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>>6394247
>She's just a decently-[good] friend I like to fuck.

And that's all good and well for YOU, but in her reality, your actions may have had unintended repercussions. Things might be out of control for her already, she sees herself headed towards the rocks but is powerless to change course. I get the sense that you saw these feelings developing long before they had enough momentum to inspire an off-topic thread about them (which is cool in my book, I like these threads).
I dare say that you saw where the relationship was going a while ago, but enjoyed the sex and companionship too much to risk offsetting her growing warmth with the unpleasant truth.
Now you find yourself here, on the shores of something vague and unpleasant.
I don't want to tell you that avoiding commitment is wrong, because it isn't - as long as you're honest about it. Part of being honest is accepting that even though you might go into a relationship like this one with very clear and material intentions, intangibles can start to develop soon after that first orgasm. Feelings, not unlike children, happen. Do you take responsibility for those intangibles, even if their creation was not your intent? Or do you cut your ties and book it while your freedom is still intact? I don't know if there's a 'right' answer.
Does it sound like a familiar quandary? I think it's at the heart of the abortion rights issue, but that's a whole 'nother thread. This is a personal question, OP. I don't think it's right for anyone but you to answer it.