Feels thread

[Anonymous No.9841570]

Discuss /cgl/ feels. Stay on topic. DON'T EAT BAIT.

[Anonymous No.9841577]

>tfw no lolita gf

[Anonymous No.9841579]

>tfw the qt I started an LDR with at the con leaves me
>... but I know that a girl in my sister's comm has a crush on me, and I'm now free to pursue her

I'm very conflicted, gulls. I just want a nice girl to cosplay with.

[Anonymous No.9841589]

>>9841570
>tfw still too autistic to go to a con

[Anonymous No.9841591]

>>9841589
Wtf. That's like being too fat for a McDonald's.

[Anonymous No.9841594]

>>9841577
Where are you located?

[Anonymous No.9841601]

>>9841591
Yeah I know, oh well I'd probably ruin it for other people anyway

[Anonymous No.9841602]

>>9841591
>that greentext
Is THIS the origin of all the farting memes??

[Anonymous No.9841629]

>>9841570
Why do people do this? Has G-d betrayed us?

[Anonymous No.9841715]

>in LDR with bf
>he makes plans to watch a show with me
>cool.jpg
>watch show with him while we voice chat
>two episodes in, he starts playing vidya with a friend at the same time
>"oh"
>"It's okay, I can multitask"
>"eh, okay"
>after a while, he says he's going to voice chat with the friend and wants me to join
>"uh, okay"
>join
>it's just them playing the game, he's very obviously not really watching it anymore
>can barely hear the show since they're talking so loud
>get kind of disappointed and annoyed, but don't want to interrupt their fun
>quietly leave and go off to do something else
>he messages me "?" around 20 minutes after
>tell him I got kinda bored but didn't want to interrupt
>no response
>mfw he might be annoyed at me now
Lame

[Anonymous No.9841730]

>>9841715
>Dropping plans with waifu for vidya

[Anonymous No.9841737]

>>9841602
The culmination.
You could say they were
[cgldoesnthavespoilers] building up [/spoilers]

[Anonymous No.9841756]

>>9841730
It made me cry a little, but being an inconvenience is bad

[Anonymous No.9841759]

>>9841715
Your bf is a clueless ass

[Anonymous No.9841760]

>>9841715
>>9841756
3 questions:
1.) why didn't you just ask him if he even wanted to keep watching once he started drifting off?
2.) why are you so concerned with being an inconvenience when you two had preexisting plans to do this?
3.) why are you still dating him?

[Anonymous No.9841761]

>>9841589
Aw, please don’t think that way about yourself! Even if you are socially awkward just remind yourself that it’s oretty much the norm at cons. I doubt you’ll stick out at all, at least try it once.

[Anonymous No.9841764]

>>9841756
You’re not an inconvenience and don’t let him make you think otherwise. It was a dick move on his part.

[Anonymous No.9841766]

>>9841594
What did the OP say about biting?

[Anonymous No.9841774]

>>9841570
>all those feet around
???

[Anonymous No.9841775]

>>9841570
>turing 26 in months
>losing more anime friends especially the con going ones
make the bleeding stop.

[Anonymous No.9841777]

>>9841591
>over a room full of pretty girls
>implying

[Anonymous No.9841781]

>>9841730
>send gf a video I want her to watch
>she puts it on and barely even looks at it, normally stops looking at them a couple of minutes in
>gets butthurt when I'm not interested in something she shows me
But why.

[Anonymous No.9841783]

>>9841760
>why are you still dating him?
I think they should try to talk it through before straight up dropping him.

[Anonymous No.9841792]

Bf wants to fuck me in the angelic pretty dress he brought me. :(

[Anonymous No.9841796]

>tfw still no lolita stalker at my work

Have I been bamboozled?

[Anonymous No.9841799]

>>9841756
>Inconvenience
Fuck no

If he's not gonna give you the time you guys agreed on, he needs to think about what's actually important to him. This is a two way road, give and take. If it's only going one way something is wrong.

[Anonymous No.9841801]

>>9841775
CRAWLING

[Anonymous No.9841802]

>>9841594
I-I wasn't being serious

[Anonymous No.9841810]

>>9841775
>Turning 26 in months
>Never had any anime friends to begin with

[Anonymous No.9841814]

>>9841760
>1.) why didn't you just ask him if he even wanted to keep watching once he started drifting off?
He would've either ignored it or not seen it, or said "yes" and just kept drifting off
>2.) why are you so concerned with being an
inconvenience when you two had preexisting plans to do this?
I didn't want to annoy him, I guess
>3.) why are you still dating him?
I care about him a lot, and there are good times with him. I don't think he necessarily did this on purpose, but I also don't know how to talk to him about it without looking like a bitch and potentially offending him, so I'm stuck

>>9841764
Thanks anon

[Anonymous No.9841815]

>>9841799
Thanks, anon. I just don't >>9841760
>1.) why didn't you just ask him if he even wanted to keep watching once he started drifting off?
He would've either ignored it or not seen it, or said "yes" and just kept drifting off
>2.) why are you so concerned with being an
inconvenience when you two had preexisting plans to do this?
I didn't want to annoy him, I guess
>3.) why are you still dating him?
I care about him a lot, and there are good times with him. I don't think he necessarily did this on purpose, but I also don't know how to talk to him about it without looking like a bitch and potentially offending him, so I'm stuck

>>9841764
Thanks anon

[Anonymous No.9841819]

>>9841799
Thanks, anon. I just don't know how to go about discussing these things because I'm worried it could start a fight or something

[Anonymous No.9841822]

>>9841577
>>9841594
>>9841802
>That actual feel when no lolita gf
>Tfw your legitimate feel gets devalued by shitposters

[Anonymous No.9841823]

>>9841819
Depends on the person I guess. People that are unreliable in what they say and do are one of the few things that really grinds my gears.

You weren't in the wrong here. Bring it up to him softly if you want. If he gets defensive about it and starts an argument; you're better off without him.

No crying.

[Anonymous No.9841827]

>>9841715
Let me guess, you are still with him. How does it feel to be nothing more then an onahole?

Seriously, get a fucking spine.

[Anonymous No.9841831]

>>9841737
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YMPAH67f4o

[Anonymous No.9841844]

>>9841715
>>9841819
yeah dudes can't multitask that well. You're an idiot and he probably didn't like the show. You didn't do anything wrong though, let the bitch be annoyed since he went and fucked off with a friend first.
Also at this point you're screaming bait

>>9841775
just turned 29, doing my final con this summer. I was never a huge party person at them anyway, mostly just go to dress up and buy artist alley stuff. Still will feel a little sad.

[Anonymous No.9841849]

>>9841801
IN MY CRAWL

[Anonymous No.9841865]

>>9841792
Don't do that. That will ruin it.

>>9841819
Things need to be talked about, anon. You can't just wait and bottle it up until either he grows completely disinterested or you can't take it and explode. Talk it now that the problem is starting, fight if you need to (obviously not physically, the moment that happens is time to cut lose), now that there's still time.

[Anonymous No.9841866]

>>9841822
>That actual feel of wanting attention so hard you can't stay silent

[Anonymous No.9841868]

>>9841827
>LDR
>onahole
Pick one.

