Offended Cooks

[Anonymous No.16228906]

How do I not offend someone cooking a meal by declining it? I'm going to a small get together tomorrow and the host is cooking a meal, but ever since I stopped being fat and kept it off, I'm finicky about what I eat and when I eat (OMAD for me). I feel like this offends so many people, and I don't know why. There's not enough people going to slip into the background, and my friend who invited me isn't listening to my gentle suggestions about probably not planning to eat.

What's the reason people get so angry about this? How do I decline?

[Anonymous No.16228913]

>>16228906
just say your stomach hurts

[Anonymous No.16228915]

>>16228913
It'll be clear my stomach doesn't hurt as I drink and hit the pool.

[Anonymous No.16228931]

>>16228906
>Why do they get offended
Because they feel a measure of pride in what they made and want you to show your appreciation by eating it

>What should I do?
When you know someone is going to get offended no matter what, brutal honesty is the way to go
If he's a real friend he'll get over it quickly, and if he doesn't then it was only a matter of time before something else you did offended him and you drift apart

[Anonymous No.16228951]

>>16228931
He's not my friend. It's my friend's dad. I would prefer he saved the money and did not cook me anything by knowing in advance I don't plan to eat. But, this happens all the time.

>Because they feel a measure of pride in what they made and want you to show your appreciation by eating it
Why the assumption everyone likes eating, or isn't trying to make sure they don't get fat? Give me a gesture of appreciation by doing something that doesn't affect my body. I'll give someone a gift, or some money, or an invite over to spend some time together. Not something they can't undo.

[Anonymous No.16228959]

>>16228906
How come you can't save your omad for this bbq thing?

[Anonymous No.16228961]

>>16228906
Tell him you don't eat anything haram.

[Anonymous No.16228971]

>>16228951
>Why the assumption everyone likes eating
because most people do

> or isn't trying to make sure they don't get fat?
1 meal wont make you fat, even if you dont accept that you can just not eat the entire meal

>Give me a gesture of appreciation by doing something that doesn't affect my body.
this isnt about you, your friend is having a get together to share food and good times with his friends, if you dont want to take part no one is making you

[Anonymous No.16228974]

>>16228906
If you once were a fatass and now are not they should know to keep food away from you or they really aren't your friends.

[Anonymous No.16228984]

>>16228959
It's middle of the day, I don't know how he cooked it, it's a pool party and I don't want to be all bloated... If I eat his meal I get to go to bed hungry. Honestly, I just don't get hungry much during the day, so stuffing myself with food to be "gracious" really bothers me.

[Anonymous No.16228987]

like it or not, decline a homemade meal will offend most people. They put money and effort into making something they want you to enjoy and you won't even try it. The polite thing is to accept it and if you really dont want to eat it, just have a few bites

[Anonymous No.16228989]

>>16228984
no one is telling you to stuff yourself, have a few bites and thats it

[Anonymous No.16228995]

>>16228984
You sound like a fag, just don't go I doubt anyone will miss you.

[Anonymous No.16229000]

>>16228984
I don't think you want a solution and you just want to bitch about it.

[Anonymous No.16229001]

>>16228906
just meet halfway.
say that you're trying to watch your weight, but that you'd still like to try a little.
one or two bites wont hurt and you can still compliment them on the food etc.

kind of like when you're invited to a party and dont really wanna go, but you go anyway just long enough to have 1 beer and then leave after 20min.

[Anonymous No.16229002]

I do OMAD too and I would just make that my meal for the day. or just eat a little, or are you an OMAD autist that thinks you will get fat after 1 cheat day?

[Anonymous No.16229004]

>>16228951
You could always make that your one meal, eating one random meal isn't going to make you fat

Again, if you know someone is going to be offended might as well accept it and lean into it, instead of coming up with lame excuses

[Anonymous No.16229006]

>>16228971
>1 meal wont make you fat, even if you dont accept that you can just not eat the entire meal
It's not about one meal, it's about the fact I'm frequently offered food, I don't want to eat it, and people get mad. One meal IS going to be something I have to make up for later though, going hungry when I actually want food. Or instead of getting to eat a healthy, substantial dinner, I have to down your fried 3000 calorie gut bomb.

