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9730383 No.9730383 [Reply] [Original]

I'm pretty sure that girl is in middle school Edition

>> No.9730388

Just ignore the bait.

>> No.9730414

>>9730383
You thought wrong.

>> No.9730421

>>9730383
She's 18.

>> No.9730424

>tfw no gf

>> No.9730427

Please stop making these awful threads.

>> No.9730431

I really wish there were a good English lolita magazine. Egl is dead, blogs are dead, there's no interesting new content to read any more.

>> No.9730434

>>9730427
I'm pretty sure the trolls are often making these threads. Who else even enjoys them?

>> No.9730443

>>9730434
>no fun allowed

>> No.9730446

>>9730443
You can have fun in /r9k/, /pol/, and /b/. Why here? Did you get tired of being catfished or something?

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>>9730443
Exactly.

>> No.9730450

>>9730446
>no mention of /fit/
Oh my sweet summer girl.

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>>9730446

>> No.9730454

>>9730450
Okay, there's /fit/ too... fucking /asp/ was confirmed to show up once too.

I don't expect people to admit they browse the other boards, it doesn't sound as horrible to say one browses /fit/. (Although, they likely browse elsewhere as well.)

>> No.9730455

>>9730454
>it doesn't sound as horrible to say one browses /fit/
>not knowing /fit/ is /r9k/ with body dismorphia and steroid use
Oh my sweet summer redd¡t girl.

>> No.9730456

>>9730452
I could not respond for eons, and it would only get worse. This is truth. I come back to threads in sage filled with piles upon piles of shit. I can't even feel free to post about shopping anymore.

>> No.9730459

>>9730455
If you knew my age, you'd tell the old hag to get out.
...
That's not really bragging... I'm way too old for this. Fuck.

>> No.9730461

>>9730456
I agree. I used to come here to talk about being a lonelita, and I made an irl friend and joined a comm thanks to these threads. It's pretty sad to see what they've become.

>> No.9730462

>>9730454
/asp/ is actually just one guy, mexican lardass living in mexico and he is the mod of /asp/, spends all day replying to himself over there, sometimes gets bored and spreads his bullshit and memes to other boards, he's the reason why it sucks to like wrestilng in 4chan

>>9730455
/r9k/ has this weird feud with us since we're the "chad board", always invading us with retarded crab mentality threads and impersonating us on other boards

>> No.9730463

>>9730446
Can't you understand that some of us have a (You) addiction? I have 39 different threads open on many different boards, and I can't get enough (You)s. I wake up, eat, sit down and start opening threads and waiting for the (You)s, then I go to sleep, I spend my days like this literally, so please, be a little less rude.

It's 6:31 am here and I've been all night waiting for the (You)s.

It doesn't matter, just insult me, say whatever, just give me (You)s please, I need to see the tab icon get the red question mark.

>> No.9730464

>>9730455
What is it with you freaks thinking we smile upon /fit/? You're all the same, we just forget about /fit/ at times because they're pretty irrelevant on the grander scale of shitposting.
I won't forget the time /fit/ raided this place years ago and engaged in tripfag drama.

>> No.9730465

>>9730462
WE are the chads!? Holy shit. That's kinda flattering.

>> No.9730466

>>9730462
>wrestling...
I've heard there's some meme about wrestling that proliferates there. Learn something new everyday. Now I know why wrestling memes were mentioned once.
>>9730461
I use to post when I was excited about splurging on fashion when I was finally able to afford nice clothes. Otherwise I'd just read the lolita-centric feels. Cosplay feels, sure, but I was always more into fashion.

>> No.9730468

>>9730459
Now I'm curious. How old, anon?

>> No.9730469

>>9730468
I've passed Christmas cake status to use an absolutely horrible term...

>> No.9730470

>>9730462
>>9730465
>/fit/
>chad board

Literally Laughing Out Loud. Can't get a board with more mental disorders, people there unironically think girls like ultra-roid muscles and spend their time posting tfwnogf between set and set.

>> No.9730471

>>9730465
Chad isn't real bro, /r9k/ created him to cope with their inadequacies and have a common enemy to blame for their virginities and misery.
>they go to the gym and lift heavy things, fucking chad let's go get them
That's the level of delusion they live in

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9730474

>>9730424
>looking for a gf in /cgl/

>> No.9730475

Stop responding to them you stupid bitch.

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>>9730462
I always knew I was a chad at heart. A chad in the body of a cute lolita. Existence is bliss

>> No.9730477

>>9730469
Don't worry femanon, I'd still fuck you.

>> No.9730478

>>9730465
check it out in real time
>>9730470

>> No.9730480

>>9730469
Numerical value? I promise not to laugh

t. 29yo

>> No.9730481

>>9730475
Did you mean to respond to someone?

>> No.9730482

>>9730480
You can still score an older guy, as long as you're cool with being a stepmom

>> No.9730483

>>9730478
Whoops. And here I was thinking *we* were the chads. Silly lolita, chads don't exist.

>> No.9730488

Chads are a meme.
There is only Alpha male, Beta male and Omega male.
And it is not about the body, but about the mindset.

This is the ultimate pill, take it or leave it.

>> No.9730489

>>9730482
My issue is I keep having young guys hit on me only for it to eventually come up how old I am. Then they turn red as a beet. It's really funny when it happens with high school kids.

I guess dressing like a pastel cupcake doesn't really help in that regard. I like my pastels though.

>> No.9730490

>>9730383
I am so bored of the current lolita community online. I love my comm and I will always love lolita, but we just don't have a good platform. FB isn't good for discussion or longer posts, CoF is a clusterfuck... I wish we had something more fun.

>> No.9730492

>>9730488
This is yet another arbitrary categorization thought up by the virgin council think tank, again not to better understand the world and try to adapt better to it, but rather to cope and rationalize their failings.

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9730494

>mfw posting in a /cgl/ feels thread

>> No.9730495

>>9730489
At least it sounds like you're really cute though! I bet those young guys are missing out. And 29 isn't even old! You're still young, anon. You could do almost anything

>> No.9730496

>>9730492
You know... those are the posts I ignore. I fill killed the thread once. I can't do it again. There aren't enough pictures in the world to do so.

>> No.9730497

>>9730489
I mean you still have a long way to go before you hit spinster status like my sister(41yo still trying to live at the pace of a college girl), but you should start thinking long-term.

>> No.9730498

>>9730494
That is hands down the best military lolita I've seen! I love that it's not historical or officer themed.

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9730500

Christmastime tends to be the worst time of year for lonely people, which is why these threads suck rught now. I think we will go back to normal in a few weeks once the New Year optimism kicks in

>> No.9730501

>>9730495
Not the 29 year old, different older person, but I'm sure the 29 year old is cute. There's a lot of cuter older ladies I've known in the fashion.

Personally, not cute here, just really short and dressed in pastel puke.

>> No.9730502

>>9730492
You are a retard. If you can rub more than two braincells at a time you know this is true.

Active mindsets, people who don't let others step on them, people with dignity and principles, people who are not afraid to live, people who are not submissive to the opinion of others are Alpha.

Passive people, people who are best following and not leading, people who care about how others perceive them, people who don't innovate, are Betas

Push-overs, people without spine, people who accept unironical literal cuckoldry and don't break their relationship, people who live through others, people who can't do anything on their own, are Omegas.

You're a giant retard.

>> No.9730503

>>9730424
are you rich enough to buy me brand monthly and pay for my medical insurance?

>> No.9730506

>>9730494
>innawoods
>p90
>urban enviroment oriented smg
Good job, now I'm angry.

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9730507

>>9730503
>golddigger
Yikes, pic related.

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>>9730502

>> No.9730509

>>9730500
I don't know, I'm having fun. Getting to see all my friends during the holidays is always fun, went out last night and got all fucked up which is why I'm even here posting right now. Getting old is not fun.

