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feels thread Anonymous Sat Mar 31 16:44:24 2018 No.9836088 [Reply] [Original]

Happiness in sadness, sadness in happiness edition

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 17:09:58 2018 No.9836118 Man I just really hate lolita.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 17:46:20 2018 No.9836168 >>9836088 /r9k/ - femme edition

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 19:04:08 2018 No.9836245 >tfw only little kids like your cosplay I guess at least someone does....

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 19:07:48 2018 No.9836251 >>9836245 what do you cosplay?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 19:23:38 2018 No.9836268 >>9836251 Peppa Pig

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 19:35:53 2018 No.9836284 File: 44 KB, 206x257, 455911DC-2FCD-4D66-B51B-10931558DF98.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9836268 lmao

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 20:08:30 2018 No.9836316 File: 96 KB, 290x387, a7c7d426-f765-501e-8eac-36a1e57595b7.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Update on mbok dd I won pic related

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 20:11:57 2018 No.9836319 File: 131 KB, 314x469, unnamed (1).png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Infertitle steroid sissy anon from other thread. How big do I have to be to cosplay Illya where it looks ironic?

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 20:42:53 2018 No.9836343 >>9836316 congrats! it's very pretty

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 21:03:30 2018 No.9836358 >>9836319 Its Infertile not Infertitle. And probably about 1.5x Illya's height 133cm * 1.5 = 199.5cm (approximately 6'6'')

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 21:06:22 2018 No.9836365 Man I just really love lolita

Anonymous Sat Mar 31 21:16:53 2018 No.9836376
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Been planning to do a General Hux. I've got most details nailed up, as well as a pretty reasonable estimate of how much i'm going to spend. It's something only for 2019, but it feels good to know you're going somewhere and you just have been able to plan things for the future.

Anonymous Sat Mar 31 21:30:14 2018 No.9836392

>Skip tea party to go to larp so I don't piss off a non-lolita fríend who got me tickets.
>Sad, but I get all excited to experience this new game I've never been to before.
>Driving to the larp it starts to snow.
>Campsite is like one big mudslide.
>Oh well, at least roleplaying will be fun?
>Turns out it's the second worst larp event I've ever been to.
>I should have stayed home and gone to the damn tea party.
What a waste of a fucking weekend.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 21:30:32 2018 No.9836393 >>9836319 Please kill yourself

Anonymous Sat Mar 31 22:31:30 2018 No.9836479
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>be neckbeard's friend out of sympathy for them
>works at McDonald's and has no future
>I'm O.K. with talking to this sad ball of fat for months because they're harmless
> tries to manipulate me to leave my relationship
>insta-block

God, it's just something about FAT sweaty neckbeards. They're always insufferable. Maybe it's because their self hatred is leaking out onto their personality.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 22:37:07 2018 No.9836486 dear cgl what the fuck does >t. mean

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 22:40:09 2018 No.9836493 >>9836486 It's a thing from Finland. T. means "terveisin" Used as in "regards, somebody" or something

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 22:48:45 2018 No.9836508 File: 612 KB, 1446x1140, veryhard.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] That feel when the girl in your sister's comm who has a crush on you just became single.

Anonymous Sat Mar 31 22:53:48 2018 No.9836516
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Why are people so crazy??

I was trying to sleep in the hallway at Sakuracon when some girl (who couldn't have been older than 14) yelled "Hey, daddy!" and flashed her underwear at some juggalo in a power scooter. Bitch had butt acne.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 23:22:35 2018 No.9836547 File: 68 KB, 900x900, asdfg.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Girlfriend and I are gonna be cosplaying and I know she's going to attract a ton of attention but I get jealous and don't want a ton of dudes on her.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 23:53:42 2018 No.9836590 >>9836358 I'm talking BMI not height. I'm 186cm and about 85kg now at 12% bf. How much more do I need? >>9836393 Well I sterilised myself, isn't that good enough? >>9836392 Tell us about the worst one.

>>	Anonymous Sat Mar 31 23:55:22 2018 No.9836594 >>9836547 are you a guy or girl?

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:00:42 2018 No.9836603

Basically reposting
I feel like kysing myself right now

>Group has been inviting me to cons
>I'm basically ignored while they're all talking so smoothly together, acting so close, having fun and whatnot
>I'm just off the side doing nothing, and I'm brushed off or passive aggressively commented on when I try speaking up
>I keep accepting since I keep thinking I might feel accepted and a part of the group, im assuming they're bringing me along to contribute to room costs
>I feel so much more fucking alone than when I'm just not with people
I thought this would be better this con, but right now it's Saturday night with everyone having a jolly time, meanwhile I'm just sitting on the bed browsing 4chan feeling alone and like complete shit.
I just want people who actively enjoy my company instead of just tolerating it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:05:49 2018 No.9836610 >>9836603 talk to them about it, and if you can't, drop them desu. If they're your real friends you can communicate to them about it.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:09:04 2018 No.9836615
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>with LDR BF for almost 6 years
>bf has always been kinda cold toward lolita, but tried being supportive
>broke up with him today, gave him a couple reasons why
> didn't tell him it's also cause I want a qt lolita gf that I can connect to emotionally and twin with

Tfw no lolita gf

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:09:27 2018 No.9836616

>>9836610
I talked to one of them about this last con, she started crying saying I meant so much to her, I'm one of her best friends, I'm one of the only people she confides in, how it really hurt her to know I'm feeling that way, etc.

She ignored me or brushed me off for the most part this con. I don't know man.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:25:06 2018 No.9836631 >>9836594 I'm male.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:26:23 2018 No.9836632 I wanna go to a con and fall in lov. :(

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:36:30 2018 No.9836645

>>9836603
No offense, but you also have to kinda join in with them and make it seem like you're interested. I am like you, or well, used to be. And to be honest, I don't really fit in with people in general, despite wanting to. I'm pretty quiet and introverted, and I love my friends, but they like talking about things like people, drama, etc, and I prefer thinking about ideas and talking about perceptions and computers and lolita... and the lolita is really the only thing we somewhat connect on. but we do have fun when I just put that aside and talk. if I don't talk, they assume I just want to be alone and introverted. Your friends might assume the same about you.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 00:59:18 2018 No.9836688

>>9836603
You're probably a bigger part of the problem than you realize or want to admit.

>right now it's Saturday night with everyone having a jolly time, meanwhile I'm just sitting on the bed browsing 4chan feeling alone and like complete shit.
Why? Your friends invited you to be in their group. Instead, you're throwing a pity party for yourself on /cgl/. You're telling your friends that you feel like they don't want you around, but look at your own behavior. They probably think that you don't want to be around them. People aren't going to cater to you socially. They're not going to sit there and go out of their way to make you feel like part of the group when you're just being a little ball of awkward instead. You're not exactly making it easy for people to actively enjoy your company here.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:11:12 2018 No.9836706

>>9836603
I agree with >>9836645 and >>9836688, especially after how you said your friend reacted here >>9836616. They don't seem to be intentionally ostracizing you, but more like they're finding it difficult to interact with you nowadays. Nobody likes being around wet noodles during cons (which you are, moping around by yourself like this). If they're still inviting you along though, they probably do still want form a connection with you. I don't know how long you've been apart of the group for, but if you're the new addition, then yes you're going to be more in the outer circles. That's pretty normal. Also
>everyone having a jolly time
For all you know, they could be worried about you? I mean, how would you know when you're just browsing 4chan in bed.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:18:41 2018 No.9836730 >>9836632 Me too

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:32:56 2018 No.9836792

>>9836645
>>9836688
>>9836706
I mean I've been trying to join in with funsies all weekend but I've been getting curt, short responses which feels like it breaks the fun atmosphere, ignores, or responses which feel like they're just trying to tell me "shut the fuck up we don't want you around get out of here" nicely and discreetly.

I know right now I'm on 4chan moping, but after dealing with this both nearly Friday and Saturday I'm getting a tad bit sad. I've been trying to avoid 4chan for the most part but I just need to vent rn.

>You're probably a bigger part of the problem
No I got you, I have definitely been thinking about this and I most likely am, maybe it's just my personality, maybe I'm not funny, maybe I'm boring af or just generally annoying, I don't know know, I really don't. It still does hurt regardless, I don't know how to fix this. It really fucking hurts when I try to join in and I just get rejected.

I think saying im off to the side was the wrong wording desu, it feels like I'm a side character that gets no real development or focus be more accurate?

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:43:01 2018 No.9836838

>>9836792
Because you are the side character? At least to other people. You're only the main character of your own story, and as such, you're responsible for your own real development. However, I can empathize with feeling inadequate around friends and feeling left out sometimes. Rather than join in on the funsies, maybe try creating your own? Like sincerely just go have fun yourself and invite your friends to join in. If they don't want to join, then at least you still had fun. I find that hinging all your enjoyment on your friends to the point it's dampening your weekend is causing a point of stress in your relationship. Sometimes it's tiring to lead the group and make sure that everyone is having a good time.

Also what exactly are the responses you're getting? I tend to find it better to err on the side of not doubting your friends' intentions unless it's super blatant. I would hate it if it was my own paranoia that ruined things for me.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:43:43 2018 No.9836840

>>9836792
anon, it sucks, especially when you feel that people don't really want you around and stuff, but it's really stressful dealing with moping/sad/overthinking people all the time. sometimes they don't know what to do, and it isn't up to other people to make life fun for you... you really have to do it yourself. I'm >>9836645 and while I hate to admit it, I was really like you, it felt a lot like people hated having me around, etc. but I honestly don't blame them, because I kinda wanted people to do their best to make me feel wanted, but that's not their job. so, go and have fun alone, or do your best to have fun with them, regardless. don't over think it, just have fun. You have to realize that you have to be in charge of yourself and your happiness. once that happens, you'll notice people treating you much differently. trust me. it's hard sometimes, but it does get better. you can do it!

