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Last one got deleted so let's not derail this time!

>> No.9404878

tfw a thread you knew was gonna get deleted from the toxic shit in it does, yet people insisted it was okay to post in anyways... h m m m m m
Anyways yeah my feels all go out to the girls who play video games.... but are silent about it for the most part.
>and dont go on fb pages and talk about how they either get sexist hate or don't... no one fucking cares just block them...

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During my unemployment, working on cosplay is the only thing that makes me kind of happy. But it sucks buying materials without a steady paycheck.

I wish I hadn't become a graphic designer.

>> No.9404885

>>9404878
I second this.
Just play the damn game and don't make a fuss if you get insulted.
I don't play a lot but insults are not something that are exclusively targeted at girls. When i watch my bf play games theres insults literally non-stop. It's just how guys are when they compete in something.

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My 12yo sister just put together her first coord and I'm so excited.

>>9404878
>tfw a new thread gets made, but someone keeps harping on the drama that got the old one deleted

>> No.9404900

>>9404878
>>9404898
Stop it, both of you!
New thread - new feels!

>> No.9404903

>>9404898
ahh that's nice I'm the youngest in my family of brothers (5 of them HELP) please train her well for me I've always wanted a little sister

>> No.9404909

I really wanna find good coord inspo for my Princess Cat Peplum JSK in Lavender but I have only seen 2 coords and they were both meh and bland to me... I just want coord inspoooo.....

>> No.9404911

>child hood friend of mine got into Lolita together
>only lolitas in our town so we where quite the site
>friend and I go to college together
>friends mom dies leaving only her uncle and brother left of her family while we where in college
>there for her in her loss
>best friends till the end
>Friend was diagnosed with overian cancer like her mother.
>friend has a lot of brand that she's bought over the years
>friend looks at me when helping her with all her medical trips and says " when I die, I want you to have my closet"
>ugly crying.jpeg
>friend gets really really sick from the medicines.
>friend passes away
>her family look to me to help her dress for her viewing
>I pick her dream dress from her closet and tell them that that was her favorite dress.
>ugly crying .jpeg as you watch them lower her casket into the ground.

I would trade my whole fucking closet and my left overy just to have her back.

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>>9404911
I know it's called feels thread but i was not prepared for this...

>> No.9404918

I just woke up from a dream where I was walking around a museum wearing Lolita. Then I saw a huge luxurious canopy bed that was part of a display and I started taking my clothes off and laying them out on the museum bed for a "floordinate" photo.
It was a weird dream.

>> No.9404923

>>9404911
Oh my god I am so very sorry for your loss, I know why now that last thread wasn't appropriate for your feelings.
You sound like an amazing friend holy hell, my one lolita friend started to ignore me when I told her to coordinate better... we were friend since elementary... welp
Very sorry anon. Kinda hits sorta close to me since I have PCOS and I am regularly monitored for ovarian cancer because of it. Your friend meant a lot and I'm sure they would have appreciate the thought of you picking out the dress I assume for the funeral.
I dunno if you believe in god or not idk but just keep your loved ones close especially rn losing someone can be super difficult if you isolate yourself... I honestly wanna cry for you desu that just sounds so horrible. Best of luck dear please stay safe. You're a good person. Don't let snobby cunt anons like the last ones get to you okay. So sorry.

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>>9404911
You're a good person anon.

>> No.9404935

>>9404918
would read this manga about a ditzy lolita consumed with the need for the best photos

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>>9404911
Omg you're such a good friend holy hell. Sending condolences!

>> No.9404940

I've lost 10kg and most of my friends haven't noticed. Im 60kg now but want to lose more so I can look better in cosplay.

>> No.9404942

>tfw getting into lolita
>tfw a guy
>tfw just a few inches over the waist measurements of a lot of JSKs
>tfw moving in a few months (no idea where)
>tfw can't safely do a custom sizing
>tfw poor

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>>9404911
;_; no

>>9404942
also
>tfw not femme

>> No.9404944

>>9404942
you can't do CS because of you moving? it would take a while to get to you? I'm curious...
I dunno your body shape but there are a lot of taobaos that probably have something big enough that isn't a custom size...

>> No.9404945

>>9404944
Some of the ones I found were listing time spans that easily stretch (on the low end) to past the time I'll be moving.
Since I'm leaving uni, no idea where I'll be, and I'm not having it shipped to my parents.

>> No.9404948

>>9404945
ahh gotcha! hmm wish I could help but idk if you're comfortable saying measurements and style interest... I feel like browsing taobao also desu I could help look for something for you

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>>9404942

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>>9404949
thats more than I have I'm 15 and no job yay stay in school

>> No.9404952

>>9404945
Do you have fat to lose or is it your height/proportions? If the latter, a corset works miracles

>> No.9404953

>>9404948
Measurements (Inches). First is what I wear, second measured.
chest is 36-38 (depends on what i go with)
My waist is iffy, I wear 32 from most brands, a 33 for my suit, but measure in at 34
My hips are 40.
5'7" 158 lbs

I tend to like sweet lolita more, though I'm not against gothic.
Really into Pink/White, main thing is i want pink as a main color, and if not an accent is fine too.
Mainly looking at JSK cause of my shoulders.
>>9404952
I could go to lose a few more pounds, but I've already lost like 80.
>>9404949
IKTF

>> No.9404954

>>9404953
okay will go check and look for stuff... budget?

>> No.9404957

>>9404954
Mostly looking for a JSK atm, but $150 shipped (I'm a poorfag so <$100 would be preferred).
Willing to let the blouse and petticoat wait until later.
I know it's a weird request, not really looking at prints much (I do like flowers though).

I really appreaciate the help, thank you!

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>>9404911

>> No.9404961

>>9404914
I'm sorry but it was a feels thread and the last thread wasn't really the right place to post it.

>>9404923
She was a very good friend. We helped eachother a lot in the fashion and out. I'm glad that she's been burried in her favorite dress. And I'm honored that her brother let me pick out the dress she was buried in. If course she said I could have her closet. And I will
Cherish it. But I'll never be able to wear that dress she is burried in again ( we twinned it). But her clothes will forever be in my closet in a special place. It's our memories and each one holds a story of excitement when she won the auction, got the popular color way in preorder..... waiting like children for Santa for the mail to arrive. Great memories that I'll always cherish.

>>9404927
>>9404938
>>9404943
Yeah....uh thanks. I think.

>> No.9404970
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9404970

>working at Burger King in 2015
>some bitch decides to play "fire in the hole"
>throw a second milkshake right in her face
>fast forward to today
>been dating ever since
>going to Momocon together

It's her first con and we're cosplaying BotW Link and Zelda.

>> No.9404971

>>9404911
>>9404961
If I were there in person, I'd hug you.

>> No.9404973

>>9404970
>>some bitch decides to play "fire in the hole"
W-what is fire in the hole?

>> No.9404975

>>9404973
Order a drink. When they give it to you, throw it back through the window.

It's almost as cunty as gallon smashing.

>> No.9404976

>>9404973
you throw your drink back in through the window

>> No.9404981

>>9404973
Order a bunch of spicy food, eat it, and use the bathroom.

He threw a shake in her face because dairy neutralizes overwhelming spice.

>> No.9404991

>>9404957
You're welcome!!
I found dresses that SHOULD fit you...
These are taobao I suggest you get a shopping service for it.

>https://world.taobao.com/item/39612951062.htm?spm=a312a.7700714.0.0.79NPr6#detail

>https://world.taobao.com/item/535797015065.htm?fromSite=main&spm=2013.1.0.0.64oCWu

These are from Taobao resellers but are not replicas

>http://www.my-lolita-dress.com/neverland-lolita-sweet-mousse-lolita-jsk-version-ii-gc-138

>http://www.my-lolita-dress.com/neverland-lolita-sweet-afternoon-tea-normal-waist-lolita-jsk-gc-33

--
Neverland is so so cheap and usually has really nice size forgiveness

When in doubt anon Lace Market may have good brand for 150 or less!!! You can always ask for measurements, I would say go to lolibrary for it but it's down for now. you're not plus size but your waist measurement is not small you may wanna click plus size for it though... (I'm opposite My boobs are huge so it's my bust that's too bi My waist can fit AP skirts but not OP's I hate ittt)
I need sleep am fucking tired best of luck tho! Sorry took so long I really had to dig and honestly taobao is being a dick rn at least for me so I had to use google to get through Taobao... peace

>> No.9404996

>>9404970
nice I love botw so much but I've been slacking on school work and shit and only have two devine beasts beat and 60+ shrines im pathetic
I have the switch version, love the bleach tastes of the cartridges.

>> No.9404998

>>9404991
Thanks anon <3
Will look when I'm at a computer.
I thought of losing a few more lbs, but my waist won't change THAT much more as I am a guy. Should probs workout to fix my bf%.
Ty again!

>> No.9405000

>browse second hand for accessories
>find amazing deal on Btssb Dot Op from wunderwelt
>slight yellowing, a few pin small stains.
>would have to alter for man shoulders and chest anyway.
>$40
I might be crazy or a genius, but I don't mind altering 'damaged' clothes as much so... win!

>> No.9405001 [DELETED] 

>>9404991
Not huge on prints, but omg so adorable, thanks a ton!

>> No.9405002

> Best friend and I are both over weight and decide to start getting in shape at the same time
> Both of us change diet and exercise
> I drop from around 220 to currently at 165, just have 15lbs left to go to get to goal since I'm 5'8' with a large chest
> She's not doing as well
> Don't see her eat anything really unhealthy or calorically dense and she's always talking about the exercises she's doing
> Breath of the Wild comes out and I have spent all my free time playing
> Buy meal replacement shakes because I don't want to be torn from my controller to go actually make a full meal for myself.
> She sees them and gets pissy
> Says I'm only losing weight because I'm not eating
> Disregards the fact that she saw me eat a large plate of meatloaf, green beans, and potatoes cause I live with my parents and my mom is awesome and makes supper and I'm not going to say no to a home cooked meal
> Not sure if she just has actual fat genetics, a fucked up metabolism, or she's straight up lying

>> No.9405004

>>9404991
Not huge on prints but fuck those are cute.
http://www.my-lolita-dress.com/yolanda-camellia-printed-vintage-lolita-jumper-dress-yo-31

Had considered this is XXXL but the waist would be a tad tight most likely.