>>9730502
Buzzwords, reddit spacing and arbitrary categorizations. Nice to have you here /r9k/

>> No.9730510

>>9730497
I've decided to be a spinster. I was in a very long-term relationship. We lived together for 7 years, but it went downhill when I lost my occupation due to an occupational illness. I was having trouble paying the bills for two people, and they ended it.

I indulge myself fully in fashion and my cat. It's a lot cheaper living alone. Got a super small cute apartment, can decorate it however I want, wear whatever I want, it's alright. I'll have the gothic living space of my dreams, spoil my cat, watch all the anime I please whenever I want, and wear anything I want.

I did try. I hope your sister isn't sad about her situation.

>> No.9730511

>>9730507
If you give me 100 dollars I will never speak to you again

>> No.9730512

>>9730507
I'll take the $100 and fuck off. Proof that it never hurts to ask. cha-fuckin-ching, know what I mean?

>> No.9730514

>>9730500
And once the kiddies go back to school.

>> No.9730515

>>9730510
Did your ex not work? I'm glad you're happy now, though!

>> No.9730516

>>9730509
>arbitrary
Put more effort next time.

>> No.9730517

>>9730510
>We lived together for 7 years, but it went downhill when I lost my occupation due to an occupational illness. I was having trouble paying the bills for two people, and they ended it.

this is one of the many reasons I refuse to work. Luckily I'm cute and into weird enough sex shit that guys are clamoring to take care of my spoiled ass for the rest of my life. Choosing is the hard part.

>> No.9730518

>>9730494
I'm picturing this lady holed up in a tree stand drinking Steel Reserve. It's an amazing image.

>> No.9730519

>>9730510
She's in denial to be honest, she deludes herself into thinking she's ahead of the curve and so much smarter than all her other friends that did get married and had kids. But if we're having a drink and talking she spills the beans about how she's actually miserable and hates being the "fun aunt".
I mean I shouldn't judge since I'm 27 and I'm determined to also not get married/have kids, but I'm a dude so I guess it's different

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>>9730510
So are we gonna get an age? Are we talking pic related?

>> No.9730521

>>9730463
If this is true, please seek help.

>> No.9730522
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>>9730510
Tbh this + having close friends to spend time with is my dream life.

>> No.9730525

>>9730515
They worked somewhat. I just made more money so I paid the majority of stuff including the rent, bills, and food. I had already gotten an education for a trade job, and they were still in college. They worked enough to pay their car insurance and gas although I had to step in when they had bouts of unemployment to cover that.

Yes, dreams can be realized, for anyone moping that they can never afford j-fashion, keep your head up. Took me a long time, but I finally got there. Dreams happen, and your closet will be pretty.

>> No.9730528

>>9730510
>>9730525
I'm sorry that happened to you, anon. I'm glad you're happy though, and I hope that you'll stay happy whether you end up meeting someone or not. You sound like a cool person

>> No.9730529

>>9730520
26... only because your picture was beautiful. Before anyone asked about school/living with someone 7 years, I live in a poor rural area and you have to grow up and become independent fast here.
>>9730519
The only advice I have is she should have a hobby she really enjoys so she's not just working for nothing. I enjoy fashion, collecting pokemon cards, watching anime, training my cat to do tricks (we're working on spins right now), and home decorating.

You gotta' have hobbies if you don't have wee ones. Drinking isn't a hobby. Nor is being sad.

>> No.9730530

>>9730522
Ah, there it is. I've been meaning to save this picture. Thank you, anon.

>> No.9730531

>>9730528
The happy train isn't going to stop. Full speed ahead into a cacophony of lace, ruffles, spiky things, and shed fur.

>> No.9730533

>>9730530
You're welcome! I wish I still had the gif version, it is one of my favourite parts of the movie and is very useful around here.

>> No.9730534

>>9730531
Do you have an IG or throwaway email? Asking for a friend. Meaning me

>> No.9730536

>>9730529
Her job is her main passion, she's also into fitness(has been recently been hanging out with this bigorexic woman who's sort of a urban legend around here) and travelling.
Even with all that, she can't help but be miserable in the few moments when she has nothing to distract her.
Just be careful of what you're getting into, is all I'm saying.

Also can you really teach cats to do cool shit? I might be getting one against my will rather soon.

>> No.9730537

>>9730534
Nah.

It's not personal though for real. I don't use the friend finder's threads. Do have an IG, and even my FB only has 62 people added, all people I know in real life. I get my online interaction pretty much purely on /cgl/ and /x/. I don't do purely online friends.

>>9730533
It is perfect.

>> No.9730538

STOP TALKING ABOUT GIRL SHIT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>> No.9730539

>>9730529
>26
>past Christmas cake
Anon, pls. You are more like a 3-days-after-Thanksgiving-pastry-with-tons-of-youth-left. Let me know when you hit 30 like me

>> No.9730541

>>9730536
You can teach them. It's much harder then dogs though. My last one could shake paws with me. This one is learning to do spins. She's gotten to where she can do about two spins consecutively on a hand motion command. Both respond to their names. Well, one responded, it was a much older cat so he passed shortly.

It's not something you'll want to try unless you have a lot of free time. It takes patience and developing a strong friendship bond with the cat.

>> No.9730543

>>9730539
Well, we're not young fillies though, that's the point. I'll get there eventually, the age train doesn't stop.

>> No.9730544

>bf finds out I cheated on him
>completely destroys my dresses
That was just rude and unnecesary. How should I get back at him?

>> No.9730545

>>9730539
>>9730529
26 is past your prime but not terrible if you have been taking care of yourself. 30 is bad unless you look at least four years younger.

>> No.9730547

>>9730545
Here's the catch. Being in one's prime doesn't actually matter because the only people worth being with don't care about another 'being in their prime'.

Think about it.

>> No.9730549

>>9730544
Shitty bait. Fuck off back to /rwhinek/

>> No.9730551

>>9730549
What?

>> No.9730552

>>9730544
Find and apply Cosmo sex tips

>> No.9730554

>>9730519
>I'm 27 and I'm determined to also not get married/have kids
y tho?

>> No.9730555

>>9730552
>use your teeth during a blow job. Gently bite and nibble the head.

>> No.9730558

>>9730555
>>9730552
>not intentonally ripping the frenulum apart while cosplaying a vampire

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>>9730558
Uh, Cosmo never told me about that one.

>> No.9730563

>>9730559
Drink as much blood as you can after doing it. The boy will fall in love with you forever and buy you all the brand you want.

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>>9730547
>tfw male
>tfw "prime" can last well into 50's if I stay /fit/ and dress well
I consider it an equal trade for the easy life y'all have in your 20s

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>>9730554
Other than the usual suspects(short, not very attractive, small dong) I'm just not husband material. Girls at 27 are above all else looking for a guy they can look up to, a guy they admire, a guy with drive and determination and plans, a guy they can feel proud to show to their friends, a guy they can rely on to be a good father and all that. I'm not that, I'm a fuck up, an underachiever and a manchild.

I like my simple routine, I want a quiet life. I'm fine with just being "Weird Uncle Anon"

>> No.9730570

>>9730567
Get on /sig/ faggot. You're winning zero pity with that attitude.

>> No.9730572

>>9730570
They asked a question, I answered

>> No.9730575

>>9730565
You missed the point entirely with your bait. If someone is only dating somebody for their 'prime' then it is only a superficial care. Those are the men who end up married to beautiful, young women, and then attempt to cheat on them with other younger women once the first gets too old and the passion's gone.

So, it's nothing to envy. The one who loves you past your prime is the one who truly loves you. Before you reach that point, all other affection is up in the air. Maybe they love you, maybe they just love how you look. Chances are, it's just how you look.

>> No.9730578

OT christmas feels, this thread has gone to shit anyway. I wear lolita if that helps.

