Feels thread

[Anonymous No.9453350]

Last thread >>9446702

How are you feeling, gulls? Keep the answers cgl-related, please.

[Anonymous No.9453373]

My mom found my Attack on Tit cosplay and is freaking out because she thinks it's some kind of bondage/Hitler shit.

[Anonymous No.9453536]

My friends left for Japan yesterday morning - The 'glorious nippon buy all of the j-fash' trip that I'm missing out on/decided to bail on because my ex was cheating on me with some tweaker chick.

>He's being just as much of a disgusting, obnoxious gaijin slob as I expected.
>And he's gained like 50kg.

I don't even have a reactionpic that accurately encapsulates my satisfaction.

[Anonymous No.9453578]

>have a FTM friend
>respect him,call him by preferred pronouns
>he is pretty serious about it and doesn't look tumblr so i take him seriously
>then today
>ask me where i got my lacy ribbon thigh high
>surprised, ask why but give him link
>tells me he like to dress like a "trap" at home alone

I don't get it??? If you're a girl that wanna be a guy you shouldnt want that at all?
Same goes for another who wore a Bodyline caroussel dress or frilly pink shorts but insisted on being called "him". Fucking hell.

[Anonymous No.9453588]

>>9453578
And now he told me "i'm a shota".
God, I really wanted to like him, really did.

[Anonymous No.9453591]

>money situation looking good
>am able to afford two larger cons with new cosplays this year
>car decides to fucking die
>now have to shop for a new car so I can continue to work

I'm okay walking to my one job (it's about an hour walk through mostly a suburban neighborhood), but I work parttime as a delivery driver and those tips were going towards my cosplays. Plus, rent is due next week. I should drop some costumes but for one I'm going to be in my dream group with a lot of cosplay idols of mine and I don't wanna let them down.

[Anonymous No.9453605]

>>9453373
Kek
Just show her a character photo or something

[Anonymous No.9453650]

Haven't been taking care of myself lately and I just wear shitty boring normie clothes and my closet is full of shit that I don't feel amazing in. I wanna like, start working on having a better wardrobe and feeling good and shit, but like fuccckkk everything is so expensive. And the idea of getting rid of my normie clothes feels bad too bc like...I paid money for it? Idk it's hard for me to throw shit away
Just feel overwhelmed with wanting to get more of a cutie wardrobe but I can't have it all at once and just fuck man
Been trying to do my make up in the ams again and do my hair and shit.
My mom got me the konmari method book so hopefully I can get my apartment in order but just
fuck everything makes me tired and its frustrating

[Anonymous No.9453659]

>>9453588
>tfw had a crush on young link and non-ghost Casper since childhood
>tfw never grew out of it so it makes me a pedo shotacon

[Anonymous No.9453710]

>really into cute Jfashion but pushing 30
>get into nanchatte anyway
>get toned down stuff
>tomboy in everyday life, too embarrassed to wear wigs much less pastel skirts and ties
>get fairly sad about it, no real life friends to dress up with
>retail therapy to fill the void
>now have more clothes I can't wear and merch gathering dust
>nothing fills the void
>only go to 1-2 conventions a year
>recently saved enough money to go on dream trip solo for a week
>never traveled on a trip by myself before
>go all out in cute outfits and wigs
>get so many compliments, take a ton of selfies
>feel cuter than I've ever felt
>feel like I beat my anxiety for once
>finally filled the empty void for a little bit
>now back home, cute clothes stashed in the back of closet
>at least I have a convention coming up

I'm just glad I got to feel happy with myself and truly excited for once. Maybe next I'll save up and take the plunge to go abroad for a trip. Never been on a plane but I've done one bucket list trip, why not another?

Just hoping maybe this'll help me get over my anxieties about dressing up and standing out at home. Still, it would be nice to have a friend to dress up with but I know that's not going to happen.

[Anonymous No.9453719]

>>9453588
I'm sure there's a word for getting off on the idea of yourself as a little boy but I can't bring myself to google it.

[Anonymous No.9453720]

>>9453719
Ageplay??

[Anonymous No.9453724]

>>9453720
autopedoandrophilia

[Anonymous No.9453726]

>>9453724
Gesundheit.

[Anonymous No.9453727]

>>9453578
your friend is a fakeboi. i'm so sorry to break it to you. make sure she doesn't have access to any more yaoi.

[Anonymous No.9453730]

>>9453726
>getting off on the idea of yourself as a little boy
well it's easier to say than "getting off on the idea of yourself as a little boy"

[Anonymous No.9453733]

>Moving back home for college.
>Get excited about all the money I'll save, I can use refund check from scholarship towards cosplay and jfash.
>Realize my mom is still crazy, my brother's behavioral issues and drug use have only gotten worse.
>If I stay at home any stress relief I get from my hobbies will be ruined by my mom treating me like a child, keeping me so busy with chores I have no social life.

I'm debating just living in the dorms across town from my parents. I think they're $5,000 a year, which is cheaper than rent. I think it's worth it to not have to deal with my mom.

[Anonymous No.9453739]

My first meetup is fast approaching and I'm just so worried I'm gonna become a drama magnet.

I'm a pretty nice and pretty chill person. I'm not painfully awkward to be around. I don't talk about inappropriate stuff and I know how to behave in polite company. In my opinion I'm a pretty well dressed lolita (I rarely post to CoF but the few times I & have I've been reposted here my coords are either praised or ignored).

I just have a... really, really lulzy/special snowflake-y past that I really hope nobody ever digs for. Luckily i was never even remotely popular in my cringey days but it's still a worry in the back of my mind.

Mostly I'm just worried they're gonna find out I cam and roast me for it, I'm not ready for the drama train

[Anonymous No.9453741]

>Decide to lose weight.
>Going well, I'm down about 15 lbs so far.
>Body decides to lose all the fat on my face first.
>I now have the angular head of a model on the body of an average person.
>Debating if I still want to lose the other 15-20 lbs I need to lose to look good in jfash.

Unfortunately I think I'll have to embrace having a freakishly bony head. It works alright in normal fashion, but just looks straight up wrong paired with young and girly outfits.

[Anonymous No.9453748]

>>9453726
I laughed harder at that than I should have.

[Anonymous No.9453751]

>>9453739
I don't think many people will find out. can you otherwise delete stuff?

[Anonymous No.9453752]

>>9453739
>worried they'll find out I cam
That's your own fault. If you're the same girl who cams in lolita I hope they find out.

[Anonymous No.9453753]

>>9453733
I think the dorms would be wise. better be slightly poor than full out stressed

[Anonymous No.9453755]

>Skinnyfat cosplayer, decided to start changing eating habits in Sept
>Fast forward to now, lost 3 inches and dropped to a size 6. Now the lightest I've ever been.
>Upping my workout schedule for the summer, hitting the gym every day
>My cosplays don't fit anymore, have to keep taking them in before each con
>Normal clothes don't fit anymore either.
Discover awesome second hand store, buy a shit ton of cute label clothing in my new size for super cheap.
>Body success is making me motivated to take better care of everything else too. Keeping up with a good skincare routine and devoting more time to cosplay work.

Feels good, anons.

[Anonymous No.9453759]

>>9453752
I am the same chick, but I fibbed about having cammed in lolita. It's just something I really want to do eventually. Plus my fans are always like "you should wear one of those colorful dresses in your closet" and I've just informed them that while I'd enjoy it, the clothes aren't a sex thing and the other girls who are into the fashion are prudish and would freak out if I did it

So congrats, I've not only informed people that lolita fashion has nothing to do with sex, but that a lot of the girls who wear it are oversensitive prudes

[Anonymous No.9453761]

>>9453759
Oh look it's the tired argument that lolitas are prudes if they don't fuck in their dresses again.
>I was lying before
I'm sure. Starting to think you're just a troll, because for someone who doesn't want any drama you sure like to talk about things that stir the pot.

[Anonymous No.9453765]

>>9453761
>for someone who doesn't want any drama you sure like to talk about things that stir the pot

I honestly just wanted to see what the reaction would be if I said it already happened. It was shitty, shittier than I expected.

Also I don't think lolitas are prudes if they don't fuck in their dresses? I don't even fuck in my dresses. I think they're prudes for giving a fuck what some random camgirl does on her own time, and prudish for making a big deal out of nothing. If I don't talk about it, it shouldn't matter.

[Anonymous No.9453769]

>>9453765
What did you think the reaction was going to be? Of course it was shitty, we're sick of being associated with a fetish and equally sick of people perpetuating that idea.

[Anonymous No.9453770]

>>9453765
Don't you know that you're an ambassador for the fashion any time you wear it?

[Anonymous No.9453845]

>>9453710
I feel you, anon. Maybe start incorporating more cutesty pieces into your day to day wear? To help tide over to your next event? Don't gotta go balls to the wall, but maybe a bit more involvement will be helpful

[Anonymous No.9453848]

>>9453733
Agree with >>9453753
You should move out, it'll help your studies too

[Anonymous No.9453854]

>>9453578
Explain to your friend that a trap with no winky is just a girl.

