad vibes, but it wasn't till afterwards when the coffin was nailed. Got my first "let's be friends" text and it was awful considering how much I thought I fit with this girl.

Gotta see her monday, which I can deal with. I'm just having an awful time imagining going back to an empty dating life. My days don't involve many attractive women, so I'm crushed imagining how long it'll be before I find anyone I liked as much as this one.

People seem to think attractive dudes have no problems in their dating lives, or that they aren't allowed to. But it's been over 2 years since my only girlfriend, and knowing that shouldn't be a problem for someone like me is the number one thing that depresses me.

>>12018173
you do realize that "alphas" as just much as an insecure bitch as everyone else right? they just compensate in the opposite direction

they don't like comfy lives

>>12018454
Alpha is the name of a character, silly. She lives a comfy life.

>look at myself in direct sunlight
"Hey, I look pretty good!"

>look at myself indoors
"Please put me out of my misery"

Anyone else know this feel? I cringe every time I see myself in a store mirror. I swear I look like I have jaundice or some shit.

>>12006580
what do you look like a loose ponytail? would work nicely with your stubble i think

>>12007139
build a little bit of muscle as well

should help with the anxiety too, which will in turn help other things

> 18
>people around me tell me i look good
>have incredibly low self esteem
>jealous of anyone who is 8/10 and spend hours thinking about how much their lives are better than mine
>never had a gf
>still a virgin
>would most likely fuck it up anyway due to my low self esteem and self worth
>contemplate suicide everyday but feel frustrated due to people actually depending on me
fuck my life

dude ghosted on me last night, pretty sure he doesnt want to hang anymore

very lonely, detached from life, spend all my time making new outfits or shopping online, only time i am out of the house is when im at school or political events with my mom (who is extremely stressed rn because shes running for something), i am running out of good music, all of my friends arent really talking to me, get drunk to try to deal with this weird innate existential loneliness, i cuddle/cry on a huge stuffed bear at night, i daydream too much about things i want but will never happen, cant stop writing sad love songs, etc.


ugh

>>12018395
Yea that's Sambo

>>12018039
Thanks anon, I'm just starting to get /fit/ atm and you're right it does make me feel happy. Hope you're doing well.
>>12018408
That sucks dick man, I'm sure there are plenty of girls at your uni tho, you'll find another.
>>12018581
Exact opposite, inside I look ok, if I catch my reflection while I'm out I just want to hide. Bright light makes my eye bags look fucking gnarly.
>>12018592
I know how that feels my man, have to get drunk to actually get with girls otherwise I bitch out. I'm going to start getting therapy soon, maybe you should consider that?
>>12018593
Being lonely is fucking shit, I lost most of my friends just from acting distant and being depressed, just remember you can always make new friends, you're going to make and lose friends for your whole life so don't stress too much.

>>12016679
basically, yeah

lmaoo what can I say?

Tfw really yellow teeth. Been this way as long as I can remember. I've always brushed twice a day, shit doesn't help.
I feel insecure about smiling with teeth so I just end up looking awkward when smiling and holding my mouth closed.
Just end me

>>12019758
grab some whitening strips anon, regular brushing won't make teeth white.

>>12019758
>went to the dentist today
>she said she expected really bad teeth from what i told her
>says they are incredibly fine
>gonna use braces to fix some teeth, have an appointment to take out all my tooth decay and another appointment to whiten my teth

lifes gud

>>12005752
>fat
>210
How tall are you?

>>12019758
Just go to the dentist and see what they can do for you, they can work wonders my dude

>make a post
>somebody calls me a faggot with shit taste
>stomach lurches, instinctively close browser
>can no longer visit that thread because my self-esteem wouldn't be able to handle it

i have average looks and a cool personality, but after a couple dates with a guy, they always end it and say "i found someone else" or "i dont know if im ready for something yet"

this has happened 5 times. im so fuckin dONE

>>12020810
You probably have below average looks and an awful personality. Have you tried putting out faster?

>>12014935

Dyrus? Is that you?

>>12018592

you and every other 16 year old dude

oh wait

>>12020807
80% of /fa/ is made of clueless cringeworthy kids and normies

the few who happen to have some actual knowledge usually are constructive in their criticism. Or at least they're not agressive unless you're clearly trolling

so unless you care about the opinion of a bunch of special needs kids, being called a faggot when you post a pic shouldn't bother you

>>12004196
>everything in my life that's fa related is going fantastic
>everything in my life that isn't fa related is sinking so hard that the titanic would be envious.
Fuck my life

>>12018593
are you the female version of me? the worst part is i can remember being so happy and content but now i just spend all day depressed

tfw I get consistently good ratings in facial aesthetic threads but I can't help but feel that I'm still hideous irl despite that and it's just my pictures that look good.

>>12006580
you look like a fucking model

>>12021100
I feel the same, I think it's like a miniature mid life crisis an corny as that sounds

>>12021204
No it's just depression, dummy.