>invite bf to christmas eve lunch with my senpai
>ohh anon i'd really like to but i have some family stuff in the evening
>its just a casual late lunch, couldn't you make it? its rare that you get to spend time with my family
>i also have to go get such and such a present sorry anon
>okay
>talk to him after lunch
>see he's been playing games today on steam
>tells me at 4:30pm he still hasn't headed out to get the present and hopes to get a car park
>???

Like, what the fuck. I was really upset about him not being able to make it, since my family rarely even get together and he's never really been there for any such event. I took his word for it, even though i had an inkling it was only a """cant make it"""" but I brushed it aside thinking i am just being pushy and crazy.

>> No.9730580

>>9730567
Well I personally thought your post was constructive compared to the usual posts lately.

>> No.9730581

>>9730580
thanks

>> No.9730584

>>9730578
>thinking i am just being pushy and crazy.
well first step is to not let him gaslight you. i would confront him, not aggressively, but give him a chance to apologize because he fucked up. if this is the hill he wants to die on then good riddance. just don't let him trick you into thinking that it's normal behavior and not something a literal manchild would do.

>> No.9730604

>>9730578
Dump him. If he's lying to you about something so meaningless and not being upfront he's not worth the time of day.

>> No.9730605

>seller clearing out loads of items on fril
>has a lot in bundles
>want one item in bundle, seller is happy to receive messages but won't discount the bundle
>message japonica and ask them to message seller
>they ask me my max spend etc
> 'in order not to trouble the seller, we won't message. The seller says they won't discount and your max is below the BIN'
>try to explain I only want one item and am offering over 50%
>Japonica says so because it might be troublesome
>see someone comment asking for same item fr a third of what I was offering
>seller agrees instantly

I wish more SS could buy from fril and mercari, Japonica is so frustrating. This goes beyond Japanese politeness. Even when they reply quickly and aren't 'forgetting' orders, this happens too often

>> No.9730619

>>9730578
lunch with your senpai???

>> No.9730637

>>9730619
f a m

>> No.9730651

>>9730470
Yep. This is my experience with /fit/:
>think because I'm into keeping fit I'll go on there
>men berating other men for being short
>men berating other men for not destroying their bodies with steroids
>men autistically screeching that other men aren't attractive enough
>but totally no homo
Those dudes need some kind of body positivity movement.

>> No.9730654

>>9730545
Most 30yos don't look anywhere near as old as you young'uns seem to think and are indistinguishable from people in their mid-twenties.

>> No.9730657

>>9730383
>fresh out of college
>start dating a 15yo girl on a whim
>year and a half laer we're still together, happy as ever
Is /cgl/ gonna judge me for this? She wants to get into the whole cosplay thing

>> No.9730659

>>9730657
Are you European?

>> No.9730663

>>9730659
Texas boy, why?

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>>9730663

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>>9730651
No we fucking don't, if there's one thing that unifies us is our hatred of fat people because guess what? Lots of us used to be fat.
What you're complaining about is banter and tough love, it's all part of our board culture and the only ones getting offended by it are crossboarders, mainly r9k.

Merry Christmas by the way.

>> No.9730667

Man I just really love lolita

>> No.9730673

>>9730665
You sure sound offended. Odd since you're so used to tough love and banter.

>> No.9730677

>>9730673
Fat people offend me, yes

>> No.9730679

>>9730677
The only person mentioning fat people was you.

>> No.9730681

>>9730679
Well what else were you implying with body positivity? Because in our book that means fat acceptance

>> No.9730686

>>9730681
Are you for real? That was a joke. Do you think anyone comes onto 4chan and starts seriousposting about body positivity.

>> No.9730687

>>9730686
Oh sarcasm, didn't get that. Sorry, bro

>> No.9730690

>>9730664
??

>> No.9730691

>>9730517
>cute
>into weird sex
I'll take 2 please.

>> No.9730696

>>9730690
unless you're a prodigy who graduated college at 17, that's pedophilia

>> No.9730701

>>9730696
Yeah that's your opinion or whatever but what does being american or european have to do with anything?

>> No.9730702

>>9730701
Different places have different ages of consent. Your 15 year old girlfriend is below Texas's.

Unless you're somehow a 17 year old college graduate, you are creepy as hell. When she's older, she's going to look back at her relationship with you and regret it. If you truly love her, you'll break up with her and spare her that regret.

>> No.9730704

>>9730702
So if we were like in Portugal it'd be fine all of a sudden? That's dumb
>When she's older, she's going to look back at her relationship with you and regret it
Sounds like you're projecting, thanks for the advice but I'm not gonna take it

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>>9730701
European matters because in some places there, they use the word "college" for the last few years of high school. If you had just graduated high school, having a 15 year old girlfriend is acceptable. But if you mean university or community college, like how Americans use the word "college", then you're probably a disgusting ephebophile and you should keep your mitts off teenage girls.

Not that I think you will, you literally came here to boast about your jailbait girlfriend's age. I don't know why I'm bothering to explain anything, 50 bucks says this is fake and you're larping anyway.

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>>9730701
It's not an opinion that you're doing something illegal if you are literally doing something illegal. That's called a fact.

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>>9730708
>>9730705
>>9730702
>>9730696

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Good on topic feels after sob-health story.
>Atopic dermatitis fucked me up
>Cracking draconic face
>Constantly bloody sheets from itching in sleep
>Weak will itched when awake too
>Kept saying I was fine
>Convinced this was just part of me
>Stopped cosplaying for some reason
>Actually because I hated having pictures taken
>Slowly but surely noticing that I wasn't fine
>Uggo depression
>Get fed up, go to doctor
>Humbly describes my skin issues to them
>Even my downplayed story gets taken super seriously
>Now I bet they saw my severe suffering written on my face, literally
>Agree to light therapy
>Medical solarium at the hospital three times a week
>Just going there helped motivate me not to itch
>Got better
>Got tanned
>Two months later look at myself in mirror (today)
>Can't believe I'm not wearing make-up
>Feel pretty, oh so pretty
>Look better without pale-nerd-whiteness
>I am actually as good as healthy
>Genuine smile when faced with bfs camera
>It's a merry gosh dang Christmas

Father who passed this shit skin down to me says I'll have to struggle for half a year more to truly be free, but I'm so full of hope right now that it feels like nothing.

>> No.9730711
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>>9730710
This actually made me smile, I'm happy for you anon! I hope it gets better even faster! Are you going to start cosplaying again?

>> No.9730713

>>9730545
Basically >>9730654 hit the nail on the head. Why does everyone seem to think 30 is when you become old and disgusting? Unless you've made it your mission to tan, drink, smoke, eat like shit, never drink water, and never moisturize, it's honestly kinda difficult to look THAT bad by age 30.

FFS, AP's main model Risa Nakamura is 28.

>> No.9730715

>>9730691
It comes with a catch, I'm an aspie with a bunch of stupid anxieties. But it's wrapped in a teeny package of cuteness so most people don't seem too bothered.

>> No.9730716

>>9730711
I've got like three started but left unfinished projects laying about! It's time to make past-me proud and express my love for these dumb anime girls.

>> No.9730740

>>9730710
Congrats, anon. Hope you have a great Christmas x

>> No.9730742

>>9730716
Same. I made a to do list of everything I need to get finished and am slowly crossing things off.

>> No.9730750

>>9730713
She's gettin kinda tired/bloated looking though if you see her without ps and filters.

>> No.9730769

>>9730651
It's just memes, senpai. Men bully each other to encourage self improvement

>> No.9730770

>tfw dream dress is popping up all over the place but not in your desired colourway

>> No.9730783

>>9730770
Which one?

>> No.9730791

>>9730681
Average /fit/ poster

>> No.9730797

>>9730783
Stripe Rose Ribbon in earl grey.

>> No.9730823

i have all the brand i want but i'm still sad, why

>> No.9730831
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>>9730823
Depression?

