/ck/ - Food & Cooking

[Anonymous No.6303572]

Hello /ck/

I used to be passionate about cooking and creating new/improved recipes etc I am a really good cook and everyone loves my food.

That changed a few days ago when I found out my boyfriend thinks differently. He hates my body, he insulted my passion and turned it into "an unhealthy obsession with food" which is completely false. I usually taste my food but never consume large amounts. Hell, I can't even eat more than a plate usually while he stuffs his face with second and third helpings.
I have gained 10lbs over 4 years but I am not that fat, I am very close to pic related and have always been curvy to chubby. So anyway, since learning this, I feel so ashamed every time I cook or eat. I want to get back my passion for cooking but I feel like something died inside me when I found all this out.

Has anyone else been through something similar?

[Anonymous No.6303579]

>>6303572
>I am very close to pic related
This will be a quality thread.

[Anonymous No.6303581]

>>6303572
no

[Anonymous No.6303582]

If you looked like that pic he wouldn't be complaining, but almost no one holds their weight even close to that.

That said I don't know why the fuck you haven't dumped him, if he's just being a dick about it then just tell him to go fuck himself.

And start exercising fatty, and by that I don't mean walking 20 minutes a week or doing wii fit.

[Anonymous No.6303586]

Yes. And Fuck him.

In the non-sexy sense of the word.

He can cook all of his meals, all the time. And if you want my frank advice he should get really friendly with his own hands for the forseable future.

[Anonymous No.6303587]

i explore new recipes and cook even more when i'm on a strict diet.

i can't eat and enjoy food, but preparing it and watching others enjoy it gives me vicarious satisfaction.

[Anonymous No.6303589]

>>6303572
You're letting someone else kill your dreams, OP. I'm not saying you should pig out and let yourself go. Cook and eat what you love, but temper that with portion control and exercise.
Your boyfriend is a cunt. If he really cared about you, he'd support your goals and dreams. (Same goes for girlfriends, too) That's how healthy relationships work. It sounds like he's trying to make you feel bad as a means of control/mental abuse.
Don't give up on things you love, OP. Continue to cook for everyone and yourself and enjoy it, it's your life.

[Anonymous No.6303594]

I only date pudgy females, it pleases me.

My dream is to have a short, pudgy gf who I can cook for and who will be emotionally attached to me and dress up in schoolgirl outfits for me

[Anonymous No.6303622]

Dump that fuck

[Anonymous No.6303635]

>>6303572
shutup hoe

hes just keeping his bitch (you) in check

its your fault for datign a chad thundercock asshole and expecting him to treat you not like the shallow slutbag you probably are. if this isnt the case then im sorry, but it probably is
also tfw curvy thick bigger woman is the only thing that gets me off anymore. skinny perfect model shape or average or fit girls do near nothing for me. also that pic you posted is a killer body because of the tits to hips ratio so you and your bf are probably both retarded to think this is bad

also this is a troll thread and i fell for it

post pics of yourself no face included (lol like i want to see ur face lol) with a time stamp and i will beleive you

also try smashing a pue with your tits or holding an apple inbwtween your cleavage or some shit fun

random pic semi related

[Anonymous No.6303650]

>>6303635
Are you a teenager?

[Anonymous No.6303660]

>>6303635

r9k pls go

[Anonymous No.6303663]

>>6303572

>My boyfriend is such a cunt I feel so horrible about myself after what he said to me I'm going to go cry about it on the internet so everyone knows how much I'm suffering
>I still love him though

TITS
OR
GTFO
T
F
O

[Anonymous No.6303669]

>>6303650
no im 23

>>6303660
got me kek


also i bet both of you that responded are mad females

mad at the truth

MUAHAHAHAHHAH

[Anonymous No.6303673]

>>6303669
Go back to your containment board

[Anonymous No.6303705]

>>6303673
how is it a containment board? this is 4CHAN

go back to your containment SITES (reddit, facebook, instagram etc) normie

rrrrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

OP mad because im right

[Anonymous No.6303719]

>letting your love of something be destroyed based on someones shitty opinion

[Anonymous No.6303805]

>>6303705
im this guy OP

whats your kik? do you wnat to be my girlfriend?

[Anonymous No.6303896]

>>6303582
I'd post a picture but I want to remain anonymous.

I do cardio 3 times a week. Not enough to lose weight but I am no longer gaining weight.

