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Old thread is kill. >>9478447

Let's share our cgl-related feels.

>> No.9486358
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I just started a new job where I work in exchange for room and board, but it sucks because I can't go to cons without a salary. The family I'm working for doesn't want me getting a second job, so it sucks. I'm stuck ghosting cons, wearing costumes made of whatever I can find in the dumpsters behind the mall. I found a red coat and now have a partial StarLord, which is pretty neat.

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>the guy I went to a con with and had a one night stand got the most ugliest dreads today and now I will never talk to him

>> No.9486379

That sounds like a bullshit arrangement to me, are you some kind of endentured servant?

>> No.9486431

>being an actual slave

>> No.9486436

Are you doing one of those programs where you get to "experience" a foreign country by working in terrible conditions for free?

>> No.9486463
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I miss my sister

>> No.9486484

Where she at? If she's gone for good, I'll be your sister.

>> No.9486487

probally got talked to by his college professer in his liberal arts class

>> No.9486495

Washington state. If you're standing in for her, can I scoop you up and squeeze you?

>> No.9486497

I haven't been able to wear Lolita or go to a meet for two months :(
I had a meet up arranged but my cat died two days beforehand and I was a fucking wreck (and I still am), double booked for another one and couldn't get to another. I also had to cancel a meet due to lack of interest. Sigh. I'm also broke. It has not been a good month.

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I should confess now that I'm an adult man. Just wanted to make you feel better about your apparently dead sister.

>> No.9486501

She isn't dead though, she's just thousands of miles away. Although she did slit her wrists once

>> No.9486502

Holy shit lmaoooo

>> No.9486509
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TFW none of your feels are CGL related and you have nobody else to talk to about them because you have no friends.

My only friend goes weeks without talking to me these days and has been really distant and negativ. It's like I don't have a friend at all. If you have a good friend, please don't take them for granted. Cherish them.

Oh I guess I do have a half-hearted CGL related feel: I feel sad upon realizing that I don't wear lolita much anymore, but at the same time I never feel like spending the time and energy it takes to wear it. I also thought about getting into fairy-kei because I love pastels and 80's themed stuff, but so far all my attempts at coming up with outfits have made me feel dumb. I think part of my problem might be that I want something a bit more 80's inspired than what most fairy-kei outfits seem to be.

>> No.9486514

Cgl feel:
Made a super professional looking JSK, boring af but really well put together. Felt so good to get it done.

Non-cgl feel:
Now that I'm getting more pro at sewing my family has bombarded me with their pants that need hemming, my sister gave me a pair of pants she needed downsized and I'm about ready to fucking stab myself with my shears because holy balls her pants are stupid complicated and I've had to completely deconstruct everything to take it in.

>> No.9486532

>just had another fight with the family

i want to die again

>> No.9486536
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You are not alone, anon.

>got in to a fight with father this morning
>it's 10:30 at night now and i am fishing out my cosplays from the dumpster, couple of bums just asked me if I see anything good.

>> No.9486537
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I live hrs away from my comm & only see them at conventions.

I'm from the country side & don't feel comfortable driving in city traffic alone so I go with my s/o.
I have no lolita or otaku local friends who would want to go to cons/meets.

So I go to cons soley for socializing with like minded people & to make friends with those interests.

Last year at a big con I hit it off with several girls. I was pretty excited to go to it again to meet up. This con also has lolita brand events & I reallyyy look forward to it.
I'm not FB savvy but I'm really sociable in person.

My s/o opened up to me & said he hates going to cons.
I've been dragging him to them for years..

So this year I won't be going to that con & I'm heartbroken. I already miss the friends I made there.

I wish I had the courage to adventure alone.

>> No.9486542

I really wish I could have a fattychan friend to get in shape with. All the fatty chans I know don't want to improve themselves and all the lolita's I know that like to exercise aren't fattychans so I feel almost awkward talking to them about my struggle to get to my goal weight.
I plan on losing 30 and improving my eating habits by this time next year but I just wish I wasn't alone doing it (besides the occasional status like on myfitnesspal).

>> No.9486547

I want the exact same thing :( I've been trying to lose weight for a while now and its not going well, my only fatty-chan friend isnt into lolita and doesnt want to change herself either (her bf is a chubby chaser :/)

I was hoping I could get her into lolita, but oh well.

>tfw I will never have a lolita friend to twin with

>> No.9486550

Just found out I'm going to Disneyland. Literally cried.

>> No.9486566

I make more than all of the friends I grew up with and now I rarely hang out with them, because they can't afford to do anything. It sucks, but they put no effort into bettering themselves, and now are kind of stuck to rot away at dead end jobs. I've tried to encourage some of the closer ones into doing things that would help them, but they give up as soon as they don't get any reward from putting in effort for less than a week.

>> No.9486567

>tfw indentured servant
Really? REALLY?

>> No.9486573
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>On my way to buy cosplay materials
>It's dark but I'll do it quick while it's still open
>Buy stuff
> Around 19:30PM. Very dark outside.
>Put cellphone + wallet in my backpack
>Get on the subway to come back home
>The busiest hour, I merge in a human river
>Going back home
>Get off the subway
>I look for my phone
>It isn't there
>My wallet isn't here neither
>pic related my exact reaction
>I go home almost crying

>I can't call anyone, nor I remember any phone numbers
>The person that stole my phone can now look at my social media and my photos
>I had credit cards and around $15 in my wallet

Anons, I want to die

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>mother bitches at me literally every year for never asking for anything for my birthday or christmas
>finally cave and show her some options as to what I'd like which is basically just filler for my larme wardrobe

>oh anon those tacky things again? you're turning 24 why are you so obsessed with pink?

>> No.9486607

You need to find a way to cancel your cards immediately instead of posting it to us, anon. That's much more important. If you have to, go into business and ask to use their phone.

>> No.9486609

It was the first thing I did, all the services are cancelled and I have also contacted my family so now I'm just sad and playing vidya
I'm kinda worried for my net safety so I'm thinking of moving all my social media accounts, including google accounts.

>> No.9486613

Someone who is physically robbing you is after money, not giving you a bad name.

>> No.9486614

>bitches because you never ask for anything
>bitches when you ask for this specific thing
Oh boy. My condolences, anon. Maybe just ask for money instead? Or will she bitch about that too?

>> No.9486623

I think it's a good idea to at least change your passwords to things like email. A lot of services have some kind of 'sign out of all other web sessions' option you might be able to use so the thief can't access them on your phone anymore, but it might be a pain to find. Good luck anon

>> No.9486628

I'd like to think she wouldn't but I know my mother and she'd probably bitch about that too.

One of her comments during this conversation over the phone was

>well at least with the sizing I know you aren't getting fat

Really she's just a lovely woman to talk to.

>> No.9486632

internet hugs anon, I have non-cgl related feels atm.

>> No.9486659
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My friend worked forever making his son a One Pinch Man costume, and he immediately shat it.

God damn.

>> No.9486666

Even au pairs get a salary on top of room and board anon. The fuck kind of deal do you have going on?

>> No.9486671
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Why the fuck. Why the FUCK animators and artists never draw the fucking petticoat. Do they even know how a puffy skirt works? I am the master of the petti, conqueror of the organza and sir of the chiffon, ruler of the tulle monarchy. Please anime creators, do your fucking research. You put my whole kingdom in shame.

>pantsu instead of bloomers

>> No.9486672

They probably can't even access your phone if you set a passcode like a regular person.

>> No.9486684

They don't care about fashion and realism, they (and their audience) want quirky kawaii rorita-chan fan service.

>> No.9486689

I spent the money I was gonna use to pay for my first otome dress (I'm currently Lolita but I want to start wearing otome to work) and spent it on Japanese lessons instead. The dress will wait hopefully and I'm excited to get back into nipponese but I also want to wear cute dresses with cat and food prints to my job....

>> No.9486693

Duolingo just added the Japanese language recently!

