/fa/ - Fashion

>>14362367
I feel like 50% of this diagram. last tinder date gave me enough validation to last me couple more months. I got over the fantasy aspects after my sad lonely teenage years and it did genuinely improve my life. as for obligation I've discovered that even with a gf I'm a failure at life which feed into insecurity and never trying. last time it started to get serious with a girl I found out about that "you don't actually want one" real quick. I don't really know why because I want romantic partnership and the girl hit most of the things I thought I was looking for, smart, thicc, sweet, energetic and still I felt nothing. I wonder if ill ever find "love" or if ill die a sad bachelor. I think maybe its the amount of attention they desire? girls really be wanting you to carry a text conversation FOR them when you already dating them. I don't have the energy for that kind of emotional labour. I'm 24, any old farts out there know if this is another of those things that improve with age?

Getting girls would be much easier if I could just attain that one quality I somehow achieve when im already in a relationship, because whenever I am girls start giving me "the look"