[Anonymous No.9841870]

>>9841589
>>9841601
Unless you're actually autistic and think it'll be too much for your senses, just worry about enjoying yourself. It's pretty hard to *ruin* a con for anyone but yourself.

[Anonymous No.9841872]

>>9841819
All relationships have arguments. It's normal to make mistakes, disagree, and work through it together. If he doesn't want to work together with you he's not worth you time, because you'll disagree about something else in the future anyway, it happens. Cut your losses if it goes that route.

>happy feels
My friend is interested in wearing lolita with me. I'm not going to get too excited until I see her purchase pieces and start coording, but she is already looking up styles.

[Anonymous No.9841876]

I feel like I’m just sort of floating through life on autopilot these days, sort of disconnected from existence. I think that I seem confident and happy for the most part, and sometimes I think I am, but then I also get so tired so quickly and just zone out, pretending to listen and bullshitting my way through conversations based on how I used to react. I feel like an imposter of myself and I don’t know how to fix it.

[Anonymous No.9841879]

>>9841876
God, same. I can't tell you what causes it or how to fix it, but if it's any consolation, you're not alone.
It's doubly difficult when I'm out and about and people absolutely demand to know why I'm dressed up, when I internally demand to know why I bothered waking up in the morning.

[Anonymous No.9841891]

I think I'm falling into depression. I still feel happy when I wear lolita, but I don't have the energy/motivation to get up and actually put anything on. I don't leave the house, avoid responsibilities and my parents hate me for it. Maybe I'm just lazy idk.

[Anonymous No.9841894]

I'm so tired and kinda on autopilot, every single day. And I try to do whatever I can to get out of this "autopilot" feeling, but for some reason I just can't.

[Anonymous No.9841895]

>>9841796
I'm a busy girl, anon. Gotta work to afford that burando

[Anonymous No.9841896]

also depressed.. i might not graduate in may because i might fail some classes due to not wanting to do anything. i’m sad and don’t feel like i have people who care, also my field of study is essentially useless so i know i’ll end up having a hard time finding some entry level shitty job, i probably won’t even be able to afford lolita anymore. i don’t look forward to anything even though i should, i just play games all day long. i hate this..

[Anonymous No.9841899]

>>9841891
At this point I'd suggest looking for external motivation. See if you can go to one of those tea parties or just any hobby you feel you like doing and that can be done with other people. It may seem like a bother and a pain at first, but external motivation from having people with common liked you can show what you're doing to helps a ton. Give it a shot, dude.

[Anonymous No.9841903]

>>9841894
Go on a trip! A while ago I went for 1 night, I thought of as budget for my flight and afterwards I looked for destinations with that budget. I went to a city I didn't even know existed before then.

[Anonymous No.9841904]

>>9841896
I know that too well, I know living under someone else's roof is just too convenient, and that it's the most comfortable and easy period my life will have, so I am postponing emancipation as much as possible, knowing that I'm only fucking myself up further in the process.

[Anonymous No.9841906]

>>9841894 #
Go on a trip! A while ago I went for 1 night, I thought of a budget for my flight and afterwards I looked for destinations with that budget. I went to a beautiful city I didn't even know existed before then.

[Anonymous No.9841920]

>>9841896
I care, Anon

[Anonymous No.9841924]

>>9841896
I'm 25, didn't graduate, living with my parents and they don't know I spent all my savings on lolita. Don't become like me. But I'm still alive so that's something.

[Anonymous No.9841932]

>>9841920
You lie, and lying is not very nice.

[Anonymous No.9841936]

Man I just really love lolita

[Anonymous No.9841938]

>>9841932
Your distress is born of your estimation of the future. It has not yet come to pass and you kept using "might". Never let things be decided by "might" if you can help it. Take a break from the games, talk to your professors, find out what you need to do. You will pass those classes, and you will graduate.

I believe in you, even if you don't believe in yourself.

[Anonymous No.9841939]

>>9841896
May I ask you what your field of study is?

[Anonymous No.9841940]

>>9841936
Man I just really love you

[Anonymous No.9841946]

>>9841895
Do you just not eat? I'll give you free kombucha if you ever manage to guess who I am, that's what people around here like yeah?

Drink up, stalker lolita.

[Anonymous No.9841947]

>>9841946
Well that wasn't the right image at all.

[Anonymous No.9841953]

>>9841579
>tfw /cgl/ gf left me
>shop for new one at local con
>find out I was someone's con crush
>message her a few times
>mfw she's bad at replying
I just want someone to cosplay with too.

[Anonymous No.9841956]

>recognise guy that takes the same bus as me at a con
>he sees me too and starts talking to me
>get overly excited because first time meeting a cosplayer who lives in the same village as me
>sit next to each other in the bus the following week
>him: here's my number anon, we should have dinner together sometime!
>me: ...oh
People don't go out for dinner in my country unless it's a date or important anniversary or something. How do I make friends with a guy without making him think I'm interested in a relationship? All of my friends are girls and live very far away

[Anonymous No.9841959]

>>9841956
You don't. Platonic male friends don't exist unless they're gay, they're asexual or you're ugly as hell.

>t. male

[Anonymous No.9841962]

>>9841959
What if I pretend to be gay?
>mfw I just want a friend that doesn't live 4 hours away

[Anonymous No.9841964]

>>9841570
>TFW get called "filthy male" whenever I try to ask a legitimate question about sewing

[Anonymous No.9841966]

>>9841964
FeelsBadMan

Must be your locale, people around here tend to be impressed I'm interested in seeing.

But then I live near tumblrland.

[Anonymous No.9841968]

>>9841966
Sewing* fucking autocorrect

[Anonymous No.9841969]

I want to wear cute stuff but it's so cold still.

[Anonymous No.9841970]

>>9841966
I mean on /cgl/

I live in Eastern Europe, people here would just call me a faggot

[Anonymous No.9841983]

>>9841956
>>9841959
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098635/

[Anonymous No.9841996]

>>9841983
Because that would be disgusting

[Anonymous No.9841997]

>>9841792
buy it off him so you dont feel like you have an obligation to and break up with him if he pressures you more

[Anonymous No.9841999]

>>9841956
Find someone who finds you nice but not attractive.

[Anonymous No.9842029]

>buy burando jfash in like new condition from seller for $40
>retail value is around $250
>oh it will be nice blazer like material and sturdy
>it’s poplin

Oh well. It was only $40.

[Anonymous No.9842031]

>>9841983
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/

[Anonymous No.9842034]

>>9841936
Man I just really love cosplay

[Anonymous No.9842035]

>>9841936
>>9842034
Man I just really love going to conventions!

[Anonymous No.9842051]

>after years of struggling the construction company finally finishes and delivers the building
>finally move out to my very own big-ass condo, looking forward to my new bachelor lifestyle
>realize I'm old now and all the things I wanted to do are inappropriate, childish or just not feasible anymore

[Anonymous No.9842062]

>Take exam this morning
> "Lolita Smith is a 32 year old woman suffering from severe anxiety and panic disorder. Which of these drugs will treat her symptoms and not cause anorgasmia ?"
I feel like they were mocking me.

[Anonymous No.9842065]

>>9841774
You don't know the history of this photo? There's more where she (he) gets gangbanged and her (his) as gets stuffed with dorritos. This was taken from Otakon in like 2010.

