/fa/ - Fashion

>>11588939

idk I'll ask your mom next time her mouth isn't full.

>>11588939
Only if it's unrequited

>>11588945
word

>>11588944
fuck off reddit

>>11588945
>>11588954
fuck me I guess I am effay then

I wish I knew

>>11588978

unrequited love is more /fa/ bc it lets you be brooding and ~mysterious~

t. very experienced in the subject

>>11588939
Being in love with an effay person is effay.

being in love isn't effay but it's more effay than being effay

>>11588939
>tfw never felt love before

>>11589061
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6zqHsOygw8

>>11588939
No

lonesomeness is

>>11588939
Nice boots

Doot

no, being in love is fucking gay

>>11588939
tfw everytime i fall in love the girl is never attracted to me

>>11589018
thanks for spelling it out and ruining the thread faggot.

stop shilling these fuckugly boots

>>11588945
I didn't need this right now

>>11589642
this

>>11588939
I wouldn't know

>tfw she says she's not in love with you

>>11588978
No you don't...

>>11589769
Effay is here for you

When you're in mutual love it feels really good but in retrospect all of the shit I said and did was kind of cringey.
Unrequited love is pretty fa

When your qtartgf breaks your heart so she can explore the world and youre not mad at her but still are crushed and she says shell text you when summer is over and she hasnt texted you yet and everyday you can feel yourself drift further and further into the realization that she moved on and became a better person over the summer where you like the human piece of shit you are waited all summer and didnt try to be a better person.

You're all dead wrong.

Effay is having a girl fall in love with you but refusing to be with her for philosophical reasons. The girl has to be cute, otherwise it doesn't count.

>>11589844

So become a better person. You've had your moment of self-pity. Now drive yourself to do something better.

She sounds like she isn't worth it, and it sounds like you're both stupid kids. Don't be jealous that she's doing well, and don't try to make her jealous. Just give yourself the life you deserve without her and the one you can now have because you have the emotional freedom to do so.

>>11589844
it's gonna be ok buddy

>>11590111
>>11589971
thanks dudes

>>11589844
BREH i was in the same exact situation a year ago. Except we're still in the same city and she wanted to "be individual and do her own thing" which I absolutely did not understand. We were in the same friend group so now I never see many of my friends and would be too embarrassed to deliberately hang with her and her friends.

ANYWAY, I've been getting better as I've realized there are just a million girls out there and hanging with friends and shit. That's been the only way to distract myself. This will pass! And work to improve yourself in any way like the other guy said. Buy cool shit, go hiking, walk around in the city, listen to animal collective, get fucked up with your bros, hit on hot chicks, live your life.

>>11588939
>tfw left effay gf of seven years in February

>girlfriend says she loves me
>im not sure if i really love her so i respond with "uhh... yea!"

how autistic am i really

>>11588939
only if your love interest is effay as well

Limerence is the only /fa/ form of affection

>>11590175
unfortunatly i live in a shit college town but man the acid here is A+ and all my friends live with me so hopefully this will just pass

"No"

I wouldn't know...

>>11590198
fucking pedo moustaches resonating through art history and shit

>>11590198
So the puppy love stage of a relationship?

>>11589914
thats overrated as fuck
t. been there

>tfw moving in a month and having to just sit here and fucking wait to get on with my life

i need to meet new fucking people

>>11590259
>talking about feelings you've never experienced
Like reading a post telling /r9k/ to just cheer up

It definitely is, but only the strong matured bond. Both of you know how the other one works and you do thinks for each other's benefit. You are also not explicitly showing off all the time; PDA only when appropriate, not bragging about eachother, and nothing show offy. Just a true clear loving bond.

That'd effay: it's rare, it looks effortless, it's timeless, and its what people dream of having.

It's also the most respectable.

Only unrequited love is /fa/. Nothing good has ever come out of perfect relationships anyway.

I'm sorry, but this is one I cannot answer.

>>11588944
nice pic!

>>11589844
don't worry about it. focus on yourself and she'll either come clawing back (and you'll reject her) or you'll never see her again (which is also fine, because you wont even remember her fat ass while you're balling out).