>18
>almost died in a car accident last june, a month before my 18th birthday
>my only friend is a suicidal drug addict and alcoholic
>he's been cold turkey sober for 5 months now, which is cool I guess
>he still has this craze in him, I guess I like it but it terrifies me
>just moved to a new town to re-do senior year of hs because I grew detatched from everyone in my old town and dropped out
>after I dropped out I started snorting adderall
>depressed
>I basically mixed weed, lexapro, accutane, and adderall this year
>I'm barely hanging on mentally
>smoking 2-3 cigarettes a day, now
>new school is the straightest of straight crowds
>everyone's boring
>if you smoke a pinch of dirt weed these people think you're the shit
>No one smokes cigarettes

>>12004196
Gf broke up with me about two months ago. We were together for about a year and a half but she had started uni and I got depressed so I think I became a liability to her. She's already met somebody else who she's head over heels for and I know treats her like shit. She even drunk called me last week saying she wished I was more like him but doesn't want me at all. She even dumped me through text. My depression got worse. I have 3 uni assignments in for next week and I've barely started. I have no motivation. I barely go into uni as well. I barely eat but when I do it's just shitty food from the take away (although I'm losing weight like crazy). I get pissed every chance I have cos it makes me feel more alive. I had a one night stand with somebody pretty attractive but I know she's a complete slut so I know it's not really an accomplishment. I miss my ex but I hate her for what she did to me and how she treated me. I was blinded by love but I was put down so much. I just miss the feeling of being wanted and having somebody there to. I want somebody to fill that void so badly but I don't want a potential partner thinking I'm using them as a rebound. I tried using tinder but literally got no responses and it made me feel worse. I would take a new pic of myself but I hate the way I look in pics. I just wanna move on in life. I'm a third year uni student and my life should feel like it's starting but all I wanna do is sit in bed watching tv and not move for about a year.

>>12021431
What school you at?
Go to peer support man. Seriously. I've had an arguably worse semester and the only thing that's keeping me together is that. Go talk to some random, cry your fucking eyes out. Youll feel better. There's resources for dealing with post breakups, groups you can talk to.
Yeah you feel like a piece of shit. But you're on 1 of the 4 (arguable) boards on this site that's best for self improvement. You miss her and hate her? Fucking go make yourself effay, hit /fit/, become /lit/. You can do better man. Bitches and shit but hoes and tricks. Obviously it hurts like fucking hell. It's how you answer that pain that'll make or break you. The way you're going about it you're just reinforcing her reasons to break up with you. You're wallowing in your own feels man.

I just feel a bit lonely lately. I have a lot to say but I'm too timid to talk to anyone.

>>12006580
Troll thread, OP looks good.

i have zero motivation to do anything
all 4 of my finals are in a week and half completely lost in 2 subjects but atleast they are s/ued

can't even get off my ass to brush my teeth before i go to sleep and put my retainer in

im exhausted for no reason i haven't done anything except shitpost, over eat and sit on my ass for like 2 weeks

>>12018592
Me, is that you?

>>12021273
>Accutane
Kek, you need to stop being so edgy and lay off the drugs, you aren't better than your schoolmates just because you abuse more drugs than them, they're probably heading towards successful lives while you're spiralling into failure. Grow up and start thinking about your future before it's too late. I hope you do make it brah

>>12021640
Sounds like depression, I was like that last year man I wouldn't get out of bed all day, ate chips and shit in bed, played dota untill 4 am woke up at 3. I was really living the dream lmao it was fucking terrible, worst year of my life, but I moved back home and now have the support of my mum and my sister and that helps so much, just having people to talk to when shit gets rough.

If you can do something like that you really should, I'm now back at uni, quit gaming, still depressed but way less so and I purged all my shitty friends from my life. That does make me a friendless loser but you can't fly with the Eagles if you sleep with the pidgeons.

Good luck!

I've been on and off a long distance relationship for a year now with a girl I met on 4chan. She's the first person I ever fell in love with and I just think it's fucking crazy that if I never went on 4chan that one night my life today would be radically different. I came to the realization a couple months ago that we'd never have a future together though. She's still in high school and I just started college so we wouldn't be in a position to close the distance for god knows how long. I hate that she's ruined my ability to ever love someone romantically again. When you find someone who you resonate so strongly with you just can't go back to girls who don't share 90% your same interests and political/religious views. She rekindled the happiness that had been so fucking subdued back into my skull after years of being helplessly alone and for that I'll always be in debt to her. She actually browses this board often so I hope she doesn't see this.

>>12021726
>just having people to talk to when shit gets rough.

yeah thats the main problem me and my parents do not have the best relationship all i really have is my brother

and i also have no friends for the same reason as you basically the friends i had before were just losers i knew from high school i cut them off over summer, im happy with my decision but it's still tough dealing with the loneliness

I feel so much hatred towards myself and my shortcomings that I channel it outward in how I view other people.

If people hold traits like those I hold, I despise them.

I just want to become muscular, fashionable, and physically attractive so I can hate them from a position of power and fuel my ego. I feel like I'm always being judged. Instead I want people to worship me (so to speak) and heavily revere me. I'm an autist though. I can't really relate to anyone because I'm so different.

I've actually tried to improve myself and I have, but it feels like such a facade socially. I've found I relate to people who have come from social exile as opposed to "normies".

You know Daniel Plainview from There Will Be Blood? He goes how he hates most people and wants no one else to succeed. I feel that way too. I want to be the one who does XYZ. No one else.

I was never liked by anyone and was born to two socially awful parents. It's been an uphill battle. I feel so much contempt for them as well. My father is an autist and my mother is dumb as rocks. In fact, he married a foreign women while in the army and I heavily suspect it was because he couldn't get a normal woman in the states. While I have a lot of facial potential, I'm still short (5'8") because of my dad's side of the family. As a matter of fact, it turns out my cousins on my mother's side are over 6'0". Even her brothers grew very tall. My dad's entire family is full of abnormally short people. I also hold a lot of contempt against him for that.

My parents to me are a reflection of mediocrity that I never want to be.

I recently watched Moonrise Kingdom and started crying hard. I just want to be liked. No one likes me and I feel like no one ever will.

