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Feels thread Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:28:47 2017 No.9341641 [Reply] [Original]

Last thread. >>9338466

Let's try to derail this one a little less. Okay, gulls?

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:36:07 2017 No.9341647 reminder not to respond to trolls. if you like swallowing bait go to another board, everybody rolls their eyes when you newfags engage.

Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:46:54 2017 No.9341658

lowkey getting kicked out of my house by one roommate finding me "too triggering uwu". Meanwhile other roommate is slashing her arms everyday but they've bonded over Pokemon. Feel ostracised and depressed, had a cry today.
At least I can cry into my itabag I'm slowly building my itabags to heal my woes.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:48:58 2017 No.9341660 >>9341658 No punctuation in this at all, thanks phone. Sorry lol.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:49:52 2017 No.9341661 >>9341658 Sounds like you'll be better outta there, Anon.

>>	Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:51:24 2017 No.9341664 >>9341658 Quit being anti social and play pokemon with everyone.

Anonymous Thu Feb 2 23:53:39 2017 No.9341665
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>sewing cute OP
>using seam ripped to get rid of basting stitches from making sure the bodice fit
>watching YouTube and halfway paying attention, rip out basting stitches all the time
>la dee dah
>RRIIIPPP
>ripped clean through the fabric
>outside seam allowance
>on front of bodice
>shit was $10 a yard
>was scared to use it in the first place
>been sobbing ever since

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:03:43 2017 No.9341670

>>9341664
I try. Hate the atmosphere and I like being on my own sometimes. A lot has happened in the house before this and I've been used, ostracised and then blamed. ive put on a fake smile and I can't keep doing that lol.
considering writing a letter to put it under her door. Sure it'll probably cause a slew of shitty Facebook posts but I won't have to confront her.

tldr: I'm a shut in. That's not liked even though their all shut ins.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:04:18 2017 No.9341672 >>9341665 You will need what, a quarter yard at most to recut the bodice panel? Don't cry anon it'll be okay

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:05:44 2017 No.9341675 File: 1.96 MB, 286x400, froggirl.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] Mfw my friend wants me to make her a white Chun-Li costume for her wedding.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:25:52 2017 No.9341686 File: 468 KB, 500x281, IMG_2453.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9341672 I know.. It's so embarrassing that I made such a careless mistake and messed up my first go at nice, pricey fabric

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:44:32 2017 No.9341707

>like lolita
>buy lots of brand
>wear lolita a lot
>be more visible on SM
>people shit talk behind my back
>go on a hiatus from wearing lolita
>return to wearing lolita
>be less visible on SM
>people still shit talk behind my back

Either people really have no lives or they're jealous so they go after other people who they believe are better. I'm getting tired of it and I'm starting to wonder if I need narcissism. I just want to share to other lolitas that I like wearing lolita on SM. Don't need a solution here.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 00:53:24 2017 No.9341715 >>9341707 They're either jealous or you did something to royally piss them all off.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:07:04 2017 No.9341727 >>9341707 >SM ?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:07:40 2017 No.9341730 >>9341727 Social Media

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:12:05 2017 No.9341734
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>>9341707
Are you me? Except I'm a little newer to the fashion and I haven't taken a real hiatus.
>be me
>like the look of lolita
>buy a lot of brand
>coordinate well enough, not ita at least
>become more visible, expand social circle
>cue the oncoming shitstorm
>"people only like her because she's asian"
>"she didn't approach me at suchandsuch event, what a bitch"
>"she doesn't deserve [insert accomplishment or item here]"
>mfw

I've come to the conclusion that no matter how nice you are, or how well you dress, there will always be people who want to get in your head for some reason or another. Don't let people like that scare you off.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:15:55 2017 No.9341738 >>9341686 what exactly are you trying to b8 right now

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:18:56 2017 No.9341741 >>9341738 .. nothing?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:25:34 2017 No.9341747 >>9341675 Fuck weddings. I went to my sister's friend's and she kicked me tf out for wearing my own wedding dress. I was fucking pissed.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:32:53 2017 No.9341755 Did you know CGL has the lowest overall IQ of any 4chan board along with x b and mlp?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:38:52 2017 No.9341760 >>9341747 >I went to my sister's friend's and she kicked me tf out for wearing my own wedding dress. Kek, you retard.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 01:41:59 2017 No.9341764 >>9341747 Seriously, fuck brides who think the entire day revolves around them.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 02:34:25 2017 No.9341799

more of a question than a feel, but why do some people from other lolita styles feel like it's okay to openly shit on sweet lolita to my face when i'm a sweet? it's just really rude. they don't hear me dissing classic or gothic and i congratulate them when they buy something they really want. but when i buy a piece i've really been wanting, all i get is "i don't care" or "lol sweet is garbage."

what the fuck?

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 02:47:47 2017 No.9341809

>>9341799
A lot of oldfags look down on sweet because it's the style that many of them started with when they began wearing lolita, many of which going through their own ita phase while in it, and as they've matured they've grown to resent sweet. It also comes down to the fact that sweet is by far the most popular style, so there's gonna be a lot of hate consistently directed toward it. People also use the ""ugh age play"" argument regularly for those who still wear pastel/ott sweet prints, so I think some may view sweet in that sense to give off a childish vibe, which in turn labels the rest of the community negatively.

I personally have no problem wearing ott sweet to run errands, but it'd be impossible for me to bring myself to wear anything similar to a meet, especially considering I'm one of very few sweet lolitas in my community.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 02:48:24 2017 No.9341811
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>>9341641
>Making a costume where I need to make some boot covers
>Using a black faux leather
>First side I made went fine. They look pretty decent.
>Next side. I think I'll film a tutorial since I haven't found any for these particular boots.
>Everything has gone wrong.
>Every fucking time I mess up I have to cut out some more from the leather
>tfw this is my third time cutting out more
>tfw I hate leather and the feeling of "hey I think this went okay" to turn it over and find that something shifted and I have to do it all over again.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 02:59:47 2017 No.9341818

>>9341809
ah, i see where you're coming from. i just feel like there's no excuse for blatant rudeness no matter how you feel about a style. saying things like "i don't care" just comes off as really unnecessary and mean, especially when i try to be excited for them and support them all the time.

i guess that's just the way it's going to be, though. thanks for the perspective!

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 03:50:05 2017 No.9341846

>>9341799
>>9341809

As someone who's been into lolita since 2006, it's so weird to see girls who came in after 2010 not being labelled as newbies, let alone actually referred to as oldfags. The really old oldfags were looking at AP and btssb long before "sweet is ageplay" trolls came along, they have no such associations.

OP, I think either your comm is young and immature, or they plain don't like you. You're right, it's blatantly rude, so either they're young and haven't quite figured out manners, or they're actively trying to piss you off. Kinda sucks if your whole comm is like that, maybe speak to mod and get them to step in to tone things down?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 16:49:31 2017 No.9342496 File: 498 KB, 495x371, tumblr_m37g8zKmit1qk3mbxo4_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9340041 The lot I wanted sold.. and they listed another cheaper one with a few things I liked better. So I did it. I'm so anxious and excited.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 16:57:51 2017 No.9342505 File: 23 KB, 231x315, mostembarrassing.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9341799 Your comm's just full of bitches. Tell them to fuck off and go lone. Pic related.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:08:01 2017 No.9342520 >>9342496 Congrats anon! Hope you share your coords where we can see them! Also don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:10:17 2017 No.9342522 >>9342520 I.. will need it. Would coord help posts being better in the help thread or the Lolita general?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:12:08 2017 No.9342525 >>9341747 >wearing a wedding dress to someone else's wedding Are you literally retarded? Honest question because it's the only way I can see for someone to think that would be okay

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:14:53 2017 No.9342533 >>9342522 Depends on the question. If its something like, "What's the quality of X brand?" or "How do I order from X?", lolita general. If its like, "Do these socks match this dress?" or "What kind of headwear should I go with?", go with coord help.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:24:08 2017 No.9342554 >>9342533 Would it be acceptable to post pictures of what I got/items I own for recommendations of what to combine?

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:28:29 2017 No.9342557

>>9342554
Totally. People will be more willing to help you if you show that you've put some effort in yourself (ie, "I was thinking that the blouse I got would go well with the red skirt, what do you think?") rather than just asking to be spoonfed. Make a collage of what you've got and start asking questions.

At the risk of repeating what you've already been told, make sure you check out the lolitahandbook on tumblr. Its a pretty comprehensive guide for the basic.

I'd also highly recommend starting to curate an inspo folder, either on your computer/phone or on pinterest/tumblr. It will help as you build coords as you get more pieces.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:30:31 2017 No.9342561

>>9341799
If they are saying it to your face or in neutral territory (i.e. not a private account) then don't worry, you aren't the only one who thinks they come across as rude cunts.

People who openly complain about things like that look like they grew up in a barn when it comes to social etiquette and most people around them are making fun of them quietly.

If they say it to your face, you can calmly say "Well I like ott sweet, is that a problem?" or "So you think my clothes are garbage/I'm into ageplay?" Whatever is echoing their words back at them.

When you ask them a question that puts it on the spot, it sometimes makes them realize what a shithead they are being.

That said, well done ott sweet and sweet are absolutely charming and most people love it. The ones who don't are typically ugly/fat who feel the need to spread their negativity.