>> No.9730840

>>9730831
You know? I really like how you gulls have a way of "cglifying" memes and reaction images, shows creativity and a sense of community

>> No.9730845

>>9730605
This isn't the place to complain about actual /cgl related things

>> No.9730846

>>9730533
What movie is this from? I've been seeing the lower photo a lot while lurking and I've gotten curious.

>> No.9730849

>>9730846
Kamikaze Girls

>> No.9730853

>>9730849
Thank you anon! Merry Christmas!

>> No.9730860

>>9730853
You're welcome. Merry Christmas

>> No.9730892

>>9730702
If he's not fucking her it's totally legal. I assume he's not or else he wouldn't want to say that.

>> No.9730897

>>9730317
Argentina

>> No.9730902

The boy I love is in America (met him on the chans,he's an absolute sweetheart,know him since a year,we skype almost everyday,play games together and occasionally watch animes and movies,he loves cosplay and lolita fashion,...absolutely perfect) but I live in France.
Is there any way for us to ever be together?
I'm so scared,I haven't found someone I loved that much in years of being single and if I can't be with him,who's my ray of hope (since i have depression,but it's getting better and i'm working on it) and my sunshine, I don't know what I'll do. I'm scared I might feel suicidal again if it happens.

>> No.9730905

>>9730902
Just go visit America or have him visit you. If you work well in person then one or both of you can move.

>> No.9730906

>5'10 blond boi with blue eyes, kind of muscular but between twig and jacked tier. Also sharp jaw
>Most characters i would cosplay as are either steroids tier jacked or 5 foot tall twinks with no jaw and a baby face
>Characters that I would fill well are all background generic "Americans"

This sucks my man. The only one I can think of that's close enough to me is probably rantaro amami, but that's about it

>> No.9730908

>>9730902
Take care of yourself before anything else, anon. I understand you love him but you (or your happiness) shouldn't depend on him to this extent. Take care of your depression and you'll find a way to be together, I'm sure. You won't be the first nor the last LDR couple to move in together.
I wish you and your lovely boy the best. Merry Christmas.

>> No.9730909

>>9730906
Your hair and eye color doesn't matter that much, honestly, not when wigs are much more preferable to real hair and contacts are popular.
Have you ever posted in the cosplay suggestion thread? You might get some ideas for characters that suit you that you've never considered.

>> No.9730910

>>9730905
Eh,yeah,that sounds like a good beginning. But how will i find a job? (especially since i'm a failure til the end because i'm autistic,which means i'm terrible at social interactions) Or do anything? I have absolutely no idea how the US works,and I heard it's pretty bad there which scares me even more but he couldn't possibly move to France (he would have to learn french which is really hard to speak fluently when you're a foreigner) so I'm kind of lost.

>>9730908
Thanks anon,that's very sweet. Merry Christmas to you as well. My depression is getting way better in any case,but meeting him gave me hope as in "wow,somebody loves me? somebody as neat as him thinks i'm sweet and sees beauty in me?".
I can only hope.

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>>9730906
Welcome to being a non-Asian male. There are still a few anime characters that you could do well. Shizuo from Durarara being one.

>> No.9730912

>>9730910
It's not so hard to live in America with one person supporting two it just depends heavily on where you live. You won't be living in any of the famous places you've heard about but you can do it. It really matters if he's okay with that in the long term. He may say he's okay supporting both of you in the beginning but it will wear on him. But you can get jobs online since you speak English well. Data entry or temp jobs. It's very doable.

>> No.9730917

>>9730911
I thought about doing him, or Sanji from 1P even. I don't have a really strong connection to either of em though, which is kind of a drag

>> No.9730920

>>9730917
Do Ichigo or something. Or Kamina. There's a lot of realistic manly characters someone with a jaw can do. You can probably find all of them pretty easy with some smart searching.

>> No.9730932

>>9730506
200m (5.7 can still penetrate IIIA at that range) is a pretty good distance especially in a wooded area

>> No.9730956

>>9730769
Does insulting someone for being short help them grow taller?

>> No.9730966

>>9730956
If you fill someone with sadness and anger enough their body has to make more room for it so they expand.

>> No.9730971

I don't know who I am without Lolita. I've been feeling myself becoming less interested in the community, the drama, and even the clothes, to a certain extent. But I don't know who I am without all that. All my good friends are Lolitas. I've been the main organiser for the local community for a few years. What do I do if I am falling out of love with the fashion completely? So much of my life has been intertwined with Lolita, I don't know how to separate so much of it.

>> No.9730975

>>9730971
Find a new hobby. Try new things. Try a different fashion style. There are many things you can do. Learn to make something you've always wanted to make.

>> No.9730976

>>9730956
Yes, every time you call someone a manlet, it releases lankisol into their system, which spurs vertical growth

>> No.9730982

>>9730975
I'm hoping to do some of that in the new year. I feel like I need to take a break and figure out what I actually like. I don't know if I like Lolita anymore or if I'm just wearing it because it's what I've worn for 9+ years. I haven't been excited about a new release in about a year or more. I've gotten so worn down and tired of the cookie-cutter formula, the rigidity.
The strangest thing is that this started to bother me after I went to the TPC event in August. It's like it just killed the love for it in me (which I know is bullshit and it's me, not the event).

Hopefully I'll feel better after a break.

>> No.9730984

>bought first ouji top online
>super excited to get it today
>open package
>its the wrong size (too small)

The label appears to say its a smaller size than I ordered, so I hope they just sent me the wrong size, rather than I mis-measured myself. Hopefully they let me exchange it for a bigger size and I can get it in time for the con that is ~30 days away..

>> No.9730997

>>9730715
I mean if I've learned anything throughout my life it's that weird sex usually comes with
>tragic backstory™
And/or
>mental disorder
So no suprise or problem.

>> No.9731009

my recently formed mini lolita group had brunch and gift exchange, we all liked our gifts, then we went to an xmas store and got great photos, and got called dolls and sugar plum fairies, plus girls waved at us and stared in awe, hope we inspired them. Greatest holiday meet ever.

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>>9731009
Sounds great. I'm very happy for you.

>> No.9731013

>>9730664
sorry roastie, 15 yos are sexier than you

>> No.9731089

>photoshoot with a friend
>realize how absolutely fugly my eyes are
>HORRIBLE dark circles/eyebags combo at only 21
>it looks like i have no makeup on despite putting some and touching it up every few hours
I wanna kill myself. I just want to be a pretty girl it hurts me so much. The pictures are pretty but my ugly eyes ruin every picture and i look super creepy as if i was going to murder somebody.
I try so hard to be pretty yet I just cant do it.

>> No.9731096

>>9731089
Some people would say that's not a problem. It's just a matter of perspective.

>> No.9731107

>>9731089
>HORRIBLE dark circles/eyebags combo at only 21
>i look super creepy as if i was going to murder somebody.

I unironically like this in a girl, so you're pretty and aesthetic in my book.

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9731108

>'Twas the meet before Christmas, and all through the comm,
>not a loli was farting, not even your mom.

>The bloomers were hung by the chimney with care,
>in hopes that our butts didn't fill them with air.

>> No.9731125

>VM rerelease of Rose Greeting tights
>Wishlist item
>God bless
It's a Christmas miracle

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>>9730840
This is genuinely one of the sweetest things I've ever read on or about this board. Thanks, anon. We try.

>> No.9731150

>>9731089
I feel you. I'm 23, but have had those dark under eye circles all my life. Meitu is pretty much my best friend. I used to crave some type of of plastic surgery, or anything, but the last few years I've started to care less about it. I hope you eventually start to care less too, anon!
>Finding a really good concealer that worked for me helped a ton.
>Also getting a little more tan weirdly hides them better.