Your friend is just being "gender fluid" or whatever the kids today are calling themselves to feel special.

[Anonymous No.9453858]

today is the day I bought my first dress
I've liked the lolita fashion ever since i was a young weeb but have been researching it properly for the past year and today i made my first purchase from lacemarket!
I'm so happy gulls

[Anonymous No.9453859]

>>9453845
I might, actually. I got some cute meme shirts like the "Who ate my bread?" one I'm going to wear with shorts and I've gotten some pastel sneakers. Small steps but between that and my hair growing out I think I'll feel a bit better soon enough. My main issue is I'm not very girly looking so what I wear completely clashes with how I look unless I've got a wig on or something. It's pretty much night and day difference.

[Anonymous No.9453875]

>>9453858
This is so pure!! I hope you love it and I hope you make lots of friends in your local comm!

[Anonymous No.9453894]

>>9453875
Thank you very much anon!

[Anonymous No.9453906]

>tfw no /cgl/ gf

[Anonymous No.9453928]

>tfw all your comm senpais disappeared in the last three years and now you have to be senpai and you don't feel ready
I've only been in the fashion four years and yet I've become one of the best dressed girls in the comm because everyone left. Feels weird and kind of uncomfortable. There's one girl left who's been around for nearly a decade but she doesn't come out much. I miss the days when other people organised meets and I could go drool over their outfits for inspo.

[Anonymous No.9453930]

>>9453770
its clothes.

[Anonymous No.9453935]

I bought a ramen-themed sweatsuit from Aliexpress to wear late-night at the con. I'm so excited.

[Anonymous No.9453944]

>>9453935
You can't just say that and not show us, anon.

[Anonymous No.9453962]

>>9453944
It hasn't arrived yet, but I got a shirt and pants.

https://www.aliexpress.com/w/wholesale-ramen.html?initiative_id=SB_20170428114903&site=glo&g=y&SearchText=ramen&CatId=100003070&isrefine=y

I was thinking of wearing a plastic bowl on my head.

[Anonymous No.9453971]

>>9453578
I imagine he's got some common sense. He dresses like a "trap" home alone because he's not about to wear his pastel pink best into town, and honestly expect people to recognize he is a "man".

I wouldn't inquire about whatever "his" fetishes are. It'll likely be pretty weird. I wouldn't be surprised if in his case... it's similar to a "sissy". Sissy's feel embarrassment wearing female clothing. He is under the mindset of a "man". Perhaps he doesn't want that at all, feels embarrassed wearing that stuff, and technically wears it for no different reason then a sissy.

[Anonymous No.9453973]

Lately I noticed a trend that I cosplay as my bf's favorite girls from anime series

[Anonymous No.9453975]

>>9453962
Do it.

[Anonymous No.9453984]

>>9453973
How do I get a gf like this?

My last girl on did one cosplay ever, and it was Bulma from Dragging Ball See. (She's Mexico and they love that series down there.)

[Anonymous No.9453987]

>>9453984
>Dragging Ball See
Thanks, phone.

[Anonymous No.9453988]

>>9453578
Oh, i have a FtM friend, who is super cringe-y into Yaoi. It's kind of funny, because i was out of contact with them for a few years, and i kind of remember them being... kind of proud of their girl assets and now they cut them off, but i dunno, maybe they were overcompensating.

But anyway, in the back of my mind, i can't help wondering if they wanted to become male because of their die hard obsession with Yaoi

[Anonymous No.9454008]

>>9453984
I'm into really kinky shit so wearing cosplays of characters that he likes is a huge turn on for me. I didn't realize that this was happening to all of my cosplays though.

I'm an Asukafag but I cosplayed as Rei for him since shes his waifu.

The things you do for love.

[Anonymous No.9454016]

>>9453859
I guess it sounds a little strange... but i think the tomboy who cutes it up once in a while is quite a nice thing. It's a little more special than someone who's cute all the time... sorry, kind of hard to put it into words properly.

[Anonymous No.9454032]

>>9454016
Aw thank you. It's just a little weird to look in the mirror and be cute from the shoulders down then look at my face and it's some bad kpop boy haircut and very little makeup.
It's like being a Home Depot flannel lesbian (I own too much flannel and boys tees) and borrowing your girlfriend's wardrobe because it's laundry day and you're out.

[Anonymous No.9454036]

>>9453755
>Skinnyfat cosplayer,
>dropped to a size 6

maybe i don't know what skinnyfat is but how can a skinnyfat person be above a size 6?

[Anonymous No.9454044]

I have this weird paranoia caused by my anxiety that makes me think everyone is watching or looking at me.

What's funny is that it goes away when I'm wearing lolita. Maybe it's because I KNOW people are probably staring at me vs just thinking they do.

[Anonymous No.9454047]

>>9453858
You gonna be cute af anon!

>>9453973
I've wanted to do this but my bf doesn't watch anime anymore and whenever I ask him if he has any favourite female characters in his games or other series he denies it and is like "you're my only favourite, anon"
bro I'm not being jealous I just wanna dress up in something you'll like
>"I like you best when you're not dressed at all anon hurhurhurhur"
for fucks sake

[Anonymous No.9454052]

Sometimes I wish that just for one day I could be pretty and cute. My face is the definition of unfortunate and no amount of make up or clothing is going to make me look decent.

It kind of keeps me away from wearing jfash.I already have an ugly manface so I feel like wearing cute clothes will just make it worse.
I'm so jealous of pretty people desu.

[Anonymous No.9454054]

>>9454044
I feel the same way anon! I think it's because you kind of take control of the situation, instead of thinking 'oh god are people looking at me' and it being out of your control, you KNOW people are looking because you look kawaii af and don't worry about that unknown factor, if that makes sense

[Anonymous No.9454056]

Planning my wedding is really depressing me because my husband and I have so few friends between us that we're actually close to. They're all on the other side of the country, too, so I never see them. I wish I had like 3 or 4 lolita friends to have as bridesmaids.

[Anonymous No.9454062]

>>9453373
>Attack on Tit
Oh, I love Keijo!!!!!!!!

[Anonymous No.9454078]

>>9454056
Just don't turn into a bridezilla.

I got scolded at my friend's wedding for wearing a white coord.

[Anonymous No.9454090]

>>9453765
It probably wouldn't matter if you didn't mention it, but you keep bringing it up.

[Anonymous No.9454103]

>>9454078
>wearing white to a wedding

You stupid?

[Anonymous No.9454105]

>>9454078
Why did you wear a white coord to your friend's wedding? That's tacky as fuck.

[Anonymous No.9454108]

>>9454078
Anon, come on, everyone knows only the bride is supposed to wear white at a wedding and wearing white is tacky. I thought this was basic wedding guest etiquette?

[Anonymous No.9454113]

>>9454078
No, you never wear white to a wedding. I think the only exception could be if the bride herself is not wearing any white.

The rule is don't wear the same color(s) as the bride.

[Anonymous No.9454121]

>>9454078
>wore a fancy white dress to a wedding
>wasn't the bride
>thinks she didn't deserve to get scolded

[Anonymous No.9454144]

>>9454036
Because that's still well within a normal BMI range if you have curves? I have a tiny waist and huge hips.

[Anonymous No.9454145]

>>9454036
Maybe anon is British? That's an US size 2.

[Anonymous No.9454147]

>>9454078
You're lucky she didn't kick your attention whoring ass out of the wedding.

[Anonymous No.9454153]

>>9454145
>>9454144
we don't know this person's bmi based off a dress size. but yeah, curves makes sense, sorry. i always thought skinnyfat was just a term to mean not toned or fit, a la pic related.

[Anonymous No.9454168]

>>9454153
I mean I could be using it incorrectly, don't get me wrong. It just seemed like the most straightforward way to describe being not chubby but also not toned or stick thin without delving into a description nobody wants to read. I was also referring to pants size - my top is four sizes smaller.

[Anonymous No.9454184]

>>9453536
Fucking good on you anon. When the time comes you can have your own amazing pilgrimage.

[Anonymous No.9454187]

I'm crushing on two Italian cosplayers. And i ain't even Italian.
What do?

[Anonymous No.9454194]

Why do you call a yourself gulls? Is it sort for seagulls?

[Anonymous No.9454196]

>>9454194
Because /cgl/ sounds like seagull, and seagulls are the worst birds, so it's self-depreciating

[Anonymous No.9454202]

>>9454187
Fantasize like the rest of us.

[Anonymous No.9454208]

>>9453759
>i-i was just pretending!

i feel bad for your potential comm desu. you say that you're socially adjusted and don't talk about inappropriate stuff, but then you pull stuff like this ~for the lulz~. you sure your special snowflake days aren't still going strong?

[Anonymous No.9454211]

>>9454078
You're lucky to escape that place without a cunt-punt.

>>9454194
cgl is pronounced "seagull."

[Anonymous No.9454212]

>>9454008
maybe some of those characters he likes because you've cosplayed them?