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:45:09 2018 No.9836845 >>9836706 a lot of people go to cons and hthings to have fun, not sit around and try to make one person feel wanted. you are wanted or they wouldn't have invited you, but it's not their job to make you happy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:58:06 2018 No.9836882 >>9836590 You need to become taller

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 01:59:41 2018 No.9836884 >>9836882 Too bad steroids close your growth plates. I'll never get any taller.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:00:13 2018 No.9836886 >>9836792 You sound insufferable just from these posts alone, so I really don't blame them. Fix your personality, learn how to have fun by yourself, and stop expecting everyone else to make you happy.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:01:19 2018 No.9836891 >>9836376 Just remember... the supreme leader is dead.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:17:39 2018 No.9836911 File: 3.38 MB, 3036x4048, IMG_20180331_231534.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I shake hands with Mana and got an autograph, you guys jelly?

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:21:01 2018 No.9836917 >>9836911 Did he have a stroke while writing that? jesus it's sloppy

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:23:28 2018 No.9836922 How to convince gf to dress in lolita? I just think it's very cute and would suit her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:24:45 2018 No.9836923 >>9836922 It might help to buy her an outfit first. I would never drop $300+ on a dress just because a guy, even my boyfriend, thinks it's very cute and would suit me. The price is not so cute. Don't forget accessories.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:25:55 2018 No.9836924 File: 468 KB, 722x927, cute_hand_rubbing_intensifies.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9836922 Tell her it's your fetish and that you will buy her stuff she doesn't even need to do her research.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:27:57 2018 No.9836930
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>>9836923
I know nothing about lolita and what would fit her. I know super basic shit like A-line and bell-shape, petticoat are important but other than that, I'm at a loss.

>>9836924
b-but it's not a fetish, I just like cute things and want to vicariously enjoy those things through her. I'll happily buy a dress if she finds one she likes.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:29:19 2018 No.9836935

>>9836930
>I know nothing about lolita and what would fit her.
Most of the dresses only come in one size anyway, so the fit won't be a problem. You need to do the research if you want her to wear it. You can't just expect someone to hop into a fashion like this just because you're into it (not necessarily sexually).

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:33:52 2018 No.9836942 File: 28 KB, 500x330, 1521345301371.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Was having a shitty day, but I just saw how Team Creme is mopping the floor with the others, and it really made me feel better

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 02:52:31 2018 No.9836965
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>Lives in a country with no winter
>Has a dream winter Lolita coat anyway
>It pops up in the right colourway (grey)
>Agony because VM is releasing Antique Rose Doll tomorrow in grey
>Decides to hold on the coat
>Seller keeps dropping price
>Terrified I'll lose the one coat I like
>Buys it
>Praying I can get money transferred in time for VM's release tomorrow
>Checks back, seller has no feedback
>Anxiety

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:13:57 2018 No.9836984
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>wanted a female friend to cosplay with
>find a cool girl to chat with, she likes girls
>we date, perfect gay relationship, plan costumes together for the next convention
>literal 4 days before I am about to fly to her country to visit her she breaks it off with me because she doesn't like distance
>I work from home and could move to her country within a month if I wanted but ok
>con season coming around
>realization that I spent all my damn time on this unsuccessful relationship and still don't have any female cosplay buddies
fuck
somehow I feel twice as lonely as before

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:23:18 2018 No.9836999 >>9836965 Nvm, SS didn't get the coat. (VM pls re-release.)

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:28:43 2018 No.9837005 tfw no white cgl gf to black

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:29:04 2018 No.9837006 >>9836118 and I hate you >>9836268 well, are you really surprised then?

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:31:24 2018 No.9837008 >>9837005 >>9837006 Match made in heaven rapes Anonymous (37) No.9837006

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:46:29 2018 No.9837023 Wow

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:48:10 2018 No.9837025 >>9837006 >>9837023 >before >>9837008 >after >>9837008

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:53:55 2018 No.9837032 >>9836984 That why I gave up on relationship, it's much funner to just be friends. >tfw no gf

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 03:56:42 2018 No.9837036 >>9836984 >>9837032 >men pretending to be lesbian MtFs to score with women

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 04:00:45 2018 No.9837037 File: 1.76 MB, 3538x3424, 1398122180215.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9837036 >tfw I would never pass and just become a hideous creature at age 40

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 04:20:33 2018 No.9837045 Rolling for team

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 04:22:13 2018 No.9837048 >>9837045 Fug >tfw not team chocolate

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 04:23:18 2018 No.9837049 THAT FEEL WHEN YOU'RE BEST TEAM

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 04:28:40 2018 No.9837054 File: 55 KB, 640x353, thiskillshim.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9836088 >Ask bf what he thinks of lolita >"It's a hobby for shallow skinny girls obsessed with clothes" he...he didn't notice... he seriously didn't notice....

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 05:07:06 2018 No.9837069
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>>9836922
Are you the anon from the last thread whose girlfriend thought the fashion looked really weird?
Sorry but even normies that like looking at lolita would 99% of the time not wear it themselves, simply because it's so removed from what most women are used to wearing.
Now since your gf actually thinks it's weird/bad looking I really don't think there's something you can do about it.
Would you start wearing an expensive niche fashion you thought looked crappy and fetish-y just because your SO asked you to?
Your best strategy would honestly be telling her it's a fetish thing, then she might wear it at home at least.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 05:21:22 2018 No.9837081
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>>9837069
>>9836922
Also to add to this: I wear lolita/casual cute stuff and my ex-boyfriend really wanted me to start dressing in yoga pants/cropped hoodies just because he thought it looked more attractive.
I hate that kind of fashion and clothing is such a huge part of my life that I would never completely change the way I dress for someone else. I started wearing that kind of stuff at home occasionally just to make him happy, but it didn't make me happy at all.

Your gf sounded like she actually cared about her fashion, so suddenly trying convincing her of wearing something completely different that she doesn't like at all just to live vicariously through her is kinda selfish.

I mean does it have to be lolita? If you think she doesn't dress cute enough you could just get her some more affordable normie sundresses in colors and cuts she actually likes, I'm sure she wouldn't be as opposed to those at all.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 05:38:32 2018 No.9837102 >>9836479 They’re always the type of person where if you give them an inch, they’ll take a mile. You made the right choice

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 05:40:28 2018 No.9837108 >>9836516 >Sleeps in hallway at a con >calls other people crazy

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 05:42:28 2018 No.9837111

>>9836547
It's a bit funny because I'm a girl cosplaying with my boyfriend and he usually gets more attention than me. We don't make our outfits so I'm just another generic cute x character, but he's often the only attractive guy cosplaying a bishonen character so girls keep fawning over him and it makes me really jealous.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 07:27:45 2018 No.9837176 >>9836486 тoвapищ We say that to our commie friends.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 07:41:15 2018 No.9837187 >>9837048 Don't worry, I can black you if you want

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 08:21:14 2018 No.9837215 >>9836392 Sorry to hear about that. We missed you by the way

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 08:27:01 2018 No.9837221 >>9837049 WOOOOO MY PPEP FRIEND. WE GOT BEST COLOUR

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 08:28:49 2018 No.9837222 Rolling for team

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 09:45:15 2018 No.9837279

>had a fallout with two lolita friends in the same circle, who had been arguing with each other
>one doesn't turn up to meets, the other goes to most meets, so tried talking to them online instead
>"anon, you don't have to pick sides but..."

I honestly give up. I could rough it out as a lonelita. This is just as bad as a breakup.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 09:47:20 2018 No.9837282

>>9837081
>>9837069
>Would you start wearing an expensive niche fashion you thought looked crappy and fetish-y just because your SO asked you to?
I suppose as a guy clothing has a different meaning to me. Men are much more restricted in what is socially acceptable for us to wear so I can't see it from her perspective.

> If you think she doesn't dress cute enough you could just get her some more affordable normie sundresses in colors and cuts she actually likes,
I do. I voluntarily buy her cute clothes to wear all the time. Short skirts, flowery pattern dresses etc etc. But she usually either dresses as I said like Kim Kardashian or normie indie-festival girl

Maybe I should just dump her.
>tfw no lolita gf

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 09:48:56 2018 No.9837286 >>9837282 Dump her

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 09:51:47 2018 No.9837289 >>9837282 I mean yeah, if having a lolita gf is so important to you than it's better to break up with her instead of forcing something on her she hates.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 09:56:45 2018 No.9837294
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>>9837286
>>9837289
To be honest, maybe. She's only been wearing stuff like this for the past year since she started getting a new set of friends (been with her for 2.5 years already). It's changed her personality quite a lot. Before she was a lot more willing and submissive, if I thought something on the shelf was cute she would say "I can wear that if you want me to, but I don't have any money." which was fine, I knew she didn't have a lot of money so I would buy it for her and she would wear it and asked if it made me happy seeing her wear it. Which it did.

However, now when I do the same she becomes really hostile like I said in the previous thread her response to me showing her lolita was
>What the fuck? Are they 4? You like this?

