Ok, hypothetically if a gay guy is out dining with a female coworker and it's obviously platonic and it's just the two of them, does he still have to pay the tab? Just watched this happen and not sure of the etiquette

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Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:04:00 2021 No.16901776 [DELETED]

Ok, hypothetically if a gay guy is out dining with a female coworker and it's obviously platonic and it's just the two of them, does he still have to pay the tab?

Just watched this happen and not sure of the etiquette

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:05:04 2021 No.16901787 >>16901776 No pussy, no pay.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:05:55 2021 No.16901790 Christian bakeries should be forced to bake gay wedding cakes or be shut down by the state. Gay people are human and deserve to be treated the same as anyone else.

Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:07:37 2021 No.16901796

>>16901776
Of course not. No one has to do anything, regardless of sexual preference or date status. If you choose to pay for something, it's an act of courtesy to show regard for the other person. Etiquette isn't about rules, it's about making your social interactions pleasant.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:08:41 2021 No.16901803 >>16901790 Thank you for sharing.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:09:25 2021 No.16901805 >>16901790 Based! I love gays.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:13:45 2021 No.16901821 >>16901790 don't care faggot

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:17:58 2021 No.16901838 >>16901796 >it's about making your social interactions pleasant. So if he wouldn't have paid, it would have been unpleasant?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:21:30 2021 No.16901844 >>16901838 Hard to say, but it's certainly pleasant to buy someone dinner, or have it bought for you. Splitting it carries a businesslike travail, that's why it's never been common.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:22:12 2021 No.16901845 >>16901776 dude if they are friends, she probably got the bill last time so hes getting it this time. or she paid for the movie or something. there aren't "etiquette rules" when you are friends.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:23:13 2021 No.16901849 >>16901845 oops disregard this, thought they were friends, not co-workers. might still apply though, depending on their relationship

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:24:18 2021 No.16901852 >>16901787 Eternal fpbp

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:25:50 2021 No.16901860 Good friends go Dutch.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:29:12 2021 No.16901873 >>16901776 God I wish that peanut butter toast was my face

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:30:18 2021 No.16901877 >>16901787 Based

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:31:43 2021 No.16901882 They aren't "gay" they are mentally ill, child molesting degenerate homosexual subhumans.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:32:47 2021 No.16901886 >>16901882 what's the deal with the random gay posts itt?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:35:30 2021 No.16901902 >>16901886 Unironically shill bots. Sometimes they fuck up and post in irrelevant threads and it's obvious

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:35:32 2021 No.16901903 >>16901776 Entirely depends but I would say on the balance, no, he shouldn't be expected to pay. Is he inviting to take her to dinner though? different story

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:39:24 2021 No.16901915 >>16901902 So it literally detected the word gay in the OP and now is dumping it's standard bait?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:41:58 2021 No.16901930 >>16901915 Oops standard *truth

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 22:45:35 2021 No.16901958 If a homosexual is out with a woman he is trying to recruit her to bring him little boys to have sex with. Similar to a Ghislaine Maxwell situation because women are less threatening.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:01:01 2021 No.16902029 >>16901776 The man always pays where I am from

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:05:39 2021 No.16902046 No, you pay for what you ordered.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:07:30 2021 No.16902052 >>16901776 She's a beard. When they go out, he pays for show. She pays him back in private.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:08:46 2021 No.16902058 >>16902052 Why would she go out as a beard if he's not even buying dinner? It's like having a sugar daddy, you get your basic allowance and then whatever specifics he wants are covered.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:11:56 2021 No.16902072 File: 41 KB, 620x400, VIGILANT-plumber-fixing-a-sink-shutterstock_132523334-e1448389230378-620x400.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>16902058 How do you know so much about beards?

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:17:40 2021 No.16902107 >>16902072 eyes and brains, watson

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:27:16 2021 No.16902144 >>16901776 >does he still have to pay the tab depends on if he wants to get me-too-ed.

Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:32:43 2021 No.16902162

>>16901787
>No pussy, no pay.
Unironically this. I’ve gone out for dinner with female friends and coworkers and wouldn’t dream of picking up the tab. If there isn’t a romantic intent or possibility then it is purely platonic or professional ie they are the equivalent of a male counterpart so act accordingly.