I am very aware of how poisonous these thoughts are. I am trying to squash them in my mind because I know as a man, no one is coming to save you. You must save yourself. No one cares and this is a net loss in your worth as a man.

>>12021851
Lastly, I don't want to tell my parents these things or anyone frankly.

Because then they would patronize me. I wouldn't actually earn respect. They would put on a new personality to interact with me.

Ask about my day when they don't really care. They would see me as a wounded animal they are tending out of obligation.

Someone please respond.

severe cystic acne. my life hasn't been made more difficult because of it, I live normally, have friends and a relationship etc, it's like it's not even there. But it is extremely painful physically, I'm forced to hide it, and every minute of every day I want to kill myself because I personally think I look like something from fallout.

struggle with depression most of my adult life and moved to tennessee for uni to escape family who sucks, party to much, try and kill myself, graduate with shit degree, tour with a band who doesnt pay me for 2 years, work shit jobs have zero motivation because im so bummed all the time, for the first time try and break down tell my family that I need help, they say therapists are crooks who never help anyone and that i need to go to church, make me even more bummed, they want me to move back home and go back to school, i just want to wake up and not hate myself so much or get a job where i can still pursue music but whats the difference i suck anyways

>>12021851
i feel you so fucking hard especially the intense hatred for others which is mostly a projection

also i fucking hate normies but i think it could be jealously

whenever a guy is interested in me i usually like them back until i see them interact with another group of people and notice that they have a good amount of friends then i just hate them

i really want a bf that can related to being a loner like myself


but anon ur gonna make it. your harsh self criticism will only results in the best you can be theres nothing wrong with wanting to be great. it's good that u have this hatred of mediocrity

but i think your need for others to like you will drag you down

you really need to learn how to be happy alone and by yourself it's easier said than done it is human nature to want to be accepted, but you have to realize that you, yourself, is enough.

>>12021877
yeah fuck that don't do that

i told my mom i was going to kill myself a while back and at first she mocked me then after that she told the rest of the family at they were walking on egg shells around me for a few months.

just keep it to yourself desu parents will only add fuel to the fire most times.

>>12007642
whats wrong with being mexican.. this isnt pol

>>12021912
Friendzoned (^:
>whenever a guy is interested in me i usually like them back until i see them interact with another group of people and notice that they have a good amount of friends then i just hate them
This is exactly something I feel as well. When someone is social with me, it makes me feel important briefly, but I want to be more than a casual conversation. I want to be somebody. I want to be something significant.

I think it's this that fuels my passion for fitness, fashion, and my career choice, although I do have very specific and deep reasons for why I do them anyway. They probably both hold equal weight.

Oddly enough, I've come from the point of social retardation to people knowing my name and enjoying talking with me although it still can be a struggle.

Also, whenever I have been out with friends (all were socially awkward) I was the leader simply because it felt natural. I need to find a healthy way of getting that out all the time. It only seems to occur when I know I'm better than someone. I become genuinely charismatic.

The best way to describe it is being in between social castes.

I think I'll get through it, but I still feel like I'll never relate to anyone "normal" ever. No matter how confident or successful I become, I'll only really relate to those who came from social exile like I did because they'll be more self-aware. It definitely raises questions about my future love life.

It's why I enjoyed Moonrise Kingdom so much. Two kids who existed outside of everything found each other and finally felt the love they always wanted. They were the only people in the world who understood each other.


>>12021910
The best way to fight depression is find a progressive hobby which improves as you continue doing it. It gives you something to wake up for and gives you the sensation of achievement.

>>12020975
/fa/ is definitely out there but so is a lot of people going for fashion. It's a new frontier for most people.

I personally really enjoy menswear because of the layering, textures, and colors remind me of great pieces of architecture and how they can have so much, yet everything contrasts, stands out in its own unique way, catches the eye, and yet compliments everything else all at the same time to make one singular piece.

Then you have people who wear shit like Rick Owens.

>>12021974
I should probably also add I am genuinely alone.

Of those 3 friends, I cut one off, and the other cut me off but it was coming anyway since we were going different ways.

The third has no other friends and he is very depressed. We text sometimes and he's the only one I text. We won't be able to hang out until finals are over. Until then it's just me and my thoughts.

Sometimes it can be weird when you suddenly realize how much you talk aloud to yourself because no one else talks to you.

>>12021928
eeehhhh

Mexicans kind of have the short end of the stick when it comes to genetics

They have a terrible skin shade (there is tanned and dark, but there is diarrhea colored), are extremely short, have very thick rigid hair, poor facial aesthetics, round faces, and trouble growing facial hair

>>12021993
some mexicans do have those features. but to white americans, any brown short guy with thick hair and a round face would be easy to spot and categorize since those are the most blatant unappealing
features. hence the sterotype.
there are a lot of mexicans
who dont have that look. but it isn't noticed anyway

>>12021796
You'll get there man friends come and go

>>12021992
You will get more in time, don't stress

Tfw hate normie with a passion, but also hate gaymers and cunts who like shit teir memes. Tfw I judge people ridiculously harshly and feel out of place with almost everyone. That fucking feel when I used to be a normie with heaps of friends going out every weekend and now I'm just a depressed husk who talks to nobody.

>>12022050
when you're weird, friends are hard to come by

>>12022055
>Tfw hate normie with a passion, but also hate gaymers and cunts who like shit teir memes. Tfw I judge people ridiculously harshly and feel out of place with almost everyone.
by the look of this thread, you'll fit in just fine

>>12022056
no they aren't. just ask people from you're classes if they wan't to go out for a drink in between lectures etc.