So it really activates my almonds. She's turning into a person I am not happy with and there doesn't seem to be anything I can do to stop it because I'm not going to control who she chooses to associate with. So the only alternative is to dump her.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:00:26 2018 No.9837302

>>9837294
How old is she?
I mean lolita (especially sweet) has quite a bit of a stigma associated with it, even when a girl wears it normies think it's fetish/ageplay/living doll stuff, so I could understand her not wanting to wear such an attention grabbing fashion if she personally doesn't care for it at all.
But yeah, if she's even that opposed to wearing generally cute stuff and you'd like to have a cutesy girlfriend I guess there aren't that many good solutions.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:03:36 2018 No.9837307 >>9837302 She's 20, I'm 22. Met her when she was in high school, I should have anticipated this to be honest because what girl stays the same after leaving high school but dating girls my age sucks.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:07:06 2018 No.9837312

>>9837307
>she's 20
Yeah, this was to be expected. Maybe she'll come around again in a few years but you shouldn't hold your breath, a 20 year old girl that's trying to impress her friend group and chase normie trends isn't suddenly going to wear lolita for you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:10:32 2018 No.9837324 File: 33 KB, 708x368, 238746529386457.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9837312 She was so cute though...

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:17:54 2018 No.9837334

Do you ever hate someone for no reason, just because everyone likes them? There's a girl in my comm who's nice, friendly and has beautiful coords. Not to meantion she's pretty. Every time she gets a compliment I find myself disliking her more. She's never said a bad word to me or anyone I know but I seriously can't like her.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:19:15 2018 No.9837336

>>9837324
I mean usually I think the whole 'dump them' thing is stupid but it sounds like she had an extremely hostile reaction so she probably won't just change her mind overnight.
I assume that you've had a longer lasting interest in lolita fashion too and it's not just something that will suddenly change?
If your relationship is great in every other department then I'd say it's something you can work out, but if there have already been other conflicts then that kind of thing could lead to some resentment over time. You already seem annoyed with her clothing choices, she'd probably just continue thinking that you're a weirdo for liking it etc.
No one else here but you can really judge your relationship. Perhaps you'd be able to find a cute girl who wears lolita your age but you just wouldn't match with her in any other way, no relationship is perfect.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:21:44 2018 No.9837339 TFW bf Wow

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:21:51 2018 No.9837340 >>9837334 When I was younger I was prone to thinking that way about people who seemed "too perfect". Recognize that it's just jealousy and try not to let it sour a potential friendship.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:30:24 2018 No.9837349 >>9837340 How do I get past it because everyone fawns over her and I want to be sick whenever she opens her mouth/. I dont wear the same style as her but I can't stand it. I just hate her and I dont know why.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:41:05 2018 No.9837361

my mood has been so erratic lately it’s driving me crazy. i have such intense periods of ups and downs, both of which exhaust me so much that at the end of the day i just want to sleep so i can have some peace. i don’t want to kill myself (most of the time) but i often feel like i just want this all to stop so i can rest.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:42:07 2018 No.9837362 >>9836118 Man I just really hate cosplay

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:42:28 2018 No.9837363 >>9837336 This won't be fun.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:51:42 2018 No.9837374 >antidepressants made me a cow >start trying to lose weight >lost 50 lbs >plateau'd really hard and can't get the last 15 lbs off >pls mana-sama, i just want to fit into VM and unshirred ETC again

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 10:57:33 2018 No.9837377

>>9837349
Use this to improve yourself. What can you do better with your co-ords? How can you improve your make-up? Your hair? Possibly your physique (if you need it)? Hell, even your career path and social standing.

I've used this tactic to make the "perfect people" jealous themselves, and while it only somewhat worked, I realized that I was starting to get a lot happier with myself and actually didn't need any sort of validation the other person was seeking. It does still annoy me when I see attention-seeking behaviours from other people, but it's a bit easier to let it go now, knowing this.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:01:23 2018 No.9837381 >>9836922 >"I want GF in Lolita cauz it's cute" Alright >>9837294 >"Before she was a lot more willing and submissive" Hm >>>9837307 >"Dating girls my age sucks" HM

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:05:24 2018 No.9837383 >>9837374 Attempt to carb cycle. It's probably your insulin sensitivity getting fucked. >>9837381 Don't know what you're trying to imply.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:09:10 2018 No.9837389 >>9837383 >"Don't know what you're trying to imply" >"I'm 22" hM

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:10:09 2018 No.9837390 File: 362 KB, 700x700, que.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9837389

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:12:12 2018 No.9837394 >>9837324 >>9837307 >>9837282 >>9837383 59% convinced ur a creepy shitposter.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:12:52 2018 No.9837395 >>9837394 Okay.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:14:25 2018 No.9837396 >>9837394 Or he's just your typical american retard >>9837381 They're implying you're a kiddie chaser, you dumb fuck

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:15:36 2018 No.9837400 >>9837396 >Or he's just your typical american retard I'm Australian. >They're implying you're a kiddie chaser, you dumb fuck That's retarded.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:19:52 2018 No.9837408 >>9837396 >sorry to>>9837381 Response was to >>9837383 You're a creeper that has a fetish for kids is the implication

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:24:02 2018 No.9837413

>>9837400
Really?
>dating my own age sucks
>is 22
>I wish she was submissive like when she was younger
>I want her to wear cute things or it's a deal breaker
>she used to wear the things that I picked out and bought for her
>like a kid
Do you seriously, actually, genuinely not understand how this could come across as at least a bit creepy

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:27:05 2018 No.9837417 >>9837413 I can understand why it comes across as creepy but I just don't care, she's of legal consenting age. I like what I like.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:30:02 2018 No.9837422 >>9837417 But you did like her better when she was 17 and would wear stuff you picked out for her to be submissive in?

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:36:43 2018 No.9837430

>>9837422
It's not for her to be submissive in, it's not a sex thing to pick out her clothes for her. It's not like I'm dressing in her "Daddy's Little Monster" tripe. I just see something that I think would look cute on her, ask her if she would wear it for me, if she says yes I buy, if she says no I don't. But she was never hostile or critically of the things I picked out until a few months ago. If I asked why she didn't like something she would pick out the things she's didn't like but now it's more of a blunt "I just don't like it."

I liked her because she was just generally happier and more pleasant to be around than she is now, wouldn't matter if she was 17 or 25. I haven't changed much since I met her )other than physically I've put on muscle and maybe gotten an inch or two taller), still do the same stuff, act the same way so I think she's 'outgrowing' me or at least wants to outgrow me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:44:00 2018 No.9837443 i feel like im fetishising my cosplay/ characters that i want to cosplay

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:44:07 2018 No.9837444 File: 241 KB, 549x598, 1521337312643.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9836838 >>9836840 >>9836886 Thanks friendos

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 11:44:59 2018 No.9837447 >>9837422 Age of consent is 16 in Australia, what does it matter.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:12:26 2018 No.9837487 >>9837417 eh, I don't think it's creepy. some women love that, myself included.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:17:18 2018 No.9837495 File: 452 KB, 500x246, tumblr_n0u8h0rANI1tsuoc0o1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9837215 Ahh, thank you, I missed you all too! The photos I've seen looked cute, I hope it was a fun time!

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:35:42 2018 No.9837517
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Anon from few days ago here. I got my dream job!
Waiting for the final offer that will indicate money, but I know it will be good.
>will be able to finally start saving towards fixing my insecurities
>will be able to buy burando
>will move to a lovely town in a wonderful country
>will finally move in together with my bf
>long term position
>probably going to settle down there for years
I'm so happy gulls!
I went there for the interview in an ETC skirt, the people were dressed casually in general, I think I will be able to wear lolita to work.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:42:37 2018 No.9837530 >>9837361 Anon you might have bipolar disorder. You should try seek help to see if you actually are or aren’t.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:44:21 2018 No.9837536 >>9837517 I'm happy for you. Looks like things are going to turn out great.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 12:51:39 2018 No.9837558 >>9837487 B R I S B A N E

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:04:37 2018 No.9837589 I'm gonna black the next peep in this thread.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:11:00 2018 No.9837610 >>9837589 No you're not.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:22:18 2018 No.9837632 >>9837610 ejaculates inside her pink cunny she liked it You can call it AIDS.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:32:44 2018 No.9837657 >let man of my dreams slip away why did i take for granted he would always be there for me? i miss him.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:33:30 2018 No.9837659 >>9837657 I'm still here bby

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 13:33:41 2018 No.9837660 File: 74 KB, 606x489, 2b5ef73ba949e1fac0bd93d674342628.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw I now remember this existed

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:17:15 2018 No.9837741 >>9837632 L O L

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:22:05 2018 No.9837747 I put on a little weight last summer and I’ve been trying really hard to take it back off, but I’m still not back down to my original weight. I feel like I’ve hit a wall, it’s just so frustrating. I keep working and barely see any progress.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:29:24 2018 No.9837762 Which one of your babygulls wants my peanut butter all over their burando?

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:32:40 2018 No.9837764 >gets into /cgl/ shenanigans because it's April's Fools. >thread get pruned. Oh, okay. I'll take that as a sign to lay off the mischief. Back the usual business... toning it down, and waiting to buy accessories.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:33:46 2018 No.9837766 i don't care for sweets this is both an easter feel and me checking my team

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:40:33 2018 No.9837776

>>9837747
You should calculate your TDEE based on your current weight and check if you're actually eating below it.
But even if you are, it's normal for your weight loss to slow down when you're close to your goal weight ; weight loss is always faster at higher weights. Don't give up, keep eating well and exercising, and you'll get there.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:50:42 2018 No.9837793

>>9837747
best of luck anon and do your best! i started counting calories last autumn and stuck to a certain calorie intake per day - i ended up losing around 12 pound but it's dangerous since i'm now terrified of eating/gaining that weight back
you just need a good balance between healthy eating and light exercise and you'll do fine!