[Anonymous No.9842069]

Do you guys think anyone has ever thrown up on Misako? Do nurses normally get vomitted on? I like to think that, at some point, someone threw up on Misako. Not in a bad way, just like, she's a nurse so.....I want to throw up on Misako. Anyone else know what I mean?

[Anonymous No.9842082]

I was nervous about sending an email.
>mfw the reply was quick and smooth

[Anonymous No.9842085]

>>9841962
Nah, can't build friendship on lies unless you don't intend to be friends for long.
Could tell him you're seeing someone.

Lol

[Anonymous No.9842086]

>>9842069
triggered

[Anonymous No.9842087]

>>9841970
Youtube videos never judge (recommended videos does though)

[Anonymous No.9842090]

The dang sexual assault resource center is too backlogged to help me find a therapist

[Anonymous No.9842095]

>>9841715
I was in a LDR with my guy, we lasted a year and 4ish months... It's more like 4 months because the first year was before having met.
People have needs, I hope that this long distance thing is either temporary or otherwised arranged so you can meet those needs.

[Anonymous No.9842097]

>>9841781
You wanted to share something and your partner didn't share your interest, more even, didn't try to be interested, just put the bare minimum effort in.
If they do that with other stuff, the why is pretty clear.

[Anonymous No.9842116]

>post about doing free photoshoot for an upcoming con on FB
>just checked out one of the people I'm shooting with on Insta
>She has 17,000 followers
Oh shit I'm nervous

[Anonymous No.9842136]

>>9841956
FUCK YOU ANON I THOUGHT IT WAS SPECIAL

[Anonymous No.9842140]

>>9842090
this is always the case when you try to get therapy for anything desu

[Anonymous No.9842141]

>>9842136
well she wants to be your friend so you can't be that gross

[Anonymous No.9842161]

>>9842051
>realize I'm old now and all the things I wanted to do are inappropriate, childish or just not feasible anymore
What did you want to do anon? No reason to forgo doing things you want if it's not dangerous.

[Anonymous No.9842172]

> mfw photog who still owes me pictures from nearly a year ago is streaming edits and posting pics from conventions I know for a fact happened significantly afterwards
I just want my pics back so I never have to deal with this photog again

[Anonymous No.9842201]

>>9842161
Binge watch anime in the living room in the big ass oled tv I bought with the volume all the way up, invite my friends over to drink/weed and play videogames, build a shelf for my comics and manga, proudly display the few figures I have around the apartment and buy a whole lot more, get a qt teenage dorky gf and get her to stay over the weekends.
The usual dumb shit and I just don't have it in me to get excited about it anymore, I think I'm having a midlife crisis

[Anonymous No.9842211]

Misako is a busted old biddy

[Anonymous No.9842226]

>>9842201
A midlife crisis would be more like suddenly doing things you feel you missed out on as a young person, when you're past your 40s or 50s.

If you're not excited about doing the things you mentioned here it doesn't necessarily mean you're suddenly too old for them or that they're childish; it's possible your perception just changed.
Consider this: You can still watch anime on your giant TV in the living room, you can still display your figures around the house, you can still bring your friends in to play video games; being an adult doesn't mean you're not allowed to have any fun anymore ever, it just means you have to be responsible when you do these things because you won't have anyone else clean up after you.
So you might not be able to make a lot of noise, and your friends might not have a lot of free time or want to smoke weed when they come over, and maybe some people will look at you funny for displaying anime figures around the house, but it's your home and your life, and as long as you're not bothering or hurting anybody (including yourself) then you can do whatever. Live your life, anon.

[Anonymous No.9842257]

>>9841715
you probably know this but he agreed on doing something in common and then he started playing games mid-way

I don't think that's normal, in fact I think that's a really dick move.

that's from male perspective, if it matters.

[Anonymous No.9842260]

>>9841822
>people wanting a lolita gf in year of our lord 2k18

I thought all these threads on /cgl/ and the fact it birthed the abomination that is lolcow farm would convince you people otherwise. Run while you can.

[Anonymous No.9842262]

>>9841715
dump his ass

[Anonymous No.9842277]

>>9842090
>>9842140
They just called my back. I'll get to see someone next tuesday

[Anonymous No.9842284]

>>9842201
you can still do all of those things except the minor, and it is a known fact that teenagers are the worst, so you're not missing out on anything

[Anonymous No.9842300]

>>9842284
18 and 19 year old girls are legal anon.

[Anonymous No.9842365]

>>9842031
I legit have a close male friend who is rabidly straight. we have so much fun together and a lot of common interests. he's a balanced, well-adjusted person and values our friendship. we have similar senses of humor and gosh, when I get him laughing...there's very little that warms my heart like that.

there's jokey tension sometimes, because we're both sexual humans, but that's as far as it goes. we have sleepovers, we watch movies, and we talk about everything. We've known each other for 7 yrs now.

This kind of connection is rare. A true friend is hard to find and thus so valuable. I guess it also helps that he doesn't have messed up ideas about women.

[Anonymous No.9842368]

>>9842365
Does he have a gf though?

[Anonymous No.9842372]

>>9842277
really glad to hear that anon
I admire you big time. don't throw all your ducks into the first professional you see, in case you don't hit it off. this is an amazing start to getting the life you deserve.

[Anonymous No.9842374]

>>9842368
no, he doesn't want one for now. he's in a casual sex and no relationship kind of stage.

[Anonymous No.9842397]

>>9841579
>that image
HOLY FUCK, I am laughing so hard. 1000% dead.

[Anonymous No.9842409]

>tfw when lolita and no one in your group wants to see the cute ribbons your braided in your pubic hair.

[Anonymous No.9842415]

>>9842300
they're still awful to be around unless you're a teenager yourself

[Anonymous No.9842427]

>>9842415
so true. emotions outweigh logic 3000:1 with 90% of teens

[Anonymous No.9842440]

>>9841946
>>9841947
Really, anon..
>lolita
>requires money and being thin
Grocery shopping isn't at the top of my priority list
[Cgldoesnthavespoilers]or I just keep a stocked pantry so I don't have to shop during my work week [/spoiler]

I've never tried kombucha, though I do like a challenge.

[Anonymous No.9842472]

>>9842415
Yeah but that's got nothing to do with fucking them.

[Anonymous No.9842481]

>>9842409
kek

worst part is I can imagine gulls doing this

[Anonymous No.9842485]

>>9842172
Instead of just waiting, be a bother

[Anonymous No.9842496]

>>9842226
>>9842284
It's not so much about finally having the freedom to do all those things with impunity but more along the line of now that I have the freedom I don't enjoy them as much anymore, it's like I do them just to pass the time. I don't look forward to it like I used to.

[Anonymous No.9842497]

>>9841969
winterwear can be also cute, you know

[Anonymous No.9842498]

>>9842365
male here, he actually wants to fuck you, trust me

[Anonymous No.9842499]

>>9842496
>inappropriate, childish or just not feasible anymore
No, you're just bored.
Go sell all the crap you don't care about anymore and go out and get a hobby you like more.
If you can't stand the idea of making that kind of leap without knowing where to go next, get added to a ton of hobby groups on FB and see what you gravitate to.

