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I don't know if this is the right board to be talking about this, but I have recently started dating a girl that has an eating disorder (anorexia I think but not sure since she doesn't like to talk about it) and I'm pretty worried about her. I was wondering what are some things that I need to know about it, if there's anything I can do to help, and what's the best way to deal with it.

>> No.11617349

>>11617336
There is nothing you can do, it is up to her, just do not enable her.


The fact she does not like to talk about suggests she does not want to change yet.

>> No.11617350

>>11617336
Take it to the vet... I mean shrink.

>> No.11617358

>>11617336
Start feeding her really fatty foods. Mix Olive oil into her drinks. Or just don't be shit and sit down and communicate with your lover

>> No.11617396

Don't try to fix other people's mental health issues.

Offer support. Be there for them. Support them when they decide to take steps to recover. Express any concerns you have.

But don't think you can personally fix someone else. They need to do that, you'll do more harm than good playing hero.

>> No.11617398

She'll probably have a lot of shame around food, so don't be surprised if she's evasive when you ask what she wants to eat, touchy around portions sizes, etc.

Best bet is to talk to her and find out what she'd like you to do, but those sort of behaviours are common.

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11617407

>>11617336

Get the FUCK out. NOW.

>>11617350

Fucking kek, well played sir.

>> No.11617408

Not sure how helpful those guys are gonna be, but you could also try asking >>>/fit/

>> No.11617427

>>11617336
Drop hints that she is fat all the time.

>> No.11617457

>>11617336
Don't pound her too hard, she either has or will get brittle bones.

>> No.11617461

>>11617336
go to /adv/ you stupid cunt

>> No.11617462

>>11617408
It will be more or less the same, 4chan/channel is probably the worst place possible for such a question.

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11617784

>>11617336
doot doot
>>11617457
lol

>> No.11617788

>>11617358
hello roastie. blaming all of womens problems on men again I see

>> No.11617793

>>11617408
Why the fuck would /fit/ know anything about this. If anything, ask /fa/; I’m pretty sure they idolize anorexia though.

Also: >>11617462

>> No.11617797

>>11617793
Dunno, they might have some arguments for getting those gainz.

>> No.11617880

>>11617788
Nothing about OP or that anon’s post specify men, control your insecurity

>> No.11617884

Is there a problem if she's anorexic? At least it's not the wasteful bulemia.

>tfw no thin anorexic qt

>> No.11617911

>>11617336
i’m anorexic and suffered with binge eating disorder and bullimia
leave her the fuck alone. i can already tell you harass her about it just by you saying she doesn’t like to talk about it. everyone grows out of it given enough time. if it bothers you, leave her. if you genuinely care about her, shut the fuck up. it just makes her brood on the disorder even more and makes it more extreme
i’m male btw

>> No.11617919

ITT fatties and their enablers

there is literally nothing wrong with being thin

>> No.11617920

>>11617336
>worried about her
Why would you start dating a girl with a disorder anyway? Get out anon. You don't need that shit.

>> No.11617936

>>11617911
>i'm male btw
ass, why couldn't you let us think a femanon with behavorial issues was posting itt ;_;

>> No.11617955

Does she not swallow your nut? Maybe its not an eating disorder...maybe OP just needs to eat more pineapple.

>> No.11617961

>>11617955
Good point. Sperm has calories and protein. OP should finish in her mouth, you know to help her.

>> No.11618556

This thread was moved to >>>/adv/20355876