The only time you’d pay is if you wanted to show off or rub their face in it or just be friendly. But even with the latter point I would be hesitant to do so with a woman because they might get the wrong idea, they might be getting to used to their pussy privilege or you might be perceived as being taken advantage of. Best to go 50/50 like a man.

They wanted the vote so they can deal with some of the consequences. If they don’t like it tell them you assumed they were trans.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:45:14 2021 No.16902207 >>16901776 Do you pay for your friend's meals when you eat out? Same situation. Only time I pay for my friend's meals is if I owe them back or if it's their birthday or special occasion. That's it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:48:40 2021 No.16902216 >>16901776 Unless you feel like being friendly it's not required. You're just 2 people eating out so pay for your food she's got a job she can pay for it.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:50:15 2021 No.16902225 >>16901776 pay for what you ordered

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:52:33 2021 No.16902237 >>16901787 Based

Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:53:12 2021 No.16902242

One time I was going through my husbands phone and he had a picture of a giant dick and another one of a guy giving a blow job or something like that. Whatever it was I just gently put the phone down and said holy shit he's gay. I didn't even know what to say. My husband and I can talk about anything but this I couldn't even bring it up. I started acting so awkward and then somehow I managed to bring up the pictures I saw and he started hysterically laughing. Apparently he has a whatsapp group with his friends and as a joke they send nasty pictures to each other and those were just two of the many pics they send that get saved on his phone. Looking back now those pics were ridiculous and probably not what gay men look at anyway.

>>	Anonymous Wed Oct 27 23:57:19 2021 No.16902261 >>16902242 you dummy. anyway are you that cute girl i flirted with back in CK a week ago. my lesbian intentions are still up for grabs.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 00:03:50 2021 No.16902288 >>16901790 I'm a black Muslim. Good luck forcing me to make your homosexual AIDS celebration cake

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 00:19:19 2021 No.16902344 >>16901776 The person inviting the other out for lunch, date or not, pays unless otherwise agreed

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 00:20:43 2021 No.16902348 >>16901845 >there aren't "etiquette rules" when you are friends Yes there are

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 00:44:55 2021 No.16902464 >>16902242 Thats pretty fucking funny

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 00:46:25 2021 No.16902472 >>16901776 is that sweetened condensed milk?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 01:00:21 2021 No.16902533 >>16902288 Nobody should be exempted from anti-discrimination laws because of how they look, which groups they belong to, or what they believe.

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Anonymous Thu Oct 28 01:05:19 2021 No.16902550

>>16902545
I'm Jewish myself and I find it a shame that Israel refuses to permit gay civil marriage within its own borders and places limits on access to surrogacy and sperm donation for gay and lesbian couples.

I don't think ultra-orthodox jews should have a free pass to harm gays if that's what you mean. I don't think ANY beliefs entitle you to treat gays as less than fully human with feelings that matter.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 01:49:41 2021 No.16902720 >>16901790 You gays sure do like consuming the bodily wastes of other people, don’t you? You really think you can sue someone for free food and not get it adulterated?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 01:50:41 2021 No.16902723 >>16901776 Yes. Gay males are lower on the hierarchy than women. Pay up!

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 01:53:13 2021 No.16902733 >>16901776 Fag here If I'm dining with a female coworker platonically, I'm putting the dinner on my company card and writing am expense report for it categorized as a teambuilding exercise

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 02:50:23 2021 No.16902881 >>16901776 Women always go dutch these days even if it's a date. Have you been married for 20 years?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:02:59 2021 No.16902909 >>16901790 cant you just tell them you're straight and add an extra little dude on top?

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:05:41 2021 No.16902914

>>16902909
That's kinda the whole point - they didn't even say they were gay - the fact that they are both the same sex gave them away. If the cake is for both of you - you are gay - there's no way to hide it - so we shouldn't be punished because we literally cannot hide it.

Also why should gays have to lie? Just because he's lying about believing in a magic sky wizard who commands him to shun gays - why should we have to lie in response to his?