[Anonymous No.9842504]

>>9842374
Look gull, that stage only lasts for so long.
Men jump from physical relationship to physical relationship until a wire gets crossed and they decide YEP this is the day I'm settling
If your friend wound up with some rando girl you didn't think would last and marries her... would you regret not being the one he settles with?

>>9842498
I've known men that wanted to fuck trees, so yeah sure, of course.
It's the other side of the scattershot method of rounding up women, the 'fingers in all the pies until the pies like it' method

[Anonymous No.9842505]

>>9842065
true story?

>>9842409
you kinda make me smile, cause you used a Nia-reaction-face
cause I am a xenoblade-fan

[Anonymous No.9842510]

>>9842504
>It's the other side of the scattershot method of rounding up women, the 'fingers in all the pies until the pies like it' method
what the fuck are even trying to say here?
nyart or whatever

[Anonymous No.9842541]

>>9842472
cant relate because masturbating is much more enjoyable as a girl

[Anonymous No.9842547]

>>9842541
You must be a rare case to have two different fully functioning sex organ setups.

[Anonymous No.9842551]

>>9842541
I'm guessing they're talking about it's better than sex, so why bother. Whereas, for most guys, they'd rather fugg randos than jerk it.

[Anonymous No.9842554]

>>9842541
It's cute when trannies pretend they're real women

[Anonymous No.9842555]

Replied to wrong person. >>9842551
was meant for >>9842547

[Anonymous No.9842561]

>>9842551
Right. Their English was confusing.

[Anonymous No.9842564]

>>9842551
I mean it's at way better than having sex with a 19 year old boy lol

[Anonymous No.9842576]

>>9842372
Aw thanks

[Anonymous No.9842619]

https://www.strawpoll.me/15435820

[Anonymous No.9842622]

>>9842619
>https://www.strawpoll.me/15435820
not every gull
the rest deserve a kick in the head

[Anonymous No.9842637]

>>9842498
and? he's not angling for it. if he thought we could do it casually and still hang out without me wanting a relationship he'd ask. but I don't get sexy without commitment. he gets real intimate friendship from me and sex from other people. I hope one day he can find both in a single partner, if that's what he ends up wanting.
>>9842504
she wouldn't be rando, he'd have to be really into her to propose, and I'd be so happy for him. I need someone who's super affectionate and into bigger girls for a partner. he's neither of those things so there's nothing to regret or be bitter about. I love him dearly and appreciate his friendship. Gonna see him in a few months and I'm SO psyched!!

[Anonymous No.9842640]

>>9842619
thought this was going to be interesting, but you're just a dumbo.
which reminds me, where's the census at???
who's gonna set this year's up???

[Anonymous No.9842653]

>>9842640
That was the census.

[Anonymous No.9842667]

>>9842622
More like a punch in the mouth

[Anonymous No.9842686]

my boyfriend said he'd buy me any dress i wanted for my birthday and i suddenly cant find a dress for sale right now that i want lmao

[Anonymous No.9842691]

>>9842686
be a good gf and learn to sew

[Anonymous No.9842692]

>>9842619
3 - They deserve a cunt punt

[Anonymous No.9842698]

>>9842692
>>9842667
stop giving me ideas

I wonder if sadistic roleplay on an ugly hoe dressed in lolita would be an interesting experience.

[Anonymous No.9842707]

>my friend cosplays Sailor Uranus
>doesn't wear safety shorts with her costume
>mfw I get constantly Sailor Mooned

[Anonymous No.9842710]

>Like boy
>I have boyfriend
>Said boy is going to AX

What do I do?

[Anonymous No.9842717]

>>9842710
Threesome or pick one. But don't cheat, that's not cool.

[Anonymous No.9842725]

>>9842707
10/10 made me chuckle
Also there's definitely some sort of "seeing Uranus" joke you can make to clue her in

[Anonymous No.9842726]

>>9842717
>>9842710
Be the whore you know you are and cheat

[Anonymous No.9842746]

>>9842686
yo, you need to take this opportunity.
check maidenclothing, mercari, fril, Violet Blue or Tokyo Alice on rakuten, Y!JAuctions, Wunderwelt, Alicefururun, and Lacemarket.

I wish someone would buy me a dress for my bday. it's in 19 days. I mean, I already got a new dress to wear but I'd love to have someone offer to buy me lolita just because they love me.

[Anonymous No.9842750]

>tfw no lolita gf to dress me up in ouji

[Anonymous No.9842753]

>>9842440
>though I do like a challenge.

You're on.

[Anonymous No.9842764]

>>9842750
Dress yourself up. Women don’t like helpless men waiting around to give them more work to do, and maybe you’ll meet a lolita.
“I want this thing to happen. I wish a woman was around to do it for me.” is such a lame mind set.

[Anonymous No.9842768]

>>9842746
Present payment option, I'll think about it

[Anonymous No.9842780]

>>9842698
I think you're the one who needs to get punched in the mouth

[Anonymous No.9842781]

I want the new cross lace jsk that moitie is re-releasing, but I'm so broke right now. I can't spare any money on lolita right now and it's killing me because it's a dream dress.

[Anonymous No.9842785]

>>9842707
>cosplays Uranus
>shows heranus
Perfect.

[Anonymous No.9842793]

>>9842746
>>9842768
Make that two of us. I'm no stranger to dropping up to 4 digits on things I'll never use. Doing it for something I'll never even see wouldn't be that far off.

>>9842764
>Inb4 he does just that and then you scold him for dressing up just to meet lolitas

[Anonymous No.9842799]

>>9842768
>Present payment option
what do you mean by this?

none of my dream dresses are EVER available, but feel free to buy one for me if you ever see one and feel so inclined: >>9840173

[Anonymous No.9842803]

>>9842707
>dogwalker

[Anonymous No.9842872]

>>9842799
How would It get to you if I bought it?

[Anonymous No.9842878]

>>9842764
well that is an over-reaction.

[Anonymous No.9842884]

>>9842878

[Anonymous No.9842938]

>>9842753
Let's be honest though, the odds aren't exactly in my favour
>all I know is your work location and that you like lolita
>tfw not a very good stalker

[Anonymous No.9842942]

>>9842938
tsk tsk.

You also know I'm a boy, work in the service part of the store but I'm not one of the gay guys. I'll give you one more hint which may or may not be useful depending on how small you might be, I'm about 6'-6'1". Use this information well anon-chan.

[Anonymous No.9842945]

>>9842938
>TFW no Lolita stalker

[Anonymous No.9842947]

>>9842945
>TFW no Lolita S.T.A.L.K.E.R

[Anonymous No.9842999]

>>9842872
this isn't going to happen but just in case it does: post in DD thread, I'll drop email

just to reiterate, I don't need it, but no one's bought me lolita outside of secret santa and a belated gull gift for my bday of a dress I love would be incredible.

[Anonymous No.9843003]

>>9842942
I might be able to work with that but don't expect overnight results

[Anonymous No.9843006]

>>9843003
You won't be getting anymore hints. I like cat and mouse games.

[Anonymous No.9843041]

>Be me
>New to the community, but already attended several meets in good enough coordinates
>Attends big tea party
>Arraged seating
>Sat on the furthest table with a girl in a black and red cosplay yukata and other itas.

[Anonymous No.9843048]

>>9843041
Guess your coords weren't good enough

[Anonymous No.9843052]

>>9842999
Done

[Anonymous No.9843058]

>>9842781
Do some extra work this weekend. You still have a chance to get it!