>> No.9731151

>>9730920
>tfw kind of hairy body so I'd have to shave for any shirtless cosplays
>My hair is light now, but it will regrow darker after I shave

Im gunning for Kamina eventually or some Western vidya characters, I really need to work out more before I can do him justice

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>>9731108
I think I love you

>> No.9731169

>>9730966
This is my favourite post

>> No.9731172

>>9730966
Cackling

>> No.9731177

>>9731151
Good luck, anon.

>> No.9731178

>>9730840
>>9731147
To be honest, it just shows you're somehow desperate to feel special and contrarian.
>these are MUH MEH MEHS NOW

>> No.9731180

>>9731178
Adapting memes isn't specific to cgl, senpai. Lots of anime or /co/shit have their own versions of popular memes and reaction images.

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>>9731089
>>9731150
Please post pictures of your beautiful eyes

>> No.9731189

>>9731089
>>9731150
>unironically caring this much about dark circled eyes
Men don't give a fuck, calm down. A cute girl with dark circled eyes is still a cute girl. An ugly girl with or without dark circled eyes is still ugly.
t. man

>> No.9731194

>spend time with sister over holiday
>realize I hate her more than I love her

>> No.9731198

>>9731194
>when your sister has stolen your last 2 boyfriends

>> No.9731201

>>9731198
Rape her with a cactus, anally. This way you'll assert dominance as the alpha female and she won't get in your way anymore.

>> No.9731203

>>9731201
Can confirm. Worked wonders for me.

>> No.9731206

>>9731189
>thinking girls care about this stuff because they think it's what men want

Go back to /r9k/

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>>9731206
>wear fashion inspired on dresses intended to please men from an era women were traditional
>patriarchy sanctioned tier make up and hyperfeminity
>haha but this is just for ourselves you silly boys :333 I s-swear. I t-take care of my aesthetics just to please myself and other women even though I'm heterosexual and I shouldn't care. P-please trust me, this is not intended for men to look at ;_; I b-bet you're from r9k because you said bad theng ;_; I fucking swear I put chemicals on my face just because I enjoy it ok? Not for men! Shut up now!

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>>9731209
>dresses intended to please men

>> No.9731212

>>9731211
Oh, perhaps women in the 18th century or whatever were all lesbians and their dresses were an inside game. Tell me more.

Ultimately, everything a woman does regarding clothing and aesthetics such as make up and skin care is aimed at attracting a partner. It's science (biology, and psychology if you consider it science) Feel free to be a mental gymnast though.

>> No.9731214

>>9731212
Lolita, for the most part, is made by women for women and is generally considered unattractive and even creepy by most men, Japanese or otherwise. Maybe you find it attractive but that's a you thing.

>> No.9731215

>>9731212
How does watching Chinese cartoons help one attract a mate? Why does anime and manga matter? It's a hobby. Fashion can be a hobby, it's just a hobby that involves the way one looks. Not all lolitas or people who own other types of j-fashion even wear it everyday. It's a wonderful dream to get to do so, but most people's lives either don't allow for it or they prefer to wear clothing people don't see as odd to aid social interaction when needed.

It's a hobby just as building model kits, drawing, reading comic books, keeping a coin collection, playing a TCG such as Magic: The Gathering, and collecting figurines are hobbies. There's a (you).

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>>9731209
>from an era women were traditional
What are you even saying. Stop being retarded. Fashion isn't only to attract mates. We're not crabs. t. non /r9k/ man

>> No.9731220

>>9731150
>>9731089
I have a huge issue with dark circles too, so much I can really only conceal it most days with a yellow corrector. Fortunately, there is always photo editing. I avoid taking pictures with others like the plague because I don't get the chance to make sure my circles disappear before it's uploaded. Fortunately, I've only been caught in candid and group photos a handful of times. For outfit pictures, I usually just cover my face with my phone so I don't have to worry about it.

>> No.9731221

>>9731214
I said
>wear fashion inspired on dresses intended to please men from an era women were traditional

and she said >dresses intended to please men
Implying that these dressed from an era where women were traditional is wrong, and it isn't.

And lolita is inspired on dresses, manners, and décor from that era. I'm not discussing the purpose of lolita as of today.

>>9731215
This is getting way too strawmanish, look, I'll make it easy.

>girl says shes conscious about her dark circles
>tell her we men don't really care and that "A cute girl with dark circled eyes is still a cute girl. An ugly girl with or without dark circled eyes is still ugly."
>a triggered tumblrina implies that "thinking girls care about this stuff because they think it's what men want", which is literally wrong by biological standards

Because no matter how angry it makes you, female beauty culture is based on what MEN consider attractive. And this is why women pull their pubes, their armpit hair and accentuate certain facial features with fucking chemicals. Nobody would put chemicals on their face just for themselves or some retarded reason, it's literally to be pleasant to the sex you're attracted to. Males do this too, it's normal, calm the fuck down and face reality.
>>9731217
Oh thank you for enlightening me, I'm going to hastily inform biologists and psychologists of your discovery, they were wrong and retarded, and you, my dear gentlesir, are the true enlightened fighting against the virgin, evil, /r9k/ males. Expect a nobel prize soon, you've earned it. *tips*
Also
>unironically whiteknighting anonymous females on a homemade greek fire recipe forum

I think I've cleared this issue in a pretty clear manner, don't expect me to reply to things such as "hehe wow u wrong" "u incel" "stop being le retarded". Put effort or fuck off.

>> No.9731226

>>9731221
>I think I've cleared this issue in a pretty clear manner
For making me laugh I'll leave you be

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>>9731221
You are baiting hard, but you are comparing what one does to go to the club for picking up men to the picture related.

Also, I started shaving before I knew what sex was. It's because a bunch of itchy, smelly hair practically popped up over night and I freaked out, grabbed my dad's razor since I knew it was to remove hair, and lopped it off.

I later learned people shave down there and underarms as a sexual attraction thing. Personally, I find hair extremely itchy and unpleasant since I'm extremely active and always physically on the move. Also, when girls have their period... I always used pads, it gets really gross and clotty and sticks the hairs together with period blood. Same with discharge if you discharge a lot... Also, we don't normally pull our pubes, most just simply shave.

I mean, you're baiting, and likely didn't want to know that much biological detail, but now you know.

I don't care if a guy doesn't mind dark circles, I know they don't like them, it doesn't change the fact I hate them.

You still weren't able to address clothing being a hobby.

>> No.9731228

>>9731227
I know they don't mind them. Sorry, I was thinking about how much I hate them. You all should hate dark circles though. They're ugly. They're imperfection.

>> No.9731231

>>9731221
Also... People light their farts on fire for fun so putting colors on one's face for fun isn't that retarded. I'm not lighting my farts on fire or doing doughnuts in a parking lot for shits and giggles.

I'll let it be, but it's a bit far fetched. Issue is some men really believe all that you're spewing even if you yourself are trolling.

It's like when people ask me why I spend hundreds on baggy clothing instead of showing off my body with tighter clothing others find appealing. I like the clothing, it's fun, I like to collect it, I like the way it feels, and I like the look of it with more then what another might think would suit me. I like bright alien colors. World is better with them.

Same reason people put on horns, paint their faces white, and wear nightgown.

>> No.9731232

>>9731227
>You are baiting hard, but you are comparing what one does to go to the club for picking up men to the picture related.
No, you are the one baiting hard because this whole fucking thing was about dark circles in the eyes, which is fucking normie stacy tier shit, not your picture. So, nice strawman.

>itchy, smelly hair
I highly doubt smell is inherent to hair of any kind, so I recommend soap.
>period
Well, still you could shower at the end or start of the day.

>You still weren't able to address clothing being a hobby.
Because this wasn't about that, but it being a hobby or not is irrelevant. It can be a hobby and also incidentally be something that can attract partners.

>I don't care if a guy doesn't mind dark circles, I know they don't like them, it doesn't change the fact I hate them.
Because whether you realize it consciously or not, you think it's undesirable for potential partners, so you need to "fix" it.

