/fa/ - Fashion

>>12886793
A lot of girls will match with guys they have no intention of dating just to get their attention and to receive the compliments and ego boost of a thirsty guy.

The trick is to seem like they don't really matter to you, you're not seeking their affection or attention or approval. Say something offhand and debonair and they might look twice at you instead of just absorbing the ego boosting compliments from yet another orbiter.

Or, you know, quit tinder. It is an established Thot site, you may as well cut the chase and hire an escort, or if you're seeking a nice and cute relationship, just endure the embarassment and mental hardship of going outside and actually talking to normal girls, maybe on the train, at a bookshop, at a hobby meetup so you share common interests. Tinder is 90% girls that signed up because they want attention, ego boosting and a good dicking, and that type of girl is not relationship material.

When you fancy a girl, ask yourself a simple set of questions:
>would I marry this girl?
>would I have children with this girl?
>would I spend the rest of my life with this girl?
>would this girl stay with me if I was drafted for years in a war?
>would this girl stay with me if I was crippled in an accident?
>would this girl be a good mother to my children if I died or we separated?

If the answer to any of these is no, then you probably are thinking with your dick, not your brain.