>>11590182
How the fuck

Why would you go out with someone youre not sure you like? How does that feel when youre together? Shes having the time of her life while youre just feeling "meh why not"? Or is this one of those things where "you'll eventually start feeling it too" afterwards

>>11590328

This x10000

>>11590429
different poster, but sorry that not all of us experience complete romantic rapture.

im not sure that im even capable of loving anyone, but i feel like i need to get a girl for when all of my friends inevitably get married and ghost me.

>>11590429
That's how it's supposed to be. That's what dating is all about. Guys who "fall in love" with a girl they barely know are pathetic and setting themselves up for some pain down the road.

Only problem is when a guy "settles" for a girl he isn't crazy about because he's too scared to break up.

>>11590649
That "romantic rapture" feeling is sad. It's a type of blindness and I feel sorry for guys who struggle with it.

Welp

>>11590319
Fucken facts

>>11590429
>Liking someone and banging them
>loving someone
>the same thing

Also
>love between a man and woman
>real
The way 20 year Olds feel love for each other is not how you love someone you actually want to spend your life with. I think this is the problem in many doomed codependent relationships
That being said I'm 22

>>11591936
This is me,
>>11590319
This guy said it right

>>11588978

Never fell in love. Don't how it feels or what id does to you.

I'm 24. Is that normal ?

>>11590255
Did he die from this? Doesn't seem that high

>>11590319
Ive been with my gf for two years. We are best friends and know each other inside out. We do things for each other constantly but within reason, just looking out for one another. Also pretty much 0 PDA unless we're drunk maybe and no braggy posts on social media. I'd say we're pretty ideal but I'm biased

>>11589844
>so she can explore the world

trash. literally every girl wants to "travel and see new things!!!!" you're an asshole for even missing her. get over yourself

>>11592010
sorry to upset you anon just sayin it as it is.

>>11589046
under rated

>>11591990
you might be gay and repressed. no joke

>>11588944
mods ban faceboomers pls
thanks

>>11588944
>>11588978
>>11588988
>>11591943
ban
now

capcha: 17108

>>11589844
>she became a better person

what proof do you even have of that nigger
she could be an international drugdealer or get involved in human trafficking for all you know bitch

how the fuck would you even gauge that

>>11590182
The only acceptable response to that question is to smile. Then maybe to say you're not ready to say I love you too *yet*.
>>11590225
Make love to some college girls, then.

>>11592204
>trying this hard

>>11592015
And so is he. College age girls aren't relationship material.

>>11589844
She's not a better person. That never happens. Girls are alright, hit college and ruin themselves "exploring", spend their mid 20s "getting to know herself" and dyking, become feminists in their late 20s when they realize their options are thinning and lie to guys like you into thinking she's a lost princess worthy of marriage.

>>11589844
just forget about her and dont try to get her back or make her jealous or anything. Focus on yourself and make yourself happy

>>11589971
100% this, top advice, listen to it

It is. However, getting cheated on by your girlfriend of 3 years who you wanted to marry and her then leaving you for that guy is not effay

Fuck women

>>11588944

i've never seen this meme face being used ironically before we're breaking new ground here

wat do u call it when u both have on and off feelings cus u just secretly crave each others attention and after 2 years finally agree to fuck but the 1 time a good opportunity arises she fucks someone else

lol

>>11593345
That's called the friendzone my nigga

>>11593361

>>11588945
>>>11588939 (OP)
>Only if it's unrequited
So all of /r9k/ is effay

>>11594002
the only kind of love that is effay is unrequited love, but not all unrequited love is effay

been in love twice, it sucked.

abuse substances, fuck women and stick to yourself

>tfw you miss her so much but fucking hate her and will never see her again

>>11588944
FUCK YEA

>>11594015
broke up with gf of 3 years because she was manipulation and still haven't been able to get over that dissonance you described. She was into the same music, fashion, spoke with the same cadence. Can't relate to new acquaintances much anymore - feel like I'm worlds apart from people I meet on the street. I feel your pain.

>tfw 18
>hugless kissless handholdless virgin
>all i want is to be in love with someone

>>11593305
Sorry my man
It took me along time to come to grips with getting left for someone else, this is even worse.
Hang in there.