Thanks a ton! :)

>> No.9405005

>>9405002
Probably lieing. If she's eating a caloric deficit she'd be losing

>> No.9405036
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>26 years old
>never had a boyfriend
>parents and family asking when I'll start dating
>can't bring myself to say I'd rather live that spinster life than date boys
I'm more dedicated to my wardrobe and hobbies than any relationship I'll ever have with another person.

>> No.9405039

>>9405036
One day you'll find a guy that makes your head turn.
Hope it happens before your biological instinct kicks in because it makes you less choosy.

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>hit it off with girl in comm
>chatting on Fb
>talking about Nintendo Switch
>out of nowhere, she says "I don't think niggs should cosplay"
>assume that "Niggs" means Jessica Nigri
>kind of agree, and chat about it
>soon realize that "niggs" actually meant black people

Ooh wee, she's racist and thinks I agree with her views. What do?

>> No.9405052

>>9405050
you should agree with her.
>>9405036
I'll be your bf, but you have to be ok with doing couple lolita shit.

>> No.9405058

>>9405050
>le not-so-subtle /pol/ troll

>> No.9405066

>>9405039
My only instincts relate to hunting down dream dresses and winning auctions. I think I'll be fine.

>>9405052
Define "couple lolita shit".

>> No.9405069

>>9405066
We do cords together.
Then you go home and peg me.

>> No.9405070

>>9405066
For now. Believe me when I say there will be a time when you suddenly feel the need to procreate.

>> No.9405071

>>9405069
Not into brolitas or pegging, sorry.

>> No.9405074

>>9405071
rip

>> No.9405080

>>9405058
thought so too why they do this

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>2012+5
>hags in the comm STILL bitch about brolitas, fatty-chans, itas, and DDLGs

>> No.9405082
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>>9405069
>Cords
>T R I G G E R E D

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tfw an emo-chan hangs herself in the bathroom during tea and the "special" girl thinks it's a birthday piñata

>> No.9405102

>>9405069
Hi there.

>> No.9405123

>>9405081
Good, if your comm survived that long it's because they dont let those people in, and constantly complain about them.

>> No.9405127

>>9405090
Jesus, that's terrifying. Did anybody explain the situation to her?

>> No.9405128

>>9404878
>feels go out to girls who play video games
You sound like such an obnoxious fucking human being. You also one of those retards who makes a huge deal out of women doing normal shit?
'OMG girl you walked home alone?? YAS QUEEN SLLLAAAYYYY'

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>get my nails done like in pic related
>come home and the first thing my bf says is "nice porn nails"
My mood is completely ruined now.

>> No.9405133

>>9405129
Fake nails do look like shit desu

>> No.9405134

>>9405129
What has actually been done to these nails?

>> No.9405135

>>9405129
Teach him to respect you instead of cheapening you. Tell him it's not okay to liken you to a porn star because of a beauty regimen and that you have a problem with it.

>> No.9405144

>>9405129
if you like it tell him to fuck off

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>>9405128
You look like a fucking asshat congrats.
anon meant that they're basically tired of girls complaining about sexism during games when they can just block and ignore are you a retard... you look like one right now.

>> No.9405152

>>9405129
"yeah I am gonna audition at the studio to get a better dicking"

>> No.9405166

>>9405002
She could have PCOS, causing her hormones to be out of whack. She could be on birth control, causing her hormones to be out of whack. She could have poor hormone reception, causing her hormones to be out of whack.
She could be eating too little causing her metabolism to be shit.
>get your bff to a doctor, nutritionist, and trainer.

>> No.9405169

>>9405166
Eating too little isn't gonna keep you fat. PCOS, thyroid, other med side effects, miscalculating calories in/out, or just cheating on the diet are much more likely.

>> No.9405183

>>9404880
Man, I know this feel. Im either working like crazy, money without time. Or Im unemployed, time without money. I put aside savings to spend on cosplay, but its hard to drop 100 bucks on material when I don't know where my next job is

>> No.9405197

>>9405169
Eating too little slows down your metabolism, which is what you need to burn calories, especially if you diet and don't exercise. A slow metabolism can be reversed with proper diet and exercise.
This is what I was going for, I agree with the rest of your statements. Much love, anon.

>> No.9405216

>>9405197
I mean, it's definitely true that metabolic slowdown exists! The problem is that giving advice "your metabolism might have slowed, eat more" is that the difference, in documented cases, is ~200 calories/day, which is a pretty small window - finding the "sweet spot" where you can eat more and lose more weight is going to be really hard.

Plus, since BMR is just an estimate (unless you get it done by an actual exercise scientist), and people generally underestimate intake even when they are trying to calorie count, you can't know what deficit you "should have" discounting metabolic slowdown -- so it's quite likely that you just don't have a deficit regardless of metabolic slowdown effects.

Either way, if you're trying and failing to lose weight (and are not having issues with binge-eating or lack of energy), "eat less" is always a go-to before "eat more."

>> No.9405227

>>9405002
Most likely she's just not being honest with herself about how many calories she's actually consuming

>> No.9405239

>>9404942
Moitie has a lot of fully shirred OPs and the owner is the best male lolita!

>> No.9405246

>>9405129
My ex always said that about OTKs

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>>9405152

>> No.9405338
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>my comm doesn't know I'm a man
>they constantly bring up how they are glad they don't have any men in the group at meets

>> No.9405343

>>9405338
Idk if you want advice from a cis girl, but if you have a closer friend in that group that would be more accepting than others, go to them first and talk about it. Be genuine, honest, confident... I hope everything turns out well GL anon!

>> No.9405349

>>9405127
Wouldn't it be better if she just kept thinking it was a pinata? Either way, I'm p sure we're getting trolled.

>> No.9405353

>>9405133
She's talking about a french manicure. She didn't even say they were fake, anon. Could be gel, could be regular nail polish.

I get so t r i g g e r e d when people say they hate fake nails.

>> No.9405364

>>9405353
It doesn't bother me if other people dislike artificial nails considering they do have a particular look, but I adore them personally. I just wish a good salon actually existed in my area.

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>>9405129
Why porn nails?

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>>9405081
>mfw I have a guy in my comm who's all four of these things

>> No.9405384

>>9405102
h-hi

>> No.9405385

>>9405239
oooh, that looks nice.
but poorfag

>> No.9405389

>>9405050
That's pretty simple
>Tell her you thought she meant Jessica
>stop being salty and disliking Jessica for no good reason

>> No.9405398

>>9404911
Didn't happen.

>> No.9405419

>>9405129
Those really are porn/slut nails though.

>> No.9405422

>>9405419
>Those really are porn/slut nails though.
Why? I don't get it, is this some sort of meme?
I just think they look pretty.

>> No.9405424

>>9405422
Typically used by actual porn actresses and sluts of the worst caliber. I'm sorry.

>> No.9405425

>>9405422
Porn stars almost universally have acrylic nails with a french manicure.

>> No.9405428

>>9405424
>>9405425
Any reason why?

>> No.9405430

>>9405428
it's sexy

>> No.9405433

>>9405428
It's just one of those things.

Like the fedora, or cat-eye glasses.

>> No.9405434

>>9405428
I think they're trolling, anon. I've never heard of anyone calling a French manicure porn nails.

>those wouldn't even be good when you're filming a porno; what if one falls off

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>>9405090
I'm fucking crying, anon.

>> No.9405438

>>9405434
Why would several people make this up? Its especially a joke in girl/girl porn because real lesbians go, "No lesbian has ever had nails that long."

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>>9405216
Literally never said they should eat more. I said that they could have slowed their metabolism and that a proper diet and exercise routine would help them. I also recommended a doctor, nutritionist, and personal trainer to find out which problem they had so they could get professional help. Neither you or I know what's up, so I offered as many causes based on the information given and gave advice to seek professional help.

You seem to be mad about a hypothetical problem, which would have a deficit as a proper diet solution, so I don't really know why we're arguing at all. We're literally on the same page and you're just mad about wordage.

>> No.9405457

>>9405166
>eating too little makes you fat
fucking /cgl/

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>>9405457

>> No.9405472

>>9405466
kek

>> No.9405473

>>9405453
I'm not mad or I just hear the "metabolism slowed" thing commonly interpreted as "not losing weight? eat more" so I'm mentioning info.

>> No.9405557

>>9405466
distended stomach =/= fat

I'm sure you're joking, but I've seen people site this with no irony.

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9405564

I started learning Japanese, so far it's easy as all fuck, and now I can actually read the clothing categories on mercari instead of waiting for google translate to take three years loading all the drop-down menus. Life is good!

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>>9405564
>easy
Are you a wizard?

>> No.9405586

>>9405582
she's talking about clothing categories, so i mean reading stuff like onepiece and blouse is pretty reading.

>> No.9405589

>>9405586
*PRETTY EASY

lmao looking like an idiot

>> No.9405597

>>9405466
Isn't this because they have one of those giant worms living inside them?

>> No.9405601

>>9405597
It's kwashiorkor, a disease caused by lack of protein. The bloating is the gut retaining water because not having protein fucks it up

>> No.9405602

>>9405382
A guy in your comm is a little girl?

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>normal to slightly dry skin pretty much since forever
>no real pimple problems outside of Aunt Flo coming to visit once a month
>andthenoutofnowhere
>lots of little zits and breakouts not the worst thing but DEFINITELY more than I've ever had
>trying everything to fix it skin is awful for months
>until recently
>late night don't feel like washing my face what's the point anyways
>don't want to be super gross so just wipe face with micellar water and put on a bit of moisturizer
>the next morning wake up and skin is drastically better
>redness has gone down and lots of zits have shrunk
>even the super stubborn ones

I've been skipping face wash at night and just using the micellar water now for about two weeks and my skin hasn't looked this great in forever! I have no idea why it works but I'll take it

>> No.9405607

>saving up for a cosplay
>probably won't have enough money for good wig
>character doesn't have specific hair, could very well use my own, but don't want to no-wig a cosplay
Shiiiiiiiiiiiitttt

>> No.9405613
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>gf is going to teach me how to do my makeup for cosplay
>we break up before she can

>> No.9405629

>>9405564
wait till the kanji fucks you dry in the ass

>> No.9405641

>>9405398
What makes you think that anon? Not all lolitas who pass are publically made known.