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 14:58:08 2018 No.9837814

>>9837054
He's not totally wrong, though personally I wish more people in this subculture were obsessed with the clothes; as it is, many lolitas are actually obsessed with being kawaii uguu and playing dress up, instead.
What was he supposed to notice and didn't?

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 15:42:52 2018 No.9837895 >>9836547 get her a burqa

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 15:57:24 2018 No.9837917 Anyone ever just kinda feel all hnnnggg when something they're making is finally taking shape?

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 17:45:39 2018 No.9838055
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>>9836516
I saw some little and her daddy in the dealer room this weekend. She wanted some Sailor Moon shit, but he said "No, because you've been a bad girl!" and grabbed her ass HARD. Like he was squeezing juice from an orange.

MFW watching all of this

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 17:52:42 2018 No.9838065 >>9838055 Kinksters openly displaying their sex lives in public need to be deported.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 17:54:08 2018 No.9838069 >>9838065 THIS

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 19:13:51 2018 No.9838214

>>9837530
You probably have a point there. I'm already being medicated for Major Depression and General Anxiety Disorder. I feel like I can push through it and cope without any additional medication, for the most part, but I do occasionally have bad episodes that drain the fuck out of me, like right now.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 19:27:39 2018 No.9838231 >>9836365 Man I just love cosplay

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 19:31:34 2018 No.9838239 >>9837036 >men on cgl

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 19:58:23 2018 No.9838277

My ouji haul arrived yesterday, but I’ve been out of town for Passover weekend. I have a neighbor watching my pets, and he texted me yesterday and said “by the way there was a package on your doorstep so I put it inside.” I’m so glad my neighbor grabbed it because I live near assholes that would have stolen it off my porch.

USPS has made me go to the post office because I didn’t answer the door for $12 makeup before. I can’t beleive they’d leave a $400 package on the porch.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:02:39 2018 No.9838282 >>9836984 I'm so sorry to hear that anon. Currently in a LDR (murica and germany) and meeting her this september. I am sure there is hope for you. She's also MtF and has the same problem as you so you're not alone dontchu worry

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:05:53 2018 No.9838287 >>9837037 la creatura...

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:09:15 2018 No.9838290 >>9837054 while he's not wrong, you should still leave him for being that oblivious

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:27:31 2018 No.9838314
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>Placed an order at Clobba
>First time buyer
>I'm okay with getting roughed in the pricing and stuff
>Not buying that much either way
>Please just give me frills, you shameless reseller
>Actually had so much fun carefully choosing from their limited selection
>Line up order with excitement
>Even takes DHL shipping
>Chose bank transfer for payment
>Get confirmation emails for signup
>Get confirmation email for order
>We will send another email with bank transfer instructions
>Order won't ship until payment has been made
>Order was placed this Wedneday
>No bank transfer email in sight
>Two business days and a weekend is already killing me

Please just take my money, I'm a dumb noob who wishes she deserved better than this.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:28:41 2018 No.9838316 >>9837558 >tfw also a Brisfag >notice me senpai

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:32:12 2018 No.9838318 >>9838316 Are you a girl or at least a pretty boy?

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 20:59:54 2018 No.9838373 >>9838318 Definitely female, being a pretty boy with a flat chest would be easier >too bad you'll never really know

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 21:19:34 2018 No.9838394 An ita came to a meet sick, made food for the meet, and did not tell anyone she was sick until after people ate her food. I'm hoping she didn't get people sick, but at least the sandwiches were okay. Sorta.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 21:26:46 2018 No.9838410 >>9838394 As long as she washed her hands and didn't sneeze all over the food, you'll be fine my dude.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 22:16:02 2018 No.9838466

>Working on improving self because I actually want to be worth people's time when I try and start dating
>Struggling with discipline and maintaining a healthy regimen to lose weight
>Still struggling to beat porn addiction
>Don't feel comfortable trying to find someone to date until I fix these two things
I never give up hope that I'm good enough, and that I can beat my problems, but some days just make you want to break down and go back to the old ways. Hopefully there's another anon on /cgl/ who will want to come to cons with me when it's all said and done

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 22:19:48 2018 No.9838474 >>9838394 Real shitty of her not to let you guys know or just let someone else make the food, but you should be fine.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 22:21:53 2018 No.9838477
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>come home from con
>hit by post-con depression
>remember my cos-friend who died a few years ago
>start looking at pictures of her
Why do I do this to myself? It feels like just yesterday we were Panty and Stocking together. I haven't been able to touch my Stocking since I lost her.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 22:24:46 2018 No.9838485 >>9838477 People always think con-depression isn't real until it happens to them.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 23:27:59 2018 No.9838607 >>9838485 It sucks man. I just want more cute shit in my life, but it's bad to sad reality for me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 1 23:32:00 2018 No.9838613 >>9838373 REEEEEEEE DON'T TEMPT YOU SEDUCTRESS If you live in the New Farm/Newstead/Valley area come into the Woolworths sometime in lolita and I'll compliment you.

Anonymous Sun Apr 1 23:37:38 2018 No.9838622

>finally have high paying easy job to fund costumes and also gives me the flexibility to travel to cons 3 times a month if i wanted to without financial worry
>have no desire to
What happened? A few years ago this was all I dreamed about. I found inspiration in everything that I watched or played and in other's cosplays. I actively blueprinted, planned, and measured every weekend. For the past few months now I didn't even care if I ended up missing my state's one big annual con.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 01:41:37 2018 No.9838764 >>9838613 >oh fuck S-See you there, anon-kun~ >relevant contribution >in stitches at a funny comment on APs april fools. >mfw no one I know gets it >tfw on mobile and cant even illustrate mfw with my otherwise useless lolita reaction folder

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 01:45:27 2018 No.9838766

>>9838622
Because when you work a full time job all you really want at the end of the day is to relax. Unless building stuff is relaxing and cathartic for you it it just feels like more work at the end of a long day. Save up for a while and maybe you'll find the inspiration again someday but maybe use the money to take a trip that isnt con related.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:06:30 2018 No.9838777 File: 429 KB, 500x425, 22190914d96899a7c02082d9f6738af43d8adea4_hq.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9838764 >S-See you there, anon-kun~ oh...oh no...

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:11:45 2018 No.9838784 >>9838477 I’m sorry for your loss anon. I know your friend can never be replaced, but I do hope you’ll one day find someone new to cosplay with

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:21:20 2018 No.9838791
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>calls a group out on their petty bullshit
>they think it's the same person calling them out from before
>don't realize that more than one person is tired of their same shit everyday

I wish people would be more reasonable and realize when to stop when the salt gets too salty

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:44:15 2018 No.9838806 >>9838277 Next time ask the seller to indicate that it's to return to the post office for pick up. They have to specify that.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:45:18 2018 No.9838807 >>9838314 Wow, just message him.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 02:45:42 2018 No.9838808

>>9838777
I don't think either of us prepared for this outcome

>don't worry anon
>muh social anxiety
>will probably never show

There is also a number of Woolies in that general area. Chances are I would go to the wrong one

>gasworks is pretty convenient for me
>fuck, better never go there again

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 04:10:56 2018 No.9838861
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>>9838808
>gasworks
>mfw

I've probably served you then anon-chan, unless you're anti-social and go through self-serve. I'll be working tomorrow night so you can come and stare at me then determine if I'm a creeper or not.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 04:43:22 2018 No.9838876

Be at Anime Matsuri. See cute girl, i cant get her curly hair out of my head. I follow her and her husband around for a bit watching her play with her baby. He leaves to a different stand so i go talk to her. She actual holds a conversation with me. When she would talk to me she looked me in the eyes (not many people do that) We talk for about 15 minutes before i start to worry about her husband coming back. I fake a text to have an excuse to leave the conversation. She smiled at me and said "Im so happy i met someone like you. Its nice getting to chat about anime i like. I hope you have a good con." She smiled and waved bye and walked off into the crowd. Instantly regretted ending the conversation early. I should have at least told her i liked her or something but i couldnt. As i watched her walk off she turned back to me again and smiled and waved at me. I fell in love with her at that moment.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 04:53:25 2018 No.9838878
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>Tfw you have to force yourself to unpack after getting home because doing so means acknowledging that the con is over and you have to go back to real life.

>>9838065
Good luck getting anyone deported in Seattle.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:06:15 2018 No.9838882 >>9838878 >taking "deported" literally Would you have preferred "annihilated"?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:07:02 2018 No.9838883 >>9838882 "cleansed"

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:11:06 2018 No.9838888

>>9838861
>Well this escalated quickly

I'll probably be having dinner and going to bed around the time you start, so my investigation adventure will have to wait.

