Lesson 2: Even though all the above is true, women are still generally not looking for meaningless sex when they use these apps. They are looking for validation and entertainment, which for them are sort of the same thing. They are looking for the thrill of being chased, they are looking to stimulate that part of their brain that wants an adventure and to be whisked away by a mysterious (and mysteriously into them, given that he's so perfect) man who is such a whirlwind of masculinity and attractiveness that he obviates the burden of their ever having to think for themselves. Even in the surprisingly rare instances that they do more than flirt and fuck around on the app, and actually go through all the trouble of meeting up with a 9/10 titanium supergod to let him fuck them, they will still feel unconsciously like they are settling. He isn't the perfect romantic adventure, he shows that he is merely human in some way, and so he reminds them that they're pathetic wine-chugging whores on a dating app on a Saturday night. He is only good for distracting from the pain, not saving them from it. In the intermittent moments where they realize this, they are just as likely to ghost even these men as they are to ghost you, uninstalling the app and complaining for another week about how they haven't had sex in ages. (Bonus lesson: Most women don't orgasm from Tinder hookups, yet they still do it. Ask yourself why that is. They literally seek entertainment, validation, and eventually basic human intimacy from these hookups, with sexual release being at least secondary, more often a rare surprise.)