Just because religious people are dishonest doesn't mean gays have to be.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:11:19 2021 No.16902927 >>16902914 I guess you're right, you shouldn't need to lie to get a wedding cake but I don't think it would be that hard to trick them into doing it if it was your only option. Are most bakeries that do wedding cakes ran by christians?

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:14:08 2021 No.16902933

>>16902927
The point isn't that it is our only option - it is that we shouldn't have to worry about having less options than other people in the first place. It shouldn't burden us because people lie about magical beliefs to hurt others.

>Are most bakeries that do wedding cakes ran by christians?

Well in a literal sense yes because most Americans are Christians, but I would imagine a disproportionate share of wedding service providers are probably Christian/religious because of the "traditional" nature of weddings in general.

It just shouldn't be an issue. People who have homophobic magical beliefs shouldn't offer wedding services in the first place.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:18:20 2021 No.16902944 >>16901790 Should gay bakeries likewise be forced to bake homophobic cakes?

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:22:38 2021 No.16902962

>>16902933
I live in the south and most christians I've met other than really old ones dont seem to mind gay people but maybe it's different in other places. Seems like as time goes on and young people take over, people will stop caring. I hope your wedding is nice gaynon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:24:12 2021 No.16902964 >>16901776 No, but he can if he wants to.

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:25:43 2021 No.16902971

>>16902944
No, because homophobia is learned and being gay is innate. Being gay is not offensive and doesn't hurt others - homophobia hurts others.

>>16902962
They don't mind you until you threaten their power or control. As long as they feel they are above you in the social hierarchy they will pretend not to care.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:29:54 2021 No.16902979 >>16902944 Well, it's as they say, if you create a gay shrine, you block a ray o' sunshine. It's light vs darkness, simple as.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 03:49:26 2021 No.16903027 >>16902288 Stfu nigger

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 04:12:18 2021 No.16903057 >>16902288 I'll call the army and tell them about the unregistered oil field in the back of your shop, what then faggot

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 05:40:59 2021 No.16903244 >>16902971 So it's OK to persecute groups of people, so long as the reason you're persecuting them is something learned? Like, it would be wrong to call >>16902288 a nigger, but just fine to call him a pedophile-worshiping goatfucker terrorist?

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 06:06:00 2021 No.16903294

>>16901790
I'm gay and this is bullshit. if you don't want to make me cakes I'll just tell everyone how much of a faggot you are and give you bad reviews.
Crying to the government because of cake is fucking gay.

>>16903244
Yes, fuck muslims. if you want to be a terrorist you deserve all the hate you get.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 07:32:55 2021 No.16903446 >>16901776 Do you pay for your friends meals?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 07:37:38 2021 No.16903452 >>16903057 Insurgency. And history shows if I keep at it I'll win.

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 07:59:55 2021 No.16903504

>be faggot couple
>skip over every bakery that will make your cake
>10+ bakeries you pass over
>find the one bakery that doesn't agree with your lifestyle, wants to refuse service
>you're not just a faggot couple, you're a faggot couple with an agenda
>target_acquired.jpg
If you support the faggots in that famous bakery case you're either a faggot with an agenda yourself or someone who is underinformed on the reality of the case. They specifically sought out a bakery to refuse them service.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 08:45:35 2021 No.16903632 >>16903504 This, fuck the faggot agenda.

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:03:14 2021 No.16903703
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>>16902909
>cant you just tell them you're straight and add an extra little dude on top?

Yes this is how I always order : I'll have a straight wedding cake please, with extra dude, hold the bride.

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:16:36 2021 No.16903746

>>16901776
if you invite someone out to eat then you are expected to pay unless the other person says they will pay for both of you or just themselves. gender or sexuality or relationship are meaningless in this discussion imo. if its 2 people who just decide to go out to eat then they pay for their own shit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:25:40 2021 No.16903773 >>16901776 I usually just get two seperate bills, I've payed for someone's food on their birthday before though but that's more a gift sort of thing. He probably was repaying for a time she spotted him for the check.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:28:16 2021 No.16903783 >>16902933 >- it is that we shouldn't have to worry about having less options than other people in the first place Using the fist of the government to correct this small injustice is criminal

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:28:36 2021 No.16903785 >>16903632 You going to do anything to stop us faggot?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:29:44 2021 No.16903790 >>16903504 There shouldn't be ANY bakeries that refuse them service, though.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:31:51 2021 No.16903797 >>16903790 There shouldn't be any faggots walking around openly in public without getting hitched to the back of a truck but it's not a perfect world

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:33:48 2021 No.16903808

>>16903790
No one should be forced to do anything. Find someone that will bake your faggot cake.