>this isnt about you, your friend is having a get together to share food and good times with his friends, if you dont want to take part no one is making you
Well, I probably posted this before you got a chance to read it, but it's my friend's dad, and I'd like to see her in the short time she's in town. But I run into these people who shove their cooking on people all the time. I would like to see my friends. I would like to come over and be appreciative of our friendship without eating. I wouldn't get mad at an alcoholic for not accepting my brewed beer... I would offer, they'd say no, and I'd say "cool."

>>16228974
>If you once were a fatass and now are not they should know to keep food away from you or they really aren't your friends.
He has no idea and isn't really my friend.

[Anonymous No.16229023]

>>16229006
its pretty clear from this that you have an eating disorder dude. If the idea of eating food in moderation outside of a schedule you have set for yourself is giving you this much stress you need to get help

[Anonymous No.16229028]

>>16229006
You have issues, and I'm guessing it's more than food people offer you...seek help.

[Anonymous No.16229036]

>>16228989
And then I'm wasting his money and making it seem like I didn't like what he made. Making it worse. Why doesn't he just accept when told in advance that I don't want to eat?

>>16229000
Nah, this is a recurring issue, so I'm trying to figure out the mentality and figure out how to fix it without the "just eat it anon" shit.

>>16229001
See above, wasted food and shit. He's making steak dinners, I'm costing him $20 or something to not want to eat.

>>16229002
>are you an OMAD autist that thinks you will get fat after 1 cheat day?
It's not ONE cheat day if you have a social life. Last weekend was a 3 day weekend and I got invited to 4 different things by 4 different groups where they all wanted to make food. Which I had to decline, and offended 50% of them. I'm already sitting there making a compromise and eating less so I can have a few drinks (which I prefer to eating anyways).

>>16229004
See above, again. I like to eat when I'm hungry, not because someone forces it.

[Anonymous No.16229052]

>>16229036
see above
>>16229028

[Anonymous No.16229055]

>>16229023
>>16229028
It's not an eating disorder. People are constantly offering food and shoveling food in their mouths. I don't want to get fat again. I eat about 2,000 calories a day, I work out every day, I put in effort to not be a bloated Chris Farley fuck like I used to be.

Most meals people serve are well over what even a daily amount of calorie consumption should be. Why doesn't it work for me to just come by, enjoy each other's company, and leave it at that?

[Anonymous No.16229063]

>>16228951
because socialising nearly always involves food and alcohol, and has done for thousands of years.

[Anonymous No.16229065]

>>16229036
yeah confirmed for autistic baiting retard.
fuck this thread, cya

[Anonymous No.16229068]

>>16229055
Again seek help, you seem unhinged....also fuck you.

[Anonymous No.16229073]

>>16229063
Dude, socializing is friendship and laughter. I can do everything a party entails without having to eat. In retrospect, I should have posted this on a board less enthusiastic about food.

[Anonymous No.16229092]

>>16228906
no thank you

[Anonymous No.16229290]

>>16228906
>I'm finicky about what I eat and when I eat

Okay.

>>16228915
>I drink

Retard.

[Anonymous No.16229298]

>>16228951
Challenge him to wrestling match to assert dominance. When you win, mock hump him in the ass to finalize your victory. He can't feel insulted once he has been established as an inferior.

[Anonymous No.16229345]

>>16228906
>how do I not offend someone cooking a meal by declining it
If you know it isn't going to be good just take a small portion and if asked how it was just say, "it's okay", and then gently suggest what you would have done differently to make it better withou...
>I'm finicky about what I eat and when I eat (OMAD for me)
Yeah, just keep your mouth shut and consider yourself lucky that you even have friends.