[Anonymous No.9454216]

>>9454047
Thank you so much!
I'm really excited about it

[Anonymous No.9454217]

>>9454196
and the most savage

[Anonymous No.9454223]

>>9454217

[Anonymous No.9454225]

>most stressful week of work ever
>friends being super bitchy
>weather making my skin freak out
>gained 2 pounds for no reason
>dream dress pops up finally
>SS misses it by 5 minutes

i completely lost my shit and bawled when they emailed me and told me they missed it. it's not even the dress that caused it, the timing was just so bad and it was the icing on my shit cake of a week. i hope things look up soon. it's hard staying positive when all of the bad things pile up all at once. sigh

[Anonymous No.9454226]

>>9454202
I already have some overly ambitious fantasies about becoming ambassador to Italy for the sole purpose of fucking one of em.

[Anonymous No.9454227]

>>9454225
sending positive vibes your way anon, better luck next time with your SS <33

[Anonymous No.9454233]

Oh god I fucked up so badly,
I've had spring finals out the ass, I've gotten overtime every day this week at work and for some reason my email for LM wasn't connected to my phone/computer anymore and I was a week late on sending a buyer an invoice
If you're reading this I am so sorry holy shit I cannot express how sorry I am

[Anonymous No.9454260]

>>9454208
I wasn't ~just pretending~, I fibbed for a specific purpose, nor was I doing it for the lulz. Did you even read what I said? You sound like a snowflake, bud. A stupid one who can't read and makes mountains out of molehills.

[Anonymous No.9454263]

>>9454260
>you sound like a snowflake, buddy!!!!
>hehehe hey guys do u think it would be a good idea to cam in lolita?? thanx!!!

[Anonymous No.9454278]

>>9454260
no wonder you're a camwhore, you're literally a fucking moron. nobody is going to feel bad that you're a dumb slut and with how much you post about your camming here i bet you're the kind of person to """"accidentally"""" mention it to people
fuck off

[Anonymous No.9454289]

>>9454263
>>9454278
not even gonna lie

It's crazy fun how easy it is to fuck with lolitas in general, why do you girls make it so easy?

[Anonymous No.9454293]

>>9454289
>i was just trollin glolololol@!!!!!!!!!
no wonder you cam, you're too fucking stupid to do anything else

[Anonymous No.9454296]

>>9454289
I'm shocked.

[Anonymous No.9454300]

>>9454293
>>9454296
Trolling /=/ fucking with but thanks for proving my point, holy shit hahaha

[Anonymous No.9454301]

>>9454300
>all according to keikaku!!!!!

it's funny when stupid whores think that they're being clever. i hope your entire comm finds your nasty secret and boots you out.

[Anonymous No.9454302]

>>9454301
>>9454300

[Anonymous No.9454303]

>>9454301
I'm shaved. I'm ready.

[Anonymous No.9454304]

>>9454301
honestly it's probably just a lonely fattychan trying to pretend she's halfway desirable enough to cam.

[Anonymous No.9454307]

>>9454303
funny and clever! upvoted!

>>9454304
more than likely, or she really is some fatty camwhore who thinks she's worth more than the dirt underneath my AP teaparties

[Anonymous No.9454310]

>>9454304
>>9454307
Let me let you guys in on what I do. Which is perform, in battle. So.

[Anonymous No.9454313]

>>9454310
what the fuck is this even supposed to mean

is all of that cum-guzzling frying your stupid whore brains?

[Anonymous No.9454315]

>>9453650
Wtf why would you just throw away things to make space? I consigned a bunch of my normie stuff to make room for lolita since the dresses take up so much more room, and I got very good payoff for it to the point where I could justify buying a bunch more lolita accessories

[Anonymous No.9454318]

>>9454313
who cares lmao, she's a vapid bitch

[Anonymous No.9454322]

[Anonymous No.9454325]

>Move back home with parents because done with school
>No job offers, just working part time at a bakery
>Friends are all gone
>Nothing to do but exercise, work on costumes, reading, and video games

I don't know what to think

[Anonymous No.9454326]

>>9454313
Keep this up and you'll be reported to the postmaster, and you know what'll happen then, right?

[Anonymous No.9454330]

>>9454318
i enjoy reminding vapid bitches just how vapid they are

>>9454326
go ahead and keep feeding me (You)s you cheap whore

[Anonymous No.9454341]

I have to be honest. I think my big brother only endorses my lolita hobby because he gets to meet mean white women, and that's his fetish.

[Anonymous No.9454343]

>>9454326
Corner office?

[Anonymous No.9454346]

>>9454343
Nope. Ass mail duty for a month.

[Anonymous No.9454350]

>>9453578
" >>tells me he like to dress like a "trap" at home alone "
I clapped. Like bruce jenner saying he had "the surgery" yet he had no down time. These are just thrill seekers. Jenner won gold medals and mountain climb. There are no other thrills than to transform.

[Anonymous No.9454356]

>>9453733
Take the dorms, and don't leave anything at home unless you don't mind it being lost, broken, burned, or repurposed into ironing board covers.

[Anonymous No.9454357]

>>9453739
How snowflakey were you? What made you give it up?

[Anonymous No.9454360]

>>9453770
But she wasn't wearing it while camming, it was in her closet?

[Anonymous No.9454362]

>>9454341
Liking the most desirable type of woman isn't really a fetish

[Anonymous No.9454367]

>>9454362
>most desirable type of woman
>not 2d

[Anonymous No.9454368]

>>9454357
Ugh, I was just kind of an over the top edgelord non-anon on various sites. Luckily I don't really have any lolita-specific cringey history.

I gave it up because I grew up and started having a more fulfilling life in general..

[Anonymous No.9454379]

>>9453765
I think it would be pretty judgemental and immature for people to hold camming against you if you don't talk about it, but doing it in lolita is completely different because it kind of perpetuates the misconception that it's a fetish thing.

[Anonymous No.9454382]

>Swear to never buy a long wig again
>after two convince myself a long wig is necessary
>move it once
>tangled
>try to detangle
>more tangled
Fuck

[Anonymous No.9454402]

>>9454153
>i always thought skinnyfat was just a term to mean not toned or fit
That's exactly what it means. Normal-ish weight but low muscle and high body fat percent. Usually pasty skin too.

[Anonymous No.9454412]

>>9454325
Time to hunt down a husband?

[Anonymous No.9454425]

>hung out with friend I haven't seen in years the other day
>catching up on everything and convention/cosplay shit we've been doing since the last time we met
>mfw
I need to start doing it more often, makes me feel fuzzy

[Anonymous No.9454471]

>neighbor's apartment broken into
>nothing stolen
>dog shit smeared all over the walls

I'm afraid I'm going to come home one day and my lolita will be covered in poo.

[Anonymous No.9454475]

>>9454471
Where the hell do you live? The ghetto?

[Anonymous No.9454498]

>>9454475
If it was the ghetto anon, wouldn't their stuff been stolen?

[Anonymous No.9454500]

>>9454498
Shit smearing seems like something a lunatic or tweaker would do, plenty of those in the ghetto.

[Anonymous No.9454517]

>>9453578
This shit is like a fuggin Shakespeare play.

[Anonymous No.9454534]

>>9454368
doesn't sound like it, whorebag

[Anonymous No.9454552]

>>9454471
thats horrifying lock your dresses up in a wardrobe or something.
or maybe the poo incident was like a revenge thing to that neighbor and it was a one time deal.

[Anonymous No.9454555]

>>9454056
I will be your Lolita bridesmaid. That is my dream, but all of my friends who are getting married have obligations to family for bridesmaids.

[Anonymous No.9454559]

>>9454471
Would you try to clean it or just throw it all out if that happened?

[Anonymous No.9454563]

>>9454052
Makeup, a nice outfit, good hair, and decent posture does wonders.

If you really feel self conscious about your face, wear a cute face mask and either nice eye makeup/falsies or tinted glasses/sunglasses.

[Anonymous No.9454571]

>>9454471
>>9454500
>>9454552
Yeah, sounds like it was probably somebody the neighbor knew.

Random intruders would steal things, not smear feces everywhere.

[Anonymous No.9454575]

>>9454571
>Smearing DNA in the house of someone you know

Nah it will be a random for sure

[Anonymous No.9454578]

>>9454575
They said it was dog shit, crazy shit smearer probably just found some random dog shit in the neighborhood and used that

[Anonymous No.9454581]

>>9454575
Anon do you really think the cops would waste their time investigating the DNA of a doody delinquent?
If it's revenge, what the hell did you neighbors do to piss off an absolute mental looney that would do that??

[Anonymous No.9454587]

> Dream dress set with tights, dress, headbow appear on ebay. Current bid $150 and BiT $200
> Win the shit out of it because no other bids
> Seller didn't want international buyers so has cancelled it on me and relisted the dress with a higher starting price after no one but myself bid on it.
> Just...why. I know what international shipping costs and I'm happy to pay it. I just want my dream dress desu.

I messaged them asking if I can provide them with a US friend's address and then my friend can ship it to me but damn that's annoying. Is international postage REALLY that big a hassle? Wouldn't it be better to have the funds in an account?