>>12022091
>So you you watch Game of Thrones?
>...
>Do you follow sports?
>...
>Do you like to party?
>...
>who do you follow on social media?
>...

normies are as weird to me as I am weird to them. We live in totally different worlds

I know this is a shitty feel compared to what other people here have but anyway

>be me a year ago
>22 yo kissless virgin
>not really any proper friends
>decide to get tinder
>actually manage to start dating a girl
>shes actually pretty cool, fun to hang out with
>beautiful face, alright body
>have first kiss finally lose virginity
>stop seeing each cause the sex was bad
>year later now
>graduated from uni
>move into apartment by myself
>friends drift apart
>best friend moves overseas
>most are in relationships
>always have friday night/weekend plans
>feel like my friends have outgrown me
>go on fb and see tinder girl is in relationship as of like half an hour ago

i dont miss her really or anything but it's so hard to see everyone around you growing and developing as people and I just feel like I'm going nowhere

>>12007822
i feell this

>>12004196
Don't say that Sam, you're beautiful.

All jokes aside, I used to be pretty ugly. My hair was thinning, I stopped and reversed it with minoxidil and my hairline looks better than I ever remember and my facial hair has filled in too thanks to that.
My teeth were fucked (Had a massive gap in my front teeth and one of them was chipped) I went to the dentist and got it fixed with a payment plan that makes it affordable and now I love my teeth
My skin was shitty so I started drinking 3 litres of water a day and now I feel and look much better
I had a shitty body so I started working out. My body is slowly taking shape and its satisfying as fuck to watch happen
My posture was terrible (Lumbar lordosis and forward head) I fixed that with simple exercises from Google
I had a shitty clothes collection so I bought a few more clothes and look way better
I had a shitty haircut so I went to the barber to get one that suited me

I'm still always looking to improve what I can, but man, my confidence level is crazy higher than it was a few months ago, and confidence is what women and everyone else really respond to.

Don't just wallow in self pity about how you look ugly, fix it. Make it your mission

>>12022165
>>12006580
Lol, you're not ugly you faggot.

Just get a haircut and get some sun. Your only problem is you look like a depressed guy whose been in his house for 3 weeks after losing his job.

>flatmate goes out and buys a bunch of basic shit from Primark
>looks better than I ever will because he's 6'2 and ruggedly handsome

brb setting fire to my wardrobe and locking myself inside

>>12021528
I have spoken to friends about it a lot and even called a helpline when it was at its worst. I even got a guitar to learn but uni work stresses me out so I don't play it. I have made a list of things to do as a new year resolution that I'd like to stick to. But thanks for asking anon also I go to the university of Derby, UK

I went from 16.5 BMI to 18.5 (about 10 lb gain) and it sucks. I have a gym membership and I love going out there but the way I lost weight in the first place was by restricting <500 and purging, water fasting-- not through strenuous exercise. It's not that big of a deal. I looked better with visible bones, so I'll make it happen again.

I'm convinced that either love isn't real or I'm incapable of it. Out of four exes, I think highly of two and they're the attractive ones.

Youtubers are my "friends" and I prefer it that way really. They don't pass judgment or pressure me into eating with them

I work side by side with a creepy psycho 40 hours a week and haven't made the decision yet to seek a different position within the corporation or search for a different full time job. I normally pretend she isn't there but last week she threw a big fit about me. (I realize I'm a problem) (I'm convinced life would go smoothly if I only worked directly with men, but we don't get what we want like that.)

Good luck to everyone.

>>12021983
I was referring to people like you when I was talking about kids with no knowledge

Anyone who knows the slightest bit about designers also knows that Rick Owens is among the very best of his generation. You don't need to like what he does to recognize how good you need to be in order to make antifashion mainstream while still remaining appealing to your niche vanguard public

I was best friends with this girl that I liked. I don't think she was ever too into me so I did what I could to better myself. At the end she still didn't like me. We went our own ways to college and that keeps my mind off of her.
>Go home from uni and all I can think about is her

At least I'm effay but it feels empty

I got excema
I got asthma
I got no gf
I got retard strength from autism
I got autism
I did SS + GOMAD and now Im scared to lose gains

>>12021273
>I basically mixed weed, lexapro, accutane, and adderall this year

What? Are you saying you took accutane recreationally or something?

i'm 165.3 cm and i refuse to actually spend money on clothes because im young and if i actually tried to look attractive and fashionable it would fall flat and i'd look like a little kid. the only thing im holding out for is a late growth spurt because they've always told me my projected height is around 5'11. also i have shit acne and even my moderate dose of accutane isnt helping, its just making me dry and look old.

>>12022328
no I was prescribed accutane (and the lexapro), what I mean is I was taking all of that relatively around the same time.

>>12022215
Honestly I recommend the peer support. Go face to face and you don't need to hold back. Total honesty it helps a lot okay? I know you can bounce back man. It sucks now but one day this will be a bad memory. You can get better and move forward. Sure you don't think it is. But you posted honestly how you feel here, it's no different than peer support. Helplines do fuck all compared to face to face. Its not easy to get better and the hardest part is opening up. You've already opened up here. You're making steps and even though they feel small now, they add up

>>12016167
listen to the dubs

>26 y.o.
>still fucking shit at asking girls out
>hate myself more and more with each passing year
>at the same time I can't help but see that I'm surrounded by a bunch of even bigger morons and plain imperfect people (who are more succesful than me because they have their self-esteem in check)
>know a ton of people but all of them are acquaitance tier, no deeper connection with anyone
>developed an insomnia which fucks with my job hours (can never sleep properly the nights before work)
>hate the way I look even though nobody in the right mind would call me ugly or unattractive (except you guys of course)
>never been in a relationship (longest I dated one girl is 3 months and I cheated on her the same day she left the town to visit her family)