[Anonymous No.9843080]

Why the hell is Holy Lantern still so expensive, it got rerelases and mto it shouldn't be +300 dollars anymore...

[Anonymous No.9843096]

>arrange FJ shipment
>refresh the page because I'm a retard
>change items prices but forget to choose the right shipping method
>end up choosing the double more expensive method that takes 2 weeks longer
I want to DIE

[Anonymous No.9843109]

>>9843080
Rich people wanna hoard it in all its color ways.

[Anonymous No.9843111]

>mfw I watch a video about that one "unite the right" rally
>mfw it was full of actual footage from the event (including stuff its participants tried to hide for damage control purposes) and a breakdown of all that went on
>mfw I was just starting to think maybe the "alt-right" wasn't all that bad, it was mostly memes and the media was painting them badly
>mfw I was wrong
>mfw they really are just a bunch of fat, obnoxious, hateful cunts who want everyone who looks like me to die horrible deaths because they spent too much time on /pol/
I'm glad I never befriended any "right wing conservative lolitas" now, holy heckington.

[Anonymous No.9843118]

>>9843111
You're forgetting that rallies attract only the most fanatically of all people and so in turn you get the most rabid autism lords who's only personality trait is their political opinion.

I would be classified as "Alt-Right" although I wouldn't publicly identify myself as such and I'm just as ashamed of the public image that these shit-fests bring about to the political right as you are.

[Anonymous No.9843128]

>>9843118
The shameful thing IMO isn't really the public image, but the fact that those opinions are allowed to fester without anyone within that group saying "Shut the fuck up, you aren't one of us" in the first place. It doesn't help that at the start of the rally, one of its bigwigs said things like "This will show that we are *not* violent. This'll be amazing for our public image". Cue Black Sun flags flying, national socialist images abound, footage of the participants chanting that Hitler did nothing wrong, fanboying over the former leader of the KKK, and a news story about one of them driving into a bunch of people and killing one.
Like, their bizarre Hitler worship and their screams of "black lives splatter" are treated as completely valid, and they are given a seat at the table. It'd be extremely off-putting to be around anyone who would willingly align themselves with that.

[Anonymous No.9843131]

>>9843128
As a national socialist myself I think the behaviour is completely against national socialism which is meant to promote unity, solidarity, preservation and respect for your own collective identity and the collective identity of others. Whether or not I like, they are apart of the group because I don't get a choice in who they want to identify with. Just like I have a full-fledged communist friend (horseshoe theory is real) who deplores the people who parade around in their Che Guvera shirts, dying their hair neon pink and think that allowing minority groups to do whatever they please is real communism and fighting against the ruling class.

Just remember that again, these are the most rampant fanboys who have nothing else going on in their lives and so to make up for their brazen lack of personality they have adopted a group they can belong to. Just like when you see teenage Tumblrinas faking mental illness, it's all just to make up for the fact that they are uncomfortable that they do not have any sort of distinctive human trait and so they can't relate to others or feel special.

[Anonymous No.9843132]

>BF hasn’t messaged me since Sunday
I’m usually a pretty calm person but I’m starting to worry

[Anonymous No.9843137]

>tfw you meet the person you were crushing on online at a con finally
>tfw you ignore other options at con to spend time with them, exchange gifts and phone numbers
>tfw when they turn out to be boring IRL and you're now left in the odd limbo of a relationship that failed to spark with the lowkey awkwardness that one of you might be more attracted to the other than vice versa

[Anonymous No.9843141]

>>9843111
>everyone who looks like me
Trannies?

[Anonymous No.9843142]

>>9843141
No, they love trannies and traps. See: Blaire White and Tara McCarthy

[Anonymous No.9843153]

>>9843142
Everyday I keep questioning whether or not I'd fuck a cute trap. I mean, is it really gay if they look like a girl?

Fucking a really hideous girl who looks like a ugly man isn't gay but fucking a dude who looks, sounds and acts like a girl is? Or is there a degree of homo which is acceptable?

[Anonymous No.9843155]

>>9843153
Human sexuality is fluid. Stop overthinking things. We made up sexualities for convenience, but we will never have words to fully describe the scope of who we are. Just live and let others live.

[Anonymous No.9843157]

>>9843155
That settles it then. Next con I'm finding a trap.

[Anonymous No.9843160]

>>9843118
Do you treat the left with the same mindset? Their rallies are also just extremists and autists? But wouldn't autists get extremely overstimulated at rallies?

[Anonymous No.9843164]

>>9843111
Those attending a torchlight rally in Virginia of all places would end up being the most extreme. It's pretty bad on both sides right now, but taking them as the "average" would probably be a mistake. It's like looking at black twitter thinking it's representative of everyone.

[Anonymous No.9843165]

>>9843153
>>9843157
They don't look like that tho, anime isn't real life

[Anonymous No.9843166]

>>9843160
Of course I treat the left the same. Classically defined I'm a centrist but the post-modernists like to put national socialism at this extreme right. Despite the fact that people think fascists hate communists and vice versa, my friend and I have a lot more in common politically than we do with liberals or conservatives. So I really don't bear any resentment towards the left.

>But wouldn't autists get extremely overstimulated at rallies?
Hence why they do dumb stuff and it just turns into a screeching tard fest.

[Anonymous No.9843167]

>>9843165
But how would you kno tho yo? What about a really convincing trap?

[Anonymous No.9843175]

>>9843167
Do yourself a favor and look up the top tranny pornstars, look up for pics of them without make up.
The real thing looks more like this.

[Anonymous No.9843179]

>>9843175
Why the hell would I fuck a trap without makeup? It's not like it's important what they look like underneath, I'm not marrying them.

I've seen some traps that are pretty convincing. Or at least, they look better than 60-70% of girls.

[Anonymous No.9843180]

>>9843179
Seen in up close in real life? Or seen a pic online=

[Anonymous No.9843183]

>>9843180
Cams.

[Anonymous No.9843184]

>>9841844
The thought of no longer wanting to go to cons depresses me for some reason.

[Anonymous No.9843185]

>>9843183
Knock yourself out then, I still wouldn't recommend it, plus your heart is in the wrong place for this kind of thing

[Anonymous No.9843187]

>>9843185
>plus your heart is in the wrong place for this kind of thing

w-what?

[Anonymous No.9843191]

>>9843187
You're looking for a replacement for real women either because they don't give you the time of day or because they've hurt you badly before, the problem is deep down in your heart you'd still prefer a woman so no matter what kind of weird alternative you happen to find you'll still be unhappy and you'll still feel like you're settling for second best.

That's not so say you can't eventually come to love trannies for what they are, ugliness and insanity and all that, but it will take some years.

[Anonymous No.9843194]

>>9843191
That's a leap in judgement, I have sex with a different girl usually once a week or so. I'm just a degenerate looking for new highs.