>>6303586
I can't help but feel shitty.

>>6303587
I can't eat over 1400 Calories per day

>>6303589
Thank you, I know but it's my emotions getting the better of me right now. Being told my passion is a sick obsession kind of hurts.

>>6303594
lol

>>6303622
I think it's getting there

>>6303635
ok

>>6303719
I am trying not to let it but it has, I feel ashamed for being passionate about cooking. I feel like it's a stupid passion to have.

>>6303805
I don't have kik anon

[Anonymous No.6303905]

>>6303896
post pics, landwhale

[Anonymous No.6303907]

>>6303905
>falling for this
not even once


OP, break up with him and get with a man who will enjoy your tits and cooking.

And for the love of god, don't post pictures here.

[Anonymous No.6303909]

>I look like pic related
>No I won't post a picture, I want to remain anonymous

OP confirmed for hippopotamus

[syn !!5auGoPfbzhy No.6303912]

>>6303896
>want to remain anonymous.
>not understanding a body pic with timestamp is anonymous

This is about establishing you actually exist. If you refuse to d this, you'll continue to be treated like a troll.

[Anonymous No.6303915]

>>6303896
I know you're very emotional right now. But that was a shitty move from him and it's raising all sorts of red flags. Does he make comments like this on other things you like (tv, music, etc) or have opinions on? Just being generally negative or belittling of what you like or think about that is not him?

[Anonymous No.6303917]

>>6303896
I feel like it's a stupid passion to have.

go away then, you're on a fucking cooking forum you delusional cunt

[Anonymous No.6303921]

>>6303907
>>falling for this
>not even once

>asking for proof that she's actually a she and the size she claims to be is a trick

[Anonymous No.6303928]

>>6303915
He does actually. He puts down a lot of my interests to the point where I don't talk to him about them anymore.

[Anonymous No.6303931]

>>6303909

I'd like to add to my post-

OP if your body ACTUALLY looks like the picture, your boyfriend should fucking worship you. I know I would if I was dating someone with that body.

But since you aren't posting pictures, I assume you look like a hybrid of Andre the Giant and Ina Garten

[Anonymous No.6303935]

>>6303635
>>6303572

thats not chubby thats a landwhale

[Anonymous No.6303939]

>>6303896

the UN defines a starvation diet as anything less than 1500kcal a day so you are not being accurate in how much you eat, unless you look like a starving African. chances are you're probably closer to 2500kcal a day, which is maintenance for a mildly active 5'8" female that weighs 167lb. You can be curvy at that weight.

use a BMR calculator, they are very accurate, and something like myfitnesspal to understand your calories in==calories out

Don't lose weight for your dumb BF, but do try and be healthy for yourself.

the Iron Rule for chubby/curvy vs fat sack of shit is this: No Folds, No Rolls, No Creases, No Sags(except tits, tits sag a normal amount that's fine)

if you hit the Iron Rule, you're good and your BF is being mean to a juicy bitch and you need to school his ass quick

If you fail the Iron Rule, you need to go for a jog, fatty.

[Anonymous No.6303943]

>>6303928

Why the fuck would you stay with someone like that? You're bringing this on yourself with your poor decisions.

>>6303931

It obviously doesn't, every fat girl thinks they look like some 1/10000000 chubby chick with great genetics

[Anonymous No.6303948]

>>6303928

Okay so he's basically a total dick yet you date him and let him ruin your life. GJY

For the love of all that is holy, use protection and don't let this shithead get you pregnant you doormat

[Anonymous No.6303949]

>>6303572

Attention whoring aside, if your boyfriend is a fat sack of crap who eats constantly and then flips out when you gain a single pound, if he's treating you like shit and doesn't like how you look, tell him to suck a dick and dump him. I don't care about how that makes you feel and why you can't because muh feelings and I love him. Fuck him. Never make yourself miserable for someone else. They can walk away at any time and leave you in the shit and you'll have made yourself miserable for nothing. Don't give him that power. If it's important to you, keep cooking.

You could be anorexic, you could be a landwhale, you could be a super model, you could be some broke ass back alley ho, shit, you could even be a dude, my advice would be the same. Don't put up with being treated like shit like that's something you just have to live with.

[Anonymous No.6303957]

>>6303896
whats your skype hoe

[Anonymous No.6303958]

is your bf fat?

