/fa/ - Fashion

>>8270948
To get a good example of the "double life" girls can live, read this post where i describe feeling like i want to just cut to chase and get serious with a girl, and why i didn't:
http://coolmanadvice.tumblr.com/post/79142748500/jumanji-the-cool-game-doesnt-stop

and then see this post for the follow up:
http://coolmanadvice.tumblr.com/post/83045845360/but-shes-special

The conversation went like this:
Cool guy: we're hanging out on thursday
Her: i can't, my friend from Arizona is coming to visit
Cool guy: ok what night are you free?
Her: i don't know how long she's gonna be in town for
Cool guy: no worries

I deleted her from my phone at that point, but you know she texted me back a month or so later... I promise you she feels justified in her actions every time we fuck.

>>8197698
Guys always fuck that up.
Guys either forget, or don't realize that girls do not want to jump into relationships and are always exploring and pursuing other options.

They won't be forward and direct about it, and they'll even hide it as best as they can, but they almost ALWAYS have other guys on the side.
I wrote about that here:
http://coolmanadvice.tumblr.com/post/83045845360/but-shes-special

and also take a look at this text I got from a few days ago. This girl has a damn fiance.

I don't just date girls, I have a lot of female friends as well, and they like me because I know about them. They'll admit things to me they won't admit to other guys, and that includes how they always have guys on the side.

Don't ask a girl to be exclusive, wait for her to ask you. Don't talk about your "relationship" with her at all. Just enjoy what you have, when you have it, and she'll appreciate that and it will intensify her feelings towards you. Girls like a guy other girls want, and being needy and over available doesn't leave that impression.

>>8189845
keep them on the backburner.
trust me on this one.

this girl has a fiance.