>> No.9405642
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>>9405338
You should "accidentally" let your dress blow up in front of them, just for the priceless reactions.

>> No.9405653

>>9405050
I'm going to call her Niggs from now on.

>> No.9405676
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9405676

>mfw bf and I work at the same place
>mfw he got fired today
>mfw our boss a is a major cuntasaurus rex

>> No.9405682

>>9405676
What did he get fired over, anon?
>supervisor just got a second posting which will leave him very busy, happy days!

>> No.9405687
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>cosplaying Genji at a con
>DVA cosplayer comes up to me
>hit it off quite well, a lot of flirting back and forth
>we exchange numbers, but never facebooks.
>be busy as shit, don't get a chance to text her until like a week later
>do so, but don't get a reply at all.
>a few weeks go by, begin to question if she's even real.
>friends offer to do research for me, decline but get info anyways from them.
>a day later she shows up on Facebook friends
>Turns out she's engaged and travels back and forth between 2 Towns constantly.
>MFW

>> No.9405699

>>9405687
Poor guy is going to be marrying a slut

>> No.9405705

>>9405036
>26 years old
>Never had a girlfriend
>Parents and work colleagues asking when I'll start dating.
>They think it's super simple to find someone.
>Low key accepted I'm going to die alone.

I share your feel anon.

>> No.9405707

>>9405699
poor cosplaying slut (used as a word of empowerment) is being forced into a hetero patriarchal relationship with someone who is likely a rapist.

This is why we need feminism.

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9405754

>>9405707

>> No.9405762

>>9405682
Two minutes late for a ten hour shift because of a train. And we were already super understaffed. I understand being on time is super important but it wasn't over five minutes and the first time he has ever been late. But she did this to another coworker so isn't new.

Eventually I'll jump, but the money is so good.

>> No.9405772

>>9405762
Sounds like your typical customer service type of job. Managers tend to be jerks in that profession I have noticed. They must hate them selves and their life choices so they take it out on their employees to feel a sense of power or some shit.

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9405796

>>9405641
She's just a cunty-chan who wants to be too cool for the thread.

Sorry about your loss, anon.

>> No.9405817

>>9405754
I don't get why you responded to me. I'm honestly curious.
It is so blatantly obvious that I'm baiting for responses, and you still respond, and only to post a picture stating the obvious.
Is it meant to be an insult or some sort of warning sign not to reply or something?

I just don't understand. What's the point of replying only to say "don't reply" instead of just ignoring the post so that it doesn't get attention and therefore replies?

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Is it required that you wear lolita underwear with your coord?

I just found out that a girl I know wears a thong to meets and it fucked me up.

>> No.9405839
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> Three years ago
> End up hooking up with a cosplayer for a bit
>Tells me her dreams of getting engaged, married, all that stuff.
> We sleep together, she tells me her problems, etc.
>Start getting into her interests.
>Decide to surprise her by going to a con in her local area.
>Find her making out with her ex.
>MFW this drives me into a spiral of cynicism, self doubt and depression.

>two months after that incident, at another con.
>extremely jaded view of people.
>make friends with an Love Live cosplayer
>Her and I debate constantly over stupid shit
>Borderline hate each other but also like each other.

>Fast forward through 3 years of suffering, recovering alcoholism, and soul searching.

>Last November, ex girlfriend looks me up on tumblr, wants to rekindle
>She explains how it was both of our faults, but mainly mine that the events happened how they did.
>Meh, ok. I've been through enough shit, this can't be so bad.
>She's engaged to a nu-male cuck, and confides in me on how she misses the old days.
>get extremely uncomfortable, rant about this scenario to Love Live cosplayer.
>Love Live cosplayer offers to fake being my girlfriend to get her off my back. So it happens.
>Ex girlfriend gets off my case, I end up actually falling for Love Live cosplayer.

>January, confess to love live cosplayer about how I really feel about her through all of this.
> She tells me that she once liked me in that way, but she's seeing another girl.
>I go through a minor moment of self doubt , depression, etc. snap out of it
>Accept that I love my closest friend but know that I probably will never have her.
>February and now
>She keeps sending me lewd photos of her in VK sweaters and meme panties.

By this point, I've just stopped caring. Cosplay waifus in general either hate men, or are gay as fuck.

>> No.9405842

>>9405586>>9405589

Is blouse the new big shonen jump manga?

>> No.9405845

>>9405839
>Falling for cosplay girls

/cgl/ is living proof even women who have your interests are still awful people

>> No.9405857

>>9405833
If you wear non-Victorian undergarments with your chord, you're fucking ITA. Period.

I busted my ass sewing my own bloomers, even though no one would be the wiser if I wore normal undies. That's what separates lolitas from basic bitches in doll clothes.

>> No.9405875

My ex was extremely abusive and manipulative. Unfortunately, she also happens to be a quite famous cosplayer. She cheated on me and then moved in with the guy a week after I dumped her and immediately started very publicly slandering me as much as she could. Almost my entire social network evaporated overnight and I didn't even know why until several years later, when a former mutual friend approached me after she'd done a similar thing to them and told me what had happened.

To this day I'm effectively blackballed from the cosplay community because of things I didn't do. I can't even talk about it and try to clear my own name because even the "sympathetic" people are 50/50 on who they believe and start attacking me if I come anywhere close to the truth of what happened, and the few people who actually know what happened are either not involved in the scene or aren't willing to get involved in drama by defending me. (At least they've done so privately and kept me from thinking I'm insane, though.)

I just want to be part of the scene again and for people to know that none of the things I was accused of were true, and that I was the victim if anything, but I know it'll never happen.

>> No.9405880

>>9405857
Newbie here-- uh, do we not wear underwear under the bloomers? I just sort of assumed that's how it worked.

>> No.9405882

>>9405839
Honestly, just sit tight and wait.

It sounds like she still likes you, and once they break up you've got an open field.

But don't be afraid to play the other field while you wait.

Out of curiosity, how'd you beat alcoholism? I haven't got past that phase yet

>> No.9405885

>>9405880
Don't worry, you're just replying to a crazy.

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I'm so bitter right now, i went full autist wearing double buns last year, which i found here in cgl while lurking some hair threads, and everyone looked at me at the university like if i was a freak show, and now, every one uses them.

I don't get it! why when i think about wearing something different its a bad thing and some months or a year later it becomes a trend? The same happened with the big bows, the braids and the flashy shoes, it's getting annoying.

>> No.9405901

my cheeks are so big
I'm not fat but I got big cheeks
I wish they would just go away

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>sewing machine I've used for years and years finally died
>might could get it serviced but for them to take it apart and just look at it is an $85 fee
>doesn't include the repair/parts/labor for whatever is wrong
>con in just under a month, really can't spare the money

Well...how bad could hand-sewing half a tudor ballgown be...haha...I'm fucked aren't I.

>> No.9405907

>>9405889
i feel u anon
Did the OTKs long before all the thotties picked it up
Now not even nice velvet chokers are safe

>> No.9405908

>>9405889
Anon I don't think you know how trends start and work. It usually goes one person starts doing it and every one else likes it but can't admit it because it's not currently trending. Then they try it themselves and spread their new found trend till it becomes popular. Then you start seeing everyone wearing it who formerly made fun of it.

>> No.9405914

>>9405904
Ask a friend of you can use theirs. Or hand sew it. Put on some tv series and get to work. Do nothing but sew. It just buy one of those cheap hello kitty sewing machines for 50 bucks.

>> No.9405921

>>9405705
We can be water fleas and die alone, together.

>> No.9405926

>>9405921
BE MY CGL GF

>> No.9405928

>>9405002
shes eating but not telling you about it. OR easting huge portion sizes. People who eat very little overestimate what they eat, people who eat a lot underestimate what they eat.
Your friend is a fat shit who isn't actually doing what they say they are.

>> No.9405929

>>9405914
>Ask a friend of you can use theirs.
I tried asking around but it seems no one has one except for one friend and she's using it for the same con I'm going to so I don't want to impose on her.
>just buy one of those cheap hello kitty sewing machines for 50 bucks.
That's maybe the best idea for temporary, I hadn't thought about those cheapy ones like at Walmart, Even if it doesn't last, if it just got me through this I'd be beyond happy. Thanks for the idea anon!

>> No.9405932

>>9405926
Sorry anon, I'm more committed to brand than to boys.

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>>9405880
>>9405885
You're never going to get anywhere until you accept that lolita isn't just a fashion, it's a state of mind.

It's why lifestyle lolitas are so highly regarded. I don't shave my body hair for at least six weeks before a meet because that's simply the way it's fucking done. But if you want to half ass it, that's your business.

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I really want dreamy baby room but I don't my largely goth and classic comm to think i'm an age player.

>> No.9405941

>>9405938
*I don't want my* fuck typos. Whatever. I just think it's really adorable. Fuck age players. They ruin everything.
*sobbing.jpg

>> No.9405944

>relapse into an eating disorder
>can't reach out to friends because they're all haes tumblrinas who would take my ed as a personal offense
>too poor for treatment

I plan on wasting away until someone finally gives a shit. I'm past the point of caring about myself desu.

>> No.9405945

>>9405944
Anything that brought it on?

>> No.9405947

>>9405938
It's just an AP print, anon. Sure it's stigmatized in the west but it's not like you'd show up to a meet or share pics of yourself wearing an actual sissy dress. Don't dress for your comm's approval, do what makes you happy and wear what you like.

>> No.9405948

>>9405904
Fix it yourself? 90% of sewing machines I fix either just needed a good internal cleaning or a quick soldering

>> No.9405950

>>9405948
AH'MA DONN KNO HOWDA DOO DAT SHEEEIT

>> No.9405952

>>9405921
Sounds like a plan.