[Anonymous No.16229350]

>>16228906
>OMAD
okay, eat your one meal there. if it's like slathered in bbq sauce or something control your portion

[Anonymous No.16229357]

>>16229073
probably true but i can't imagine /fit/ would have any different responses. so you're going ot have to cope with being gay

[Anonymous No.16229493]

>>16228906
whats he cooking? just make that your one meal of the day

[Anonymous No.16229508]

>>16229036
>He's making steak dinners
there's nothing wrong with steak. fat doesnt make you fat. eat the steak, avoid carb-heavy side dishes, and stop being such a pussy. holy fuck anon this really does approach eating disorder territory. here are some definitions for eating disorder:
>any of a range of psychological disorders characterized by abnormal or disturbed eating habits
>An eating disorder is a serious mental illness, characterised by eating, exercise and body weight or shape becoming an unhealthy preoccupation of someone's life
>Eating disorders are behavioral conditions characterized by severe and persistent disturbance in eating behaviors and associated distressing thoughts and emotions

sounds like this situation involving food is causing you distressing thoughts and emotions due to your abnormal preoccupation with your diet

[Anonymous No.16229539]

>>16228906
I have your problem too, and it's annoying as hell.
People will feel attacked because you decline food or snacks , I don't know WHY but they do.
Oftentimes I even tell them I'm on a controlled diet or just eating once a day (not anymore), and they'll go "oh okay" and not one minute later they'll offer food again. It's like they're unable to socialize without it centering on eating and drinking.
Whenever I visit my dad he'll offer like 6 things in a row and I have to decline them all one by one before it reaches through his thick skull I'm not interested in eating garbage carbs in the middle of the day. It's been like this for over a year.

[Anonymous No.16229575]

>>16229493
This isn't a unique situation. It doesn't matter what he's cooking. I frequently have to decline food and have to worry about offending someone's delicate sensibilities.

>>16229508
Honestly, if I didn't strongly focus on my diet, I'd have never lost weight. Is everyone here just in the obese BMI territory and doesn't give a shit?
>sounds like this situation involving food is causing you distressing thoughts and emotions due to your abnormal preoccupation with your diet
More like people forcing food on people.

>>16229539
I'm glad someone can appreciate it. Food's enjoyable, but people need to understand this isn't my only invite out of the week, and you're not my only friends or plans. Like, specifically related to this thread, I got a new job, and my parents want to take me out on Tuesday. To make up for this dude's steak dinner with all the fixins, I have to spend two hours on a bike. He doesn't care that he's in his 60s and no girl wants to touch him.

[Anonymous No.16229605]

>>16228906
Well if you only eat one meal a day why not make it the meal at the dinner party?
Also it's okey to treat yourself every now and then, especially if you already reached your goal

[Anonymous No.16229649]

>>16228906
>I'm going to a small get together tomorrow and the host is cooking a meal,
Eat the meal or don't attend.
The entire point of the get together is the ancient camraderie of sharing a meal, not only are you being extremely rude but your refusal to share food also triggers distrust in the caveman lizard brain.

[Anonymous No.16229692]

>>16229036
>Last weekend was a 3 day weekend and I got invited to 4 different things by 4 different groups where they all wanted to make food.
OMAD isn't working for your lifestyle in that case. Why don't you try switching to 5:2 or something instead?

[Anonymous No.16229738]

>imagine having such shit genetics that one meal can make you fat

[Anonymous No.16229782]

>>16228915
Tell them you don't want the food soaking up the booze in your stomach.

[Anonymous No.16229828]

>>16228906
Stop being a fag and eat what they give you. Breaking your diet for 1 day isn't going to kill you.

[Anonymous No.16229840]

>>16228951
>Why the assumption everyone likes eating, or isn't trying to make sure they don't get fat?
Do you think your pontification on this on the internet is going to change how other people are? Learn to socialize, say no, or don't go retard.

[Anonymous No.16229845]

>>16229055
>Most meals people serve are well over what even a daily amount of calorie consumption should be.
... what? A large meal for most people is like 1200 calories. And that's only made possible with liquid calories from shit like soda and alcohol. The only people I've ever seen eat a fucking 2000 calorie meal are fatties and people who only eat one meal a day.

[Anonymous No.16230077]

Buddys cookin ya FREE steak and you REFUSE it? You celebratin Ramadan or somethin? GET RR DONE!!!
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[Anonymous No.16230098]

>>16228906
Congrats on the will power to lose weight. But I’m worried you’ve picked up an eating disorder. He’s a friend who’s cooking you a meal, eat it, enjoy it and thank him for his efforts

[Anonymous No.16230105]

Say you're allergic to cheese.

