/fa/ - Fashion

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Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:12:44 2016 No.11856111 [Reply] [Original]

I have a friend, sort of a girl-friend (it's complicated) and she just bought these shoes half an hour ago and sent me the photo. We're in our mid thirties and we've been talking recently about feeling young again and I told her she should dress younger, and I've been telling her she needs to wear sneakers or at least sexy boots, so that's why she sent me the photo. But quite honestly /fa/m, I'm having a really hard time getting past these shoes. I'm feeling like Jerry Seinfeld - it's a trivial thing in the grand scheme of things but I just don't understand why an attractive woman would like these shoes. Surely it means something? What does it mean? I'm really struggling with this. I can't talk to her about it because she'll get annoyed with me. How do I help her? How do move past this?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:24:48 2016 No.11856129 does she teach kindergarten, 5'3 and weights 165 pounds?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:27:00 2016 No.11856134 File: 77 KB, 575x389, circle-of-jellies.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] fix it

Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:27:53 2016 No.11856136

She probably wears that kind of shoe because they're super comfy. Even though this sub thinks they're ugly, I do like my Docs and Birkenstocks. Unfortunately they're associated with old people or Tumblr.

She might be afraid to wear younger stuff because she doesn't want to be seen as basic/ a hoe. I know in my area there is usually a certain "type" of girl who wears booties/ sneakers.

Also take in to consideration her overall wardrobe. I know that really sleek boots and sneakers don't fit in with my wardrobe, because I have a very twee / kindergarten teacher style. If she likes to dress cutesy, I would recommend some (non-Doc/ non-creeper) Mary Janes, and ballet flats. These are much younger looking than Danskos or Clarks.

Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:38:09 2016 No.11856149
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>>11856129
No, she's tall and good-looking. It's really confusing. I'm sure it's something deeply psychological.

>>11856136
Thankyou, that does make sense. She definitely has anxieties about the kind of woman she's perceived as. But sneakers are just comfy shoes too. And she does wear boots and hoodies and black pants and stuff, but then it's always back to floral blouses, K-mart jeans, sandals and stuff like pic-related.

I'll look into those recommendations though, thanks.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 02:39:12 2016 No.11856152 File: 651 KB, 690x460, Drake.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>11856111 It's either you or the shoes! They have to go!

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 08:14:03 2016 No.11856622 >already trying to influence how she dresses >Not picking a well-dressed woman

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 09:07:42 2016 No.11856707 i like those desu... they're pretty old fashioned girly with a nice pair of socks...brown or black maybe...

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 09:09:39 2016 No.11856709 >>11856136 >this sub Please fuck off

>>	None !IGORsW/P/E Thu Oct 13 09:12:15 2016 No.11856713 Dyke

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 10:31:49 2016 No.11856858 File: 64 KB, 620x465, 4L_uBXCYRqM.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >(it's complicated) you're a fucking cuck

Anonymous Thu Oct 13 10:32:40 2016 No.11856864

>>11856111
with the right outfit (a nice summer dress, for instance) these could be girl-next-door core
if you're in your 30s, (a) wtf are you doing in my /fa/, get out dad and (b) stop being such a shallow asshole, time is not on your side. find some happiness and hold on to it

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 22:08:00 2016 No.11858731 >>11856858 Technically her husband is.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 22:10:02 2016 No.11858734 >giving an absolute shit what she wears I have my own fashion to worry about.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 13 22:13:58 2016 No.11858748 >>11856111 MHL

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 14 00:58:23 2016 No.11859135 >>11856111 Tell her you care about fashion to the point you spend time in this forum, browse her through here and show her >>11856136 Also are you getting cucked or cucking?

>>	Anonymous Fri Oct 14 01:05:35 2016 No.11859164 File: 2.63 MB, 1784x2528, cuck.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>11859135 ofc hes getting cucked if he cant even make a dumb bitch do what he wants, wtf

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