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>>14278044
If they're dying, stop being a pussy and at least give them a piece of your mind. The least they can do is finally, for once, listen to your bullshit and your feelings. If they have any shred of compassion they would in the very least take consideration of your perspective.
My dad wasn't the main breadwinner in my family despite always acting like my mother and I expected him to retrieve the moon for us. All what my mom wanted was equal work, even a part time job, nope. Too much for the asshole to handle so he manipulated me into helping his friend pick him up and just leave/divorce my mom without a formal goodbye or even having an actual, adult conversation with her and didn't devolve into a shouting match. After all the emotional manipulation I put with not just my dad, but my mom too for a bit, my dad is now nowhere to be found in emails/phone. In fact, my dad got remarried less than a year after the divorce was finalized. Even worse, he abandoned me for a nigger and a nigger's already established family.

The point I'm making here is, no matter how fucked up you are or how you've become, if you have the chance to "make amends" then fucking do so. I would give anything these days to hop on a plane to L.A. and beat the living shit out of my father for being the literal worst father someone probably could have. Personally, emotional abuse is far times worse than physical pain. I can get over bruises, but I don't think I'll be able to get over the fact that I had an neglecting, unfulfilling "role model" who wanted nothing to do with me unless it suited him.