>> No.9486715

what anime is this even from

>> No.9486716

eromanga sensei

>> No.9486719

Im comfortable with grammar already and I can study vocab on my own but I need to actually practice speaking with a real person to progress any further. I'm interested to see what the Japanese Duolingo lessons are like though.

>> No.9486731

ah silly me

>> No.9486749
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>Too fat to be normal characters
>Not fat enough to be fat characters

>> No.9486774

I'm head-over-heels in love. After my last relationship where I was constantly being made fun of, felt insignificant, isolated, and eventually got cheated on for 3 years, I became super cynical about romance but now I'm dating my best friend and it's mutual love and it's the best feeling in the world. We have the same friends (who all say we're cute), we have the same interests, the sex is FANTASTIC, and we've already done a couples cosplay together and are planning more and are going to Colossalcon and other conventions together. I'm the type that doesn't believe in marriage as an institution, but I can see myself marrying him and we've only been together 3 months. Part of me thinks that's just infatuation and that the rose-tint will wear off soon, but honestly I'm trying to be more positive and just enjoy this amazing relationship right now at face value. I'm just so happy to be with him!

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>the sex is FANTASTIC
How does one have FANTASTIC sex?
t. sex fiend

>> No.9486803

Ignore everything you've ever learned from porn. hentai, and imageboards for one. Plenty of foreplay, lube, and communication. Fap less before hand and don't expect it to be magically perfect without any effort put in.

>> No.9486808

ask money for the pants. that will stop them coming to you

>> No.9486813

So this con I'm going to happens to fall on the week of both my sister's birthday and graduation. I feel so shitty? It's too late to change my mind, though. I'll be watching her graduation livestream from my hotel room and possibly miss panels and shoots because of it but I feel like I should.

I'm definitely going to buy her something nice to make up for this. The thing is, I never graduated highschool, so I'd probably feel super jealous, but I'm watching out of respect anyway. I have a lot of conflicting feelings. We aren't close, but we aren't not close either. Anyway, I can't go back now.

>> No.9486855

I feel you anon. I have very few friends and several people i started to consider as friends left me lately. Anyways, be strong anon! Try meet other people, if it's possible (sorry for basic bitch advice), do stuff that make you feel content and satisfied in the meantime.
Have you tried uchuu-kei substyle of fairy-kei?

If you want to talk to soomeone you can add me on skype : tadalalorelei

>> No.9486876

shit's already been booked so go and have fun
make it up to her some other time

>> No.9486877

Recently my classmates have been treating me awful so I started wearing casual lolita and otome outfits to college more often because pretty clothes makes me happy. But I have severe social insecurities and I fear they started laughing behind my back because of my “silly clothes" and this would make the relationship even worse.

I have a lot of college feels but no one to talk about it…

>> No.9486878

Wtf, your classmates are shitty. They sound more like middle school kids than college students.

>> No.9486908
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Oh my god anon, this triggers me too, every single time. So many designs with huge skirts somehow staying in place on their own... While I can't think of any examples of that at the moment I do remember that Madoka is the only anime girl I've seen with a petti.

>> No.9486911
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>tfw guys on my ultimate frisbee team call me a weeaboo because they found out about my cosplay

>> No.9486929
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this screencap looks like it could be well used here. I don't really like this anime, but the panties+no petticoat rustles my jimmies

>> No.9486942

have you considered not being a weeb?

>> No.9486944

>spend money on steroids, anxillaires and high quality food
>spend money on costumes, travel, hostels, etc
>i still have hobbies so spend money on mmo cash shops.

holy fucking shit, its common for bodybuilders and cosplayers/lolitas to whore themselves out to soften the expenses... but what if youre BOTH?

I think ill jave to do gay4pay on saturdays or something soon.

cant right now im on dnp so i feel awful and my jizz is yellow.

>> No.9486947

>ultimate frisbee
Play a real sport, fag

>> No.9486948
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>go to local con Fb page
>"the con is cancelled, money will not be refunded"

>> No.9486950

Why not start building up that confidence so you're not dependent on him to drive you places? Go out on weekends, evenings, whenever, and drive. Start with slightly larger towns or whatever and make your way up to driving in the city. This is only an insurmountable problem if you make it one, desu. Driving in heavier is scary at first, but practice and experience will make it easier.

>> No.9486952
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I'm finally making the weeb pilgrimage with my bf and his group of (boring) friends

and I found out none of my coolest friends are going to be able to come with me. I'll probably go a second time just for them, but going without them is going to make it only half as fun.


>> No.9486953


why would you want him to bring his boring, working class plebshit friends whos intellect only allows them to think football, basketball and beer?

>> No.9486954

If you paid via PayPal make a claim to get your money back, that's a straight up scam.

>> No.9486960

I think the problem is that it is a very competitive environment where the ultimate goal is to demonstrate you worth more than the others. And they discovered they can use my social anxiety against me.
It sucks because i am one one of the best students here and I would continue being if what they think didn’t affect me so much…
I only want to be a student with pretty dresses

>> No.9486965

The worst part of any con is when you smell feces in the artist alley

>> No.9486967

Deal with it

>> No.9486978

What are you majoring in that's so competitive but filled with that petty nonsense? Even competitive fields usually have some sense of comaraderie since the competitive jobs are usually more work. I almost want to guess you're either nursing, psych, or education from the immature students

>> No.9486990
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Clamp understands the art of the petticoats. Cardcaptor Sakura especially always has them. This isn't the best example, but the only one I have at the moment

>> No.9487009

I feel like I need to wear a giant button that reads something to the effect of 'my modest fashion choice isn't an invitation to slutshame other girls', or something catchier than that but with the same point. Maybe it's because I live in a small town with a lot of older folks, but almost every time I'm out in lolita I get a comment like 'oh it's so nice to see girls wearing nice clothes instead of running around in their underwear!' I've seen this a few times from other lolitas too where they're suddenly high and mighty because they aren't wearing crop tops <<<granted it's usually from girls who shouldn't be wearing crop tops in the first place but that's beside the point>>>, it just irritates the hell out of me. I have the freedom to wear my frilly dresses and feel good about myself just like girls have the freedom to wear music festival looking outfits and feel good about themselves, it pisses me off to see people using lolita fashion as a way to validate their shitty attitude.

>> No.9487015
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How about some anti feels

>Some photographers have to live off being paid for cosplay shoots
>mfw I do international modelling shots for celebrities and just shoot costumes for fun

>> No.9487021


cosplay photographers are creepy desperate pedo scum, they dont deserve anything

>> No.9487022

Look into the original fairy kei, Spank! style. It's literally tacky 80's fashion but kawaii.

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>be outside and in a bidding war
>mobile battery dies
kill me please

>> No.9487033

How do you not have a mobile battery pack?

>> No.9487057

Be careful who you tell about your bf opening up; this is prime subject to get terrible advice in.

Compromise. He goes with you to cons, and you do for him something you don't like.

>> No.9487081

>tfw no /pol/ bf

>> No.9487119

I have one anon, but he doesn't come in here to piss lolitas off & shit up the threads. Its prolly a lone bitter mgtow.

>> No.9487127


not sure if American pretending they're European or just dumb

>> No.9487138

>tfw i AM a /pol/ bf
feels good

>> No.9487263

If you made friends, why not room with them?

>> No.9487281
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I don't know what I laughed at harder, the story or the image.

>> No.9487282

tf: freedom, joy

>> No.9487288
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lots of foreplay and dont be afraid to try new stuff
also fuck someone that you love because thats half the fun

speaking of
life is good I'm dating a tall white guy who wants to do a griffith and casca cosplay with me

>> No.9487289

Same here. Want to be my fattychan weight loss friend?

>> No.9487292

She put her bloomers back on after that scene.

>> No.9487317

Cancel yo cards
Use Find my iPhone / Android Device Manager to track your phone if you can

>> No.9487347

>first time learning to sew
>machine keeps jaming up
>threads are super loose
The machine was super old and when I poped open the bottom it was full of dust bunnies jamming the mechanics.