[Anonymous No.9454588]

My bae in lolita has ruined my relationship with my bf.

>join lolita ~5 year ago
>become friends with bae who is into lolita too
>be in relationship with bf ~2 years ago
>bae in a relationship with her bf ~1.5 years go
>about 6 months ago, bae starts to get involve in DDLG
>bae's feed is now 50% DDLG memes
>confront bae about it
>admits that bae has a DDLG kink
>tell bae sternly not to get it involve neither in lolita nor our friendship
>later
>bf starts asking about becoming a Daddy
>asked bf where he learned that
>tells me that my bae was talking about
>tell bf that I'm not into DDLG and it's not happening
>much later
>find out my bae has a step-daddy
>step-daddy is my bf
>dump bf
>move out of house, Admin is letting me stay at her place for about 2 months
>bae is about to receive the banhammer

[Anonymous No.9454592]

>>9454307
>camwhore who thinks she's worth more than the dirt underneath my AP teaparties
>AP teaparties

The way you say this makes it sound like you assume camwhore-chan is some raging ita who could never dream of owning brand shoes.

[Anonymous No.9454593]

>>9454587
It actually is a kind of big hassle, depending on where you live. When I lived in a small town, they asked me for SO much information. The person's full name and address of course, but also phone number, and various other "verifying" info that I didn't have.

Now that I live in a city, it's no problem at all though.

[Anonymous No.9454599]

>>9454592
probably because... she is

[Anonymous No.9454602]

>>9454588
Holy shit anon, good on you for dropping both their sorry asses! You'll find a better lolita bae someday!

[Anonymous No.9454608]

>>9453733
At most schools, summer is it's own cost over Fall/Spring, and you'll have to be taking classes to stay. Plus, if it's anything like my school's dorms, all but one will be shut down for the summer so you'll most likely have to move all your shit from one room/building to another for the summer.

Good luck! I kept trying to drag out living on campus and going to college way longer than I should have because I didn't want to be living at home (as well as not wanting to admit that it really just wasn't right for me despite doing so well in high school).

[Anonymous No.9454617]

Last month, I found panties at boyfriend's house that weren't mine. I was crying about it almost every night, until I confronted him last week and found out that he's a trap.

[Anonymous No.9454621]

>>9454617
you sure that's not him trying to cover the fact he's cheating?

[Anonymous No.9454623]

>>9454325
I'm about to fall into the same boat, but with no hobbies or activities to fill my time. I just bought the konmari book to organize all my shit I have at home.

gulls I'm so lonely

[Anonymous No.9454638]

>>9454617
Oh good, your bf is just gay.

[Anonymous No.9454650]

>>9454638
what a relief

[Anonymous No.9454655]

>group of friends are doing overwatch cosplay
>dont have a console to play the game
>still wanna join them

im already working on like 2 cosplays atm but damn

[Anonymous No.9454664]

>living in Africa
>no lolitas
>go to McDonald's one day
>see white lolita eating nuggs
>mfw

[Anonymous No.9454666]

My petticoat got demolished today, Like absolutely flat. My dad threw our water tank on it while we were packing stuff. Im upset cause I wasn't planning on buying another one

[Anonymous No.9454708]

>>9454044
>>9454054
Same here. When I'm dressed normally it's
>Why did that lady look at me like that? Why are those kids laughing? Did I do something wrong? Is there something on my face? Am I just that ugly?
But when I'm wearing lolita it's
>Yup, they're looking at my clothes

>>9454056
>iktf
My female friends from high school have abandoned me, my current friends are all dudes and the only female family member I have who's willing to wear a dress is the kind of person who always needs to be the centre of attention and would probably end up showing off her 'virgin' unshaved legs to all the guests or something along those lines. I'll pass on that.
I'm not close enough to anyone in my comm to invite them to my wedding without it being weird. Shit sucks.

[Anonymous No.9454720]

>>9454666
That sounds like a bizarre freak accident...
I don't think you should give up on your petti though - it might be salvageable. What material is it made from?

[Anonymous No.9454728]

>>9454621
Omg. No??

[Anonymous No.9454732]

>>9453741
Makeup. Contour and highlight can be used to soften your facial appearance. And a few months after you're done losing weight, you will see just a little bit of fat shift back on to your face.

[Anonymous No.9454762]

>>9454588
Why are you calling your friend "bae"? That's a term for your boo/boyfriend/girlfriend/significant other.

[Anonymous No.9454768]

There was an issue at Supanova, might as well post about

>Paid for my photo token and my 2 autograph tokens
>$120 dollars, it's fucking Misako Nozawa it's going to be well fucking worth it
>Photo went great, there's a awkward chick in a pikachu onesie 2 sizes too big net to MISAKO NOZAWA
>Got my photo, wait 2 hours for the signing
>Got my photo and my Gegege no Kitaro book, fuck yeah
>Wait over an hour, come up in line
>Hand the lady my tickets
>"Oh sorry, these are the wrong colour tickets."
>Wot
>"B-but that's what I was given..."
>Lady calls a guy over, Misako is sitting there not even a meter away god damn
>They chat a bit, she mentions that this is the second time, the other time was a green ticket
>She asks me if I have my receipt still
>Yep
>She tells me to go to the SupaStore and ask for a change, when I get back I'll be moved right to the front
>"o-ok"
>Leave in near tears holy fuck that was embarrassing
>Get in line at the supastore, a dad and his daughter line up as well
>They want a refund because while they got the photo of the daughter and Nolan North, they waited 3 hours in a line that hasn't moved so they're pissed
>$40 dollars well spent
>Got my tickets changed, got back in line and was moved up front

There was a nice happy ending, she got confused and amazed when she saw the my name had a double e in it, she had it confirmed like 3 times lol

Also her eyes lit up a bit and she got super excited for Gegege no Kitaro, she even wrote "Gegege no Kitaro" which made me super happy lol

Either way, good feels

[Anonymous No.9454770]

>>9454762
"bae" = before anyone else
Yeah it's usually used for S/O's but it's also used in the case of a super close friend.

[Anonymous No.9454779]

>>9453739
This was me. If anyone brings up my past, I laugh it off with a 'a Yeah, I was obnoxious in my early twenties'. That usually quells people because who doesn't have at least a few cringey things in their past that they'd prefer to forget?

[Anonymous No.9454791]

Sometimes I think about vanishing without a trace.

But then I realize, how would they even run the tea parties without me?

[Anonymous No.9454792]

>>9454196
Geese are the worst birds.

[Anonymous No.9454795]

>Get cool skit idea
>Needs at least 3 people
>Then remember you have no cosplay friends
>Feels bad man

[Anonymous No.9454799]

>>9454044
>>9454708
Same here too. When I'm wearing normie clothes, I feel like I'm being stared because I'm so ugly, awkward and weird. When I'm wearing lolita I'm feeling more comfortable because I know I'm being stared but people are probably just judging my sense of style instead of my face.

[Anonymous No.9454899]

>>9454720
Its organza, so ive been hanging it upside down for now. I think tank was the wrong word, more like a water cooler

[Anonymous No.9454954]

>>9454664
That's pretty fetch anon

[Anonymous No.9454960]

>be shutin lonelita with online lolita acquaintances
>only get to chat with them periodically because they're usually offline or busy
>our only connection is clothing and that's basically all we talk about
>SO is long distance and at work for 10+ hours
>alone all day most days
>try to reach out to people in the friend finder threads
>always ignored or ghosted
>try to make friends with other people online
>they either stop responding because they realize they won't get my nudes or because we share no interests
>spend my freetime crying and window shopping

sometimes i think i want to die but then i wouldn't be able to wear all the things i want to wear

[Anonymous No.9454964]

>>9454960
do you have any work or school? or pick up some crafting, then you have at lest something to do. you could also do some volunteer work, to get out there.

[Anonymous No.9454972]

>>9454964
i take classes online and i have a lot of hobbies, but i still miss that companionship that i see a lot of other people sharing. volunteering might be a good idea though!

i'm forcing myself to take IRL classes next semester so that i can be among humankind again, but the next few months are looking pretty bleak. there's only myself to blame really.

[Anonymous No.9454990]

>>9454954
Stop trying to make fetch happen. It's not going to happen.

[Anonymous No.9455004]

>>9454960
Bitch where you at I'm lonely too and we can be friends

[Anonymous No.9455015]

>ordered some stuff from Japan on ebay
>apparently miss the delivery person for signature confirmation even though I never heard a knock
>no "Missed Delivery" slip
>head to post office first thing next day just to try
>line seems long but moves fairly quick
>two possible staff members to interact with
>one grouchy older man and a sweet woman
>luckily I get the woman
>explain to her that tracking said the package was atrempted to be delivered but I didn't get a slip
>she seems genuinely concerned and just asks for my address and license
>retrieves the package for me within seconds
>I sign all the verification stuff
>she pauses and says my hair is to die for
>I legit barely brushed it but enthusiastically thank her anyway
>go to car and open package
>everything's wrapped carefully and exactly how I expected
>everything turned out better than expected

I thought about calling the post office and leaving a nice review about the woman but it's been a few days now and I didn't catch her name. At least I know there's one polite person there.