>>11594072
>only 18
Relax dude I was the same way. You have plenty of time. Try online dating if you have problems meeting new people.

>>11594072
>only 18

>>11594072
I was the same at 21. Been with girls from Poland, Austria, , Norway, Spain, Finland, Estonia, England, France, Korea at 24. Just fake confidence. Look like you're fun to be around.

>>11594072
>hugless
this cant be a thing

>>11588939
is a necessary part of life /fa/?

>>11589844
similar situation here. gf moved to portland for college and has no plan of coming back, and hence broke up with me. too bad she's getting an art degree and I'm going into finance school though...

>>11592213
>>11592010
>>11593216

yall probs right but still suck yah feel

>>11594106
>>11594111
>>11594119
thanks me boys
>>11594122
im borderline conversationless

>>11594119
but... where is the fulfillment in casual sex. not t hat guy, but I just want a connected, loving relationship. honestly I'm more interested in the intimate companionship than just sex

>>11590429
Original poster here

i don't know if you're retarded or you've never been in a relationship or what but basically, love and like are not even remotely the same things. I like this girl, she is beautiful, cool, intelligent, and very sweet, but i just don't know if i "love" her on a serious level.

>>11593305
lol cuck.

Hey everyone, hope you all have a chance at love :-)

>>11594377
You feel close to someone and it's fun.
Most people are interested in actual romance as opposed to sex but it doesn't really take any value away from having casual sex.

I loved you Cristina even tho I wont admit it to you. After i saw you with that other guy and you told me to mature myself,this is how the world works, I cried,and cried,and never felt the same way about another girl since.

>>11588939

ID on boots please?

>>11594569
http://global.llbean.com/shop/L.L.Bean-Boots/506697

>>11588978
right in the feels

>>11589844
She wants to explore new things & to grow. You should focus on bettering yourself & growing too. She may want you back again by doing that, but keep the mindset that you're doing it for yourself & not her

>>11594569
i swear to god you better not be that faggot who kept shilling these boots

>>11594579

thanks

>>11594612

lol im not, they are actually ugly fucking boots when you see them close up on that site.

>>11594551

lmao

>>11590111
w2c shoes

>>11594612
Yeah, fuck that guy, haha

>>11588939
All I know is that I fall in love with every girl who I share eye contact with and that it isn't /fa/ at all

>>11588939
it's a shitty meme. so no, not effay.
being single is effay of course and staying single is effay too....... )-; *sheds tears in secret*

Been madly in love three times, and have a shit ton of problems because girls are just so annoying, a year have passed since the last girl i really liked, i've been with 4 more girls, and at least 3 of them fall for me, but i didnt feel shit, it was meh.
Once you heart breaks way too many times, you just stop feeling, for your own good.
But also i feel like shit because i cant just care about people, and i hurt them without wanting to

Been madly in love 3 times on different relationships, and have a shit ton of problems because girls are just so annoying, a year have passed since the last girl i really liked, i've been with 4 more girls, and at least 3 of them fall for me, but i didnt feel shit, it was meh.
Once you heart breaks way too many times, you just stop feeling, for your own good.
But also i feel like shit because i cant just care about people, and i hurt them without wanting to

>>11588945
Wow I've been browsing this board for 2 weeks and I'm already effay now? Great

Also shit question OP. "Is being in love /ck/?" "Is being in love gd?"

>>11588965
Everything else than 4chan = reddit

Remember this folks. We gotta be elitistic even ironically.

>>11594878
/fa/ is full of complete shit threads like this that are not relevant to fashion
just report and move on

>>11588944
Lmao

>>11595497
reddit: the post

>>11588944
toastin in an epic bread

>>11588944
got em

>>11589743
Me on the left

What kind of sizing does the guy have for the llbean? Is it a 6'' or 8''?

>>11591998
no, Michael Jordan is still alive and well

>>11595783
Why must you meme me this way

>>11594377
Just hang in there, buddy. True love with a worthy person is wonderful

>>11595788
it is my purpose, anon

>>11595800
Seriously though, did that guy die? How high do you gotta jump to end yourself

>>11595807
This is fucking rich. From fox news:

>BUCHAREST, Romania – A Romanian man who reportedly flung himself from a balcony into the country's parliament to protest reduced benefits for his autistic son says he did it to draw attention to how officials have divided society with harsh cuts.

