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>Its my 21st birthday
>Friends want to take me someplace special, it a swanky restraunt, good food and drinks.
>They have a plan to get me drunk but i'm non alcoholic
>Tell them no several times
>Aw cmon just try it
>Every single one of them is pressuring me.
>Tell them fine and get a mint juliep
>Excuse myself from the table to go to the bathroom
>Sneak away to the door near the chefs kitchen
>Catch the waitress who took my order and ask if she can make it virgin
>"Yeah sure, no problem"
>Go back to my seat and chat with friends
>Drinks arrive with the whole mariachi birthday crew
>Everybody gets glasses
>In loudest voice possible, the fucking waitress gives me my drink
>"VIRGIN MINT JULIEP FOR THE BIRTHDAY BOY"
>I get a fucking sippy cup with a curly straw
>"HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANON"

>> No.8208989

Pressuring people to drink is pretty awful. Your friends are assholes especially if Alcoholism runs in your family.

>> No.8208995

>>8208983
I don't have a problem with drinking, and indulge on special occasions. I know everyone has a reason to avoid it, but would it have been that big of a deal to just have one drink? Idk

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>>8208983
>i'm non alcoholic

>> No.8209005

>>8208995
He might have a family member who was a drunk, he could have been abused by an alcoholic, he could have drank while younger and had a really bad experience.

I love alcohol, but no one should be forced to drink.

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>>8208998
>You're a special snowflake for nopt putting poison in your body.

Okay then.

>> No.8209007 [DELETED] 

>>8208983
Worst thread on /ck/ at the moment. Off yourself.

>> No.8209011

>>8209005
Luckily I'm none of those. I just don't like alcohol. Had a tiny bit of it once didn't care for it, and last thing I ever want is a hangover.

>> No.8209014

>>8209011
So you're a babby who earned the sippy cup lmaoo

>> No.8209016

>>8208998
>>8209007
>>8209014
>t. ops douchbag friends

>> No.8209022

>>8209014
Hey, thats not very nice.

>> No.8209024

>>8208983
lordy. i avoid alcohol because i have a family history of alcaholism on both sides and im already unhealthy enough.

i feel for you op.

>> No.8209036

Jesus that sucks OP. Nobody should ever have a bad 21st, it's one of your most memorable birthdays due to it being the literal jump to adult hood.

I got lucky and got the chance to invite all my friends from around the world I met online to come hang in Las Vegas for a weekend at the Paris hotel.

Cost me $3000 in expenses but was worth it.

>> No.8209044

>>8209016
Middle quote, I don't give a shit about whether OP drinks or not, but that story is complete bullshit. No waitress would ever bring shit in a sippy cup unless they were looking to get fired. And even if it was true, it's still a shit and boring story, and we already have a "bad experiences at restaurants greentexts" thread where this should have gone. The thread is just bait for alcohol fags to shitpost in. Completely worthless.

>> No.8209206
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>out with my room mate and an irish friend who is visiting him (his friend, not mine)
>join them for a few drinks
>not really feeling it, stay tipsy but feel like ill throw up if i drink any more
>irish dude keeps pressuring me to drink more
>just say i wanna take it easy tonight and just enjoy my drinks
>NAH DUDE CMON YOURE NOT ENJOYING YOURSELF GET DRUNK
>tell him i was enjoying myself until he started pressuring me
>end up just walking home on my own

While I understood it was kinda my fault for tagging on their huge drinking night expecting to have some casual drinks and the odd shot or two, it was fucking annoying and obnoxious

>> No.8209297

Something extremely similar happened to me...

>actively avoid alcohol my whole life because alcoholism runs in my family
>no one gives a fuck, but obvs we're all still too young to drink anyway
>move to the states
>start dating guy
>''dude it's your 21st birthday. just one drink to say you did.''
>....fine. just one drink, right?
>turns out that's all it takes

I'm managing it fine now. Always been as responsible as possible since I lost the first battle. Ironically enough, I ended up with a DUI on my 26th birthday last year because my mom got drunk and reported me as a drunk driver to the cops. Best friends and family ever.

Tl;Dr- OP, I feel your pain. Get rid of those kinds of people.

>> No.8209305

>>8209297
I should add that I had been dating that dude long enough to where he knew I was actively avoid it, and why. I also said 'no' several times.

>> No.8209308

>>8208983

have a drink you fucking pussy.

what an asshole...

>> No.8209309

Jesus OP, find some better friends and a better restaurant

>> No.8209326

>>8209297
It would've happened no matter what.
Drinking is universal. You wouldn't be able to go anywhere in the world and hang out with people and avoid drinking without getting a lot of weird fuckin looks, until you're about 50 and people start doing all that weird diet shit because they're old as balls and nobody cares anymore.

Just don't be a little bitch. I was drinking a fifth a day for nearly 3 years straight until it really started to fuck with my health and life, and I just cut that shit back. Get a grip on yourself.

>> No.8209376

>>8209326
>It would've happened no matter what.
I never said I would have lived an alcohol-free life if he hadn't pressured me that ONE time. I'm just saying that if I was going to fall off the wagon, I would have liked for it to have been on my own terms, and not pressured by someone claiming to care about me because ''hurr durr its ur birfffddaeeee''.

>Get a grip on yourself.
>''I'm managing it fine now. Always been as responsible as possible since I lost the first battle.''->>8209297

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>>8209305
Wow, he raped you. Completely his fault, nothing you could do. #yesallmen #imwithher

>> No.8209749

>>8208983
What a shitty server.

>> No.8209771

>>8208983
how do u get ur 21st bday id if it comes 3-4 weeks in the mail. ny ids say under 21 on them making u buy a new one. is that the same in ur state.

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>>8209326
>Drinking is universal. You wouldn't be able to go anywhere in the world and hang out with people and avoid drinking without getting a lot of weird fuckin looks,

Sure thing, kid.

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>>8209809
>actually thinking muslim """culture""" is worth acknowledging in any way, much less actually experiencing

>> No.8210125

>>8209735
get your head out of your ass

>> No.8211095

>>8210125
At least I've never had a dick in my ass.

>> No.8211324

>>8208983
Sucks to hear man
I hate forced or awkward situations on my birthday, it can ruin the whole day

>> No.8211335

>many alcoholics in the family
>drink with friends like any average person and restrain myself when I should like any sensible adult
wew that was difficult!

>> No.8211343

>>8209809
Do you really think they don't drink alcohol at all? Maybe a few of them...

>> No.8211350

>>8208995
Alcohol smells and tastes rancid. Nobody needs a further excuse just because you force your brain to gloss over the smell/taste just to make you stop feeling pain.

>> No.8211423

>>8210125
Says the person blaming someone else for their choices.

>> No.8211591

>>8209809
Between the call of duty (haram), murder (haram), smoking (haram), drug use (haram), rape (haram), extra marital sex (haram) and war crimes (haram) you can bet your ignorant mongoloid ass that they'll be drinking as well.

>> No.8211726

>>8211350
Damn anon I hit a nerve? Who drinks it like that? The way alcohol affects you entirely depends on your mood and situation when drinking it.

Also, there is mixed drinks that you can't taste the liquor anymore. Just have one of those you pussy. Kys faggot