[Anonymous No.16230112]

>>16228906
Jesus christ learn how to program better.
Skip food for 16-24 hours prior to the get-together.
Eat small amounts of each food, enough to appreciate the flavors.
Ask questions about the food and guesstimate how many calories you're taking in.
Exercise before and after the meet.
Skip a meal the next day.

Don't be a fucking bitch, dieting should never get in the way of your social life unless your friends are crazy judgemental fat sacks of shit, in which case you should cut them off anyway.

[Anonymous No.16230116]

>>16228951
Sound like you need to make up some kind of food allergy.

>Oh no! Does this have pepper? I'm deathly allergic to pepper. My frail body wasn't ready for this. Oh, fuck. I forgot my epipen, too. I need to go. I can already feel the explosive diarrhea coming.

[Anonymous No.16230119]

>>16229036
>He's making steak dinners
>refusing steak
I would take two bites, but then lick it so nobody else wanted it and take it home with me.

[Anonymous No.16230143]

Just be honest and politely decline in advance

[Anonymous No.16230522]

>Have some inconvenience with food
>Imagine people blowing their lid over some petty shit regarding said food
>But you must attend the event, 100% or else..!
>Any sensible suggestion is met with further complications why it's impossible
These kind of baits are kind of good in getting replies because it takes a few OP replies before you know he's just being obnoxious and obtuse.

[Anonymous No.16230795]

>>16229575
>I have to spend two hours on a bike
just lift and raise your BMR faggot. then you wont have to cry about a free steak dinner

[Anonymous No.16230833]

>doing OMAD
>still drinking alcohol outside his meal
>can't put it on hold for ONE(1) God damn day
Honestly you sound like a fag, your dad probably told his friend to pity invite you because they know how much of an autistic fuck you are.

[Anonymous No.16230920]

>>16230522
Take your meds, schizo.

[Anonymous No.16230942]

>>16230920
:|

[Anonymous No.16231054]

>>16228906
Ask for a plate to take home. Also, write to dear Abby next time.

[Anonymous No.16231365]

>>16228951
>>16228906
My best advice would be to take a small-ish portion of food out of politeness, and find a way to just pick at it until it looks smaller. If they press you about why you aren't eating, explain the situation but emphasize that the food is good. Also make sure to eat beforehand (so your stomach doesn't grumble as you're explaining how full you are) and if you can toss bits of it without them seeing you're extra golden
T. Have ibs and will get the shits if I eat anything more daring than ice water

[Anonymous No.16232099]

>>16229605
I've explained, but eating a steak dinner at 2:30 PM means I go to bed hungry. And yes, I do treat myself sometimes, It's just people seem to want me to only treat myself with THEM, and aren't understanding I already did something with other friends, and I have to take it easy. Just because they only do one thing a week doesn't mean that's my lifestyle.

>>16229649
Why invite me to something that isn't supposed to be a meal, and then once I've confirmed I'll attend to "go swimming," force a meal on me?

>>16229692
I mean, this works for me because I get to eat when I'm hungry, and I get to eat what I want. 5:2 wouldn't really change that.

>>16229738
Nah, it won't, it's just a combination of constantly having "cheat" days until it's not just cheat days, now it's just shit eating habits again. I spent four days in San Diego drinking and partying and I've only been home three. So in the span of 8 days, 4 will have been cheat days. I can already see a little bit of weight coming back.

Will reply to other comments in another post.

[Anonymous No.16232132]

>>16232099
Cont.

>>16229845
1200 calories is a shitton of food for someone who is also drinking and shit like that. You can easily hit 1200 calories eating two slices of pizza. Two White Castle sliders are 400 calories more or less and I've seen people drop 6 of those for lunch alone.

>>16230098
Thanks on the congrats. But, it's not an eating disorder. It's just wanting to have control over what I eat. He can show his efforts in other ways than cooking.

>>16230112
I can't eat a small amount of a steak he cooks for me and push it to the side. And I don't want to have to fucking starve myself for a day before and after just to enjoy a friend's company.

>>16230116
I tried saying this and got asked what I was allergic to so they could prepare in advance.