Not going to lie though, I'll be keeping an eye out every time I'm there for the rest of my life.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:15:49 2018 No.9838891 >>9838888 I've never seen a single person dressed in lolita in the 2.5 years I've worked there. I've always hoped I would considering Newstead is a 'trendy' suburb. Please brighten up my day. I'll keep a watch out from now on.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:19:25 2018 No.9838896 >>9838882 >>9838883 Either-or. The point I was making is that people pull that shit because they know they can get away with it and some people might even encourage their behavior.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:29:03 2018 No.9838908 >>9838622 This is how capitalism kills your soul

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:32:51 2018 No.9838910

>>9838876
I couldnt stop thinking about her so when i found them again i stayed close by. I watched her feed her baby "big girl food" and it made me happy. She was looking at some shirts and this little girl ran into her and fell and started crying and she helped the girl up and pulled a toy out of her bag and gave it to the girl. The little girl smiled and thanked her and ran off again. Her kindness really moved me. Eventually i wanted to talk to her again. She gets really interested in a figure at a stand, so i make my way to the same stand. She was bent over looking at something and i cant help but to stare. She had a really nice body for having a baby. She notices me and smiles at me again. She starts to say something and then this lady walked into her and she stumbled into my chest. I ask her if she is ok but when she looks up at me her face was so red from blushing. She said, "Im sorry, i didnt mean to... im just im gonna.... i uuh..." She ran off but since i was holding onto her hand when she left her bracelet slipped off. I found her again. But i couldnt bring myself to talk to her. So i just watched her and her husband. He looked at every girl that wasnt her. She even noticed and laughed about it. But i could see she was hurt by it. Later she is by herself again. She is looking sort of sad so i "accidentally" bumped into her. She moaned lightly and shivered. When she turned around she had a very idk hungry/lustful look in her eyes. She apologized quickly and tried to leave again but i grabbed her hand. She looked back at me. I said, "earlier you dropped this." and handed her back her bracelet.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 05:34:54 2018 No.9838911 >>9838896 And my point is that people shouldn't let this shit behavior fly. People call security on creeps, they should do the same thing for these degenerates who are getting off on exposing their sex lives to unwilling parties.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 06:22:05 2018 No.9838930

>>9838910
She thanked me a few times and we had a short conversation before her husband walked up. We all talked a bit. After they left i felt sad. All i wanted was to get to know her but all i did was stalk around and watch her. I didnt see them after that. She had been on my mind all night. Next day i visit family for easter. Everyone is in the front yard for an egg hunt. I notice their neighbor doing yard work looked like the girl from the con. Think its wishful thinking and continue talking with uncle. Later the neighbor stops by to bring a homemade cake. Aunt asks me to answer the door. Im in disbelief because standing there was the person who captivated my heart. My aunt came up and took the cake and invited her in. They talked a bit but she kept looking over at me. My aunt noticed nudged her and commented on how i was handsome. She blushed and my aunt laughed and joked about teasing a married woman. It was at that moment i realized that id never get to hold her or be with her but she is always going to be someone i think about. I started to shed tears. It hurt. I grabbed her by her hand and pulled her to a room and closed the door. At this point i cant hold it back and i embrace her tightly and kiss her. I expected her to struggle or something but she held me tight and kissed me back. She was crying and said she was so happy to see me again.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 06:39:21 2018 No.9838931 File: 26 KB, 640x467, pleasedont.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9838055 What is it with cosplayers and this fetish?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:11:40 2018 No.9838947 >>9838931 I think the fetish came first. They're already into pretending to be something they're not, and then they find cosplay

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:39:36 2018 No.9838966
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>want to go to local con on Sunday with friend
>cant go on Saturday because of work, job is over at 9pm
>a friend's sister invited us for her bachelor party on Saturday at 9:30pm
>friend who will go to the con wants to bring her cringy and annoying friends that the (soon to be?) bride don't even know and never invited in the first place
>she wants to bring them to the wedding too
>they'll be here during the con and will try to drag me to panels and things I don't care about because "we're friends!!1!" even though I barely know them and will only have one day of con
>mfw she always does that shit for anything we plan even though we can barely see each others these days because she moved to another city
>mfw when I ask on the group chat who wants to hang out during our days off she suddenly spams the group to complain about not being able to see us to the point when nobody else can even see my messages
I love her but goddamn I'm sick of her. I should go to cons by myself and not tell anyone.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:43:39 2018 No.9838972 >>9836930 If you like cute things so much, why not wear it yourself instead of trying to pressure someone else into it?

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:43:39 2018 No.9838973
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>no time to make a new cosplay this season because taking classes
>have a lot of weeb and lolita shit i need to sell, feeling shame and space restraints from how wasteful i was in spending
>s.o. doesn't wanna do a couple cosplay til he loses weight
>both of us suffering from stage 7 of erikson's theory of psychosocial development
>personally wondering if i should give up my current lifestyle of working full time, going to cons and doing weeb shit to join the armed forces so i'm contributing more in my life
life changing decisions are stressful

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:44:58 2018 No.9838974 >>9838972 Because I'm a guy and it's not socially acceptable for me to wear lolita dresses.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 07:59:44 2018 No.9838977 >>9837430 Tastes change, people change. Like how much clearer can she tell you? She doesn't want to look cute at the moment and she currently prefers the sexy look...and that's kinda not for you to dictate, sorry.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:01:31 2018 No.9838979 >>9838974 Become an ouji accessory and live the dream

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:04:13 2018 No.9838981

>>9838977
>and that's kinda not for you to dictate, sorry.
Never said I am going to dictate. Hence why I don't control who she associates with even though I dislike her friends and hence why I'm considering dumping her because she has changed rather than giving her ultimatums to force her into something she doesn't want.

>>9838979
Don't like ouji.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:18:28 2018 No.9838989

>>9838981
It always confuses the heck out of me when guys say this
>i think lolita is so cute!
>not in a fetishy way, I swear
>BUT NOT OUJI

like, its the same shit just with pants???
If it's not about the girl in the skirt, then why is ouji on outs? I just dont get it

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:19:03 2018 No.9838990 >>9838974 it's not socially acceptable to wear lolita dresses for anyone in the world

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:21:02 2018 No.9838992 >>9838989 I'm a male. I do not want to look cute, I like cute things and I wish I could wear them but I cannot because of societal stigma surrounding that. Women are given a lot more leeway in what is acceptable for them to wear in society, men are not.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:22:05 2018 No.9838993 >>9838974 If you're not too old and can dress well in lolita (hold yourself to the same standard as girls) it will become very easy to find a lolita girlfriend

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:24:01 2018 No.9838994 >>9838992 See >>9838990 Basically you want someone else to wear cute shit and look like a weirdo in public so that you don't have to

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:25:10 2018 No.9838995 >>9838993 I'm 22, I don't want to dress in lolita. I'm not inherently interested in having a lolita girlfriend, I would like a girlfriend who so happens to enjoy lolita. The person comes first, lolita is a bonus. >>9838994 You're correct.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:33:12 2018 No.9838997 File: 94 KB, 1080x1080, 11375774_1621033591508019_5257649_n.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9838992 If you just like cute things you but don't want to dress like an actual woman, should be like Ryuchell and become a local celebrity.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:36:05 2018 No.9838998 >>9838995 >wants to break up with girlfriend because she doesn't want to wear cute things anymore >b-but the person comes first!

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:36:57 2018 No.9838999 >>9838998 No. I want to break up with her because she's no longer a person that I enjoy being around.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:38:35 2018 No.9839001 >>9838993 lmao it sounds like >>9838316 has it covered

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:44:39 2018 No.9839002
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>dated a girl in my senior year of high school
>she actually got me into lolita
>break up because I was moving away for college
>9 months later she somehow gets my number and scares the shit out of me and my then gf
>block her
>post election she somehow hits me up again asking me if I was happy "daddy trump" won
>block her again
>come back home for a bit, con coming up in 2 weeks
>worried I'm going to run into her

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 08:45:05 2018 No.9839003 >>9839001 not the same person

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:13:15 2018 No.9839017 >>9838994 >>9838995 >Basically you want someone else to wear cute shit and look like a weirdo in public so that you don't have to >You're correct. Yeah please do your girlfriend a favor and break up with her, you sound like a tool.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:15:19 2018 No.9839019 >>9839017 MTE. Imagine being this entitled. I wear lolita daily and would probably be "a weirdo" according to anon's girlfriend, but I still thinks she deserves much better than him.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:28:17 2018 No.9839028

>>9839017
Don't see how. I'm not forcing her to do anything and I don't expect anything of her other than to be a person I enjoy being around. I even said in the previous thread I think she dresses really well and she looks really good. You're making very huge leaps of judgement. I only offered to see if she was interested, she refused with hostility, I asked here how I might convince her which led to discussions about underlying relationship problems and my general unhappiness towards the relationship because of her general hostility towards me which has developed over the past 6 months.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:37:22 2018 No.9839032

>>9839028
See, here's the thing: If she reacts with hostility to the idea of lolita fashion, why try convincing her to wear it? She clearly doesn't like it, based on this alone it's safe to assume she won't enjoy wearing it; speaking from a decade of experience in this frilly hell, you have to love it to wear it.
If you feel like she's developed general hostility towards you, it's possible you're growing apart. Discuss this with her, try to have a genuine, open, mature conversation about this, and prepare yourself for the possibility of breaking up - Not because she won't wear lolita or other jfash for you, but because you don't get along anymore. That happens sometimes, and it's best for both of you to end it if neither of you is happy.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:43:29 2018 No.9839035

>>9839032
>>9839032
Because most people can be convinced of something given time and reason because usually a gut reaction is not an informed reaction.