[Anonymous No.9843197]

>>9843194
Even if I believed you I'd still tell you to go and try out all the variety real women have to offer before you go and stick your dick in a dude in a dress

[Anonymous No.9843209]

>>9843191
wow, that was certainly non-biased
>>9843194
If you plan on penetrating anyone in the rear I'd suggest you try it on yourself first to get an idea of how to properly and carefully prep for the pushin'.
it's very different tissue from the vag so you better figure out how to help your partner enjoy it.
>assuming you aren't a selfish crapsack who's never had mutually enjoyable/considerate relations

[Anonymous No.9843212]

>>9843209
I've done anal before with girls. Earlier attempts have gone badly but I've got a good grasp of the prep needed. It honestly isn't that great but it's the eroticism surrounding it.

[Anonymous No.9843223]

>>9843209
>wow, that was certainly non-biased
I visit r9k about once a week to feel better about myself, his posts read like the mental gymnastics they pull. Call me an skeptic if you want but I don't think the kind of guy who smashes so much puss he grows bored of it would come to /cgl/, refer to trannies as "cute traps" and post Little Witch Academia reaction images.

[Anonymous No.9843236]

>>9843223
I'm the anon you're talking about, I think you're projecting given your deliverance of unsolicited life advice about women.

[Anonymous No.9843237]

>>9843223
Also let's get this correct. A trap and tranny are two different things. A tranny literally believes they are a girl. A trap is a gay guy who aesthetically wants to be a girl.

[Anonymous No.9843239]

>>9843236
>>9843237
And I think you're a robot larping as a ladykiller

[Anonymous No.9843240]

>>9843239
As you wish.

[Anonymous No.9843241]

>>9841715
>>9842095
most of my relationships were LDR and they always ended up with the guy breaking up with me after 1-3 months (with one of them being on and off). They all mainly broke up because they couldn't handle the long distance (even though some of them only lived a few hours away from me). most people can't handle the distance for that long...

[Anonymous No.9843244]

>>9843241
It's less about the physical distance in miles and more about the need for physical intimacy, also the paranoia she's drowning in other dudes' semen whenever she's not on screen

[Anonymous No.9843250]

>>9843241
I think people are just weak and don't really love the person if they break it off in an LDR. My last relationship went LDR for a year. I'm a person who NEEDS lots and lots of physical affection, hugging, kissing, just any form of affectionate physical contact and so an LDR is my worst nightmare.

But it unfortunately happened due to circumstances out of our control and every single Friday I would get off work at 5pm and be in my car at 6pm to drive 8 hours straight to my girlfriend because I loved her so desperately. I would stay with her until about 11pm on a Sunday night and then make the 8 hour drive back and be ready for work at 8am. We made it through a year of that.

[Anonymous No.9843256]

>>9843244
I don't think it's about any of those things. If you live far away, you live completely different lifes and don't really grow together.

[Anonymous No.9843259]

>>9843256
Exactly my point, wandering eye and all that, at that point you're boyfriend and girlfriend in name only

[Anonymous No.9843260]

>>9843259
that's not my point though

[Anonymous No.9843261]

>>9843212
>got a good grasp of the prep needed
>attempts have gone badly

I feel bad for your past, present, and future partners. You sound like an awful lay.

[Anonymous No.9843262]

>>9843261
I said earlier attempts, christ.

[Anonymous No.9843263]

>>9843212
What do you mean it isn't that great?

[Anonymous No.9843266]

>>9843263
Normal intercourse feels better because everything is tight not just the entry, you can be much rougher and more positions.

[Anonymous No.9843276]

I can't wait to go therapy, so I can be on the road to having proper, healthy sexual relationships

[Anonymous No.9843293]

>>9843212
>I've done anal before with girls. Earlier attempts have gone badly but I've got a good grasp of the prep needed. It honestly isn't that great but it's the eroticism surrounding it.
I can't be the only guy that just finds it fucking gross right?

[Anonymous No.9843296]

>>9842201
you can still do the girlfriend thing
sounds like you have your shit mostly together and teenage girls are naturally into older guys
go for it

[Anonymous No.9843306]

>>9843266
Jsyk if the girl you have sex with is tight, she's not enjoying herself. You're probably terrible in bed.

[Anonymous No.9843307]

>>9843306
As you wish.

[Anonymous No.9843308]

>>9843306
>if the girl you have sex with is tight, she's not enjoying herself. You're probably terrible in bed.
COPE

[Anonymous No.9843309]

>>9843306
u loose girl

[Anonymous No.9843316]

>>9843306
I've had both ends of the spectrum and that's definitely not the issue. Some are just more loose than others.
>b-but sex doesn't make them loose
There is a world of fucking difference from banging a girl who does kegals than to one who doesn't and has slept around.

[Anonymous No.9843321]

>>9843293
I don't see the appeal either

[Anonymous No.9843323]

>>9843321
>>9843293
Bless you

[Anonymous No.9843325]

>>9843293
>>9843321
Make that 3 of us.

[Anonymous No.9843326]

Why do people offer trades for a dress in a totally different style? Why would I want an old school skirt for a sweet JSK?

[Anonymous No.9843333]

>>9843307
>>9843308
>>9843309
>>9843316
kudos on not immediately going "roasties reeeeeeeeeee"

[Anonymous No.9843337]

>>9843326
Some people do trades to change styles

[Anonymous No.9843338]

>>9843326
trading a jsk for a skirt is usually not worth it anyways, whoever asked you to trade is a dummy

[Anonymous No.9843340]

>>9843338
partial trades is a thing. if you didn't put up a wishlist or explained what you are looking for, people are going to try with anything.

[Anonymous No.9843372]

>>9843306
my dude, this is so incorrect as a blanket statement.
the canal tightens aggressively when things are going good, before during and after orgasm.

[Anonymous No.9843381]

>>9843372
that's so weird, you'd think everything would open up more to increase the chances of pregnancy

[Anonymous No.9843395]

>>9843381
>open up more to increase the chances of anything spilling out
do you even biology

[Anonymous No.9843402]

>>9843381
the contractions during orgasm literally suck any fluid towards the cervix, better facilitating sperm travel into the womb, and toward the Fallopian tubes.

>meanwhile, errbody knows how penises work

[Anonymous No.9843411]

>>9843402
This. Piss is stored in the balls.

[Anonymous No.9843419]

>>9843411
real funny

[Anonymous No.9843421]

>>9843381
Thanks for the horrible mental image of a cervix just opening into a yawning chasm you idiot anon.

[Anonymous No.9843425]

>>9843340
It's usually when I am selling something (DS) that someone randomly asks if I accept trades. I don't think to put a wishlist up because I'm wanting a sale. You're right though.

>>9843338
I think they were new to lolita.

[Anonymous No.9843427]

>>9841570
>Paid off my credit card debt!
>Gonna reward my self with figures and lolita
>This is how I got into debt in the first place


oh well. at least I'm broke and happy

[Anonymous No.9843436]

>>9843427
...again

[Anonymous No.9843447]

>>9843436
yeah senpai

[Anonymous No.9843511]

>>9843425
I've asked to do trades when someone is selling something, but they always refuse without looking at what I have
I have some really rare dresses I never wear lol

[Anonymous No.9843512]

>love all roommates by one
>shes just angry and frustrated all the time but is gf of cool roommate who pays all her rent
>literally will sit next to other cool riomate while she's doing taxes to botch that she's depressed and has no friends and her boyfriend isnt a friend
> Since I have to live with her I try and reach out since idol boys are one of the few things we have a shared interest in, especially SideM
>Invite her to sit down and watch a subtitled version of the 2nd Luve I got my hands on
>She complains thr tails on Momofufuen are stupid amd leaves the room

She doesn't even try and I dont know how to call her out on how she actively rejects any opportunities for friendship or compassion. No one gets why roommate is dating her except its a first relationship for both of them and theyve been together for 5 years while never questioning how fucked up she is and what kind of future he wants out of this.