>> No.9405957

>>9405945

Lots of stress within the past year that built up and exploded. That and I'm surrounded big people (I live in one of the fattest areas of America) and it made my phobia of gaining weight/being obese worse. All I've ever wanted was to be someone's tiny, cute waifu.

>> No.9405958

>>9405950
Just open it up and see if anything looks noticeably fucked.

>> No.9405959

>>9405882
I had this moment at a party where I was drinking with a few folks, and in the middle of asking myself ; 'What do I do about this problem?' A person told me to keep drinking.

At that moment I got super disgusted, because I realized that drinking didn't solve shit for me. It only made it worst.
So, I looked into new study methods and asking myself, 'why did it get this bad.'

Like, I'm a much different guy now than who she met three years ago. Which is probably why I began to appreciate her much more now, than I did then.


But the short answer is pretty much - Will Power to change and being extremely aware that the people I was in company with were toxic.

>> No.9405981

>>9404973
When you pepper spray a condom then fuck a girl with it.

>> No.9405983 [DELETED] 

>>9405959
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.

2 For with what judgment ye judge, yee shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you againe.

3 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brothers eye, but considerest not the beame that is in thine owne eye?

4 Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let mee pull out the mote out of thine eye, and beholde, a beame is in thine owne eye?

5 Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beame out of thine owne eye: and then shalt thou see clearely to cast out the mote out of thy brothers eye.

6 ¶ Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearles before swine: lest they trample them under their feete, and turne againe and rent you.

7 ¶ Aske, and it shalbe given you: seeke, and ye shall finde: knocke, and it shalbe opened unto you.

8 For every one that asketh, receiueth: and he that seeketh, findeth: and to him that knocketh, it shalbe opened.

9 Or what man is there of you, whom if his sonne aske bread, will hee give him a stone?

10 Or if he aske a fish, will hee give him a serpent?

11 If ye then being evill, know how to give good giftes unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven, give good things to them that aske him?

12 Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should doe to you, doe ye even so to them: for this is the Law and the Prophets.

13 ¶ Enter ye in at the strait gate, for wide is the gate, and broad is the way that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which goe in thereat:

14 Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way which leadeth unto life, and few there be that finde it.

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>> No.9405987

>>9405957
y-you can be my cute waifu. I'll feed you doritos while you play cod in lolita.

>> No.9405988

>>9405833
Seems to me like it shouldn't matter. The only person who's actually gonna see what's under there is probably gonna be your SO, and anybody who'd rather have their GF wear bloomers than a thong is probably an ageplay creep.

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15 ¶ Beware of false prophets which come to you in sheepes clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves.

16 Yee shall knowe them by their fruits: Doe men gather grapes of thornes, or figges of thistles?

17 Even so, every good tree bringeth forth good fruit: but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evill fruit.

18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.

19 Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit, is hewen downe, and cast into the fire.

20 Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.

21 ¶ Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdome of heaven: but he that doth the will of my father which is in heaven.

22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophecied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderfull works?

23 And then wil I professe unto them, I never knew you: Depart from me, ye that worke iniquity.

24 ¶ Therefore, whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I wil liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rocke:

25 And the raine descended, and the floods came, and the windes blew, and beat upon that house: and it fell not, for it was founded upon a rocke.

26 And every one that heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them not, shall bee likened unto a foolish man, which built his house upon the sand:

27 And the raine descended, and the floods came, and the windes blew, and beat upon that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.

>> No.9405994

>>9405833
You wear what you want to wear under it. Bloomers just help with how the dress sits on your body. But it's not required. Some lolitas wear it because of the aesthetics. Many girls in my community just wear volley ball shorts or shaper shorts under theirs. No one will see unless you deliberately lift your skirt and show the world. Wear a thong, g-string or go commando of you want. That's between you and you SO.

>> No.9405999

>>9405833
>a girl I know wears a thong to meets

That's kinda hot...

>>9405994
>g-string or go commando

That's really hot.

Anybody wanna be my looks elegant and restrained but is kinky underneath /cgl/ GF?

>> No.9406002

>>9405999
Fuck off.

>> No.9406005

>>9405957
Workout instead of starving yourself. If you're so worried about getting fat then having a routine is the best way to not become the thing you're so stressed out about.

>> No.9406006

>>9405135
>>9405144
>>9405152
Damn women are oversensitive.

>> No.9406007 [DELETED] 

>>9405999
where do you live?

>> No.9406009

>>9405933
>It's why lifestyle lolitas are so highly regarded


They are? Maybe I should become a lovely.

>> No.9406011 [DELETED] 

>>9406005
stay busy in ways that don't involve eating

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>>9405152

>> No.9406013

>>9406006
I'm a guy, I made the dick joke.

>> No.9406016

>>9406013
Ah, that'd explain why you were actually able to banter back (in the hypothetical scenario at least)

Unlike the women who got so genuinely offended and angry over a simple joke.

>> No.9406017

>>9406002
Straight and to the point. I like it.

>>9406007
LA, but I was joking. You wouldn't want me anyway.

>> No.9406021

>>9406016
Cmon mate, you're backtracking just because I said I have a penis. I was insensitive before I mentioned my gender.

>> No.9406023

>>9405994
>>9405988
>>9405833

Bloomers/safety shorts helps you not flash whatever's under when you live someplace windy, or even if you don't. You'd be surprised how much leg you show when you're bending and reaching across the table for the salt shaker. The skirt really does act like a bell shape and tilts pretty far up. If you're wearing opaque tights it doesn't look so bad, but for those wearing ankle socks, sheer tights or OTKs, showing that much bare leg that close to your cooch, in public, while being covered in lace everywhere else, does look somewhat fetishy.

The better bloomers are the ones that are almost the same length as your petti, that's why bloomers are better than safety/sports shorts, plus it looks good when the underneath of your skirt is a sea of white ruffles instead of ruffles plus rugged shorts, so even if your skirt does tilt too far it still looks nice instead of jarring. Shorts are still better than flashing the world your thong though.

If you really want to go without shorts/bloomers, either make it a point to never bend, ever, or stand anywhere near glass walls/balconies (you'd be surprised how much you can see from below, even if the person looking up isn't standing directly below you), or only do tea-length, flat outfits. Otherwise, bloomers are your best friend for not having to worry about who's trying to look under your skirt.

>> No.9406024 [DELETED] 

>>9406017
you'd probably break up with me and be like "yeah that's what I get for dating a girl from 4chan"

>> No.9406025

>>9406011
Not eating is still unhealthy. I understand everyone who can't really find the willpower to do it, but once you get a decent jogging routine down it's like fucking bliss going out. A form of meditation, really fucking helps clear your head. Ontop of getting a nice body out of it.

>> No.9406027

>>9406021
I honestly did debate including yours with the other 2 because it was different but decided to just do all 3.

>> No.9406028

>>9406024
Different anon but...
>implying there's anything much worse than being an unironic "tfw no /cgl/ gf" poster

>> No.9406031

>>9406024
Nah, we wouldn't get as far as dating, you'd nope the fuck out as soon as you found out how much of a mess I am.

My standards are ridiculous (at least compared to what's actually realistic) anyway.

>>9406028
Sometimes I wonder if they even exist.

Admittedly I'm like 90% ironic and 10% "well, maybe..." but somehow I doubt people actually post on here thinking something would come of it.

That said I'm not a foreveralone /r9k/ KHV so I don't really understand how they think.

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>>9406031
believe in Jesus....you will live forever

Jesus can fix anything

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>>9405036

>> No.9406041
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>parents leave me a large amount of money
>I make my income from investing
>never leave the house, only leave to go to cons
>i order Ouji and Aristo clothing
>never wear it outside
>wardrobe worth almost 15k

I can't answer the phone without panicking, gulls. I'm as pale as a vampires ass, and I have all my food delivered to my door.

On a good feeling note, I bought a girl her dream dress in the friend finder thread. Her reaction was amusing.

>> No.9406042

>>9406041
>>I make my income from investing
What exactly do you do I've been curious about this kind of thing.

>> No.9406044

OH GOOD, ANOTHER DDLG SHAMING THREAD

I'm sucking a binky right now. You mead? Would you get triggered if I threw on a diaper??

>> No.9406045

Jesus Christ, the number of nu males when it comes to cons is ridiculous.

No wonder why a simple gym rat out classes everyone, you need more confidence!

>> No.9406047

>>9405958
some people know they will just make things worse when it comes to repairing anything electrical/mechanical. Including me, I won't ever touch parts of my machine I shouldn't touch, because I can't even change a lightbulb.

>> No.9406048

>>9406044
How does it feel knowing that everybody who dates or fucks you is just settling and really wants to fuck little kids?

>> No.9406055

>>9406024
I really want that path though
Just to try dating a seagul

Also, literally everyone I met from 4chan has been cool as shit

>> No.9406057

>>9406037
Wow holy anon. You really opened my eyes to the lord by posting scripture that I didn't care about before. And after all these years of ignoring the crazy sign guy on the corner telling me I'm living in sin was truely a saint. I never knew the light that is scripture.


No wait I still couldn't give two fucks. Really anon it's pointless to be a blind ass bible thumper here. Just give up and bother old people at the retirement home.

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>Tfw extremely passionate about armor making and prop crafting.
>TFW 90% of the con scene are THOTS or mainstream normies who think scantily clad anything + nerd culture is cosplay.
>Tfw a good chunk of the people in the con scene have liberal / SJW type of view points.
>Tfw I'm conservative about my view points and very much against SJW.
>TFW I love crafting and cosplaying but I feel super isolated when I try to relate to the scene at all.

What do? I want to make more friends but I feel like I want to shoot myself trying to talk to a good chunk of this new age of con goers.

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16 ¶ And behold, one came and said unto him, Good master, what good thing shall I do, that I may haue eternall life?

17 And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandements.

18 He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steale, Thou shalt not beare false witnesse,

19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thy selfe.