I don't think any sort of dialogue will work if I'm honest. I think the relationship has been over in her head for a while now. She's just waiting on me to pull the trigger so she doesn't have the guilt.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:55:16 2018 No.9839041 >>9839035 I mean you said that even though she dresses well it still makes you want to rip your eyes out because it's so boring, I assume that isn't just a 'gut reaction' either. Really sounds like breaking up would be best.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:57:06 2018 No.9839044

>>9838999
a person who doesn't want to wear things anymore that she didn't like in the first place. she used to do those things to make you happy but have you ever worn stuff to make her happy? desu it sounds like she just got more confident to be herself

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:58:14 2018 No.9839047 >>9839041 It is boring. She dresses like every other girl. It looks good. Just boring. I just try to nudge her into more alternative, bright and fun things. But yeah. Breakup has been on my mind for a bit

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 09:58:43 2018 No.9839048

>>9839035
If that's the case then why delay it? Like I said, try have a mature discussion with her about it. Be honest, tell her how you feel (and be sure to say things that you feel, avoid ways of speech that might imply that she's to blame for anything, otherwise she might get defensive), listen to what she has to say, and see where you go from there. Again, if neither of you is happy then there's no point wasting time on this relationship.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:00:39 2018 No.9839050

>>9839044
She's never asked to me wear anything specific and compliments how I make myself appear. If she seriously wanted to me to wear something like ouji, I'd consider it and ask her more questions about why she thinks it would look good on me to give me some confidence to wear it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:01:27 2018 No.9839052 >>9839047 Yeah but that is your own opinion. To her, her 'boring' fashion is fun and she seems to think alternative stuff is weird, her opinion is as valid as yours. Don't try to nudge her into stuff she doesn't like.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:08:24 2018 No.9839055

>>9839048
Delaying out of denial really. I don't want to accept the person I fell in love with is now not there.

>>9839052
I should be able to express my opinion and support for different things I would like to see my partner try and those feelings should be taken seriously rather than faced with demeaning hostility. It's not like I'm forcing my opinion down her throat.
When I asked her about lolita this was the conversation
>Hey Kara, do you think you'd ever wear something like this?
>>What is that?
>It's a type of fashion called lolita, I think you'd look very cute in it.
>She leans in closer to the picture
>>What the fuck? Are they 4? You like this?
>I think it looks fun and different.
>>Yeah, I don't think so.

And that was that. I'm not demanding she wears it or that the way she looks now is bad.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:09:23 2018 No.9839056 >>9839050 But you said you enjoy lolita and ouji isn't that far off, so from the beggining you are positive. Think about the style of clothing you hate, and then assume she'd really like it if you'd wear it. What do you do now?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:11:07 2018 No.9839057 >>9839055 But why did you feel the need to post twice about 'how to convince your gf of dressing in lolita fashion?' then? lol

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:12:23 2018 No.9839058 >>9839055 >>9839057 This, even if you 'aren't forcing your opinion down her throat' you clearly aren't respecting her opinion either, otherwise you wouldn't try to convince her of doing something she doesn't want to.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:14:53 2018 No.9839062

>>9839056
I would ask for her assistance in paying for said clothes, helping me dress correctly and I would wear those clothes when I'm around her and in the right mood. I would do the same for her, buy her a dress to try it out and see if she liked it, if not then no harm, no foul and I'm happy she at least gave it a go.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:17:15 2018 No.9839063

>>9839055
Sounds like you're making a bigger deal of this than it needs to be.
If you love her, then what she chooses to wear, or her not kowtowing to your every whim, shouldn't be a big deal. It's her body. Just move on. Or, break up and go on a quest to find a submissive gf who will dress however you choose.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:17:51 2018 No.9839064

>>9839058
I've convinced her to do plenty of things she now enjoys and goes out of her way to do like ice skating, eating baby octopus, watching anime, swimming in the ocean. All of those she was vehemently opposed to until I applied some pressure and now she loves them. Imo part of being in a relationship is encouraging your partner to try things they may not initially like. I am similar, I seriously need to be pushed and coerced to get out of my comfort zone.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:21:45 2018 No.9839066

>>9839064
I feel like 'coercing' someone into wearing alternative fashion entirely goes against the spirit of alt fashion.
I mean you showed her lolita fashion, she knows what it is now, if she suddenly feels like wearing it she could either look it up on her own or ask you about it.
If you're already used to making her do things she doesn't want to then why ask for advice here?
Sounds like in the past she was just submissive and you could talk her into doing whatever, and now she has become more confident and doesn't want to do that stuff anymore.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:24:29 2018 No.9839068 >>9839066 I have experience with ice skating, eating octopus etc. I know how fun it can be, I don't know the same about lolita so I asked her to get some anecdotes on why it's enjoyable and worth a try.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:27:35 2018 No.9839071

>>9839068
As a girl who wears lolita: I would never recommend wearing it to someone who doesn't have a passion for it.
Even as a woman you get a lot of shit for wearing it, people think you're a weirdo, it attracts a lot of attention and creepy people and it can get really expensive.
Alternative fashion is about rebellion and going against the grain, if you wear it for someone else and not for yourself it's honestly a fucking pain.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:27:54 2018 No.9839072

>>9839068
You completely missed anon's point though. Fashion isn't like eating seafood, it's a form of self expression, doubly so for alternative fashion. Had your gf liked lolita when you introduced her to it that would've been fine, but she doesn't, and if she doesn't like lolita then she won't enjoy wearing it, and if she doesn't enjoy wearing it, i can guarantee that she'll look like shit if she tried it, and then you'll both be miserable.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:28:29 2018 No.9839073 >>9839071 Then forgive my ignorance on the topic.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:32:20 2018 No.9839076

>>9839072
If she hated it, then that's fine. I would be over the moon that she gave it a try even if she put the dress on for a minute and then tore it straight off in disgust calling it pedo material. It's truly the thought that counts because she was willing to do that for me. If she loved it, even better.

I just can't see the harm in my action. Relationships are give and take. I do things I dislike all the time for her. I don't like giving massages for an hour until my hands are cramping and in pain but I do it because I want to make her happy.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:39:04 2018 No.9839077

>>9839076
But lolita takes so much time investment and money.
You already said that neither you nor your girlfriend have any clue about it, did you expect to buy some shitty $20 dress from ebay for her to put on? Anyone would feel miserable in that.
So if she knew from the beginning that she hated it did you still hope she would get familiar with the secondhand market or buy a brand new dress for $200 just to put it on and still hate it? I get your point but I don't think it really works in this situation.
I feel like the very first thing you should do in this situation is familiarize yourself with the fashion, because you don't seem to have any idea what it really is yourself.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:40:17 2018 No.9839078 >>9839055 It sounds like a very normal reaction and you have a victim-complex of some sorts

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:45:33 2018 No.9839081 File: 63 KB, 960x960, 1493147984794.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no weeb bf to do couples cosplay and coords with I just want to do one really good Isaac and Miria cosplay before I get too old AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:56:26 2018 No.9839091
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>>9839055
May I ask what image you showed her to demonstrate lolita fashion to her?
Guessing by her reaction it was some kind of pastel sweet look?
If you want to introduce lolita to a normie it's honestly always best to use classic and vintage-y looking pictures, it's better when people think "Oh, this looks old-fashioned." rather than "Oh, this looks childish.".
Even if you wanted her to wear sweet lolita this is a better starting point and something that's more recognizable for a normie since most have seen vintage-y hipster fashion before.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:56:33 2018 No.9839092 File: 2.90 MB, 512x384, giphy.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Those stupid sexual assault resource agency people still haven't gotten back to me >>9839081 Make it Max and Miria and I'm in

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 10:57:54 2018 No.9839093

>>9839077
I know lolita costs a lot. I'd be very willing to fork out a few hundred for BTSSB or Angelic Pretty or whatever brand dress she liked for her to try.

>>9839078
It's not a normal reaction to act aggressive and demeaning to your partner's earnest suggestion and feelings.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:00:48 2018 No.9839095 >>9839091 I showed her a lolita I follow on insta https://www.instagram.com/kuroekoo/

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:04:53 2018 No.9839098 >TFW I'm an alt-right lolita >TFW I support segregation and sending back all non-white immigrants >TFW no friends

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:06:13 2018 No.9839100 >>9839095 Ok, she did just have an aevrage normie reaction then. Anything with prints like that/pastel colors/animal ears is just really unfamiliar for normies, or rather the only place where they have seen it before is kids's fashion.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:12:05 2018 No.9839103 >>9839098 >tfw no lolita gf to crusade against Islam with

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:14:54 2018 No.9839105
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>>9839095
>>9839100
Showing her something like pic related would've probably gone over way better, at least the colors would've been to her liking then, plus she wouldn't have assumed that it was for kids or a fetish thing then.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:16:18 2018 No.9839106

>>9839100
I'm fine with a "What the fuck is this bullshit?" reaction. The primary point is the disregard for my suggestion and absolute no interest in my feelings towards it. I would have liked a "Why do you think I'd look good in it?" or "Why do you like it?"

I mean, I feel the relationship is done the more I dwell on this because this has been a common theme for a while now. I'll suggest something, get a hostile reaction back and then nothing happens.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:19:20 2018 No.9839107

>>9839106
I think most girls would've had the same reaction if their boyfriend showed them some girl he's following on IG that wears pink poofy dresses with Disney prints and has stuffed animal purses.
I love & wear lolita fashion myself but I can understand why normies feel the way they do about it, it's a normal reaction.

Well, if she reacts to anything else that way too though than yeah, it's probably just a sign that something is going wrong in your relationship.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:25:43 2018 No.9839111

>>9839107
I think more guys than you realise like really cute things, we just don't like to publicly admit it so then we find cute girls to experience those cute things together.

It's just upsetting knowing what was and what is now. Probably why I've been delaying it in hopes it was just a phase. More breakups for the breakup god.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:28:27 2018 No.9839113 >>9839111 >I think more guys than you realise like really cute things No trust me, I know that, but I also know that a lot of girls my age are creeped out by stuff like that too. Guys tend to be way more open to lolita fashion than girls honestly.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:32:52 2018 No.9839116 >>9839113 Girls just seem to be terrible. I wish I had the gay.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:33:45 2018 No.9839117 File: 195 KB, 558x581, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw no /cgl/ gf

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:35:24 2018 No.9839119 >>9839116 jfc just break up with your gf then and either find another teenage girl you can talk into doing stuff or start wearing lolita fashion yourself

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:39:08 2018 No.9839121 >>9839113 Where the fuck do you live that girls think that? Most of my normie female friends love lolita- my normie male friends think it's kind of weird/funny, but don't give me any shit for it.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:42:54 2018 No.9839124

>>9839116
No girls just don't like it when you project your own desires/insecurities onto their fashion choices, especially if it takes the form of ageplay pedobait clothes.