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:30:34 2017 No.9342562 >>9342557 It's all old school, since that's been my favorite (since I got interested in the fashion around age 11) and I think I have a basic understanding, but I will definitely bring my posts over to the coord help thread! Thank you so much anon.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 17:42:19 2017 No.9342574

Why do people feel the need to ask you about shipping for an item, and then never say anything else after you give them a quote? If you're not interested, just fucking say something so I'm not waiting around. It happens like 9 out of 10 times when people comment on my sales posts; it's so frustrating.

Don't even get me started on the people who ask you to hold until a certain date, and when you message them after that date, they never respond. I'm so fed up with unresponsive potential buyers.

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 18:10:42 2017 No.9342604

>>9342574
This is me right now ugh! I was so hopeful about finally getting rid of one of my dresses but it's been two days since I replied with the shipping quote..

On the same dress a few months ago I had someone make an offer and when I replied saying okay they just never got back to me. What the heck man...

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 18:14:53 2017 No.9342609 >>9342574 On the flip side, it drives me crazy when I message sellers to negotiate a lower price and they never respond or respond weeks later. Do you want to sell stuff or not?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 18:49:05 2017 No.9342642 >>9341755 then what board has the highest IQ?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 19:47:33 2017 No.9342681 >>9341755 Source?

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 20:40:53 2017 No.9342737 File: 21 KB, 250x250, 1482759590946.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9341747 >wearing a wedding dress to someone else's wedding

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 21:06:54 2017 No.9342760 >Tfw get lucky packs >Tfw just resell everything for profits unless my GF wants something I just give it to her It's so EZ to make money off lolita lmao

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 21:18:55 2017 No.9342764 >>9342760 I want to be your gf

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 21:54:35 2017 No.9342801 >>9342764 How tall and skinny are you

Anonymous Fri Feb 3 21:56:38 2017 No.9342804

That annoying feeling when I know I'm getting a grand or more back from the government and this week has been hell, I agreed to work extra hours every day and picked up a day, all while State was reviewing the facility I work in so management was so far up my ass they should have bought me dinner, so have a couple hundred in over time coming my way... but I don't have it yet and all I want to do is blow money on Lolita to make me feel better. I keep looking through listings and then getting angry because I don't have the money now

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 3 22:12:49 2017 No.9342818 >>9341647 >you think you can prevent stupidity. You're the newfag

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 01:12:38 2017 No.9342938
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>getting pumped up for first local meet tomorrow
>check out the event page and scope out who else is going
>neckbeard ouji ita shoehorning himself into an otherwise well-dressed and female event
>mfw

why does there always have to be that one person

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 01:23:06 2017 No.9342952 >>9342938 >>neckbeard ouji ita put a bag of razors on top of his car

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 01:56:32 2017 No.9342992

I've come to the realization I'm going to probably break up with my boyfriend of 2 years some time this year. The first and only time he's told me "I love you" was on my birthday (in 2015), and he confessed that he was a) drunk b) felt awkward saying it and regretted saying it afterward, and also forgot until I mentioned it again because he was drunk

I tried to act like I could get past knowing this but we're coming up on our 2 year anniversary soon, and I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who can't do the bare minimum of returning my feelings...I'm going to say "I love you" on our anniversary, and if he doesn't say it back or he makes some kind of excuse ("I've never loved anyone before so I don't know what it's like", "I'm just in a bad life situation", etc.), then I'll know breaking up is the best decision for us both. It's not fair for either of us to keep it going.

It really really hurts though...really like this guy, but...

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:07:07 2017 No.9343008 Serious question here. Does anyone have any experience with sugar daddy's to get money for lolita/Jfashion? I'm open minded and I've always been thinking about it. How much do they give you?

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:07:46 2017 No.9343010 File: 60 KB, 480x640, frillex.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I'm so excited. I'm going to my first tea in ages, but I'm nervous because I'll be introducing a very awkward friend to my comm. She wants to wear a Trump pin, for example.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:18:23 2017 No.9343025 >>9343010 I'm interested to see how she incorporates it into her coord.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:35:13 2017 No.9343041 >>9342938 been forever since I've seen fgsfds thanks for the blast from the past. signed, a neckbeard.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:44:12 2017 No.9343045 >>9343010 eek, be prepared for torches and pitchforks now that it's ok to "punch a nazi" among progressives.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:45:01 2017 No.9343046

>>9343008
Hey, how much they give you is entirely dependant on who they are, how much they make, and what you give them. My sugar daddy doesn't pay me much but all I do is roleplay his girlfriend every weekend with nothing sexual aside from flirting. I get about $100 a month and mg boyfriend doesn't care. My sugar daddy doesn't know I have a boyfriend, otherwise he'd probably call it off since I'm sure he's hoping I fall for him during our pretend sessions.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 02:49:12 2017 No.9343049

>>9341665
in the future. use the ripper to break one of the stitches then pull the bobbin thread like youre gathering, pull as much of it as you can then snap the thread and continue till youve got it all. seam rippers arent meant to be used the way youre using them unless the stitches are such a short length you cant do it the way mentioned above.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 03:29:46 2017 No.9343058 >>9343010 >lolita >right wing is your friend single?

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 03:32:53 2017 No.9343059 >>9343008 Maybe you should get a decent job so you can do things on your own for once you lazy sack of meat plus ur probably not even QT

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 03:41:13 2017 No.9343062 File: 34 KB, 450x500, franklinfail.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >tfw about to shell out $120 on eBay for a pre-made China cosplay I feel like such a fucking scrub.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:24:54 2017 No.9343091 >>9343062 You can still not buy it you know.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:28:44 2017 No.9343093

>>9342992
Uneven affections are a great way to have completely unfulfilling relationships it is in your best interest to change if you don't see there being a hint of change from his part.
It's one thing to not were change its another for him to not even bother trying.

If he doesn't reflect your feelings drop him.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:29:57 2017 No.9343095 File: 470 KB, 500x221, tumblr_ltv5x7O9QW1r5um5ko1_500.gif [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >go to some party in lolita >some dude sees me >looks at me wide eyed "you're a seagull, arent you" >my fucking face

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:37:03 2017 No.9343099 >>9341764 did you not read the part where she wore a wedding dress........ to someone else's wedding.......

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:37:33 2017 No.9343100

>>9343008
>hey i'm open minded anybody got any tips about how best to liquidise meth so i can put it in my ass with an enema in tonight's polyamorous 17-way homosexual-exclusive protectionless orgy during a protestant church procession feels so good not be a closed minded bigot

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 04:39:30 2017 No.9343102 >>9341755 Yes anon I will believe your completely unsubstantiated claims. You truly are enlightening.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:07:30 2017 No.9343117 >>9343095 you cant just not tell us the rest

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:09:29 2017 No.9343120 >>9343117 that's all there is too it - anon just said "mfw" and then carried on doing what she was doing before and thought that her response was socially adequate

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:18:02 2017 No.9343124

>>9343093
I'm probably just going to say "I love you. What are your feelings towards me?" and if it's anything other than "I love you, too" I'll just ask plainly "do you ever see yourself loving me, in the next year? 5 years? 10? ever?" to hopefully make him see that it's ludicrous to be in a relationship for as long as we have, without feeling the same way back.
this sucks, there's no good time to have this discussion but I don't want to be in that kind of a relationship. We have so many fun trips planned throughout the year, but...ugh...

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:22:57 2017 No.9343127 >>9343046 Your boyfriend has a literal cuck fetish

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:50:52 2017 No.9343133 I wish I was dead. Also, I wish everybody else in the world was also dead. Super massive black hole swallowing the solar system fucking when?

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:52:42 2017 No.9343135 >>9343133 why does it matter if everyone else dies?

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 05:54:46 2017 No.9343137 >>9343135 Because if I can't be happy, I don't want anybody else to be happy.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 06:00:09 2017 No.9343139 >>9343137 edgy

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 06:13:27 2017 No.9343140 >>9343133 You should try jumping off a building bud

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 06:37:07 2017 No.9343147 >most perfect cape appears in Sheglit sample sale >'sorry anon, we will be putting it online' >keep checking on it, try to buy as soon as it appears >SOLD OUT I'm getting too old for this.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 07:04:18 2017 No.9343162 >my thread header being used >a good feel

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 08:05:33 2017 No.9343186

>>9343046
>$100 a month

That's chump change lmao. You're just like all the dumb girls I know who never shut the hell up about their sugar daddies when they never have anything to show for it.

t. somebody too good to sell herself out and still makes way more money than you

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 10:06:01 2017 No.9343239

>>9343186
Not OP but you know you'd get more stuff if you got a SD. I have a job that lays for most of my brand but my SD gives me enough for extra. He has a niche fetish that doesn't involve nudity though, so I usually just need to run bananas under my armpit for him on webcam while moaning and it's enough.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 10:14:59 2017 No.9343245
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I'm a pretty anxious person.
I love lolita, I really do, but sometimes I can even get ridiculously stressed about that in a "Oh god I still need this blouse/more socks/...to make my wardrobe better/coord decently with this piece/...", "Oh god I don't know what to wear at this meeting,I want to take a pic but my wardrobe is still small and I don't want to repeat myself/be boring",... I delete my coord pics/selfies every once in a while. I like them at the beginning but the more i look at it the more i see flaws and things i don't like and eventually i delete it.
How can I escape from this hell?