>>16230119
I love steak, I just know I'm not going to be hungry.

>>16230522
I mean, look at how angry this thread is getting.. people DO blow their lids over food.

>>16230795
I do lift and workout intensely each day. I manage all of those aspects so I don't get fat again. Imagine that.

>>16230833
I'm the only one invited, it's a girl, and it's not one day. It's multiple days in a week, because I get invited to multiple things and have more than one friend. Probably hard for most anons to understand.

>>16231365
My stomach never grumbles. Again, I eat when I'm hungry. This isn't some kind of bullshit where I'm white knuckling it all day, I don't get hungry and will be forcing food down my throat just to make someone happy.

Also sorry about the IBS.

[Anonymous No.16232155]

OP again. I'll also say, it's been 10 years or so since I was really comfortable having my shirt off, and I know I get bloated when I eat. There's the added bad feelings of feeling fat again while trying to maintain self confidence in my appearance.

[Anonymous No.16232157]

>>16228906
Starve yourself and make the meal they are serving your OMAD. Stick to that but give yourself a pass on the food if it's like fatty or "unhealthy".

[Anonymous No.16232287]

>>16228915
>as I drink
You're worried about one meal but you still drink?

[Anonymous No.16232319]

>>16232099
>>16232132
Just inform the host that you are unfortunately too autistic to attend and you will not be socializing with them further.

[Anonymous No.16232485]

>>16232319
>>16229023
>>16229028
Post body

[Anonymous No.16232488]

>>16232287
Part of doing OMAD is SO I can drink. Sitting around at a get together sober while everyone is drinking is no fun.

[Anonymous No.16232494]

>>16232485
Your turn, manlet

[Anonymous No.16232495]

>>16232485
What about calorie rape?

[Anonymous No.16232499]

>>16232132
>1200 calories is a shitton of food for someone who is also drinking and shit like that
Do you have low reading comprehension? I said that's only possible if you're drinking liquid calories on top of what you're eating. A large burger with some fries is 800-900 calories and a 16 oz beer is about 200. Same goes for a 16 oz coke. If you cut out the add ons and drink water, a single burger or small steak at a bbq isn't going to kill you. I don't understand how you can be this fucking autistic.

[Anonymous No.16232518]

>>16232499
Fat fingers typed this post

[Anonymous No.16232542]

Why yall such normies. if they cant get that yall dont want to eat the first time, tell them to fuck off. its really that simple. if they get offended you can tell them you already told them that yall didnt want it.

[Anonymous No.16232855]

>>16232518
>counting calories and telling someone to not drink soda and beer makes you fat
Nice argument tard.

[Anonymous No.16233545]

>>16228906
>do OMAD
>spend your one meal of the day eating at your friends house
There is literally no downside to this. It's not that crucial. Relax.

[Anonymous No.16233602]

>>16229065
THIS
can't believe this thread is still here.

[Anonymous No.16233622]

>>16229575
> if I didn't strongly focus on my diet, I'd have never lost weight. Is everyone here just in the obese BMI territory and doesn't give a shit?

no, in fact its normal to maintain a healthy weight without 'strongly focusing' on your diet. Again, if the thought of not eating a large amount of food when offered is stressing you out this is clearly an eating disorder, you cannot control yourself

[Anonymous No.16233652]

>>16232542
>tell your friends to fuck off because you are too autistic to eat normally

[Anonymous No.16233666]

>>16232488
people would say the same about sitting around at a BBQ starving while everyone is eating

[Anonymous No.16235009]

>>16232499
>A large burger with some fries is 800-900 calories
Haha my fucking ass it is. And who is making a "small steak?"

>>16232855
Not that anon but if you'd like to have a few drinks to mellow out with everyone instead of sit in the corner during a 5 hour get together waiting for your dinner, yes, the food makes you fat. If you can control your portions, awesome. Instead, someone insisted on cooking me a full plate.

>>16233545
It's almost midnight and I'm hungry. Sucks for me, I'll eat in 20 hours. Oh well. That doesn't suck. It was sure worth my mediocre steak, velveeta mac and cheese, and something resembling stuffing.

