/ck/ - Food & Cooking

>>13046831
If you aren't happy by yourself, you're not gonna be happy with someone else

I've been alone for 3 days. Day 1 consisted of Gin, Wine, and a few pieces of cheese. Day 2 was too much coffee, serious bout of anxiety, then cabbage and bacon, then some fried eggs later on. Day 3 was tea, water, cabbage and bacon.

>>13046840
based

>>13046840
This is the kind of thing that autists at /fit/ go wild over. Wanting some company isn't a sign of being unhappy. Loneliness wears on you. Putting it in people's heads that they have to be 100% happy and content when by themselves is disingenuous and harmful. Humans are social creatures. It's okay to want someone to lean on in an intimate way.

>>13046831
I'm not single, and that's how I prefer to eat most of the time. You get fat if you don't take charge of your own nourishment.

>>13046840
Not everyone is wired like a bear. Some can only exist in a state of clingy codependence.

>>13046859
Of course, but making a sad fuck thread about it on 4chan isn't a step to making anything any better. Also, moping does not attract anyone.

If you want a quality partner, you need to also be a quality partner.

>>13046859
this is why hookers exist

>>13046859
The idea is more that if you can't stand your own company, you have deeper issues going on that are going to make your relationships dysfunctional, which is probably why you're alone in the first place.

>>13046840
>t. coping incel

>>13046859
I have never felt loneliness or boredom in my life.

>>13046895
Nah, I've just been dating a lot the last couple of years and co-dependency is not an attractive quality.

>>13046840
Utter bullshit. Literally a platitude

>>13046908
Wanting a relationship doesnt make you co-dependent. Theres no one to even be dependent on.

>>13046917
>>13046918
>making a thread about how lonely you are
>not a codependent retard
pick one

>>13046923
Im married dickhead, and I didnt make the thread. Im speaking from experience, youre deflecting because of your admitted shit dating abilities.

Why have you been dating "a lot" in the past couple years if youre such an island faggot

>>13046938
You can want a partner without being a whiny little faggot about it.

>>13046954
Theres that cope again. Have fun being alone

>>13046966
How has telling OP that being a mopey sad-sack isn't attractive turned into me coping? Coping with what?

>>13046966
I'm not a straight guy and not fat, so I'm only alone when I want to be. What that Anon says is true. You can't pour from an empty tankard.

It's paradox, having a gf. When you don't have one, you yearn for one so badly that it begins to eat away at you. But once you finally obtain one, you realize it's not as great as you thought it would be and might even prefer to be single again. Women just fucking suck and are too high maintenance. Simple as.

>>13046906
we call that autism, not that there's anything wrong with that

>>13047039
It's like that with everyone. Solitude is nice if you have hobbies besides dating. It's best to find someone who is also whole on their own and won't try to guilt you into dropping everything to babysit them.

>>13047001
GRIDs vector

>>13047165
Does using antiquated terminology make you feel like a big boi?

>>13046874
if you were conditioned to be clingy you have the power to change it

>>13046840
based stoic poster

>>13046844
do we live just to suffer?

>make chicken soup
>remember how my mother used to make it when I was sick
>no one to share my soup with

This kind of thing.

haha oh boy i sure do love cooking for other people so they can tell me whats wrong with it even though they have no idea what it's supposed to be like

>>13047399

https://www.chipotle.com/ingredients/bayleaf.html

>>13047399
Kek

>>13047439
Yes, retard, we know.