/fa/ - Fashion

Please help me, I don't know how to make it look presentable.
The hair from the front is fine, but it look like this from the sides and the back.
And I don't really know how to deal with it, it's as if it has a mind of its own.
Is this the awkward stage?
Or just poor sense of fashion.
And in the bottom right image is is balding or just normal hair parting?