I need help

>>12022218
Are you bulimic? Maybe you should see a shrink

>>12022342
That shit takes a while to work man just stick with it, it worked wonders for me. Also sincere condolences on being short my guy :(

>>12004196
i hate my feet, they're really flat and wide. the only shoes that normally would be wide enough to be comfortable would be terrible looking autism NBs or something like that, and i just can't bring myself to wear those. i have some narrower shoes like stans, but the insides of my feet bulge out in the middle and i get self conscious whenever i wear them, i feel like people would be staring. i have some not wide width sized, but not narrow shoes either, like AF1s, those seem to be an okay middle ground between not looking awful, not showing the "bulge", and not being uncomfortable.
to complicate things further, my feet are different sizes. my left foot is less long, and significantly less wide. if both of my feet were shaped the same as ol' lefty, it would be ok. the wideness bulges a little, but not enough to be super noticeable. but my right foot is like a a half to a whole size bigger, and way, way wider.
i've heard there is a surgery that can make the foot less wide, or restore the arch or something. i need to look into that.

>>12022885
There are some dope new balances out there bro. Also try reeboks

>>12022940
i have a pair of new balances, they're E width and all but not really wide enough for the right foot. in my post i was talking about the REAL autism NB, you know what i mean. the ones with extended widths past the normal wide E.
i have been looking at some reeboks lately, not sure if i'm in the market for them but i'll keep them in my mind.

>>12022973

I feel ur pain my man only 10.5 4E fits my toebox and the instep I have to lace as tight as possible. If I want shoes that don't crowd my toes I need to size up to 12 which leaves like an inch in the front and looks even worse.

For boots its okay as some companies like rockport and redwing make boots with large toes but I don't even bother with sneakers anymore.

>>12004196
i hate myself and the love of my life does too. why cant i just be good looking for fucks sake i hate this. i want to die.

>>12022973
Oh ok I get you

>>12023056
That's how I feel, it's tough but I guess we eventually have to accept the way we look, can't see that happening any time soon tho

>>12004196
>I know I have to learn to love myself but...
Fuck that. That is the most useless advice a twat can give you. Join a church, and worship something other than yourself or someone/thing else. Happiness is not the doctrine of how we may make ourselves happy, but rather the doctrine of how we may make ourselves worthy of happiness.

Best of luck anon, God loves you. And their right, you wont always feel this way.

>>12022663
I'll look into it. Dunno if there is any in my area but thanks for the suggestion

>>12021752
Initials?

>tfw can only flirt/do okay with girls when talking face to face, at a party, during lunch whatever
>in 2016 most people are now getting girls over snapchat
>sperg out whenever i ahve to text/sc
>always look crazy ugly on sc, so hate sending my face
>lonely and just want a gf but have to chat to them via social media or whatever
>dont even have an insta or anyhting cus im insecure
>feel like no one likes me besides like 5 or so real friends
TipsTipsTips please

>>12023604
I know this feel. Texting is the worst. I just end up stressing out over what to send and going over how they will respond over and over in my head. With normal conversation, I just say whatever and see an immediate reaction.

>ugly as fuck
>no self esteem
>never talk
>hate any sort of attention whatsoever good or bad
>depressed
>lose weight
>still hate myself
>get job
>still hate myself
>apply for CC
>still hate myself
I'm making "progress" but I don't think I'll ever be happy if I am ugly and hate what I see. I know it is shallow... or at least have a nice smile so I could "fake" happiness and not my tiny chipmunk cheek smile

I started the week with this guy in my life

>>12021100
i think i am the female version of you anon.... do you write songs? maybe we could collab lol :^)

i have average looks, decent music taste, reserved but goofy personality, educated, and a pretty ok wardrobe, but alas, no boyfriend is in sight. i feel like im too affectionate and i shouldnt be so see through. usually guys leave me for someone else or stop talking to me. i feel too deeply rip my empathy disorder

just bought some nice shoes, this will fill the void for 3 weeks tops :)


can't complain right now

>>12023623
You can get a nice smile dude that's one thing you actually can change

>>12004196
It's cause you dress like a faggot

>>12004196
why are you posing like a faggot

>>12023804
Fug :((((

>>12024026
>>12024026
How fucking retarded are you lad?

>>12023804
That's rough. Had to put my dog down last year. Worst day of my life. RIP pupper.

>>12024152
>>12024091

It sucks. You forget you're going to outlive them. The fact that they love you more sincerely than most people just makes their passing so much worse.

>>12005243
you can trust /fa/

>>12021273
Nigga said 2-3 cigarettes a day who cares lmao

>>12023952
I think being affectionate is definitely a good thing, just make sure you aren't too clingy

>>12023952
Do they ever give you reasons as to why they leave you?

Also, since I'm a thirsty mother fucker, location?

>>12023952
Are you a girl or a guy?

When someone is clingy, I think it gives off the impression you have nothing else going on in your life and no other sense of validation outside the relationship.

idk though. I've only ever had 1 gf and we were both clingy because we were both total losers.

>>12011196
fuck i think i know what you mean, and i'm the same way i suppose

>>12023989
Probably less than 3 weeks let's be real

>>12004196
>broke as fuck and have shitty clothes.
>not going to be effay for at least another 5 months until i can afford to be so

also
>tfw no friends
>tfw shit grades

That's pretty much it in the scope of things. Apart from that I can really complain.

>>12025581
I'm sure you can get your grades up if you want it

>>12024102
how fucking retarded are you lad?

