/ck/ - Food & Cooking

>>14749634
My partner, my gay husband, sexually abused our dog. It died of it's injuries.

at first i wouldn't say anything but after 6 years i will just say 'maybe cook it less next time' 'more seasoning' etc. they still get autistic if you say you dont like it/it's bad.

my gf used to underseason everything and didnt think it was bad cos she liked it.

yeah u been eating steamed chicken and veg for 10 years with no salt and pepper you dunno what tastes good

at least she admits im a better cook than she is

>>14749653
>yeah u been eating steamed chicken and veg for 10 years
is she /fit/

>>14749643
my apologies anon

>>14749665
no, she honestly thinks it tastes good

>>14749634
I usually just eat it. I don’t really offer advice unless asked about it.

i wish my partner would try cooking more. thanks to the hospitality fucking apocalypse this year, my bar is shut so i've had a lot of free time to play around with new/weird ingredients. i'm not the best, but i think i'm pretty ok. at least i'm trying! 5 years and i just want him to try and make a cool thing too i dunno anons i love him so much

>>14749634
We laugh when either of us makes bad food. Neither of us are great cooks, though I cook more often and have been doing it longer than him. We laugh at just about everything though. We are old enough and have enough experience at life to just roll with stuff and manage not to be offended. Most of the time we can can say 'nope, never again' or we figure out how to fix it next time.

>>14749786
>5 years
>Partner
>Not married
Are you a fag or just an idiot?

>>14749634
Every once in a while my Ex would try to cook a giant meal consisting of like 6 different things or a dish that was way too complicated for her to try to make up for me doing practically all of the cooking for us as and our friends. She would always deliver a very poor quality meal and then cry after she tasted it even though I would tell her it’s good and how much I appreciated her cooking. One time she made got a little drunk and made sloppy joes from scratch and they where hands down the best sloppy joes I have ever had my life. She tried several times afterward but they weren’t as good. I think the biggest mistake I made was breaking my biggest issue with each thing she made instead of just picking the worst thing she made and offering a one piece of advice so they don’t get overwhelmed the next time they cook.

TLDR: As long as it’s edible say it’s good and if they ask for advice keep it short and simple

>>14749838
literally a fag. also im freshly 24 why the fuck would i wanna get 'married-married' now?

I just brought up how bad his cooking was when he criticised my cooking

>>14749896
>freshly 24
beginning of the end anon.

I've been with the same lady for over 13 years. She used to cook for me with recipes that came from my family then she became a bigger weeb fag and started cooking "interesting" meals that she wouldn't even eat that would just rot in the fridge when she would come home and eat leftover fast food from lunch at work.

>>14749990
as if im not aware
i hope i die soon lmfao

I haven't even kissed a girl since I was 14. It's been over a decade since I've held hands with someone. I still dream about her even though she's stationed with her husband in nippon and even though she quite frankly has aged like milk and wasn't very pretty even back then.

my gf is great at cooking but one time she oversalted this pasta like way too fucking much and that was the only thing i told her i couldn't eat.

holy shit this thread

>>14749634
I'm an oldfag with a wife and kids. My wife is a decent cook, she knows how to make alot of meals and other like side dish recipes. The only thing she does that i dont like is that she over salts certain things like gravy and sauces. I worked in restaurants throughout college so I'm a decent cook, I make alot of stir frys and I'm great with normal American meals. So we compliment and work with each other well when we are cooking together. Our oldest daughter is a vegan lesbian, and honestly a really good cook. I never thought some tofu mushroom bullshit would taste like a good taco, but our little girl pulls it off. I'm actually learning stuff when she cooks.

>>14749634
>tfw gf is great at cooking weird foreign shit I hate and terrible at cooking basic western cuisine like roasted vegetables / steak / etc

>>14749634
>tfw gf can't cook and will avoid it at all cost
>has only cooked me 3 meals in our entire 5 year relationship

What sucks is you can't force someone to be good at it, and it's either you get it or you don't. Even though it's sort of an essential skill.

>>14749634
I'm a filthy race mixer so food/cooking is interesting in our house. We have to go to two different markets/grocers when we need shit. We go to a no-name store for food I cook or a wholesale, but we go to an asian market for for her food/cooking supplies.

My wife makes bibimbap, miso soup, kimchi stews, "Sangyeoposal (it's strips of beef w/ bulgogi)", ddukbokki, and spicy rice cakes (pic related). Her food is pretty good, I can use autism sticks now pretty well. When she cooks the whole house reeks of kimchi though which is overwhelming as fuck.