[Anonymous No.9843533]

>>9843512
Omg just leave her alone. I hate extroverts that try to force social contact with everyone.

[Anonymous No.9843546]

I'm going through one of those times when I just want to disappear. If I disconnect from all my friends and my comm, I know they'll replace and forget me really quickly. I don't contribute anything to the people in my life. I keep yearning for connections with them, but really, I'm just hurting myself by chasing friendships which won't last. I wish I could just let go.

[Anonymous No.9843548]

>>9843546
This feeling will pass. Most people feel it sometimes.

[Anonymous No.9843557]

>>9843546
i know that feel anon
i just want people to find me or my hobbies interesting, I just want to feel loved by someone, i don't want to be left behind or forgotten by people
it's hard when you have no self-worth, low self-esteem, and are socially awkward. i've never made a friend on my own and have relied on others to make connections for me so i usually have a panic attack when i try to meet someone new. hey at least I have myself and abunch of anons here

[Anonymous No.9843558]

>>9843533
Shes not an introvert at all and she wont leave us alone. She sits down in the living room where we all just want to relax in the evening and starts complaining endlessly and we try to be sympathetic except we have our limits. Hell the SideM thing only came up because earlier that same evening she stormed in angry that some old friend from college saw B project at Anime Matsuri without her even though they haven't talked irl since school. She turns on the TV and puts on some Chinese variety show and starts loudly laughing and translating for no one in particularly and explaining jokes. We tried to be interested but its a long ass show and no one gets the appeal. She asked me for space in my Fanime because her boyfriends friend group has exiled her from their room for being so annoying and he isn't even pushing back and is still staying with them. She says she wants friends but then rejects anything that isnt exactly what she wants to do in that moment.

[Anonymous No.9843564]

>>9843558
Why don't you copy what you just wrote and send it to her boyfriend?

[Anonymous No.9843567]

>>9843564
Cause he knows. None of us get it. He gets the worst of it.

[Anonymous No.9843571]

>>9843567
So he doesn't give a shit about you guys lol. He let his friends kick his gf out of the room, and they only would've had to put up with her for one weekend.

[Anonymous No.9843626]

>>9843546
I'm super antisocial and everybody keeps telling me how abnormal it is to have only few friends I'm not even close with. But I feel like you constantly, I just can't keep in touch and get anxious over it. Social gatherings are a burdain and I'm too nervous to speak and usually visibly shaky. Is it really bad to one to stick to themselves if sociality is overwhelming and they are not bothered by it? Idk I'm pretty much incabable of forming friendships so maybe I'm a lost case anyways.

I'm going through a few days long bad depressive anxiouness and fuck I hate this. I have lost all my interest, I can't bother to put lolita on even though it would make me feel better and I'm constantly full of thoughts of how worthless and fat and whatever I am. The worst day is behind but every morning I wake up feeling better I feel like total shit after doing some basic stuff and I'm back to my mentally paralyzed shit self. I have been my worst this spring and it feels so bad to be sucked out of will and energy to do anything I love. I just wish I was able to dress up cutely every morning, do embroidery, go to long walks and most importantly, study and be enthusiatic about it. I'm afraid this bad feeling I'm unable to explain will someday make me end it all.

[Anonymous No.9843664]

>>9843259
>>9843256
Anons point I believe is that you're not able to grow together as well emotionally if you're both focused on other things in your lives, were as if you were physically together it's easier to involve your partner with your daily life.
>Have a LDR
>Visited for 3 months
>Already planning to visit again very soon

[Anonymous No.9843708]

>tfw no GF to cosplay as Ishizu to pair with my Kaiba

[Anonymous No.9843718]

>gf leaves me
>mfw we'll never do the cosplays I planned for us
I NEED A NEW ONE FUCK!!!

[Anonymous No.9843733]

>don't want creepos looking at my gf
>she insists on running around DragonCon in a plastic thong

[Anonymous No.9843765]

>>9843733
I went into the looker room during classes
I went into your locker and I smashed your glasses

[Anonymous No.9843771]

>>9843733
Ow my anus.

[Anonymous No.9843777]

>finally mustering up the courage to go my first con
>decided on a cosplay
>ordering things online for it
>so excited I can't sleep I just keep looking at reference photos and imagining how cool it's going to be and how much fun I'll have

I'm so excited.

[Anonymous No.9843781]

>>9843777
I'm excited for you, anon. I remember my Babby's First Cosplay. Hope it lives up to your expectations.

[Anonymous No.9843782]

>>9843781
I'm probably in way over my head but I'm determined to try hard and make it look good.

[Anonymous No.9843814]

>>9843293
It isn't my thing, either.

[Anonymous No.9843827]

>>9843306
>Jsyk if the girl you have sex with is tight, she's not enjoying herself
>Anal
Not how the butt works

>>9843263
It's basically just like regular sex, but you can't go hard at all and one of you is risking some pretty serious internal damage if things go wrong. Save it for your fantasies and spare your partner the bad experience.

[Anonymous No.9843882]

>tfw no cosplay gf I can fuck while shes dressed as my waifu

[Anonymous No.9843892]

>>9843882
I volunteer uwu

[Anonymous No.9843894]

>brushing teeth
>remember a /cgl/ post I saw a while back about a girl who burst into tears because she overheard "the n-word" at a con rave
>laugh so hard, toothpaste goes up nose
Fuck, it still hurts.

[Anonymous No.9843896]

>haven't worn lolita in awhile, just getting back into it, have good new job
>starting to feel excited, looking up dresses all week and dreaming about how much I'm gonna buy
>wear it first time out in awhile
>five minutes after leaving my apartment, get in elevator with guy
>guy nods at me and says, "little bo peep?"
>says it with utmost confidence, as if he said "AHA, I KNOW WHAT THIS IS"
>Uhhh... no it's a fashion
>remember my least favorite part of this beautiful lovely fashion, random peoples dumbass comments

[Anonymous No.9843903]

>>9843896
Uhhhhhhhh.... keep your fetish clothing in the bedroom, k?

[Anonymous No.9843905]

>>9843777
This is precious

>>9843882
who's your waifu?

[Anonymous No.9843929]

>>9843882
I also volunteer as long as your waifu isn't shit

[Anonymous No.9843931]

>>9843892
>>9843929
Are you both girls (female)?

[Anonymous No.9843933]

>>9843896
>show mom pics of lolita friends
>"Oh my god! Why are their bottoms so big?"
>explain they're wearing petticoats
>"So they pretend to be little girls? You wouldn't marry a girl like that, would you?"
>mfw I would

[Anonymous No.9843934]

>tfw no cosplay gf I can fuck while she's dressed as my shitty waifu

[Anonymous No.9843940]

>Tfw no cosplay gf who will actually make my waifu look good for a change

[Anonymous No.9843946]

>>9843931
No

[Anonymous No.9843951]

>>9841764
+1 up you go.. oops this is not reddit

[Anonymous No.9843955]

>have obscure dream dress
>really iffy about actually buying it because close to no worn pics
>the 2-3 pics i've found make it look cheap/ill-fitted
>see a listing
>buy it because anyway because it never pops up
>arrives in the mail
>try it on
>fits like a glove and looks just like it does on the mannequin

i'm glad the worn photos didn't drive me away because holy shit my dream dress

[Anonymous No.9843959]

>>9843955
Are you going to share with the class or no?