[Anonymous No.6303982]

>>6303928
Yeah, guessed so. I am going to post two links. You're not going to like them. Your first reaction is likely to either be along the side on "never!" Or calling me crazy. But take the t complete the checklist and to read the stories...

http://www.cultrecover.com/sites/default/files/pdfs/Emotional_Abuse_Checklist.pdf

http://captainawkward.com/category/darth-vader-boyfriend/

[Anonymous No.6303994]

>>6303982
*take the time to complete...

[Anonymous No.6304000]

>>6303572
muh cucumber!

[Not OP No.6304022]

>>6303958
Answer this OP. Is your boyfriend a hypocrite?

Maybe he's just concerned for your health. If he eats a lot and isn't fat then he most likey lives an active lifestyle and is fit and wants you to be fit too.

Also, your image is photoshopped so if you look like that then you must be an alien. Post a real pic with timestamp.

>i'm fat
>my bf reminds of this
>therefor i hate my bf
women logic

[Anonymous No.6304028]

>>6304022
clearing name field. my bad.

>it's easier to dump my bf than lose weight and get healthy
women logic

[Anonymous No.6304055]

>>6304028

People are going to live how they live. If you haven't figured that out by now, you're going to be a sad cunt for your whole life, expecting people to change for you when that's not how people are. This whole delusion of 'I'm going to change my gf into the perfect woman' is exactly the same old-school, 1950's, perfect American TV family bullshit of 'my husband would be a good man if he just didn't [blank], but I can change him!'. You can't. Women can't. Men can't. Find someone whose flaws you can live with and shut up. Stop pretending like this is an issue of women being shitty. Everyone is shitty.

[Anonymous No.6304061]

>>6304028
Well duh, she can get a guy who likes extra weight, there are everywhere unless you live in like france or some shit

[Anonymous No.6304075]

>>6303572
>>>/adv/
>>>/tumblr/

>>6304055
Nice projection but you're assuming too much. Do you know for certain that OP wasn't thin and healthy when she met her bf and put on weight recently? Maybe the bf has noticed the weight gain and is concerned about her health and has mentioned her weight before it gets out of hand.

I say 'maybe' because I don't know, and neither do you.

>man is always wrong
>one side to every story
>only womens side
Go fuck yourself. This thread proves that women are pack hunters, like dogs, and they are completely irrational. You just took OP's word as gospel (dispite claiming that she looks like a photoshopped model) without considering an alternate viewpoint.
Go fuck yourself.

[Anonymous No.6304112]

>>6304075

I'm assuming nothing. It doesn't matter if OP was thin and healthy first, it doesn't matter if OP stayed the same weight, lost weight, or gained 50 lbs. As you get older, your priorities change, and unless your partner's weight is impeding them living their life or you living yours and it is wholly unrealistic to expect another person to remain at a single weight +/- 5lbs for their entire life.

You said:
> Maybe this is what he wants

And then you went on to say:
> hurr durr, this is how womens try to logics

Yeah, maybe he is concerned about her weight. But you know what grown folks do when they are concerned about a partner? They say, 'I am concerned about you'. They don't say 'you're fat now, cooking is stupid, stop liking cooking you stupid fat cow'.

What I said was
> it is unrealistic to expect someone else to change their life to accommodate what you want

And that remains true. I'm a man, not a woman, I'm not mouthing someone else's opinion, I'm telling you, a child, how things are. I took nobody's word as gospel. What I said was, to YOU, not to the OP, that it is unrealistic to expect someone to change for you and that everyone is flawed and shitty, and that you have to make the best of it and find someone you can live with. Grow the fuck up and stop being a pedantic little fag who thinks the world needs to bend to you because you're mommy's special little guy. The world doesn't bend to you, other people don't bend to you, and you won't always get what you want.

[Anonymous No.6304127]

>>6304112
>'you're fat now, cooking is stupid, stop liking cooking you stupid fat cow'.
Stopped reading there. Bye.

[Anonymous No.6304142]

>>6304127

> wahhh, someone talked back to me onlines and now I have a sad

[Anonymous No.6304160]

>>6304142
>someone didn't give me the attention that I'm begging for

nah, you're just too irrational to have a sensible conversation with. you tried multiple times to misrepresent my statements. you're not looking at the situation with an open mind and you're hell bent on whiteknighting.

bye4good

[Anonymous No.6304165]

>>6303939
post yourself landwhale

[Anonymous No.6304177]

>>6303572
Which region do you live in?