So he survived, but he did it for /r9k/

>>11595821
Autism is as autism does. Good find anon

>>11588944

>le ebig meem XDDD

>>11588945
I'd say it's a lot more effay if it's the other way around. Or at the very least, better for your image.

>>11595861
It's way more effay to have a gf than to be hopelessly in love with someone. You can still be cool if you're not moping around over a girl

>>11589844
This post is a perfect example of the damage that the feminization of men around the world is causing. You're a fucking faggot, waiting for your girlfriend to call you after her tour around Europe while you cry in your room like some WWII sailor's wife.

If you assholes really fall for the romanticized movie memes of a man who was in love with a girl who didn't love him back, just picture any man you know crying and you'll see how uneffay it is to love someone who doesn't love you back.

>>11595872
GOOD point friend :-)

>>11595870
I meant that it's more effay to have a girl love you who you don't love back. Just having a "being in love" relationship isn't effay, it's sappy and stomach wrenching to everyone else around you. It IS effay to be way past the initial "we're in love" stage and to be a functional partnership, as long as you're both effay, that is.

>>11590302

Done that three times so far, and it's the worst. Try keep yourself entertained in the meantime man, do exactly what you're saying and meet people, but don't put too much of yourself in with them. You never know, those brief connections often linger, and you pick them up again a few years later.

>>11595877
That's what love is. "Being in love" when you're just sappy and performing PDA and such isn't what I meant either

>>11595904
that's what 15 year olds think love is

>>11595934
Yeah I know but I'm not 15 dog

>>11595939
I'm saying that's not "all love is" in a healthy, mature relationship

>>11595943
Do you think I disagree with you? Idk if I worded my post wrong or what but we're on the same page

The greatest thing you'll ever know is just to love...and be loved in returned.

If you care more about fashion than finding true, inescapable love -- the kind that makes you feel like mountains on mountains, then u r secretly gay. ; )

I deeply love a whore with emotional problems but it's been over a year I repress this thing by not watching anything on her facebook and avoiding places where I could meet her and pretend she doesn't exist. it's pretty hard but it's better than being fooled. feels empty though

>>11595957
o w8 yea
>my reading comprehension

>>11595967
All good my man

Tfw gf of 3 years broke up with me over the phone and is already dating a month and a half later

>>11595972
that's awful dude. A lot of women are completely cutthroat about the way they end long relationships/begin new ones, idk if they understand how heartbreaking it is

>>11590198
>Look up limerence
>Realize how accurately it describes my most recent attraction
Whelp guess I'm fa now

I... I suppose so:/

>>11595958
This is the kind of thinking that leads to murder suicide cases. Never let your main source of happiness come from someone else, or else you'll end up killing your ex girlfriend and yourself when you find her fucking Jamal in your living room when you come home with roses in your hands for her one day.

>>11595872
Thanks for the criticism will take into note

>>11594377
Sometimes I wonder why I don't feel like this. I want to but honestly end up distancing the girls I bang after a few dates.
A few months back I met a girl who was super cool, very beautiful and with a cute smile and laughter... But she had a bf and still do. We still went on a few dates before she said it had to stop because "she feared for her relationship as she started to like me too much".

Bah... Back to meaningless sex

>>11589844
I feel you, senpai. I'm in a similar situation. Forget about her, she prolly fucked a shitton of exotic guys. I know it's hard, but what helps is trying to find something to distract you. I personally started working out (jogging, lifting, etc.) and building shit.

>>11596533
It's only meaningless if you use it as sperm releasing activity (in which cas yiu can might as well fap). Sleeping around can be fruitfull if you pick interesting people to sleep with and if they are cool about. You can make some cool friends that introduce you to their friends.

>>11596567
I guess yeah. Well my current girl is cool and all, I just know she isn't girlfriend material

>>11595872

>>11596600

>>11596590
That doesn't mean you two can't help each other to be better people. Living your life on your terms and occasionally invite others to share it with is best way to live. Just because she isn't "the perfect girlfriend material" doesn't mean you guys can't be dating. As long as both sides are cool with it it's a Ok. Good luck

Every time I am in a relationship, I want to be single and vice versa. I'm such an autist.