20 The young man saith unto him, All these things haue I kept from my youth up: what lacke I yet?

21 Jesus said unto him, If thou wilt be perfect, goe and sell that thou hast, and give to the poore, and thou shalt haue treasure in heaven: and come and follow me.

22 But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowfull: for he had great possessions.

23 ¶ Then said Jesus unto his disciples, Verely I say unto you, that a rich man shall hardly enter into the kingdome of heaven.

24 And againe I say unto you, It is easier for a camel to goe thorow the eye of a needle, then for a rich man to enter into the kingdome of God.

25 When his disciples heard it, they were exceedingly amazed, saying, Who then can be saved?

26 But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is unpossible, but with God al things are possible.

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>>9406055
>literally everyone I met from 4chan has been cool as shit
Wew. What boards are you lurking on to reach this conclusion?

>> No.9406067

>>9406042
I don't follow anything on the news, I just look around for potential investments. When I heard nintendo wanted to make a mobile game I invested a little bit. Since the stocks were already pretty low. Then I heard that it was going to be pokemon go, and I dumped quite a bit, around 35 thousand, and a week after pokemon go was released I sold my shares. Nintendos shares at the time went up around 110%, so the 45k and the 2k I invested was doubled.

People say it's risky but if you know the market it's fine. Mobile games profit like crazy, pokemon profits like crazy. It was pretty much guaranteed to be profitable.

People go to school for this stuff, so I'm not exactly the most learned. I average around 65k a year. The nintendo investment was the only time I dumped a large sum. Wish I put more, but too stressful.

>> No.9406069 [DELETED] 

>robbing from poor people

>> No.9406070

>>9406061
Give it time anon. Those people will move to the next trend and then the scene will be cool again to actually talk to people. Maybe try and talking to people who run stands or have other cool looking props. My biggest con is mostly bikini girls calling it cosplay but there's always people who actually took time and effort into their props and costume. Just look for those people and try to strike up a conversation with them. Ask what technique they went with and how they prefer to make their armor. Talk prop with them and you will find you have people to relate to.

>> No.9406071

>>9406066
/cgl/ and /tg/

>> No.9406072 [DELETED] 

>being a franchise which turns citizens' lives into a game

>> No.9406074

>>9406055
I've never dated an actual seagull but I've dated a few cosplayers/casual lolitas and it's always been regrettable.

That said the 4chan and /cgl/ people I've known IRL actually have been pretty cool in general. Amusingly enough the only assholes have been tripfags.

I absolutely love certain styles of lolita (pretty much anything at the darker and more "mature" end) and dating somebody who wears it every day is fantasy fuel for me, but I'd only do it if we were a good match in general.

>> No.9406075

>>9406067
If you don't really know what you're doing you'll likely end up losing it. Saying you don't follow the news means you already don't know what you're doing. If you want to do that as a career, get educated in it because the things you can fuck up are countless, and the times you can afford to fuck up are slim.

>> No.9406078 [DELETED] 

>>9406057
It is not blind, it is spiritual insight? who is woman wisdom, and who is woman folly?

>> No.9406079

Happy feels incoming.
>work has been stressful
>no time to enjoy frills
>plan Tokyo trip months ago to make up for it
>busy working all the way up to date of departure
>arrive and wander around to find hotel for check-in later
>stumble across a shop I knew I'd want to check out during my stay
>finally check-in time
>hotel staff hands me card with room information and a postcard
>they both have same logo of that shop I want to see
>lead me to room and there is the store's logo again on my door
>I'm confused and trying to ask the staff about it in my Japanese, but it's not coming out right
>the hotel staff answers in English, "Oh, the designer of this shop designed this hotel room."
>open door and the room is aged, but cute and I feel like a princess
>realize this is going to be the start of a great lolita vacation

And it really was. Lots of good things happened. I feel like I should have been in one of those hotel reservation commercials.

>> No.9406081 [DELETED] 

>>9406045
>being a franchise stooge

>> No.9406086

>>9406048
TELL THAT TO MY DADDY, FOUL HAG

>> No.9406087

>>9406070
I've been at this for a few years though.

The issue is that the prop makers and cosplayers I do think are cool, always try to end up turning something friendly I do into a pissing contest. Or in recent cases, when they've asked me how to help them make something, and I give them a really good way of handling if, they just go 'well, no. That's not how 'x' did if.'

Also there's this thing with me, where I'll meet REALLY GOOD cosplayers but it actually turns out that they had a whole fucking team behind them and the person I was talking to was just a weaponized THOT.

Like, I really want to give it time Anon, I really do. But I feel like the cosplay scene is changing for the worst...

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13 ¶ And one of the company saide unto him, Master, speake to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me.

14 And he said unto him, Man, who made mee a judge, or a divider over you?

15 And he said unto them, Take heed and beware of covetousnes: for a mans life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth.

16 And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certaine rich man brought foorth plentifully.

17 And he thought within himselfe, saying, What shall I doe, because I have no roome where to bestow my fruits?

18 And he said, This will I doe, I will pull downe my barnes, and build greater, and there will I bestow all my fruits, and my goods.

19 And I will say to my soule, Soule, thou hast much goods layd up for many yeeres, take thine ease, eate, drinke, and be merry.

20 But God said unto him, Thou foole, this night thy soule shal be required of thee: then whose shal those things be which thou hast provided?

21 So is he that laieth ip treasure for himselfe, and is not rich towards God.

>> No.9406089

>>9406078
Of a tree falls on the forest an no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

If a preacher quotes the Bible to people who have heard it a hundred times before, do they listen to him out of the others?

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>>9406089
1Now the tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to hear him.

2And the Pharisees and the scribes grumbled, saying, “This man receives sinners and eats with them.”

3So he told them this parable:

4“What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he has lost one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the open country, and go after the one that is lost, until he finds it?

5And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing.

6And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and his neighbors, saying to them, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep that was lost.’

7Just so, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who need no repentance.

8“Or what woman, having ten silver coins,a if she loses one coin, does not light a lamp and sweep the house and seek diligently until she finds it?

9And when she has found it, she calls together her friends and neighbors, saying, ‘Rejoice with me, for I have found the coin that I had lost.’

10Just so, I tell you, there is joy before the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”

>> No.9406098

>>9406087
The cosplay scene always has changed. It's best to not tell people what to do when making props unless they ask you first on how to do it. And if they ask that's when you say " well what do you know about it so far" and go from there. There is no wrong way to make things when the outcome is almost always the same. Everyone goes at it differently. Right now it's about being noticed and getting likes. Who's to say in ten years it's going to be that way? Stop worry about others opinions about you and fitting in and just do what you want. Sooner or later this competition mind set will move to something else. All fads change.

>> No.9406101

>>9405582
Nope, just a language teacher who speaks two already and knows how this shit works by now. Also what other anon said, reading clothes categories isn't exactly War and Peace.

Phonetically and grammatically, Japanese is a FUCKTON easier than most European languages. As other anon said, kanji will be a different story, but it can't be any worse than the French subjunctive or German case endings tbqh

>> No.9406102

>>9406087
Because of the popularity of "geek" culture, cosplay has become a business. I can't tell you the number of times I've tried to talk construction and been met with "See my blog/patreon/guide"

A lot of passion has left in the big costumes. I feel like its having a negative effect on the general, who see amazing costumes and assume its just the girl making everything instead of the entire team who made the costume.

But I do believe its going to fade. The geek is cliche will slowly die and investing is cosplay wont be profitable anymore.

>> No.9406105

>>9406074
Im not surprised about most cosplayers. The attitude tends to be leaning towards attention garnering, which is never a good trait in your significant other.
And yeah, to tripfag on a place designed for anonymity shows certain personality traits.

t b h Its not even me wanting to date seaguls, just wanting more friends, and tend to get along well with the autists of 4chan

>> No.9406106

>>9406041
Did she at least send you nudes? How much was the dress worth?

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1 Beholde, I will send my messenger, and he shal prepare the way before mee: and the Lord whom ye seeke, shall suddenly come to his Temple: even the messenger of the Covenant, whom ye delight in: behold, he shall come, saith the Lord of hosts.

2 But who may abide the day of his comming? and who shall stand when he appeareth? for he is like a refiners fire, and like fullers sope.

3 And he shall sit as a refiner and purifier of silver: and he shall purifie the sonnes of Levi, and purge them as gold & silver, that they may offer unto the Lord an offring in righteousnes.

4 Then shall the offerings of Judah and Jerusalem bee pleasant unto the Lord, as in the dayes of old, and as in former yeeres.

5 And I will come neere to you to judgement, and I will bee a swift witnesse against the sorcerers, and against the adulterers, and against false swearers, and against those that oppresse the hireling in his wages, the widowe, and the fatherlesse, and that turne aside the stranger from his right, and feare not me, saith the Lord of hosts.

6 For I am the Lord, I change not: therefore ye sonnes of Iacob are not consumed.

7 ¶ Even from the dayes of your fathers yee are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them: returne unto me, and I will returne unto you, saith the Lord of hosts: But ye said, Wherein shall we returne?

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>>9405833
Only sluts wear thongs, this is fact.

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8 ¶ Wil a man rob God? yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes & offerings.

9 Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation.

10 Bring ye all the tithes into the store-house, that there may be meate in mine house, & prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hostes, if I will not open you the windowes of heaven, and powre you out a blessing, that there shall not be roome enough to receive it.

11 And I wil rebuke the devourer for your sakes: and he shal not destroy the fruits of your ground, neither shal your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the Lord of hosts.

12 And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts.

13 ¶ Your words have bin stout against me, saith the Lord, yet ye say, What have we spoken so much against thee?

14 Ye have said, It is vaine to serve God: and what profit is it, that we have kept his ordinance, and that wee have walked mournfully before the Lord of hosts?

15 And now we call the proud happy: yea, they that worke wickednes are set up, yea they that tempt God, are even delivered.

16 ¶ Then they that feared the Lord, spake often one to another, and the Lord hearkened and heard it, & a booke of remembrance was written before him, for them that feared the Lord, & that thought upon his name.

17 And they shall be mine, saith the Lord of hosts, in that day when I make up my jewels, and I wil spare them as a man spareth his owne sonne that serveth him.