>>12025496
you're probably right, they are suppose to be delivered tomorrow and i'm not even that excited

i feel so empty

maybe i should go pick out my fit or something :/

>My secret santa came to deliver my presents in-person
>I was /comfycore/
>2 sizes too large sweater
>Sweatpants
>White socks
>He was the WAYWT king
>And I had a cold
fuck

>>12023952 find you're Niche in music/film/art, Fit your look to it and wait. Guys, like girls, always want someone who cares about something outside of them/ you're relationship. Charisma and attitude will see you through, trust me.

>>12006161
tfw you fucked it up with your oneitis. ive literally never been rejected by a girl but i bungled this one and cant get over it, only one i want

>>12026393
It's obviously not me

>>12021851
>My parents to me are a reflection of mediocrity that I never want to be.
i feel this

>tfw losing urge to pursue women (even fucking them) because i see all of them as too impossible and i see myself as too far down there.

>>12027240
Helo, I'm basically you except too deep into it. Turn back, don't let it consume you. I've gone crazy from years of self hatred and doubt

>>12027245
How do you feel about women now ? And do you also develop feelings towards men ?

>best friends with my oneitis
>She doesn't feel the same way
>Been apart because we go to different colleges
>she distorted my view of attractiveness so I barely am attracted to anyone
Does it get better /fa/

>>12027341
You won't be able to stay super close friends with her, my guess is you'll get over her within a year, don't worry bout it too much but definitely stop obsessing over her

Want to be /fa/ have a good sense of style, friends and family ask me for tips on what they wear despite me keeping my knowledge of fashion very under wraps. Can't get the parts together to make fits i'd ever want to post here. Most of my stuff looks nice but its just neat and boring.

Things going good with new girl. Got to the point where I told her about my history with severe anxiety issues I had a few years back and how I had some shitty time in my family where we lost a bunch of relatives (close family included) but now im absolutely fine with no outstanding mental issues. Now I can't bring myself to talk to her because I feel like anything she does or says from this point is out of pity and non genuine or she wont tell me her problems because mine "outshine" hers. Made the same mistake with my ex and she just became a soppy mess from that point on. Fuck everything. Maybe im still fucked.

>>12006580
u ugly. u yo daddys son

>>12006953
why are u in a relationship at all? cheer up dumbass

>>12023604
I dont so much hate texting as much as I hate being the one to initiate conversations, i was mad popular in highschool but I just noticed I was always the one making first contactin texts. I felt weird and just stopped and deleted everything but whatsapp and sc then i slowly grew apart from everyone and now i spend my days in almost complete silence, until i get sick of it after a week/month and make first contact or ask the one buddy I have from my uni who was in hs with me to do something in the weekend and he just leaves me hanging every time

I want to have friends guys, everyone who I used to consider a friend feels ingenuine and I always feel used since im always the one making plans an they do shit every weekend and never invite me and fukcing kms

>>12028656
I feel used cause I dont even like weed anymore and they dont outgrow the dudeqeedlmao phase and I always end up being the one who puts in the most to smoke sessions

Even when one of my fag ass friends sells weed

>>12028656
Fuuuuck I feel this, used to have heaps of 'friends' but I changed really quickly in the last few years and they stayed the same, I couldn't have a decent talk with any of them they think about nothing other than drinking and you just realise you don't need these people in your life. Too bad km now lonely as shit but I think it's better than hanging around with scum cunts and doing nothing with your life

No amount of clothing purchases make me happy, no amount of recognition or praise fulfills me, it's like im destined to just fuck everyone over in the end. I used to feel sorry for myself as if I was the victim, now im starting to realise im responsible sometimes, but i dont think ill ever stop.

>model tier looks
>random people tell me im beautiful
>pretty /fa/ but not a lot of money
>fucked up collage i wanted to study art history
>have a great 10/10 gf
>not a lot of friends but okay
>go to partys not autistic
>felling like normal life is not my destiny
>felling like im born in a wrong place in a wrong time
>felling like there is more to life like space traveling or whatever
>very abstract feels cant really explain it to anyone
>people just say im depressed but im not
>i just feel i dont belong to this planet
>i want to travel to space
>i can do whatever i want
>i can get girls money if i want but it doesnt really interests me
>people say its just existential crisis but i feel like this since like forever
>did a lot of drugs criminal life
>im not a nihilist or sad i just feel very strange all the time i cant explain it
>i can ˝read˝ people i know at first how are they feeling
>why cant i just be a space ranger or jedi or something
>tried psychotherapy
>didnt help
>i like fashion cars military girls
>something always feels wrong
>just smoking weed and listening to music is okay
>hang out with girl is great too
>i go out all the time and meet new people
>but somethings always missing
>writing this but nobody would read it anyway
>anyone else feeling like these

>>12029337
Maybe you are otherkin

>>12029337
you're not alone. maybe not as top tier as you but close.

>>12029360
nah i love going out eating good food and normal stuff

>>12029363
how do you feel dude what helps?

>>12029337
Your problem is you think you're above everyone else, look at how you worded your post you fucking cunt.

>"waahh wahh no one cares about my existential depression meme wahhh wahhh"
grow the fuck up.

>>12029337
>art history

>>12022169
this

anon post more pics from better angles

>>12029337
I can tell you don't belong at University

>>12029337
Youre just a big fucking nerd its not unique in any way

>>12029337
It's called 1st world problems. Grow up.