[Anonymous No.9455019]

>tfw no gf

[Anonymous No.9455026]

>>9453578
>trap with no dick

How do I acquire this kind of gf?

[[e-mail] No.9455044]

>>9455004
nice! my throwaway is in the name field, let's be lonely together

[Anonymous No.9455050]

>14 y/o little sister is visiting after long time
>She's a bit tomboy, never wears skirts
>Likes to wear too big mens collar shirts
>Remember I might have some shirts for her I haven't used in ages
>We go to my wardrobe
>I find the shirts and she likes them
>Open my lolita wardrobe
>Show some blouses to her with no intention to give them to her
>Blouses are really toned down ones with minimal ruffles and lace
>"Anon, these look really good, where did you get these?"

Did... Did I just create a soon-to-be Ouji?

[Anonymous No.9455060]

does anybody ITT want to date me?

[Anonymous No.9455062]

>>9455060
Maybe, tell us about yourself, anon.

[Anonymous No.9455063]

>>9455062
I spend the majority of my time in my room (I still live with my mom) reading and playing video games. I am a contractor and run my own business but I don't make much money. Also I am fairly fit and also handsome and probably autistic.

I haven't had any form of a relationship (even a friendship) with a female in over 10 years (I'm 26 years old).

[Anonymous No.9455072]

>>9455063
I'm sure someone would date you, sounds like you're pretty normal, if not just awkward, and just getting started. Good luck, anon ob

[Anonymous No.9455074]

>>9455072
thanks~

[Anonymous No.9455097]

>>9454078
please be bait, I dont want to believe that people are this retarded

[Anonymous No.9455101]

>>9455063
Are you Canadian? I could never date a Canadian, absolute untermensches.

[Anonymous No.9455102]

>>9455101
No of course not

[Anonymous No.9455104]

>>9455101
t. got pump and dumped by a canadian chad

i know being a canadian cock concubine isnt easy, but try to cope dear seagull

[Anonymous No.9455105]

>>9455101
Go back to your containment board.

[Anonymous No.9455139]

>>9455044
I-i... also would like friends.

[Anonymous No.9455151]

>>9454078

lol you're some friend. This happened at my bff's wedding. An acquaintance of ours brought his bitchy summerfuntimefling of a gf who showed up wearing a white dress. Obvs they broke up within a few months. Ugh people don't have any manners.

[Anonymous No.9455152]

>>9454056

Do a small wedding ceremony. Fuck the fancy big ones. I mean the whole point is about you and your boo. Not anyone else.

[Anonymous No.9455154]

>>9454960

Hey, are you me?

>>9455139
Let's be friends

[[e-mail] No.9455166]

>>9455154
people who want to be friends are welcome to email me!

[Anonymous No.9455169]

>tfw lonelita
>tfw want to make friends
>tfw too scared to reach out

Maybe someday.

[Anonymous No.9455199]

>Been feeling empty inside, aimless & depressed
>Working shitty retail job I don't care about
>Know I should be looking into going to college but too apathetic to start
>Start planning various online hauls to fill the void inside
>Spending all my money buying a bunch of fandom shit and clothes I'll probably hardly wear

At least having stuff coming in the mail gives me something to look forward to. I feel like going to therapy might be a good idea, but I don't know what someone could tell me to make me feel like life is worth living again.

[Anonymous No.9455230]

>>9453988
This happens a lot, but I imagine you're confusing correlation and causation. It's more likely that people who were trans and already idealised being a guy would gravitate towards yaoi than that yaoi turns straight girls trans.

[Anonymous No.9455240]

>>9455199
I've been there before anon and you should really get therapy, you need something to fall back on if fandom shit and clothes stops filling the void.

[Anonymous No.9455242]

>>9455015
If you know the date and time they can figure out who it is from that.

[Anonymous No.9455243]

>>9454972
Speaking from experience, volunteering is great - you're probably not going to make friends there but you'll meet people who are even more ill-suited to living in modern society than you and it'll make you feel better about your own maladapted social skills. Try a few different places as well, because everywhere's going to have different people and you might get on with the manager better in one place than another.

[Anonymous No.9455260]

>become really close to new roomie
>been quite lonely for a while, only had 2 close friends and one lived hundreds of miles away and has been getting more and more distant since I went to university
>realise that I've become much happier since meeting her, especially since she's a girl and my other non-lolita friends are all guys
>suddenly remember her visa expires in January and I'm probably never going to see her IRL again after that
>almost wish I'd never met her because going back to my old life seems that much more unbearable now
>back to only socialising IRL with the local comm I guess

They meet less than once a month and I can't make most meets because of work, but since it's my only social outlet not making meets is really isolating. I'm kind of friendly with some of the girls there but we're never going to become close friends because they're all either in their late 20s and have known each other years, or itas who don't stay long.

[Anonymous No.9455264]

>>9454960
>>try to reach out to people in the friend finder threads
which is your ff thread post?

[Anonymous No.9455273]

I need to figure out having a life, after hating myself and being a NEET for far too long i'm finally getting things back on track... but all my old friends drifted away, mostly my fault because i felt so ashamed of being a NEET i stopped talking to them. The friends i do still have are internet losers who are persistently evasive about meet ups.

I could like to go to cons more, but it blows going alone, and i think i need to find my feet again before i try something adventurous as cosplay. I guess i have to much anxiety about doing anything alone and being part of a group provides that social crutch.

Ahh.. sorry, its just really frustrating, like that one last piece you can't find.

[Anonymous No.9455298]

>finally after all these years of me being to slow for the releases Misty Sky is within reach thanks to the MTO
>all my yes
>mfw it's without the second JSK cut I love
>can't stand the other cuts but look at this nice sailor sack dress
>mfw it's tokyo exklusive and only comes in grey

Why do you hate me so much AP? I'm so fucking close yet so fucking far. I really don't feel any of the other cuts but I love that print so much. What do?

[Anonymous No.9455303]

>>9454078
All you folks are scolding her for doing this, maybe she just didn't know that you don't wear white to a wedding?

[Anonymous No.9455312]

>>9455303
I've known not to since I was 11, there is really no excuse. It's putting 2 and 2 together.

[Anonymous No.9455313]

>>9454587
It's less that the shipping itself is a hassle (mind you, I'm in the US and can only speak to my own experience) and more that international shipping can come with a lot more headache if you run into a difficult buyer, and there's more likelihood for complications like lost packages. I don't exclude international buyers since it would greatly affect my sales if I did, but I always list a strict ToS to minimize the chance of dealing with bullshit (most importantly that the second the package leaves my hands and I give you the tracking, it's not my responsibility if it gets lost and you didn't get insurance).

That's serious bullshit that the seller didn't specify in the sale that they only ship domestic. I'd leave negative feedback over that if it's an option.

[Anonymous No.9455316]

I almost took 700 mg of trazodone yesterday but I spit the majority of them out. The only thing I can do right now is take one day at a time.

[Anonymous No.9455319]

>>9455298
just buy one and swap it later for one of the older ones in the cut you like. misty sky will always be in demand even with the re-release.

[Anonymous No.9455322]

>>9455303
Not one of the anons scolding her, but for me it's less about her doing it and more about the fact she criticized the bride for saying something about it and called her a bridezilla, when this is wedding attire etiquette 101. Also, seconding the anon who said it's not hard to put 2 and 2 together. It's common sense that you're not supposed to outshine the bride and it doesn't get much more agregous than a white lolita coordinate.

[Anonymous No.9455327]

>>9455316
Please go to the ER anon, it's very common for people to do that when they try to OD and they think they're fine, only to find out they really fucked themselves up.

[Anonymous No.9455328]

>>9455316
i'm glad you're still alive anon

[Anonymous No.9455331]

>>9455303
If you're an adult woman being invited to a wedding there's no way you wouldn't know you're not supposed to wear white to a wedding, it's common sense and very general knowledge. Wearing white is bad enough, but wearing a white coord says to me that she was trying to draw attention to herself, which you don't do at your FRIEND'S wedding. OP is either stupid as hell or a bitch.

[Anonymous No.9455338]

>>9454770
not the anon that commented before but LOL wtf really?? All this time I thought it was just a silly way of saying "babe"

[Anonymous No.9455342]

>>9455152
We considered that route and totally would, but unfortunately the venue we're having it at has a guest minimum. The venue is my favorite place in the world since childhood and the most important part of it all for me by a lot, even including the dress (besides obviously the getting married part).

[Anonymous No.9455345]

>>9455273
You sound like me but im 32. I just enrolled in cosmetology school. I need to get into the swing of life. But while im gearing up most of my old high school friends have been in multiple stressful long term relationships, kids dont care for them, and they have fake friends. So im late but on time.

[Anonymous No.9455347]

>>9455331
First I've heard of this.

[Anonymous No.9455352]

>>9455327
Oh it's ok Anon!! I didn't take more than 200 mg, which my doc said I could do up to. But I did pretty much black out, bf had to carry me to bed. Im seeing my doc on Monday. Ty for caring.