18 Then shall yee returne and discerne betweene the righteous and the wicked, betweene him that serveth God, and him that serveth him not.

>> No.9406119

>>9406113
Are you calling my 12yo sister a slut?? WTF, this really is the meanest board

>> No.9406121

>>9406119
>12
>wears a thong
You are joking right?

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>>9406119

>> No.9406126

>>9406106
I didn't do it for nudes It was just something I've wanted to do. I've been around /cgl/ for quite a long time and I've always thought "hey it'd be pretty neat to buy one of these crazy girls a dress they have always wanted completely randomly" and I was in the position to do so. It was 550 dollars if I remember right.

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16
¶ Moreover, when yee fast, be not as the Hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appeare unto men to fast: Verily I say unto you, they have their reward.
17
But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face:
18
That thou appeare not unto men to fast, but unto thy father which is in secret: and thy father which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.
19
¶ Lay not up for your selves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where theeves breake thorow, and steale.
20
But lay up for your selves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, & where theeves doe not breake thorow, nor steale.
21
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
22
The light of the body is the eye: If therefore thine eye be single, thy whole body shalbe full of light.
23
But if thine eye be evill, thy whole body shall be full of darknesse. If therfore the light that is in thee be darkenesse, how great is that darkenesse?

>> No.9406139

>>9406121
She's in theater and doesn't want panty lines.

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>>9406139
So she prefers whale tails over panty lines?

>> No.9406144

>>9406134
You know Jesus was a brown jew right? Why share the Chinese pictures when this isn't a good representation. You a Chinese Christian? This is like the people that put the black Santa Claus on their front lawn because they can't accept the fact that he was a fat white man that was most likely a Viking.

Not to mention that the image of white Jesus was based off of Michael angelos image of Jesus who was his gay lover.

>> No.9406145

>>9405036
>similar age
>similar disinterest

i do not have the desire or capacity to put someone else before my hobbies. even if we share the same hobby. my art and my solitude matter more to me than feeling loved or getting laid.

>> No.9406147

>>9406126
Somehow I don't believe.

>> No.9406149

>>9406147
I wouldn't believe it either, to be fair.

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>>9406147
Was probably an attempt at a humblebrag but ended up being spaghetti.
>"Heh yeah no it's fine I make so much money I can just buy internet people expensive dresses...Did I mention I'm an investor?"
>Heh oh yeah no I didn't want anything from you just wanted to make you happy. I just don't know what to do with ALL THIS MONEY heh.

>> No.9406151

>>9406144
I think those are actually Korean.

Also the gay lover thing is bullshit, the typical white Jesus look predates Michelangelo by centuries. (The same look has been found as early as the late Roman period, and appears in tons of early church art etc.) It's more likely that they just made him look like whatever they thought a guy like him would look like, according to their own cultural values.

>> No.9406154

>>9406150
I know a guy IRL who does stuff like that. He's a dude with a six-figure salary who goes to lots of cons and splurges like crazy, including lots of buying stuff for girls, many of whom have boyfriends or husbands. I think he just really enjoys the reactions and the feeling he gets from doing it.

>> No.9406155

tfw no cgl gfs to abuse B^^(

>> No.9406156

>>9406151
Most of the Jesus I have seen people hang up is the Michelangelo Jesus so maybe I'm just only exposed to that version.

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¶ No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else hee will holde to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and Mammon.
25
Therfore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what yee shall eate, or what ye shall drinke, nor yet for your body, what yee shall put on: Is not the life more then meate? and the body then raiment?
26
Behold the foules of the aire: for they sow not, neither do they reape, nor gather into barnes, yet your heavenly father feedeth them. Are yee not much better then they?
27
Which of you by taking thought, can adde one cubite unto his stature?
28
And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lillies of the field, how they grow: they toile not, neither doe they spinne.
29
And yet I say unto you, that even Solomon in all his glory, was not arayed like one of these.
30
Wherefore, if God so clothe the grasse of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven: shall he not much more clothe you, O yee of little faith?
31
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eate? or, what shall we drinke? or wherewithall shall wee be clothed?
32
(For after all these things doe the Gentiles seeke:) for your heavenly father knoweth that ye have neede of all these things.
33
But seeke ye first the kingdome of God, and his righteousnesse, and all these things shalbe added unto you.
34
Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of it selfe: sufficient unto the day is the evill thereof.

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>>9406143
Why are you so worried about my kid sister's panties?

>> No.9406162

>>9406154
Yeah I'm sure that's exactly what you tell yourself to avoid feeling dirty every time some rich dude pays you to (metaphorically) dance for his amusement.

>> No.9406163

>>9406079
underrated feel

>> No.9406164

>>9406154
It just seems sad because imo people who do that are just setting themselves up for disappointment. The last thing you really want to do is make anything about your wealth or income. If that's really what you make it about that's all you're going to become to people. Even among friends, but that's easier to deal with than a relationship.

>> No.9406166

>>9406160
I am not worried but you should be.

>> No.9406167

>>9406154
i'd do this if i could, it's partly why i do Secret Santa threads

>>9406162
your soul is rotten, Momoko-chan

>> No.9406169

>>9406166
Worried about what? That it may disappear up her ass forever?

>> No.9406175

>>9406147
I've considered doing it before for the good feels. I wouldn't be surprised if someone more well off decided to go through with it.

>> No.9406183

>>9406169
Well for one thing, what if she gets pantsed??

>> No.9406188

>>9406183
what if a toilet seat falls from an airplane and cracks your head open?

there are so many practical reasons to never go outside without a helmet

>> No.9406189

>>9406183
That's her problem to deal with. you can spin a lot of what ifs but what anons little sister does and is allowed to doesn't concern you.

And who the hell would pants someone any more? That's usually stuff done by boys to boys in the locker room if it still happens.

>> No.9406194

>>9406175
Yeah I always buy clothes for my female friends. Shopping for girls is more fun. But buying a pricey dress for an acquaintance/stranger is a setup to get used.

>>9406067
Please get a proper fee-only adviser before your first investment goes bad

>> No.9406207

>>9406183
Very unlikely and not worth giving up the advantages of wearing thongs (no pantylines + comfiness)

>> No.9406212

>>9405839
>waaa my exgf doesn't like me anymore
>3 years of "soulsearching" and being a whiny alcoholic follow
>waaa I got rejected :((((
>minor "depression"
Jeez senpai, how empty and devoid of personality can a person be?

>> No.9406214

>>9405839
>She explains how it was both of our faults, but mainly mine that the events happened how they did.
And you didn't immediately tell her to fuck off?

>> No.9406216

How far can you go when criticizing someone's cosplay before you come off as just bitchy/jealous?
I feel like i am going too far but haven't been told off yet.

>> No.9406223

>>9406216
>bitchy
Depends how much better looking you are than them.
>jealous
Depends how much better looking they are than you.

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>>9406223
10/10
upvoted and subscribed

>> No.9406229
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> I'm 30yo. No job. No money.
> want to create my own brand to fulfill my teenage dream
> apply to get in sewing courses for adult
> got rejected for the second year in a row
> don't know what to do with my life anymore
> feelsbadman.jpg

The saddest part for me is that if I wanted to become a random secretary or a salesman, I would have had a spot. The way things are in my country don't help people to do what they want but force them to have a job that companies need.

>> No.9406240

>>9406025
>jogging
>nice body

nice meme. Jogging does not give you a nice body. Source, Pictures of people running half and full marathons all over the world. nobody looks especially "good". Weightlifting however.... whoo eeee. Sure the open classes look like shit but the weight restricted classes, Oh boy.

>> No.9406242

>>9405938
It looks so classic OTT sweet era, especially that "bittersweet" colorway. I say just get it. People who wear AP but are critical about what is and isn't "ageplay" are so fucking dumb. It's the most childish brand without competition and it all looks like ageplay.

>> No.9406243

>>9405613
We're in this together mate

>> No.9406251

>>9405885
>crazy

Pft, only crazy thing is the dedication there faggot.

>>9405880
If you don't wear braies, bloomers, and atleast keep every bit of your skin covered untill marriage you're not a real lolita. Victorian Niqabs or nothing.

>> No.9406256

>>9406061
Become a LARPer/Re-enactor, it's the only way. Though it'll mean a lot of people really aren't into the Chinese cartoons you might love those scenes are (depending on area, mind you) usually conservative or atleast form a nice middleground of older educated people than cosplay tends to be.

Only problem is that re-enactment has such fucked male:female ratio's, same goes for battleLARPs. Though most social LARPs are 1:1-1:3.
Something about the medieval period instills some good God-fearing sense into people. Religious loonies or the SJW thing is only prevalent in Nordic LARPs.

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>>9406207
How are thongs comfy?

>> No.9406286

>>9405050
I swear a variation of this story shows up in every feels thread.

>> No.9406287

>buy Rosette Collection special set at AP Osaka 3 days ago
>don't check bags until today
>look through bags and can't find headbow that comes in the set
>mfw I realize the shop girl forgot to pack the headbow with the jsk
>I'm in Korea right now
I'm actually crying gulls. I'm going to try calling the shop to see what I can do but I don't have much hope.

>> No.9406299
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How do you deal with your best friend ditching you to hang out with her bf?
Yes, i am salty.

>> No.9406303

>>9406299
Get a bf.

>> No.9406305

>>9406303
No, all guys ever want to do is fuck and sex is overrated imo.

>> No.9406306

>>9406305
What do you think your friend is preoccupied with then?

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>tfw no one is randomly buying my dream dresses for me

>> No.9406310

>>9406306
That is part of the problem. Since i don't value sex a lot i find it hard to accept she would just stop hanging out with me just so she can get the D.
I thought our friendship was stronger than that.

>> No.9406313

>>9406307
iktf anon
I'd hate having someone regularly do stuff like that for me because I'd feel guilty but some rich gull just randomly buying my dream dress sounds like such a dream come true.

>> No.9406321

>>9406310
What if I told you people can become good friends while in a relationship AND be having lots of sex. I mean if you're starting to feel lonely gull we're here for you.

