/fa/ - Fashion

My hair is very strong and dense, kind of like pic related, but even stronger. I always cut it to 1 or 2milimetres on the sides and a bit longer on the top, kind of military style but not as "edgy" if you know what i mean. As soon as it grows out a bit, on the sides it looks terrible (hedgehogish), my head looks wide as fuck etc.. Strong wax only helps on the top where my hair is abit softer, but the sides of my head could literally be used to brush stuff.

Do you have any recommendations? I'm getting bored of the same style again and again. Do you know if there's a reasonable way to get your hair softer or can you recommend some haircuts or waxes?

Would be very glad to get some help