/fa/ - Fashion

God, being a lesbian is hell.
I live in an urban area and the only “lesbian” bars here mainly consist of bi women trying to get you to join your threesome, trannies trying to dick you, and abominations like in OP’s pic.
When people find out I’m a lesbian 90% of the time they either immediately or eventually come to one of the following conclusions: (a) I must be lying because I don’t look masculine, (b) I’m confused because I haven’t “tried a guy” yet, or I will change when I get older (c) I am secretly really masculine, or (d) I’m disgusting.
This is annoying enough but there is also a tiny dating pool since most bi women end up dating men anyway, also less chance of hook ups because lesbians aren’t as horny as people with other sexualities. Appealing to men is easy as fuck for me but women are on a whole other level since they tend to be a lot more selective imo. I now know the struggle guys go through when it comes to simping all the time for girls who aren’t interested. I’ve been used by so many who are bicurious or bi girls who are only with girls for sex or kissing for male attention. I almost wish I were a guy but that means having a penis which is gross. I’ve never been molested, I’m pretty sure god just hates me.
I’ve given up on dating. I’m an incel.