/fa/ - Fashion

Really wondering what I should do with my hair and looking for advice.

It's very thick and maybe a medium on wavyness. I have a couple of wicked cowlicks (or whatever you call them) on my hairline. Past about 1.5" it does whatever it wants. I comb it left to right as you can see, which I've done my whole life (22 now). Looking for something conservative but cool since I'll be working at a bank. Think young professional, that's what I want.

The problem with my hair is its either dry as fuck or greasy as fuck. When I wash it (I use redken 2 in 1), it dries out terribly and gets frizzy and unmanageable. When I don't wash, it looks like these pics, greasy but still frizzy in places. I really have no idea what to do. I tried no poo and after a couple days it could stand on end. Unfortunately I don't have the time to go no poo for a month and let it get better. I tried using American Crew Fiber paste and even the smallest amount of that made my hair look super greasy (it was uneven too, geasy in some places and dry in others, even when I evenly worked it through). And it doesn't hold for the full day either.

Basically just looking for some advice. I just got my hair cut, #4 on sides and shorter and blended on top. The top is about 1-1.5" right now. My case should be pretty easy but I'm sorry I cant help more because I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for lol.