>> No.9731234

>>9731232
>Shower at the start or end of the day.
Actually, I've always done both. I shower twice a day. Doesn't change the fact that's at least a 6-8 hour timeframe in between.

Yes, it gets itchy and gross. Do you have a vagina? Do you discharge a lot or very little. Some discharge very little and that's why they have to use lube during sex. Have you dealt with cleanup on your period in a public bathroom?

>> No.9731237

>>9731232
And yes, it does hold in a smell, some smell worse then others. If you were so well versed in biology, you would know why it holds in smell.

>> No.9731238

>>9731234
I'm male and whenever I shaved my public hair, it got itchy as fuck, uncomfortable and weird. So I don't know how you would get the opposite effect since pubic hair it's pubic hair no matter if male or female (within the same race).

The point is, your specific reason might not matter on the grand scheme of things, normie men find hairy vaginas disgusting, so women shave them. I am sure many (the majority I think) women would be comfy without shaving, and just do it just for pleasing men.

>> No.9731239

>>9731237
Note the difference between "holding" smell, and smell being "inherent" to hair (as in, coming from the hair). Of course it holds smell, the same as skin oil holding smell. That's why we shower.

>> No.9731240

>>9731234
Hey girlie honestly you shouldn't shower twice a day. It's likely making you dryer and smellier in the long run.

Sadboi is right, hair is not inherently smelly. I can attest to this because I've let myself grow a glorious bush. And I actually smell better with it than I ever did when I shaved all the time.

>> No.9731241

>>9731232
>I highly doubt smell is inherent to hair of any kind
God do you know anything

>> No.9731242 [DELETED] 

>>9731241
Looks like even a dumb hole with actual experience agrees >>9731240

>> No.9731244

>>9731238
I think most normie men just think that because of porn. As soon as they see a bush attached to a cute girl their minds change pretty fucking quick and most even develop a thing for bushes.

>> No.9731245

>>9731244
Well, for me I literally don't care either way, I'm more pragmatic. And yes, either one can look good.

>> No.9731246

>>9731242
>a dumb hole
You're not even hiding at this point

>> No.9731247

>>9731238
I'm not saying there aren't women who don't shave solely for men, and one reason it might be easy for me is I've done it since I was 12 for comfort reasons. However, it's circumstantial. It's unwise to assume every person does something for the same reasons because it'll make you look like a fool.

I shower twice a day, wear solely cotton underwear, and if I'm not wearing a skirt, I wear loose lounge pants. I find jeans and tight pants highly uncomfortable, have since I was little. Less friction, better hygiene, and you don't have discharge and periods affecting your situation. I also exfoliate. These things may affect me not getting razor burn.

I can shave my legs with just water and not get razor burn. Different strokes for different folks. Nobody is one size fits all, you aren't, I am not... So it sounds silly when you apply broad teaching statements to everybody. If you really want to learn, ask women what they do to attract men. You'll find each has their own little formula of what specific things they do to look sexually attractive.

>> No.9731248 [DELETED] 

>>9731246
>calls me a sadboi
>angery because I said dumb hole
Sorry roastie, try using proper manners next time.

>> No.9731249

>>9731240
Yeah... He's just going to call you insults.

It's for medical reasons I shower twice a day, but that wouldn't change the period issue or discharge issues. (Trust me, I'd have used tampons if I could.) Even then, I've got two friends who also find it itchy. Maybe it's hair texture. Who knows? Point is, it's very crass to try to pin everything a woman does on attracting males.

People who work out a lot, are extremely active, or sweat in their sleep often shower twice a day too. It's not odd if you have a reason you need to.

>> No.9731250

>>9731247
Look, everyone has their little personal stuff, yes. But I'm talking about the average, we are talking about millions of people, the masses, and that's what they do, why can we assume that? Because it's biology, having proclivities that makes you attract partners makes you have more chance to produce offspring.

Also, have you considered you found hair itchy because it was just growing and short? Have you ever tried getting it to the point it's quite long? Maybe you wouldn't itch then. I've tried both shaven and haired (male), and you might be missing up comfyness.

Even men who shave their faces, when they want to grow a beard, have an itchy period of time that's hell.

>> No.9731252

>>9731250
I did once because I was curious and that's when I learned about discharge and period issues. I've also done it when razors were not the priority because starting out an adult life is hard... and you sometimes can't afford razors. Especially if you gotta' throw it every time you use it since the aloe strip cannot be disinfected. It's also still itchy to me.

You are talking about humanity. A species which throws themselves in debt to keep a brain-damaged child alive, a infant all other species of animal would leave to die. You are talking about a species who will willingly date the chronically ill. A species that can get it's rocks off from playing with poop and wearing adult diapers. I could get more and more bizarre, but it's humanity. We are illogical and go against instinct.

>> No.9731254

>>9731249
You're misrepresenting things I've said, I haven't said EVERYTHING a woman does on attracting males. But things like make up and caring about dark circles? Yes. Can things like pulling your pubes overlap with other things or be because of a different reason? Yes, but we are talking about the masses.

>>9731252
>You are talking about humanity. A species which throws themselves in debt to keep a brain-damaged child alive, a infant all other species of animal would leave to die. You are talking about a species who will willingly date the chronically ill. A species that can get it's rocks off from playing with poop and wearing adult diapers. I could get more and more bizarre, but it's humanity. We are illogical and go against instinct.
That's irrelevant to our animal side, things that are innate to us and have been with us for millions and millions of years. Those things cannot be changed because we are those things. You can maybe repress them through society or canalize them through culture. And maybe they can misfire when exposed to an unnatural thing such as modern society and you can end up liking playing with shit due to traumatic and subconscious wereabouts. Just 200 years ago, were you raised by then, you'd find perfectly normal to lynch niggers and hang them on trees, 1500 years ago you would have seen as normal for someone who did adultery to get stoned to death. You don't know because of society, but those things are still inside us no matter if we like it or not.

>I did once because I was curious and that's when I learned about discharge and period issues. I've also done it when razors were not the priority because starting out an adult life is hard... and you sometimes can't afford razors. Especially if you gotta' throw it every time you use it since the aloe strip cannot be disinfected. It's also still itchy to me.
No idea then, I can't believe it, what race are you? Maybe it's that.

>> No.9731255

>>9731254
Holy fuck, a lot of typos, I need to sleep. I hope it's understandable enough.

>> No.9731257

>>9731254
I'm a white person. I'm assuming you're white too. I guess race isn't always the answer, huh?

Alright, so who was the fucker claiming lolita fashion, because it is clothing, was about attracting men in >>9731212? Was that not you? It was first hinted in >>9731209.

"Ultimately, everything a woman does regarding clothing and aesthetics such as make up and skin care is aimed at attracting a partner." It was said clothing is part of this, was it not?

>> No.9731260

>>9731255
May your dreams be filled with frilly dresses and take place in a Sephora. Good night, wandering anon.

>> No.9731266

>>9731257
Yes, I'm white too.
>I guess race isn't always the answer, huh?
The question is legit though, asian girls have straight pubes, and white girls have it wavy I know it because of scientifical reasons. So there is difference.

>Alright, so who was the fucker claiming lolita fashion, because it is clothing, was about attracting men in >>9731212 (You)? Was that not you? It was first hinted in >>9731209 (You).

"Ultimately, everything a woman does regarding clothing and aesthetics such as make up and skin care is aimed at attracting a partner." It was said clothing is part of this, was it not?

Yeah it was me, maybe it was a bit hyperbolish.

>>9731260
W-why are you being nice to me? I don't even know what's a sephora.

Anyway, *tips imaginary fedora*, good night m'lady. And remember, nothing personnel, kid.

>> No.9731273

So...
Anyway, how about them /cgl/ feels people? Let's hear them. Sorry to banter, it's 5 in the morning here, the train was already rolling when I got here.

/cgl/ feels.