Just grow a pair and wear lolita already or let your dreams die. No girl deserves to be subjected to your bullshit.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:44:37 2018 No.9839125 >>9839116 what, girls are terrible for not liking the same cutesy shit you like?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:49:05 2018 No.9839128 >>9839119 >>9839124 >>9839125 Yes.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:51:39 2018 No.9839130 File: 22 KB, 260x476, 931b8ec242f3026ef1c7d0d96bb60371.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Are there any guys who like lolita that aren't creepy weirdos?

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:52:44 2018 No.9839131

>>9839116
You sound unsufferable. Person doesn't want to do everything you like? Boo hoo, that's life, get over yourself. If it bothers you so much talk about it with her, don't sperg on 4chan for few hours. Just give your girlfriend a favor and break up.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 11:54:24 2018 No.9839132 >>9839131 >Person doesn't want to do everything you like? Boo hoo, that's life, get over yourself. Strawman. I haven't brought that up once. I don't expect her to do anything other than consider my feelings.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:01:05 2018 No.9839136 >>9839130 I like to think I'm not a creepy weirdo but that's probably something a creepy weirdo would say.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:06:29 2018 No.9839139 >>9839130 Nope. See >>9839136. He is a creepy weirdo and he pretends to be into it to get a gr

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:09:54 2018 No.9839142 >>9839098 >>TFW no friends I wonder why

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:27:06 2018 No.9839160

>>9839132
Why are you so entitled? Have you considered her feelings at all? She doesn't like lolita and doesn't want to wear it. These are her feelings. And these are more important to her. At this point I think you just want to make her feel miserable, just like you feel when you massage her.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:47:38 2018 No.9839175 >>9839130 I'm probably a creepy weirdo, but I mean well

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:52:51 2018 No.9839178 >>9839130 All guys are creepy weirdos in some way.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 12:55:01 2018 No.9839181

>>9839130
I mean, if a guy knows about and specifically likes lolita before even meeting a girl who's into it, it really does read as creepy to me. My boyfriend likes my clothes a lot, but he hadn't ever heard about lolita before meeting me. At first he was slightly embarrassed to be out with someone who draws so much attention but he strongly prefers I wear this over some instathot or other normie style. If a guy specifically says "I want a lolita girlfriend" you have to wonder why and it almost always has some kind of fetishy origin.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:11:46 2018 No.9839194
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>>9839181
>browse /cgl/ for years because I like cosplay
>naturally come across lolita from browsing the board regularly
>think the fashion is nice, knowa small amount about different styles
>I'm now a potential rapist

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:16:08 2018 No.9839196

>>9839194
Whoa boy now that is a reach. Anon said nothing about rape or potential rapists, just that stating "I want a lolita gf" is strange and possibly a red flag coming from someone who isn't involved in lolita/jfash themselves. I don't think it immediately means that anyone who says this is a "potential rapist", but I do agree that it's weird.
What's with that pic though? Is that you?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:18:48 2018 No.9839198 >>9839098 God please be in Texas [Spoiler]and not bait[/spoiler]

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:19:52 2018 No.9839202 >>9839196 Yes that's me in my Kev cosplay. And sorry to jump to conclusions, I've been told I look like a rapist before.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:28:04 2018 No.9839215 >>9839106 >I'm fine with a "What the fuck is this bullshit?" reaction. That was literally her reaction though. Your story doesn't make sense or you have no self-awareness.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:28:12 2018 No.9839216

>>9839202
Maybe I'm not in on some joke but rapists have no specific look, and you look fine, albeit somewhat fresh-out-of-high-school looking.
Let me put it this way: If you approached me in public and complimented my coord, I'd thank you and think you were nice. If we somehow ended up talking and you said something like
>I've always wanted a lolita gf
I'd probably laugh (but the >tfw no cgl gf meme makes me laugh, personally), and then possibly feel a bit uncomfortable. I'm aware that's not a normal way to interact with anyone but having had some silly interactions with weebs "in the wild", you really can't be too sure.
Point being, if you treat people like individuals rather than stereotyping them based on whatever subculture they're a part of, you're likely fine.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:31:26 2018 No.9839220
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I live in Minnesota
and I like to try and connect with others who live in my state since the cosplay scene here does feel small.

But I'm getting real sick and tired that every single ig profile I find says something like
"preferred pronouns: they them" or "she her" even though it is already obvious they are a girl.
Literally every female Minnesota cosplayer on ig.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:32:20 2018 No.9839221 >>9839194 It's different because you are already involved in non-normie stuff yourself, and were introduced to lolita through your own interests.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 13:35:59 2018 No.9839229

>>9839221
Nayrt but it's entirely possible for non-normies to be creepers when it comes to lolitas and lolita fashion in general. See the weebs who think that the fashion originated from anime and/or lolicon, and think that the girls who wear it are "potential waifus".

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:06:50 2018 No.9839268 File: 202 KB, 451x577, 1520780106848.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9839130 >tfw attractive with decent income and my my own place but no lolita gf I guess I'll settle for a cosplay gf.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:25:37 2018 No.9839296 >>9837008 >rapes Anonymous (37) No.9837006 you know I am a 186cm tall, 111kg heavy, hairy man?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:28:02 2018 No.9839303 >>9839268 >using the T-word This is why you deserve being forever alone.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:29:03 2018 No.9839304 >>9839303 t. 186cm tall, 111kg heavy, hairy man (obese)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:43:51 2018 No.9839323 >>9839130 I am a creepy weirdo too, but I can be nice

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:45:07 2018 No.9839324 >>9839304 shit, did I created a new meme?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:48:15 2018 No.9839325 >tfw you're a creep that likes lolita but none of your creepiness is directed towards the fashion in a fetishistic manner at all I just can't lewd lolita, it's too elegant and doesn't deserve to be degraded as such

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:49:58 2018 No.9839329 >>9839325 I can do that, actually but even then, it's (kinda) elegant

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:50:25 2018 No.9839330 >>9839325 How are you a creep if you don't like it in a fetishistic or lewd way? Asking genuinely, please explain.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:54:37 2018 No.9839334

>>9839330
Because I'm a creep with sexual perversions in areas not related to lolita fashion. The assumption among gulls here would be that if any guy is a creep, he'll automatically fetishize the fashion but I just wanted to chime in and say some of us creeps have standards

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:55:37 2018 No.9839337 >>9839334 So you're one of the good creeps?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:57:39 2018 No.9839339 >>9839334 Oh, that's fine then. I'm a lolita and I'm a depraved pervert too, I just wouldn't want some guy to exclusively date me because he gets off to lolita fashion.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:58:02 2018 No.9839340 >>9839303 What's wrong with thot? It's a pretty normie word now.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:58:52 2018 No.9839341 >>9839337 As far as gulls are concerned, most definitely. >>9839339 Sounds like a great combo, anon. I'm wondering if we've exchanged emails before? :^)

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 14:59:33 2018 No.9839342

>>9839334
I don't think that inherently makes you creepy, to be honest. It's creepy if lolita fashion arouses you, it's creepy if you related it to ddlg/ageplay, it's creepy if you view lolitas in a certain degrading way, etc.; it's not creepy to have fetishes in general and also love lolita fashion, regardless of your unrelated fetishes. Some lolitas have fetishes too, that doesn't make them creeps, it makes them people.
I don't know what your fetishes are (please don't tell me, I don't care to know), some people may or may not accept them, but they don't immediately make you a creeper.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:00:03 2018 No.9839345 >>9839103 >>9839198 I'm trad and getting married soon I actually just want girly friends that may/may not be into lolita that aren't insufferable shitlibs.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:01:53 2018 No.9839348
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>>9839341
>I'm wondering if we've exchanged emails before?
Uh I've posted in the friend finder threads before but I don't think I've mentioned my perversion to any of the people I've met through that lol.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:02:25 2018 No.9839350

>>9838876
>>9838910
>>9838930
Sorry got real fucked up last night. So long story short, I fell in love with her at first sight and even though she is married she is all i can think about. When i seen her yesterday i felt like we were meant to be. We made love for over an hour and she made me bust 2 loads. She told me she wasnt on the pill and to pull out but i grabbed her and held her close and said, "it looks like your going to have my children then." And i finished in her. Afterwards we held each other. She cried for cheating on her husband. It made me feel a little bad but we still exchanged numbers. I called her today and her husband is at work. So i asked if i could come over, she said no at first but then said it was ok and that she would cook me lunch. Im excited. Today we are going to watch anime and maybe play dragons crown or something. I also went out and bought matching rings for us to wear if she ever misses me. I actually have to start getting ready now. Today is going to be a great day. She makes my heart race.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:04:21 2018 No.9839355 >>9839345 Why is everyone I ever meet either an insane liberal who wants to let in rapist immigrants or an insane conservative who wants to go back to the 1900s like >>9839098? Why the fuck isn't there anybody sane out there?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:04:31 2018 No.9839356 >>9839350 Stop LARPing you cuck fetishist creep. This has nothing to do with /cgl/

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:05:01 2018 No.9839359 >>9839325 >>tfw you're a creep Fixed for brevity. (Brevity is the soul of wit)