I'm a pretty simple chef. Lemon chicken and rice was the last meal I made. She seems to like my cooking she always comments on how great it is but she's just winding me up surely. I love making stews and hearty food.

>>14749634
I cook, he doesn't. He knows nothing about cooking and gets mad when I make a steak and I don't use a nonstick pan because it makes the house too smokey. I tell him a nonstick pan is bad for steak, it's better to use a heated cast iron, sear it on the top of the stove and finish in the oven for two minutes a side, adding butter at the end to finish it as it rests. He says it's dumb to cook steak like that. Insists that prime, dry aged ribeye steaks need to be marinated in italian dressing or dale's first. (I salt and pepper them as they come to room temp 30 minutes to cooking instead) Doesn't understand why we should let a steak rest before tearing into it. When he cooks a steak it doesn't sear and it's always over done in the middle. I want our steaks to be medium rare, not medium well. He orders medium rare at restaurants. I don't say a word, because he will sperg out on me. He likes salt. A LOT OF SALT. He even keeps salt by his desk and takes salt shots from it and swigs soy sauce. He doesn't like anything that isn't meat and potatoes. He doesn't try anything before he salts it. He even salts pepperoni pizza. I want a divorce.

>>14750764
i respect the shit out of you

>>14750764
So you made the decision to marry an idiot, as if there weren’t signs before and you’ve had enough with the steak. newfags you guys are dumb as fuck.

>>14750760
Tell me How yo get Korean gf. I'm above decent in the kitchen and can help her piss off her parents(charmingly). And no I don't need her to look like a Kpop star

>>14750764
Yeah skip the divorce, you should Gone Girl him.

>>14750998
>Tell me How yo get Korean gf.

Ask the Japanese for advice. They got tons of Korean GFs during Dubaya Dubaya Two.

>>14749634
Once in a blue moon she will try and make some fancy autistic shit in attempt to be nice (I think it’s mostly just because she saw it on tiktok) And it’s almost always over seasoned

I’ve complained like once or twice like an idiot but never again because it’s a huge shitshow

Otherwise i do like 95% of the cooking.

God my dad was lucky he grew up in a generation where women were expected to cook for you all the time, even 50% would be nice, this shit is tiresome.

i dont have a gf

>>14750998
Mine is the literal meme: Parents run a family business, everyone in their family works there. I get some kind of weird respect because I'm the oldest child's husbando. Super loyal but kind of fucking batshit sometimes. She look ten years younger than she actually is.

I don't use tinder or online bullshit I just talk to women in public and that's how I met her.

I was waiting in line to get coffee and she was behind me in a pretty big line, we chatted for five minutes, I said something along the lines of "I don't really know anyone around here, do you want to grab a coffee and chat?" And she instantly agreed and gave me her phone number. She had to go to work so we ended up meeting up that night. Rest is history and no I am definitely not Chad.

Best advice I could give you is just put yourself in situations that give you an opportunity to meet people. Don't expect to meet a decent woman online.

>>14749634
I've been with my wife for 10 years now. We met in high school, and I got her pregnant. She is and always has been a lazy person and a shit cook. I wouldn't even mind eating shit food if she at least made it on time. But she rarely did.

We'd get into screaming arguments constantly about how lazy and worthless she was. I felt like an asshole for it, but goddamn she was a real piece of work. The only reason I dealt with all this was for the kids, and also because the sex is great.

But one night, I got fed up. Not only did she get drunk, neglect the kids, and made me top Ramen for dinner, but she decided to give me attitude too. She was being real fucking bitchy. So I told my grandparents to keep an eye on the kids and told my wife we were going to go out and have dinner together. I drove maybe 3 blocks to a quiet area (we live in Oregon, it's not hard to find a quiet field) and I got out of the car, went around like I was going to open her door for her and let her out, and I just beat the shit out of her while she was still seatbelted. After a few punches, I asked her if she wanted to go back to her parents. She started screaming and yelling and said yes, so I beat the shit out of her again. Then I asked her what she wanted to do. She finally got smart and said she wanted to go home. So I took her home and dared her to start trouble. I even handed her my cellphone and dialed her mom's number on the drive home. I made her talk to her mom, while daring her to fucking say something.

Before that incident, I had never laid a hand on her. But I had always threatened it. I told her "one of these days, if you don't straighten up, I'm going to lay hands on you."