>>16233622
You have to strongly focus if you were once fat. It's just kinda the way it works. Right now? I'm hungry. In the past I've had made some burritos. Instead, I am going to go to bed hungry and being mad at my host for not letting me decline food.

>>16233666
Only if I was starving, satan. I could have gone home at 7 PM without eating a bite and had a great time with everyone.

[Anonymous No.16235107]

>>16235009
>Haha my fucking ass it is.
How much larger is it than your average fast food burger? A quarter pounder with cheese from McDonald's is 520 calories, and a medium fries is 320 calories.
https://www.mcdonalds.com/ca/en-ca/product/quarter-pounder-with-cheese.html
https://www.mcdonalds.com/us/en-us/product/medium-french-fries.html
Sure, if your host if making some fat patties smothered in cheese with mega thick buns I can see a single burger going over 700 calories easily, but I have never- ever had someone at a bbq put my burger together for me beyond cooking the patty itself. Just don't put a ton of toppings on it to keep it manageable.
>And who is making a "small steak?"
Who is cooking 32oz ribeyes for several guests at a party? An 8oz ribeye is 660 calories, which is standard fair for serving to guests.

[Anonymous No.16235174]

>>16235107
If everyone was lining up for the grill, I honestly don't think I would have had any issue... I'd have avoided food, or made an excuse about a call. A Quarter Pounder is a lot smaller than the average grill burger, and fries are normally coming out of a frozen bag if served. Or are potato chips. 840 calories for a burger and fries is still a lot of calories for food that will leave you hungry, though.

>Who is cooking 32oz ribeyes for several guests at a party?
This was originally (as I knew it) 3 people including myself. It turned out being more like 8, but he dropped a good amount of money on me in the middle of a meat shortage when I didn't want his food. The steaks were far too nice.

I probably ate 1200 calories to "be nice," and he pushed me to eat leftover corn, pie for dessert, and still seemed mad I wouldn't try the pie. And that's without the booze. This wasn't a cheat day, today's a day I'll have to spend 2-3 days working off, and I have plans with a girl in the morning, so I'll fail at working it off. All for my friend's pushy boomer dad.

[Anonymous No.16235177]

>>16228906
weak fucking bait

[Anonymous No.16235185]

>>16235177
Not bait friendo

[Anonymous No.16235230]

>>16232494
>Diaper
Yikes, why even bother lifting

[Anonymous No.16235357]

>>16235230
Wait till you hear about the squat plugs.

[Anonymous No.16235497]

Sorry but accepting an invite to a dinner party and then refusing the food is always going to seem rude and that you thought the food looked gross. Just tell the cook about your dietary restrictions beforehand

[Anonymous No.16235513]

You belong in Reddit with that low testosterone attitude, you will be happier there.

[Anonymous No.16235516]

>>16228906
>I'm finicky about what I eat and when I eat
maybe it's time to just make eating habits something in the back of your head and make a conscious effort in incorporating fitness and exercise into your lifestyle so that you can actually enjoy a few splurges from time to time.

[Anonymous No.16235520]

>>16235357
that's for actual pros, not the average joes.

[Anonymous No.16235525]

>>16235513
Umm... Chantards aren't exactly noted for being high-test, alpha males. People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
Have you been here long?

[Anonymous No.16235553]

>>16235525
As beta as we are, redditors will always be much worse

[Anonymous No.16235564]

It's one meal. Eat it or don't go.

[Anonymous No.16235582]

>>16235553
Not really. But welcome to 4chan anyway

[Anonymous No.16235592]

>>16235582
You have to go back, faggot

[Anonymous No.16235598]

>>16235592
>>16235582
>>16235553
>>16235525
Redditors detected

[Anonymous No.16235602]

>>16228906
you sound like such a fag, being worried about getting fat because you ate one meal, just fucking eat it you loser.

[Anonymous No.16235878]

>>16229055
Communal eating has been one of the most basic of social gatherings for thousands of years. If you're the one faggot refusing to eat while everyone around you is, you'll make things awkward and ruin the mood. Social interaction often just means going along with the group. If you want to be part of the tribe, you need to be willing to make sacrifices here and there. Just eat less than 2000 fucking calories in one sitting and have a small meal before bed. OMAD is just a diet anyways, not something you should keep doing for the rest of your life. Just accept a few small discomforts here and there, or you will end up estranged from your friends. Your friends will end up wishing you were still a fat fuck, because at least you used to be fun to hang out with when you were fat. Maybe talk to a psychologist about your issues.