>>9406307
>>9406313
Maybe I don't quite understand but the "dream dress" thing because I'm not into lolita. Are they really that expensive and does it actually make people that happy? I'm just at a loss for understanding if everyone is exaggerating the feels or being serious.

>> No.9406323

>>9406321
>starting to feel lonely
Way past the "starting" part already. I don't really have any close friends besides her so this hit me pretty hard.

>> No.9406324

>>9406321
Anon there's dresses up in the 1200 price range. Most dresses average about 200-250 on the market used. That's pretty expensive for one thing you're going to have to buy other things to go with it.

>> No.9406325

>>9406305
Anon you might be gay if you think men are like this. And your friend is who you may be in love with.

>> No.9406326

>>9406325
What are you talking about? I'm pretty sure i would know if i was sexually attracted to other girls.

>> No.9406327

>>9406324
Oh right. I hadn't considered completing the outfit and the associated effort being put into that. I'm assuming it takes quite some time to put together a full coord? Like it's almost an artistic pursuit, I suppose.

>> No.9406330

>>9406299
Get new friends. It is possible to date and still have friends. If she's not hanging out with you anymore then it's because she doesn't care to

>> No.9406331

>>9406299
is she in honeymoon phase?

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9406332

If there ever was proof for biggest bitch on the planet, here's the exchange.

Jesus Christ dude.

>> No.9406339

>>9406323
Welcome to the fucking club.

Life sucks. Losing friends is part of life. Learn to deal with it....... somehow..... Most people never find out how to deal with it and they suffer their whole lives so.... you're in a crowded boat at least.

Insofar as sex goes maybe people value things more than you value things. Maybe if you learned to value the same things in the same way you might understand why they are doing what they do.

>> No.9406343

>>9406339
>Insofar as sex goes maybe people value things more than you value things. Maybe if you learned to value the same things in the same way you might understand why they are doing what they do.
Are you literally telling me to get fucked?

>> No.9406346

>>9406258
How are frills comfy?

Different people feel comfortable in different things.

Some people like the fact that their vagoo is covered but their butt is not. I know a lot of people who would otherwise go commando wear it because it prevents unwanted camel toe whilst maintaining a still relatively commando feel.

>> No.9406350

>>9406343
Not anon you replied to but...
There comes a time in peoples lives where their friends start to disappear because of their commitments to their SO's and work. We all go through that. Pairing up with someone as more than a friend is pretty much the only way to deal with it long term. I wasn't trying to be a bitch as >>9406332 implied, but was just assuming it was what you were going through. Sorry.

>> No.9406351

>>9406350
No i am sorry. I overreacted. Just really wound up and then that other anon says i might be gay and now i am freaking out.
Maybe i should go see someone.

>> No.9406352

>>9406343
i'm suggesting that if you saw the same value in something such as sex and intimate companionship you would understand why she priotises sex and intimate relations over a non-intimate non-sexual platonic friendship.

I'm not saying you should get fucked, Only that you aren't really seeing her side of the coin.

>> No.9406353

Hey , >>9406350 it's >>9406332
I was stating that lonely gull is a shit for implying that all men want to do is fuck mindset. It's such a shitty way of looking at things when you're feeling down.

Fuck, go pick up a hobby or something. That one close friend we all have is going to disappear one of these days.

>> No.9406356

Like it's totally okay to not have friends, I don't think people realize that. It's not okay to jaded over being lonely though.

If a person is really salt over their friend being stolen by their bf, that's pretty damn petty. Which is why I say pick up a distraction. A hobby is going to have you meet more folks the more you get into it, or want to learn how to do more shit from it.

Now obviously you don't go in with that intent, that's like going to an anime con with the intention of getting a bf/gf. But you always want to meet more people in the process of learning new shit.

>> No.9406360

>>9406356
>Go do this thing to meet people
>Don't go with the intention to meet people though

This is a shit mindset. Stuff only happens because you make it happen. You have to put LOADS of effort in. And even then someone like you do come along and say some silly crap like "you don't like the hobby enough". Most people have tons of hobbies or have tried loads of hobbies. And the vast majority are doing the hobbies they fucking enjoy. Maybe the hobbies they enjoy doing though aren't helping them find new friends. Or maybe the area they are in has no community for the hobby they like.
Youre making things out to be much more simple than the reality of most adult lives.

>> No.9406374

>>9406360
Nah dude, you're over thinking it.
It's 2017, the internet exists.
You're going to find people for the shit you're into.

>> No.9406375

>>9406360
This. Being an adult has it's challenges and a lack of time to put into more hobbies and friends is one of them.

My career demands so much from me that I no longer have time to maintain superfluous relationships. I'd need to dedicate what little time I have left to a single person and going to a convention is a good way to meet people who would share my interests. I'd prefer not to be with someone I meet through my work, because I want it entirely separate from my personal life and it's a heavily male field anyways, A convention is an ideal social situation for trying to spark something up with another nerd, and it lets me get a feel for people before making any serious commitments of time. Or rather, it's easier to meet a few people at a con than trying to shake down dating websites for getting coffee dates with people.

>> No.9406377

>>9406375
and what kind of high demanding career would that be?

>> No.9406380

>>9406377
Not relevant to the explanation. There are a ton of careers that demand absurd hours. Just take your pick.

>> No.9406383

>>9406380
so because you can't manage a job and social life at the same time you are just gonna claim you work some "mysterious demanding job"?
are you a surgeon? a lawyer? a pilot?
those are jobs that are demanding, i'm sure yours isn't. stop trying to show off.

>> No.9406384

>>9406383
>anonymous board
>showing off
lol okay

>> No.9406385

>>9406375
You think of friendships as "superfluous relationships?" I can't imagine relying on one person to fulfil all your emotional/social needs. You would need the perfect match, and even then, it could get draining.

>>9406380
I mean, it is relevant. There are travel-heavy careers, ones with sales/billing targets, jobs with crunch time, physically exhausting jobs, workplaces where long hours are the culture... a job can be demanding in a lot of different ways, and they all have a different kind of impact on your social life.

>> No.9406389

>>9406380
>Not relevant to the explanation. There are a ton of careers that demand absurd hours. Just take your pick.
How so? I work in PR and I would say it is very demanding and yet I find the time for friends and relationships. So what kind of job are you working that leaves you unable to maintain any at all?

>> No.9406393

>>9406321
Dream dresses don't have to be expensive, it depends on what they are since some pieces and brands are more coveted and difficult to find than others. Either way, the excitement you often see in dream dress threads is genuine, finding and buying a dress you dreamed about for a long time is pretty satisfying.

>> No.9406398

>>9406313
Le not at all men meme.

In all honesty though, lots of guys want to do more than just fuck. Might try looking into getting more normie friends funnily enough. As you're (hopefully) not underage normies are easily getting past the "I want to fuck everything" stage and growing into a mature well-rounded adult.

Contrary to a lot of nerds who still haven't had a shag and are dying to explore that world.

>> No.9406400
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>>9406398
>normies don't want to have sex all the time
Anon, I...

>> No.9406401

>>9406400
What kind of weird normies do you hang out with that all they care about the human interaction with the other sex is sex?
Are you 16?

And I'm not saying they don't want a shag, I'm saying it's not about. They might scream it is like that to look cool to their bros, but it usually isn't.

>> No.9406416

>>9406287
They might be able to send it to your home address. Please keep us updated. If things get really bad maybe a Kansai lolita can pick it up and ship it out to you.

>> No.9406423

You should join our Discord and share your your feels there too. https://discord.gg/aYag3Jd

>> No.9406425

My Korean language professor found out I wore lolita and insisted I wear it to their Korean heritage night. I didn't want to because 1) it's a Korean heritage night and 2) I don't want to make a spectacle of myself. I have to volunteer for the event and she is repeatedly sending me emails bullying me into wearing what she calls "princess costumes" to amuse and entertain the children. I've explained to her time and time again that they aren't princess costumes and they're not to entertain children, it's a genuine hobby. This morning, I received an email telling me that she talked it over with the other staff of the event and that they don't care if it's offensive, it will make the children happy and that they expect to see a princess there tomorrow. I seriously want to scream because I'm not some sort of Disney party princess and I'm not a clown for hire. I find it really inappropriate that she's emailed me several times trying to harass me into wearing expensive clothing to entertain children. On top of that, she wants me to face paint which is already dangerous enough in terms of spilling. I have no idea how to get out of this and the more I think about how she insists they're princess costumes for children, the angrier I get.

>> No.9406428

>>9406423
You can fuck right off.

>discord full of awful type of shitposting, "maymays" and being an r9k discord

None of it has to do with cgl.
Most disgusted 2 minutes of my life.

>> No.9406431

>>9406425
Just don't do it anon. Go in clothing appropriate for the event and avoid your professor. That's just so awkward and really awfully tasteless of her honestly.

>> No.9406432

>>9406425
>I have to volunteer for the event
Why?
>I don't want to go in my lolita
So don't?

I mean... it all seems so straightforward, I don't... I don't see what the problem is.
>b-but she!
No
>but, I..
No
Just don't do it if you don't want it, lmao

>> No.9406434

>>9406423
>>9406428
>pepe icon
what
here's an actual /cgl/ discord https://discord.gg/qPs3Pqx it's kinda ded tho

>> No.9406435

>>9405857
I can't have too much elastic or bands around my waist otherwise I can't breathe and then puke. How bout' you drop your shitty standards? I'd rather wear pajama bottoms under my coords, though if you're opposed I'll just puke all over your brand I guess.

>> No.9406437

>>9406434
There's another one which is pretty decent. If only that damn LARPfag would stop shitting it up.

.t the sole LARPfag in it

>> No.9406440
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9406440

>Been sewing a costume with a lot of ruffles
>Gather with the longest stitch
>No more ruffles to gather
>Almost finished
>Realize I've forgot to shorten the stitch

I don't know should I just let it be or sew the seams again

>> No.9406441

>>9406432
Volunteer isn't the right word. I'm forced to volunteer for class credit. We have to have 8 hours of volunteering for Korean events to pass. She literally CC'd me on the email to every staff member and I had to email them all back to tell them that I wouldn't be wearing it. It just seems ridiculous that, of all the other dozens of students attending this, she's choosing to single me out.