>>9455328
Ty, I posted it her bc other than my boyfriend no one else knows

[Anonymous No.9455358]

>>9455331
Sometimes I think wearing lolita to a wedding is also pretty attention whorey.

[Anonymous No.9455360]

The waiting for mail and loneliness is all things I have delt with. It didnt get better for me until I had control in my life. If you dont have a boyfriend dont worry about one and focus on you. Just write a list and knock it out. Once you do that then you can receive people.

[[e-mail] No.9455371]

>>9455243
all good advice, thank you anon! i'm looking at opportunities in my area and there's a few that are interesting.

>>9455154
>Hey, are you me?
i would hope you're doing better than me, i wouldn't wish these feelings on any gull. good luck!

>>9455139
have you emailed me already? it's hard to tell who's who over anon, but if you haven't then you're welcome to!

>>9455264
maybe i'm being paranoid but my ff post is very clearly me and i don't want anyone i already know to know the extent of how pathetically lonely i am

[Anonymous No.9455374]

>>9455358
Agreed.

[Anonymous No.9455379]

>planner to lose 15 pounds over 3 months
>Take months 2 of fentermine (I lost 11 pounds the first month)
>Stay at 165 lbs for three weeks despite diet and exercise
>Wrist and right arm get severe overuse inflammation for past two weeks so I can't work out my upper body
>Finals are next two weeks

My legs do look slimmer and I do feel like I'm losing body fat percentage, but staying stuck at the same weight is pretty discouraging.

[Anonymous No.9455384]

>>9455379
Don't worry anon, everyone has a plateau at some point. When you get back into it don't overwork yourself so much, it's better to take things a little easier than to risk injury. And I know how you feel with finals, my workout routine has been tossed out the window as of late lol
You'll reach your goal anon!!

[Anonymous No.9455387]

>>9455384
Thank you anon.

[Anonymous No.9455391]

>tfw you've made all these resin pieces and can't turn any of them into wearable jewelry because the findings haven't arrived yet

[Anonymous No.9455395]

>another girl wants to sit on my shoulders for a pic
>let her
>mfw I let her down and my neck is SOAKED

[Anonymous No.9455411]

>>9454078
One time my friend let her kid wear a white dress to a wedding and the bride cried. Especially because the invites said "No kids."

[Anonymous No.9455413]

>>9455411
That is so awful... your friend is kind of dumb lmao

[Anonymous No.9455422]

>>9455411
The bride sounds pretty ridiculous, but why would you be that asshole to bring a kid to a wedding when the invite said no kids? That's a douchey thing to do.

[Anonymous No.9455425]

>>9455422
It's called mommyjacking. "Oh, you're having a wedding and don't want kids invited? Well my precious little Suzy is so well behaved she's practically an adult and she wants to be a bride so I got her a white dress to wear! Proud mommy day!!"

[Anonymous No.9455428]

>>9455425
Candace is a cunt, holy shit. I can't fucking stand 'mommies' like that jesus.

[Anonymous No.9455434]

>>9455428
http://www.stfuparentsblog.com/tagged/MommyJacking

Enjoy the rage my friend.

[Anonymous No.9455437]

>>9453739
I was there for last thread when the whole thing blew up about you camming, and I can't fucking believe how people are reacting to it. If you're a camgirl, who gives a shit? If you do it in lolita, I honestly couldn't give less of a shit. I'm being more honest with you right now than I have been to anyone, even on cgl. Because I think most other people don't truly give a shit either, and it makes me sad to see you fret so much about wanting to do something you like because all these catty girls are looking for things to be mad about and conform to having the same opinions as what they think everyone else has. These people have jobs that pay their bills, that's a big deal. Family members or friends or spouses they care about, that's a big deal. What's not a big deal is if someone who has the same expensive hobby as them across the world is a camgirl or not.

Keep doing what you like, I'm serious. Nobody is gonna dig for anything unless you tattle on yourself, or make a bad name for yourself. People online will bitch but not really care. Welcome to the fashion, anon.

[Anonymous No.9455447]

>>9455425
What the fuck why is Candace so extra

[Anonymous No.9455469]

>>9455434
>that condescending use of :)

Anon you owe me some blood pressure medication.

[Anonymous No.9455470]

>>9455437
>not sure if serious or just encouraging her for the drama that'll ensue when she gets caught

In all seriousness, I wouldn't care if I found out a girl in my comm was camming. I would be really pissed off if she cammed in lolita because I deal with enough creepy normies who think it's a fetish costume already, but if she did normal camming on the side and I ended up finding out through online drama and not because she brought it up at every meet, I wouldn't treat her any differently.

[Anonymous No.9455478]

>>9455316
You even failed in killing yourself.

How could you possibly do anything else correctly? Youve chosen life and but your first step was one of insecurity and failure.

[Anonymous No.9455483]

>>9455469
It just makes me suddenly glad that all my friends are single female spinsters.

[Anonymous No.9455491]

>>9455425
Children are a mistake. Why the fuck would anyone think of having one.

[Anonymous No.9455496]

Huh. I haven't checked out my lolita Facebook groups in a while. Maybe I sh--

>"Everyloli, I'd like you to meet POOPY, my genderfluid cat!"

Fuck this.

[Anonymous No.9455499]

>>9455478

[Anonymous No.9455505]

>>9455491
Why are lolis so anti-children?

[Anonymous No.9455506]

>>9455505
Because they're usually depicted as mentally mature with the mindset of an adult but in the young physical form of a child

[Anonymous No.9455511]

>>9455371

I'm scared to reach out lul but I've saved your email for when I get my shit together to talk to someone.

[Anonymous No.9455534]

>>9455511
sure anon! it's never too late, so take your time and hit me up whenever.

[Anonymous No.9455553]

>>9455505
Because barely anyone in our generation can afford to take care of ourselves, much less children.

[Anonymous No.9455560]

>>9455478
Person you responded to, come on now. I've been on 4chan for too long to fall to that bait lol.

[Anonymous No.9455562]

>mom "I never thought you'd be 26 and still dressing like a little girl."
>me "I never thought you'd be such an alcoholic."

She cried. I felt terrible, gulls.

[Anonymous No.9455563]

>>9455562
look if she talked shit but cant handle the reaction then that's on her.

[Anonymous No.9455566]

>>9455562
Fucking Christ anon you have no chill lmfao holy shit what was mean as hell
But seriously if your mom is an alcoholic I hope she gets the help she needs.

[Anonymous No.9455567]

>>9455562
She was being nasty for sure, but that is a pretty low blow. Did you end up talking to her about it? Even though it was said out of a defensiveness it could be a really good conversation starting-point.

[Anonymous No.9455576]

>>9455567
I'm still in my room... I felt bad about it before it was even fully out of my mouth.

[Anonymous No.9455578]

>>9455576
Yeah you should probably go apologize, that was pretty brutal to say.. you two probably need to have a long talk anyways

[Anonymous No.9455583]

>>9455338
Me too. Dang.

[Anonymous No.9455595]

I'm supposed to give birth to my first ever kid in July and it's a girl and me and my husband already have a name picked out but we're stuck on how to spell the middle name. We want it to be "May" but there are tons of different ways to spell it. The spelling that everyone seems to like the most is "Mei" since my husband's family is part Chinese. I really like that spelling too. I'm just scared with Overwatch being so popular that everyone is going to think we spelled it that way because we're giant weebs who like Overwatch. I'm the only one who even plays Overwatch and I don't even really like Mei. Should we just say fuck it and spell it that way or choose a different spelling? Is that spelling cringey? The kid will only be a fourth Chinese

[Anonymous No.9455601]

>>9455595
I think it's fine anon, Overwatch is niche enough that people who you don't know probably won't realise and if people you do know ask you can just explain.

[Anonymous No.9455606]

>>9455595
Mei is an incredibly common spelling, and even if it were from Overwatch, it's not like it's flakey enough that she'll grow up and be made fun of for it.

[Anonymous No.9455619]

>>9455595
You didn't name your kid after a pony so you're fine.

[Anonymous No.9455630]

>>9455578
She's always criticizing me for having "immature" hobbies which maybe I do, but it's none of her business. And I'm sick to death of finding her passed out drunk on the floor every night.

[Anonymous No.9455680]

>>9455595
I really doubt that growing up, people will associate it with Overwatch since it'll phase out in a few years. Mei is really pretty and it's just the middle name anyway, she can choose whether she wants to use it when she gets older.

[Anonymous No.9455690]

>>9455630
I get your frustration, but if it's that bad why not move out?

[Anonymous No.9455697]

>>9453739
There are girls who cam in our comm and no one cares. The real cringe is you thinking people are actually going to be that obsessed with you that they would actually care at all about what you do.

[Anonymous No.9455698]

>tfw I'm fat enough for my big brother to wear my panties
>and he does

[Anonymous No.9455703]

I want a gf

[Anonymous No.9455718]

>>9455703
go outside

[Anonymous No.9455720]

>>9455718
i dont want that

[Anonymous No.9455728]

>>9455698
Is he a tarp?