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 10:29:40 2017 No.9343257
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>>9343133
kek not for another 36 billion years, our galaxy will collide with Andromeda before the latent heat death of the universe. And before that our sun will exhaust its hydrogen and consume its helium supply consuming all planets within the Asteroid belt but again only in a good couple million years or so. See pic related for quick death.

hey wait a min... this isn't were I parked my /sci thread..

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 10:36:18 2017 No.9343259 >>9343245 Get off this toxic waste dump of a site

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 11:16:52 2017 No.9343271 >>9343049 Thanks for the advice, I'll definitely be doing that from now on.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 11:21:02 2017 No.9343275 >>9343046 you should consider doing the math on how much that actually is per hour and maybe up your price. value your time. if he's hoping you'll fall for him he'll still pay it

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 11:32:26 2017 No.9343282

>>9343257
When the Milky Way and Andromeda collide not a whole hell of a lot is going to happen, there's so much empty space within galaxies that the chances of Earth colliding with something is pretty damn minuscule. Is suicidal/homicidal anon wants some kind of catastrophic death I'd say a better choice that's more destructive is if a Magnetar decided to pay our neck of the woods a visit. Before anything like that though I'm sure Yellowstone will go, and if it's a horrific enough of an eruption it could throw us into darkness, slowly killing us by depleting our resources and dismantling society. Or Jupiter could stop doing its job and suddenly hurl a giant ass asteroid at our face.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 11:51:39 2017 No.9343291 >>9343062 Check aliexpress first!

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 12:18:28 2017 No.9343309 >>9343257 >>9343282 >hurl a giant ass asteroid at our face In about 1.5 million years another star is scheduled to pass through our solar system, dragging a bunch of crap with it. RIP Earth.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 12:56:02 2017 No.9343329 >>9343099 I did, but I seem to have missed the part where she walked down the aisle and tried to kiss the groom.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 13:56:50 2017 No.9343392

>>9343309
It's 2010 all over again lol
>>9343133
Don't worry anon, you and everyone else is going to die sooner than that. We're all going to die from antibiotic-resistant superbugs from abusing antibiotics the past 20 years. There's already a super fungal infection starting to pop out, so just sit back and wait <3

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 17:59:26 2017 No.9343702

>>9343124
Tough conversations are more important than pointless yamering. If he can't have a tough conversation he doesn't deserve to be with you.
>>9343282
Even IF Yellowstone erupted there is no guarantee it would be catastrophic and it could be completely inert for thousand of years more. Sure it could erupted tomorrow but more likely it won't happen for another 20,000 years. And even if it did erupt doesn't mean that it would cause widespread panic. The last super big eruption only caused the moon to go red for a bit and not a whole lot else.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 18:45:04 2017 No.9343737

>>9343702
I'm not saying that Yellowstone is going to be catastrophic, but it has the potential to be. And that going is a hell of a lot sooner than the heat death of the universe. I think Yellowstone going would definitely cause widespread panic in the US, and who knows if we would get a long enough warning ahead of time to properly evacuate the blast zone

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:12:24 2017 No.9343851 >>9341647 replies to u

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:13:22 2017 No.9343853
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>be beginner brolita with a decent wardrobe but no opportunity to wear any of it
>finally got around to making a side fb account so I could join lolita groups and hopefully get to take it a little more seriously
>join an update group, CoF, a sales group, etc
>request to join page for my local comm
>a month later, finally message a mod asking if I've misunderstood/if there's anything I need to do
>she replies saying that they're not accepting new members because they have too many inactive members
>what?
>thank her anyway
>wish I lived in the same city as my few lolita friends so I could attend meets/events with them
>oh well

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:42:32 2017 No.9343913 File: 46 KB, 500x353, 1457167772909.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] I'm a shy, gentle, sweet lolita but deep down I'm very sexually dominant and I want nothing more than a cute sub boy to boss around and tease all day

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:49:22 2017 No.9343919 File: 84 KB, 547x720, dontunderstandtraps.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9343291 I did, but I didn't find anything cheaper. Thanks for your concern anyway. >>9343091 But then I'd have to MAKE a female Breath of the Wild Link cosplay.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:50:08 2017 No.9343920 File: 140 KB, 480x640, aaabs.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] tfw your just a stupid slut

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:50:36 2017 No.9343921
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>>9341641
>Friend returns from Japan, I'd asked her to buy me a dress and she fell in love with Baby and AaTP's stuff
>Lend her a coord for a convention because she'd left her cosplays at her parents' small town home hours away
>Loves it
>Her boyfriend (another friend of mine) comes to me in private and asks me to encourage her to get into the fashion because of how happy she'd been wearing the borrowed coord
>Try my best, show her dresses I think she'd like for very good deals
>She talks about how she likes things but never buys anything or takes more steps into the fashion
>You can't force someone but I wonder what the point of my searching was

I guess I should just let go of this pipe dream of getting a friend into lolita but man I thought she wanted to go for it.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 20:59:42 2017 No.9343929 Haven't jerked off in over a week. Body is going crazy, but I am tired of giving into a false pleasure.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 21:00:22 2017 No.9343930 >>9343921 convince her to wear some of your stuff again, go out for coffee together, let her see the reactios of happy children, take her to a comm meet up if shes willing to do that shell probably fall in love with it

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 21:03:35 2017 No.9343931 >>9341670 what are you doing that is considered "triggering" anon?

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 21:23:14 2017 No.9343951

>receive an relatively old ap jsk first release (2008) today from yahoo auctions
>got for really cheap
>anticipating some damage due to blurry photo and price, but whatever
>receive it today
>the dress and head bow are in perfect condition looks likes its never been worn
>raving to my bf about how amazing it is that this cheap dress is in mint condition
>he interjects
"Actually, my favorite AP print is Minty Condition"
I love him.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 21:54:05 2017 No.9343978 >>9343913 You can dominate me if you want

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:03:55 2017 No.9343985 >>9343951 >Minty Condition That's fantastic

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:13:01 2017 No.9344001
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>>9343702
>Tough conversations are more important than pointless yamering. If he can't have a tough conversation he doesn't deserve to be with you.

yeah, I know...I'm just afraid of being right, that he won't say it back and never will, and when I say "well maybe we shouldn't be together then (since you apparently are a fucking robot who can't feel emotions)" he'll just placidly agree with me and that will be it.

Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:15:37 2017 No.9344005

>>9344001
Anon, if you're thinking all these things you should just end it now, because what happens if he doesn't say he loves you, then like you say immediately backtracks when you try to breakup? Building up to this big moment the way you are doesn't seem healthy, just end it, anon.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:31:04 2017 No.9344029 >>9343535 So what if I accept free stuff? Women are paid 60 cents for every dollar a man makes. I have the right to take free shit from men.

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:33:16 2017 No.9344032 >>9344029 yawn, try harder

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:36:38 2017 No.9344037 >>9344032 Don't intrude on our conversation, idiot

>>	Anonymous Sat Feb 4 22:40:03 2017 No.9344040 >>9344005 No. It's way too asshole-ish to end it over the phone a week before our anniversary. If I'm going to have this talk, then I want to have 1 last "good day" with him, and have this conversation face-to-face the next.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:11:49 2017 No.9344149

I don't know why western girls complain about "tiny japanese sizes", I was researching schools there and I found all these articles talking about "5'6, 125lbs, too fat for everything!" What are they talking about? They don't run that small (or you weigh more than you think....)

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:21:33 2017 No.9344161

>>9344149
They could just have a funky weight distribution? Like person A's 5'6" and 125 lbs could be modelesque, while person B might just be all gut. They might also be referring to too small as in length wise, which again, has a lot to do with body type. Person A might be all leg, while person B doesn't have a length issue since her legs are shorter.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:25:54 2017 No.9344164 File: 70 KB, 216x250, triggered2.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >make swirly chocolate cupcakes for our Super Bowl lolita tea >mfw dad tells me they look like dog poops

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:27:00 2017 No.9344166 >>9344037 Sorry I've moved on with my life and would advise you to grow up and do the same.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:30:27 2017 No.9344170

>>9344149
I have trouble with the sleeve sizing in most Asian brands. I need about a 29 inch sleeve to fit properly in a long-sleeve shirt. The majority of Asian brands only offer about 24-25 inch long sleeves. Therefore, their long sleeve shirts come halfway up my forearm.