>>16903785
Started off by firing the office fag and I don't hire or write up anyone I even suspect is a faggot and you can bet that includes anyone who takes queer parade day off "sick"

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:34:58 2021 No.16903812 >>16903785 Ewww no yucky. I'll just let the gay diseases eventually kill you off.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:38:58 2021 No.16903825 >>16903808 >Larp Your shit posting on /ck/ you don't manage shit

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:40:09 2021 No.16903827 >>16903812 That's what I thought, too much of a fucking pussy to do anything. I bet I could fuck your dad and you'd just sulk in the corner.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:40:55 2021 No.16903829 he has some credit card rewards points and she's going to transfer her portion of the money electronically

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:44:17 2021 No.16903834 >>16903827 >fucking pussy something your or your kind no nothing about

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:44:22 2021 No.16903836 >>16903827 Sorry you didn't have a good relationship with your dad anon, you're just a product of your environment

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>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:47:58 2021 No.16903850 >>16903834 >>16903836 Your cope means nothing to me, I've already won.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 09:49:05 2021 No.16903854 >>16903850 Your desperate need to 'win' is just a consequence of the non-existent relationship with your father. Probably had a single mother. Probably think you're actually gay because it's the only way you were able to ever get any attention

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:01:36 2021 No.16903906 >>16903854 Anon anon, where's all that piss and vinegar from before? Weren't you going to destroy us all with your big toootally real office job? Now you're just seething in the vauge direction of my dad like I give a shit.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:15:59 2021 No.16903952 >>16903906 It's okay anon, we know the reason you direct your seething at random christian bakery owners is because your relationship with your dad wasn't great

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:28:57 2021 No.16903985 >>16901776 Same rights same fights. Women are now free to hold property and work in their own names so they can get their own food. That DOESN'T stop me from sometimes buying things for my gf or female friends, but I expect the same from them.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:30:59 2021 No.16903991 >have gf >dating for half a decade >she still pays half >wont even let me pay even if i insist despite the fact i earn 3x more than her caught a winner

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:46:51 2021 No.16904039 >>16903906 Office guy back again. I know I'm not going to destroy you all in this climate but I'm certainly doing my part faggot. And just because your job is molesting kids doesn't mean no one else has one.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:48:40 2021 No.16904049 >>16903985 >but I expect the same from them. Good luck with that

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 10:50:16 2021 No.16904052 >>16903294 Based sodomite. You will hang last on the blessed Day Of The Rope.

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:13:07 2021 No.16904130 >>16903991 Who pays the mortgage?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:27:44 2021 No.16904171 >>16901787 Super based

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:29:00 2021 No.16904173 File: 2.85 MB, 200x234, 1623349787143.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>16902971 >homophobia is learned

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:34:48 2021 No.16904199 >>16903244 yes

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:42:14 2021 No.16904243 >>16902971 who first sexually abused you as a child and how old were you?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 11:54:08 2021 No.16904285 How many bets this fag enabler is a janny?

>>	Anonymous Thu Oct 28 12:07:58 2021 No.16904325 >>16902971 Everytime they survey small children who haven't yet been brainwashed by the globohomo the kids are absolutely disgusted at the idea of men being with men.

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 12:12:37 2021 No.16904336
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>>16902971
>homophobia is learned
being disgusted by unnatural behaviors isn't "learned"
do you also think finding the homeless schizo yelling incoherently at you unpleasant a "learned" behavior?

Anonymous Thu Oct 28 12:20:09 2021 No.16904366

>>16901776
no. if im dining with a female we just spilt the bill. i had one insecure female friend that would deliberately bring cash and then pay me at the table so it looked that i "paid" for the whole meal on my card. she had a whole host of issues though.

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