/diy/ - Do It Yourself

>be with love of my life
>she is getting promoted at work but more responsibility etc
>starts getting a bit more stressed out
>brings home work and works late into the night
>becoming more easily irritable
>starts taking it out on me.
>sex starting to become more rough and angry on her end. hot.jpg
>starts to become physical outside of the bedroom which at first I thought was her initiating sex but realised was for real violence. confused.jpg
>she is tiny and I used to be a competitive boxer so her hits were nothing anyways. whatever.jpg
>starts leaving marks and eventually accidentally giving me concussions since I am concussion prone now
>sorry every time she loses her temper. buys me anime toys, tools and cars/car parts as an apology even though I tell her she doesn't need to and that know she didn't mean to do it.
>girls at my work hate her now since they fished it out of me what's been going on and mad at me for staying with her and proposing

I mean it hasn't happened in months after I left and stayed with my sister for a couple of weeks to regroup and during that period she got professional help. she took a diff job, less stress and no bs take home work shit. doesn't pay as much but still 6 figures and at least she is more back to her old self and our relationship has never been better.

how do I explain to my co-workers (who are basically my only friends) and my mom and sister that we've worked through this. they used to all love her but now have done a 180 even though I've explained the circumstances.