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So in a tough but sad spot. I have to make the decision to divorce my wife. Leaving behind my two young kids. Cant take it anymore. She is out of control has the worst and most negative temper. Swears effin this effin that. Ruins every single holiday with my family and swears at my poor nice parents. Shes verbally abusive. And her stupid trash parents stick up for her.
My question is how do I make sure she has to sell the house so I can at least sell and get my half of the house, and how to get half custody and all that? I live in Connecticut USA. I am no longer putting up with her verbal and physical abuse.
Whatever tips some lawyers or divorcees on here can give me please.

>> No.2443459

bump

>> No.2443474

>>2443449
>>2443459
>cuck: the movie
>wrong board
>bumps after 14 minutes on a board where threads stay alive for months
we've never seen levels this high before
your only solution is to an hero

>> No.2443477

Post pictures of the wife

>> No.2443487

>>2443474
>>2443477
if you dont have advice suck my cunt

>> No.2443488

>>2443449
You lost most of your rights to the home when you had your first kid, and you didn't even know it. Divorce courts almost always award the house to which partner has primary custody of the kids. And, you get to keep paying the mortgage and taxes and upkeep on it, along with child support.

>I live in Connecticut USA
Oh, boy...you better start pricing studio apartments or a van down by the river.

>> No.2443491

>>2443449
if only there were something called "divorce attorneys".

but instead lets go to 4chan.

>> No.2443504

>>2443487
>if you dont have advice suck my cunt
I suspect those kids are better off if they get raised by a complete stranger
Those poor kids

>> No.2443514

>>2443504
lol fuck u troll. he called me a cuck. i had to bark at em

>> No.2443518

>>2443514
>I am an adult in age only, self control is a mystery to me
Seriously. Your poor kids.

>> No.2443524

>>2443449
if your wife is as bad as you say that she is, then you have a duty as a man and as an American to ensure that she doesn't keep the kids and make them turn out as fucked as she is.
Go get a good divorce attorney and discuss it with them. You're going to need one anyway if you don't want to let your wife dictate the terms of the split.
incel forums on the internet are a bad place to try to get life advice of almost any type

>> No.2443530

>>2443449
Get as much video of her flipping out as possible m. Get her being abusive to the kids. Have her get a job and put her money in an account and pay bills with it. Put in less than she does, get laid off and earn less than her.

Get a lawyer too, don't ask 4chab for advice

>> No.2443537

The only male "winners" of these situations are the ones that stay in their house and ride the cuck train until serving her papers is opportune. Some talk about having a wealth of proof of infidelity and then waiting for their spouse to graduate to a high paying job before pulling the rug. Getting the attorney is paramount. They're going to give you the best road map to preserving your kids, home, and wealth. I would play PC about everything from this point forward. Record interactions. Ask her to go to therapy with you eventually. They'll advise you on if your professional earnings should be maintained or what might happen if you were unfortunately downgraded a tax bracket a year or two before filing. Maybe scrub your browser too ya sleaze.

>> No.2443552

Just get a side piece and quit talking to her. You'll lose in courts guaranteed so unfortunately until they're 18 you have a nasty roommate

>> No.2443554

Kill your wife.

>> No.2443561

You’re abandoning your kids. You need to be a man and tough it out. When they get old enough to see her bullshit you can dip and they’ll probably come with you. Mine has openly suggested it but I don’t want to deprive him of his mother being around and I don’t want to deprive her of being around him.

Suffer through it. I have a relationship with my son that other dads openly envy. 15 years down, 3 to go.

Praise the lord for that.

>> No.2443563

I guess technically this is a DIY divorce post.