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A few things OP. People flake all the time now especially late teens early 20s, it's not unwarranted to have asked them a couple times, "Hey we're still on for XX date? Hey we're still on for next week? Hey we're still doing tomorrow right?" My goal isn't to roast you, but it seems like you set all this up as a massive surprise and they likely didn't know how important this was for you. It really hurts man, I know that too well when you try to set up big plans. The best thing you can do is not let this boil into resentment and chalk it up as a bad day - assuming you want to keep some of these friends and hang out occasionally over the next decade. Burning bridges really compounds over time.