>>12029101
At least you're self aware I guess

>>12004196
i wish my bestfriend at uni wouldnt ignore me
then again i have a drug problem and dont talk to my friends much anymore
i hate myself too anon so i feel you

>tfw OCD
>barely leave house
>panic if I touch anything slightly unclean
>scared of public transport because of germs
>start to feel physically ill if I have physical contact with others.
My life is fucking awful. Other than going to lectures and important stuff to do with uni, I'm basically a recluse. My only friend was my GF, who (understandably) got fed up with my problems and left me. She was the only person I was comfortable being around. I'm doing shit at my university too. I slaved away studying to get in, go crazy and now I'm probably going to get 3rd class honours and my parents will disown me.

Is Shinsui our guy?
The hairpins are godtier and sentimental.
>TFW you'll never achieve shinsui tier sentimental accessories

>the more money I have, the more anxious I get about clothing cops

>>12022093
>>12022055
Fuck being friends with normies then. Take solitude in being alone. Not angsty depressed solitude either keep a journal, have a hobby (artistic or whatever you want), write, read lots. Don't resent normies but judge yourself for not being friends with them or disliking the inane shit they preoccupy themselves with. Just do your thing.

-Former Self-loathing Recluse

>>12021752
I feel this anon, had a very similar situation and ended up losing her. Its been a year now and I still wish that it never ended but the fact is, the distance isn't going to be closed any time soon in this type of situation and long distance relationships are really difficult. Hats off to anyone who can maintain it and I wish you and your girlfriend luck :)

>>12021993
>trouble growing facial hair
???are you kidding

>>12027341
i feel you with that attractiveness stuff sometimes i tell the bros i like how a chick looks then they tell me shes not that pretty and i have bad taste maybe i have low standards

The clothes I like to wear aren't fashionable and I'm not attractive enough to pull them off anyway.

>>12027429
I think you're right, it'll be a while tho
>>12033225
I think my standards are just whack :c

>>12029337
i feel you bro you just feel trapped in your own reality
we could probably be friends in person

>>12033225
That's a good thing man, a really good thing, everyone has different tastes and if your type is easier to get that's sick

>>12033240
never thought about it that way thanks my man.

I met this girl 4 months ago and things have been going so fucking amazing. She is a literal 10/10 perfect body,personality everything. The thing is that this is my first girlfriend and i lost my virginity to her. but i am so fucking insecure. i don't know what the hell she sees in me and i just feel like one day shell realize who she's with and ill lose her. idk what to do I've just always felt ugly as and i feel like she possesses the key to break my heart, and i know i wouldn't ever give her up for anyone. maybe I'm trapped in my own head but I'm freaking out

>Shaved face = well meaning but sort of annoying youth pastor
>Short stubble = crazy guy trying to look normal
>Thicker stubble = lazy guy who only works with his facial hair once a week
>Short beard = professional video game player
>Beard = ISIS

There's no way for me to win with my face

>>12006580
dude look like dave grohl

>>12033254
Go with crazy guy trying to look normal

>>12033249
Ask her
The more you closet your emotions, the harder it will be to cope.

This doesn't guarantee longevity to your relationship but if you're honest to yourself and to her, you'll feel more at ease in the long run.

>>12004196
you could be remotely interesting or of value to society but instead you watch mde. You can still make it guys, I believe in you..

>inherited mothers long, dark, beautiful, wavy hair
>inherited fathers receding hairline, and thinning quickly thinning hair

>>12006580
>oneitis
nigger you look normal fucking retard

>>12006580
fucking idiot

>>12035623
Yikes

>>12006484
>the same level of ugliness a girl is still more attractive than her male counterpart.
This makes zero sense.

>>12006953
NZ?

>>12007561
Yeah I felt like this about my ex, then we broke up because I cheated on her and suddenly having her wasn't a sure thing anymore. I fucked myself over really hard.

How do you anons from non English speaking countries manage being /fa/?
I have a hard time applying advice I find here, since I have no idea how to translate the terms used here.
It feels depressing that I'm unable to find the appropriately translated words to express what I want from a barber for example, and thus I just forget about it.

>>12036003
White American living and working in shitty asian country, I just be white and dress in designer poplins, decent fitting black chinos, and generic converse sneakers and wear my assortment of gay watches. It's enough for me.

>>12036003
take pictures to barbers yung blud

>>12006580
bait

>>12036003
Your English is impressive man, not sure how you can get around your problem tho it's an odd one.

>>12036235
Not bait I unironically hate myself

>>12035978
He means ugly girls can get decent looking guys easily but not vice versa

>>12004196
What country are you from OP?

>>12004196
You're not ugly, you just dress like shit. Like worse than the average person.

>>12006580
>>12009895
fucking this, you are spitting image of Bucky

>>12004691
I get this with cute guys except it hurts FUCK

>tfw have a nice side profile but really ugly front profile
fat lips and baggy bug eyes are not a good look

>>12004691
Same

Sometimes I think about like doing just random stuff with QTs and making up girls in my head, just hanging out with them and stuff

Then I realize how fucking pathetic that is to do then I just try to stop

>tfw I'm above average but I'm actually shallow as fuck and want to be the most beautiful person in the room and want everyone to fall in love at first sight just by looking at me

>>12006931
where do i put the loose fat

>>12038125
Baggy bug eyes and fat lips are hot af

Also I understood that reference

>21
>kissless, virgin
>social anxiety
>i can't speak with random people
>not ugly but i can't show feelings on my face, and i look like a boring shit
>i don't have experience how to pick up girls at the clubs, how to behave etc.

so i don't have good friends or gf, and i don't want to be alone in my whole life. I think my last chance is the mdma or something similar drug to be happy

>>12038304
Just tend to your own garden, and the rest will follow

>>12021851
>>12021877
>>12021974
I feel you man, so much. Whenever I try to socialize with people from my uni, I feel like I'm speaking to children. I simply have nothing to share with a normal person. On the other hand, I know humans are social animals by nature and I'm aware of the toll loneliness is taking on me mentally. The only person I can talk to moved to another country about six months ago and I hate talking through facebook and all that, so we just don't talk at all. At the moment, I'm coping with this shit alright, but I'm tired. If the rest of my life is going to be just coping, just surviving through day by day, I don't really see the point of it.