>> No.9487418

how about you stop stretching your desires to take new and larger forms every day and start to reduce your desires instead. you won't need to die at 40 to provide the means.

>> No.9487419

dating nerds (or me) is the intellectual girl's fetish, though
get with the times

>> No.9487426

Stop being so autistic. Some people are happy to see clothes that aren't revealing. Freedom spirals are autistic and inherently contradictory.

>> No.9487448

I empathise anon, but at least you don't see it in the community these days since slutshaming became a huge SJW issue. 5-10 years ago it was common for people to comment on EGL about how ~superior~ they were to the boring normies in crop tops and mini-skirts. Nowadays it's not that bad.

>> No.9487450

Go to Facebook's settings and stop all active sessions, change the passwords to all your accounts. If you don't have bank details or something on there they'll just factory reset it and sell it on.

>> No.9487454

That machine needs to be serviced pronto before you hurt yourself or break it. I've had my fair share of broken needles jammed into my hands from old machines that weren't serviced. That's 60-120 USD depending on the issue.

It could be a timing issue, using the wrong bobbin/needle type and/or the tension has slipped massively and needs to be tightened.

If you're short on time see if you can borrow one from another person.

>> No.9487459
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>jocks can't be smart
Nerds are so funny when they try puff their chests out

>> No.9487460


does anyone seriously want to live past 40?

who wants to be an old hag/decrepid piece of shit?

>> No.9487464

fuck off i'll have you know that the people you see getting bullied in school will be dreaming about being the boss of the jocks once they get their career up and running but in actual fact their low level of assertiveness will mean that they'll never get promotions and will be awful at managing people anyway and the smart jocks you're on about will be the ones at the top of the business hierarchy too

i've transcended the jock-nerd spectrum
i'm at the top of the meta hierarchy, so to speak.

>> No.9487470

fit pls go

>> No.9487475

Why can't he drop you there and then go to the cinema or sightsee around town for a few hours? You could meet up again in the evening and go for dinner/a hotel together.

>> No.9487483
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Chad/jock mentality is what gives you an empty and meaningless life after women realize you're not worthy of fucking. Find a loving relationship my dude. Maybe with your hand, you do you, etc lol

>> No.9487490

Trying to brag on the internet about how alpha you are is the surest sign that you're actually not.

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> crushing hugely on this guy
> a couple of years older than me and cute af
> has an eye for fashion and likes similar things to me
> knows about me dressing in lolita, has called me super cute multiple times
> expressed interest in sweet ouji
> want to ask if he wants to be my ouji accessory

fuck if this isn't complicated, i really like him but then again his ex is a pretty good friend of mine and i really don't want to cause drama in our friend group
why do feelings have to be a thing

>> No.9487493

i am right at this very moment replying to somebody in this thread without linking their post because i am above confrontation and i feel like my criticism is more valid when the person cannot reply to me without running the risk of looking like an ass when i tell them that i wasn't even talking to them in the first place

>> No.9487512

Why did they break up? Maybe asking the ex, your friend, if it's alright for you to date him would be ideal.

>> No.9487519

I make shitposty images and reaction pictures and post them here sometimes and it's always nice to see people use them in other threads every once and awhile, it makes me really happy that people like them

>> No.9487529

>move far away from home
>go to local con to try to make friends
>meet up with a bunch of really cool people and have a ton of fun
>con ends
>forget to trade contact info with them
>everyone disperses
>no luck trying to contact them afterwards

just a little disappointing when this happens

>> No.9487545

>i've transcended the jock-nerd spectrum
>i'm at the top of the meta hierarchy, so to speak.

Fascinating. You said you were single, did you?

>> No.9487553

you could say so

>> No.9487554

get with the program anon, liberals hate white dreads not love them

sage for super OT

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>> No.9487602

Taking people who get a kick out of posting silly things on a little chinese schoolgirl cartoon imageboard seriously is a sure sign that you are the real sillypants

>> No.9487609

>put myself on a lolita ban because I gained weight
>not allowed to buy anything until I lose 10 pounds
>several wishlist dresses that I haven't seen in years suddenly for sale

This is my punishment.

>> No.9487622

Just buy 'em anyway, don't wanna miss your chance.

>> No.9487626

Yeah do it you pig. Who needs self control.

>> No.9487628

why are you punishing yourself?
it would be so much better and easier to slowly introduce and replace habits with healthier ones

>> No.9487646

So they have something to whine about.

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>> No.9487654

Turn this into a positive, anon! Buy a dress you don't fit yet and have your goal to be to fit into it properly. Imagine how it'll feel eventually putting on a dream dress and having it fit comfortably, no sucking in, no straining the zipper.
You can do it anon! Being too harsh on yourself can end in diet failure.

>> No.9487658

>no vibrators
shit picture

>> No.9487682
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>want to get into lolita
>haven't worn a dress since I was 8, for fear I'll shart on the floor again

>> No.9487685

That pizza on the floor so close to her dress is making me distressed.

>> No.9487709

Is it that hard to not poop?

>> No.9487712

Sorry, meant to reply to >>9487682

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>Having a couple of awesome cosplay friends who live a state away from me
>Want to meet with them at cons but can't b/c of college work and distance
>They plan on going to Youma this year but bf and I don't plan go to since recent years have been disappointing
>Don't have car and can't drive b/c of anxiety
>Afraid to make more cosplay friends b/c of bad experience with toxic friends in the past
>Afraid to make too many friends b/c of fear of forgetting about ppl and accidentally flaking on them

>> No.9487744
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>has a gf

>> No.9487748

I'm willing to be your weightloss friend too although I get its not the same since it isn't local

>> No.9487862
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>tfw my usage of "baka" is getting less and less ironic

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>> No.9487903
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>make a handmaid costume
>it's actually super flattering and comfortable
>wind up wearing it around while working on other costumes

I feel kind of disgusted with myself. But also comfy.

>> No.9487906
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>Be kind of into an anime back in middle school, was one of my first fandoms
>Eventually forget about it and move onto new things
>Series gets reboot in late 2000s, but I was more into western stuff by that time and never looked into it
>Randomly decide to rewatch the original anime last year
>Fall back in love hardcore, far more into the series than I ever was a young weeb
>Fandom seems to have died down a bit, have a hard time finding anyone as into it as I am
>Completely missed the boat to be into the fandom when it was at It's peak

I'm planning on cosplaying from it for some summer cons and hosting a photoshoot for it, since people do cosplay from it somewhat. Trying to do my part to help keep the fandom alive. But It's still pretty depressing to have missed the boat. I've been collecting art of it from the early-mid 2000s and the whole thing is so nostalgic but also very melancholy.

>> No.9487908
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I live in the dorms of a college in the middle of nowhere and I don't have a car. I went to Katsucon this year by Greyhound and it was ass, mostly because it was a long ride so I missed most of the first day and because I had to pack super light. I want to do some bigger/more fragile cosplays for the next Katsucon but plane tickets and shipping big fragiles things are expensive. I wish I had a damn car so I can drive myself and my shit to cons but also I wish I had cosplay friends to go on road trips to cons together like so many people seem to do.

>> No.9487914

What's the series anon?

>> No.9487917

Dying in the heat because I'm stupid and I don't own many things that aren't black or navy, can't go shopping cause I have a trip in a few weeks and my stupid ass already spent a lot due to misty sky mto. Also, almost-dream dress is currently on cc and can't afford it right now either and I just want to cry.

>> No.9487945

Dorms are usually overpriced af no matter where you are. The money you could save from skipping a few cons and getting better priced housing could possibly be enough for an old car?

>> No.9487955
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>tfw I'm going to a Georgia con and picked a costume with a heavy coat

I'm dumb.

>> No.9487960

>Get into fight with parents
> INvolves a piece of clothing they got me
>I actually like it
>Anger overtakes me
>tell them i hate it
>Mass arguement throughout night

i feel really really bad. i already apologized but i still sad

>> No.9487962

emailed a bit ago but forgot to say I did ahah

>> No.9487981

>jimmies rustled by feels thread OP image
>make a profile on SoulGeek
>no one in a fifty mile radius is cute

That's ten minutes of my life I'm never getting back.