All my meals have been on time, and she just recently tried to make a meatloaf. It was mediocre, but I was just thrilled that she tried.

Do with this information what you will.

>>14751115
nice pasta , i member

never had a partner that knew how to cook , but i dont care . I dont really trust women with food

>>14751081
Okay decent advice. Now what in the sam hell is going on with this bulgogi?

>>14749643
cant beat the cock.

>>14751146
It's skewered and rotisserie roasted pretty sure. Never tried it that way. Usually when we go out for Korean and get bulgogi we prep it ourselves using that stove on the table. My favorite thing she cooks is Japchae

Fuck I want sundubu jigae now

Whilst my current gf is an amazing baker and makes probably the second best pizza I've ever had, my last one could barely use a microwave. Luckily she pretty self-aware so I took care of most of our meals.

>>14749634
I've long accepted that women can't cook or do much of anything for themselves so I always cook.

>>14750040
Im sorry :(

>>14751115
Based AF

>>14751222
this, women cant cook

>>14749820
>we figure out how to fix it next time
This.

I wish she would be pleased enough by what she cooks so that she didn't need me to be supportive to not feel offended, though. I wish she wouldn't take so personally the fact that we have different tastes. I just can't find good what I find bad.

>>14750764
Fucking hell anon.

>>14751006
That one has the right idea.

>>14750760
Sangyeoposal is not beef as the name refers to the pork belly typically used. That being said, whatevs enjoy your meal.

Nowadays I'm lazy as fuck and mix chopped garlic, chopped jalapeno, doenjang, and chopped meat (usually bacon or even spam) together so I can just spoon it into lettuce.

>>14750014
The solution to that is to take them to work yourself, throw it out, and wash the containers. If you can establish a pattern of living off cash, nobody has to know when you get a super burrito or some random Nepalese dish. Just patent some shit like
>I don’t complain about free meals
then when one is actually decent, give effusive positive feedback, to try to start a positive feedback loop, which women are suckers for.

>>14749896
>im freshly 24 why the fuck would i wanna get 'married-married' now?
I got married at 28 and my wife was 24. Mid-20's is a good time to get married if you've been in a relationship for several years. Plus the tax break is nice.

I love cooking for others but my partner would rather eat fast food

>>14750716
you raised her well congrats anon

>>14751497
Get them to agree to once a week or something. The biggest problem with homecooking is people understanding how it affects them. Or just salt the shit out of their portion and add butter or oil.

>>14749634
My wife cooks for me. The vast majority of what she cooks is brilliant. If there is a problem I just let her know in a kind constructive way. So instead of "yuck this has way too much salt, disgusting" I will just mention how it is quite salty and to be aware of that next time. She is based and does not take things like that personally so maybe I am lucky.

>>14750716
>Our oldest daughter is a vegan lesbian
Huh?

>>14750716
>hmm /ck/ seems to be too easy going and full of actual conversation that's not about faggots
>let's false flag some faggotry
you retards just can't help yourselves

I do the majority of the cooking, but my wife isn't a bad cook. The only funny thing about her is that she autistically follows recipes and refuses to deviate unless it's not adding a vegetable or something that she doesn't like, rather than seasoning to taste. She also can't cook without a recipe, or rather refuses it. I find it amusing, but she never produces shitty meals, so I can't complain much.

My sister-in-law, however, is indeed a shitty cook. Sucks for my brother. When they invite us over for dinner, it's always some mix of frozen veggies and boiled chicken, lightly salted. They don't even have decent utensils to cook with, just shitty nylon ones. SIL's favorite fish is tilapia, and refuses to try anything else. She's from Nebraska, while my brother and I, along with my wife, are from the Gulf Coast, so we've grown up with a pretty diverse bit of seafood that SIL refuses to try or let my brother cook.

>>14751529
So she's a normal well-adjusted human being? Must be nice

>>14749643
Thats what you get for trusting a fag

>>14751529
sounds like my mom

>>14750998
I have a viet wife. Met her in college, started as a study buddy, started hanging out, started dating etc.

Shit is a literal meme: she told me she was really impressed when she came over to my apartment and saw my textbooks/notes open. She liked that I was a hard worker and serious student.

It turns out that other than some minor differences in culture, we have similar values and relationship goals. She wanted marriage, kids, etc. she was the first girl I dated (the rest where white) who didn’t want kids when she was 37 (lol) if at all. She’s 94 lbs and looks 19 despite being 27.