>>11594862
maybe you just like boys if girls are annoying

>>11588944
lmfao

>>11596798
I already tough of that, i dont like boys
Not all girls are annoying, but the ones who are not are hard to find or ugly, and also i want to be alone now

>>11595959

iktfb

>>11588944
GARRIIIMMMM

>>11594862
>girls are so annoying

Some dudes never grow out of 3rd grade huh

i fucked up every chance i had and they were pretty girls too :( tfw no girls have came into my life like they used to

>>11597857
Source? Is it a music video?

>>11593305

She's not yours, it's just your turn.

>>11588966
not like this. i never wanted to be effay like this.

>>11597857
fucking jkek sauce

>>11597738
can we see your tits?

>>11590198
Limerence is the least /fa/ form of affection*

>>11594551
embarrassing

This happened a couple years ago
>be 16
>at summer camp in New York
>spend the better part of 2 weeks chasing this one girl in my group
>2 days before we leave I finally get the chance to hook up with her
>"I've never actually hooked up with anyone before"
>wut.jpg
>she was way too hot to have never hooked up before
>make out until like 1 am
>awkward glances for the next two days of camp
>doesn't reply to my texts
>leaves without a proper goodbye
>still think of her from time to time when I see her post on Instagram
I'll always think of what I should have done differently to have left things off better. Maybe I tried to go to far for her first time. Maybe I should've made a better effort to say bye to her. I know I'll never see her again and I don't love her but yeah that's my story. I don't know if it's /fa/ or not

>>11594551
Dolt

>>11598801
You sound like you're 17, which isn't a bad thing, but like. There are times where girls will not want to continue talking/interacting after an experience like that. Most likely it was a combination of her feeling awkward/unsure of herself and if what she was doing was right. The fact that you guys would never see each other again in a day or two lends itself to cutting off contact having next to no repercussions.

You'll fall in love one day.

>>11598811
Yeah i know that some people want to hook up and dash I've done it before but this one felt particularly melancholy

>>11588939
After the first couple dozen posts no one has attempted to answer OP's question.

ITT: R9K refugees

If you haven't experienced love it's because you don't want it. Just like most people who tell you they'd like to be an author don't actually want to write, they just romanticize the thought and title. Finding love is work, and if you don't want it then you won't work for it.

And sure, love can be effay. Being attractive is the only requirement. If you are attractive enough you can make anything effay.

I've had my ups and downs when it comes to love.

>Date girl in junior high
>She dies after we break up
>Lives long enough to have a kid with a 26 year old
>16 at the time

>Meet a girl in high school
>Date through senior year and into adulthood
>Make it to about 2 and half years together
>Expresses the need to go out and party and do "young things"
>Already had my share of clubs and bars
>Eventually we get into a massive fight and break up
>Returns my stuff and I return hers
>Burn most of it because not sure what to do
>She starts dating a guy from work and goes to Spain with him like a week after our break up
>Drink hard and abuse substances
>Starts talking to me when she returns just as I'm getting over her
>Tells me she still loves me
>Changes her mind the next day
>Moves out with that guy and still lives with him to this day

Not such a good period in my life. Eventually I met an Iraqi girl and I've been with her just over two years now.

Only if she's in love with you and she's effay too

>>11595959
r u me?

>>11589844
>explore the world

poor bastard

>>11588939

>tfw fell in love at 18 with suicidal hipster qt
>tfw stayed with her even after a suicide attempt while recovering from her eating disorder
>tfw we were inseperable after that, i genuinely couldn't imagine my life without her
>tfw she left me a year later when i got a job
>tfw i only got the job so i would be able to spoil her
>tfw she doesn't even associate with me anymore, and everything i did with her meant nothing

Love is a meme kiddos

>>11599790
You don't get attached to crazy, numbnuts.

>>11599790
This is the gayest thing I've read this week. End urself my man

>>11595512
fuck up cunt
>muh rick ross threads

>>11597857
being an unloyal whore with no morals isnt /fa/