[Anonymous No.9455729]

>>9455720
then you wont find gf

[Anonymous No.9455732]

>>9455729
what if i dont want an outside gf but an inside gf?

[Anonymous No.9455735]

>>9455698
Gross. And knowing your average seagull, those panties are probably skidmarked to hell.

[Anonymous No.9455745]

>>9455732
what if she doesnt want an inside bf but an outside bf?
>inb4 attack helicopter

[Anonymous No.9455747]

>>9455703
are you rich?

[Anonymous No.9455750]

>tfw no /cgl/ gf

[Anonymous No.9455753]

>>9455750
i don't understand why so many dudes want a /cgl/ gf when a lot of us bitch and cost money to maintain

[Anonymous No.9455754]

>>9455379
>focusing this much on weight

Measure your waist/thighs/arms. Sometimes you're putting on a little bit of muscle so your overall weight doesn't change but you're still slowly turning into a sexy beast.

[Anonymous No.9455755]

>tfw no /cgl/ gf

[Anonymous No.9455758]

>>9455753
will you be my /cgl/ gf?

[Anonymous No.9455759]

>>9455758
only if you have money and don't expect anything out of me besides occasional attention and watered down compliments

[Anonymous No.9455762]

>>9455759
i don't have much money to give but i have lots of love and compassion to give. but when i finish my degree i will buy you all the brand you want

[Anonymous No.9455763]

>>9455753
Seriously, you dudes should use the energy and money on hookers instead.

[Anonymous No.9455770]

>>9455745
I don't think that I want a gf that wants a outside bf because I am not an outside bf

>>9455747
no

[Anonymous No.9455771]

I love lolita but I'm 100% sure its creating a spending problem for me. My wardrobe has expanded in such a short period of time and I haven't worn much of what I have but I can't shake the feeling that I'm some how missing out or falling behind if I can't buy. At the same time I'm tired of each CC bill being a nail biter to see if I budgeted just right to compensate for my overzealous spending.

[Anonymous No.9455772]

>>9455753
I want a girl that I can lay in bed with on a lazy sunday afternoon and rub my beard on and cuddle her and listen to her talk about unimportant things to relax

(also I heard they smell nice)

[Anonymous No.9455777]

>>9455772
yes this.

to have a /cgl/ gf is to have a wonderful lady in your life whom you have shared interests with and can just enjoy each other's company. cuddling is great too

[Anonymous No.9455778]

>>9455772
yes this.

to have a /cgl/ gf is to have a wonderful lady in your life whom you have shared interests with and can just enjoy each other's company. cuddling is great too

[Anonymous No.9455781]

>>9455778
>wonderful lady
So what would you do if a gull wanted to be your gf? Communicating over 4chan you have no idea what she looks like and no idea where she lives, more than likely she's hundreds of miles away. Not to mention there aren't a lot of straight gulls around here

[Anonymous No.9455782]

>>9455781
I would ship her to my house and let her live in my apartment that I share with my mom

[Anonymous No.9455785]

>>9455781
i can meet a gull who lives in my city. i love cosplay, but still one of the main reasons i go to cons is to potentially meet a /cgl/ gf. i always try, and usually succeed, in making costumes that WOW everyone. i hope one day a gull will be wowed enough to want to be my gf. it doesnt matter to me if she is a cosplayer or lolita

[Anonymous No.9455791]

>>9455785
Instead of just wowing them with your costumes like a peacock why not trying talking to them?

[Anonymous No.9455792]

>>9455791
well, i am not very good at talking to ladies. or people in general. also i have a high voice, so many ladies immediately think i am gay (not that there's anything wrong with that). if i can wow her with my costume, maybe she can look past the aforementioned aspects of me

[Anonymous No.9455793]

I thought cons would be a great way to make friends, but they're full of fake bitches.

[Anonymous No.9455794]

>tfw no cutie /g/ bf to tell you about all the cool things that make him happy and to learn about the crazy tech he loves

[Anonymous No.9455795]

>>9453350
I clicked this thread by mistake and got sad that I'm a disgusting pale ginger who will never look pretty and men will never look at me and want to fuck me like a lolita girl. I wanna be in a hentai doujin i real life but I wanna be the little gir.

[Anonymous No.9455797]

>>9455792
Having a higher voice and being a little awkward aren't things that should stop people from talking to you, I bet you get nervous and dart off before people can really start talking with you. Have more confidence in yourself, if you have cool cosplays (bonus points if you make them yourself) you already have a huge common ground with people, including ladies. Unwind a bit, and there are some cool little articles online for small talk triggers the keep the convo going if you start to stammer.

[Anonymous No.9455799]

>>9455797
thank you. i will try to better myself

[Anonymous No.9455800]

>>9455799
Best of luck, anon!!

[Anonymous No.9455802]

>mfw lolitas shit talk each other's bodies

[Anonymous No.9455822]

>>9455763
>what is love?

[Anonymous No.9455824]

>>9455822
BABY DONT HURT ME
DONT HURT ME
NO MORE

[Anonymous No.9455839]

>>9455781
>more than likely she's hundreds of miles away
more than likely "she's" not a she either

[Anonymous No.9455841]

>>9455735
>lolitas don't wipe their asses after a poo
Where does this stereotype come from?

[Anonymous No.9455851]

My dad is worried because cosplay is such a "female" hobby, he's worried my being there is like a gay thing.

>>9455841
All the fart and shart stories in these threads probably.

[Anonymous No.9455869]

>>9455690
I'm too broke. The guy I've been trying to find a place with is too stingy to shell out for anything decent.

[Anonymous No.9455895]

>>9455841
Pretty sure there's a well known story about a petticoat with shit stains? I really don't remember much other than that though, and I don't recall if it was something someone had purchased or just a story in a comm.

[Anonymous No.9455910]

>>9455895
Come to think of it, going to the toilet in a lolita outfit looks like it probably would be complicated.

[Anonymous No.9455921]

>>9455910
It's really not unless you're retarded. If your petti is too big to grab and hold together in front of you then you take it off and hang it up on the hook with you purse. It's not rocket science, it's pissing and shitting with - gasp - the added challenge of bulky clothing. Going to the bathroom in overalls is more complicated than going to the bathroom in lolita. Sorry for the dumb rant.

[Anonymous No.9455941]

>>9455910
Most of my lolita friends just wear diapers so they don't have to deal with it. I haven't been game enough to try it myself yet.

[Anonymous No.9455944]

>>9455941
I just wear a catheter and collect my pee in a baggy under my petti, it's the most kawaii way to go

[Anonymous No.9455950]

>>9455944
Isn't that a bit cumbersome in addition to your colostomy bag?

[Anonymous No.9456057]

>>9455950
>>9455944
>>9455941
/cgl/ - colostomy & gothic lolita

[Anonymous No.9456059]

>>9456057
Don't forget Diaper Kei

[Anonymous No.9456096]

Anyone here with experience regarding psychologists? How do you choose a proper one?
I finally admitted to myself that i need help.

[Anonymous No.9456097]

>>9455562
remembering the time I got so angry at my father that I told him he should go die in his own smoke after he yelled at me that I dared to open the window. Given his smoking habits always caused problems for everyone and he wouldn't change a thing. He would get angry at any of us for every tiny bit. Sad part that he literally smoked himself to death cause he wouldn't listen a few years later.
You know what anon, it might be harsh and selfish what you said but she is a grown up woman. Yes, she obviously has a problem maybe she starts thinking now. Try talking to her, if she is willing to seek help that's great. If not don't let her bad habits ruin your life. It's bitter being that harsh and cold to your own mom but if she don't want help there is only that much you can do about it. You a not resposnsible for her ruing her life, you can only offer help.

[Anonymous No.9456103]

I'm so sick of being in a wheelchair.

It's been 3 years since the accident and I still feel so un-kawaii.

[Anonymous No.9456126]

>>9456103
You can be kawaii as fuck in wheels.

[Anonymous No.9456128]

i want every girl itt to be my gf

[Anonymous No.9456132]

>>9456103
I especially want you to be my gf so I can remind you of how kawaii you are every day

[Anonymous No.9456133]

>>9456126
I wonder if putting lace around the inner wheel bit and accessorising the spokes would work.

[Anonymous No.9456136]

>>9456103
Sorry about the wheels. It must be hard. But it doesn't make you any less kawaii.

[Anonymous No.9456150]

>>9455505
Women with higher education are less likely to pop one out anon, you polacks need to find dumb normie bitches.

Lolitas also tend to be attractive in addition to being educated so they might have had sex before too. We are smart mouth whores, which you definitely don't want, so look elsewhere, quit spamming our board.

[Anonymous No.9456162]

>>9456150
>not hating children makes you pol now

[Anonymous No.9456163]

>>9456150

>Lolitas also tend to be attractive in addition to being educated

[Anonymous No.9456166]

>>9456150
I don't know, a lot of lolitas seem to be in a situation where they can barely function within their hobby, let alone in a relationship. Some probably want kids eventually when they can afford it.

Childfree cunts are the worst though.