It's not that it's too tight, it's that the garment is cut too short, especially the sleeves.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:31:55 2017 No.9344173 >>9344164 That sounds like something my dad would say.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:34:00 2017 No.9344177 Adding to the sleeves being too short, if I buy the largest size with sleeves close to 29 inches if available like an XL or something, then the rest of the shirt fits like a tent. I mean a straight potato sack.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 00:56:42 2017 No.9344204 >>9343929 Oh for fucks sake have a wank anon, don't be so dramatic

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 01:13:15 2017 No.9344228 >>9344164 >Super Bowl lolita tea Awwww. Lolitas having a super bowl party. How cute.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 01:21:11 2017 No.9344237
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>first con
>first cosplay
>decided to not tag team with people cosplaying characters from the same series, didn't want to be an annoyance
>completely alone
>ended up walking in circles
>"i enjoyed it a lot!!!! i may come back next year"

I felt so cringy, and now I'm kinda sad, but I may make a more elaborate cosplay for next con. I've got some hope that I can improve little by little. At least some people took photos with me and i'm very thankful for that.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 02:04:37 2017 No.9344265 File: 44 KB, 500x434, waltvomit.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >new dress arrives >cute, but covered in pubes Did I buy a dress or a carpet?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 02:49:52 2017 No.9344297 File: 38 KB, 540x304, fucking what.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344265 go on, what print, where were the pubes, etc, don't forget to name and shame

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 02:57:49 2017 No.9344304
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>back in 2014
>im newfag lolita, go on a trip to the big city in babies first coord
>find this adorable resin pin, its a scrunch-face looking cat in a yellow lolita dress
>purchase immediately. was kinda expensive
>ff to less than a year later, have a group of so called "friends" over
>pin mysteriously vanishes

I'm not over it. I'll never be over it. I'm always afraid to have other lolitas over to my house now and end up hiding my accessories in drawers or not having people over at all.
Moral of the story is people are SHIT and I'll die alone and distrusting.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 03:12:06 2017 No.9344309 >>9344304 That's really messed up, actually.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 03:14:11 2017 No.9344311 >>9344265 why is your first assumption pubes? they could just be regular hair?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 03:37:55 2017 No.9344335 >>9344304 suck :/

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 04:00:36 2017 No.9344349 >>9343853 >they're not accepting new members because they have too many inactive members Does your profile mention your gender in any way? Because that sounds like a flimsy bullshit excuse to exclude you more than anything, probably for being a guy.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 04:52:08 2017 No.9344375
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>staying with a friend who lives a town over
>spend the day in ascending dread, supposed to go to my first meet in a long time with her tomorrow afternoon
>feel ill by midnight, puss out and go home
>literally sitting in a kigurumi drinking tea while my cats watch me play visual novels

What people advise me I should be doing and what I want to actually do are always conflicting. I'm not wired right. I just want to enjoy things alone. Online is fine, but hanging around people in person, even friends and family, for too many consecutive hours wears me down.

My only solace lies in the fact that I won't pass these defective mental genes on.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 04:54:35 2017 No.9344378 File: 13 KB, 220x252, carlos.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344375 >I'm not wired right I dunno you sound like a robot to me.

>>	Frizzle Sun Feb 5 04:56:13 2017 No.9344381 >>9344378 CARLOS!

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:00:53 2017 No.9344383 File: 254 KB, 905x881, 1485030650103.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344378 Carlos you fucking chicken nugget, I can't stop smiling

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:05:41 2017 No.9344393 >>9343117 alright I'll tell you I said "haha yeah" very awkwardly he then started telling me loudly about how he LOVES /cgl/, party cons, and how he trips as tsukasa, invited me to ALA I just wanted the dude to keep his powerlevel down desu

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:16:27 2017 No.9344403 How do I get girls to like me?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:20:33 2017 No.9344405 >>9344403 Be rich

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:23:54 2017 No.9344406 >>9344403 You can't. You can get them to fuck you and do their best to pretend they like you though if you buy them a steady stream of stuff they want. But even that requires some level of alphaness or you'll just wind up a strung along beta orbiter.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:26:06 2017 No.9344408

>>9344403
honest answer for a bait question

have at least TWO of these things
>dont be NEET or have money
>have a nice personality
>have nice looks

if you think you have all 3 you're lying to yourself.

most r9k users have none of those and that explains why they are forever single.
its also important to note that having 2 will get the opposite gender to like/want to be in a relationships with you, but it doesn't mean that your ideal gf or what the fuck ever will teleport in front of you the second you get two.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:28:52 2017 No.9344409 >>9344408 tfw have all 3

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:43:03 2017 No.9344421

>>9344403

If you're ugly and you're looking for the easiest way possible then just become a tripfag, compliment every girl, orbit them non-stop, go to your local meetups, orbit around them in real life, and eventually one of the sluts will pity fuck you and become your girlfriend for less than 6 months.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 05:44:07 2017 No.9344423 >>9344409 t. /r9k/ poster permavirgin

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:11:08 2017 No.9344434 >>9344423 sorry anon

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:22:46 2017 No.9344442 >date /cgl/ girl >get accused of rape >we never even had sex Shikata ga nai~

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:26:30 2017 No.9344444 tfw all i have in life is numbers

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:27:50 2017 No.9344445

>>9344444
OOOO EM GEEE

aaaa everyon reply to this!!!! we got FIVE FOURS!!!

FIVE!! FOURS!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

can I have sex with you? please let us all fellate you at once, you got FIVE FOURS on a slow moving board like /cgl/?! you are THE WINNER

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:29:37 2017 No.9344448 >>9343913 And you wonder why men dislike you and don't respect you?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:31:02 2017 No.9344450 >>9344448 >replying to fucking a white male

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:31:24 2017 No.9344452 >>9344445 >tfw to smart to think about anything but pure number

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 06:32:27 2017 No.9344453 >>9343913 you're a guy

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:22:33 2017 No.9344470
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Gf broke up with me a few days ago. We always cosplayed and went to cons together. Since I dont have any friends who go to cons I'll either have to go alone or not at all from now on. Would love to make some friends there but I'm way too shy and socially awkward.
Pic kinda related

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:28:37 2017 No.9344473

>tfw all I want is a comm with mentally grown up people

I just feel so out of place when I'm attending meets and the majority of girls there are raging liberals and failing art students in their mid twenties who will have no prospects in their lives and as pointless are their conversations to me. I'm in my mid 20s as well, but I feel like I'm growing out of that age where I found those typical loud gatherings that revolve around making stupid jokes, your cats and complaning about your living situation entertaining. I'm reaching a stage in my life where I'm thinking about my career, getting married, starting a family and just getting further in my life, I want to be around people I can talk about this "normal" kind of stuff too without being seen as a boring grandma.
Don't get me wrong, I like having fun too and I can also laugh about stupid shit, but those girls with their constant whining about non-issues and tumblr topics just make me miserable and it's not getting better with time. Anyone else going through something similar? I feel pretty lost desu.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:36:35 2017 No.9344477 >>9344149 i'm 5'6 but i need 40cm shoulder blouses.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:40:57 2017 No.9344483 >>9344477 >being a manlet un-ironically

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:41:34 2017 No.9344484

>>9341707
>>9341734
I'm probably about to do what you guys are going to, but am I a bit shy. Do you think it's just salt for having some brand? I'm just a person who likes keeping it low key (no CoF posts and online community interaction outside local comm).

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:49:03 2017 No.9344492

>>9344473
you are associating immaturity with liberalism but what's actually happening is you are in a frivolous fashion that nerds love. nerds make stupid jokes and complain about shit. nerds are NEETs, artists, drifters, robots in their mom's basements or fujos in their mom's basement. politics and age don't matter. it is a frivolous, nerdy hobby without depth. you are going to have a lot of frivolous, nerdy, superficial interactions.

find or create a group with goals. the default of any nerd enclave is going to reek of failure to you, but a nerd enclave focused on being cute while looking unusual? come on, what do you expect

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:50:13 2017 No.9344494 >>9341799 Tell them upfront they're rude since they're clearly don't care about your feelings or substyle back.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:51:17 2017 No.9344497 >>9344492 >politics and age don't reflect maturity i'd imagine that a 38 year old conservative is more mature than a 16 year old anarcho communist desu

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:52:25 2017 No.9344498 >>9344473 This so much. Like my ex boyfriend was totally into that neonazi rapist that's Drumpf. Why can't everyone be just grown up and vote for Bernie? Bernie would have won!

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:54:31 2017 No.9344500 File: 33 KB, 548x720, 1482559139678.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >these same super obvious crossboard faggots that appear in every thread You have to go back.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:55:01 2017 No.9344501 >>9344498 bad bait

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:58:17 2017 No.9344505

>>9344470
making friends as an adult is a slow and arduous task. start now because the longer you go without them, the harder it will be to get any at all.

you cosplay so that's already an ice breaker. get social media info of people who take photos of or with you, or whose photos you take (use the excuse of tagging them to keep it from being weird or give them a reason to say no). even if you feel friendless at the end of the con, you will have laid that groundwork to get closer to people in between cons via social media.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 07:58:27 2017 No.9344506 >>9344500 start a /cgl/-nationalist movement then

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:00:24 2017 No.9344508

>>9344473
I'm also nearing my mid-twenties and I've same kind of feelings towards my own comm. I'm not getting married, or wanting child, but I think my work has matured and made me more cynical than I was like, year ago. And when majority here is without job/studying/forever studying/has lots of mental problems/sjw it feels I'm really outsider. I've to keep on tight check what I'm saying that I don't offend anyone. You said " I like having fun too and I can also laugh about stupid shit, but those girls with their constant whining about non-issues and tumblr topics", you're right. I got bored at meetings and just crave back to my "normal friends", they're super cool with my odd fashion sense and still I can have quality time with them. But otherwise.. Meetings are also kind of important? I'm babbling.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:04:17 2017 No.9344512 >>9344497 if you want a conversation stay on topic, i'm chatty but not bored enough to derail

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:12:13 2017 No.9344519 >>9344500 Maybe you should fuck off to /pol/ if you're some sort of racist who doesn't want us here. NO POSTER IS ILLEGAL

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:13:49 2017 No.9344521 File: 28 KB, 481x329, 2016-11-13 15.00.55.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9343010 Your friend obviously is a troll, that's like wearing a pepe pin un-ironically