>>14751571
Fuck off you race traitor dipshit. No shit she wants to reproduce her interior genes with the best option she can sink her teeth into. You think a 94 pound gook is gonna produce anything but bug people?

>>14751579
Based.
>>14751571
Cringe.

>>14751560
>he's only mad because it was his turn...

>>14751115
nice to see this pasta around again

>>14751579
>>14751596
Roastie is getting toastie.

>>14749634
I'm going to preface this by saying the key to any good relationship is open and honest communication. If you can't have that then your foundation is kind of sandy.

To answer your question directly, my spouse and I usually cook together, but I'm the more experienced cook so he usually looks to me for direction and I cook more often. We are pretty upfront about when things are working or not and how to change things/what to add. I'm pretty self-critical so I will bring things to him and ask after tasting if x is lacking or if it needs more y, but I try to let him formulate his own opinion before coaching him into thinking that something is off, as starting off with criticism kind of plants the idea that something is off in their brains when it might taste good to them otherwise.

If you're dealing with someone sensitive to criticism, you can just say something like "this has too much y for me" or "I probably wouldn't have done x" as taste is anything but objective and it could taste good to them for all you know.

>>14749634
>your partner

Yeah I cook for my man, but he has like 95% of the same taste as me, so usually if I fuck up the food I can already tell myself and warn him first. There's a few things I make for myself that he doesn't like in the first place, like collard chips, and when I make them he complains that the house smells like shit. Other than that it's pretty much smooth sailing.

this board is either filled with faggots or women.

>>14751743
Not so surprising that there's a lot of women on the cooking board. Just like how /cgl/ is almost exclusively women.

>>14751743
No shit dumbass it's a food and cooking board. All the straight men are in the Taco Bell and alcohol threads.

Yes, she cooks for me.
We are slowly working through her years of her mother's cooking, crap pinterest recipes, meme spice blends to create flavor, etc.
If there is more than one cooking pot involved, she has great trouble starting the dishes in the right order, so the meat is done first, and sits getting cold for 45 minutes while the vegetables are cooking.

Her soup, on the other hand, is amazing. She only started making soups after seeing a Julia Child intro to potato leek soup last year, and the lightbulb switched on - "that's it? imma try." I have to help her taste to adjust final seasoning, but at least she recognizes that it's not quite there and needs adjusting... just doesn't recognize what is missing or how much.

When something doesn't taste right, I ask her what's in it/what seasoning is this. She gets pissy because she figured out that's a code phrase for "this sucks, what did you do wrong?", but we at least try to talk it through, and then make progress, and I eat it anyway.

It's dangerous to marry someone half your age and expect them to cook for you.

>>14749896
>married-married
Gay marriage isnt marriage

>>14751747
I'm straight :(

This past girlfriend I had made really good breakfast. I swear she always knew how to season those hashbrowns just right.

>>14750764
>keeps salt by his desk and takes salt shots from it and swigs soy sauce
YIKES

>>14751115
Your a fucking parasite... You Psycho

>>14749634
>"How did you make this?"
>"Oh, I followed this recipe. It has onion, vinegar, these spices, blah blah blah."
>"Ok. I don't like vinegar that much. Sorry."

>"How did you make this?"
>"I marinated it and blah blah blah"
>"I think it's a little undercooked."

Don't blame your partner themselves, always blame the recipe, ingredients, or cooking method - hell, blame your oven/stove. The moment you lash out emotionally, you lose.

If they're emotionally mature, they can take it. If they can't, dump them because an inability to take criticism is a sign of distrust.

>>14751747
What is it like being a woman on a site where half the post responses begin with
>ur a faget

>>14751781
welcome newfag

>>14751813
Yes.

>>14751746
pls bein londonon

>>14751828
Oh sorry, Mr. Faggot, >>14751813 was meant for >>14751746

>>14751746
>Not so surprising that there's a lot of women on the cooking board. Just like how /cgl/ is almost exclusively women.

"Women".

>>14751859
>>14751872
>>14751879
I'm a married man, m8s. Still not hard to see why women would gravitate to the cooking board. My wife's pinterest is almost entirely recipes.

i do the cooking, have done for years.

he's a great cook, mf just has 0 time for it and i'm a fucking language teacher so i actually can get home from work and start a meal to have it done by a reasonable time

we cook together a little bit, and he helps with things when he can. 0 complaints really, other than i'm screwed if i'm sick because i know he cannot fry an egg for shit and all i want when i'm sick is chilli oil rice noodles with fried eggs lmao

We both really enjoy cooking. We have different work schedules, so obviously if I'm not getting home until 8pm, he's probably gonna have the dinner done. Realistically, he makes more meals but we both like being in the kitchen.