[Anonymous No.9456174]

>>9456166
Ill take a childfree cunt over a mommy any day, especially a momlita holy shit. They're the absolute fucking worst.

[Anonymous No.9456179]

>>9456096
Try psychology today, they have lists of therapists in your area! When you click on someone's profile, it shows their area of focus.

Also, you may not find the right therapist on the first try, but don't give up!

[Anonymous No.9456180]

Lost my entire main con group, when you date someone that's better friends with everyone it all just turned to shit. They were also my main group of friends so I have to rebuild everything again and I'm just not sure if I can.

[Anonymous No.9456183]

>>9455505
This is probably mindless bait but on the low chance you actually care for a response, speaking for myself the very thought of being pregnant is repulsive, I feel physically sick and violated just thinking of it.

If that wasn't already an issue, children are incredibly expensive and take at least 18 years to develop into a being that can properly converse and interact with you, and in doing so act out and will very likely resent and/or hate you when they are at the right age. Better to have a pet, they're way lower maintenance.

[Anonymous No.9456190]

Since this thread has already gone to shit

I'm starting to loathe BL. I don't dislike people for enjoying it but I've come across so many shitty fujos who go into a blind rage when someone doesn't agree with them or dare to pair their favorite with someone else. It's always so generic too, and in recent years it feels like everyone is trying to pretend they're just being ~progressive~ because admitting you like seeing guys fuck isn't good enough.

I didn't think something so silly could be ruined by other people but here we are.

[Anonymous No.9456195]

>>9456183
They're expensive and I don't know about you other gulls but with the job market you have a serious advantage over people with kids because you can move for a better paying position without worrying about fucking up your family. Having a family immediately roots you for the next 20 years, and that's only if you have one. They're way too expensive as well, and as the mother you're the one who is close to incapacitated for the last two months, you have to give birth, and you're the one expected to sacrifice your career for the first 5 years to become a full time mother. No fucking thanks, I like making money and having a life. I'll get a dog if I feel like i need to take care of something.

[Anonymous No.9456196]

>>9456096
Get a Psychologist instead of a Psychiatrist. It may seem like "Well, yeah" advice but from personal experience, Psychiatrists only try and medicate you with Serotonin drugs. Those drugs can take up to weeks before they have a proper effect on you and before that can make you very suicidal.

[Anonymous No.9456205]

>>9456196
Psychiatrists are not therapists they are supposed to give you meds. She can also request not trying an SSRI. However if she has bipolar, an eating disorder, schizophrenia, or another severe mental illness she will need medication.

The general rule is see a therapist (not all therapists are psychologists some are MSW or have in state counseling degrees) and ask for their thought on the matter. They are professionals and will guide you in the right direction in regards to meds.

I have bipolar and 99% of us need medication, unless it's bipolar NOS.

[Anonymous No.9456207]

>>9456195
Also from an educator's perspective I don't want to deal with my kid having to deal with recent bullshit reforms in education and then suffer because they got the short end of the stick, or be screwed when there's a sudden shift in how they're being taught, effectively being left in the dust. Again with the expense, I don't want to have to pay for a private school just to make sure my kids got the education they deserved. Fucking ridiculous climate in education right now.

[Anonymous No.9456218]

>>9455358
Yeah, unless the bride said she wanted you to wear it (not you asking if you could), it's pretty tacky. You should never risk people paying more attention to your dress than the bride's.

[Anonymous No.9456229]

>>9455347
Even if it's the first time you've heard it said, you should have the basic common sense/courtesy to others to know a poofy, fancy white dress is not what you wear to someone else's wedding.

[Anonymous No.9456233]

>>9454617
Dump his ass.

[Anonymous No.9456240]

>>9455771
I feel similarly anon, but I can't give you much good advice. I've spent half my income on lolita in the past three years, almost all my money after rent, bills and food. I'm getting a lot better and my spending slowed down a lot in the past few months, but not really because I have more self-control, only because my wardrobe peaked at ~50 pieces and ~20 of each type of basic so I can't justify new purchases by saying "But I don't have any brown shoes/pink bags/matching OTKs for this dress!" because I already own most of what I need. Even with that I've switched to buying a lot more accessories plus rarer dream dresses so I'm spending almost as much even though it seems like I have less in the mail. I kept telling myself that I'd stop spending/go one-in-one-out when my wardrobe is complete and I think it's true, but I don't think I should advise you to do the same because it's at least a 10k investment to reach that point...

[Anonymous No.9456258]

>>9455771
Jesus, same here anon. I honestly might just ban all lolita stores on my browser, maybe that will stop me.

[Anonymous No.9456327]

>>9456240
>>9456258
Anything you do besides lolita? Might be good to have a secondary hobby or save up for a vacation or something.

[Anonymous No.9456348]

>>9456096
Find one that actually listens to you and what you're telling them. That sounds really obvious but I spent five years talking to psychologists who just kept repeating "why" without even really listening to my answers and we always ended up going in circles until I felt even worse than I did going in.
>I have trouble making friends
>"Why do you have trouble making friends?"
>I get really uncomfortable and quiet in social situations
>"Why are you uncomfortable?"
>I don't know
>"Why don't you know?"
>...
>"Why aren't you answering?"
>I don't have an answer
>"Why don't you have an answer?"
ad nauseam

Sometimes I think about all the burando I could have bought with the money I spent on these sessions and I get really sad.

[Anonymous No.9456358]

>>9456150
>lolitas
>educated
Not in my comm. They're all highschool grad retail workers with zero ambition beyond saving up to go to Glorious Nippon, or they're studying fashion and want to be the next Angelic Pretty. There's only one girl in my comm with a 'useful' degree and coincidentally, she and her husband both really want kids.

[Anonymous No.9456414]

>>9456179
>>9456196
>>9456258
Thank you!
Do you have better experience with a male or females?

[Anonymous No.9456450]

>>9456414
Personal experience I prefer men, they're more direct and less cuddly than females, but that's my own preference. I'd rather people be blunt and straightforward with me than to beat about the bush just to make me feel better

[Anonymous No.9456509]

>>9456258
>>9456327
I started forcing myself to spend on other stuff by justifying it as lolita-related. Last summer was ridiculous, I spent $1000 on lolita but barely left the house because I "couldn't afford" to eat food out or pay for transport. In my second year in lolita I had 30 main pieces and only attended six meets, and didn't wear lolita out of the house outside of that. I pretty much don't have any other hobbies, so I realised this year that I spend more money when I can't wear lolita - it's like I have a lolita itch I need to scratch, and when I don't have the time to go out and actually wear my clothes, I end up browsing auctions and second-hand sales whenever I get a spare five minutes. When I have the time to wear lolita, I don't feel a need to buy new stuff (unless it throws up an obvious problem like having no flat shoes) because I appreciate my own closet more. I've started wearing lolita more every day and budgeting to do nice weekend activities where I can wear it, so I don't feel tempted to spend, spend, spend because I have no interaction with the community.

I also tend to do big Taobao/Japanese SS orders that go on for a month or more then take a month to ship, which means I underestimate how much I've bought and keep buying new stuff because I perpetually have stuff in the mail that hasn't actually arrived. I'm trying to be more careful not to do that now.

[Anonymous No.9456602]

>>9456133
I think it could! For indoors you could even put lace and stuff on the tires themselves with covers like these:
http://www.rehadesign.com/products/wheelchair-tire-covers

For the spokes, you could cover them in fabric or have a design printed on hard covers like these:
http://coolhubcaps.com/custom-spoke-guards/

You could even take one of these canopies and decorate them like a victorian canopy bed
http://www.pimpmychair.com/weatherbreaker-canopy-vented/

[Anonymous No.9456714]

>can't find a reason to be alive
I just feel so empty all the time

[Anonymous No.9456855]

>have severe anxiety and depression, likely autism too
>tried to kill myself a few years ago
>missed two years of my life being in and out of different hospitals and programs
>then, just when things start to get better
>get fake callout post on tumblr calling me an "abuser" from jealous ex-friend
>fucks me up real bad, all my friends turn on me, i have no one
>too problematic for tumblr
>too sjw for anywhere else
>want to kms but dont tell anyone for fear of another hospitalization

[recently]

>lurk /cgl/ and /x/, no more social media
>scraping up money for itabag supplies
>taking care of skin, trying to put more work into my appearance
>still no lesbian fujoshi gf

life might be turnin around for me, yet, gulls.

[Anonymous No.9456861]

>>9456855
Social media is a scary place, 4chan is just about the only place on the internet that feels comfortable.

[Anonymous No.9456967]

>>9456855
>too problematic for tumblr
>too sjw for anywhere else
iktf anon. Also a lesbian fujoshi aspie but I keep it on the down-low.

[Anonymous No.9458870]

>>9456855
>>9456967
WILL MARRY ANY LESBIAN FUJOSHI ASPIE, JUST PM ME AND ARRANGEMENTS WILL BE MADE

[Anonymous No.9458917]

>>9458870
Are you a lesbian though?

[Anonymous No.9458993]

>>9458917
In spirit

foiled again..