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:20:16 2017 No.9344528 >>9343010 >She wants to wear a Trump pin, for example. Holy shit, I hope that fucking whore gets pepper sprayed in the face and then raped by some Antifa heroes.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:25:33 2017 No.9344532 >>9343095 This reminds me of one of those fake tumblr stories

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:27:17 2017 No.9344534 >>9344528 drumpf supporters have institutional power so i don't see how our antifa allies could possibly rape these "people" since rape is forced sex + power

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:31:45 2017 No.9344535 >>9344534 Yeah, you're right. I forgot.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:31:51 2017 No.9344536 >>9344444 neat quints >at least your numbers still like you

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:46:39 2017 No.9344541
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>be arisrocrat
>join comm
>nothing in common with anyone
>only interested in gothic
>comm loves AP and Baby
>I do not care about prints
>I also only wear pants
>do not wear petticoat
>do not even wear shorts
>cannot relate to most discussions about the actual fucking fashion because we do not wear the same shit
>am gothic lifestyler
>comm, even those who dabble in AatP, or own the occasional Moitie status piece, are all kawaii lifestylers
>do not watch anime or play video games
>comm follows all the latest anime and hand-held gaming trends
>when I do enjoy something some others in the comm do, our experiences of that subject are too different for me to connect
>enjoy writing
>only writers in comm write fanfiction
>meet someone who likes a show I like
>they only care about shipping...and fanfiction
>I don't "ship" or care about fanfiction
>love regular fiction, but "meh" about Harry Potter
>comm has yearly HP meets and I am not optimistic about finding someone who reads adult literature
>comm meets have prizes
>prizes are all stuff I am not interested in
>comm prizes are sometimes gift certificates for brand stores
>literally only ever AP or Baby

I have NOTHING in common with these people. NOTHING. When it comes to being an "EGL" comm, I am EG and everyone else is (E)L. There is no point in attending meets any more. I have interests and hobbies, I'm just not about that kawaii life.

>tfw as awkward among kawaii people as Mana trying to pose like a magical girl

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:47:23 2017 No.9344542 File: 70 KB, 431x493, 1474862929368.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] My shitpost tumblr just got more followers than my lolita tumblr. I don't know what to feel

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:48:40 2017 No.9344544 >>9344542 feel proud

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:51:43 2017 No.9344545 >>9344541 You sound insufferable. Would it hurt you to get off your goth pedestal and make a damn friend?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:53:51 2017 No.9344548 >>9344545 I'm pretty sure that's the point of her post, anon. The people are so insufferable that, yes, it would hurt her to one of them befriend.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 08:57:13 2017 No.9344549

>>9344541
I think you should just mingle more with goths that are on the refined spectrum of the subculture. I know how weird a hybrid style EGL/EGA is sometimes. Usually people swing one way or the other as more a "goth" or a "lolita".
>>9344545
Oh shut up. Not everyone is "nerdy" or japanese pop culture in hobbies.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 09:00:36 2017 No.9344552

>>9344545
>>9344548
I like them as people, we just have nothing in common. Sitting there being happy they exist only takes me so far. From their perspective, they have no incentive to interact with me because there are so many other people around that they have a lot of things in common with. From my perspective, I can make a lot of effort to be involved but get lost in the conversations because they flow naturally to what everyone is already interested in.

It has nothing to do with being on a pedastal. It just sucks to be incompatible.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 09:06:11 2017 No.9344555

>>9344549
>I think you should just mingle more with goths that are on the refined spectrum of the subculture.
That's what I'm thinking. I'll miss the pretty coords and general higher standards of EGL fashion but that's not a big deal compared to having nothing to relate to outside of what country our clothes come from, lol

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 10:13:52 2017 No.9344574

>chronically ill neet in late 20s trying to get my life back together while dealing with illness
>been sewing plushies for 6 years but skill progress has been extremely slow
>easily upset at failing to make shapes that should be simple to make
>take hours upon hours to finish simple shit either because i mess up something that should be easy or i space out too often
>commission prices are probably fair for skill level but still end up fetching less than minimum wage for the amount of time it takes me
>been trying to git gud for years so i can build a sustainable crafting business and it's not working
>furthermore, invest $$$ and time into original art embroidery designs and nobody wants to buy them
>meanwhile plush makers far younger than me are creating fantastic products at reasonable speeds
>tfw i was born too late for this shit

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 10:14:40 2017 No.9344575 >>9344574 Where do you get your money from, male leech?

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:18:10 2017 No.9344689
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>>9343921
Her and her boyfriend FUCKED while she was wearing your coord. He wanted you to encourage her into getting into the fashion because he thinks of you when fucking her and it made it so much easier to fantasize when he can pull out from under a layer of pettis and spray his baby batter all over a cluster of frills and bows.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:25:51 2017 No.9344707 File: 13 KB, 480x360, hqdefault.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344228 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fskUpNqHR7M Immediately played this in my head.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:29:54 2017 No.9344719 >>9344528 >>9344534 Is this a joke lmao. >someone has an opinion different from your own. >RAPE HER I HOPE SHE DIES REEE and you call trump a fascist.....

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:30:19 2017 No.9344722 >tfw can't get a boyfriend

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:31:26 2017 No.9344725 >>9344719 Drumpf IS a fascist. He is why I don't have a boyfriend anymore, I dumped my last one and reported him to the police for rape because he voted for Drumpf in November.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:32:13 2017 No.9344727 >>9344719 are you autistic?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:32:45 2017 No.9344731 >>9344725 >drumpf O ok. Youre from /pol/

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:33:06 2017 No.9344732 >>9344689 Jeez, anon. You don't have to force your fantasies onto everyone else. We get that the whole waterworks story really turned you on, but you don't have to tell us about it.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:34:34 2017 No.9344736 >>9344731 Every person who isn't an asshole calls him Drumpf. It's just like calling the terrorist shitheads in Middle East Daesh because they have nothing to do with real Islam.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:35:07 2017 No.9344740 >>9344719 >thinking you can rationalize with liberals

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:35:28 2017 No.9344741 >>9344732 I'm just telling her to man up and steal her friend's boy. Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:39:01 2017 No.9344750 >>9344722 This poster is a lolita (male)

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:40:06 2017 No.9344751 >>9344741 Anon, I... I want you to talk to your therapist about these thoughts you have. I'm starting to worry about you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:41:25 2017 No.9344754 >>9344750 no, I am a landwhale (female)

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:44:14 2017 No.9344756 >>9344754 should I man the harpoon (my dick)

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:46:01 2017 No.9344759
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>life is going super well for the first time in a long time
>going to my first con at 23 because finally starting to go out of my shell from years of abuse
>gained a bunch of weight over the last few years due to depression and my circumstances
>want to lose 15 lbs in time for it by May so I can be a qt skinny girl
>cosplay is my ultimate motivator
>for once motivated and happy that I can change my physical appearance and regain my self esteem too

I feel... so hopeful. ;_;

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:48:07 2017 No.9344763 >>9344759 That's fantastic, anon!

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:48:25 2017 No.9344764 File: 362 KB, 523x592, l6pkTGc.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >mfw i have a superior alt right white bf who buys me whatever i want whenever i want

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:50:04 2017 No.9344768

>>9344764

oh man, I cringed so hard at this post so hard

/cgl/ is usually easily baited but I can guarantee that there is not even ONE girl here that was fooled into thinking that there isn't some acne faced fat and ugly alt-right male neckbeard behind this post

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:50:26 2017 No.9344769 >>9344764 Is it just me or are there tons of HWC copycats lately?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:52:55 2017 No.9344772 >>9344768 >cringed so hard at this post so hard

>>	Lovethicc@tfwno.gf Sun Feb 5 12:52:56 2017 No.9344773 File: 9 KB, 162x147, 1262471785984.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344754 email me

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:54:17 2017 No.9344776 >>9344769 >I'm so rich hahaha >I have an amazing bf/husband hahaha >cry harder poorfag hahaha >you're just jealous hahaha Have I just never noticed these kinds of posts before? I'm getting deja vu in like 6 threads

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:55:19 2017 No.9344778 >>9344772 She cringed^2(so hard)

>>	Lovethicc@tfwno.gf Sun Feb 5 12:55:33 2017 No.9344779 File: 76 KB, 1280x720, 1258414423507.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344754 5'7" compsci major, lots of expendable cash, slightly toned build. email me.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:57:53 2017 No.9344786 don't email him, email me, I am lonely and looking for feline companionship: jesuisungrandewilly@gmail.com

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:59:01 2017 No.9344789 >>9344779 compsci major; what'd you think of that story about the us infiltrating the Iranian nuclear plant with the thumbdrive lol

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 12:59:42 2017 No.9344790
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>half the population voted for Trump
>MUH TRUMP SUPPORTER BOOGEYMAN
Look, kids, what happened happened.
Fact of the matter is, this board is for posting cute girls in fashion, not discussing politics.

Now post more cute girls in fashio-
I-I mean ourselves! In fashion and costumes!

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:04:11 2017 No.9344798

>>9344764
>used to date a white supremacist
>fat and greasy, constantly blowing his money on stupid shit and having his dad bail him out, never took me on dates, his apartment was filthy, sex was terrible
>now dating an indian guy
>tall, muscular, brags about me to his friends, loves to buy me presents and take me on dates, makes good money and is good at negotiating for more

take your /pol/ propaganda elsewhere lmao, we all know you're fat and failing at life.