>> No.9487985
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>make an OKC profile
>only cosplayers in my area are hardcore fatty-kuns

Back to scouring the cons for a husband.

>> No.9487991

People who advertise that they cosplay on dating sites raise red flags for me. Just stick with guys who say that they like anime if you want someone with power levels.

>> No.9487993

Are you fucking retarded?

>> No.9487998

I once wrote on a dating site "I want someone to watch Char's Counterattack with me." Someone emailed me back pretty fast. I Googled his email and he was a full-on erotic-fanart-commissioning furry.

>> No.9488002

>tfw you have a bunch of body image insecurities but they're all about parts of your body lolita covers up
>hourglass figure but long torso and boobs start kind of low down, I feel like it sometimes looks weird even in a well-fitted bra but I'm probably the only one that would notice
>spotty chest but literally never wear anything that exposes cleavage, even in normie clothes
>super veiny feet but I genuinely find socks/opaque tights much more comfortable than nylons or bare feet so I never expose them anyway
>also violin hips
>only 20 but have been getting more and more cellulite in the past year, started getting it while I was underweight so losing weight won't help unless I go unhealthily low
>legs are otherwise a really nice shape but naked arse and upper thighs look disturbingly lumpy, and my skintone is also really uneven since I have a bunch of keratosis pilaris
>nobody except a partner would ever see it because I always wear tights, pants or knee-length skirts but still feel really stressed and powerless to do anything about it
>overall kinda skinnyfat nowadays but not too bothered because I'm a lesbian and genuinely prefer the look of slim skinnyfat girls to toned ones
>still a little depressed by stomach sticking out even though I never wear crop tops, wish I had a flatter stomach but way too lazy to do sit-ups
>(I know it's a muscle tone not a weight issue because it was just as bad, bar maybe an inch of chub, when was underweight)
>fat upper arms despite the rest of my body being slim, but I rarely wear short sleeves and never wear sleeveless clothes
>used to have a ton of acne, which was an issue in lolita, but the first topical medication I tried for it cleared most of it up immediately

I feel like if I wear form-fitting clothes but are covered my body looks really hourglassy and good, the proportions are great (especially from the front) but as soon as I'm naked it looks horrible. Maybe everyone looks horrible naked and I'm too virginal to tell, IDK.

>> No.9488005

People who aren't good enough at hiding their power level to splash their cosplay/weeb stuff all over a dating profile always seem unstable and socially unskilled, whenever I get requests from weebs their profiles are usually super cringey. Just have something subtle like a badge or merch visible in a pic or a line in your profile saying you like anime, you don't need to go further.

>> No.9488009

Pretty normal feels anon, we've all got our hang-ups with our own bodies (I've got a big nose and terrible hairline). Just know that most people don't care about those sorts of things! If you really want to d something about it, try a bit of calisthenics and body weight exercise; will go a long way to "fixing" those things you don't like about your body. Works wonders for your self-perception as well.

>> No.9488011
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>friends take me to see Mulan for my 29th birthday
>decide to cosplay her
>mfw cons sucked ass back then

>> No.9488015

Exercise sounds like it would solve all those issues except for the excess cellulite. You might want to go get your hormone levels checked just in case.

>> No.9488017

she uses her hair curler as a dildo though

>> No.9488018
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almost everyone looks horrible (see:delicious) naked, anon. Just have some more confidence and strut around when you're in the nude, you're probably in a safe space if you can take your clothes off anyway

>> No.9488021
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Fullmetal Alchemist, not really a dead fandom but I still feel like I missed out on the halcyon days.

>> No.9488023

Wait a minute, is getting a weeb gf really this easy?

>> No.9488024

If something sounds too good to be true, it is.

>> No.9488026

fuck you faggot this is a feels thread

>> No.9488027

it is, and weeb wives as well... you're just not prepared for the emotional and financial cost grasshopper

>> No.9488029

Aw man that would've been fun to be really into with other people! I need to rewatch Brotherhood.

>> No.9488031

Nearly 50 and still posting to cgl? What's your secret?

>> No.9488032

Yeah, I used to do loads of walking and that kept me fit but I started a new job a few months ago and have a ridiculously sedentary lifestyle nowadays - aside from when I'm cooking/cleaning and the couple of hours a week when I walk to the grocery store I spend pretty much all day sat down and working at a computer. I don't even commute, I just hunch over a laptop remote working for hours and I can tell it's causing me issues. I'm working a lot of extra hours so I'm busy most weekends as well and not going out for social stuff much since I only have one friend in this city right now and the local comm doesn't meet often (and then I fill the social void by chatting on Facebook/Skype to friends and family from back home, which means more time sat on a laptop). I absolutely hate going to the gym and can't do workouts beyond stretches at home because I live in an apartments and dancing or doing jumping jacks or something would really disturb the people living below me. I really miss living in the countryside and being able to walk in peace and enjoy nature - everywhere in this city is either crazy crowded or unsafe or both so it's not relaxing. I'd like to get back into rock climbing or ice skating or something since I'm way more motivated doing a fun sport/activity than just going running on a treadmill, but I'm working so many hours at the moment that I can't get to anywhere that's not open 24/7.

I'm probably going to start doing weight training or similar when my next work deadline is finished, but it's hard to work up he motivation because the things that bother me most about my appearance (spotty, veiny, violin hips, short legs) are things exercise won't affect - I'm pretty complacent about the other stuff because I'm still slim and my weight is really stable thanks to a good diet.

sage for blog and all

>Just have some more confidence and strut around when you're in the nude
Well, it made me laugh.

>> No.9488044

>I will never be a cute Korean NEET that plays shooters all day like D. Va

Why live, girls?

>> No.9488060

I feel this.

Are cat and food prints really appropriate for your job?

>> No.9488061

Please elaborate

>> No.9488062
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>Midnight Instagram surfing
>decide to story stalk because last day of ACen
>phone pulls up keyboard, thumb taps "L"
>tried to hit delete and tap out of keyboard
>watch in horror as Instagram sends message

If it was one of my friends it woulda been an "Oh haha" thing but the dude is a relatively known cosplayer and lord help me I am embarrassed as hell. Got that whole heated face and limbs draining out into cold feeling.

>> No.9488102
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>plan cosplay with gf
>end up splitting
>a year passes
>now she's doing the same cosplay with her new guy

I don't wanna go to Momocon anymore.

>> No.9488103

You can get a weeb gf easily enough but she's gonna be a huge crazy bitch and constantly demand you buy her things and bring her places and most likely end the relationship by cheating until you catch her after which she'll say it's your fault.

>> No.9488177

I agree with this anon

>> No.9488188

Just wear a diaper :^)

>> No.9488191
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The ageplay came first for me, then the lolita.

I love all the cute stuff involved with sweet lolita. I love all the tea parties you can have with the other girls and how childish it makes me feel. I wish we could have an all sweet comm. I wear a diaper with every coord. I spray a lot of perfume and use a lot of baby powder in hopes that no one will notice when I go peepee. As for poopie, it's not often I go in public. I just never have the urge, even though I really want to. I feel like a naughty girl who's doing bad stuff, and the feeling of my peepee and vaginal fluids squishing around in a hot sticky diaper with a thing inside me vibrating is so much fun. I also love how none of the other lolitas can tell what's happening under the sweet lolita coord. I have a daddy, he buys me AP and toys and he also changes and breastfeeds me even though he's a guy. I've never felt like an adult woman, so I hate being treated as such. At tea parties, I tell the girls that I'm lactose intolerant so that I can bring my own "soy" milk. It's actually formula milk, and I drink it in my tea cup. My daddy makes me keep a butt plug in when I go out in my AP with diapers. He also makes me go peepee before I leave so he can punish me by making me go out like that. The other girls never notice, though. The bloomers cover the diaper, which gives my dress an extra poof. I just love the feeling with all the ruffles and frills with a warm, squishy diaper concealed underneath. My daddy likes to buy lots of sex toys, then I pretend to not know ho to play with them. Then we play together and he shows me how to play with all the new toys.