We have similar tastes. Only difference is that he bakes more while I grill more. When one of us cooks a new thing, we talk about how we would change it for next time, if we decide to cook it again at all. It's nice.

>>14749634
ex gf 1 was a shit cook, so I did the cooking. no apologies, no regrets
ex gf 2 was creative and had good skills and taste. would sometimes come up with weird combinations, some good, some not so much. no problem sharing a kitchen with her.
ex gf 3 was /fit/, so no fats, lots of grilled chicken breast, egg white scramble, protein shakes and salads. kinda bland, I'd usually make something else for myself

>>14752767
>no fats
Was she over 40 years old?

>>14749643
transformfags are the worst

>>14749634
I’m a professional cook and my lady is actually a better cook than me. Better palette, better knowledge of flavors and ingredients and cuisines, and more interest in it. We do almost all the cooking together but I’m basically her prep cook 90% of the time. I have better knife skills and am quicker around the kitchen. I rue the day she decides to start doing it professionally because she’ll rapidly outpace me if she develops better knife and time management skills.

>>14749634
My gf of 3 years is unemployed and she can't cook for shit. She actually can't do anything right. She even sucks at cleaning.
I tend to be passive agressive about it, I even started making diner despite working all day and being the bread maker. I acctually want her to feel guilty so i can sexually and morally degrade her.

>>14749653
>my gf used to underseason everything and didnt think it was bad cos she liked it.
this is me. my dad grew me on low salt diet so i underseasoned stuff tastes normal to me

>>14752834
If she does literally nothing why are you even with her

>>14752855
so i can sexually abuse her.
she's basically my personal whore

>>14752860
Yeah except you have to feed and presumably house her and give her attention. A hooker would be cheaper.

>>14752822
How do I find this gf bros

>>14752873
Instagram

>>14752834
This is fucking hot
t. woman

>>14752873
I dunno mate I got lucky and worked with her briefly (she’s a bartender). She’s even crazier about sourcing than me too and has pushed me to cook and source even more locally and seasonally than I already did.

>>14749634
I've been cooking all my life, so I've never dated a girl that's been a better cook than me. I love cooking so I don't mind, I just want a girl that would clean up after dinner and take care of other chores. I'm more than happy to cook, though.

>>14752900
She sound so comfy

>>14751497
what the fuck?

>>14752900
>wife's mom is vegan and buys all organic food
>wife isn't vegan but convinces her mom to send her money so she can buy all organic food too
>grass fed steaks, full fat amish milk, and fancy eggs and butter every week all on a vegan's dime
>food budget is astronomical, probably higher than the rent even though we dont make that much money, and none of it comes out of my paycheck
LUCK GANG

>>14752918
Yeah man she’s great, but also is insane and has v expensive taste. Great taste in music, film, fashion, etc tho.

>>14752942
All women are insane, at least you found a smart one with good taste

>>14752942
Dammit i hate you

>>14751493
i guess i dont believe in paper marriage if that makes sense. hes my fuckin husband if i wanna call him my cute little tan husband!
if shit ever hits the fan hard i dont wanna have either of us deal with the financial burdens that come with a divorce.

>>14751753#
ooo straightie big mad. i guess if it makes you feel better hes a transman so were techincally straight since im a femoid. or lesbian or whatever, dont care

>>14749634
I wont let anyone else cook for me. I dont even eat out. t autist.

>>14752868
You pathetic idiot
I can't degrade, humiliate and abuse a whore on a daily basis but my gf I can. It's a long training and the bitch most certainly disliked it in the beginning. Now she's hooked.

Just tell them what I think went wrong in a non violent way. If they can't deal with that better think about that relationship

My gf isnt too interested in cooking, so it's pretty boring meals for me. Usually chicken or pork chops with some frozen vegetables and rice. I'd say thats the most common meal. She also makes a lot of boxed shit. Every once in awhile she'll try something new. We have money though, so we eat out 2-4 times a week. She's a really good baker though. With that, she gets experimental.

>>14753153
>call me pathetic
>literally lives with a retarded whore just so he can get a nut
Ok coomer

>>14753194
Stay mad incel lmao

>>14753194
You’ve clearly never dealt with a woman intimately in your life anon. Pretty embarrassing post outing yourself as an incel.