Lovethicc@tfwno.gf Sun Feb 5 13:04:22 2017 No.9344799
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>>9344789
I wasn't surprised because large organizations and governments have surprisingly shitty security when it comes to tech. Not fucking sure why.

I'm reminded of the story of when Homeland Security did an experiment with dropping thumb drives and CDs in the parking lots of government facilities and finding that 60% of those were actually plugged into government computers to check their contents.

It's funny, but sad.

https://www.wired.com/2011/06/the-dropped-drive-hack/

Sage for not lolita but pls be my gf

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:06:43 2017 No.9344801

>>9344799
I was reading about that trick, it's really funny how it takes so much brain power and precise technique to create these terrifyingly powerful computer viruses that are almost self-aware.. and what we rely on is human error lol
Thanks for the link, love reading about this kinda thing <3

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:24:50 2017 No.9344816 >>9343239 kek. some men are so retarded.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:29:28 2017 No.9344820 >>9344790 >Look, kids, what happened happened. Ignored. Fuck off back to /poll/. We don't tolerate no fucking a white males here.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:30:31 2017 No.9344821 >>9344764 >>9344798 Both of these are male

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:37:34 2017 No.9344831 File: 507 KB, 820x1062, 9dd8b3a3-fffb-440a-b3f7-f662092dfbb0.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344820 But I actively take interest in lolita (admittedly maily ouji/aristo) and cosplay! I probably belong on this board more than you do!

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:38:20 2017 No.9344832 >>9344779 always wanted a compsci friend, if i was fatter and single i'd email you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:39:04 2017 No.9344835 >>9344831 Racist fascists KKK, Drumpf supporters go away!

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:43:02 2017 No.9344841 >>9344505 >making friends as an adult is a slow and arduous task. start now because the longer you go without them, the harder it will be to get any at all. D:

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:45:52 2017 No.9344844 >>9344552 idk where you're from anon but if you like the bad seeds we can be goth friends

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:49:36 2017 No.9344851 >>9344799 I'll be your gf, anon

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:50:11 2017 No.9344852 >>9344851 >male >being someone's gf

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:53:14 2017 No.9344859 >>9344852 did you just assume my fucking gender you cishet white male pig

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:55:47 2017 No.9344861 >>9344859 Thank you for proving >>9344852 you can tell how someone is male if they're talking about feels referring to gf/bf real girls don't have such problem

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 13:57:28 2017 No.9344866 >>9344861 >real girls -T R I G G E R E D-

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 14:13:19 2017 No.9344876

>>9344349
Yeah, my profile says I'm male, but I did that because I didn't want to make people think I was being a creep by pretending to be a girl or something. The comm page even has a sidebar that says that they're having issues because of the inactive members, and it's said that since before I requested. Honestly, I guess if they don't want me there, it's their call, but I think that it wasn't just a made up excuse... I looked through the members and there were other dudes in there so I don't know.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 14:23:03 2017 No.9344884 >>9344689 Lol, that's an amusing thought but I doubt it since they just got engaged.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:00:06 2017 No.9344932 >>9344483 >thinking I'm a man

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:06:11 2017 No.9344938 >>9344841 D:

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:06:49 2017 No.9344940 >>9344938 >:D

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:24:20 2017 No.9344966 I wish I was a Gundam Meister.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:44:49 2017 No.9344989

>girl posts crappy crossover closet cosplay online
>gets the shit ripped out of her both here and on the group where she posted it
>later meet this girl through mutual friends
>she's really mad about having it called a closet cosplay online because apparently it took her a long time
>awkwardly nod and smile while thinking that the crit was 100% true and she's overreacting

Awkward situation. She's really nice but some people really can't take any criticism at all.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 15:55:51 2017 No.9345004 File: 84 KB, 1280x720, 1428890109652.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9344722 >>9344754 >any woman >not being able to get a boyfriend

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:08:06 2017 No.9345009

I was hanging out with my friends (Lolitas, ofc) yesterday, and somehow the topic of our orientation came up. People wouldn't believe me that I was straight-- my lesbian friend told me that she thought I was gay because I "dress like a lesbian."

This honestly isn't the first time this has happened, and I feel bad for feeling sensitive about it. I have a pretty varied style. I will dress very tomboyish one day, and very very girly the next. I don't like to limit myself. I love making my own things and shopping at thrift stores.

It only makes me anxious because I guess boys like ultra feminine girls, and even though I wear makeup and curl my hair and paint my nails and wear dresses, I'm scared that I'm not feminine enough.

I'm probably just being insecure but it's sitting on my mind.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:35:06 2017 No.9345028 >>9345009 >dress like a lesbian What does that even mean? I didn't realize homosexuality had a dress code.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:38:26 2017 No.9345033 >>9345028 He thought that if he dresses like a lesbian, some lesbian will mistake him for a woman and take his neckbeard virginity

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:43:47 2017 No.9345037 >>9345009 I'll feel you. I'm a lesbian who dresses rather feminine sometimes (also not all the time), so apparently I must be straight.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:50:53 2017 No.9345041 >>9345028 Are you really trying to pretend you don't know what they were getting at

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 16:52:50 2017 No.9345043 File: 102 KB, 335x500, Dyke-Pride-GOR-81120-11.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345028

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 17:23:07 2017 No.9345071 >>9345041 I don't understand what you mean at all. Sorry, I'm retarded. >>9345033 Not b8, but thanks my friend. >>9345037 That's a bummer-- I'm sorry that people are like that to you. :/

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 18:48:56 2017 No.9345138
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>>9345009
To be straight forward with you, I personally prefer men to dress like men and women to dress like women.

However, the world does not revolve around me or people who have the same opinion as me. It is up to YOU to dress however you think looks best. No, this doesn't mean you specifically dress in a "FUCK X OPINION!" way, because then you're still basing your dress style on whoever else's opinion. Rather, design yourself in the way that makes you feel like you can take pride in how you look.

It's up to you to make yourself happy and attractive, as it is up to others to decide whether or not they like or want you.

That's just my two cents. Also, does this worrying about being attractive to guys mean you don't have a bf?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 18:55:33 2017 No.9345149 >tfw dumped my boyfriend because he doesn't look like Connor Murphy >tfw no bf like Connor Murphy

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:06:09 2017 No.9345162

>>9344484
you probably won't get salt for having "some brand" because i'd say most lolitas do--it usually comes when you have only brand and a substantial amount of it. i guess the term 'substantial amount' varies, but that's the idea. i personally think that i was targeted because i grew my wardrobe really quickly and people automatically assume i'm some kind of super rich spoiled brat no matter how i act.

though if you're not posting to cof and not talking to anyone outside of your local comm you really have nothing to worry about

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:07:41 2017 No.9345164 File: 52 KB, 418x482, advice shut up.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9343329

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:12:55 2017 No.9345171 >>9344769 newfag here, HWC?

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:16:09 2017 No.9345174

Alright lets get back to the feels guys, I got a doozey that just happened
>been planning a couple cosplay with a friend
>I'm going as Guzma, and he's going as a grunt
>talked to him last week, but we've both been busy lately
>Ignore his call last night, because I was tired and not in the mood
>My friend C calls me in the morning and wakes me up like three hours before work
>Tired and pissed.jpg
>turns out he shot himself in the night, and she found him when she got back from a bender
>mfw I ignored his call
>mfw when I could have listened to his problems and stopped him
>mfw it was a call for help

I can't believe I was such a selfish cunt and didn't answer. He didn't leave a note or anything, he just did it. If it was a spur of the moment thing, I might have been able to stop it. I couldn't go into work today, I just had to sit in a cold shower and think. It's hard to think my best friend of nearly ten years is dead.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:16:20 2017 No.9345175 >>9345171 Hillary Clinton. I will be voting for Hillary Clinton.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:24:01 2017 No.9345185 >your con scene is pretty weak, with only a few things regarding your interests at every con you go to >you will never go to those fancy american conventions in hotels and shit >never had a relationship with someone sharing my hobbies

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:39:39 2017 No.9345197 >>9345174 Holy shit. I can't even begin to imagine what you're feeling right now. Guilt is understandable, all things considered, but you shouldn't beat yourself up over it, you couldn't have known this would happen. I'm really sorry, anon.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:44:02 2017 No.9345203 File: 99 KB, 453x492, 1480927274827.png [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345174 Yowza, that ain't kawaii. I'm sorry to hear that anon.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 19:45:13 2017 No.9345206 >>9345185 shitting in hotels is not that great desu

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 20:51:49 2017 No.9345270

>>9345174
You're gonna blame yourself for a really long time. It's bound to happen, and people are going to tell you it's not your fault but it won't help. The oddest things will trigger the memory (the anime you planned to cosplay from, places you'd gone together, a sound you listened to) but it gets easier to cope with. Maybe if you'd picked up, you could've delayed it, but you would never have stopped it.

Try to take care of yourself anon. If you need someone to talk to I can drop contact info.

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:06:47 2017 No.9345277
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I'm thinking of letting a girl from my comm move in with me for a while. Her ex's new gf jerked him off last night, then came into her room and slapped her with the cummy hand.