>> No.9406442

>>9406432
Chill anon it's the feels thread. Also if I had to guess she probably has to volunteer for class credit, I had a couple courses like that in uni.

>> No.9406444

>>9406425
If you really really don't want to disappoint your professor by not going you could purchase the most atrocious milanoo monstrocity for like 10 bucks and wear it. No normie would care and if she does notice it's bad quality just tell her this was what came up when you searched ebay for "princess costume" and you tried your best to make her happy.

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9406445

>>9406441
Maybe she thinks you're qt and wants to get all up in that in the lolita dress.

You should talk to her.
Tell her to lean in reeeeeeeeeeal close
Whisper just under your breath the first time til she really leans in
And say

"Fuck off"

>> No.9406446

>>9406431
Yeah, I already emailed her back telling her I sent my dresses to dry cleaning and wouldn't have them available. I also agree that it's pretty tasteless since, despite me telling her I didn't want to and I'd rather wear comfortable clothing to volunteer, she's sent me multiple emails telling me I have to wear princess costumes.

>>9406442
Yeah, that's correct. I'm required to work the event for class credit. It already sucks that I have to spend a Saturday doing it but all of this is really the cherry on top.

>> No.9406447

>>9406086
How does it feel having no independent qualities and knowing that when you're in your 40s to grandma ages you can have nursing homes wipe your ass for you instead?

>> No.9406449

>>9406435
Are you new? This is obviously just bait. Lurk more.
That said, how can your ita ass wear a petticoat or skirt when you can't have bands around your waist?

>> No.9406450

>>9406425
Go to a cheap store and but the cheapest princess costume you can find

Heresyourfuckingprincess.jpg

>> No.9406454

>>9406449
I guess you have no reading comprehension. One loose petticoat band is not doubled up with a petticoat band, bands from bloomers and possible pushing in from tights. I'm not new, but I do have awful breathing and heart problems. If you're saying someone is an ita for wanting to be as comfortable as possible in already restrictive clothes with their cornucopia of health issues then you're the sort of person people roll their eyes at. "Lolita is a lifestyle hurrrrr !!111" we get it, you think you're special. Run off now and whine elsewhere.

>> No.9406457

>>9406454
Calm down girl.

>> No.9406465

>tfw you know wearing stripper shoes for cosplay is a bad idea because you have unstable joints and could injure yourself
>tfw you're gonna do it anyway because you're Sheryl Nome trash and she's the personification of the SHOES, OH MY GOD video

I mean. If I had more money than God and was raised in an alley on the most polluted piece of shit colony ship ever built I'd buy all the weird shoes I wanted too.

>> No.9406467

i don't get why people find it so hard to stay skinny unless they have medical issues that make them fat or whatever. how hard is it to just eat when you feel hungry and stop when you don't? i'm tired of fatty-chans complaining about how brand sizing doesn't cater to them. the ones i know are always talking about losing weight but they never actually do it. how lazy and entitled can you be?

>> No.9406470

>>9406425
Don't go in lolita clothing; just buy or rent a literal Disney Princess™ or a knock-off princessy frilly ballgown outfit complete with a shitty plastic tiara and go in that.

Just absolutely do not wear expensive clothing to entertaining children. No.

>she wants me to face paint
Jesus what the hell.

>> No.9406471

>>9406467
This.
Being reasonably thin is not difficult.

>> No.9406474

>>9406445
>>9406432
Anon your "advice" seems to be the type that'd get princesslarp anon into deep shit with the entire faculty and have her branded as a "disrespectful troublemaker", which would reflect very negatively on her grades.

It's not a McJob, it probably actually matters if the people grading her hate her or not

>> No.9406478

>>9406471
It's way easier to stay thin than it is to get thin from fat

>> No.9406479

>>9406467
>how hard is it to just eat when you feel hungry and stop when you don't?
well some people have their sense of hunger messed up by constant grazing for years or being overweight. Relying on the "just eat when you're hungry" only works when you're clearly able to recognise when you're actually hungry and not just feeling like you want to munch on something out of habit. It's easy and natural for people who've always had good eating habits and discipline, but might not be that way for others, so it's not a guideline that works for everyone.

Also if one's gotten accustomed to comfort eating etc it can be hard to stick to a healthy diet, especially if one was brought up in a shit home that instilled unhealthy food habits in them.

However in general, yeah, just eating a) less and b) healthier isn't that impossible at all

>> No.9406480

>>9406474
So if her teacher asks her to bark like a dog and hop around, she should?

As long as she's doing the volunteer work for the credit, it shouldn't matter if she's wearing the lolita dress or not. She's following what she's supposed to be doing and not bending over backwards for wild requests from the teachers.

The other anons suggesting the cheap dresses had great ideas, and I agree with them. However it turns out, she doesn't have follow through with completely unreasonable requests as the ones her teacher suggested.

>> No.9406481

>>9406478
>>9406479
Stop making excuses.
Stop eating.
Start excercising.

>> No.9406482

>>9406478
shouldn't have gotten fat in the first place

>> No.9406483

>>9406481
I fit brand and it's easy to maintain but it was a pain in the ass to get there. Don't be a cunt.

>> No.9406485

>>9406483
>fit brand

it's not even hard to fit into most brands though, it's not an accomplishment. everybody should be able to. now maybe it you could fit into some of the smallest VM that would matter, but AP, baby, and meta are all catering to fatties

>> No.9406486

>>9406483
Fat people tick me off. When i'm at the gym with my bf i always see how hard he works to stay ripped and all i have to do is some cardio. Fat people can't even spare the little time it takes to do some cardio every day.

>> No.9406492

>bf finally decides he wants to cosplay with me
>do big taobao order about a month ago
>get message today that everything's arrived except his costume, which has been cancelled because the seller's come out and said they're not making it any more
>only seller of that costume
>not sure if can afford to commission, way out of my skill set
>bf's spent $$$ on a wig and making a really nice prop for it, was so excited
>telling him it was cancelled felt like kicking a puppy
Hopefully it'll be okay because I've managed to find an aliexpress seller of the same costume but it's a lot more than the original costume and it looks worse quality. Fuck, though, I wanted his first cosplay to be a fun stress free time.

>> No.9406494

>>9406485
Yeah the sweet brands go real huge and it's not really an achievement. I don't fit all VM but lots of it.

But more like, if you haven't lost a bunch of weight and everyone is telling you it's hard, who are you to say it's easy? You haven't done it...

>> No.9406500

>>9406494
i haven't done it but my SO has and so have some of the girls i know who are actually trying. they all said it was easy once you start making it a habit. it looks like people are just making excuses and blaming brands for not fitting them. if you agree with me i really don't get what you're trying to prove.

>> No.9406501

>>9406494
It's also not hard to stay thin??

>> No.9406502

>>9406494
>i don't fit all VM but lots of it
anon said the smallest, a lot of VM has a 27 inch waist. that's still chubby/fat unless you're exceptionally tall

>> No.9406511

>>9405129
>girls will forever date men like this

fucking kek

>> No.9406513

>>9406481
I'm not fat (started to gain weight at some point and nipped that shit in the bud tho) and am exercising, but if you don't get that just because staying thin is relatively easy and effortless for you, it's different for people who may never have eaten healthily in their life due to the circumstances they grew up in, you're not very smart.

It's easier to keep following healthy habits you've always had than it is to break out of bad ones and learn completely new, foreign habits. The circumstances you're brought up in affect a lot of stuff, from how you approach books, education, life goals and society to how you approach food. "Normal" depends a whole lot on what sort of parents do you happen to have.

Stop being an obtuse bitch.

>> No.9406517

>>9406513
Don't call me a bitch, bitch.

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9406518

>>9405582
Oh nice, those look like AKG's she's wearing. maybe the k702's?

Looks like my kinda gal.

>> No.9406521

>>9405604
Because washing your face all the time is bad for your skin. You strop your natural oils and damage it. I do a water only shower 2 days and soap shower every third. Skin had been radiant since.

Showering everyday is only a VERY recent cultural thing. You really don't need to, and shouldn't, unless you're a fucking football player or something

>> No.9406523

>>9406480
Hey everybody. I ended up emailing her and telling her that my dresses were getting dry cleaned since when I told her I didn't want to do it before, I assumed it was the end of the conversation and sent them to be cleaned. She was upset and asked if I could get one of them back because now the staff expected a princess to show up. I just told her that it wasn't possible and that I'd be happy to wear some of my more decadent Liz Lisa clothes (this I don't mind since I wear Liz Lisa on my off days). She eventually gave up and sent me a defeated, passive aggressive email about how she's disappointed but at least I can still face paint. Whatever. I'm over it now and I'll be glad when I'm out of her class. Thank you all for the support and advice though. Feels good to know I wasn't going crazy thinking she was being a tad bit entitled to say the least.

>> No.9406529

>>9406486
>durr the key to not being fat is exercising, if only they bothered to exercise a little bit they'd stop being fat

The key to not being fat is controlling what and how much you eat, not exercising. It's very easy to stuff your face with so many calories it'd take several hours daily in the gym, or all day every day, to work that shit off.

Going around telling people retarded shit like "hurr just eat whenever you're hungry till you're not hungry any more, and then just exercise a few times a week for a bit you'll be thin it's easy" is just feeding them misinformation.

You control weight through calorie intake, and muscle tone and general fitness through exercising.
For example, my aunt is one of the more active people I know, yet despite exercising every day she's still fat because she loves to cook and drink wine and puts a lot of cream etc in everything she makes, and on the other hand I myself lost a ton of weight when I broke my leg and was stuck on the sofa at my parents and ate strictly according to their meal schedule, because I couldn't open the fridge or prepare stuff while on crutches.

This is not the same as saying "fat people can't help being fat baaww", obviously they can they just need to eat less. But I'm really sick of the "just start exercising, that'll do it badabing" crap

>> No.9406532

>>9406529
>excercise has nothing to do with being fat
LMAO

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