>>14753201
Stay based training chad. No woman is perfect but if you can train and mold them into something you find acceptable then that’s about as good as you can ask for.

>>14753216
Only women and redditors call people incel. I dont believe you actually have a gf, you're just fapping to your sadomasochistic daddy dom fantasies. Enjoy your hand lol

>>14749634
My wife cooks for me and sometimes, not often but sometimes, it doesn't go over too well. I just say, "I'm sorry, but I don't like it," and say why in that case. She never gets angry and usually agrees that she made some kind of mistake and we laugh it off.

>>14749820
I don't think it's age, I think it's maturity and a sense of humor, because I have lived with older roommates and if I don't like their cooking they are always offended af.

>>14749634

How the fuck is that ramen?

>>14749838
>marrying someone
>opening yourself up to having to pay alimony for the rest of your life
why would anybody be stupid enough to do this? I don't get it

My gf and I lived with one another for a year and we tried to split the cooking duties or just make something together. We both offered criticisms and suggestions on how to improve pretty much everything we cooked. We’ve been together a while so it’s easy to say stuff without getting butthurt. That being said there were a few times that I would offer suggestions and my gf got kind of pissed that I didn’t first just show my appreciation for the cooking which is fair

We're usually decent cooks but sometimes it will go not just a little wrong but horrendously wrong. Those are always the most fun, and while he's a bit mortified, I always find it funny. Then together we figure out ways to salvage the dish as much as possible.

>>14751615
kek

>>14751739
excellent trolling attempt, got me off-guard

>>14753387
No alimony in Texas or Washington

my ex cut some potatoes for frying and left em in the water for like 3 hours. They soaked up the water and then she put em in the fryer.
Guess what happened next.

>>14753577
You bought a new kitchen?

>>14749643

Fucking gays

>>14753584
i'm still cleaning the oil which erupted as soon as the potatoes touched it.

>>14749634
Im almost always the one cooking, and my last gf would autistically criticize everything on the spot, but was too lazy to ever cook herself

>>14749634
Where the fuck are the actual noodles

>>14749634
My wife and I both cook, but I'm the better cook and we both know it. She has her staple dishes she always makes (the exact same way) and she can look up and cook new recipes, but she hasn't yet (and may never) learn to innovate on the spot. The "spirit" of cooking isn't for her; it boggles her that I can look in the pantry, look in the fridge, pull out some seasonings, and whip up something new and delicious.

She cooks good stuff, but it's always from a recipe and rarely an innovation. Still, she makes delicious baked goods and her pies and cobblers are fucking phenomenal so we both have our specialties.

>>14753692
Oh, and she cannot internalize how much heat to use, she always cooks everything at too high a heat and burns it because she refuses to mise en place even though she knows she can't cut quickly or manage a pan while she cuts.

Gf and I both live in our parents' houses while we save up enough money to move, since we both recently graduated and started full time jobs. A decent bit of our time together is spent cooking because we enjoy doing it together and joking around, it's a fun experience and we like to shit around alot. We often cook dinner or weekend lunches for my family just for fun
That being said she's much better at cooking in every aspect than me except meat, and I'm pretty shit at cooking by /ck/ standards anyway. I'm pretty much her prep cook and kitchen jester while she does most of the hard work kek.
Wife material gf, she would absolutely cook all my dinners if we moved in together since I make considerably more money and work longer hours

>>14753249
Just because your life is shit doesn't mean everyone else's is.

>>14749634
I do the cooking, she does the cleaning and occasionally baking. She's not a terrible cook but lacks patience and preferably would just throw everything into one pot and be done with it, which obviously doesn't work for all the dishes

Been with my bf for almost 7 years. I'm 26 and he's 29. I've always been the one who cooks more. He has some things he does well- pan fried burgers and brats/dogs, frito pie, sloppy joes, tacos, frozen stuff. I'm the one that cooks the "real" dinners that require more skill and finesse. I am also the one that makes breakfast, usually. I don't mind him not cooking so much since I use the "I cooked, you clean" argument and I FUCKING HATE dishes. I like to feel like a chef and genuinely have fun cooking but cleaning up makes me feel like a slave

I can't stand it when a girl wants to cook for me or expects to share our meals/cooking duties. I'd love to find someone that just wants to go eat out most of the time or take care of our meals on our own when we're hungry.

My corona boo was like this, which was great, but we didn't last when she had to get back to work and I didn't.