Should I be a good lolita and get her the fuck out of there?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:23:12 2017 No.9345286 File: 38 KB, 503x595, 1486177768292.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9341647 reminding myself.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:24:26 2017 No.9345287 >>9345277 >inviting drama into your room Hell no, lmao. Tell con staff what happened and have her learn to lock her door. >came into her room I don't even want to know the circumstances, lmao.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:28:40 2017 No.9345289 >>9345277 if shes mentally sound keep her around, thats my motto. hopefully she wont steal ur burando and leave in the night

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:30:03 2017 No.9345291 >>9345277 gonna use cummy hand for all my future sexual encounters thx anon

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 21:47:44 2017 No.9345301 >>9345287 >Tell con staff what happened Didn't happen at a con. This girl is very sweet (she's OTT sweet in fact) and I want to protect her from the jizz.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 22:28:37 2017 No.9345333 >>9345171 Housewife-Chan. One of our most famous shitposters. How do I get a money bf?

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 22:31:46 2017 No.9345337 >>9345333 Be super attractive and vapid Or Be extremely intelligent and attract another smart person, both of you make lots of money and live happily ever after (Being an engineer helps)

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 22:35:51 2017 No.9345342
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>>9345337
>women
>intelligent, engineer

Also you're probably better off NOT making lots of money yourself. Not because men care, but because the more money you make, you it for yourself to find a man since you'll never settle for someone less successful than you.

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 22:43:09 2017 No.9345347 >>9345342 dad get off of 4chan

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 22:50:29 2017 No.9345350
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Super happy feels :)
>Got rid of an older dress that you've hoarded in your closet for years even though it never suited you.
>Gave to a friend who said she'd always wanted a sweet dress but never got around to it
>she loves it and even better looks great in it
>her being so happy made me happy to know my dress will be loved and appreciated.
>She even knew better than to buy a party city petticoat!!
>Gulls I'm so proud of my learning friend she did great and I'm excited at the prospects of getting a lolita friend

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 23:03:50 2017 No.9345363 File: 10 KB, 144x145, mikey.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345277 She finally got daddy's cummies! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CxVDnpsGTZY

Anonymous Sun Feb 5 23:27:39 2017 No.9345374

>>9344304

Story related,
I let a cosplayer friend borrow a coord for a con tea party which included a fancy, matching AatP accessory set (necklace, rings).

When we got back home from the con, the jewelry was 'missing'. I called the hotel and they didn't find it. She 'double checked' her travel case but it wasn't there either.
So I suggested checking the clutch she was using when she wore the coord. She swore it wasn't there, she already looked.

So anyhow..... I checked the clutch the moment I got close to it... low & behold the jewelry was there...along with her phone charger and only pack of cigarettes.

I'm 100% convinced she very well knew. (And most likely planned to sell them on LM)

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 23:51:16 2017 No.9345404 >>9345374 Hope you aren't friends with this snake anymore

>>	Anonymous Sun Feb 5 23:58:47 2017 No.9345411 File: 5 KB, 200x200, lowqualitybait.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345342

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 00:19:26 2017 No.9345433 >>9345138 #dresslikeawoman

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 00:32:17 2017 No.9345455 >>9345174 If you need someone to vent too, people tell me I'm a decent listener. I actually just got out of a rough situation recently similar to this, so I understand it can be rough, but hang in there, bud.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:04:29 2017 No.9345499 >>9345433 ???? I already said my opinion does not matter. What is wrong with having women dress feminine and men dress masculine?

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:09:40 2017 No.9345508 Found out today that a girl in my comm has three nipples.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:10:39 2017 No.9345510 >>9345206 How do hotel toilets pale in comparison to your toilet at home in terms of relieving yourself? I'm genuinely curious. >>9345185 Look what you've started with your poor choice of wording.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:11:32 2017 No.9345511

>>9345374
A story related to that, I let a friend buy a pretty high quality cosplay from me at a con. I didn't make it myself, but it was really well sewn and had embroidery on the collar from an old seller I used to love.

When I got it back, somehow the invisible button snaps in the inside of the coat were all busted? Also it was covered in cat hair and was just a mess. I was pretty upset, and my friend acted like she could just "fix" it. Of course, she never did. Why the fuck were they destroyed to begin with and what's the story behind it? I was sort of done with that character thankfully, but had I still wanted to wear it more I'd have been irate.

Don't lend anything out to a friend, lolita or cosplay. You just can't trust people to treat your property well. It's almost like because it's yours, they think they're free to do whatever they want in usually $100+ items is the worst part.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:14:09 2017 No.9345517 >>9345508 That's dark. Who'd she steal the 3rd one from?

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:29:37 2017 No.9345538 >>9344470 I'll hang out with you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:44:47 2017 No.9345557 Do any cute grills wanna come with me to Momocon? My gf left me because she said I was too obsessed with model ships.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:47:16 2017 No.9345559

>>9345557
Ewww no. All the money you spent on model ships could be spent on me, and all that time spent on model ships could have been spent working to earn money for me.

Until you shape up and stop being such an /r9k/ permavirgin creep don't expect any girl to settle for you.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 01:56:46 2017 No.9345574 File: 318 KB, 1920x1080, GoGames14539829725074.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345557 Wait, and not even ships you can fuck? get out.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:01:51 2017 No.9345580
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>>9345455
>>9345270
>>9345203
>>9345197
thanks for the support. I kind of spent all day in bed thinking. I finally opened the voicemail he left me, and all he did was tell me he loved me. It just made me feel worse. We went over this, I was never attracted to him, we were just close friends. He told me he was ace, like me. But apparently he's been lying in hopes I'd change.

Fuck I feel like a really shitty person now

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:17:14 2017 No.9345592 >Tfw will never have a shooting range meet up Man fuck this gay earth

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:22:00 2017 No.9345596 >>9345592 Were you at? Cause I'd do a range meet up. Hell, if you're even remotely close, I'll host it.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:23:29 2017 No.9345600 >>9345596 >were you at I dunno WHERE are YOU anon

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:25:04 2017 No.9345602 >>9345600 Arguing semantics is an sign of weakness. NorCal.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:29:12 2017 No.9345604 >>9345602 Cali or Carolina

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:37:03 2017 No.9345615 >>9345604 Commiefornia. I might be moving to Colorado in a few years though.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 02:58:10 2017 No.9345640
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>be me
>loves to dance
>have bf of 3 years that doesn't like dancing at all

We both love eachother very much. I just wish I could do ballroom dancing with him and not with some total stranger. He won't try dancing at all. I just wish he would even if its bad. Hell, I wish I had a friend that loved to dance so I can dance with said friend but all my friends won't touch dancing with a ten foot pole. I don't want to dance with some stranger that's either above or below my level and makes it awkward/irritating and there's just the lack of passion

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 03:08:03 2017 No.9345648 >>9344790 This is the feels thread, you can go post cute girls in fashion in any of the other threads.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 03:11:05 2017 No.9345651 >>9344574 Pictures of plushies?

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 03:24:54 2017 No.9345662 >ask my bf if he's a feminist >he says no >go to the police to report that he raped me >his life is in shambles Good.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 04:09:31 2017 No.9345674 >>9345662 Be sure to destroy all his stuff and give away his dog while he's helpless in jail. Fucking misogynist scumbag.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 04:47:11 2017 No.9345690
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>be me, always post here about not having bf and being sad
>today, talked to my sort of crush
>sort of crush asked me if I'm going to -con so we can meet up
feels good. nothing is happening, but it's something and it makes me damn happy. also,
>have friend, i thought he was gay
>i was wrong
>he called me beautiful today
i guess we'll see what happens...

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 04:54:34 2017 No.9345696 >>9345690 >going from autist loner to 2-timing slut in no time

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 04:59:07 2017 No.9345698 File: 119 KB, 499x284, 3093135_1354589765863.04res_500_284.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345696 it's obvious neither of them are actually into me anon, it's just small comments they made. let me dream.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 05:04:20 2017 No.9345703 >>9345615 >wanting to shoot guns >in cali H-Haha n-nice

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 05:06:08 2017 No.9345706 >>9345690 Lmao whore

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 05:37:10 2017 No.9345715 >>9345703 Shame, there's so many good potential targets there.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 05:42:37 2017 No.9345717 >>9345580 Maybe he didn't mean romantic love? It's possible he just wanted to let you know how important your friendship was to him.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 05:44:55 2017 No.9345721 >>9345715 you guys are alright, don't go to the lolita tea party tomorrow.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:25:14 2017 No.9345742 >>9345580 that sounds like he knew you would be sad, and he didn't want to leave without giving you something meaningful to remember him. it was important for him that you know you are worth loving.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:34:23 2017 No.9345751 >>9345174 That was just him wrapping his life up, he probably would have just told you the same thing on the phone then hung up and gone through with it

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:42:05 2017 No.9345761 >have cute coord planned for today >wake up, period is here >oh no, my periods have always been really bad >vomiting and crying ensues >feel like shit >no lolita today i guess

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:46:24 2017 No.9345762 >>9345761 There's only one thing left to do then...

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:47:17 2017 No.9345764 >>9345690 Are you the super fat 28 year old one with huge stretch marks on your stomach?

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 06:50:02 2017 No.9345768
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>>9345761
Oh man that's horrible. I know this feel. Before I was on BC my cramps and heavy bleeding would immobilize me.