>> No.9488208
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>and breastfeeds me even though he's a guy.
Fuck anon that really got me for some reason. 10/10 t.bh

>> No.9488210

Trying too hard. You've gotta sneak it in casually, make it only a *small* part of your story that people then dig deeper into. Then you can move on to the "I enjoy shitting in AP while daddy abuses me" shit posting.

>> No.9488213

shut up torry

>> No.9488235
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Besides everyone knows fairy-kei is the real ageplay-kei.

>> No.9488245

dating hot nerds*

nobody wants to date neckbeard/fatty-chan, whatever kind of nerd or jock they might be

>> No.9488255
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Jocks by definition are not smart. Jock != athlete.

>> No.9488264
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>match with extremely cute cosplay girl on Tinder
>talk briefly
>she hasn't replied since yesterday

>> No.9488271

Talk to the ones who exercise and are willing to help.
And also get yourself in the mental place you need to be to suffer and hurt, because it's going to suck shit. But hey, changing yourself is never easy.

>> No.9488277

>start new job
>no time for browsing for brand
>no time for browsing cgl
>no time for even sleep, sometimes
>wondering if I'll have time for cons
>wondering how I'll ever have time for an S/O if I never even have time for me
>tfw can't even drink alcohol to soothe bad feels because always on the road.
>recently spent hundreds of dollars and a few days (that I had to ask off from work) trying to help someone who now refuses to talk to me.

I'm tired.
My head hurts, my body hurts, my feelings hurt.
I'm tired.

>> No.9488284
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>> No.9488290

is do you work 140 hours a week or something

>> No.9488298

I'm a truck driver and away from home for 2-3 weeks at a time. I get home for two days and head back out again.

I generally get 5-7 hours of "off time" that I spend sleeping and eating.

>> No.9488301
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tfw inspired by this and made a profile
tfw keep seeing people this

>> No.9488302

I feel you my dude, I'm in the same situation. It sucks but it really got me motivated to start some harder builds and really perfect them so that I can feel better about myself

>> No.9488315

>tfw i've been angry about something since friday and it's making my hands shake too badly to sew

>> No.9488320

>San Diego native
>Haven't been to SD ComiCon in 8 years because of military
>Used to go every year as a kid
>Have full passes, a friend to hang with and more friends with hotel rooms at the fancy hotel
>Super nervous about going because it's changed so much
>Super nervous about the cosplays I'm planning
>Having a hard time because all my boys still in the military will be out in 29 Palms during SDCC and I won't be with them
>All the girls I'm talking to don't care, "Anon it's just the military, like... just be happy ur out lol"
>Just want to enjoy the con but i've already loaded it with a storm of anxiety

why even exist

>> No.9488324


You sound like you work for SWIFT or CR England getting cucked per mile. Keep rollin Anon, it'll be ok.

t. haz tanker jockey

>> No.9488458

>I'm dating my best friend
I'm glad you're happy and wish you the best but be careful, I've seen this happen a few times and it has never ended well. Our /tg/ club at Uni basically blew the fuck up because everyone was friends and then all hooked up with another person. There was cheating, terrible things said, it was all quite incestuous.

>> No.9488539
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>5 days before con
>nothing is finished
>everything is going wrong

>> No.9488588
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Better than who I get matched with.

Really though, I live in one of the most obese states in the country, its hard to find someone who actually eats healthy and is active.

>> No.9488637

The only thing worse than coloured racists are white people who self-loathe and apologize on behalf of other white people

God damn those people are retards

>> No.9488642

>Losing friendships because you aren't e-famous or of use to people who are rising in popularity is always fun.

>> No.9488646

>tfw still waiting on a package from Russia
Well... Surely it'll get here by Wednesday, right? ... Right??

>> No.9488662

>bored and taking break from working on cosplay
>see this
>why the fuck not

I could use a laugh. I'll post any weird shit I get from my hick-weeb infested area. I'm a lesbian as well so I expect quite a few "You like pussy but I got a great cock so I think I can convert you" messages.

>> No.9488674
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though, I did also find a profile that said this, so its not all bad.

>> No.9488693

Because fuck them that's why.
No good deed goes unpunished and the better you do for yourself the less people give a shit.
Was in a similar situation and it didn't go well, I hope the same doesn't apply for you.
Good luck with the con anon...

These feels made me salty.

>> No.9488703
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I immediately regret signing up.

>> No.9488709

Blue board anon...

>> No.9488712

I hope you keep a tally of how many unprompted nudes you get. Got tired of that shit real fast in my area.

>> No.9488722

This image is me, only I have a boyfriend that I live with and he'll sometimes literally tell me to stop arguing with people on 4chan and pay attention to him.

>> No.9488732
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I'll never have my first-choice cosplay done by the con. I'll have to take my backup, which isn't so bad, but still!

I'm so sad, I jerked off in the room where my grandmother died. Fucked up, right?

>> No.9488734

They're fake plastic ones from a costume shop.

>> No.9488744

I feel you anon, I did something similar to a friend a few weeks ago and he's still pissed about it. I feel really awful too

>> No.9488753

>dieting for two months
>strict calorie limit
>realized today I've been massively underestimating serving size on something I eat almost every day
>means I've been over calorie limit by about 200Cal almost every day for two months
>lost 10lbs so far anyway
I'm not sure how to feel or what lesson to take from this. I'm glad I'm tall, I guess?

>> No.9488793

Haven't gotten nudes yet but I put on my profile I really didn't like kids or people with kids and got someone talking to me about his daughter.

>> No.9488847

link me ur okc, bb, I'll dm you some nudes ;).

>make an okc to see if that's help me find cosplay gf
>talk to people that say they are into anime or arts and crafts or even just being out and about
>They either never respond or respond for a bit and stop talking


>> No.9488875

Literally all of my OKC pics are cosplay pics. I'm super into cosplay and don't want people to get think ill of me after I tell them. I always thought it would be better to just straight up let people know I'm a weeb and still love cosplaying.
I've had several normies and weebs message me (more weebs than normies), it really is easy (I am grill)

Unfortunately my standards are a tad high and desperately want a semi qt cosplay husbando so I'm still searching
Maybe someday I'll have a qt cgl husbando to cosplay with

also feels:

>friends cosplaying bigger character due to them being the same (heightwise) size
>I'm making their cosplay but really want to reccomend shapewear before I start making anything
>don't know said friend well enough to predict if she'll get mad at me for trying to help her look more like character
>reeeeally want to mention it but also dont want to offend and put them off of said character

Where's the line gulls? How can I slip it into conversation without offending them about their er...bigger size? I know they can pull character off well but they have a bit of a gut.

>> No.9488881
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>tfw long time lurker, just now able to buy and wear lolita
>Bought a basic wardrobe during the winter so I could start wearing it immediately
>All cozy winter and fall weight
>Now it's summer and I have to start over again
At least it'll be better next year, but it was so much fun to wear over the winter and it's sad to have to put them back in the back of the wardrobe

>> No.9488886

Can you phrase it like "by the way, I don't know if you're interested in shapewear too but I'd recommend it for everyone when they're cosplaying, the brand I usually wear is xyz"? Maybe not exactly that, but even if it's not true it'll probably go over better if you phrase it as something you and most people wear, not just 'bigger' people.

>> No.9488925

How do I search for cosplayers on OKC?

>> No.9488978 [DELETED] 

>Racism implies systematic oppression.
Racism is hating another or making misconception toward another solely based upon their race. People trying to redefine racism doesn't help stop racism.

>> No.9488984

>Racism implies systematic oppression.
Racism is hating another or making misconception toward another solely based upon their race. People trying to redefine racism doesn't help stop racism.