[Anonymous No.9843981]

>>9843931
yes and i’m stealing >>9843946
so we can be cute together

[Anonymous No.9844032]

>>9841761
>>9841870
Thanks guys. To put in perspective I cried at these posts. But hopefully I can get over it before I turn 26

[Anonymous No.9844085]

>>9843951
Kys

[Anonymous No.9844087]

>>9843827
Must be tough to be gay

[Anonymous No.9844093]

>>9844087
it's a pain in the arse sometimes

[Anonymous No.9844105]

Do women make fun of each other for not being able to get laid?

[Anonymous No.9844110]

>>9844105
Depends on your friend group.

[Anonymous No.9844114]

>>9844105
They tell me I'm a virgin who can't drive

[Anonymous No.9844139]

>>9844105
I remember on of my exgirlfriends who in retrospect was a nymphomaniac talked shit to all her girlfriends that they weren't having enough sex. Then she'd talk about how I would choke her, spit on her, push her head into the bed with my foot and call her a stupid worthless whore etc etc. All her friends would get weirded out but she didn't give a flying fuck and just said "Not my fault you have boring sex."

She was absolutely fucking insane though.

[Anonymous No.9844164]

>been having stress dreams non-stop for the past 2 weeks
>last night dream about old lolita comm
>impromptu midnight tea party
>wake up actually feeling refreshed

i miss them

[Anonymous No.9844195]

are there any non-rapey lesbians at cons?

[Anonymous No.9844232]

>>9844105
When I was younger (& still a virgin) I had a friend who told me that I just needed to get laid whenever I had a completely unrelated problem.
Good advice.

[Anonymous No.9844250]

>>9843892
>>9843905
>>9843929
Matoi, Ryuuko.
I’ll be at colossalcon this June UwU

[Anonymous No.9844252]

https://implyingrigged.info/wiki//cgl/
That feel when this is not a thing anymore
It was fun rooting for our board
We should bring it back

[Anonymous No.9844254]

>>9844232
slut

[Anonymous No.9844255]

>>9844252
What is that.

[Anonymous No.9844258]

>>9844255
it's a 4chan competition where all the boards (that care enough to put together a team) compete in a game of soccer with memes. It's great fun, take a look. https://youtu.be/YRzGNlXjCeg?t=1084

[Anonymous No.9844262]

>Finally find something I had been looking for on Mercari
>send it to my ss and they say everything is good
>seller comes back 3 days later saying they "damaged" item while packing to ship and cancel everything

Why are japanese sellers such flaky pieces of shit.

[Anonymous No.9844265]

>>9844262
>be japanese seller
>finally find a buyer for some item
>accidentally damage it while packing
>sweat bullets and consider being an asshole and just sending it anyways, maybe they won't notice
>decide to be a nice human being and let them know and cancel
>american buyer has a spergout
Americans need to be removed from this planet desu.

[Anonymous No.9844270]

>>9844195
Honestly the last thing you want to try to do at a con is eat out after a long sweaty day walking around at con in a hotel room that you share with 8 other people and cant even have a good shower. It’s just not a sexy time mood, ya know?

[Anonymous No.9844282]

>>9844252
Sounds fun desu but is this thread appropriate?

[Anonymous No.9844286]

>>9844270
>a hotel room that you share with 8 other people
I always rent a room for me and my bf desu

[Anonymous No.9844289]

>>9844286
>me and my bf desu
fucking homos.

[Anonymous No.9844299]

>>9844282
Should I start a thread for the team?

[Anonymous No.9844307]

>>9844299
I mean if you want but doubt it will get much traffic

[Anonymous No.9844312]

>>9843765
ilu for that BB ref

[Anonymous No.9844316]

>>9844289
>girl with bf
>homo

[Anonymous No.9844318]

>>9844316
You like men. That's gay as hell. Fucking homos. I bet you like dick too. Faggot.

[Anonymous No.9844320]

Do any gulls ever do /k/ related cosplay?

[Anonymous No.9844322]

>>9844265
the japanese sellers and american buyers don't interact you tard

[Anonymous No.9844331]

>>9844320
no

[Anonymous No.9844333]

>>9844316
>girl(male) with bf
hella gay

[Anonymous No.9844336]

>>9844250
satsuki is objectively better tho

[Anonymous No.9844340]

new
>>9844339

[Anonymous No.9844342]

>Matched with a cute girl that cosplays on tinder
>We're really hitting it off
I'm so happy, maybe I'll even be able to do some of the couples cosplays I've always wanted to do with a gf.

[Anonymous No.9844402]

>>9844265
I'd be inclined to give them slack but I've had a japanese seller make a shopper service wait over a week for an item they finally admitted they didn't have.

[Anonymous No.9844452]

>>9844316
You like men and we like beer

[Anonymous No.9844786]

>>9841715
where did you meet this online bf and how old are you / him?

[Anonymous No.9845140]

>>9841715
I have an impression that LDR isn't for normal people who have friends and have a full life offline. It may be too painful for both.

[Anonymous No.9845318]

My mental health has been pretty bad for the past month or so now. I’ve been trying my best to stay active, go out, and try to have a good time when I can, but when I’m alone in my room it feels like the only thing that I really want to do is lie in bed and sleep. Whenever I’m around my friends I feel like I’m a fraud because I can act so happy and confident around them but in reality it takes so much for me to convince myself to even step out the front door.

I’m also really afraid that my lolita friends don’t actually like or want to hang out with me... They go out with each other in smaller groups without inviting others on the group chat so J guess I’m not the only one being left out, but I would really like to join because it looks like fun and I need an excuse to force myself to go outside. Whenever I see them post about this stuff on social media I wanna ask them about it, but I also don’t wanna intrude; if they wanted me there they would have invited me themselves...

I just feel like such a mess of insecurities right now and don’t really have anyone to talk to about it. I’ve had depressive episodes before but since starting my medication they’ve seldom lasted this long; it’s been pretty bad for almost a month now and I almost feel like there’s no point in trying any more.

[Anonymous No.9845412]

>>9845318
Anon, are you doing exercise? Hitting the gym is one of the easiest ways to regain self-confidence. Also, make sure you're eating healthy.

[Anonymous No.9845541]

>>9844786
omegle/18+

[Anonymous No.9845928]

>>9845318
>>9845412
Can confirm

Get moving, hit the trails, get in nature, workout. Cut sodas and sugary snacks, it's okay for a treat here and there but be sparing with it.

Find something that clicks for you to help with anxiety, for me it's stuff like the Zoo or a Garden.

[Anonymous No.9846189]

>>9844114

[Anonymous No.9848404]

>>9843626
I feel you

check this dog out

[Anonymous No.9849077]

>>9843175
WHAT THE FUCK IS WTH THIS?

[Anonymous No.9851639]

>>9844105
Absolutely, you need to sleep with more random guys at cons to be cool