At least you didn't put on your coord before the scarlet devil monsoon arrived, so that's a positive.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 08:01:23 2017 No.9345815 >>9345698 pls don't hurt their feelings

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 09:08:32 2017 No.9345864 File: 109 KB, 500x496, spideryell.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9345277 That's horrifying, anon.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 11:43:52 2017 No.9345977 Best feels. I just landed a job in my field, with the highest pay I've gotten so far, despite being out of the field/working full time for a while. I'm so excited to buy all the BURANDO and HUSBANDO MERCH.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 12:32:00 2017 No.9346045 >>9345761 >Period supposed to come during Katsucon >Panic >Go to the bathroom yesterday >Period came early >RELIEF

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:00:21 2017 No.9346087 Happy feels! My Victorian Tassel arrived today and it's gorgeous!

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:01:52 2017 No.9346092 >>9346045 really happy 4 u

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:03:46 2017 No.9346097 >>9345640 Just dump him and get a better one, don't waste your best years with some nerd dweeb who plays video games all the time.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:07:42 2017 No.9346103
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>>9344764
>>9344798
>tfw married to an alt right halfu asian who does programming for a living, makes bank, constantly spoils me with dates/gifts and is supporting me while I finish up college
Feels pretty good

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:18:10 2017 No.9346130

>>9345703
>>9345715
>>9345721
I'm the Cali anon, wtf are you guys on about? It's like I'm trying to understand really bad engrish. Is there some joke here about 'hurdur cali, mass shooting iminent.'
Not all of Cali is retarded about guns you know, just LA and The Bay.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:23:46 2017 No.9346143
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>>9345592
I tried holding a shooting meet once because there was a bunch of talk about them at one point and some girls seemed really interested but only my one friend came and a bunch of other girls in my comm shit on the idea on cgl. Now I just invite certain friends to go shooting with me in lolita, it's a lot less of a hassle anyways. Fun idea but I guess not practical and can be a touchy subject. I-If any gulls near the southeast want a frilly friend to go shooting with tho hmu

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:25:21 2017 No.9346148 >>9346103 When did cgl become a roleplaying board for pol and r9k? And where the fuck are the mods lately?

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:28:23 2017 No.9346152 >>9346103 Wow, some guy actually managed to out-cringe >>9344764 by revealing that he is actually a /r/asianmasculinity poster who thinks he can get a girl with the little money he makes as a fresh compsci graduate.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:37:51 2017 No.9346169 >>9346152 >fresh comisci grad >little money Lmao BRUH when I finished school I landed a job with benefits starting at 60k

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:39:41 2017 No.9346174 >>9346169 Look friend, you said you're a "halfu" that means you're probably from the US, and you're posting on 4chan, so you're not getting a job that pays more than working at Starbucks for the next 10 years.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:41:32 2017 No.9346177

>poor student need money
>a con owes me $400 in prize money for a comp back late last year
>Gave it the 8 weeks they said it could take up to until I nagged the organizer
>"I'll check up with the finance team and ask. But it's out of my hands"
Looks like I'm never getting that money

>Have old cosplays I never wear
>Have lots of bits and bobs for crafting like meters and meters of unused fabric
>Have prints from when I guested at a local con leftover
>Gonna set up a storenvy and put it all up
>Use up old fabric and make pieces that will always sell (Like disneybound dresses ect)
>Put up old wigs
>Make copies of some molds I use to make gems in hard shapes to find

I'm quite excited to set up my lil store. But I'm worried I'll get a backlash because people will think it's me trying to make a living on cosplay and sell my soul even though it'll be less than 1/10th prints

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:49:44 2017 No.9346188 >>9346174 That's not me also you sound like a bitter art major who is stuck working at Starbucks and thinks everyone who graduated from college is stuck in your shitty situation

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:50:39 2017 No.9346190 >>9346188 >that's not me!! k

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:53:28 2017 No.9346200 File: 222 KB, 1304x902, kek.jpg [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9346190 no matter what you say wont change my reality, I mean believe what you want, I'll just enjoy my life.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 13:56:16 2017 No.9346209
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>>9346200
>implying this is proof
You can literally turn on and off (You)s for any post in the thread now and it takes 0 effort. You don't even have to use MS paint to fake this anymore.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:09:07 2017 No.9346236 >>9346152 >>9346174 Another CS major here, I finished my BS three years ago, and started a new 95k job My job before this, and the job I got right out of college was 65k. Idk wtf you people saying there's no money in CS are coming from.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:09:07 2017 No.9346237 File: 1.35 MB, 830x854, kek2.webm [View same] [iqdb] [saucenao] [google] >>9346209 Like I said before, chose not to believe it if you wish, not gonna change the fact that

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:11:40 2017 No.9346242 >>9346236 It's just salty anons who got a useless degree and now can't make money.

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:17:08 2017 No.9346250

>>9346237
Look, you dense cretin - I thought you were a "computer science major" so you should be able to understand this - I can LITERALLY click one check box on your post and then the extension will act as if your post is my post.

Likewise, I can uncheck any post I make and then the (You)s will disable themselves.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:20:42 2017 No.9346260 >>9346250 She litretally posted a WebM How can one person be so full of salt?

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:21:10 2017 No.9346263 >>9346250 My husband was a CS major and now makes good money in the field. Also I posted a webm and I use the little arrow buttons to show there is no extensions installed duh

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:21:55 2017 No.9346268 >>9346260 >She stopped reading right there

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:23:23 2017 No.9346273 >>9346268 Sorry for your loss

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:36:39 2017 No.9346293 >>9346143 But...gunpowder on frills.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:49:00 2017 No.9346310 >>9344542 Off topic but I get so happy when I see anons use my reaction image <3 Thanks for making me smile anon and shitpost away

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 14:59:20 2017 No.9346324 >>9346293 Wear cotton and wash your clothes, don't be disgusting.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 15:10:05 2017 No.9346334 >>9346324 Personally I only wear body line when I go shooting in Lolita. That way I can just throw it in the wash

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 16:06:25 2017 No.9346381 >>9345592 I tried to host one and my comm just gave me weird looks, no one rsvpd. I was surprised, we live in the Midwest so there's nothing weird about going shooting. I want to try again, need some more /k/ friends

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 16:09:14 2017 No.9346385 >>9345721 Kek

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 16:10:49 2017 No.9346388 So where do you guys buy most of your shit from? Peer to peer/self designed? Or a company?

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 17:32:48 2017 No.9346475
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>>9345815
haha which? i'm telling you neither of them are into me, it's just nice to pretend someone gives a shit. if someone talked to you on fb and if your friend called you beautiful it literally means nothing

>>9345764
oh yes for sure. yup. totally sounds like me

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 17:49:29 2017 No.9346493 >>9344375 I can sympathize. Human contact is highly overrated. Animals and electronic media are much better company.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 17:55:53 2017 No.9346497 >>9346475 then I feel really bad for that guy who called you beautiful

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 20:13:49 2017 No.9346661 >>9346497 how does being called beautiful mean anything? he doesn't like me in that way, i call my friends beautiful all the time

Anonymous Mon Feb 6 20:21:42 2017 No.9346667

>>9346388
Fashion or cosplay. The majority of cosplayers I've spoken to craft their own costumes. There are a few who commission costumes from some skilled makers.

As far as fashion, it comes from small businesses for the most part. Claire's, Forever 21, and H&M are sometimes hit up for miscellaneous items, but most the suppliers are not 'companies', but small independent brands. Aliexpress and taobao may fall under 'company' since most are mass producing items.

I've never bought off either of the latter.

>>	Anonymous Mon Feb 6 21:56:23 2017 No.9346808 >>9345538 T-thanks man

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 7 02:54:07 2017 No.9347304 >>9345374 i hope you confronted her ....or stole her shit to make up for it

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 7 02:58:12 2017 No.9347310 >>9345557 if that includes zeppelins and youll make me one for valentines day ill fuck you twice

Anonymous Tue Feb 7 09:56:20 2017 No.9347607

>>9346661
>>9346661
That's cause you're a chick, dumbass. If we went around calling our guy friends "handsome", we'd be quickly ostracized as being a fag.

He wants to vulcanize the whoopee stick in the ham wallet.
He wants to cattle prod the oyster ditch with the lap rocket.
Batter dip the cranny axe in the gut locker.
Retro-fit the pudding hatch
Ooh la la
With the boink swatter.

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 7 15:23:18 2017 No.9347948 In lieu of the innuendo, in the end know my intent though.

Anonymous Tue Feb 7 17:52:13 2017 No.9348111

>friend and I are talking about cultural appropriation
>friend knows little to nothing about jfashion
>friend implies that she thinks that jfash like Amavel, Ank Rouge etc is all cultural appropriation because they're Japanese brands and goes on to imply that I shouldn't wear it because of that
Bonus:
>friend also is adamant that, despite knowing nothing about Lolita fashion aside from its name, is directly linked with pedophilia
>claims her grandfather was "best friends" with Nabokov so she is right
I'm not a Lolita so I couldn't really correct her or say much of anything but needless to say I was both confused and extremely skeptical

>>	Anonymous Tue Feb 7 23:36:38 2017 No.9348410 >>9348111 ur friend sounds like one of them pathological liars that just makes shit up to sound interesting

Anonymous Wed Feb 8 20:56:39 2017 No.9349442
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>>9342574
i feel that, but it was the other way around. i was going to buy a cute maid outfit from a nice girl and we were commenting not even 2 minutes before i messaged her on facebook about paypal and shipping.

responds a fucking WEEK later!! i don't get it!

>>	Anonymous Fri Feb 10 05:48:02 2017 No.9350923 >>9342642 I bet /sci/ would want to claim that title, they've got a fair few brainlets though so I dunno

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