If prejudice is based upon the color of one's skin or one's ancestry, then that prejudice is racism. That shouldn't be hard to understand.

>> No.9489017

I am laughing at "coloured," I haven't seen or heard that since I was in Alabama.

>> No.9489032

At least you have a petti/shoes/bags, that sets you up for summer dress purchases.

>> No.9489114

I kind of understand doing that, I'm always unsure whether to include lolita pics on my dating profile since I don't want to freak people out by surprising them, but also posting coord photo on a dating/hookup app might reinforce people's perception that lolita is fetish clothes. Maybe if I posted a photo where I'm at some tourist attraction or with normie friends in lolita, so it came across more as "this is something I wear during the daytime" and less "this is my hot sex costume pm me"? My friends are pretty spread out across the country though, so all my photos with friends are just with one at a time and potentially look like a couple.

>> No.9489118
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>check OKC profile
>see pic related

The top one I've not even spoken to but they want to pick me up something from Whole Foods???

>> No.9489119

it's a pick up line from Aziz Ansari

>> No.9489128

at least you get messages.

>> No.9489132

Yeah but they're all dudes.

>> No.9489139
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That's the worst, anon.

>> No.9489155

>Live in Manchester
>All that terrorism shit at the Ariana gig
>Suddenly my entire friends list on facebook is concerned for me
>I'm perfectly fine, I live on the outskirts
>Feel all warm and fuzzy inside because so many people care

I've been going through a 'nobody really gives a shit, they're just using me' depressive rut and this has really lifted my spirits. I know it shouldn't since people have died, but I actually feel cared for and loved for once.

>> No.9489161

>abloobloobloo I get too much attention and none of them are good enough for me

>> No.9489178

I'm a flaming homo lady, mate.

>> No.9489184

I'm guessing you didn't make that known on your profile or you put down that you were bi/"pan". They shouldn't even be able to see your profile unless either you marked that you were down for dick, or they changed their profiles to female.

>> No.9489197

I said I was les but that I was open to just talking with people, especially if they enjoyed cosplay/nerdstuff. So far none of them have mentioned being into any of that. I thought about setting my profile to being invisible to straights but I did want to find cos buddies/fellow weebs. Sadly all I've gotten are thirsty dudes with foreign names.

>> No.9489204

I want to cosplay Star-Lord, but am bald at 23 and can't find a suitable wig in time.

>> No.9489215

>trying to make a feel post and the only response is bait and shitposting

my bf is a gamer and his friends are all programmers (and a scientest ) who don't like amusement parks or drinking

>> No.9489224

They sound like a big bundle of fun

I assume there is some upside?

>> No.9489235

Some people send a message to literally everyone. Its like the Nigerian prince e-mails. They are stupid, but send enough of them and SOMEONE will reply.

>> No.9489238

Very glad to hear you're safe, anon.

>> No.9489246

Guys on dating sites have to operate like that to have any success. Women usually have very low reply rates, so you throw out a wide net to get anything back.

>> No.9489265

the fact they know the term weeaboo means they probably are one too.
None of my non anime loving friends have even heard of that term, and I always have to explain it. "its like someone who is obsessed with anime, like their life revolves around it. they kinda want to be japanese? its an insult... uh..."

>> No.9489272

How old are you? I think this is alot better than what >>9488458 said when you are older.
I know in high school people do the whole "everyone in the friends group dates everyone else" and its all kinds of drama,
but i think after like in college dating your close friends is great. I'm happy for you, and hope you continue to be content even if the whole buzz of a new relationship wears off. I wish my SO cosplayed, desu.

>> No.9489283

wah, dont be sad. if you need someone to talk to, add me on discord Merichane #7508. I dont much about fairy kei, but I've been really interested in getting into it, because its so much more casual than lolita... or I just dont see very casual casual lolita around ever.

>> No.9489291

same feels, and same weight loss goals. I have a friend who was suppose to be my gym buddy,
but she's always making half assed excuses not to go on the day of. I'm luckily motivated enough to go by myself most of the time recently, but I can feel my motivation to go dwindling each week. I love having the extra pull of "if i dont go, i'll be disappointing this person". if you have a fitbit, we can add each other, lol. competition.

>> No.9489300

>working on first major cosplay
>everything is coming together, just not to my standards
>really don't want to keep going because I know my skill level is quite low at the moment
>still really want to cosplay this character and have fun with friends and meet people

How do I get past my ridiculously high standards and just make this thing? All of my previous cosplay plans fell apart once I'd started and convinced myself I wasn't skilled enough

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Are you me? Not bald, but I can't get my Star-Lord hairstyle on at all. I think my hair is too long.

I should just die.

>> No.9489335

you're not going to find cosplay and weeb buddies on dating platforms. i like men btw, but the same thing happened to me when i had "looking for people everywhere/looking for friends" because i thought that i might meet some cool new people. this lead to hundreds of foreigners sending random sexts. it's a dating platform so 99% of males will be gross. it's up to you if you want to deal with them just because there might be one male out of thousands that you want to be friends with. it might even lead to a guys pretending to be your friends but actually liking you, and then being buttmad when you don't like them back. i figured for myself that it's not worth it so i just set my profile back to "only people near me/not looking for friends"

>> No.9489339

I don't see how that's gross. It's a dating site. men on it are looking for dates and relationships, not friends. If you want to make friends, go on meetup.

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My hair stylist got pneumonia.

Pic unrelated.

>> No.9489368

I'm honestly getting a bit annoyed at the amount of hate Love Live dance groups and cosplayers seem to be getting these days. I understand and agree with the reasons behind the hate but it still sucks that I can't do a fun Love Live group cosplay with friends without people assuming we're trying to be the next e-famous idol cover group. I just wanna dance about like an idiot, wear cute shit and laugh with friends about a show we all enjoy.

>> No.9489372

>sending random sexts
>not gross

>> No.9489381

so far the only messages posted itt are a bunch of "hey"s that a lesbian was offended guys sent her.

>> No.9489387

Last year my husband got me my dream dress for my birthday and I love it so much but it just barely fit my tits. Now I'm pregnant and my tits have grown and I'm scared I'll never fit it again. I feel like I should have worn it more while I could.

>> No.9489412

At least you still have tits.... Mine fell off at Six Flags. One rolled under the Looney Tunes pavilion.

>> No.9489421

>get really depressed at the beginning of the school year because I transferred to a shit school
>no friends, whatever
>skin starts acting really bad, can't show shoulders which wasn't a problem because it started in November.
>spreads to neck
>stops working out out of fear that that's what was causing it
>lose will to work on anything cosplay related
>starts becoming a slug
>queue this routine until March-ish
>make a friend-thing because she was trying to get me to hook her up with someone
>super nice, still talks to me even after I was like naw man (didn't know the person well at all)
>start talking to the person I have a crush on and things are going well
>get accepted to a new school
>everything starts going great, mood improves

>realize acne is a huge side effect for anti-depressant
>passion for cosplay won't return anyways
>barely even touched the nerd shit I'm passionate about

I want my old life back, man.

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I've been cosplaying for a few years now.

I still don't know how to socialize or make meaningful connections with people.

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Sure would be nice to have a gal to do a couple cosplay with.

Sure would be nice to be head over heels for someone and have them return your feelings.

Sure would be a nice fucking feeling.

I'm not bitter.

At all.

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>I always thought it would be better to just straight up let people know I'm a weeb and still love cosplaying.
This. I put all my potentially-deal breaking hobbies up front. It's extra important for guys just because I don't want to pay for 2-3 dates and then get [autistic screeching] in my ear whenever she sees or hears about whatever ends up making it a no-go.

With any luck, it'll save you in more ways too. I had one girl eventually break up with me after 5 months once she decided I was too much of a neat freak. Turns out she was a hoarder who only showered every few days when not around me, and I was making her self-conscious. She still milked a beach vacation out of me before hand. I make a point to both explain and demonstrate my standards now. Never doing that bullshit again.

