/fa/ - Fashion

I kind of like the style/aesthethic and try to connect with "arthoes" or goth bitches or whatever.

Thing is, where I live, South America to be more specific, most are kind of normal.
You can't expect a certain type of person to have exact tastes as everyone from that 'style' does, but in my experience to make them approach or get interested in you, you kinda need to:

-have something unusual about you
Be it your face, style, aura, whatever, you need something that makes you weirdly attractive.

-have a 'underground' hobbie
You need to be a expert or at least experienced in some alternate activity so you can seem more mature. Most of these girls are young and in some ways lack a paternal/masculine figure so you need to at least know more things than she does, but at the same time, pass that 'no fucks given' attitude, not a 'teacher' attitude towards the girl specimen

-dont try too hard
Most girls that are arthoes or whatever aren't that special. Dont expect something different or singular, so dont try too much. If you look like youre not making a lot of effort, you already have a good start.

Lastly:

-be casual and short in words
At least in my experience, most of these girls just start blabbering when theyre drunk about abusive fathers or bad families or shit like that.
If you try to be sensitive and shit theyll just ignore and keep on blabbering. So dont try pulling that friendish attitude, just keep your head in its place. She probably has tons of friends to cry to if she wants.

Thats it. Its hard to translate a "what makes a guy attractive" but I'm just saying what I think works.