>> No.9731290

>>9731273
Here's a feel: I wish I could gift my friends with all the brand and husbando merch they've ever dreamed of. I've done my best with presents this year but somehow I feel it's not enough; I just want my friends to be happy.

>> No.9731297

>>9731290
Aw, that's sweet. I brought some really cute brand and off-brand shirts with me on my trip to gift to a friend. They hadn't been worn or anything. Sadly, they never came to pick them up. I guess I could pay shipping, but I was really hoping not to. It strangely made me sad they didn't come get them.

>> No.9731335

>tfw no lolita gf under the tree for me this year

>> No.9731339

I got Kanon Wakeshima's Lolitawork Libretto album as a gift for myself this Christmas and it's so, so beautiful. What happened to her? Did she stop producing music?
Also, related feel,
>tfw you give yourself presents

>> No.9731348

>>9731339
She started doing generic anime openings, such a shame.

>> No.9731358

>when you know you'd be pretty decent at cosplay but you don't want to be involved with the cosplay community in your country
oh well

>> No.9731360

>>9731358
Do you have to be involved in the community to cosplay, though? Or is making friends on an individual level at a con not a thing anymore?
>t. not a cosplayer but trying to help anyway

>> No.9731363

>>9731358
Don't get involved, anon. I just cosplay with my partner and ignore all the amateur dramatics. I can't be bothered with all the schoolyard bullshit.

>> No.9731364

>>9731089
Same. I use Rimmel Wake Me Up concealer in a triangle shape under my whole eye then a beauty blender to tap it in and that seems to help.

>> No.9731367

>>9731348
that's what made her famous, anon.

>>9731339
I haven't seen much of her either after libretto

>> No.9731389
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9731389

>>9731214
>>9731215
>>9731217
>>9731227
>>9731231
>>9731234
>>9731237

>> No.9731394
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9731394

I told my mother to not get me anything this christmas, but especially not clothes. Instead, I asked her to help pay my travel fees so I could go visit her.
>She pays my travel fees, I feel happy and ready to celebrate with my family.
>It's Christmas day and there are packages for me under the tree.
>Why.jpg
>Reluctantly open gifts
>Mother got me two hideous caftans and a wrap skirt, and they are all enormous.
>Thanks Mum
I appreciate how much she loves me, but I specifically asked her to NOT get me any clothes. Broke my heart how happy she looked as I was opening the gifts, too.

>> No.9731408
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>>9731096
>>9731189
I mean it's still pretty ugly i look much older because of them (the makeup and quality here makes them look less worse sort of but it's still REALLY noticeable and i hate it so much)

>>9731184
Here you go.

>> No.9731411

>>9731408
Have you tried a moisturizer with collagen and a collagen supplement. They're light enough that a bit of collagen might fix them right up.

>> No.9731413

>>9731408
Honestly, from your description I was expecting much worse.

>> No.9731415

>>9731408
You have really beautiful eyes, anon. Honestly I know you're self-conscious about it but most people wouldn't even notice that.

>> No.9731417
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>>9731108
Beautiful. Merry Christmas.

>> No.9731421
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9731421

faggot feels but I'm posting em
>faggot
>love dbz
>out of shape
>six months later abs are visible and arms are toned
I'm happiest I've been in a while. Little goals. Now I just have to figure out how to paint my skin green without being a painful ordeal.

>> No.9731425

>>9731421
Congrats, anon.

>> No.9731427 [DELETED] 

>tfw have become redpilled recently
>now hate being born a women
>wish I had been born a man
>no way to become a man except by becoming a degenerate
>feel like I could have accomplished something in life if I had been a man

>> No.9731432
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9731432

>>9731427

>> No.9731434
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>>9731411
It's light on this pic since i have a bit of makeup and the quality is low. It can be worse but yeah. I shouls try thx anon

>>9731413
Trust me it's a "good" pic

>>9731415
Aw thank you. I just really hate them t b h.

Pic related is a truly bad pic

>> No.9731438

>tfw super hooded eyes
>tfw can't do any of the really nice eye makeup to go with my coords
I've learned to make due but I wish I had pretty eyes and could do more with them.

>>9731421
Never stop working out anon, its definitely one of the best things you can do

>> No.9731440

>>9731432
No it isn't. The only reason a man would want to have been born a woman is because of a fetish. The best women are still on the approximate level of middle school boys no matter how much they hamster.

>> No.9731450
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9731450

>tfw when my mom buys me BTSSB’s Swan Lake in ivory for Christmas

I’m so happy

>> No.9731468

>>9731394
I can relate. My mom keeps buying me clothes, and while I know she's doing it to be nice and I'm grateful, her taste in clothing is strange: red everything, weird-ass prints, cowl necks on every single sweater, so much denim. And she buys me everything in medium and large when I'm an xs or s depending on the brand. She means well, but I end up with tons of clothes I never wear.

>> No.9731482

>>9731434
They still don't look bad and you can tell you're attractive just from that small portion of your face. So you're already ahead of the curve. The things that I'm self-conscious about stand out to me too but no one else has ever even mentioned them.

Keeping hydrated and moisturiser will help but, genuinely, you do have nice eyes without.

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9731483

I've been crying basically all morning so that's how my Christmas is going. Hope you all are faring better.

>> No.9731485

>>9731483
Hope everything gets better for you soon anon. You know it will in due time.

>> No.9731488

>>9731440
Are you serious?
Coming from a guy in female dominated fields and hobbies it's shit. No one cares if women say inconsiderate shit to you and really no one wants to deal with you because guys are considered creeps. There's a definite loneliness that comes with being a guy in today's world, especially where we are considered to be so common and replaceable.

>> No.9731490

>>9731483
I'm sorry, anon. Hope you feel better. Sending you a digital hug.

>> No.9731493

>>9731488
Women are tolerated even when they are bitches because everyone knows that they are dumb and solipsistic by nature. You wouldn't get mad at s toddler saying he hates you so you don't get mad at a woman doing the same thing.

>> No.9731499

>>9731493
Speak for yourself. Toddlers can go fuck themselves.

>> No.9731524

>>9731408
>>9731434
Your eyes are OK, no reason to be bothered whatsoever. And your face seems cute... Your issue is self-esteem, not your eyes. Go fix it.

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9731526

>>9731468
Me too. We were having a lovely Christmas until my mom suddenly started hurling insults at me and calling me the bad guy because I did not want to keep a dress that was not my style that she got for my sister in the first place. And she said she was wasting money she doesn't have on me. This is so unnecessary. This always happens too. I want to cry gulls

>> No.9731542

>>9731217
Crabs are pretty cool tho

>> No.9731543
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9731543

>tfw another great Christmas with a fully functional family

>> No.9731547

>>9731482
>>9731524
Thanks anons. You're both real sweet.
I have a tendency to belittle myself and think my flaws define me, I should just get more confident.

>> No.9731560

>>9731427
Gr8 b8 m8.
I'm woman in 2rd world country and my family is poor as fuck (not toxic though). I was working really hard all my life. Thanks to that I'm almost surgeon and I'm gonna get a PhD. Being a wymyn cannot stop anyone from achieving their goals.

>> No.9731567

>>9731560
>2rd world country
I want commies to leave.

>> No.9731575

>>9731547
Something that helped me.
>Look at another person with the same "issue"
>Do I think they're ugly?
>No, of course not
>Realise it's not as big a deal as I think

>> No.9731577

>>9731560
Please just ignore him. It's Christmas, anons.

>> No.9731581

>>9731577
You are right. Merry Christmas, Anon!

>> No.9731583
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>Decide to knit over-the-knee winter socks for the first time
>Find some cute lace sock pattern
>Knit for days
>At some point begin to question the lenght but think it will shrink a bit when worn
>Knit till the heel
>Finally try it on
>It goes up to the crotch
>Also it's loose at the bottom
>Remember I have chicken legs and the pattern maker probably had more chubby legs
>Since it have taken a lot of work I don't want to redo it
>Try to deal with too big socks

>> No.9731590
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9731590

>>9731427
>>9731440
>>9731488
>>9731493
>>9731560

Disregard bait, post /cgl/ feels

>> No.9731592

>>9731583
Aww, anon. They may not be good for lolita, but they sound like cute casual loose socks, maybe with boots... Would they work like that?