>> No.9489513

You could just not pay her share. I don't understand why guys are so willing to pay for someone else.

>> No.9489516

Trying to buy sex mostly. Very rarely they get bullied into it and feel the need to be a "real man."

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>Tfw friends I've gone to cons with are not going this year
>Tfw sis is going with a large group of friends this year
>Tfw will fly solo because I told the coworker whos gay for me to fuck off
>Tfw little to no social skills
>Tfw no cosplaying friends to teach me how to cosplay
I can't approach females nowadays without thinking I'll offend their special snowflake status and I can't imagine the odds of finding fellow bros that'll take my secret to wanting to crossplay

>> No.9489522

It's tradition for me; if it's an actual date and not just a "let's hang out" then I was taught that the guy should pay unless the girl asks to pay her own way. Luckily for me I was such a disaster with women that I was never able to even get a date until I was in my early 20s and decently employed. I'm approaching my late 20s now, and if anything I feel even more compelled to pay for the girl because half the time girls in my age range are either finishing college or just out of it and looking for a job, and I know how much that sucks financially so I cover them. I'm swear I'm not trying to buy sex like >>9489516
said; I'm just paying to play the dating game the way I was always taught to. Maybe that makes me weird, I dunno.

Honestly, even if I *didn't* pay for their share, I'd still rather not waste my time and money going out with people who are gonna hate me for being me, and I think a lot of people on both sides of the fence feel the same way.

>> No.9489524

It's more on "being a man" or at least what society considers a man, that and it just feels weird to me on hangouts/dates if I don't do that paying, I'd feel like a cheap-ass if I had the other pay their half

>> No.9489527

Turned down a bro who wanted to have a good time because of his orientation? Ohmahgah he's gaaaaay?? I'll get raped pls nooooooo. Then turns around and blames 'those women' for not talking to you. Good job being the cause of your own misery. I can only hope your suffering is long and painful

>> No.9489535

I think lolita fashion is very cute and pretty and whatnot. I'm also a poor dude who just likes looking at cute things. The thing is, this is something that I want to do a bit more than just look at. I was into photography back in the day and I want to get back into it, but that still sits at a degree of separation from the whole lolita thing. What could I do in order to do something other than just look?

>> No.9489536

>'those women'
Don't you know the proper term is feeeemales?

>Very rarely they get bullied into it and feel the need to be a "real man."

They aren't mutually exclusive either. Nor is buying things necessarily an invalid form of affection. I personally hate it, but if you mention anything around my father he'll buy it for you instantly and spends 3,000+ on his sister and her kids despite them not giving anything in return. He just likes to buy things in general though.

The reason I said sex is because no one is truly in love on the first few dates unless they're long term friends. Apart from less than four people including my dad everyone who demands they pay will always ask for something in return and get angry when they don't get it. Whether it's sex, a relationship, or just an item they want you to get them. It's especially frustrating because it's always under the guise of being "nice" and they insist it's just what should be done and they don't want anything in return. While not relevant in most cases here it's also extremely common in abusive or unfaithful relationships. Oftentimes when you see someone in denial about it the only form of affection they can defend their partner with is the money they spent on them. This works for both sexes before anyone gets triggered, especially cougars.

>> No.9489541

non lesbian anon here, the person saying it's not gross replied to my post tho and i did mention getting a lot of random sexts.

>> No.9489543

>A bro
Literally no chemistry between us, our views, likes, distastes are entirely different, he is the very opposite, I do not see what is it he likes about me

News flash, I didn't say details about him constantly in my personal space like nigga give me room to breathe, feels the need to glomp even at work attracting attention of several people which humiliates me and saves my pictures like some goddamn creep without my consent. He's lucky I gave a mere "fuck off" and not a punch in the mouth.

>> No.9489560

Become an aristo/ouji/brolita. There's basically no other way to participate.

>> No.9489595

Welp, time to bust ass trying to find stuff that I can fit.

>> No.9489599

tfw want to fuck a cosplay girl but not their type because half jap and not white

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> tfw lost weight for moitie
> bmi is 17,8
> skirt still barely zips and is uncomfortable

fuck this universe

>> No.9489611

Men are biologically hardwired and physically at an advantage to bring resources to women. This is just how it generally works.

>> No.9489614

>afraid of going to con in case i get hit by an explosion of peace
why live

>> No.9489617

Go to Japan or Poland, where the populations there don't accept said explosions of peace as 'everyday life'

>> No.9489622

but they're paying for dinner anon not fucking bringing in grain from the harvest or something

>> No.9489627

>They're providing the means for me to eat luxurious food not providing the means for me to eat food or anything
I'm not going to make any moral judgements on whether or not it's good that men always want to bring things to women, but it's just how it is. A man will work 70 hours a week to improve the life of his wife and children, and this will give him purpose. It can happen the other way around, but it doesn't too often. Men really like to give women things, be it a cool stone he thinks that she would like or the means to feed her in the evening.

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This is why robots keep coming back.

>> No.9489682

You can get custom sized stuff on taobao and Fanplusfriend, and most japanese brands aren't as small as people think.

Lurk the generals, it's really not as hard as you think.

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>tfw super stiff/painful joints
>go to doc
>blood tests
>tfw get them back rheumatoid factor and c-reactive protein are high

>tfw trying not to freak out until I get a diagnosis from the doc

/cgl/ tie in: I sew/knit/ do shit with my hands. I'm terrified of the prospect of potentially having it be too painful to enjoy those activities.

>> No.9489715

you are at least 10 times more likely to die in the car ride to the con.

>> No.9489719

Imagine there was no Islam and the likelihood was nil

>> No.9489724

i mean you'd still have a likelihood of being shot by some white guy with an ak-47 because school shooters and spree killers wouldn't stop so hey

>> No.9489725

Imagine if cons weren't so full of kids drinking way too much and doing hard drugs that they didn't need 10+ ambulances over the weekend

>> No.9489726

I forgot that Manchester was well known globally for its automatic weapon and school shooting problems

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>tfw also live in Manchester
>two of my distant best friends message me asking if I'm okay

>> No.9489741

I doubt they'd ever go for a convention.

>> No.9489746

>a cool stone he thinks she would like
Maybe this is a reference to The Pebble and the Penquin, but I think id burst into confetti if a guy I liked gave me a stone he thought I would like, that seems so much more meaningful than buying something and it's so sweet.
>or maybe I just think that because I study rocks idfk

>> No.9489893

I'm feeling this feel. 1 week postpartum, went from 89 bust, 67 waist to comically huge anime tiddies and flabby waist I don't have the nerve to measure. I didn't even gain much weight while pregnant, I'm hoping it's not loose skin. Just want to wear my dresses again

>> No.9489903

NAYRT, but no one mentioned the country of the con in question and most seagulls are American, so you can't really blame them for assuming.

>> No.9489914

What happened anon?

>> No.9489915

> start diet, eating healthier
> feel good. feel like I'm losing weight
> weigh in
> I've gained four pounds
A-at least my face is looking better

>> No.9489917

Why do people always say this? Is it to make yourselves feel better?

Islamic extremists think women should be legally forced to be covered head to toe or face severe punishment. They think promiscuity is the worst sin a woman can commit and often think it warrants death. You think an event full of thousands of scantily clad women wouldn't be a place they'd consider?

And as far as America goes, it's even more naive to think that way. Anime, vidya, and comic fandoms are filled with Elliot Roger types who turn their sexual frustration into psychotic hostility (hell, many on this very site called him a hero and let's not forget about that guy who raped that random girl in the panel room because another turned him down) and people who are just fucked up and mad at the world in general. Not to mention all the people who get a lot of shit from the community who may want revenge for their mistreatment.

It's only a matter of time before a mass attack happens at a con. People who insist otherwise are depressingly naive.

>> No.9489929

Diets are a waste of time. Make sustainable lifestyle changes instead.

>> No.9489951

>It's only a matter of time before a mass attack happens at a con. People who insist otherwise are depressingly naive.