[Anonymous No.16235893]

>>16228906
you're probably going to have to pretend to have some kind of short-term health condition or allergy (or play up the symptoms of something you already have)

to 90% of the other posters in this thread: I pray you will one day be laid by someone other than your dad

[Anonymous No.16235924]

>>16232488
just eat and drink like a normal person you retard
you're making up problems that do not actually exist

[Anonymous No.16236539]

>>16228906
Is that a young Terry Davis?

[Anonymous No.16236543]

>>16228906
Just tell them the truth.
Which is you are on a diet.
Why is that so difficult?
You're autistic aren't you, OP?

[Anonymous No.16236645]

OP is the hugest faggot on this board confirmed

[Anonymous No.16236650]

>>16228906
I usually eat just a little bit and tell them it's enough and fine.

[Anonymous No.16236888]

The award for most unlikable bitch of the year goes to OP. This is some serious autism. Just be honest with people, and let people get offended. If you aren't willing to compromise on this and just eat a bit there, then you and that person aren't compatible. You can't please everyone all of the time, and it sounds like you can't be pleased by anyone most of the time. Guarantee you're projecting some extra offense where it likely doesn't exist, too.

[Anonymous No.16237076]

>>16235497
I'm not being invited to dinner parties. I'll let them know I'm probably not coming if it's a dinner party. People make food and expect me to want it.

>>16235516
I work out every day. I do splurge from time to time. I'd like to splurge on my schedule, not to placate someone who feels I have to eat their food because feefees.

>>16235878
Why not throw a fucking event without pushing food on people? People can feed themselves.

>>16236543
I tried this, and got told what half of the people here are saying "oh, you can sacrifice for just a day." Guess what? I sacrificed for a day, went to bed hungry, and now they've invited me over again to "sacrifice" for "just another day."

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[Anonymous No.16237914]

>>16228984
Don't go. I don't think anyone actually likes you

[Anonymous No.16237950]

>>16228984
Jesus Christ dude you are insufferable

Use your OMAD at the BBQ, thank the host, slam a gallon of water before bed to reduce the hunger and piss out the salt bloat overnight. EZ

[Anonymous No.16237969]

>>16228906
Tell them you're a fatfuck who can't control himself so you are on a strict diet so unfortunately you're not able to partake in their food without risking a fatfuck relapse. If they get offended tell them you're transfat and they're oppressing you.

[Anonymous No.16237982]

>>16228906
Tell them you don't want to eat before they start cooking the meal

[Anonymous No.16238045]

You're kind of a retarded bitch OP but people who get so upset over someone else not eating food is even more autistic, like most of the people in this thread. Really is battle of the retards in here. How about you stop hanging out with people who give so much a shit about whether you eat their food or not if it stresses you out this much? Trust me, people exist that don't give a fuck. In fact, that would involve most people. Sorry you picked shitty friends.

[Anonymous No.16239180]

>>16229575
>Is everyone here just in the obese BMI territory and doesn't give a shit?
Bro don't be obese. Problem solved

[Anonymous No.16239729]

>I don't know how he cooked it
>I don't want to be all bloated
>I'm frequently offered food, I don't want to eat it
>your fried 3000 calorie gut bomb
>these people who shove their cooking on people all the time
>eating less so I can have a few drinks (which I prefer to eating anyways)
>People are constantly offering food and shoveling food in their mouths
>Why not throw a fucking event without pushing food on people?


eating disorder, and on the spectrum

[Anonymous No.16240412]

>>16228906
it's always better to inform the cook beforehand than to refuse something. also not being a pointless burden goes a long way, i have a vegan friend who never insists that there be a vegan option when we have a cookout/whatever, but i always make sure to make something for her because she isn't an annoying bitch about it. you catch more flies with honey

[Anonymous No.16240418]

>>16228906
The best option for these things is to not go.