Hi, so I'm the girl who made the post about MD. I want to kind of clear the air so that hopefully this whole thing can be over, mostly for her sake. When I wrote my post I will admit that it was fueled by anger, and I really just wanted to rant about what had happened because it bothered me for a while. People are right when they say I looked up to her, and it admittedly hurt my feelings to get blocked over something as trivial as wearing a similar outfit. After writing everything out, it did help. It was cathartic in a way. MD contacted me after it was posted here, and while I do feel like she came across as a bit rude to me, I can't really blame her, I guess. I think about how I'd feel if something similar happened, and I'd likely be upset and hurt too. The thing that bothers me the most about the aftermath of that post is that other people wanted to throw so much shit around. I don't think people were incredibly mean to me per se, but apparently people sent MD messages telling her to kill herself, calling her names, and even here on cgl someone made a really rude statement about her race. I think that's uncalled for, especially if people were doing it on my behalf. Truthfully, I'm over what happened now. I think writing the post helped with that, but I didn't expect it to blow up as much as it did. I will probably delete the post at some point just because I do feel bad. I think stupid things occurred on both sides, and I know that she was really ready for it to end and so am I. So, it's fine if you are still angry at me or her or whatever. But at the very least I think it'd be cool to not send cruel messages like the ones that were sent to her before.