No one is saying it is literally impossible for it to happen (an attack did happen at a furry convention), we're saying that you are literally 100+ times more likely to die driving to a convention than actually dying at a convention. Heck, I bet its even more likely to die from food poisoning from con food than to die from a terrorist attack.

You might as well worry about a meteor hitting the convention center, killing everyone.

>> No.9489956

Have you been working out? Muscle weighs more than fat, so if you've been exercising more you could look leaner but weigh more.

>> No.9489975

I think she was using the general sense of the word diet, hence eating healthier

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I'm just bitter and lonely and con season's starting back up again. I'm gonna go, but I'm always alone.

Seeing couples do couple cosplays or friends do group cosplays or just seeing co-ordinated cosplays in general makes me sad. Not because of them, the people I witness all seem to be having fun. I'm just lonely and would want someone to do that fun stuff with too.

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exactly same here

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>already 3 weeks of being poisoned by DNP
>in bed 14 hours a day to conserve energy, just barely have enough to do a bad job at work

This is hell, but it's so good having people comment on how much weight I've lost.

My 32 skinny jeans and work pants are literally drooping down my legs and I can probably lose another 4kg by con day on june.

8% bodyfat here I go.

>> No.9490080

Sorry for not cgl-related but I'm building a Magic the Gathering cube - basically a pool of cards meant to be drafted by 4-8 player to build their decks and play against each others - but I just realized I don't have enough friends who play MTG to actually use it. Would it be weird to bring it to a con and try to meet a couple of people to play with it? I'm planning for low-power cards without complex mechanics so beginners and people who never played the game can enjoy the experience.

>> No.9490082

Have fun with your skin lesions, cataracts and risk of boiling to death.

>> No.9490102


Losers who are afraid to take risks and move forward will forever remain losers.

>> No.9490116

Caught up with my best friend the other day, her and her boyfriend just got engaged and their wedding is next summer, also she's getting her BFA in photography by that time as well and wants to start getting into cosplay photography and asked if I'd do some shoots with her to build a portfolio. I'm really happy for her, she's been going through a lot since her father died and she's had to deal with that along with taking care of her mother and going to school full-time in another state so I'm really happy for all the good things coming her way!

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Wtf is this? Are you poisoning yourself?? STOP.

>> No.9490119
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>Really need some alone time with SO during con
>Friends say they are attending a panel and will out of the hotel from 5 to 9pm
>Get to room at 6
>everyone in the room
>god dammit.
>"Anon, we were tired and talked ourselves out of going. it was going to be lame anyway."
>Spend the next three hours in hotel room trying to convince them to go to the arcade because they haven't been yet.
>"Maybe later"
>9:30 one friend sees that I texted her privately asking for alone time an hour ago.
>"I'm so sorry, I need to take a nap and I'll be out of the room by 10:30
>SO and I are mad and hang out at the arcade and play rhythm games.
>11:30 she's still asleep and other friend is retiring for the day.
>Friend wakes up at 8am the next day
>She spends the last day of the convention complaining how she wasted most of her time at the con.

>> No.9490123

I'm buying too much stuff

>> No.9490136


its not really that bad.

not any worse than being anorexic and taking meth/purging.

At least in terms of fatalities.

>> No.9490137

>not just boning in a gender neutral bathroom
Your own fault, anon.

>> No.9490139

Losers too lazy to do the real work to get to their goal will forever remain losers

>> No.9490140

Someone who isn't a loser would diet and exercise to lose weight. Not literally poison themselves.

>> No.9490145

Sounds better than being fat.

>> No.9490148

Okay then by your logic why hasn't it happened yet? Why hasn't Comic-con or PAX been the center for an attack?

>> No.9490150

If you're stupid enough to let yourself get fat you deserve to suffer to get your health back.

>> No.9490151


a loser would take the slow, rewardless route of a life barely worth living while a winner would risk it all and win big, or lose big.

enjoy being part of the 99.9%

>> No.9490152

Exactly., and it's worthwhile to do so.

>> No.9490155

>it's not any worse than these other destructive, often deadly behaviors!
>earnestly trying to defend ingesting literal poison for any reason,
You need counseling.

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>room with some grills I don't actually know
>one spends 99% of the time naked, bending over with butthole on full display
>come back from con for a nap
>mfw she's getting fucked hard by two Latino

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I'm a pharmacy student, so thanks for the interesting new thing to learn about today. Also, please fucking stop doing that. You've already lost weight, no need to cook yourself alive to do so.

>> No.9490163

ana-chans pls go

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I'm disappointed that it took me up until this post to realize that you're trolling.

>> No.9490166

Slavery-chan, wtf??

>> No.9490168


I still have about 2.5 weeks of supplies, I want to stay on at least until then.

>> No.9490171

>tfw your cosplays aren't done, but you're completely out of money

I spent too much on Bruger King

>> No.9490175

It's gonna be hilarious when you run out of supplies and slowly start gaining all the weight back

>> No.9490176

Heh, still better than spending all your time locked up in your room in front of the computer with such a nice and warm weather.

>> No.9490180

Not that person, but big conventions are absolutely chock full of armed security, doubly so after the Paris Eagles of Death metal attack, because they know there's an unusually large number of people there who offer a juicy target for any would-be terrorist attacks. You stroll up to PAX or AX or whatever with an AK and start shooting random people, you'll almost certainly be taking return fire from cops in seconds and have every backup unit in a 10 mile radius converging on you shortly afterwards.

Mass shooters prefer targets that won't put up a fight, which is why they hit places where large groups of people congregate on a regular basis and the location cannot afford 24/7 security as tight as they'd have for a convention. Think places like colleges, shopping malls, etc.

On the flip side, I think stuff like the Manchester bombing will start happening more frequently. A bomb is much less conspicuous than a group of people with semi-automatic rifles, can pass through holes in lax security much easier, and has an instant casualty effect instead of potentially being thwarted at the outset by a cop or armed citizen in the right place at the right time. If there was any sort of terrorist activity I'd be worried about, that would be it. I wouldn't be surprised to see more bomb-sniffing dogs starting to pop up at cons and concerts going forward.

>> No.9490188

I would like to live more than 10 more years. And if you take care of your body, you can slow down the aging process. I would rather look old than be dead though. Life is worth living.

I also look forward to being the crazy dressed old lady one day. I'll sit in my front yard on a chair with my parasol and tell the kids to stay off my lawn. It'll be great.

>> No.9490359

As someone who works in private security, this guy is right, Police usually have a massive presence in conventions because they are considered "soft targets". and where I work at they deploy plain-shirt security in to the crowds.
As for bombs, police will have dogs trained for that going around, if they sniff something then you have 3-4 policemen going to you.

>> No.9490564

"Not to mention all the people who get a lot of shit from the community who may want revenge for their mistreatment."

This. I'm a lolita but I dont post cause I will be stepped on immediately. Im surprised more fights dont happen. You guys take some stuff too far. And the cosplayers who get mad that their patreons arent selling and maybe people sign up to ghost. I think in the future there will be more passive aggressive violence. Cause you arent allowed to fight but people can spread lies and cheat without recourse.
-be fair everyone and goodnight.

>> No.9491015

It's not slutshaming, just more of commenting on a nice change of pace. Seeing someone dressed in Lolita would definitely make my day, it's just nice to see something different and more wholesome.

>> No.9492804

We should start a discord for friendless seagulls and see if some of us live in the same state

>> No.9492814

>I made up my own definition of racism so I could exclude myself from the term

This stuff is actually starting to turn me racist, wut do?

>> No.9492817

That's pretty fucking cringy bro.

>> No.9492821
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Half the guys messaging me are over 25 jfc. Why do men think they can fuck around their whole lives and still settle down with a qt at age 30? You're not fucking attractive anymore, you're gross and old. The younger guys are appealing because they're still planning out their future while you've lived your life and failed.

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>pink is tacky
I'm sorry for your circumstances anon

>> No.9494852

>Not wanting a middle-aged bf
Wtf anon