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:05:12 2018 No.9839360

>>9839342
I won't bother listing my fetishes but I've done things related to said fetishes that would be considered creepy or perverted among most well-adjusted people.
>>9839348
I'd be interested in knowing what makes a depraved lolita tick. You should make a throwaway email.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:08:50 2018 No.9839364 >>9839360 I mean, as long as no one got hurt and everyone involved consented to whatever it was that you did, I don't think it's that bad. Might not be my thing but still.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:11:02 2018 No.9839365 >>9839360 I'm not sure if I could give any interesting insights, I'm honestly just a weirdo and into a lot of creepy/gross stuff haha.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:13:51 2018 No.9839367 >>9839364 What is your thing, then? >>9839365 Like what? Gulls got me curious now.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:15:03 2018 No.9839371

>>9839220
I’ve started seeing “preferred pronouns” appearing in signature blocks in professional emails/letters at work. Seems like a losing battle at this point, best to just accept it. It’s annoying, but really it’s no skin off my back to call someone “they” or whatever.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:20:13 2018 No.9839378 >>9839220 I hate men like you

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:24:40 2018 No.9839381

>Tfw you don't see yourself as a creep so much as just an awkward mess who can't tell if girls are just being nice when they talk to you or are actually interested in what you have to say

>>9839371
>“preferred pronouns” appearing in signature blocks in professional emails/letters at work
This shit has officially gone off the rails.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:26:54 2018 No.9839384

>>9839367
OK I made a throwaway to talk about weird fetish stuff because I'd feel bad about clogging the thread up with my gross interests.
Feel free to message me I guess but I have a bf and I'm not looking for anything lewd, so please no sexting or stuff like that.
rrrrm@protonmail.com

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:31:54 2018 No.9839395 >>9839384 Sent you a message

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:36:28 2018 No.9839403 >>9839395 I didn't get anything, try sending it again?

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:36:44 2018 No.9839404 >>9839350 If this is true, which I doubt, you should neck yourself

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:39:10 2018 No.9839406 >>9839403 I copy-pasted the address from your post but I just sent another test message

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:41:31 2018 No.9839411 >>9839406 Got your test message & replied.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:45:52 2018 No.9839420 >>9839355 Pick a side, fence sitter

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:45:59 2018 No.9839421

>>9839355
I'm really not that extreme, or at least I keep it to myself for the most part.
Just everytime I hear/read "FUXX TRUMP ECKSDEE OPEN BORDERS"
I die a little inside.

I genuinely think Blacks would do better if we were segregated from them.

DESU I don't even wanna talk politics with female friends, I just want a nice intelligent girl to be friendly with.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:46:56 2018 No.9839424

>>9839381
The few times I’ve seen it have been in letters from ACLU attorneys or similar public interest groups, and once from a journalist. I work in the private corrections industry so we get lots of inquiries from these bleeding hearts related to inmates’ civil rights and such. Its not quite the same as seeing preferred pronouns in some email from a corporate drone or govt bureaucrat, that’s when it will have truly gone off the rails. I think we are fast approaching that point though.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:48:50 2018 No.9839426 >>9839424 I wish we would switch entirely to they/them for everyone because gender specific pronouns are inefficient and trigger my autism something fierce

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:49:36 2018 No.9839427 >>9839421 >segregation Agreed, even in a nation like America, separate races would make better neighbors than roommates.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:53:55 2018 No.9839433 >>9839421 The problem with segregation is that ultimately someone is going to get the short end of the stick when it comes to access to resources (like health care) and everything gets fucked.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:57:57 2018 No.9839439 File: 157 KB, 522x461, 2e1e224ab909804f.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9839433 They would deal with their own government and shit. Ultimately it would be their fault lmao. >>9839427 be my friend <3

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 15:59:48 2018 No.9839442 >girl I know who's very proud of her white heritage wants me to fuck her while I wear an SS uniform Didn't know I needed this until now teebeeaych

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:04:46 2018 No.9839443 >>9839439 Not enough friends like that desu. Although I do believe that America should remain a single nation, and while separate, trust should be built.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:05:10 2018 No.9839444 >>9839229 Thanks for pointing out the obvious

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:06:13 2018 No.9839445 >>9839439 >>9839427 >>9839421 >>9839420 >when /cgl/ gets raided by males again

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:07:51 2018 No.9839449 Tfw lolita who isn't into lolita for fetishistic reasons but I'd be lying if I didn't want a handsome EGA husbando or lolita waifu to pull my tights down and elegantly eat me out in our bedroom in a fancy castle while I blush and moan.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:07:55 2018 No.9839450 >>9839445 >anyone who deviates from my mainstream opinion is an evul /r9k/ male crossboarder

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:10:24 2018 No.9839454 >>9839371 You realise telling him about your fetish will already make him cum right? I feel bad for your bf

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:11:26 2018 No.9839457 >>9839384 You realise telling him about your fetish will already make him cum right? I feel bad for your bf

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:12:00 2018 No.9839458 File: 478 KB, 1080x1185, image.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9839445 >assuming my gender Smh, another /pol/ invasion

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:12:03 2018 No.9839459 File: 90 KB, 1500x1200, christ-chan.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9839445 I'm the original poster of this convo, and I'm actually a woman lol. but believe whatever u want anon. Racist nazi girls may be closer to you than you think :^)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:16:43 2018 No.9839461 >>9839459 Anon, let's be friends. I wanna twin Die Walkure with another right wing lolita so bad.

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:18:31 2018 No.9839465
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I'm a traditional, fairly conservative woman who is also into lolita, so it always makes me happy to hear that there are more of us out there. I don't care what people do with their lives, but it does make me sad to see the way a lot of society is heading. I can only hope that someday it is better.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:19:13 2018 No.9839467 >>9839461 fk yeah same s.s.autism1488@gmail.com this is a throwaway email if you're actually serious.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:19:30 2018 No.9839470 >>9839459 >>9839465 Thank God that such women still live

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:20:24 2018 No.9839471 >>9839467 >>9839461 >tfw you will never be raped and degraded by two military lolitas Gulls please, it hurts

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:20:31 2018 No.9839472 >>9839461 People would think you're in favour of mass murder

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:21:44 2018 No.9839476 >>9839424 >ACLU Oh, nevermind. They're not even real people.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:22:51 2018 No.9839477 >>9839471 Truly the pinnacle of suffering.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:22:57 2018 No.9839478 As a non-American it's pretty unbelievable to me that it's very hard to find right-wing lolitas to be friends with, considering nearly half your country voted for a right-wing president.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:25:13 2018 No.9839483 >>9839478 You’d be surprised. I keep seeing that 53% of white women voted for Tump but can find none. I also live in the political hellscape that is New York City, where thots want my seed but not my heart

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:25:24 2018 No.9839484 >>9839478 Female Young Adults tend to be liberals. And the ones that aren't keep their mouths shut.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:29:13 2018 No.9839496 >>9839494 New bread

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:29:27 2018 No.9839498 >>9839478 That's because liberals are literal shitlords who think words are violence but actually punching people or assaulting them for having different opinions is okay.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:30:33 2018 No.9839505 >>9839471 Not my fetish sorry, I only do gentle femdom

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:30:59 2018 No.9839507

>>9839478
It depends heavily on where you are but even then a lot of people into Japanese anything are generally more on the liberal side, even in the deep south. I'm not sure what that is, though. Here in the Seattle area it's nearly impossible to find any conservative friends at all, let alone a conservative lolita. If you do manage to find one, I'd suggest buying a lottery ticket.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:31:26 2018 No.9839509 >>9839498 #PunchNazis

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:36:17 2018 No.9839521

>>9839476
They are actually pretty professional most of the time, I prefer dealing with them versus some local public defenders or plaintiffs lawyers. At least an ACLU lawyer is going to follow the rules of professional conduct, unlike some ambulance-chasing slimeball or elected public defender trying to capture the black vote (or establish cred to run for higher office). The worst to deal with by far are journalists, particularly the bespectacled millennial variety who think they’re writing the next front page story on Vice or Vox. I would pay money to push those people down a flight of stairs.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:39:15 2018 No.9839526 >>9839498 Why are you afraid to get mistaken for a nazi

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 16:42:56 2018 No.9839537 >>9839507 It's because conservatives hate everyone who isn't a normie

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 17:07:34 2018 No.9839577 >>9839384 Also sent

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 17:19:08 2018 No.9839603 >>9839478 Only the hot alpha cindys (chadettes?) voted for Trump. And older married women (mostly housewives)

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 17:22:07 2018 No.9839608 >>9839603 >cindys (chadettes?) "Stacy" is the name you're looking for.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 17:25:54 2018 No.9839616 >>9839526 Because his politics are to the right of Hilary's, I assume.

>>	Anonymous Mon Apr 2 21:46:22 2018 No.9839997 File: 120 KB, 1000x1000, FB_IMG_1522709802304.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Pic related why haven't you gotten one yet?

Anonymous Mon Apr 2 22:44:25 2018 No.9840076

>>9839160
>Why are you so entitled?
Wanting your partner to consider your feelings when they speak to you is not entitlement.

>She doesn't like lolita and doesn't want to wear it. These are her feelings.
Read the other stuff I've said this thread.

>>9839215
You have no reading comprehension.

>>	Anonymous Fri Apr 6 23:33:48 2018 No.9844896 File: 385 KB, 777x777, 1516322116341.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9836268

>>	Anonymous Sun Apr 8 20:29:10 2018 No.9846907 >>9836479 this has happened to me too many times

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