>>9839727
You have a lot of patience anon.
Bet she's not gonna take anything in that you have to say though.
What she needs to do is really study brand pieces on lolibrary, their construction, the fabrics they use, the color schemes, the lace they use, etc.
Patterns from Otome no Sewing can also help, though she'd have to upscale them and when you know nothing about Lolita they can still turn out as ita disasters.
She is so defensive, not sure I'd waste my time with her anon, so bless you for helping her.