>>12021912
>just keep it to yourself
No, fuck that, letting all my shit brew inside my head indefinitely is the reason I can't wear short sleeved shirts anymore. You're right about parents being useless, though. Therapists exist for a reason.

>>12038304
MDMA doesn't make you happy, dude. Drugs can enhance positive feelings, but if you don't have those already, they will only fuck you.

want to be a normie but cant
>want a cool fb but scared of no likes
>want a cool insta but scared that no one will like my pics
>want a cool twitter but no retweets
it sucks cus im good looking and have a cool style but i got this awful self esteem where i think no one likes me/finds me attractive or whatever
it sounds pathetic but i really wanna be the centre of someones attention, i dont even care who, just so long as theyre not a family member ;_;

>>12038206
o fuck mang
too real

>>12038359
I suppose, part of growing up, is accepting what cannot be.

Some things are lost, but some things are gained. We need to look at life from both sides, now.

>>12038372
tfw probably like around an 8/10 but want people to treat me like i'm elias
i should get myself checked for narcissistic personality disorder

>>12004196
pls talk to a therapist

>>12038383
We should try to change our words and our personalities, that's what truly makes someone magnetic.

Any hot person can quickly make themselves look like an asshole by saying the wrong things.

>>12007822
>>12008318
This likely is depression. I've had some form of psychotic depression for nearly ten years now. Drafted up a plan to shoot myself last Christmas, which failed when I realized my dad doesn't keep bullets with the gun I planned to use, and I had no means to acquire more bullets and no desire to suffer through any other methods of suicide.

So yeah, that and my job's dress code make me feel like I don't even know why I have clothes I like or if I even like them anymore.

>>12008513
>>12009632
I feel like I probably push away girls without realizing it? I mostly hang out with girls and plenty have been good friends, then suddenly seemed to become very upset with me. Eh. I'm probably just paranoid

>>12038471
They're probably upset because you didn't seal the deal and became insecure because they thought something was wrong with them

>>12038478
That's a realization I'm only just starting to consider because I'm basically retarded when it comes to this stuff.

I'm like 70% sure I have some sort of mild autism, not even as a meme but like this type of shit has always gone over my head. I bought super heavily into the Christian conservatism I was raised in and only a few years ago realized everyone was kinda full of shit with their moral superiority.

I don't remember how this was supposed to tie into me not being able to into interactions with women but it's like the surface-level conversation and shit just does not make any sense to me.

>>12038527
The more you interact, the better you'll become. It's just a fact of life. Also don't try to be overly critical about how you acted. Caring too much and being overly critical can make you act autismally in front of others. The more open and confident you are about yourself, the easier it will be to interact, you won't have to worry about every encounter, you can just "be yourself" and live a more peaceful life. The be yourself meme is because r9k hate themselves so much they think no one will ever love them for who they are, but the truth is pretending to be someone else can be a painful existence to live. There's nothing wrong with changing who you are to become a better person, but that happens over time. In the moment, you are who you are, and there's no shame in that, you were brought into this world the same as anyone else. Accept your present self, and then tomorrow take a step towards the future.

>tfw feel so alone
>Tfw I only fucked one girl, kissed one girl
>Feel like I'm missing out on my youth by not doing it more often
>Still miss my ex
>Fucking everything reminds me of her and heart sinks
>Feel like a loser because she moved on and I didn't
>Tfw with family and brother brought his gf
>Feel even more alone because he's with her and I'm alone
>Tfw don't know how to get girls, much less the kind that I like
>Tfw really want to fall in love but really selective on superficial shit
>Tfw no one to talk to about this all

>>12038087
Nigga the OP pic is not me that's Sam Hyde, I definitely don't dress like that

>>12038040
NZ

>>12038685
That all comes in time.

You need to work on yourself, when you absorb the effort you put into yourself, you will feel better about yourself, and others will feel better too.

You already know this, the difference is actually taking action. I can't help you, because I don't know what will motivate you. I find having another person introduces an external factor that help motivate you internally. If you have anyone in your life, like a family member, try helping them, even in the smallest way, and you might start to feel motivated to help yourself.

Once you start doing that, you can begin to love yourself, and allow others to love you too. Remember, wanting super hot girls to want to fuck you =/= love

>>12038113
Bionic arm development when?

>>12038762
You're right, of course, but right when you said 'help someone' I immediately thought of having a gf. But whatever, no girl is going to like a guy that's all sad and shit, one that barely has any support himself, and if any girl says she wants a guy like that she's lying or she'll just dump them quickly. So I guess i gotta work on myself before I can think of getting a girlfriend

>>12038817
Exactly. A girlfriend isn't someone to dump all your problems onto. She'll have her own problems, and if you choose to be together, you have to accept the difficult task of accepting eachother, problems and all, and it's not fair if one person has to shoulder it all.

Keep your eyes open, but keep your mind sharp. Try to look at things from all sides, and you might figure out a way.

was i banned?

>>12039222
Not with trips like those you're not

>>12007822
no worries, the self is an illusion

>>12007642
lmao dude you're literally me. except for the autistic sister part

>>12039222