/ck/ - Food & Cooking

Hey /ck/

So I'm from England, but my fiancee, Anastasia, is from Russia. I guess some people would call her a "mail-order bride". Two weeks ago she came to visit me in England for the first time, and we were having a great time up until yesterday.

We decided to go to a restaurant, so I suggested we go to an Indian buffet that I love. Since she doesn't have much money (she's only 18), I pay for both of us whenever we go out. We get to the restaurant and I start loading up my plate with starters as usual. This was the first time my fiancee had ever been to an all-you-can-eat buffet because they don't have them in Russia, at least not in her village. So I explained to her how it works, she goes up and inspects all the dishes, then comes back with a plate of fucking chips and some sweet and sour dipping sauce. Literally nothing but chips and sauce. I thought whatever, if that's what she wants let her have it.

I finish my starters and go up for the main courses, and eventually she finishes her plate and goes back again for more. She comes back with none other than ANOTHER plate of chips with sweet and sour dipping sauce. This is when I say to her "It's a buffet, you're meant to try multiple things" and she just replied that she loves chips. She finally finishes her second plate and then says she's full and doesn't want to eat any more.

This is when I got pissed off, I was paying £16 for her to eat 2 plates of chips? I could've given her that at home for a tenth of the price. I told her she has to try some of the main courses but she refused. I went up and got a plate of chicken tikka masala with rice and shouted at her that she has to eat it, and she just sat there in silence looking down at the plate and eating it. Afterwards she started crying about how I'm too controlling and she's scared of me now. Ever since then she's been acting distant and she's been refusing sex.

Who was in the wrong?