>> No.9731611
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>hungover from last night
>feeling very distinctly un-cute

>> No.9731615
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>>9731408
You're beautiful
>>9731434
I'm in love! Don't worry, girl.

>> No.9731621

>>9731526
Oh, anon. At least my mum didn't insult me when I failed at pretending to love the caftans. I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope something nice happens that balances it out.

>> No.9731622

>>9731611
You may be cute, you may be un-cute, but that bird looks bitchin'

>> No.9731629

>>9731483
I don't even know how to cry anymore

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>>9731542
They are

>> No.9731636

>>9731583
Wear them in place of shorts. No one will know.

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9731657

>>9731108
Best post on this board. Merry Crimbus.

>> No.9731659

>>9731408
>>9731434
Are you single? Would you be my gf?

>> No.9731663
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9731663

>write letter to santa asking for cute gf
>he doesn't deliver
>not even a "I'm sorry" response
Santa has abandoned me. There's no hope now.

>> No.9731667

>>9731663
>tfw santa won't give you a cute bf or gf
>tfw its another cold christmas with no cuddles

>> No.9731672

>>9731663
>>9731667
Get a dog, they're cute and cuddly and will love you forever even if they smell weird

>> No.9731674

>>9731672
Apartments rarely allow dogs and if I could afford to take care of one in the first place I'd probably be a lot less depressed

>> No.9731675
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>>9731672
>thinking you can replace a woman with a dog
You can't, I already have a dog. I want a female human to talk with and cuddle with, and to fug, and to get eachother interested in eachother's hobbies, and to develop a deep bond, and to share life with.
>tfw this will never happen
Only death and suffering remains.

>> No.9731676

>>9731663
>>9731667
santa is never the right person for that

>> No.9731682

>>9731674
If you can't afford a dog, how could you afford a cute gf? We're expensive.

>> No.9731685
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9731685

>>9731663
>>9731667
>>9731676
>anon you can't stay here forever, you know?
>anon you should go out more
>why don't you have a gf?

>> No.9731686

>>9731682
But anony I am the cute gf. Cute if you think damaged poor goth girls are cute anyway

>> No.9731688

>>9731686
as long as you don't have selfharm scars

>> No.9731694

>>9731688
I do not, I never got into cutting

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9731695

>>9731685
>24
>hikki
>no friends, even online
>no gf
>extreme anxiety about the future
>college dropout
This won't end well.

>> No.9731696
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9731696

>>9731434
>>9731408
I like your eyes, anon. I'd trade you for them. I can't stand the weird milia around my eye (pic related), and there's nothing that can be done about it.

>> No.9731699
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9731699

Finally I had the courage to go out in lolita with my bf's friends. They were super kind and appreciated my coord. I'm so happy even if it's a stupid thing.

>> No.9731700

>>9731696
Again, barely noticeable anon. I wouldn't have even seen them if you hadn't mentioned it.

>> No.9731702

>>9731695
Was in the same state for a while, anon. Had a mental breakdown. But I got better and you can too.

>> No.9731704

>>9731696
Also, you have central heterochromia which is very rare and beautiful.

>> No.9731705

>>9731696
Is this how people humblebrag in this board?

>> No.9731707

>>9731704
Isn't that an indicative of incest?

>> No.9731708

>>9731707
No. If it was, muslims would have 6 different eye colors per eye.

>> No.9731713

>>9731707
Whut? No more than having green eyes is.

>> No.9731714

>>9731702
What did you do?

>> No.9731716

>>9731682
A gf isn't supposed to just suck out your money. She should probably have her own money too.

>> No.9731718

>>9731699
Yay. Good job, anon.

>> No.9731720

>>9731408
>>9731696
You both have lovely eyes! I'm not seeing anything ugly here except for lack of self esteem.

>> No.9731721

>>9731714
Told my family what was happening.
They made me go to hospital.
Started on medication for my mental illnesses.
Had CBT.
Told a therapist about the traumatic shit in my childhood and worked through it.
Started eating healthy and working out when I was feeling better (this won't help with mental illness on its own but good nutrition and health help with the symptoms).

>> No.9731729

>>9731721
d/a but when I told my family what was happening with me they cut me off because I was obviously crazy and I've been fucked since.

>> No.9731735

>>9731721
It's good that this worked for you, but I wouldn't do any of that.

>> No.9731738

>>9731729
I'm sorry. It sucks not to have a supportive family.
>>9731735
Yeah, different things work for different people. It takes a while to find what will actually help. But I was convinced medication wouldn't work and the doctors would laugh at me. I was wrong and what's more I was wrong because my illnesses were altering my perception of the world.

>> No.9731740

>>9731738
Thanks. It does but it just means I have to make due myself. I don't think I'll make it really but there's nothing else to do

>> No.9731743

>>9731740
There are online mental health services you can talk to. I struggle with speaking on the phone but a lot of them have webchats and I know the Samaritans has an email and a text service.

>> No.9731745

>>9731743
I can't afford that anon. I've tried a couple of hotlines before but they're very awkward to me, I actually interact with people much better IRL than I do online or over the phone. I just recently got out of another shelter and had a counselor there but those places aren't really designed to support people as young as I am.

>> No.9731760

>>9731745
Sorry. I wish I could help. :(

>> No.9731764

>>9731760
Don't feel bad anon. Its nice enough to vent a little and get a response at least, I'm glad you manage to have a better time and do better.

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>>9731663
>wanting a gf
Don't fall for the memes, anon, make the right choice.

>> No.9731782

>>9731771
>trap
>she

>> No.9731783

>>9731771
If all traps looked like Sarina Valentina I'd all up in there, the real thing is quite ugly

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9731784

>>9731782
>>9731783
Found the women, enjoy being pic related while men pick the best of both worlds.

>> No.9731785

>>9731784
I know I'm an ugly bitch, but that doesn't change that fact that a trap is not a "she".

>> No.9731786

>>9731784
You know it's okay to be gay, anon. You don't have to hate real girls because you're ashamed of wanting girly dick.

>> No.9731789

>>9731785
It's literally a she(male)
>>9731786
>girly dick
Like your clit? Thought so.

>> No.9731796

>>9731789
It's okay to be gay anon. I'm sorry you hate girls so much, though. You need to work through that.

>> No.9731800

>>9731796
You only argument was muh girly dick. So what? Not much difference from male genitals and female genitals, I actually lost my virginity with a girl (biological female) that sadly had a congenital defect born only with urethra so I had to please her clit, and it looked about the same as a male dick, just smaller, around 13 or 14cm. So if that's your only argument, you're done then.

>> No.9731816

>>9731800
>13 or 14 cm
>over 5 inches
>no vagina

you pleased his dick my dude

>> No.9731822

>>9731108
Lmao

>> No.9731873

>>9731745
https://www.7cups.com/
I've never tried it but this is free and you can talk to someone without doing anything. Try it out.

>> No.9731877

>>9731771
>watching Toonami
This made me burst out laughing. Good pic.

>>9731800
LOL

>> No.9732321

>>9730705
Girls under 16 have the best pussy tho senpai. I used to get blowjobs every weekend by my little sisters friend. I didn’t initiate it she would bring me candy or share her Taco Bell with me. It was cute:3

>> No.9732873

>>9731771
are those really all traps on the right side?
cause most of them look like actual women
also...
>waiting for the right guy
I don't think you can say that to traps or transpeople

>> No.9732907

>>9732873
There are of course transmen who can pull off being a convincing woman. They are very few though (to the chagrin of every transwoman). It's cherry picking.